
ยทS1 E6
You Got Served
Episode Transcript
Jared has much to do and little time to do it.
He intends to get the donation money back to anyone who wants it.
Speaker 2He intends to.
Speaker 1Get a lawyer to help him get out of his marriage with Christy, all the while he believes Christy may have his missing pistol.
Speaker 2But then another twist enters the story.
Speaker 1Jared's mother in law, Sheila, wants to confront her daughter to check if Christy indeed has a C section scar or if it's all a lot.
But Sheila wants a psychologist present.
Knowing her daughter's fractured state, Jared, kind hearted to a fault, agrees.
Speaker 2To meet a psychologist.
Speaker 3Long story short, We're in a car for it's a couple hours.
I'm sitting in a car with her.
I'm like, how did I get roped into this?
Still, the whole story, go through the whole nine yards, so every little detail, because she's kind of doing what we're doing and going through, hey, what happened here exactly?
And I'm giving her the whole entire kicking kaboodle.
Speaker 1There the psychologist who was originally on board to help confront and talk to Christy, who now knows Jared is missing a firearm, who now knows the entire truth of what Jared has endured at the hands of his wife, gives Jared the following advice.
Speaker 3She basically said, your wife's batshit crazy.
You need to run as fast as you fucking can and never look back.
Monday morning, go drain your bank accounts and go get a lawyer.
At the end of the day, the psychologist was like, I'm not going down there.
I'm going to get my car and leave without even talking to she to her husband.
Speaker 1The psychologist decided, after talking to Jared, going with Sheila to confront Christy was not going to be therapeutic.
In fact, it could have been flat out dangerous.
But how did she enter the picture in the first place.
Speaker 3Here's Jared, So Saturday night, I actually ended up going back to the rental house.
She's sitting on the couch watching some movies.
I'm only there maybe fifteen minutes.
I get to call from my father, Hey, come meet me up the bar up the road, maybe two miles.
Speaker 2Jared's dad, David, didn't tell him.
Speaker 1Why he wanted to meet because he was afraid if Jared had him on speakerphone that Christy would hear what he was about to say, which was that Sheila had told him that Christy had faked.
Speaker 2A miscarriage in the past.
Speaker 1Meanwhile, David had no idea that Jared already knew there were no children.
Speaker 2From what I can tell, David really.
Speaker 1Just wanted Sheila to go down to the house and check to see if Christy had had a C section.
Speaker 2That's what he wanted Sheila to do.
Speaker 4She had a sea section, she should be caught, she should still be in the hospital.
Speaker 1Sheila apparently wanted the psychologist to be with her when she confronted Christy, and Sheila asked David if Jared would be willing to meet with her first.
Speaker 3My father actually called me and said, Hey, your wife's mother and stepfather there with a psychologist.
They're going to go down and confront Christy about all the lies, check for a CEA section, and long story short ends up, this psychologist gets in my car and wants to talk to me before she goes down and sees Christy.
Yeah, and it was Hey, I'm sorry to hear what happened.
We just want to make sure she's okay.
I'm like, be careful going down there.
At this point I actually tell her, hey, I'm missing a firearm too, and through this entire episode, I haven't told anyone.
I'm it's in the back of my mind.
Hey, what happens if she has that gun?
She's already suicidal.
I'm worried about it, and I'm like, don't go down there unless you feel safe.
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The psychologist obviously didn't feel safe, and neither did Jared.
We tried to get an interview with this psychologist, who was initially responsive, but went radio silent after several attempts on our part to make a plan to meet.
Jared has now told someone all that he knew how he was feeling, and although initially he went home to the rental and spent fifteen minutes with Christy, he was now having second thoughts about staying the night with Christy.
Speaker 2He made an excuse to go to his parents.
Speaker 3Saturday was the first time I didn't stay with her.
I ended up telling her I'm sorry.
I was drinking and fell asleep on the couch, which was flat out lot.
I was not drinking.
Speaker 1I didn't sleep, but it was now his turn out of necessity to lie.
Speaker 3Of course, my mind's running a hundred mile an hour.
Hey, what's going to happen?
How do I keep this up?
How can I keep these lies without her finding out?
I mean that's just the pressure was kind of on.
So Sunday is kind of when things start going south with her.
Speaker 4I know, baby, it's going to be hard, but we're going to get through this.
Speaker 5I find a therapist that specializes in infant loss.
I will be going.
Speaker 4That's good, baby.
Speaker 6Are you coming home to stay tonight?
Speaker 4I don't think I can tonight.
I'm going to find someone to talk to and get an appointment.
Speaker 6Okay, I hope you can sleep.
I love you.
Speaker 4I love you too.
Speaker 5I told them not to worry about staying.
My brothers should be here soon.
Understand that you don't want to be around me, right now or won't do anything stupid.
I just need time to cry and hurt, and I can't let people here.
Give Ada a hook for me, good night.
Speaker 3Sunday ended up going helping my dad.
We were cleaning up the house, so I had to keep up.
Hey, I'm trying to get a house on here, still trying to work toward that.
Hey, here's what I'm doing.
I'm not gonna have my phone.
Speaker 1Jared's lies and his distance from Christy continues as he plodded through the weekend.
Monday couldn't come soon enough.
Speaker 6Jared, please answer my call.
Please answer your phone.
It's important.
Speaker 5AD is chasing deer in the woods.
Please answer, Jared.
She ran up over the hill and needs you to answer.
Speaker 1But Jared's distance only raised her suspicions further.
Speaker 5Doesn't seem like you care.
But we finally got her after thirty minutes.
Dropping hur at your parents, and then I'm leaving.
I have therapy and stuff later.
I hope you get whatever you need, because I'm highly upset now and pissed off because I just had to chase her and I thought I was going to lose her.
Speaker 6I been worried about your ass for the last twelve hours.
Speaker 3And at that point I stopped replying so often.
I did set my phone down every half hour so I check it, say one word.
Answers back like hey, I'm fine.
She's going on and on like hey, you need to pay attention to me.
I'm like, listen, I need my space.
Just like you have your way of coping.
Speaker 4This is mine.
I need a little bit of space.
Speaker 3And she kind of understood it, but you could tell there was like a something was nagging at her.
Speaker 1Jared has spent the bulk of two days away from his wife.
Her suspicions now an overdrive, and Monday has finally come.
Speaker 4Monday, the wheels fall off the wagon.
Speaker 3I mean, it just goes completely haywire because I know I have to make it to the lawyers.
I have to make it to the bank, and before she finds out what's.
Speaker 6Going on, Jared, please think about it.
We both lost our kids, not just you.
Speaker 3I mean, it's like a whole new person was born and she's losing her mind.
Speaker 4Here is where I find out.
Speaker 3She's driving around looking for me, She's calling my brothers and sisters.
She shows up at my parents' shop.
She's threatening to pack up everything, that she owns at this rental house.
She's going to let my dog out, and I didn't really know what was going to happen.
I'm getting phone calls out the wahoo.
I can't even talk to my lawyer on the phone by the time.
It's just beep, beep, beep, And you can't hear a conversation when you're getting a call like that.
Speaker 2And it was insane, and it was about to get worse.
Speaker 1We made several attempts to reach out to people in Christie's camp.
We wanted to see the story through the lens of someone who knew Christy intimately.
Speaker 2Was everything Jared told us the truth?
Were there things he missed?
Speaker 1No one from Christie's world was willing to talk to us until we found Jenny, a hairstylist who at the time was Christie's best friend.
Speaker 7So Christie's ex fiancee would come in with his son, and Christie would come in with them occasionally and get their hair cut.
And then one day she just appeared and came in and got her hair colored and cut, and she started crying and I asked her what was wrong, and she said that they were no longer together.
She said that they broke up and she was pregnant with his child, and I was like, oh, okay, and then I guess that's where our friendship began.
There was a time where she was having a miscarriage and I do remember going to her apartment because we lived apartments away from each other, all of the same building type thing.
Very weird, I know.
I remember going to her house after she said that she was getting the DNC and she I saw one.
I did see one, but I never she never showed me like any proof of ultrasounds or anything like that, just the one that she had put on Facebook.
Speaker 1Christy had posted a sonogram photograph of the baby she was expecting with her ex, but when Jenny went back to look for it on Facebook, it was gone.
Jenny was very candid about her initial impressions of CHRISTI can.
Speaker 2I cuss, You can cuss.
Speaker 7This bitch is crazy.
There were sometimes where I was like, what is happening?
What is going on?
Like it just seemed like she was go, go go, go, go, go go go go twenty four seven like twenty four seven.
It was good.
Speaker 1But it wasn't just Christie's excessive energy that struck Jenny.
She was warned not to be friends with Christy.
Speaker 7Yeah, there was.
I obviously did my Facebook's talking before I became friends, and there was people telling me don't be friends with her, and I ignored it because she didn't seem that way towards me.
Speaker 1Jenny and Christy had a fast friendship and Jenny genuinely loved Christy as a friend, but that didn't stop the warnings from coming in.
People telling Jenny that Christy's crazy and a liar, Like.
Speaker 7She's crazy, like she lies, she lies about like the like being pregnant, and I'm like there's no way, Like I saw an ultrasound and I'm like, now I'm thinking back when I asked to see that ultrasoung again, she wouldn't show me.
Speaker 1The person who was filling Jenny's head with reasons not to be friends with Christy was Christie's ex fiance's brother's girlfriend, that same ex fiance who was the reason that Christy and Jenny met.
Speaker 2The same ex fiance.
Speaker 1Christy said she was pregnant by when the two became friends.
Speaker 7A girl that dated her ex fiancees brother, so she knew the family pretty well and she was like no, like, don't at first, I was thinking like, Okay, I'll see how this could because she seemed nice, and I thought other girl was just like not wanting me to be friends with her because she didn't want me to be friends with her any and.
Speaker 3That wasn't the case.
Speaker 7She really was telling me the truth.
Speaker 1Everything Jenny tells me about how Christy and Jared met and started hanging out didn't have any new revelations.
Speaker 2It was everything we already knew.
Speaker 1But then something interesting came up out of her retelling.
Speaker 7COVID hit We're having a party and I was making drinks, Christy was drinking and she started getting sick and she was starting up all day, it seemed like, and close to the end where was leaving and stuff.
Me and Jared's mom were sitting there saying like, oh, like, what's going on.
Maybe she go to the hospital.
And then Christy comes out and Jared's mom says, maybe you're pregnant.
I was making the joke and I said, yeah, it was twins, and I think that's where it started, if I'm being honest, and she just went with it.
The next morning, I get a phone call.
Probably she always called me so early in the morning, like seven o'clock somewhere in there, and she called me and she said, you're never gonna guess this, And I was like, what.
Speaker 2Christy was pregnant this time by Jared.
Speaker 7Then it seemed like a couple of weeks went by and she called me again real early in the morning and she goes, I'm going to kill you.
And I'm like why, and she goes, because I found out what I'm having.
Like how many?
I go, Are you having one?
She goes, now, I'm having two.
I said, you're joking.
Speaker 2She said, She's gonna kill you as if you were the Jinx.
Speaker 7It was the Jinx for sure.
Next thing that happened they got engaged.
Not only was I in the wedding, she had asked me to be her maid of honor and I said no because I don't like being in the spot like like that, not.
Speaker 8Me at all.
Speaker 7I don't even like wearing dresses.
But I sucked it up and I did it.
It was beautiful.
It was a dream.
It was a dream wedding.
It was everything anyone should have asked for.
I know, Jared's mom and family and friends worked so hard.
I myself worked very hard on helping and doing and preparing for that wedding.
There were days where I would literally just go after whatever I was doing.
Speaker 1Jenny doesn't like to be the center of attention.
She doesn't like a lot of pictures taken of her.
She doesn't post a lot to social media.
Something she and her former best friend did not have in common.
Speaker 7Everything, and I mean everything was social media.
Anything that they did, anything that she was thinking share, she was constantly sharing.
She's constantly posting pictures anytime they'd go out, or any family functioning, pitcher picture, anything about the babies picture.
Speaker 1Jared and Jenny aren't the only ones who thought Christie's obsession with social media was excessive.
Speaker 2Gretchen did too, as.
Speaker 9A like as a person, even like I know, parents, if you have a kid that goes into the niku and you don't take those pictures and posts them right away, you want to make sure things, you know, said of down go smoothly.
Speaker 2I see it all the time, and she was just posting up.
Speaker 1Technically, Jared was posting the photo, but he was more like the other parents.
Speaker 2Gretchen describes.
His instinct was to not post the photos of his newborn twins.
He didn't want to.
Speaker 1He initially said no, but Christy wanted those photos up on social media, and she would not relent, regardless of the fact that they weren't her babies and she had no twins of her own.
Speaker 8And I remember this one game night, she said, I just got a text from my mom saying she's moving tomorrow and she's not going to ever see our baby.
It was just odd timing, which I guess, you know, sometimes families happen like that.
Speaker 2But yeah, just rivery dramatic.
Speaker 1Christy didn't have a real relationship with her dad as far as we were aware.
We knew that he doesn't live too far away, and that Jared's father, David, and he were friends growing up, but he did not attend Jared and Christie's wedding.
Speaker 7I never asked about history of Christie like I never asked about her father.
I knew she'd have a relationship with him.
I never asked about him, and I never asked why.
I never asked about her mom.
If she were to tell me yes, that would have been fine, but I'm not one to cry.
Speaker 1Henry, of course, had a strong opinion of Sheila, and it wasn't a positive one.
Speaker 10Like if, like if somebody said to their kids an asshole.
I always say, if you plant Corny, get court, So the parent must be an assault.
Speaker 1Jenny also felt pretty strongly that Christie experienced trauma in her childhood.
Speaker 2That trauma helped shape the woman Christie became.
Speaker 7We were driving the walmart to get supplised for the rental house, and we were passing a hospital, but on that where there's like a bunch of houses that you can rent, and she goes that house was the house that our mom pulled Christie by her hair and wouldn't let her go to the hospital to tell her to tell the hospital what was going on in her house.
Speaker 1It was Christie's younger sister that was telling Jenny the story as they drove past their old rent of house.
Speaker 7I'm assuming because of mental abuse, physical abuse, all the above.
I think that was the little sister's way of telling me that she wasn't up there like right because of her past.
Speaker 1The story is unsettling and sad.
Christy was trying to get help.
Speaker 7And I think the closest thing that she could communicate with was the hospital.
Speaker 1Whether she got the help she was seeking, we'll never know.
But this was not the only story of abuse and trauma that we heard Christie experienced as a child.
Henry recounts an extremely disturbing story of something young Christie witnessed at the hands of her mother, Sheila.
Speaker 4Her old man.
Speaker 10They got back together and they tried to work things out, and then she went fast shit crazy and run off the reservation and shot and killed all the farmers, tried to burn her house down.
Oh yeah, she's certifiable.
The mother is like slaughtered them in front of the kids.
Yeah, it was pretty crazy.
Speaker 1Henry claims Sheila got into a fight with her partner, was so enraged that she shot and killed her animals in front of her children and then tried to set their house on fire.
Another coincidence or a family pattern.
Jenny also noticed an odd relationship between Christy and her mom, Sheila, specifically, when they went.
Speaker 2Wedding dress shopping together.
Speaker 1It was Jenny Christie, her mom, and her grandmother that participated.
Speaker 7I don't remember the exact conversation that I had with Kirsty about her mother, but I knew her mom was not the best mom.
I think it was whenever we want wedding dress shopping.
That was the first time I think I met her mom and it was a little off.
Everything was off that day.
If I'm gonna be honest, I think the mom wanted it to be her way, like everything you need to be about.
Like the mom, I feel like me and myself, I'm, I guess the protective friend, so like I will voice my opinion if I feel like it's needed.
Speaker 1Jenny's opinion was that Sheila was too focused on what she would like to wear rather than what Christy would feel good in that she was being insensitive about the fact that Christy was a pregnant bride with a growing belly.
Speaker 7And I did have a conversation with Christy and I was like, you know, like this is your stuff.
You like, do what you want to do, wear what you want to wear.
You know, like you need to be comfortable that day, because however far along she was, she could have been bigger, you know.
And I just want to her to feel comfortable with her.
Grandma on her dad's side was there, and she I feel like she felt more comfortable with her there versus her mom being there.
Speaker 1It's Monday morning and Jared has a lot to get done.
Speaker 3So Monday morning rolls up seven point thirty in the morning.
I'm sitting at the parking lot waiting to go through the drive through because during all this you couldn't go into banks because of COVID, So I'm sitting in the bank waiting for this bank to open up.
Christy wasn't awake yet, so I'm not getting these phone calls.
At this point, I had already went and called a lawyer, was waiting on a phone call back.
Speaker 2I would say he was sad.
Speaker 11He was sad and disappointed and maybe a little embarrassed.
Speaker 2This is Jared's lawyer again.
Speaker 1Melissa, when she first met with Jared, she could not believe what he was telling her.
Speaker 11I would say, disbelief and sad.
I had heard of Phantom pregnant.
Let's see, but I had seen the photos and I was shocked.
Speaker 1Melissa actually knew Jared, though she had not seen him in over a decade.
Before Melissa decided to go to law school, she worked at a preschool with Jared's mom, a preschool that Jared himself attended, and even though she liked Jared's mom very much, once she left to attend law school, they did not stay in touch.
Speaker 11And the fire that occurred with the home I'm not friends with his family on Facebook because I hadn't seen them in so long, but I saw the GoFundMe on Facebook days before he came in.
So when he came in, I started putting at least the fire and him together, and I was like, that's a lot to handle.
And then my feeling was, I am going to do everything I can to protect him, and I am going to try to resolve this for him with the least amount of paying postule that.
Speaker 2I can on the legal end.
Speaker 3So I end up eight thirty rolls around on first one in line and the problems begin.
We get into we have this new license as you got because my old license burned up in the fire.
Oh dar, So the only picture they have on file is from when I was sixteen years old.
There was eight year difference there.
So they have to call my main bank.
My main bank didn't note until nine o'clock, so I have to sit there for a half hour.
Speaker 5Jared, please answer my call.
Please answer your phone.
It's important.
Speaker 3So of course, now Christy's awake, I'm getting phone calls.
So it ends up.
I'm like, hey, I want to withdraw all my money.
They're like, it's Monday morning.
We don't have enough money in the bank to give this to you.
It's my money.
Why can't I get it?
Speaker 1Jared is set on a course of getting back the money from the donations, but Christy has not been served, and she's threatened to leave.
Jared had never been involved in a lawsuit, which is what an annulment is.
Melissa had to impress upon him that in order for service of process to be effective, they need to serve her in person, and neither one of them can do it.
Speaker 2The time for ignoring Christy ends now.
Speaker 11I told him I'm afraid she's going to run.
We're not going to get her shirt, and this is going to take a long time, and I wanted this.
Speaker 1To be done for him.
Speaker 3They're like, hey, we can give you this much money, but you'll have to go to another branch.
Speaker 4Ends up.
I go to a second branch.
Now they're already open.
Speaker 3I get line phones blowing up still because she's getting alerts that there's money coming out of these accounts.
Speaker 5I saw, are you draining the bank account?
I don't know what's going on, but you need to talk to me.
Speaker 3My bank calls, but they're like, what are you doing?
I'm like, I'm draining my accounts.
Speaker 5They're like, well why, I have no idea what's going on.
I'm a mess and you are too.
I need you to talk to me.
It's fine if you don't care about me, or want to be around me, or love me, or can't even look at me.
My paycheck goes into our account, not much because maternityly, but it feels like you have run away and led me with nothing.
Speaker 6I'm warned about you.
Please just answer me.
Speaker 3They can get the sense of something's wrong because I mean I go to my I walk in my bank every Friday, so they know my name.
It's a small town.
They're like, has your account been compromised.
I say yes, I think my account's been jeopardized.
They're like, okay, go to this bank next.
They'll have as much money as they can give you set aside, and then you come here and we should have the rest for you.
Speaker 2But Jared wasn't the only one at the bank.
Contrary to what she.
Speaker 1Was saying in her text messages, Christy wasn't just sitting at home getting alerts that Jared was taking money out of their bank accounts, or driving to his parents' shop.
Speaker 2Looking for him.
Christy was at the bank too.
Speaker 7When that happened.
She was at my apartment that morning, and that morning we went to the bank and she wanted to take all this money out from all the donations and all that stuff, and come to find out in the morning Jared already wants and left her with four thousand dollars.
Speaker 4I just need some time.
I will meet you at some point today.
Speaker 5You took everything and I have no money.
What are your plans?
Are we done?
Are you leaving me with nothing?
Speaker 4I will talk to you later.
I just need to think.
Speaker 1Melissa prepared the paperwork for an emergency annulment based on fraud.
Annulments are rarely filed, and emergency annulments are even more rare.
That's because in an annulment, unlike a divorce, there are very high standards to prove to the state that the foundation of the marriage was so flawed that they don't even have to acknowledge that it ever existed.
Speaker 3So she goes, Okay, give me a couple of minutes and now we'll call you back.
So I'm driving around ten minutes, go by, Hey, come up to my office.
Speaker 4We need to go over to the courthouse.
Speaker 3I have these emergency annoynment papers drawn up for you.
You need to bring this much money in cash.
We can't do a check because they put a.
Speaker 4Hold on it.
Speaker 3So I've run up there, me and her.
We run over to the courthouse, get these papers signed.
Then I'm like, okay, what do I do now?
She goes we have to get someone who can go and serve her.
She says, hey, I can't do it.
You can't do it.
Let me call my daughter.
Speaker 1In case you're wondering, Jared grew up with Melissa's daughter as well.
Speaker 2Did you go to pre school with Harry?
Speaker 4I didn't, Actually I think I probably did.
Speaker 5It is at the rental house.
I have her water and the last food packet there was.
I love you always.
I'm left and.
Speaker 6I'm out of your left.
Speaker 3So as we're driving, Christy's blowing up my phone and still say hey, I'm done with you.
I'm tired of you not answering me.
You won't tell me where you are.
I've been worried, sick, you're withdrawing money.
What's going on?
The lawyer then tells me, hey, you need to answer the phone.
I don't know why I had sticky notes in my car, but my lawyer's writing on sticky notes.
Speaker 1Jared was frantic and they needed to be covert.
The sticky notes were Melissa's way to guide Jared into getting Christy to come meet.
Speaker 3And of course I'm still trying to drive while I'm having this conversation, and Christy can't know that someone else is a car.
Speaker 4Please, Christy, I do want to meet.
Speaker 11I knew how to get her there because if I were a female reaching out to my spouse or significant other and they had not been responding and I became suspicious, I knew what would bring me to.
Speaker 2Come and meet them.
Speaker 3I knew what I would listen to.
Speaker 5No, you've left me with nothing and scared me to death today.
I have no idea where you are or what you're doing.
Speaker 4I'm just driving around, you know, That's what I do to think.
Speaker 5I don't know if you remember, but I can't drive.
I don't have a car, or house or any of my stuff.
You also drained over twenty thousand.
Speaker 1Christy has told Jared that she is packed ready to go, and she is leaving as he sits in his truck at the bank drive through, waiting for the last of the donation money.
Jared and Christy have a phone call while Melissa continues to essentially help him woo a livid Christy into meeting.
Speaker 3This is all why I'm sitting in a drive through, so that this bank is hearing my entire conversation.
I don't know what gossip was going on in that bank lead us will say.
I end up answering phone, telling her all these things.
Hey, I just needed some time.
Speaker 4I love you.
Speaker 3Let's meet at the parking ride.
At this point, she also has my dog.
I mean, that's about the only thing left that I have that's mine.
Speaker 4It's it's my dog.
Speaker 1Christy told Jared she's going to let his dog aid A loose the emotions.
Speaker 3I'm furious.
I'm afraid my dog's not going to be around.
Is she is she gonna shoot my dog because I mean that that gun is still missing.
She goes, okay, i'll meet you.
So we go to the parking ride.
I pull up right next to the car.
I'm probably four spaces away.
I pull up, there's no cars in between us.
I get out.
I'm walking toward the car.
Speaker 11It was under it was under an overpass.
It was it very much could be a movie like setting.
Speaker 3She opens the car door and up pulls my lawyer's daughter.
Christy goes, who's that?
I go, I don't know.
Why don't you ask him?
So the lawyer's daughter goes, hey, are you Christy Akron?
She goes, yeah, why you have been served?
I run the car.
I never shut the car.
If I run to the car, shut the door and drive off.
I don't say a word.
I'm headed straight to the rental house to go check on my dog.
Get the dog, and get out of there as fast as I can, because to get in there it's only one way.
The end of the road is blocked off.
As I'm driving too, I call.
Speaker 4My lawyer alert.
Speaker 3She's like, hey, as soon as you do it block her.
These last three messages I get and then this is verbatim, And this was two minutes after I served her.
I'm driving running paper.
She knows that she has the annoyment papers.
The three texts I got are an unquote, are you serious?
Speaker 6What did I do to you?
I have no words to say to you.
Speaker 3I really wanted to respond, but I knew better see you later never And I and I have not spoken a word to her since.
Speaker 2As for Jared's beloved dog, Ada Dog.
Speaker 3Ends up being fine.
I get her in a car and I just drive.
I don't know where I can go.
I don't know what Christy's going to do.
Speaker 1And as far as that missing gun goes, Christy never had it, Jared did.
Speaker 4I did end up finding the gun, so that was that was huge.
It was.
Speaker 3It was a couple of weeks after and I'm cleaning out my car.
I reach under the seat and grab trash out from under the air.
I feel the gun.
I'm like, oh my goodness, all that worry for nothing, and then I start retracing my steps.
It just it was always in the back of my mind, where's that gun?
And I don't know if it was because she was in this mental instability.
She had that mental instability and suicidal and I didn't know it was.
It set in my mind, and I just want to make sure everyone else knew about it too, before they were put in danger.
Speaker 1In the aftermath of Monday's events, Jared sat down to write a letter.
Speaker 2It was nearly three thousand words.
Speaker 1In it, he pours his heart out, his way of trying to make things right with the community to whom.
Speaker 4It may concern.
Speaker 2I had Jared read me the entire letter.
Speaker 1Here he is reading some excerpts from the donations he and Christie received after the fire.
Speaker 3First, I'd like to thank everyone for the help, prayers, and donations for my family and the fire on Sunday, December sixth.
I'm trying to contact everyone individually who donated in a timely fashion to thank them and see if they have questions.
Speaker 2To the night of the berths, she told me.
Speaker 3They couldn't find a heartbeat and she had to have an emergency sea section and I wasn't allowed in.
I sat in the car waiting until I received a phone call from her saying that both children were born and both are healthy, and they had some fluid in their lungs and they were on oxygen.
I got all the dates, waits for the Facebook.
Speaker 2Post to Christy's arrest At the hospital.
Speaker 3Two officers walked her out of the car and told me that she was no longer allowed on property unless she has an appointment.
Speaker 2And finally, the moment when he uncovered the truth.
Speaker 3A doctor who calls me back and explains that Christy was never pregnant.
Speaker 4There is a.
Speaker 3Condition called a fantom pregnancy and a woman can trick her body into looking and acting pregnant.
Speaker 1He ended the letter with a heartfelt plea and apology to all that were affected by the tragedy.
Speaker 3I want everyone to know that I am very sorry and I had no idea about any of this.
One day, I was going to have a family.
In the next I have no family or home.
I want to apologize to all that have been hurt or fiel with trade, but I want to set the record straight and at least try to give some relief to the rumors and that the children did not pass away.
I would appreciate it if you could please respect my family and my privacy at this time as we warn all of the losses that we have incurred.
Speaker 4Sincerely, Jared Ackron.
Speaker 1As much as Jared was bothered by Christie's obsession with social media during their marriage, he saw it as a useful tool in this moment.
Speaker 2He would post this letter to Facebook.
Speaker 3That may have been the hardest I've ever had to write, and it was even harder to click that send button to put that out there into the world for everyone to see.
And once I saw how many people actually saw it and share it, it was even more than the fire itself.
Speaker 4Really the post about that and it then knows and all that it was.
Speaker 3I don't know what words can really describe how I feel, other than that was the hardest thing I've done.
I wish i'd kind of know we were going to do that, And I don't know if I would have said yes to doing this, because that's how strongly it still hits me, like I feel myself sinking into my chair and it's a tough thing for me to sit here and still talk to you.
Speaker 2Do you want to take a minute?
Speaker 4I think we can.
Speaker 1Actually, I think I would okay with the donation money safely now in Jared's possession.
He wanted everyone who donated to have an opportunity to get their donations back.
Any donations he was still receiving by check.
He immediately mount back.
Speaker 3So I guess jumping back into the donations and what I decided to do there, I felt it was appropriate and I want I I didn't want all this money if it wasn't meant for me.
So I started the process of sending these checks that were still coming into mail to my address and being dropped off to me.
I decided that I'm going to send them back.
I just put a return posts on there, put a stamp on, send them back to these people, and to my surprise, it kind of left me flabbergacid.
About a week and a half later, I start getting the same donation sent back to me.
Speaker 2Dear Jared, Dear Jared.
Speaker 3But instead of being in Christy and I's name, it's just written in my name, which and it was.
Speaker 4People that were closer than to me.
It was.
It was a weird thing.
Speaker 3Now, some people did keep their money, which by all means that it's your money.
I didn't expect it back or anything like that.
But it was very heartwarming and it was a funky feeling.
Speaker 6Dear Jared, you got your letter, thank you, but we cannot accept our check back.
Speaker 2Keep your head up, dear Jared.
I hope this helps after all you've been through.
Speaker 1And it wasn't just checks that Jared was getting.
It was people's thoughts and well wishes.
Speaker 3And I think the other big thing was that I actually put that letter.
I printed it out and put it in there with that check.
The little notes I got back, I still have them all.
Honestly, they I don't want to say I want to look at them because I don't know how.
Speaker 2I'll react again, but something made me keep it.
Speaker 4But something made me keep them in it.
I don't no one.
Speaker 1And while Jared was starting to see a path forward, he was still picking up the pieces of being lied to for nine months and the question that kept rattling around in my head.
Speaker 2Had Christie lied about anything else?
Speaker 3I've really been waiting for you to ask these questions.
I mean, it's I could go on the rest of the time we have here.
Speaker 2I don't even know where to start next time.
On the unborn.
Speaker 11The money.
Speaker 10I think she was trying to steal obaby and sell it for the money.
Speaker 7And I had said to her multiple times, you need to stop that, like you need to block him, delete him, do whatever, like just be done.
Speaker 11Just think what she could have done if she was left a.
Speaker 10Good That car they bought was brand new and somehow it has twenty some thousand miles on it and they've only had it for four months.
Speaker 4So how did that happen?
Speaker 7It could be that it could be the money.
It could have been the faking everything.
It could have been because they faked it in the donations of the Fire of the Babies.
It could have been it could.
Speaker 4Have been all of that.
Speaker 3It's just like a snowball effect that the lies that continue to come out in I didn't see any of that.
Speaker 2That's next time, The Unborn.
Speaker 1The Unborn is a production of iHeart Podcasts, Audio Up and JESU Press Productions, created by Trisila Fotch and Frank Rodriguez mal produced by.
Speaker 2Alvin Cohen and Rachel Foley.
Speaker 1Executive produced by Jimmy Jellinek, David Dwaites and Jared gustav Edited by Gerard Bauer and Preston Dawson.
Sound design and mixing by Jeremiah Zimmerman.