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Why Romantic Rejection Hurts the Most — Dr. Tom on the Psychology of Rejection Sensitivity | Rejection Rehab Ep. 27
Episode Description
Rejection hurts —
but it hurts most in romantic relationships.
Not a job interview.
Not a stranger.
But someone you care about — or want to care about you.
In this week’s Rejection Section, EMMY-winning producer Dr. Tom breaks down a landmark psychology study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology that explains why small moments in relationships can feel devastating — and why your reactions might be driven by something called rejection sensitivity.
Rejection sensitivity is a learned protective pattern where the brain:
anxiously expects rejection,
quickly interprets ambiguous signals as personal rejection,
and then overreacts in ways that quietly sabotage connection.
And here’s the tragic twist:
those reactions often create the very relationship problems people fear most.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
💔 Why rejection feels more painful in romantic relationships than anywhere else
🧠 What rejection sensitivity really is — and why it’s not “neediness” or insecurity
⚠️ How neutral signals (silence, space, tone changes) get misread as rejection
🔁 Why fear-driven reactions can destabilize otherwise healthy relationships
💪 A simple, science-backed way to reduce rejection sensitivity without suppressing emotion
👉 If rejection in relationships ever makes you spiral, overinterpret, or pull away — this episode will help you understand what’s happening and how to respond differently.
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