[SPEAKER_01]: M-S-W-M-E-E-M-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E-E [SPEAKER_01]: Hello, but again, welcome back to another episode of But Honestly, this week we have a booty caller with an STI testing question.

[SPEAKER_01]: Another booty gangster who isn't sure if his attraction is a fence and a hot daddy couple with a horse market sized email.

[SPEAKER_04]: But first, this is your reminder that But Honestly is an 18 in overpodcast for adult listeners.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, how was your new years?

[SPEAKER_04]: Did you have your nearest kiss?

[SPEAKER_04]: Did you guys know my one year's ball drop?

[SPEAKER_01]: I was on call.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, and it was pouring down right here.

[SPEAKER_01]: Absolutely.

[SPEAKER_04]: Just I mean almost never is it's a problem.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, something to tell for you.

[SPEAKER_04]: We pay too much for this kind of rain at all times.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm actually happy about the rain because my husband had this huge yard with all these palm trees and flowers and grass and stuff.

[SPEAKER_01]: And my husband.

[SPEAKER_01]: jacks up our water bill all the time by using the sprinkler system on that stuff and it's Rather upsetting when I get the bill every month.

[SPEAKER_01]: And so now I and now he has to turn it off for at least a week because we had so much rain So I'm like, yeah, yeah, I've been turning it off like I I was one night.

[SPEAKER_04]: It was like when I first got back from Miami [SPEAKER_04]: and I heard it kick on in the morning and like it like woke me up at the start.

[SPEAKER_04]: I was like, oh no, we don't like it.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, and if anyone who doesn't live in Southern California or in a desert area, we have to have sprinklers because we only get like 10 inches of rainy year and sometimes it can go without raining for like nine months here.

[SPEAKER_01]: So that's all we have on this system here.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, and also the sprinklers too, they have to be set on a certain way because of when you're allowed to water because every thing is very much like looked over your shoulder because of the dehydration.

[SPEAKER_04]: But apparently we're no longer in drought.

[SPEAKER_04]: We're a hunt.

[SPEAKER_04]: I guess the rotto reserve is like up 120% no good thing, which doesn't mean they're going to give us any discounts in water.

[SPEAKER_04]: But yeah, we sound like old men, the way we were talking about water bills.

[SPEAKER_01]: So anyway, I was on call [SPEAKER_01]: I fell asleep at nine o'clock on New Year's Eve and my ex texted me at 10-10 and woke me up and I turned I picked up the phone and I think I hit instead of hitting do not disturb which I have filtered the hospital and all the hospital doctors in the emergency room and my paging service on to get through.

[SPEAKER_01]: It went over to sleep mode, which doesn't allow anybody to contact me.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh God.

[SPEAKER_01]: So I woke up at five o'clock in the morning, I looked over at my phone, and I had like 11 frantic messages over this one case.

[SPEAKER_01]: And it ended up being someone whose family didn't want anything done anyway.

[SPEAKER_01]: No, gee.

[SPEAKER_01]: Because the lady had like, you know, in-stage malignancy.

[SPEAKER_01]: So it was kind of like, I got hit the panic button for what ended up being the reason at all.

[SPEAKER_01]: But it kind of, it taught me to, hey, check your phone every night, make sure that your your calls are going through the way you want them or don't want them.

[SPEAKER_01]: So that you don't screw up and when somebody really needs you because that could have been a lot worse.

[SPEAKER_01]: It could have been a lot worse, yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: Luckily, I have other business partners who were in town who could have also jumped in if they needed to, but this person was fine.

[SPEAKER_01]: Was, was fine.

[SPEAKER_01]: The, the doctor on call is just a little, [SPEAKER_04]: I think New Year's Eve is, it's amateur night for me, you know what I mean, like it is such an amateur night because it's like, I go out when I, when I go out, you know, and then not only that, but [SPEAKER_04]: events or my life, events or my business or my livelihood.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I had a couple of things going on at a the local casino around here, you know, I had some distractions and that sort of thing going on, but they were pretty self-sufficient and I had another one of my people like kind of covering them.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I didn't actually have to leave the house.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, very nice.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, which is really, really nice.

[SPEAKER_04]: And in those situations, it's usually like either my people work from home or they have to have a hotel and at the property.

[SPEAKER_04]: I want them on the road, you know, with [SPEAKER_04]: the amateurs who are drinking and whatnot.

[SPEAKER_04]: So, trying to remain, you know, really really responsible, but I ended up being sick after all.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh my god, like 48-hour bug.

[SPEAKER_04]: And yeah, I picked up Anthony from the airport, uh, [SPEAKER_04]: because he was just getting back on New Year's Eve.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I wasn't feeling very swift that morning.

[SPEAKER_04]: I was just feeling like something's wrong.

[SPEAKER_04]: And by the time I picked him up, I was like, oh, don't kiss me.

[SPEAKER_04]: You know what I mean?

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: I was like, I'm not, I'm not feeling great.

[SPEAKER_04]: And, um, [SPEAKER_04]: We got home.

[SPEAKER_04]: We ended up chilling on the couch, catching up on TV shows that we hadn't watched.

[SPEAKER_04]: This was very nice and sweet.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I was down for like, I was like, oh, I'm not feeling good at all.

[SPEAKER_04]: And [SPEAKER_04]: We ended up ordering pizza.

[SPEAKER_04]: I had one slice.

[SPEAKER_04]: I was in bed by nine o'clock.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I slept in one of the gas rooms.

[SPEAKER_04]: So we didn't sleep in the same bed.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, you know, and that's usually something that I'm a little bit like, you know, your New Year's Eve should be spent with, like, your partner should be in the same place.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, I don't like being separated from yours.

[SPEAKER_04]: We've done a couple of them where he's been like, [SPEAKER_04]: in Mexico, and I'm here, whatever, I don't like that.

[SPEAKER_04]: I like being under the same roof.

[SPEAKER_04]: But it was kind of cute because like Sadie, the little dog, she came over the room to check on me, and then she wanted up in the bed, and that bed in that guest room was like really high.

[SPEAKER_04]: So, she slept with me and the other doctor.

[SPEAKER_04]: Nicely think with Anthony, and so we each had her own dog to cuddle with.

[SPEAKER_02]: Good.

[SPEAKER_04]: And, you know, it's like the little benefit.

[SPEAKER_04]: So, my little family was under one roof.

[SPEAKER_04]: We ended up, yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: And then felt better, like you know, by Friday.

[SPEAKER_04]: And then I was, you know, kind of, just...

[SPEAKER_01]: I had some good quality time on my son on New Year's day.

[SPEAKER_01]: We were both huge college football fans and he came over.

[SPEAKER_01]: on New Year's Eve spent the night and then got up with me on New Year's Day and we watched college football day and that was really fun because we really haven't had a whole lot of one on one time together.

[SPEAKER_01]: Um, but we're the only two who like college football.

[SPEAKER_01]: So we finally had that moment to, to, to, to, to, to share.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I was fine.

[SPEAKER_01]: It was great games weren't that great.

[SPEAKER_01]: But I served for the last one, um, which sadly his favorite teen lost.

[SPEAKER_01]: And, um, but it was a little new game.

[SPEAKER_01]: And, um, other than that, you just kind of like, I was on call.

[SPEAKER_01]: So I had to keep taking, uh, questions from people who had procedures coming up.

[SPEAKER_01]: And they didn't remember the instructions or they, [SPEAKER_01]: went together to the pharmacy to pick up their preparation for their for their procedure and it wasn't better and it needed to call it in.

[SPEAKER_01]: This is a you know pain in the ass little things like that.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: Um, but um, and then you know, I started call on sat on 31st in the morning and I finished at this morning on Monday.

[SPEAKER_01]: So I've been on call for five days and I'm exhausted.

[SPEAKER_01]: But I'm just done.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: So do you have time often?

[SPEAKER_01]: So I'm actually on call again tomorrow night, but tonight is my first night of not being on call But yeah, so I'm a busy guy and I haven't really posted a whole lot because shit I have I don't have any time to where I'm exhausted But yeah, so that was pretty much my new years not a whole lot of I mean, I think we watched like [SPEAKER_01]: We're watching the new Rupal on Friday.

[SPEAKER_01]: I am taking it.

[SPEAKER_01]: I like that it's older girls.

[SPEAKER_01]: A little bit of old girls.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, Athena.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, hot.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, my gosh.

[SPEAKER_01]: She's amazing.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh, my god.

[SPEAKER_04]: He's like, it's a dude that would totally have broken my heart in college.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, he looks like somebody who would have would have destroyed me at one time in my life.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's a great cast.

[SPEAKER_01]: I like it.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm feeling it.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm really, really feeling the Canada's [SPEAKER_04]: Oh, I love them too.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: If y'all aren't watching Canada's Drag Race, it's wonderful because they're personality base queens and it doesn't have all the gloss of the regular US seasons.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, it doesn't have the $100,000 wardrobe at all.

[SPEAKER_04]: It feels like season like four regular Drag Race, it's season six of Canada's Drag Race, but they have figured something out.

[SPEAKER_04]: over there that it's just there's something about it that you want to watch it every week.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's entertaining.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's very very entertaining because there's other shows that like I gave up on Survivor.

[SPEAKER_04]: I have no idea what's going on over there.

[SPEAKER_01]: No, I got down to the final final four and then I gave up.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I just I didn't care anymore.

[SPEAKER_04]: I did not care.

[SPEAKER_04]: The people were not thing.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm ready for like the new season that's coming in February because we're getting season 50 with a bunch of like all stars again.

[SPEAKER_04]: So then we can start our whole discussions about survivor.

[SPEAKER_04]: You know that.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, I did check out.

[SPEAKER_02]: Uh-huh.

[SPEAKER_04]: Um, Spartacus, House of Asher.

[SPEAKER_01]: Uh-huh.

[SPEAKER_01]: Um, the dialogue is dumb.

[SPEAKER_01]: The swinging dick is hot.

[SPEAKER_04]: The dialogue is so like, the thing isn't said of saying like, you know, you can't harm her, like, you know, they have to be like, no harm shall come to her.

[SPEAKER_04]: You know what I mean?

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, yeah, it has to be like, this old world, everything has to be like, she's theorized.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: So be labored that, you know, they can say fuck 18 times in a salilla queen, but they can't like just get to the point of what they're saying.

[SPEAKER_04]: Right.

[SPEAKER_04]: I think it's so you really have to pay attention.

[SPEAKER_04]: Right.

[SPEAKER_04]: The violence on it, though, is woof.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yes.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's pretty violent.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Trigger warnings.

[SPEAKER_04]: Boyle or alert.

[SPEAKER_04]: Somebody gets to dick ripped off.

[SPEAKER_05]: I know, right.

[SPEAKER_04]: I don't think that's pretty awesome.

[SPEAKER_04]: There's a whole thing that happens there.

[SPEAKER_01]: But [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, it's a very, um, it's a very sexual show, uh, and mostly sexual towards men, like it's a lot of naked men.

[SPEAKER_01]: There's a gay character.

[SPEAKER_01]: There's gay characters.

[SPEAKER_01]: There's, um, you know, the whole, orgy scenes that happen and stuff like that.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's pretty high.

[SPEAKER_04]: Those are very colligula, like old-school, like, the thing that does kind of take me out of it, like when the guys are, because the guys are beautiful, the men are in this, their bodies are sick.

[SPEAKER_04]: But it does kind of suck that because they want them to appear as, you know, these Spartan gods.

[SPEAKER_04]: And then you find out later in these, [SPEAKER_04]: season when the one queen, you know, when when when when when when Caesar's wife, yeah, basically makes the men all strip in front of her.

[SPEAKER_04]: And it's because she wants to, you know, that if you're a Spartan, if you are competing with the gods, you have to have a huge dick.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I think that's the reason why that they did that in those earlier scenes with all the guys.

[SPEAKER_04]: I don't know if that's a spoiler, but it's just what it is.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_03]: But they're prosthetics, yeah, it's just kind of like, I want the real thing, give me the meats or the lack of meats.

[SPEAKER_03]: I just swear that we're really there.

[SPEAKER_03]: Where's the beef?

[SPEAKER_04]: I want to see the real swing because the thing is, don't move like that.

[SPEAKER_04]: Those dick moves like little pieces of like a styrofoam.

[SPEAKER_04]: You know what I mean?

[SPEAKER_04]: Like they just kind of like they like sway over and over.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I really thought we were going to see house about I would thought we were going to ask her.

[SPEAKER_04]: What's his name?

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I don't remember.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, and Ash are one that you thought we're going to see actually Ash's dick, but then they're just going to wake up.

[SPEAKER_04]: She's ass a lot though, but then spoiler alert like she's like, oh, shortcomings of a bubble.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh, come on.

[SPEAKER_04]: You didn't get many chances to like fluff out or anything, you know.

[SPEAKER_04]: Cool.

[SPEAKER_04]: Because other guys were totally fluffed with those big hands.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so so last last weekend wasn't very or this past week who wasn't very much for me next weekend is my birthday though you're going to be in San Antonio.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to be here and celebrate my 54th birthday I don't have anything planned.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm just going to be next year you're using big dogs.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, so yeah, round one.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so maybe maybe some of the big next year.

[SPEAKER_04]: I can make it pull party this weekend.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, right.

[SPEAKER_01]: Maybe a naked jacuzzi party.

[SPEAKER_04]: You can invite these Spartans over and have them swing their dicks around your mouth.

[SPEAKER_01]: I know, right?

[SPEAKER_01]: Look, okay.

[SPEAKER_01]: So anyway, so another cool thing that happened this weekend is I got asked to be a judge for Mr.

Chicago leather.

[SPEAKER_01]: And that's the booty getting got this preview already, but yeah, didn't get to hear it since you guys aren't paying the extra like three bucks or whatever it is January 30 February 1st I'll be in Chicago judging Mr.

Chicago leather and I'm so excited about it.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm staying with the super wiffy wolf is a go Nick's a go of him and I love him [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, check out his Instagram.

[SPEAKER_01]: He's very hot.

[SPEAKER_01]: And just really excited to be up there.

[SPEAKER_01]: It is going to be cold.

[SPEAKER_01]: I know that.

[SPEAKER_01]: But it's a leather weekend.

[SPEAKER_01]: So it'll be leather weather.

[SPEAKER_01]: And then the other thing I decided to do as I was telling you earlier in the in the in the pre show.

[SPEAKER_01]: I got a wild hair up my ass and decided to book bear carnival in Grand Canaria in March.

[SPEAKER_01]: And with a few days in Madrid, just prior to that.

[SPEAKER_01]: So I'm excited to be in Spain in March.

[SPEAKER_04]: I have to learn how to do all of your accents with an extra TH.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like for the Hello.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, that's only for people from my Barcelona, I think.

[SPEAKER_04]: So no, I'd like to be from everybody, okay?

[SPEAKER_04]: So you can go over to Spain, it has to be CCCC, C-C-C-C.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, like that's just how they talk.

[SPEAKER_01]: So yeah, so anyway, so I have a Palm Springs get away on Martin Luther King weekend.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm doing Chicago leather and into the month and then I'm working my butt off in February so that I can go to the Canary Islands and Madrid and in March.

[SPEAKER_04]: So yeah, you can be having fun.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm around here.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm working.

[SPEAKER_04]: I have things like I'm going to San Antonio, the, you know, the crazy San Antonio.

[SPEAKER_01]: I was fun.

[SPEAKER_01]: I had a good time there.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's a cute city.

[SPEAKER_01]: I love it.

[SPEAKER_04]: Most of my work is always on the weekend.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I have to like see what I can enjoy during the week.

[SPEAKER_04]: But yeah, I had to send my stay there.

[SPEAKER_04]: So it's going to be a whole thing.

[SPEAKER_04]: But we, um, [SPEAKER_04]: I know I need to make a trip back home to Ohio here at some point because I just haven't done so yeah because I didn't get to go home to go see my parents or anybody so I want to go see my nephew so who knows you guys maybe pop it up out there what I did hear those claw they move from because I try to go usually around like when claw's happening because it's a little bit Columbus or Ohio yeah move to Columbus this year which is wild certainly there are some issues with the hotel I think [SPEAKER_04]: There's all kinds of issues with the hotels in Cleveland.

[SPEAKER_04]: I think that also they kind of got word of like, you know, what's happening in the main, the main big hotel, I think it's probably been sold off or something.

[SPEAKER_04]: I don't know, don't quote me on that.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: But yeah, so it's a little bit of that.

[SPEAKER_04]: I haven't really even gotten what my, I'll know what my spring schedule is gonna be for travel, coming in like the next couple of months because then I get my pride schedules.

[SPEAKER_04]: And so I wanna try to [SPEAKER_04]: C new bars and things like that.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I'll keep you guys like a boost of to like where I'm going to actually be.

[SPEAKER_01]: So yeah, yeah, but one other date for the spring that I just got to is April 9 to 12 is the fissing weekend and spring blooms and Dallas, which I do every six months.

[SPEAKER_01]: So they're fissing.

[SPEAKER_01]: We another fissing weekend.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, what is the fissing weekend with where I [SPEAKER_01]: It's like, hey, it's reliable.

[SPEAKER_01]: I can always keep it hard.

[SPEAKER_04]: You can keep it hard.

[SPEAKER_04]: Just put a hand in there.

[SPEAKER_04]: Right, exactly.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's called rivets.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm gonna come with some like a mispeed puppet.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I just work with it.

[SPEAKER_04]: That's what I'm gonna do by my little hands.

[SPEAKER_04]: Well, it's like, hey, like, you make your hand like this.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I'm just gonna do it.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's a little piggy squeal.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm trying to think of there's anything else right now.

[SPEAKER_04]: uh okay let's take a quick break we're going to come back we have an article to go over okay they're funny at the 25 worst things that are stuck with people's bumps I'm going to come back that we'll be right back [SPEAKER_04]: And we are back, okay.

[SPEAKER_04]: So Dr.

Carlton, so here's what happens is that there are people in my life who don't listen to this podcast, but anytime something happens, and it involves the butt, they send me articles.

[SPEAKER_04]: And then there are also other people who do.

[SPEAKER_04]: And so one of the things I now have received, [SPEAKER_04]: from a quite a few people was this LAD Bible article, okay, and it was U.S.

government reels the 25 worst things stuck up people's bumps in 2025.

[SPEAKER_04]: So it's U.S.

government, by the way.

[SPEAKER_04]: I don't know how this, like, I don't know if this is what RFK is like really like focusing his time on, you know, but like it's so what they said was here, they said nearly 4,000 people in the US are hospitalized each year and it has cost the British people over three million dollars with this issue.

[SPEAKER_04]: So this has to do the, yep, the U.S.

government has released its running tally from doctors, the opposite.

[SPEAKER_04]: They remove from people's rectums.

[SPEAKER_04]: This trend has been documented for decades with the American Journal of Emergency Medicine, estimating that nearly 39,000 hospital visits a year are related to rectal foreign bodies.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's said that most patients are middle-aged and male with over half the cases involving sex toys.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, Dr.

Carlton, before we go into this little bit more, [SPEAKER_04]: How much have you actually been affected by the US problem of items stuck in whatnot or rectal bumps?

[SPEAKER_01]: Well, the people who take out those things are usually colorectal surgeons because of what they do is they go in and they knock the person out under General anesthesia, dilate the rectum, [SPEAKER_01]: And when the rectum is really dilated, they're reaching and they pulled out the the object, depending on what it is, I have been called on some of them with one of those Yankee candles up there, but like one of those why they can handle on a jar yeah like in the jar yeah in the jar so I've been called on that and I said just call surgery I can't pull that out with the camera.

[SPEAKER_01]: And then, and then I, I think I told you before I had like, I want to come see it, but I can't relate.

[SPEAKER_01]: That's funny.

[SPEAKER_01]: Um, the, uh, the one that I kind of got involved in, um, wittingly was this 80 year old man who came in the hospital with rectal pain and rectal bleeding.

[SPEAKER_01]: Mm-hmm.

[SPEAKER_01]: When I went into the room to interview him in Spanish, he basically said that, uh, [SPEAKER_01]: He hasn't told anybody else this yet, but what he had done was he had taken one of those Yackel, yogurt bottles.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's like maybe three inches long and plastic.

[SPEAKER_01]: And it's kind of like a slender cool thing.

[SPEAKER_01]: And because he didn't want his wife to find a dildo at home, he's been using that to fuck himself.

[SPEAKER_01]: And what happened was he, this three little, three inch thing got up in there and then it slipped up and got sucked up in his ass.

[SPEAKER_01]: Because there's quite a bit of suction.

[SPEAKER_01]: When you reach a certain point there, [SPEAKER_01]: and he couldn't get it back out so he reached his fingers up in there to try to grab it and when he grabbed the base of the plastic container, it flanged out like a fish hook.

[SPEAKER_01]: So he couldn't pull it out.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh God.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so this is traumatizing.

[SPEAKER_04]: I could never yogurt again.

[SPEAKER_01]: I just don't stick it up your ass you'll be fine.

[SPEAKER_04]: Well, how else am I supposed to get my daily [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, yeah, so that's the only one I've been directly involved in in that way, but I've had I've had at your hospital like what have you got from like what are like the things that you hear like the whispers You know like I'll every every hospital ER has an ass every hospital ER has an ass box Uh-huh, so like the ER has like a little x-rays of people who hard copy x-rays of people who Put something up their ass [SPEAKER_01]: And so, um, I think one of the scariest stories I ever heard was one of my friends who the ER doctor and Pittsburgh said that there was a guy up there who shut the light bulb up his ass.

[SPEAKER_02]: Ugh.

[SPEAKER_04]: Um, and the light bulb turned on because he puts you batteries in.

[SPEAKER_04]: But two D size batteries put in light bulb and then it turned on.

[SPEAKER_01]: It actually is shattered and it's shattered and exploded in there and the all those glass shards just ripped everything apart in there.

[SPEAKER_04]: That's like that horrible video that went around years ago of the guy who sat on like a glass jar or whatever it was and it was just like trigger warning.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh, okay, I already feel gross.

[SPEAKER_02]: Um, yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay.

[SPEAKER_04]: So what they say here is sometimes cases tend to go on a bit because people are trying to fix the situation themselves.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: So even meaning like you just mentioned the guy with the, uh, with the airport bottle.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: All right.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: Another case like that where there was the late care is because this one one very prominent person online Who I can't say their name.

[SPEAKER_01]: They they message me at two o'clock in the morning.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god.

[SPEAKER_01]: I was fucking myself with the dildo and I've been using silicon lube on it And it's not meant for silicon lube and half way through my session that broke off and inside of me and I can't get it out.

[SPEAKER_01]: What do I do?

[SPEAKER_05]: They're down.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, I'm like, like.

[SPEAKER_01]: So yeah, so I've had those questions a lot.

[SPEAKER_01]: But yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: So what are some of the things on the list that people shut up their ass?

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, so this is what defector shifted to the U.S.

consumer product safety commissions database.

[SPEAKER_04]: So that's where these can came from of emergency ribbons.

[SPEAKER_04]: And so here's what was thought to have been the worst 25 items of those other than sex toys such as a the likes of a 24 inch long dildo so that it was a two-inch two-foot dildo up somebody that they had on this list of impressive.

[SPEAKER_04]: But so the other things on here, screws and nails, the dog chew toy.

[SPEAKER_04]: Beard's Supper's wrapped in a plastic baggy sighted as being used as a constipation relief.

[SPEAKER_04]: Beard Clippers?

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, beard Clippers.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, I cannot put my manscaped up my ass.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, like, yeah, I mean, if it gets too close to my butt hole, it's like, it's gonna, [SPEAKER_04]: Nick it, you know, this person wanted to feel that vibration.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh, yeah, like this vibration, um, a baton, a turkey baster, a shampoo bottle, this was listed more than once.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, people are sitting on their shampoo bottles.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I want to know, was it like Beyonce sacred?

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, was it like, that has a weird shape to it, you know?

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, um, a dental pick, a wine stopper, a corn cob holder, [SPEAKER_04]: a highlighter, a magic wand toy, marbles.

[SPEAKER_04]: So it's just full of marbles.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's not.

[SPEAKER_04]: Let me try to give those back to their kids.

[SPEAKER_04]: What are you doing with those?

[SPEAKER_04]: A film canister, a sandal.

[SPEAKER_04]: A whole sandal can stand.

[SPEAKER_04]: That's pretty impressive.

[SPEAKER_04]: That's impressive.

[SPEAKER_04]: A door knob, a light bulb, inserted glass side forch, inserted glass side first, due to a suction effect.

[SPEAKER_04]: It got sucked up.

[SPEAKER_04]: That's the same thing here.

[SPEAKER_01]: That was the, yeah, I met it in the same case.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, a flashlight, a vape pen.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, I've taken a vape pen through the nose, but never through the ass.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like who is putting a vape pen in the ass?

[SPEAKER_01]: I mean, if you got a tough suction on it and you sucked a vape pen up your ass, could you get a little high, probably?

[SPEAKER_04]: I don't know.

[SPEAKER_04]: If it was marijuana, if it was marijuana, I wouldn't, I wouldn't imagine, like you know, people can like butt chug, you know, and yeah, I can put like, like a blow it out there.

[SPEAKER_04]: Well, they can, um, well, no, like, they can take like a tampon.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh, yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: vodka and you can be in your hole and like apparently that gets you, it gets it to your blood stream faster and people.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, a lot of people die, but, um, yeah, so not a vice at home.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, not a vice at home.

[SPEAKER_04]: It was like something I remember hearing about like Amy Weinhaus doing back in the day.

[SPEAKER_01]: I guess somebody had their whole gaping and you could blow smoke up their ass or something like that.

[SPEAKER_04]: I could blow smoke, but then also I think that when I'm saying is it's the whole absorption of like the of the vodka.

[SPEAKER_04]: I would think that maybe like an event pen.

[SPEAKER_04]: That, like, sometimes your vape and, like, leaks a little bit of, Oh, yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Really?

[SPEAKER_04]: Like the little, the fluid.

[SPEAKER_04]: You know, and it's inside of them, whatever that stuff is called.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like the wax, essentially.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like is that, like, connecting your hole and kind of get you a little bit stony, you know?

[SPEAKER_02]: Probably.

[SPEAKER_04]: Another thing was two pencils, not one, but two.

[SPEAKER_04]: And now I want to know where they end to end or side by side.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: A corn cob style pipe.

[SPEAKER_04]: because this motherfucker was frosty, yeah, right.

[SPEAKER_04]: The core part pipe in about in those in a whole full of coal.

[SPEAKER_04]: Um, on cooked pasta.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, you see this.

[SPEAKER_02]: Oh, no, it's kind of scratching.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, hair of glasses.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like where are my readers?

[SPEAKER_04]: Where are my And egg and then last but not least a rectangular travel toothbrush holder and egg that would be that's all where they try to like Lay an egg like a chicken or something [SPEAKER_04]: They want to give birth baby, but you see those like alien dick things with the eggs inside of them.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, people, there's an alien thing where you can stick it up your ass and you like deliver their delivered the eggs by squirting them out of your ass.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: How do you knock it those stuck up?

[SPEAKER_01]: I know, right?

[SPEAKER_01]: You can totally could.

[SPEAKER_01]: So when I, when I deal with stuff like this, it's usually not from that end.

[SPEAKER_01]: I usually get things people swallowed and a lot of the same stuff is stuff that I've had people swallow.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like I just, last week, I had somebody who had swallowed a toothbrush.

[SPEAKER_04]: And she was a, she's trying to get the back mullers.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, um, like, and I've, and I've had, um, had somebody swallow, well, well, we were content some of an eighth graders back pack that had like, [SPEAKER_01]: A pencil case, a pencil, an eraser, it had the Mark Twain book jacket, Huckleberry Finn, all rolled up and squished up into like a little, you know, highly folded over piece that they had followed.

[SPEAKER_01]: This is basically being bullied, like I don't know, but yeah, a lot of it is like [SPEAKER_01]: A lot of prisoners come into the ER with having swallowed razor blades as a quote, suicidal attempt so that they can come to the hospital and get knocked out and get them taken out and avoid being around the other prisoners for a couple of days, which is really annoying.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, honey, that's not how you kill yourself.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's just traumatizing all of that.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, it's a lot of some of it's a [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes it's accidental.

[SPEAKER_01]: I was on call one Christmas Eve when I, and this guy called me and said, I swallowed my hearing aid battery.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, why did you swallow your hearing aid battery?

[SPEAKER_01]: He goes, well, what?

[SPEAKER_01]: No, well, I took it out.

[SPEAKER_01]: That's what I took my hearing aid out.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I put the battery on the tip of my tongue to just hold it.

[SPEAKER_01]: And when I did that, I coughed and it would, and I accidentally swallowed it.

[SPEAKER_01]: flipping out, I don't know what to do.

[SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if this battery is going to burn through my colonel or what, but yeah, so yeah, I deal with a lot of foreign bodies, but mostly from the upper side of things.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, either way, y'all do not put stuff inside your body that isn't food.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, and well, it doesn't have a flared base.

[SPEAKER_01]: Well, I mean, yeah, you can put dicks and you can put sex toys in there, but it's got to have, it's got to be a proper sex toy.

[SPEAKER_01]: Don't be big and vegetables up your ass or candles or anything sharp don't make your own like they shouldn't be making your own sex toy, you know, like it's a little scary.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, we're going to go.

[SPEAKER_04]: We're going to be right back with your butts,iles and booty calls.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm just wondering, you know, for like SDI testing, they tell you, you know, don't urinate for a clean urin collection for like, kind of, we have a committee of testing.

[SPEAKER_00]: I was curious with the paintings similar for like clubs, like, if you go and get boxed and they still loop in your hole, you know, or you do feel really hard and then, you know, I don't know, like other things you could be doing that could actually cause a different [SPEAKER_00]: You know, false data, basically, because, you know, to have enough of the bacteria present or the loob you had in there might be covering it when you happen to put this blob in.

[SPEAKER_00]: Or some of these, which is pro, like if you had just used the mouthwash, like 30 minutes before going in, would have killed the off any of the bacteria that they need to test it.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I was just kind of curious about that.

[SPEAKER_00]: the other few areas that feel like they don't really have any prep behind, put the swab in the place and send it off.

[SPEAKER_00]: Thanks everyone.

[SPEAKER_01]: Great question.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: So preparation, you know, things that you should know before you go in for your swabs.

[SPEAKER_04]: So just want to make sure that it's clear to the people who have the soliciting.

[SPEAKER_04]: So what this caller was asking is essentially, you're going in for the testing that Dr.

Carlton always tells you guys to make sure that you guys get checked where you play, like Dr.

Carlton always says.

[SPEAKER_04]: If you're getting fucked in your ass, get your ass checked, you're taking your mouth or whatever, you're doing, you're looking something, make sure you check the throat.

[SPEAKER_04]: And then you're also peeing.

[SPEAKER_04]: And so this person they're asking, you know, like, you know, that you can usually get a pretty clear urine analysis because your urine's going to come out, they're going to take a big sample.

[SPEAKER_04]: But then when you're doing a swab in your ass or your mouth, the back of your throat, [SPEAKER_04]: they're saying like if you just did mouthwash is that going to kill the bacteria and or maybe if you have a bunch of lube in your whole will the bacteria still be present or if you've cleaned out really really deep.

[SPEAKER_04]: So Dr.

Carlton, yeah, you're saying here.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, and again, like those things are, these rectiline world swabs are important for garnering and climmediate testing.

[SPEAKER_01]: There's a new clear acid amplification test that's done by swab for both of those things because they are site-specific infections.

[SPEAKER_01]: So when it comes to the throat swab or oral swab, it's best to avoid mouthwash for about an hour before your throat swab.

[SPEAKER_01]: Because antiseptic mouthwashes, especially with those with the alcohol or a clorexity in it, can temporarily reduce bacteria and lower sensitivity testing for gunnery and median.

[SPEAKER_01]: Brushing teeth or drinking water is fine, though.

[SPEAKER_01]: The bottom line is if you've already used mouthwash earlier in the day, it's not a reason to cancel, but, you know, it's on the spin at least an hour.

[SPEAKER_01]: When it comes to the rectal swab, [SPEAKER_01]: A void-dushing, inamas, or rectal medications for 12 to 24 hours prior to testing if possible.

[SPEAKER_01]: When it comes to lube, lube is generally okay if it was earlier in the same day or the night before, small amounts of water-based lube generally don't affect the nucleic acid amplification test.

[SPEAKER_01]: Um, but again, generally it's best if you go in without having anything in your hole in the last say six to eight hours at least, so that you can get a really good Swab with nothing in there to interfere with picking up with your with your STI testing.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's so interesting.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I've heard of either of those things.

[SPEAKER_04]: So like for the mouth, you know, don't use your listerine an hour before.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay.

[SPEAKER_04]: So that that makes sense to me.

[SPEAKER_04]: But the whole your whole literally, you know that you're saying that you know 68 hours try not to put anything in there.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I mean, that's that's pretty easy for most people.

[SPEAKER_01]: You wait six hours, right?

[SPEAKER_01]: To beat for yourself.

[SPEAKER_01]: But again, a little bit of water-based loop is okay in there, but if you've applied a lot of it, just let the provider know so they can get a good deep swab in there.

[SPEAKER_04]: um to make sure they get everything um hey doc guess what i slept with eight people and one of them was an hour ago i think when they're always asking you how many people you slept with there you go that's right yeah i slept with 18 people one of them 20 minutes ago good luck wait okay so that makes me just think though okay so i'm gonna like sideline us on a [SPEAKER_04]: What if you just thought somebody with an SGI and they like came loads inside of you and you go get tested and that swab is really swab and that come, will it give you a positive for clim Media even if there's somebody else's come that's infected in you and they swab you.

[SPEAKER_01]: There's probably going to be a high.

[SPEAKER_01]: chance of the, you know, being positive, they're positive.

[SPEAKER_01]: Because it's low is right there.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, be doing them shots or them pails to get rid of whatever your person had, even though you may not necessarily have it, but the kind of side of you says, you are the father like, [SPEAKER_01]: But as I tell with everybody, check all your holes.

[SPEAKER_01]: Check, get check where you play.

[SPEAKER_01]: If you put it in your mouth, get your throat swab, you put it in your butt, get your butt swab, in addition to your intestine, your blood tests.

[SPEAKER_01]: Usually important, and it's one of the disservices to our community, that a lot of doctors don't check us properly for STI, so make sure you check all your holes.

[SPEAKER_01]: Let's see.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: So the other thing, DoxiePap, DoxiePap, DoxiePap, make sure that you're taking 200 milligrams DoxiePap within 24 preferably, maybe up to 72 hours after a high risk exposure.

[SPEAKER_01]: So you can decrease your risk of bacterial STIs.

[SPEAKER_01]: Especially good guy.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, so I was like, you know, just like looking on the apps perusing, if you will, you know, yes.

[SPEAKER_04]: Was it necessarily going to indulge with the buffet, but at least I want to know what's on the menu.

[SPEAKER_04]: And so I had opened up a grinder, which is not somewhere that I opened up regularly, because, you know, I don't love to pay to play.

[SPEAKER_04]: But somebody that I had hooked up [SPEAKER_04]: and I had to go ahead of scroll through our messages and it was like October, like the English of October.

[SPEAKER_04]: He mentions to me in a message that hey, was had some pain around my dick, blah, blah, blah, blah.

[SPEAKER_04]: And so I went in and I was tested and positive for Climitia.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I was like, okay, and then so my first thought was like, you know, well, I do doxypep and that sort of thing.

[SPEAKER_04]: And then I had like had like think back.

[SPEAKER_04]: And then I had to scroll through our messages and see like when was the last time we actually like messed around and it was October.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I was like, oh, I was tested November like 20th.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I was like, so I like sent a message.

[SPEAKER_04]: I was like, well, and honestly, I was tested at the end of November.

[SPEAKER_04]: I came back clear for everything.

[SPEAKER_04]: So that's on you.

[SPEAKER_04]: No, I didn't say it that way.

[SPEAKER_04]: No, I was tested at the end of November.

[SPEAKER_04]: And yeah, we've tested in November, and everything came out clear.

[SPEAKER_04]: Thank you so much for letting me know that something, you did something with you.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, that's great.

[SPEAKER_04]: Because I would have loved to, I said, thank you so much for letting me know.

[SPEAKER_04]: I appreciate that.

[SPEAKER_04]: And then I send a message that's just said, just so you know, I do what's called it.

[SPEAKER_04]: I do use Docs CPEP.

[SPEAKER_04]: you know, which does kind of clear you out for a lot of committee and syphilis situations.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I put that in like my little text message and then like the little star went the more you know.

[SPEAKER_04]: Don, don, don, don, don, don.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like I went through my message.

[SPEAKER_01]: But often if you got in those messages that people say, oh, I, I know that hooked up with you and I ended up having something.

[SPEAKER_04]: You gave me their day.

[SPEAKER_04]: No, um, though.

[SPEAKER_04]: No, I've probably gotten one of those like every I mean like once the six months You didn't count like yeah, it used to happen a lot more yeah like in the like like in the past I would say before doxie you know, I mean and especially before doxie I was like I'm so like the number one person to get stuff.

[SPEAKER_01]: You know, I mean like yeah for me Yes, yeah kept you on yeah for me.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's like I don't really use the hook-up abs anymore [SPEAKER_01]: The larger volume encounters have had a minute like in bars or bath houses or stuff like that.

[SPEAKER_01]: So you don't really hear back from those people because they have no way to contact you.

[SPEAKER_01]: So.

[SPEAKER_04]: No, that's like one thing, but like, no, I think that in the general of like people that like, if I'm connecting with you, like through an app, there has to be something that I'm finding a little bit more attractive than just action relationship, you know, I joke around about like, no, I don't want to date you, but at least want to look at something nice, yeah, like when it's inside you, like, but [SPEAKER_04]: I think that that's the thing, too, is it's just, you know, not being an asshole to other people, so then you can contact trace of like what's happening.

[SPEAKER_04]: Because that's one of those things that I think a lot of people they deal with is like, you know, then I, we had a nice night and it was fun and then I left and then I was blocked, you know what I mean.

[SPEAKER_04]: And.

[SPEAKER_04]: like I may not like what we did, you know what I mean in the sense that I wasn't really into it, you know, like I just like had sex to have sex and it wasn't because it was like it wasn't somebody I'm going to go back to repeat with, but I don't really block those people because I want to do because I want the situation of contact tracing if somebody knows that they get tested two weeks later that they have climidia [SPEAKER_04]: I do want to know because I do want to also be able to check myself and be able to say, okay, when's the last time we hooked up like I did?

[SPEAKER_04]: And when's the last time I was tested to see like do I fall in any of that range?

[SPEAKER_04]: And I just so happened to that I did not fall in that range.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I doxie pep.

[SPEAKER_04]: So it's, um, I've only had two once, like, you know, I had [SPEAKER_04]: And I had to go back and like let a few people know like, hey, you know, I got the clap, blah, blah, blah.

[SPEAKER_04]: You know, yeah, and you just have to like, and you have to suck it up.

[SPEAKER_04]: And the reason why I, it was selfish, and it was just because like I want to hook up at this motherfucker again, I need to know.

[SPEAKER_04]: So he goes and gets rid of whatever he's going on with him.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: I've had that backfire on me one time.

[SPEAKER_01]: Really.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, because I had a guy [SPEAKER_01]: Um, beautiful guy and wasn't playing around with me other people, um, at least he said he wasn't.

[SPEAKER_01]: And we hooked up before I got my STI testing and ended up coming back positive for electrical media or something like that.

[SPEAKER_01]: And so I had to call him, hey, you know, sorry to tell you this, but, you know, he should probably say, I got a hot hole.

[SPEAKER_01]: You should probably taste no literally.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: I talked to your doctor about getting tested and maybe treated for for Columbia and he did begrudgingly he came back.

[SPEAKER_01]: We played again like a month later and he had kind of forgiven the situation.

[SPEAKER_01]: And then I had gone to I think it may have maybe even been in Susia and I got my testing the next week and [SPEAKER_01]: It was positive again this time in the throat and I'm like god damn it.

[SPEAKER_01]: So I had to call him back and say hey Sorry, I got another hot hole And he's like are you fucking kidding me?

[SPEAKER_01]: He's like what's going on with you?

[SPEAKER_01]: He goes I've I've been having sex for five years with people I've never gotten an STM [SPEAKER_01]: instead of my dude in all in the last 10 years these are the only two STIs I've ever even got.

[SPEAKER_04]: But maybe other people aren't being true with your ass it's not telling you hey I got something a lot of times people are just as soon to just like disengage for three weeks and then they show back up all of a sudden on the apps and you're like where have you been and it might be because they were out of commission for a second and they didn't tell anybody [SPEAKER_04]: Um, I got a hot hole.

[SPEAKER_04]: It has to be the episode title.

[SPEAKER_04]: That's that's title of the week.

[SPEAKER_04]: I got a hot hole.

[SPEAKER_04]: Um, that's what everybody's been saying.

[SPEAKER_04]: That's rough.

[SPEAKER_04]: Go ahead and go.

[SPEAKER_04]: And we're going to come right back.

[SPEAKER_04]: We have two more emails for you guys.

[SPEAKER_04]: I got a hot hole.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay.

[SPEAKER_04]: And we're back.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, Dr.

Carlton, this one is a little bit more deep when we talk about sex socializing love and butt stuff.

[SPEAKER_01]: And this is a, I like this question.

[SPEAKER_01]: This is a great question.

[SPEAKER_04]: Slash love section of of of our spectrum.

[SPEAKER_01]: And, and I like the depth of this, that this person is showing in asking this question honestly and really wanting to make sure that there's not doing something that's harmful to people.

[SPEAKER_01]: I really, I really admire that.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, and this person does not have a hot hole.

[SPEAKER_04]: We don't know of it's a different kind of a question.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: So yeah, I've always I was speaking with a friend of mine recently about types.

[SPEAKER_01]: I personally don't feel like I have a type as I am open to who ever happens to catch my eye.

[SPEAKER_01]: However, this conversation led me to realize that I have a tendency to be attracted much more towards Asian men.

[SPEAKER_01]: For context, I am Mexican and married to a Filipino man.

[SPEAKER_01]: We are in an open [SPEAKER_01]: often have thirds over and most of them tend to be Asian.

[SPEAKER_01]: But that being said, my question is, is there a difference between having a type and fetishizing a group of people?

[SPEAKER_01]: My friend mildly accused me of having an Asian fetish, which doesn't sit well with me, since fetishizing groups of people has negative connotations.

[SPEAKER_01]: Furthermore, what would be the difference between a type, a fetish, or a kink?

[SPEAKER_01]: I honestly don't know the difference and want to correct my behavior, accordingly, if needed.

[SPEAKER_01]: Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.

[SPEAKER_01]: I appreciate you boys and what you do for our community and beyond.

[SPEAKER_01]: Respectfully, Nigel.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, so I have a few different thoughts here.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, so like let's address like the whole thing about between having like a type and a fetish.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: So because when you bring in kink, that's a whole other side thing.

[SPEAKER_04]: Cause kink's the fetishes or something else.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: We'll talk about that too, yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, and so, but a, but the type, you know what I mean?

[SPEAKER_04]: I think it has to do with certain, [SPEAKER_04]: attributes, attributes, that a person attributes, that certain attributes, yeah, my education will come out someday.

[SPEAKER_04]: But that has to do with something there.

[SPEAKER_01]: So I think like if you're like, you know, you're drawn to like your energy looks or style or something like that.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, but the thing is is like, what is the rate main reason that you're attracted to somebody?

[SPEAKER_04]: Is it because this person is Asian?

[SPEAKER_04]: Right.

[SPEAKER_04]: Then we're bordering on an issue here.

[SPEAKER_04]: You know, that's because yeah, but if it's because like, well, and this can be a very retouchy way that I'm going to put this.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I'm going to say this way.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm going to do with Latin men because I'm Latin.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I can talk about Latin people this way instead of saying about somebody that's Asian.

[SPEAKER_04]: But I think that, like, if somebody was like, I only day Latin dudes, you know what I mean?

[SPEAKER_04]: Because they got big dicks and they like to pull hair.

[SPEAKER_04]: Well, like the thing is, it's like, that's a fetish.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like that is your fetishizing somebody.

[SPEAKER_04]: But if you're more in the hand-hand [SPEAKER_04]: on the side of eye day latindues because they're super passionate and they love their family.

[SPEAKER_04]: There's a difference there in that typing, the border lines on feticization, feticization, feticisization, but there's a, it's the way if you're going at it with a positive or negative, you know, and I'm right.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: So like, so if you're, if you have a type, it's just you're interested in a person.

[SPEAKER_01]: But the specific trade isn't what draws you to them.

[SPEAKER_01]: I tend to like Asian guys that's about who catches your eye.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: I tend to, you know, when it becomes a fetish, like you said, a person's identity becomes the sexual objects.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's about a category or group.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like the identity is required for arousal individually is individuality a secondary.

[SPEAKER_01]: So that's where problems arise.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, yeah, and I think when fetish it fetish it fetish it fetish it.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, Jesus Christ.

[SPEAKER_04]: Let's wrong with me today.

[SPEAKER_04]: Anyways When that happens, I think it's [SPEAKER_04]: When you're making a fetish of somebody that has to do with like their ethnicity, when it has to do with their with their race, you know what I mean?

[SPEAKER_04]: Like that's when it becomes a problem.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I think to fetishize somebody doesn't just need to be in the connotations of like Asian men or Latin men.

[SPEAKER_04]: Right, you know what I mean?

[SPEAKER_04]: It could also have to do with like, [SPEAKER_04]: I only date Harry men because of XYZ, you know what I mean?

[SPEAKER_04]: So there's a different way and I think there's a way that you go into it with your, um, yeah, I think another thing as well, is it's like, [SPEAKER_01]: You know, if you, if you like Harry guys, but you're open to other guys, I think that's more of a type than a fetish thing, but if you only date somebody at their Harry, that's, that's yeah, that's the fetish part of things.

[SPEAKER_01]: So the person comes first, the kink is is optional and negotiated.

[SPEAKER_01]: So, you know, things like role play and uniforms and power exchange and stuff like that.

[SPEAKER_01]: So the kink is a totally different thing than fetish, fetish, or...

[SPEAKER_04]: The way I've heard this, I'm going to say the guy from Sniffies, I think they're marketing officer.

[SPEAKER_04]: I believe that he said this, that I cannot remember his name and I apologize for that.

[SPEAKER_04]: But it's a gentleman he was on, that's a very gay ass podcast, I'm going to look it up with Eric.

[SPEAKER_04]: But he was on there and they were discussing, um, [SPEAKER_04]: kink versus fetish.

[SPEAKER_04]: And when it gets into what do you call it?

[SPEAKER_04]: His name is Eli Martin.

[SPEAKER_04]: I wanted to make sure I found it out.

[SPEAKER_04]: OK, so it's a sniffy, yeah, they're chief marketing officer.

[SPEAKER_04]: When they talk about like kink versus fetish, is that like kink is like, I like a singlet, but fetish is I like to wrestle.

[SPEAKER_04]: do you know anything about like this is what you kind of this is what sexually arouses you but this is the action this is the actionable thing that makes me really get off.

[SPEAKER_01]: I had a three-way comparison thing that I found on type versus King versus fetishization and it's had type as I'm attracted to people like this.

[SPEAKER_01]: King is I'm excited for by this dynamic regardless of who you are.

[SPEAKER_01]: fetishization is, I'm excited because you are this, so yeah, so I think that's a good way to kind of separate out the three.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, so we have one more today.

[SPEAKER_04]: The subject is, this is a nice little show fodder.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's a dirty one guys subject, booty call at or smart kid.

[SPEAKER_04]: My husband and I live in a major city in the southeast United States.

[SPEAKER_04]: Recently, we saw an advertisement for a horse market event being held locally.

[SPEAKER_04]: We registered as stallions, and when we got there, it appeared as there were about 50 stallions waiting to be led up to the mayors.

[SPEAKER_04]: We enter the room where the mayors were all hooded up and ready to be mounted.

[SPEAKER_04]: There were about 20 to 25 mirrors of all ages, shapes, and sizes.

[SPEAKER_04]: I quickly found a guy in a sling and they started opening him up, then started pounding his ass.

[SPEAKER_04]: My husband was working on a guy across the room, where both kind of exhibitionists and really enjoyed seeing the other stylians watching us work the guys over and rooting us on.

[SPEAKER_04]: We ended up fucking about 20 different mayors before finally coming in our holes of choice.

[SPEAKER_04]: And thanks to DoxyPet, we both tested negative for STI's.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, and you saw the picture I sent you Dr.

Carlson in this couple.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, this couple's hot.

[SPEAKER_01]: Hot daddy's like, I was like, okay, um, I would say, okay, um, [SPEAKER_01]: Like, you want to put on a mask on?

[SPEAKER_04]: I like to put it on, please.

[SPEAKER_04]: Double style.

[SPEAKER_04]: Double stallions, but like, yeah, hot, hot, hot, hot.

[SPEAKER_04]: Thank you so much for this letter.

[SPEAKER_04]: Um, I mean, the fact that they were enjoying about 20 to 25 mayors, like these guys had some stamina.

[SPEAKER_01]: They, they, I mean, I don't know.

[SPEAKER_01]: They took the try and mix for the Viagra or something.

[SPEAKER_04]: They were, they were, they were, yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, they said southeast, which makes me believe this is probably the Fort Lauderdale one.

[SPEAKER_04]: So, is there one in Atlanta?

[SPEAKER_04]: No, I don't think I just was a lot or no, probably.

[SPEAKER_04]: I think there was a Fort Lotter to one, which means I'm going for it.

[SPEAKER_04]: Lotter Dale.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I was, I was at one of those claw not claw Cleveland, sorry, the L.A.

leather getaways and they had to have one and my friend went and he'd never been before, but it'd always been his fantasy to do it.

[SPEAKER_01]: So human is a stallion and he said they're all these bottoms lined up down there that for to be mayors and obviously there were some porn stars down there too that were bottom and had these big beautiful asses that everybody was automatically attracted to and he said there was this poor guy in the corner who nobody was touching and he said the guy started crying and saying [SPEAKER_01]: Somebody please, fuck me, please.

[SPEAKER_01]: And he said it broke his heart and he had to leave because he was so disturbed by this guy crying.

[SPEAKER_01]: Because he felt so bad for him.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, why didn't you just stick your dick in him?

[SPEAKER_01]: Just go put your dick in that.

[SPEAKER_01]: Go, go.

[SPEAKER_04]: Give it everything, girl.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I mean, cheese.

[SPEAKER_01]: But yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: I think it's a thing because those things are like the, please, you've done this before you wrote this up, but you, please, you were mayor, you were mayor of the, of the, um, I have taken an award.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, but the, um, I mean, the whole thing about these, those, those kind of events.

[SPEAKER_04]: I mean, like, it's just, it's about the excess.

[SPEAKER_04]: and the ambiguity you know what I mean like because as a um the stallions can see everything they're not blindfolded they rire what they do is they like put the stallions in one side they're usually at the venues um they usually require at least two entrances from a venue [SPEAKER_04]: because then they send, you know, mayors to the back door, stallions to the front.

[SPEAKER_04]: They tell the mayors have a earlier start time to get there so then they can go check in and be inside before the stallions come through.

[SPEAKER_04]: So then the mayors can't see who's who.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's, I mean, it really is built on this whole thing of, [SPEAKER_04]: not being able to see, you know, who's fucking you, you know what I mean?

[SPEAKER_04]: It's more I experience that way.

[SPEAKER_04]: And then the stallions, with these two stallions, it's all about the fact of like, how virile can you be?

[SPEAKER_04]: Can you really give it to a few guys before, you know, taking it home with somebody, but like, by taking it home, I mean, coming.

[SPEAKER_04]: But like, there's [SPEAKER_04]: there's a lot of that.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I think that when you when you mentioned that, you know, like the one in LA where, you know, they bring in a couple like porn star guys, it really is about the luck of the draw as what they say.

[SPEAKER_04]: You know what I mean?

[SPEAKER_04]: Sure.

[SPEAKER_04]: Because they really do like to say a lot in like their advertising and everywhere else, you know, and like in like I want to see they have like a a telegram group and that's what [SPEAKER_04]: Um, it really is about, you know, all body types, all shapes, all sizes.

[SPEAKER_04]: You can't, you know, you don't see the person's face.

[SPEAKER_04]: You can't really tell if they're Asian or Latino or, you know, you can tell if somebody's clearly black or, you know, white.

[SPEAKER_04]: That sort of thing.

[SPEAKER_04]: That's pretty apparent.

[SPEAKER_04]: But when you start bringing somebody in who has like very, very tell-tale tattoos, you know, like how porn stars with, with really, really well-known, you know, looks or content creators [SPEAKER_04]: Um, it does kind of make a little bit of an uneven playing field on the sense of like, you know, you walk in and there's, you know, I can't think of any like major superstar bottoms at the moment, but like, you know, you see somebody that you know, there's a Francois regard.

[SPEAKER_04]: Armando, Armando, Rizzo, or somebody like that, yeah, somebody like that that you know that like somebody that you've always dreamed about fucking and now they're all a sudden literally in front [SPEAKER_04]: saying anybody, you know what I mean?

[SPEAKER_04]: Just throw it in.

[SPEAKER_04]: I can see where like bringing a few porn stars in can be a very, very intimidating and really kind of, you know, back thing.

[SPEAKER_04]: When I participated, I did one at one of these like conference kind of things.

[SPEAKER_04]: And so there were a good amount of like, [SPEAKER_04]: leather title holders and guys who were porn stars and adult creators and then just a bunch of regular guys and a bunch of really old guys like old guys with like stacked bodies but you can't tell that they got old face because they're like hooded so you know when somebody that people normally aren't like attracted to in the face and all of a sudden you were kind of their [SPEAKER_01]: It's an equalizer.

[SPEAKER_01]: Equalizer, that's what I was trying to think of.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yes, it's a great equalizer.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like that.

[SPEAKER_04]: That's the thing.

[SPEAKER_04]: And so, yeah, so it just, you do feel bad for some of these types.

[SPEAKER_04]: But then also it is a body type thing.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: You know, like we, we're getting back into that type versus fetish fetish, fetishization.

[SPEAKER_04]: She's just wrath.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, that's all that I've been talking about.

[SPEAKER_01]: What he can't say, fetishization.

[SPEAKER_04]: I had a whole.

[SPEAKER_04]: But like, it's like a, you know, it's, um, [SPEAKER_04]: There's just certain body types that some people, they just, they're not into and so they don't keep it up, but then I think that's the beauty about an event like this, this marketplace kind of a thing is that I think some guys realize that, you know, they've never fucked a fatty and all of a sudden they're behind a big old bear and they're realizing, oh my God, this is something I'm actually into.

[SPEAKER_04]: I like this.

[SPEAKER_04]: I like how this skin moves a little bit differently.

[SPEAKER_04]: I like how I can hold on to this ass differently than this.

[SPEAKER_04]: So there's a little bit of that there, too, is that, you know, these guys, they can go to like a horse market and kind of get a whole new.

[SPEAKER_04]: They can find a whole new thing that they might be into that they've never thought about before.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay.

[SPEAKER_04]: We need to wrap this up.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I have a new segment that I told the guys about recently that I was thinking about.

[SPEAKER_04]: And it was just kind of like in the grand nature of like on [SPEAKER_04]: You know, fat and fat, the black fat and femme pod cast with Dr.

John Paul, he's got a whole thing called like no man Pam and on less culture racers, they have their whole, you know, I don't think so hunting and so a lot of people, they sometimes they can put something down that they don't really agree with.

[SPEAKER_04]: So while we love language, love languages, and we're going to end on that because it's always a good plan to end on a good note, but [SPEAKER_04]: It was cruising around and I still wanted to do this like whole like a little bit of a rancy kind of a thing.

[SPEAKER_04]: We're not going to have the time these are anything but we were listening to holiday music.

[SPEAKER_04]: We were riding around out there in Florida and you guys got a random text message about this.

[SPEAKER_04]: And it's the line in the Grinch song, you know, that I wouldn't touch you with the 39 and a half foot pole, you know, that whole thing right this was, you know, let's change it to instead of 39 it's 69 because it's us that's about honestly, you know, we make things over at least actual, but so what I want to preference this with is so that we will say like I wouldn't touch.

[SPEAKER_04]: blank, and we fill on the blank with a 69 and a half foot pull.

[SPEAKER_04]: And the thing is is and then give a couple reasons why a couple pull up points.

[SPEAKER_04]: We don't have to time this out.

[SPEAKER_04]: We will make this like 30 seconds or a minute or anything like that.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, just kind of give a couple good reasons why.

[SPEAKER_04]: And this can be anything.

[SPEAKER_04]: I wouldn't touch pickles with a 69 and a half foot pull.

[SPEAKER_04]: I wouldn't touch, you know, whatever.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Scatplay with a 69 and a half whole other certain things that you know that just there no no goes for you So do you want to do this first or do you want me yeah, I can go first.

[SPEAKER_01]: Okay, I Wouldn't touch people who air their dirty laundry on Facebook with a 69 and a half-lit poll [SPEAKER_04]: Okay, so I saw you mention this.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I saw you vague post about this.

[SPEAKER_04]: Can you give us a little bit of like what that dirty laundry is that you saw that somebody vague book done out there?

[SPEAKER_01]: Um, there's been a bunch of drama in the leather community this year.

[SPEAKER_01]: Okay, all right.

[SPEAKER_01]: And all these people are posting shit about bad mouthing other people and, um, making claims about, um, [SPEAKER_01]: threats or misdeeds or actions that were done that I mean some of these things are like their legal consequences if you aren't being truthful about the stuff you know and you could really get you getting big trouble but I mean I don't think it really serves the purpose that people think it does like people only see you doing this and then thinking oh my god [SPEAKER_01]: What's up with this clean?

[SPEAKER_01]: That's the last person I want to be a friend with, this person who's just like talking shit about people.

[SPEAKER_04]: because if somebody has that kind of vitriol in the public sense about one person, what do I have to do for you to do that back to me, eventually?

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I mean, that's the little bit of a scary thing there.

[SPEAKER_01]: Is that something that's been getting under my skin for the last several months?

[SPEAKER_01]: And finally, I just kind of exploded last night and put it on Facebook as Jesus Christ.

[SPEAKER_01]: Stop airing your dirty laundry on Facebook for everybody to see.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's not serving the purpose you think it does.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, I have one that is just a little bit random and I'd be personal, because, um, but I wouldn't touch.

[SPEAKER_04]: people who post photos of just their mouth slash tongue with spitties like sweaty, blip kind of things with a 69 and a half foot pull.

[SPEAKER_04]: I do not love when guys send me photos of just their mouth because it feels so dexter like when it's just a picture of close up of like their mouth a little bit of teeth usually like their tongue out.

[SPEAKER_01]: Wait, people are like, are they showing their [SPEAKER_01]: Is that the, like, delete photo that they're sending you or what's going on?

[SPEAKER_04]: I sometimes get that, yeah, is like a lead photo on the apps when you're scrolling through and somebody thinks, it's like somebody's been told a million times that, oh, you got a pretty mouth or something.

[SPEAKER_04]: And that's the, that's what the feature that they lead by.

[SPEAKER_04]: And there is just something so like black to me about it all.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's just, I don't know why it does nothing for me, [SPEAKER_04]: you know like there's a guy who I follow who is beautiful and he's like I feel like he's newer to this adult content creator thing you know and got this amazing ass I've seen the ass shots I'm into it like he can shake that ass like you can't believe but then he has all these photos that are just primarily of like Dennis visit type of mouth photos like of just like tongue and some teeth.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I just think, uh, tongue like mouse or gross, right?

[SPEAKER_04]: Like they're dirty.

[SPEAKER_04]: They smell, you know what I mean?

[SPEAKER_04]: Like you really got to be good with your mouth.

[SPEAKER_04]: But like there's just something that just does not do it for me.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I would not touch wet, mouth, tongue, lip, teethodos with a 69.5.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, so that's my little rant.

[SPEAKER_04]: Let's get into like the sweet things here.

[SPEAKER_04]: So you guys, we like to leave you guys with that little fluff and love stuff.

[SPEAKER_04]: We're jogging love languages, not just the five love languages, acts of service, quality time, words of affirmation, physical touch and receiving gifts.

[SPEAKER_04]: What is your love language this week?

[SPEAKER_04]: One serious, one superficial.

[SPEAKER_01]: Um, let's see, we think about this so for the serious one, I think it is, um, some of the thoughtfulness that a lot of people have displayed, um, in contact with me about the podcast and how it's, they enjoy it, how they see it as, [SPEAKER_01]: an opportunity for men to talk about what's going on in their lives and bring great information to the gay community about sexual education and sexual health without judgment, shame, or humiliation.

[SPEAKER_01]: So I, I mean, it just seems like everywhere I turn, if I turn on Instagram, if I turn on Scruff or something, it was like, oh you're that guy who does that, but honestly podcast, I really like that podcast.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's really good.

[SPEAKER_01]: And so that's really meant a lot to me, so thank you for all those who've reached out and say that you've enjoyed the podcast, it really means a lot to us and keep us going.

[SPEAKER_01]: What about your serious one for the week?

[SPEAKER_04]: So I have, um, you won't let you superficial go with that because my nerve both a little bit like fluffy, but the same time they mean something to me.

[SPEAKER_04]: So.

[SPEAKER_01]: Um, superficial is just, I'm excited that this week I planned a bunch of little getaways for me and my husband because I just need to get away, so serious one though, too.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's serious, but, but I mean, it's, it's, it's, um, it's needed.

[SPEAKER_01]: I, I, we need some time together.

[SPEAKER_01]: We need to get away.

[SPEAKER_01]: We need to go party.

[SPEAKER_01]: We need to have fun and leave a little responsibility behind.

[SPEAKER_01]: So, look forward to that.

[SPEAKER_04]: So my kind of serious one is my my love language is we finally after about 14 years have gotten a new bed new bed rain a new mattress I had the most amazing sleep yesterday like and apparently we got like one of those situations that [SPEAKER_04]: The automated beds, you know, so like you can bring the head up and the feed up, but all that sort of a thing that you decided to go with that.

[SPEAKER_04]: So apparently last night, I started to snore a little bit and my husband just pressed that little up button.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I stopped snoring, and I didn't even know anything about it.

[SPEAKER_04]: It was like, because I didn't do it with me, because I was asleep.

[SPEAKER_04]: So our new bed is my new love language right now.

[SPEAKER_04]: It is beautiful.

[SPEAKER_04]: It is wonderful.

[SPEAKER_04]: I am so happy to sleep.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm excited to get into it tonight, okay?

[SPEAKER_04]: And then my, my superficial one, even though the bed is kind of superficial, but at the same time, whatever, it's important to us as a relationship.

[SPEAKER_04]: But my superficial one, [SPEAKER_04]: girl.

[SPEAKER_04]: We have gotten so many of these wonderful gifts from my clients and colleagues and sees candy just always gets me.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh God, these candies are delicious.

[SPEAKER_04]: I love it.

[SPEAKER_04]: Dark chocolate like this my thing my husband's all into the might milk chocolate.

[SPEAKER_04]: I can take that a leave it But the dark chocolate situation and so those scotch mollows and the Mars a pan darks Yeah, move out of my way mother fuckers [SPEAKER_04]: That's my love language right now.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's dark chocolate from C's, can you?

[SPEAKER_02]: My precious.

[SPEAKER_04]: So into it.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I know that this company may have issues.

[SPEAKER_04]: You know what?

[SPEAKER_04]: I've given up other things.

[SPEAKER_04]: You know what I mean?

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, I did not give up my C's yet.

[SPEAKER_04]: So don't tell me about it.

[SPEAKER_04]: Diabetes.

[SPEAKER_04]: Absolutely.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, so thanks to you guys so much for tuning into but honestly but Tyler email us at but honestly podagemo.com listen you guys we really need your father we have a bunch of things in the chamber but [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, send your questions, send your stories, send your comments, whatever you can.

[SPEAKER_01]: We want it for the show.

[SPEAKER_01]: Make it fun, because today we got some really good ones this week.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: And we have a few good ones that are going to be coming to you guys for next week.

[SPEAKER_04]: We had to today actually had to take some of the emails and throw them at Dr.

Carlton and say, put a thumbs up next to the ones you want to touch today, because we do have, we have some good fodder that's in there.

[SPEAKER_04]: But we want to hear from all of you guys.

[SPEAKER_04]: We want to hear new experiences and let us know what's going on.

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