Good morning.

Didn'ts how doing this morning?

I'm good things?

How are you?

We are good?

Thank you for coming on the show.

We understand you're contacting us about a date that you went on with somebody.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm super excited that you know, you all got back to me about this.

I'm not like super familiar with supremaise of what do you call this second date update?

Right?

Yeah, so you've been on a date.

He or she that you were on the date with left and did not call you back.

You've been ghosted essentially, and we'll we'll call and get to the bottom of it for you.

Sound good?

Yeah, I mean that sounds exactly right because we went on two dates, me and Scarlett, and she just hasn't replied to any of my calls are texts.

So yeah, I'm just kind of shy and yeah, I'm I need to hear out what's going on here.

So what did you all do on the date?

Well, we went out to dinner.

She actually picked the place.

It was the place I had never been.

It was Indian nice, Yeah, one of her favorite spots.

And yeah, everything went well there.

There was great food, really great conversation.

I mean I even thought that, like since it was one of her favorite places, that's a good sign, right, because you don't bring the fling around the restaurant that.

You fuent, right, Well, you would think that, but this has actually happened before with people on second date updated, So let's hope that's not the case.

Could there have been something else?

I mean I don't think so.

Like, the.

Only thing that I can really think of is there was a moment during dinner when I had to go take a work call.

It was just like a few minutes, but it was a call that I you know, one of those calls you just can't ignore or like even callback leader.

I just had to.

But it was just a few minutes, you know.

You think that maybe she thought that was rude, Like if you got up and you walked away to take a call, maybe that made her kind of not call you back.

I mean, I don't know for sure, but that is what I'm thinking, Yeah, because I can't think of anything else.

That is the reason, like a reason why you'd be ghosting someone.

So we're gonna go ahead and get her on the phone and find out exactly what happened.

Is that cool?

Yeah?

That's great?

I really appreciate the golf.

Thank you.

We're gonna do that coming up at eight thirty five right here.

On ninety three Q Second date Update, So we got a.

Call from Dennis went on a date with Scarlet.

They met on Hinge.

After going on for a while, he ended up taking a phone call during the dinner, left the table, was on the phone for a couple of minutes, it came back.

Is that why she's not calling him back?

And this is a second or third date?

Let's find out what really happened next with Scarlett On ninety three Q Second date Update.

Hello, Hi, Ma, please speak with Scarlet.

This is she Who's good morning Scarlet?

This is Riggs, Caitlin and Erica at ninety three Q.

How's your morning going?

Oh?

Good morning.

It's all right.

How are y'all?

We're good.

So you've gone a couple of dates with a guy, do you remember Dennis?

H Yeah too?

I what a weirdo?

A weirdo.

That's a weirdo.

You said you went on a couple of dates with him there and there has to be something good.

What did he do?

Well?

You know, things started off good, everything was normal until after that first date.

Then, uh, you know, looking back, there were some things I really should have picked up on, and I definitely picked up on them after the second date.

So you're saying more of who he really is, he's getting more comfortable.

Yeah, I yes, yes he was.

He was getting more comfortable for sure.

Let's scarlette, what do you do?

Yeah?

It was the text he started sending after our date.

Okay, so after the first dates there were a different gifts he said, Like, one was in a reply to me texting him he was in trouble, and he replied with a gift of a woman twirling a leather whip.

What's so crazy.

Is that that maybe he has a weird sense of humor with guess you think?

Okay, well, yeah, I that's what I thought.

I wanted to think, you know, just you know, kind of being funny whatever.

But after the second date, I had the family stuff going on and was super busy at work, and previously we had been texting a lot, but you know, that week I really just didn't have as much time to text, you know, just back and forth, and after like an hour or two of me not replying, he was then just all of a sudden sense some sort of Dominatrix gif.

Oh I'm so cringey right now.

Yeah.

Like and one time even a video clip that like I really legitimately probably can't even talk about on the radio.

That's not that's ahead Yeah.

Sorry, scirle it.

Yeah yeah, that's that's Dennis's on the phone.

That's how second date up Day works.

Okay, Hey Dennis.

Yeah, look, I just want to say I thought we got pretty close to each other, So in my head, I was, why not let you in on that side of my life?

You know, that side of your life by like well, first of all, like what is that side of your life?

Like I guess you're into some kiky things, but then you're just like sharing it in random gifts and stuff like she's supposed to catch one.

Like seriously, dude, it was like the complete opposite.

It's honestly like made me run for the hills.

Like you may be into that cool for you, but I'm not.

Later oh she hung up, Yeah she's gone.

WHOA.

First of all, there's so many questions that we have.

Have you ever had success with like letting somebody know that part of your life through little gifts?

I mean?

Yeah?

In fact, I have one time I have this girl and.

We whoa, whoa.

Yeah, but then we.

Yeah, we can't talk about this on the radio.

Let's just let's just stop right there.

I'm not sure if there's an app for your lifestyle, Dennis, but I hope that you find it like an S and M app, and I hope that that works out for you somehow.

Dennis.

Okay, well, okay, Dennis.

I just think it's got to.

Be a little more open minded about this stuff and not jumped to conclusions.

No, we didn't jump anywhere.

You took us there.

You took us there, man, But thank you very much for being on second date.

Update.

Well all right, thank you guys.

This doesn't sound so shy at all.

That's not a shy person.