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Welcome back to yet another cafully reckless episode with your girl, Jess.

Hilarious.

What I'd be doing.

I'll be fixing mess, y'all, and I do it pretty well in my opinion.

We do not have Taylor here with us today.

Oh, you're right here, but she got Look, I didn't think she would say because she had other works to do.

Taylor be working, y'all.

She'd be working, so I ain't want to bother her today.

But because she actually edits podcasts and everything for our hearts, so she actually do be working.

Don't be thinking that she just sitting up here pregnant me and shit fucking up reading.

No, she she'd be doing other things, so my bad.

I ain't have to say that last Yeah, my be.

But we're going jump straight and so this woman wrote me, I have two wives who are writing me about their husbands.

So let's jump straight into the first Jess.

I married my husband and now I'm responsible for his debt.

He has student loans and he's locked up and not trying to let me out of the marriage, talking about just don't pay them.

But that's my fucking credit.

He is so fucking selfish and irresponsible.

He speaks to me as if it east out here raising.

Oh he's okay, so she can't spell yes, child, looks like you need some fucking student loans too.

Should?

He speaks to me as if I'm not.

Out here raising our twins and his older daughter by myself.

Her mom is also incarcerated with a twenty year sentence for killing.

Her daughter's abuser.

Ooh, should So his older daughter was abused and the mom is in jail for killing that person.

Okay, okay, so rightfully, so I.

Do get it.

She can't go to jail for though I know.

Isn't that weird?

It depends on what what state it is, honestly, because in some states that's self defense law or something like that.

It's one of those laws that exempts you from going to jail if you do.

Partake in any retaliation with an abuser or to an abuser or something like that.

But it doesn't say how she was abused.

I'll say whether she was raped or beaten or whatever.

But she killed that nigga or I don't even know if it was a nigga a woman.

It just said she killed her abus her.

So she's so his first baby mother is in jail serving ten years, doing ten years for that.

Okay, So but the problem at hand, all right, because Shaney had to tell us the mom business because.

I'm waring that, damn shit.

I want to fix the mother's mask.

God damn well, she fixed it because the niggas did.

But the problem at hand, she married her husband and now she's responsible for his debt, and that is really just unfortunate because she didn't know.

Obviously, she didn't.

Know that when you marry somebody, you are married, like y'all are one.

You marry everything.

You married their debt, Yes, you marry their family, whether you believe it or not.

You marry into a oneness.

It's a unity, you know.

So your debt would be his debt too.

But the thing is, she don't have no fucking debt.

He got it and he's incarcerated.

It's funny that she told us what his baby mother was incarcerated for, but she ain't tell us what his ass is incarcerated for.

Oh, he's in jail too, Yes, she.

Said he's locked up, but he's not trying to let me out of the marriage.

But the thing is, damn, you want out of the marriage.

I don't know.

Why say so.

Maybe that's probably one of the reasons too.

Why he why she wants to get out of the marriage.

Well, she didn't say.

One of the reasons that she wanted to get out of the marriage was him being incarcerated because he probably ain't got as much time as his baby mother got.

But she'd taken care of their kids.

She said they have two kids.

No, she said, he has student loans and he's locked up, not trying to let me out of the marriage, talking about just don't pay them.

But that's my fucking credit.

And he's so selfish and irresponsible.

He speaks to me, is if I don't as if I'm not out here raising our twins.

Okay, so they have two children and his older daughter.

Hmm, Well, my advice on the part of you see, I need some more meat on the bone because is that the only reason why you want to leave him, or you want out of the marriage, or are you even sure if you want out of the marriage.

I think that you may be just frustrated because you know you do have debt.

You do have his debt.

He has student loans obviously.

You know he went to college, you know, so he might not be that bad of a person.

You know, who knows why he's incarcerata.

She didn't tell us.

All we can do is assume that he is a good guy, you know what I mean, because there's a lot of good people sitting in jail too.

You know, everybody's not bad, you know what I mean.

You know why he went to jail?

Yeah?

Why?

Yeah?

I would love to know why he went to jail too, and why you told us the reason that his baby mother went in there but not him.

But that's neither here or there.

She has these debts that he has accumulated over time from student loans that she married into.

I don't know if he knew that.

Maybe he didn't even know that when I married my wife, she'll be responsible for my student loans.

Maybe that's something that he didn't know either, because he told her just don't pay them.

That's that is irresponsible and the selfish.

Part of it is the fact that he may like seemingly not give a fuck like about I guess in her opinion, he don't give a fuck about my credit if he just saying don't pay them, like, nigga, we both are responsible now we're legally married, so legally I'm responsible for your debt if you don't fucking pay them, you know what I mean.

So I think that's the issue.

But to one out of the marriage for that is, uh, it's a little wild.

Now there is.

I wonder if that stops people from getting married too.

Yeah, it stopped Yandy from marrying mid DC right away.

Like she she did marry they are married, and she did marry him, but she wanted to make sure that, Nigga, that was clear, Like that was something that Yandy knew going in.

That's why she's like, oh no, you you my husband, you know for playplate right now and you know not for playplay.

But they just didn't have She didn't.

She never set the paperwork off.

She revealed that I know a girl, oh god, she passed away, but she was married, was a lesbian couple.

But they got married and.

She had a lot her her wife had a lot of debt and she that either and that's how I found out.

I'm like, oh, oh, so.

You've been there, so you found that shit.

Out, Like from her telling me like that, Yeah, you got to make.

Sure all that is fucking clear, because what not my dad is your fucking dad?

That sucks.

Yeah, because nigga, I don't want that on my name.

Yeah, hold up, hold up, I know this shit getting good, But listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial.

If you love me, you'll listen, bitch.

And then up here one of the callers called up and said that, you know, the whole student loan shit, they they've been dealing with that, you know, because of the government and ship.

Yeah with that, I didn't see the exact headline for it, though, Like what what's the government?

So basically they have to I think they're raising the price on student loans or some shit like that, like how you raised fifteen percent something about a fifteen percent increase or some shit like that.

And a woman had called up and was saying like she's basically drowning and student loans like because and then when she went to school for she doesn't even have a job in that trade, like and that's the truck driver.

Yeah, and she's like, I made the most money that I ever made in my fucking life.

I wonder if.

I wonder if this makes people not want to.

Go to college though it ain't none of it credited to school exactly.

I only did one semester.

Well, let's take a scholarship because I.

Just wonder if it makes people like I'm gonna find another way.

You're fucking right, like, yeah, the fucking enrollment percentage is about to drop.

Crazy, like nah, this ship scared people away from going to school, that's that.

What if they trying to do that though?

But why what if they're trying to fucking scare minorities away from going to school?

It's not just minorities though, like white people got plenty of.

I know loan that too, though I have no idea the reason.

But you know what the crazy thing is, they stop funding.

They cut funding from HBCUs though, So that's another thing too.

It's like and then it's it's gonna be hard for black and brown kids to get in, like students to get in any of these, you know other schools, you know, these p wis and ship like, you know, especially HBCUs, and they cutting everything for us.

I think also, but I do think people applying the schools, I don't think I think that's gonna go down lower, just because this new generations finding new ways to make money too with streaming and like you know what I mean, they got YouTube University.

Oh absolutely, you can literally find out how to do anything.

You got baby chips.

Yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like with all of this ship the newer generations, girl, my daughter around be like, man, I'm already answering that, Like I already learned like how to do it, like what you learn doing what?

But like they're not going to be requiring certifications for certain ship thanks, Like that's that's weird to me.

And that's why I think it's also so weird now even when it comes to I mean I think people trying to find ways around it, but even when it comes to like if you have to be a college student to intern.

Now in spots, so you do, okay, like here you have to be a cause okay, but I was a fucking intern and I was not in college.

But they just start like they just started companies are doing that now.

It's yeah, it's just like you have to be in school to receive any type of internship.

Yeah, that's weird, just about to be yeah, yeah, because an intern is just really to take the experience, to get the experience, and to work on whatever the credit.

Now I think they're pushing.

I don't know if there's this company, but they're pushing like they want, you know, people to get paid.

They don't.

There's no free internships at least at least not.

Well that's actually.

Yeah, I wasn't getting paid as aid.

Yeah, so that actually is a good thing when you think about it.

But back to this woman's mess, because I'm because girl, we always go off on a t but it's okay.

I feel like this should not be the reason that she wants out of the marriage.

I feel like it's some other ship that she's not happy about and she's just not saying it.

Well, hold on, what's my orange?

She said?

Oh, this pregnant woman just walked the fuck up out of here looking for an orange juice.

So we be sending we be sending this girl who work up here to get fucking breakfast every morning, right and you know, because I be doing my podcast up at the breakfast club, you know, because I do it in between bricks or whatever.

Right, So a girl, why well not girl?

Because girls and boys listening, girls and guys.

So your Taylor.

You know she pregnant.

She bought the fucking pop literally right, and so oh she's backing here, so we can't talk.

About her no more.

But Grabble's letting them know, like how you being We be sending the girls to the store, like girl saying to be like, where the fuck is my orange?

Sounding very much like Eve from the Bubble Shop when somebody drunk.

You want some orange juice?

You fucking with my time?

Oh my gosh, oh my, hey, can you grab an orange juice for tailor for me?

Please?

Yes?

Okay, cool, thank you?

All right.

See I had to get that pregnant woman at orange juice, honey, Like one thing I learned from myself, get them whatever the fuck they want when they pregnant.

Just get them, give them that ship.

Chris learned.

He learned real quick, and I learned to you.

I was like, oh shit, okay, please get it anyway.

So, yeah, it has she has to be unhappy with something else.

Like she is locked up, and I wonder how did she say no, she didn't say how long he's locked up.

She made sure she gave us all the details about mother twenty is she kills Mike.

So but you gotta think about it too.

His older daughter.

More than likely she's a fucking teenager.

She's probably a handful on top of the two twins.

Then she got this debt, and she's probably frustrated.

She's sexually frustrated.

She's not huh, you know how old the twins are.

No, I'm assuming they're younger though, because she said older daughter, So she's probably a teenager or going into that stage of life.

Maybe she's between.

Uh, she can be anywhere between eleven and fucking fifteen.

You just don't know.

I'm assuming the twins are younger.

Yeah, that's three kids.

Bam, you in jail.

Then I find out I got this fucking debt, My credit is gonna fuck.

It's gonna be fucked up.

So she frustrated, And I understand his frustration as well, because if you've never gone to prison, then you don't know you've ever gone to jail, Then you don't know how they feel in there.

And yes, I get it.

Oh well, the listeners can say, oh, that's his fault hand in jail.

Yeah, that's not always the case.

And we don't know what landed him there, you know.

Obviously I can't even say obviously I was gonna say, obviously, he's not gonna be in there for a long time.

But if she's trying to get out the marriage, maybe he did get a lot of time.

Maybe maybe got a amount of time fuming up.

Though.

Yeah, he probably just like he was probably on trial or some ship, and he probably just got sentenced and now he's serving his time.

I have no fucking idea.

But if you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back.

See how long they've been married for.

No, she did not see that I'm responsible for his dad.

No, that's why I say, No, they didn't give me any fucking meat, one of her own, Like he was typing.

It's like she was about to be on the way in the jail, and I was like, let me just send this real quick with visit him, like because she left a lot of meat off the bones, but using with using what we know.

But what should she do?

I mean, it's a marriage.

I mean the only thing I think is like you didn't like you said, she didn't give us enough meat.

So I would say, try to stick through it or whatever.

The let me get a piece of bagel, just a little piece not that I just look even smaller than h okay, thank you.

Let me get a little bit of.

Cream cheese, thank you.

But yeah, I don't know this ship is good.

I've been sleeping on how fucking good bagels and cream cheesey it's listen mm hmm, because y'all know I'm not a fan of the dairy, and that's something is cream cheese over there.

But it's it's really good.

You haven't had the whip cream cheese.

That's better.

Oh yeah, it's better for you.

Yeah, but that if Darry don't affect you, then it's different.

Darry certainly affects me in my thirties.

I don't know why I used to eat cheese and milk every fucking day.

I cannot do it now.

I love it.

Fucks me up.

I love cheese.

See.

I know so many people that love it and they can consume it every day and nothing happens to them.

Yo, my skin be fucked up.

You know how you have like post nasal drip that shit gets thicker and thicker like when you swallow and shit like you can feel the fucking dairy.

And one thing about your body when you haven't consumed dairy for a long time, like you cut it out for like months, even just for one month, two months, you'll see a difference, and then you start to consume it again.

Your body will be like, oh hell no, yeah, your gas is like, oh my god, I've had some of the worst gas, like after getting back on there.

Yeah that's spright.

That's probably because it doesn't bother you.

I think everybody's different.

I think a lot of people be scared to take a ship.

I'm not scared to take a ship.

I already know who the fucking kid that's like I should I actually die?

No.

But a lot of people don't do that certain hearing something because they're like, oh my son's gonna be fucked up, all am.

I gonna be sucked up?

Oh I get it, yeah, because that's how that's how I be.

I be scared sometimes.

I'm like, you all could only eat macaroni and cheese twice a year now Christmas and Thanksgiving.

I cannot tell.

I cannot y'all used to be eat that ship every day with some fucking barbecue ribs, with some yams and some Cali graens.

G can't like there every day now.

I'm not gonna wry them.

This past weekend, you went in in Maryland and oh he was in Maryland.

Hey, that's what's up.

I was in between Silver Springing Upper Marlborough.

It was so fucking close, yo.

I literally live like eighteen minutes away from Upper Marlborough.

I literally live like, yeah, eight to ten minutes from Upper Marlborough.

Girl, he was right there by my fucking house.

Oh I was.

I was there for a baby shower and I ate and I felt like I just.

Finished, like yeah, damn last weekend.

Damn good food.

Though, let me ask you this, if were gonna get out of here, did you when you when you eat certain foods?

Do the baby cake?

For real?

What foods makes him?

Foods tail?

Yesterday?

Was it spicy?

Okay?

But he was like it felt like he was going there and he might be like, thank you going for something else other than a bagel with cream cheese, you fucking dry cereal all day?

No that he like, he probably liked it, like out And then.

Do you need anything that makes you throw up?

Still?

No, So your morning sickness is kind of.

Like for a while, it was just that one you didn't in the beginning.

Oh, you just know you know what, I'm mistaking your morning sickness for when you were coming and not feel good.

But you wouldn't throw up, Remember, you would just be like like really.

The only time I I did throw up in the beginning that one day.

It was one day you threw one time.

Yeah, with I had jerk chicken and that shit came right.

Oh no, that was a little overpowering.

Yeah that was in the beginning.

Because now I feel like I could eat it and it's fine.

Yeah, probably so the way you suck down on oxtails and he was like, thank you mom.

Okay, see me, it was spaghetti that she used to give me heartburn.

Food that make her kick would be like Alfredo and like ship with pestle in it.

So spaghetti Alfredo.

It's yep, yes, oh for you that make him kick.

See, I wasn't drinking green juices when I was pregnant.

No, but you.

Know why be kicking because Ginger is fucking spicy tail.

Are you strong?

He's strong?

Yeah, he had muscles.

Okay, Ginger's not worrying about fucking muscles that shi.

Oh my god.

Fine, he is fine.

Everything that you do is good for him.

No, you're and they said that when they looked at his when I did that for d things like whatever, they said, what I drinking like, it's clear you see it, that's something.

That's because you drink those juices, you drink water, you drink like you don't drink You're not in this bitch drinking soda.

I don't drink so that at all though.

Yeah, Oh, before pregnancy, you just didn't really, Yeah, gra was drinking kool aid everything.

Girls, I wanted what I wanted your rail a little bit, but every now and then, Yeah, I'm not a person ginger.

It's horrible.

I do not like ginger.

I never have really, yeah, it was.

It was not good to me.

Interesting im juice though, Yeah, juicema, I love juice, like juicing or just like orange juice, apple juice.

Yeah, yeah, I'm that type of girl too.

Well, just like that with oh ship.

Did we fix this bitch?

I mean, I mean, girl, you gotta call us back, call us back and give us more information friends, And just like that, we've come to the end of yet another carefully reckless episode with you girl.

Just hilarious.

What I be doing, I'll be fixing mess and I do it on the daily.

Make sure you well, I do it on the weekly, so make sure you're say it.

It's a breakfast club each and every Thursday, because I fix the mess live there as well, and we'll catch you next week.

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