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Speaker 2Welcome Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, Welcome.
Speaker 1Welcome Home, Everybody.
It is another solo pod.
I'm your host, Angela Raie or Native lamppod, and today I am I don't know if I want to say nerve sighted, scar sighted, eager sighted.
I'm excited, but I also got some nerves about this topic.
Let me tell you why money is funny, mane.
It really just is.
I want to be rich.
I have had some high moments, I've had some low moments.
I think, at forty six years old, I am so ashamed about where I am financially.
Speaker 3I feel like I should be much better off.
Speaker 1I had a dream of where I would be at this age, you know, probably when I was five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, twenty five.
You know, like all of that, like so many of us, and there are things that happen in our lives where we feel out of control of our finances.
And I think, right now, in this environment we are in this country, it's definitely one of them.
There are so many unpredictable factors that dictate our financial outcomes that we're not in control of.
So how do we gain control of this space that we so desperately need to have control over?
And I got to tell y'all, this ain't none of my business.
It should be my business, but this ain't an area where I excel.
So I called it in a lifeline.
I saw this sister on Instagram and I was so intrigued by what she was saying.
I have a financial advisor.
He's done some amazing work for me.
He's grown my retirement account and all of that.
But I'm also someone that has withdrawn.
Oh they hate to hear that from my retirement account.
You know, there are places in life, For example, I talk about this all the time in church, in law school, I would tithe off of my student loans.
That ain't my increase, that's my decrease.
What you're doing, sis, I don't know, but I've been afraid to ask questions.
My family did well financially, but we didn't necessarily budget the best, and so I've avoided the things where I've been afraid.
As we go in to twenty twenty six, I said, you know what, self, We're gonna.
Speaker 3Turn over a new lead.
Speaker 1We're gonna ask the tough questions, we are gonna get the good advice.
And if we want to think and grow rich, like my guy Napoleon said, we gotta talk to somebody about it cause you ain't the one.
Speaker 3So there is someone who's the one.
Speaker 1And before we bring this sister on, I want to roll this clip.
Speaker 4Did you know that dor in this holiday season, for every pair of Airmaxes that you buy your family, you can buy one share of n Video, a company that has worth over four trillion dollars.
And for every pair of sunglasses that you buy your family during holiday season, let's take a pair of givon Chi glasses, you can buy three shares of Amazon, the company that everybody's shopping at door holiday season.
Speaker 3And get this.
Speaker 4For every Louis Baton, perse Louis Vaton Duffel you buy your family, do you know that you can own LVMH, Louis Vaton, Moa Hennessy and buy Oprah sixty shares of this company and they own Louis Baton, Moet.
Speaker 2Hennessy, Celine, Lowave, Sophora, companies that a lot of people are going to be shopping at door holiday season.
Speaker 4Listen, we are going to spend a ton of money during holiday season.
Speaker 2But what if we give the gift of wealth.
Speaker 4What if we start owning some of the companies We're giving all of our money too.
This is the way for us to create ownership and create a financial legacy for the people we love.
Speaker 1Well, just so y'all know, I still want to make sure we supporting black businesses and all of that too.
Speaker 3I know she does too.
Speaker 1We are thrilled to have joining native Lampid today Ashley M.
Speaker 3Fox.
Speaker 1She is the founder and CEO of Emplify, and she has become my ad hoc financial planner and advisor.
She doesn't even know now, I just gotta follow the advice.
So Ashley, help us to stay out and happy holidays.
Speaker 2Happy holidays.
How are you doing?
How are you doing?
Speaker 3Oh man, I'm good.
Speaker 1I'm trying to be better though, So just so you know, while we recorded this podcast, we know it's gonna air a little bit later, but.
Speaker 3I paid played the power ball today.
Speaker 1You might not like that.
You probably rather mea that play my investments.
We're gonna get that, right, Ashley, But I just ain't gonna lie to you.
It's one point seven billion today.
So I just sent my dad to the store, my best friend to the store, my other friends to the store.
We just gotta see what happens.
By the time this podcast airs, we might be having a different conversation.
Speaker 3But I want to hear from you what you think, what you think, what should I do?
Help, help help?
Speaker 4I think I think the first part is the is owning the fact that you know you deserve more help, You own the fact that you have made mistakes.
I think I love that you are fearless and vulnerable.
I think a lot of times when we talk about money, we're embarrassed.
We don't talk about it as a taboo topic, when in reality, we all deserve to have wealth.
But if we are just constantly spending our money, we are always guaranteeing that we're decreasing our net worth.
And I'm not telling everybody that you have to go start a business or quit your job.
But every time you spend money, somebody else is building wealth.
So why not consider owning the companies we're get even our money to we have.
We live in a world now where there are trillion dollar businesses because of our consumption, and so it's really about shifting our mindset where you don't have to go build a big business.
You don't have to start with thousands of dollars.
I always tell people my company, impithy, like, you can start with five dollars.
If we have the five dollars, our way to a million.
How about we getting the habit of paying ourselves so while we go and play the lottery ticket, I would also recommend paying you because you.
Speaker 2Matter just as much as that lottery ticket.
Speaker 3I love that.
Speaker 1Okay, now here's a cool question for you.
Had to tell the truth.
When was the last time you played the lottery?
Speaker 2I've actually never played the lottery before.
Speaker 1Okay, Ashley in here showing out, y'all, she's showing out.
Speaker 3Okay, tell me why this is a good question.
Tell me why.
Speaker 2I guess it just was never on my to do list.
Speaker 3I don't.
Speaker 4I didn't come from a family who played the lottery, and I just if I'm being honest, Like I went to Howard, I wanted to work on Wall Street, and so when I got my first internship on Wall Street making money, I'm around people with money, and so I think I started to adapt to that environment and I just wasn't around people who played the lot like I'm pretty sure if my environment was surrounded by that.
But I was in an environment of people who invested, and so I'm watching millionaires and billionaires and that'st their money, so that's what I'm doing.
So I think it's just I am a product of the environment I was in post Howard University and so much that you can't tell me I'm not going to be a billion dollar CEO because I'm around billionaires.
I'm in their bank accounts, showing wealthy, wealthy people how to protect their money, how to preserve it, how to grow it.
And I'm literally like, successful these clues, I'm going to follow the blueprint.
So I just wasn't always around it, so I can't say that if I was, I wouldn't.
But in reality, I have the power in my mind to create whatever it is I want to do, however it comes to me.
Speaker 3So I love that.
So talk about that blueprint.
Speaker 1What is the blueprint that you have learned and seen from advising billionaires and millionaires on their path forward to financial success and wealth?
Speaker 3What is that blueprint?
Speaker 4I think the first thing is you have to get really clear on what you want.
I think sometimes we are afraid to dream because we base our future on our current reality.
So despite where you are, what you look like, how much money or your credit score?
Speaker 2What do you want life to look like?
Speaker 4And so then reverse engineering get so we sat here and think, Okay, how much money do I want coming in every single month, whether I choose to work or I don't want to work, how much is that?
And then getting to a point where you accept how much money you have and make a decision to pay yourself.
Speaker 2When I say pay yourself, that doesn't mean using a savings account.
Speaker 4That means investing it, giving yourself the opportunity to grow your network.
And so one of the biggest things I saw on Wall Street investing was a standard right like they had multiple accounts connected to different goals.
So when I started working, I had a checking account and I had a saving as account.
But I'm in these bank accounts and they have multiple accounts with multiple titles for multiple reasons.
And so I started to open accounts for different purposes.
So this is the account that I have where I'm going to buy my house, This is my travel the world account, this is my I am built for this account just.
Speaker 2In case something were to happen.
Speaker 4So I started to separate my money based off of the purpose and the goal.
So every account number you have should be in alignment with a desire, a goal that you have.
And then also paying myself.
And when I say pay myself, I'm investing in my brokers account.
And I know you mentioned like your retirement account.
You have to really think about where you're going to need money, when you're going to need it, and why you're going to need it.
Right, So I'm thirty six years old, the government sells us to work until where sixty sixty five years old and then wait for Social Security.
Speaker 2I mean, we also grew up in an era.
I know I did.
You talked to go to school, get the job.
Speaker 4You get the job, and you pay for school, and if you're special, you get a government job.
And we now know nowadays government jobs aren't even safe.
Right, So we can't just rely on that college degree and then just sitting mountains of debt.
We have to do something more.
And so my more was yes, I had a job.
My more was yes I set money aside for saving.
But my more was also investing in these companies that are literally making millionaires and billionaires every day, and their network is growing because I'm consuming their products right, and so really opening a brokerage account, which there is no minimum requirement to start, and just starting with companies you know, you use and believe in.
And so I just saw wealthy people investing in their brokerage account.
I saw them investing for their children in their brokerage account.
So I said, look, I'm gonna start with three hundred dollars.
I'm going to open a brokerage account, and I'm just going to start investing.
And that was literally years ago when I did this, and I'm just continuously growing.
And the other thing I would say, as you make more, you pay yourself more.
So while you might start with twenty dollars a month, let's say every ninety days you now at you put twenty five a month, you go to thirty dollars a month, and let's say you get that bonus.
So I started with three hundred dollars, but every time I grew or my income grew, I invested more, so much that investing no longer was just an option.
Speaker 2It was like a bill.
Speaker 4That I paid every single month, the same way I pay my cell phone bill or my car note.
I'm actually paying Ashley so much that if Ashley never makes money again, at least she has something working for her on the side.
Speaker 2And I think that's what we need.
Speaker 4To do, just starting with what we have, but getting to the destination of who we want to be and who we ultimately deserve to be.
Speaker 1I want to say this as a lawyer.
Ashley is not giving any of y'all financial advice.
She is talking about her own experience and sharing her journey.
If you try it at home, you try it at home, but it is not on her one way or the other.
Speaker 3If you win and lose or draw.
Speaker 1So, Ashley, I want to also ask you about this because I think this is some of what happens for people, and I'll actually own this.
You're talking about a brokerage account.
I talked about a retirement fund the video that we showed earlier.
You talked about investing in some of the companies that we know we buy bags from and kind of luxury items.
Speaker 3Where do you think is the on ramp?
Speaker 1Like do people start with like an eye roth ira to get started?
Do they start with this twenty dollars twenty five dollars set aside plan?
Do they go get a life insurance policy?
If you're a young professional.
I'm not young anywhere.
But if you're a young professional in this space starting out, where do you recommend people start.
Speaker 2So it's a couple things.
Speaker 4So the first thing most people know is their retirement account at their job.
So you're four to one K, four to three B, and I recommend getting that account now.
Speaker 2While you can't touch it till fifty nine and a half, you want to.
Speaker 4Get that account because one, they're automatically taking money from your check.
I would challenge you to know the type of investments the mutual funds in there.
But if your company matches you, that is a return on an investment.
That is free money.
And that's one of the things I did when I worked on Wall Street.
I was investing what they were willing to contribute.
That is free money.
Now, although it is that long term strategy, if you are let's say you're under forty or your thirties or your twenties, if you don't want to wait till sixty to retire, retirement is not an age.
Speaker 2It's a dollar amount.
Speaker 4So now I'm thinking, okay, yes, I'm setting money aside for sixty and I'm in my twenties.
I want to retire at forty, so getting a brokerage account allows you allows that flexibility.
There's no age requirement, there's no minimum or maximum to start with, and you're not penalized just in case you need the money, so you're able to start small, bill big.
And those retirement accounts they have income limitations, they have age restrictions, and their penalties.
Speaker 2If you try to withdraw.
Speaker 4Not that it's bad, but you have to understand every account you have is for a different purpose and for a different season in your life.
And the reason why I like brokerage accounts is because you have flexibility.
Speaker 2Right Like, I've been kicked out of places before.
Speaker 4When I left my Wall Street job, I got kicked out of my Harlem apartment and I maxed out every all my credit cards eighty thousand dollars in debt.
Speaker 2But I had the stocks in.
Speaker 4My investment account and I sold those and that's how I was able to build my company Implify.
There were times where I had to sell my stocks to make payroll in my business.
So you have the flexibility to withdraw, whereas your retirement accounts are just that set for you to retirement.
So I'm planning for my life now and life and you want to be able to do both.
Now, when it comes to life insurance, that is more so, how can I set my family up?
That's the number one reason you would get life insurance if you have family that you want to pass down wealth to.
And I think everybody I encourage to put yourself in that position to take care of your family regards, especially if your family.
Speaker 2Is dependent on you.
Speaker 4But there's other life insurance policies where you can build wealth and extract that money while you're alive.
But it's a case by case basis, so depending on your age, your health, your income.
A brokerage account has no color, has no credit score, has no gender.
It looks like all of us.
We can build wealth, and we can do so with a brokerage account.
So whether it's my eight year old niece who has a brokerage account, whether it's somebody who's in their sixties or their seventies, it's one of the most easiest ways to start with as little but just in case you need it, it's liquid enough for you to be able to withdraw without any major rules or restrictions.
Speaker 1So with the brokerage account, are there certain companies that you like ranked and you check like these are the best companies to do a brokerage account with?
And why and explain for people at home what is a brokerage account?
Speaker 4So brokerage account is simple.
It connects the buyer of an investment to the seller.
It takes five minutes opening accounts.
You don't learn anything from this session.
If you aren't investing, at least get a brokerage account right now.
When you open a brokerage account as an individual, you want to make sure that you know how much you want to start with.
But I come from a Wall Street background, so when I started investing in twenty eleven twenty twelve, a lot of the new apps didn't exist.
They weren't talking about finance on social So the accounts that I use are accounts I see the millionaires a billionaires using.
So when it comes to just even the members inside of our WB app, I like Fidelity, I like Charles Schwab, I.
Speaker 2Like Vanguard, I like E Trade.
Speaker 4Now, if you're starting small, both Smart small meeting let's say fifty dollars or less.
Fidelity and Charles Schwab lets you buy fractional shares, and fractional shares mean if the share is the the cost of the stock, the investment you would make is one hundred dollars, but you only.
Speaker 2Have fifty, you're able to get a half of a share.
Both Fidelity and Charles Schwab allow you to do that.
Speaker 4I'm also the type of person when you have my money, I like to call you at two o'clock in the morning.
I like to be able to have that customer service access at twenty four to seven support.
Now that's not to say the newer apps are bad.
You'll never hear me talk bad about a person or a company.
It's just they're just new, so they might not have the customer support, they might not have the access or all the features.
But those are the top accounts that I use, My family use, the members inside of our app use, those are the companies that you can utilize.
Now, again, it doesn't mean the newer apps are bad.
They just might not have all the features and benefits, but they serve the same purpose for you.
Speaker 1Okay, what about crypto.
So there's been this kind of crypto boom.
People are like, oh, okay, well I don't need to invest in stock now because now there's this there's bitcoin and there's all of this stuff there.
Speaker 3People buy trump Coin.
Speaker 1Like there are all of these these entities, famous folks who are coming up with their own cryptocurrency.
What do you say to folks who are relying now on crypto to make their money quick?
And all of the influencers online who've talked about how rich they become on crypto.
Speaker 2So there's two things.
Speaker 4One, I'm not an expert in crypto, so I won't even stay hearing a lot of you and tell you what to buyer how to do it.
The second thing, I would say one of the words you said, and you don't even realize you said it was quick.
When it comes to building wealth and just how I've learned to do it, there is nobody that I worked with that got rich quick.
Speaker 2And I think we for so long we may have been without that.
Speaker 4Our desire to have money fast, we think that's what we're gonna need, when in reality, you can't eat all your food on a Thanksgiving plate quickly.
So when it comes to building wealth, this is a journey.
That is, it becomes a of who you are.
Not saying that crypto has not made people wealthy.
I'm not here to count anybody's pockets.
But the one thing I can say is not regulated.
So if you are somebody who is afraid of losing money or not being able to get your money and things like that, it's not regulated.
Speaker 2It's so new that it's not regulated, not that it won't.
Speaker 4But just because something is sexy and it's hot doesn't mean it's going to change your life right now and might not satisfy your risk tolerance.
So I can't speak to how to do it, what to do, but I can tell you that if you are not someone that wants to take risk and you want regulation and you want protection and all of that, it might not be the best thing to start.
Maybe as time progresses there'll be a lot more regulation.
But just because something is sexy and hot the same day that is hot tomorrow, everybody's talking bad about it.
So but in reality, where I spend my money and the companies I can't live without, they've been around for years and I am more okay investing at least in those as well as as an Ashley Fox and in her business.
Speaker 2But it's not an area that I can and speak to.
Speaker 4But I can say, please be mindful of the risk associated with something that is not regulated.
Speaker 3I love this.
Speaker 1So let's compare this kind of new market to your career trajectory.
So you left Wall Street and you started your company.
Yes, what do you say to people are like, well, you went and started something new.
You bet on yourself and even if they don't use crypto, that's fine.
But you went and bet on yourself.
What do you say to, you know, a potential customer, a potential client that is like, well, why should we bet on you?
Since you also you went to learn from an old, established thing, so old JP Morgan Chase.
Speaker 3This is where I Bang Too benefited.
Speaker 1From the slave trade, right, we know that it's so old that it benefited from the slave trade.
But you left and you went and you bet on yourself, even pulling out money from your own stock investment.
Speaker 4So the first thing I would say before you bet on Ashley, I need you to bet on you because anything that my company Emplithy does, anything that you see me teach on social media, things are not taught, They are caught.
You have to be ready to receive information so I can pour all day into you.
But if you don't think you're worthy of a seat at the table, and don't choose you first.
Speaker 2None of it is going to work.
Speaker 4But I can also say my I'm also not somebody who just woke up one day like I think I'm gonna teach finance, Like I went to Howard, majored in finance, worked on Wall Street, been in this industry for over sixteen years.
And also everything that I teach, I do right.
So everything that I teach that whether you see me on the internet, you're in our app, you're taking our classes.
Everything is what I do for myself and my family.
Because I'm not a fan of reading finance books.
They're kind of boring to me.
So it's a lot easier to speak from my heart and to talk about my experience.
But I also believe too, I know what it feels like not to have money.
Like while I was on Wall Street, I was the only black female on my floor.
I was one of the lowest pay people on my floor, making good money.
But in reality, when you're in a room of millionaires and billionaires and your annual salary is the fee that they pay in hundreds of their mutue funds, just one of them, I can tell you I know what it feels like to notice like I'm not good enough.
I know what it feels like to quit my job, to bet on Ashley, to lose everything, to then have to go live in my parents' college for two years.
But the one thing that kept me going was I could not unsee the wealth that Wall Street exposed me to.
Speaker 2So everything that I do is because of what I saw.
Speaker 4I'm pretty sure if I didn't see money, I wouldn't believe we could create money.
And so I just think my experience is very diversified because not only can I sit here and talk about a stock, we can sit here and have an entire estate plan conversation because I worked in asset management.
So if you had at least twenty five million dollars, you can't just go to a regular bank.
Right You're talking to hedge funds, You're talking to private equity funds and state planners, capital advisors, investors.
There's an entire ecosystem that you need to surround your wealth.
And that's essentially when I left my Wall Street job, I'm like, for something we're using every day, why is it not taking.
Speaker 2Our school system.
Speaker 4You shouldn't have to major in finance work on Wall Street to get this information.
I didn't really start this business to make money.
I just found a way to make money.
But in reality, if I wanted to make money out of stayed on Wall Street, and I wouldn't have went through what I went through.
Speaker 2But I also know what it feels like to be the people that I serve.
Speaker 4I know what it feels like to feel unworthy and not have money and not be able to make credit card payments because I'm trying to bet on myself.
So the return you see of Ashley Marie Fox today was not the Ashley July twelve, twenty and thirteen when I left my job.
And I think it came from my heart when I decided to do this, not.
Speaker 2To make money.
Speaker 4I just found a way to create wealth, showing the world how they can do it as well too.
Speaker 3I love it.
Speaker 1I'm telling you now what I am doing while we're here.
In case you're like, what are you doing?
Looking down?
I'm on your page unemplified and it can provide a wealth Builder membership, and I'm getting that annual membership.
Now I'm betting on myself and the lottery.
Hey, I normally don't pay.
You know what's so funny?
You talk We talked to about the lottery earlier, and I said, and you were like, I'm not around people who played lottery.
My dad played the lottery so much.
I'd be like, you won the lottery right now, right, And I don't know what it's been lately, Ashley, this dog gone powerball meant so high.
I'm like, okay, I didn't played twice and that's the first time in my life.
I literally was on the phone my friend like what am I.
Speaker 3Supposed to ask for?
Like I really didn't even know.
Speaker 1So I want to just I want you to know that too, Like it's not normal for me, but I do want to bet on myself.
So you have an annual membership for Implify, and I'm going I'm subscribing right now.
I got a code that was SI.
So that's how I'm investing in myself going into twenty twenty six.
How else would you encourage people who are watching to invest in themselves, invest in their families, invest in their communities.
Speaker 4I think it's just about time we make this a standard.
I think we let go of the fear, we let I mean, we live in a time where, like you said, it's uncertain, but at the end of the day, I'm not about to let let the next three four years go by and be dictate what I see in the media.
Nobody has paid off my dad, nobody has started my business.
At the end of the day, the only person coming to save us is the person in the mirror.
And until you start loving the person in the mirror, nothing is going to change.
Because it is possible for us to create wealth.
We are at the center of the stock market.
If we don't spend any money at all, there is no market, there is no company, there is no billionaire.
So in reality, I'm not telling you you have to go build a billion dollar business, but I can tell you that if you choose to live in this country, there are ways for you to build wealth where you don't have to just be dependent on your job.
Speaker 2But you have to understand you can't work or save your way to wealth.
Speaker 4The times are different, you are different, and you have to let go of the fact that you're behind.
Speaker 2You have to let go of the.
Speaker 4Fact that you can't do this, or that is scared or everybody's trying to scam me, like you cannot afford to not be better with your money at this point, because we cannot rely on anybody.
But ourselves and especially those of you who have families like we have to set the standard of what what wealth looks like.
Speaker 2In our community.
We have to start talking about it at the dinner table.
Speaker 4We have to start embodying, embodying it, talking about it, immersing ourselves in this language so that we understand what moves this economy.
Speaker 2And I think once you understand that it's a game and that.
Speaker 4You are the star player on the court, but you know the rules, it's a lot easier for you to maneuver.
Just let go of the fact that you have to have it all together.
Every day I wake up trying to figure it out.
I too feel like I want to be in a better place financially.
But you also have to accept the fact you did your best.
You did not come for money, you weren't blessed with this information.
It's not taught in our school system.
But you did your best.
All I'm asking in twenty twenty six bet on you this time?
How about you fill your cup and say, look, I'm paying me and I'm okay if it's ten dollars.
But I know if I start today, the next five ten years of my life will be totally different because we worked all these years, we worked ten, fifteen, twenty thirty forty years.
Speaker 2How about we just pay ourselves for one just one year?
Speaker 3About we just.
Speaker 4Pay ourselves and create the habit of somebody who's a wealth builder.
Speaker 3I love it.
I wish that this had apple pae.
Speaker 1I'm doing this right now, trying to.
Speaker 3Hurry up and get this right.
I'm being a wealth builder.
So let me ask you this.
Speaker 1If you were to tell someone you know that may not have the money to be a wealth builder on emplify, what are three things that people can do going into twenty twenty six, especially if they're like, Okay, my financial literacy is really illiteracy.
The narrative I have around money multi generationally and my family says that I'm supposed to be broke or it looks like I'm going to end up broke.
What are the things that you say to people to say like, no, that didn't have to be your story.
Speaker 2So the first thing so everyone wish she's referring to.
Speaker 4We have a Wealth Buildings Community app, which is I like to call like the Netflix of finance.
It's where Angela, You'll have access to over ten different boot camps from buying your first stop to life insurance to retirement planning.
It's kind of like if you were to go to a Harvard or finance where you can move at your own pace and learn right.
So it gives us in the palm of your hand with the school system for God to give us.
Now, if in fact you are not a member, there's a lot of free stuff you can start with.
The first thing is on social media.
I'm always teaching on social media, Underscore, Asking and Fox, but.
Speaker 3She is That's where I found her, y'all, That's where I found her.
Speaker 4But also we have free classes, right, So if you go to Amplify, emp Ify, dot Link, slash invest, there's a free class helping you build your twenty twenty six glueprint, starting from the basic to getting the first account open.
But just having those free resources I think helps as you enter your way to getting better and more confident.
The other thing I would challenge everybody to do and go look on the financial news, whether it's Yahoo, Finance, CNBC and just find an article that intrigues you.
Right, I just challenge you twice a week because when you think about becoming fluent in the language, you have to read it.
You have to speak it, you have to be around people who are speaking it.
Speaker 2Or you can't be fluent.
Speaker 4So instead of trying to find complicated things to talk about or read about, find an article about a company you know, start to research, and start to immerse yourself in the language of money.
And the other thing I would do is change your environment.
Are you around people who want to grow financially.
Are you around people who are committed to self development, Because sometimes you are a product of your environment, and sometimes it takes you to reach out to somebody to build that connection or to put yourself in those uncomfortable spaces.
I think one of the best things that happened to me on Wall Street, while I was the only black woman, while I did feel not.
Speaker 2Good enough, it leveled my mindset up.
Speaker 4I started to travel because I'm around billionaires and I'm seeing what they're doing with their money in life.
And so surround yourself in an environment that you might have to go find.
And I challenge you to control us on your timeline, control us on your television, control what you're reading, and allow yourself to become the person you want to be.
But sometimes you gotta let go with who you used to be.
To become the person you deserve to be, and that's probably the hardest part.
So I would say surround yourself around a different group of people and just immercer that.
That's why we created our app, because you can't talk about these things very rarely when you find it on social media and you don't and our families are not ready, and sometimes you have to be the change maker in your family.
You have to be the one that starts the conversation.
Like I was the first person that opened the brokerage account for my family.
I got their life beloors, I got their brokerage account.
But I knew now they're doing it, but it took time.
But sometimes you have to be that person and sometimes you have to do it alone.
But I think those are just some things that we can do.
So there are a lot of free resources Emplify, dot link, slash invest.
Also there's a ton of stuff on impify dot com as well, But even outside of just emplify, you have to make.
Speaker 2A choice this year and choose you choose wealth, choose possibility, choose I don't want lack anymore.
I want abundance and that is something you deserve to have.
But you have to choose use.
Speaker 4Abundance, and it's not gonna be given to you.
Speaker 1You know what I love the most about this conversation today, Ashley, is there's so much of what you said that sounds exactly like what we tell people about getting involved in the political process.
And so this is an opportunity really for me to embark on this journey, humble myself and do the thing that I tell people to do about politics.
Just read something, just start somewhere, surround yourself in a community.
I'm surrounded by people that do well with money.
But it's the part of the conversation I'm like, ah, and I tune out.
So this, I think is this is good.
So hopefully you can check on me periodically.
Speaker 3And be like what you're doing doing all right over there?
Yeah, i'mna, I'm gonna check in.
Speaker 1I'mnna make sure my my my brokerage account is where you say it needs to be.
I'm gonna set aside money.
I'm gonna take your advice on what because I'm asking you to give me some free advice on where to start, and then you can hold me accountable to it.
Yes, No, I want to invest more than I spend.
Speaker 3Will be the go.
Speaker 4You just got to start investing.
We'll get there, but at least getting that.
Speaker 3And she said my bar too.
Speaker 4Hi, y'all, it's okay to spend.
I like nice things, but I invest in too.
You don't have to choose this or that.
It's this and that.
We don't have to sacrifice.
We just got to make more money.
Like, let's just let's do what we want, but let's just choose you and pay you, because if not, we're always going to feel like we're working for the rest of our life.
Speaker 2So now it's son to just give your money a job description.
That's all.
Speaker 3Absolutely, I love it.
Speaker 1Well, thank you so much, Ashley in Fox y'all, she runs implified, please go and check out the site yard and signed up.
I'm about to be in my little boot camp and my stock boot camp.
I'm gonna come back.
Sounded like a financial boss.
It'll make sure I passed Ashley's test first though.
Thank you so so much.
Speaker 3Thank you.
Speaker 1I appreciate it bad to have it.
Okay, everybody, welcome home.
I hope that y'all will join me on this journey.
I want to do better.
I am too old to be playing these kiddie games.
Speaker 3With my money.
Speaker 1So if your money's funny and ain't acting right, y'all join me on this journey and let us figure out a pathway to pay ourselves.
As actually said, because we deserve it.
We deserve abundance and every good thing.
So let us take that spirit into twenty twenty six.
Speaker 3Let us start from wherever we are, and let us just go.
Y'all.
Speaker 1Set a little money aside, and let's invest it.
I'm trying to get better.
I hope y'all will join me in it.
And if you're judging me, you can send me a comment and tell me.
If you're not and you want to join the journey, you can tell me and send a comment.
If you just want to figure this out together, you can send me a comment or whatever it is.
Let's go, y'all.
We have a lot to do and not a lot of time, so let's get started.
What are your twenty twenty six resolutions?
I want to hear about them.
Send me those two.
Send me videos you don't we like videos?
Speaker 3Y'all?
All right, welcome home, see you next time.
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