INFPs are a personality type known as the "Healers" and make up around 2% of the population. We are optimistic, caring, and want to improve the life of others. BPD is a mental disorder that affects relationships and a persons's perception of themselves and others. The illness can lead to depression, anxiety, and burst of intense emotion. It is 75% more common in females. I am an INFP with BPD, and gay man. I'm use to staying in the background, as a loyal introvert and quiet observer. Now I'm speaking out because we deserve to be understood and I believe everyone has a unique and powerful experience to share!