Why Confidence Is Built Through Experience, Not Thinking | Dr. Tom, Rejection Rehab Ep. 30

February 1
4 mins

Episode Description

Confidence isn’t something you think your way into.


It’s something you build through experience.


In this week’s Rejection Section, Emmy-winning producer Dr. Tom breaks down one of the most influential psychology papers ever published:


“Self-Efficacy: Toward a Unifying Theory of Behavioral Change” by Albert Bandura.


This landmark paper reshaped how psychologists understand confidence, motivation, fear, and resilience. It explains why some people persist after failure while others shut down.


At the center of it all is one concept: self-efficacy — your belief in your ability to handle difficulty.


In this episode, you’ll learn:


🧠 What self-efficacy really is

💡 Why confidence doesn’t come from positive thinking

📉 Why failure doesn’t destroy confidence unless you interpret it that way

💪 How confidence is built through experience, not motivation

🛠️ Practical ways to rebuild confidence after rejection


If rejection has ever made you doubt yourself, this episode explains exactly why — and how to change that.


🎙️Host: Dr. Tom Instagram  | LinkedIn  | X 

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