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Breadwinners, Working Women, and Power in the Household with Melissa Hogenboom

August 11
58 mins

Episode Description

Are your relationships and household dynamics feeling out of balance due to money and work stressors? This episode explores insights and strategies for creating equitable and harmonious relationships across financial and domestic spheres. I, along with guest Melissa Hogenboom, dive into the impact of gender dynamics on household responsibilities, power imbalances, and the mental load frequently shouldered by women. We discuss the importance of communication, valuing care work, and sharing responsibilities effectively. Learn practical steps to rebalance efforts in your life and foster a more equitable future for the next generation.

In This Episode, We Explore:
  • How societal and childhood gender norms affect our work and money dynamics today.
  • The concept of unwise effort versus wise effort in household and workplace settings.
  • Tips for effective communication and sharing the mental load in relationships.
  • Balancing career, domestic, and finances equitably in relationships.

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