Episode Transcript
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Everyone, welcome to the Danny Buys Houses
podcast.
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I'm your host, Danny Johnson, real estate investor
and founder of Danny Buys Houses in San
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Antonio, Texas.
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Now, if you're going through a divorce or thinking
about it and wondering what to do with the house,
this
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episode is for you. Today, we're tackling how to
sell your home fast and fairly during
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a divorce here in San Antonio or any surrounding
areas in South Texas.
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I'll walk you through the options, how a cash sale
can help, and answer some listener questions
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along the way. So, let's get right into it.
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All right. Divorce is tough, right? I've seen it
up close helping
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people sell houses for over 20 years, and I've
been through it myself and do not wish it upon
anybody.
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Uh, in Texas, we're a community property state,
uh, which means that anything you and
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your spouse bought together, like the family home,
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gets split 50/50 in a divorce settlement
typically, unless you've got a prenup saying
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otherwise. Now, the judge will aim for equitable
distribution, but it's not always
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simple. The house,
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it's often the biggest piece of this puzzle and
who gets what.
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So, what are your options?
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All right. If you're- you're facing divorce,
you're separated maybe, and you're trying to start
planning
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through, you know, if this plays out all the way,
what- what's gonna happen with all of our assets
and how are
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we splitting things up, uh, one option is one of
you keeps the home,
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right? Maybe you buy out your ex with cash or
refinance to cover their share of the marital
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home equity.
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Uh, it works if you've got the money and you, uh,
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you know, and one person wants to stay. All right.
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Two, you sell it
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the old way. You list it with the realtor and, uh,
you know, you- you fix it up.
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You- you have people come through, walk through
and make offers on it and, uh,
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you know, sell it and close it and split the
profits.
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Now, that option is gonna take time though.
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Right now in San Antonio, 74 days on market
typically, uh, on average, and
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you've got to agree to everything, you know, as
far as what the seller wants done or the...
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I'm sorry, the buyer. If a buyer comes through and
they want certain things done or fix stuff after
the
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inspection, all that kind of stuff, you gotta- you
gotta work through that and- and, uh, you know,
possibly
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even have the funds to have to make those repairs.
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All right. Three, you hold onto it with
co-ownership agreement.
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Can be... You know, it's kind of rare because it
could be messy and usually ends up being a
headache,
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especially if you guys are not getting along, uh,
that's- that's (laughs) probably not gonna be a
good
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option. Okay? Now four,
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and this is where Danny Buys Houses and other cash
home buyers come in, you sell fast to a
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cash home buyer like us. And- and why- why choose
what's behind door number four,
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right? It's- it's because of speed and fairness,
right?
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Divorce can drag on enough without waiting months
to sell your house.
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Now we buy your house as is, no repairs needed, no
staging, uh, no having
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to schedule a bunch of showings for people all the
time and having to be out of the house because
people are
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coming to look at it. You skip the fights over who
fixes the, you know, leaking
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faucet and- and mows lawn and- and maintains the
home.
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Uh, we can close as fast as, you know, a week or
so, five days,
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uh, you know, or when you guys want. So, if it's
something like two or three weeks, you know, it's
whatever
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works for you really. Uh, you can both get some
cash to split and move on.
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So, here's how it works. You and your ex agree to
sell, right? That's the first step.
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Sometimes a real estate, uh, mediator can help if
you can get some mediation involved,
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uh, if you guys are not on the same page.
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And- and sometimes it's even, you know, helpful to
go ahead and get a cash offer
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to show your,
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uh, soon-to-be ex-spouse,
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uh, you know, to see this is what we can get
quickly without hassle. It...
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You know, it's more of a concrete thing instead of
just a, you know, idea or, uh, you
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know-
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you know, a hopeful thing that- that you're just
talking about.
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You know, if you have a concrete written offer,
you know, 'cause we don't charge anything for our
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offers. There's no fees, there's no obligation to
accept the offer.
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And, uh, you know, we do that for free. You can
just get an offer from us.
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So, the process is one of you calls- calls us or
you fill out the form on,
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uh, dannybuyshouses.com. You know, that's our
website, dannybuyshouses.com.
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There's a fast cash offer form in there. It only
takes two minutes to fill out.
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And, uh, closing happens,
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uh... Well, we visit the house, right?
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We look at what the value is, uh, once it's fixed
up, if it does need repairs, and we make you a
fair
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cash offer,
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right? So, if you guys agree to that, we can- we
can sign a purchase, uh, agreement and that'll
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go to a title company, a local title company.
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We use Old Republic Title
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and they do all the paperwork, make sure
everything's in order properly and,
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uh, and schedule that closing, right? And when the
closing happens, we sign, you sign.
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You get a check, you guys are done. You each get a
check, right, if you want it split at closing.
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All right. So,
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uh, let's talk about an example. So...
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And- and these are not real names because, you
know, I don't want to, you know, have any- any-
anything
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identifying anybody, but Mark and- and Jen,
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uh, is what we'll call them,
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you know, divorce was final, but the house off of
Blanco,
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uh, was- was kind of a-
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a battleground. It needed a new roof, it needed...
Uh, neither wanted to pay for it.
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They called us, we offered cash and closed in 10
days, right? That's pretty quick.
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They split the money, signed the papers, walked
away. Uh, they were finally done with it.
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No realtor's fees, no arguments more importantly,
and just a clean break, right?
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Uh, just moving on, getting on with their lives.
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Um, and that's what we do. We help... We make a
divorce property division,
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uh, simple, right? Less of a hassle. You guys have
enough going on with- with the- with the
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separation and divorce. So,
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now this- this makes at least one of those a
little bit easier.
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So, let's hit some listener questions that we've
received.
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Um,
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some people have sent these in and I want to get
to some of them. So, here we go.
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First one is, "Uh, my ex won't agree to sell.
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What now?" This is from Laura in San Antonio.
Laura, a tricky spot. You know, I don't deny that.
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If the court's involved, they might order the
sale.
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So, talk to your, uh, attorney or lawyer about
that.
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If not, mediation can push it through,
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uh, a lot of times, and we bought houses
mid-divorce with one spouse signing off, uh, after
a
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judge's ruling and, uh, you know, we can work with
what the judge, uh, says can
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happen. All right. Next, "Can we... Can we sell if
we owe more than it's worth?"
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That's David in New Braunfels. David, uh, that's
tough. (laughs) Uh, y- you...
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I mean, it's not gonna happen. You can try a short
sale.
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We talked about that in the foreclosure episode.
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I think that was Episode 6 of the Danny Buys
Houses podcast, uh, where the lender agrees to
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forgive the difference of what you can actually
sell it for versus what was owed.
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Um, check out that episode for more detail on that
though.
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All right. Last one here. "How do we split the
money fairly?" This is from Tina in Boerne.
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Hey, Tina. Uh, we pay you a lump sum at closing.
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You and your ex, uh, can decide on the split.
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Uh, usually 50/50 in Texas, but you know, if you
got a deal, we'll follow it.
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Cash, uh, you know, when you get that payment out.
Um, and- and you can also...
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You know, we say one lump sum, but it's the total
that's gonna be made on the sale.
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So, if- if you guys are separating that, I think
that you could probably have, uh,
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you know, that done at closing off... You know,
it's called the- the closing settlement statement.
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You can look and have each half maybe go off of
there so that you each are getting that and
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not worrying about one person getting into their
account and not sharing the rest, you know,
situations
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like that. So,
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no, that's possible.
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All right.
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So, are you ready to sell and move on? Here's how
you get started, right?
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You go to dannybuyshouses.com and you do... You
fill out that fast cash offer form. Takes two
minutes.
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Tell us about the house. We'll schedule to go out
and take a look at it and, uh, and make you a
quick
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offer.
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And there's no obligation, right? Like I said, if
one person's not on board, you can still get that
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offer and- and, you know, it might help to have
that so they can see here's already
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a bonafide offer. We can- we can make this simple
if we want to.
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So, there's no pressure. If it's right, great. If
not, then no problem.
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And, uh, that's how it works. So, I know divorce
is a storm, right? I get it.
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I've been through it. Uh, the house can feel like
an anchor dragging you both down.
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And I've been helping San Antonio homeowners since
2003, so I've seen how quick,
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uh, a quick cash sale can help people and lift,
uh, that weight off their shoulders.
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So,
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if you'd like to- to find out more or get started
on that, just give us a call or head to the
website
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there at dannybuyshouses.com.
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Thanks everyone for tuning in and, uh, share this
with someone navigating divorce.
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Uh, they'll thank you for it, I'm sure.
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And next episode, we'll cover how to sell a rental
property fast with or
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without tenants. So, you don't wanna miss that if
you're facing a situation.
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Uh, I currently am with a tenant right now where I
wish I could sell to somebody instead of deal
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with that, but- but that's, uh, a different story
for a different day.
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Uh, this is Danny Johnson from Danny Buys Houses
saying take care and let's get you moving forward.
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Sell smart. See you next time.