She can keep in mind, everything's fine, you got all that you need, Curry and the Keeper.

Yeah, Curry and the Keeper.

Curry and the Keeper, October 15th, 2025, episode 145.

Curry and the Keeper.

And, hello my queen.

With you I always feel like I'm 18.

Oh.

Hey.

Hi.

Hey, hi, hi.

I wonder what you were like when you were 18.

Exactly the same.

Were you exactly the same?

I had less hair then.

I had very short, nerdy hair.

Oh.

Yes, very nerdy hair.

Okay.

And I drove a moped.

Oh.

The wrong kind.

Well, I thought you were on TV at 18, no?

No, 19.

19.

It was like a switch.

It was one week to the next.

I was nerd, and then I was nerd on TV.

I'm sure then you were like superstar then shortly thereafter, right?

Or did you wait until your hair grew out a little bit?

You know what?

I remember that after that, because it was live.

The first show was live.

I did the first whole season that I did was live.

Were you scared?

Are you kidding me?

I was scared out of my wits because half the country watched television.

You know, so it was a time of 14 million people.

So 7 million people would watch it.

Sunday night at 7 p.m.

Everybody was watching.

And I remember, I think it was one of the producers, he said, okay, great show.

And now I'm going to decompress.

We're going to this place called The K, The Rock, which was in Hilversum.

The K.

The K.

The K.

K-E-I.

The K.

The K.

The K.

The K.

The K.

And she said, this will be very cool.

So he went there to have just a beer.

And, you know, because I was like, I was tripping.

And he says, now watch.

and people would come in and go, hey, I just saw you on TV.

And it was a very weird experience.

Did you have a script or did you have like a teleprompter?

No, the teleprompter didn't even exist back then.

They had cue cards if you needed them.

No, that was early eighties.

But I would, we would rehearse for hours during the day and I would kind of have my script.

And then luckily I had a, the director was a former disc jockey, Leo van der Gote.

And the reason why that was important is because we wanted to kind of string it all together and have the, because we were doing video clips as well.

Those are very early days for video clips.

And so you kind of want to start them while I'm talking into the intro.

But back in those days, when you started the tape, it took seven seconds for the tape to sync up and get ready.

So they had to have a seven second pre-roll.

So he would be listening to me and getting in the groove and timing when he would start it thinking, okay, Adam's almost done.

So it was a very interactive experience with the crew.

Wow.

Yeah.

I learned how to do everybody's job.

Did you?

Yeah.

That way I could say, hey, you know, could you adjust my lighting a little bit?

My eyes look so dark.

Hey, well, cheers me.

Yes, indeed.

Sorry.

Well, you took me on the top.

Wow.

You're drinking something fancy there.

Wait, this is my glass.

There's Tina.

I'm drinking Richard's sparkling rainwater.

I am drinking, oh, I forgot the bottle.

This is what Patrick Coble brought us.

Oh, yes.

Sir Patrick.

Something Silver Creek.

Yes.

It's so good.

It has a little bite to it, so you won't like it that much.

I won't like it.

Yeah, I don't like bitey wine.

3,500 people a month listen to the show.

Okay.

Oh, okay.

We were talking about this.

All right.

Because I said, I don't think anybody's listening.

And I said this before.

And you're like, people are listening.

I'm like, well, I don't know.

Yeah, they're listening.

I don't know.

People don't want to listen to our banter.

What's so interesting that comes out of our mouths?

As weird as it sounds, they actually do.

I have no...

Look, my sister listens.

Yes.

Willow listens.

And I found out that my sister Laura listens.

Oh, really?

Because when I said none of my sisters listens, she texted me.

She's like, I listen to the show.

Oh, that's nice.

But I don't think Lisa or Tony listen.

I know my mom doesn't.

I mean, and Ellen and Elise certainly don't.

No, my daughter doesn't listen to anything.

But Pastor Jimmy and I have done six episodes.

I don't think our wives have listened to three.

I have listened to two.

I wonder, I'm sure Annette has been much better than I have.

No, because we talked about it on the last show.

Oh, you did?

You know, our wives don't listen.

You should drop Easter eggs to see if we do listen.

But that's what we're doing.

We're like, yeah, they don't listen.

Yeah, no, I'm sure they don't listen.

It's the life of a podcaster.

Yes.

It's just what it is.

Okay.

Yeah.

Okay.

Baby.

Anyway.

It's been a hot minute.

It's been two weeks.

It has.

It's been two weeks for the show.

Here we are.

I know.

We've got a lot going on.

A couple things happened.

Yeah, I got pulled over again.

What?

You know this.

What do you mean?

Oh, okay.

I've been pulled over, what, three or four times in Fredericksburg.

How many times have I been pulled over?

Let me think.

Zero.

Once?

No, that was on the way to Bernie.

Oh.

But that was still steady counts.

But I was actually speeding.

I was like doing 85.

And you didn't get a ticket?

No, the cop said, oh, Adam Curry, can I have your autograph?

No, he said, you know, you've got a clean record.

You got nothing.

So I'll just give you a warning.

He's like, thank you.

Thank you, Ossifer.

How wonderful of you.

I wonder, do they write those warnings down?

It doesn't seem like they do.

Mine was a computerized piece of paper that he handed me.

Anyway, so I was coming back from Salvation Spirits.

They had asked a bunch of us to come over.

You were hammered.

You'd been drinking.

I did not have any.

I had a couple sips of a cocktail and, um, but I drank water most of the night because I'm just not, I like cocktails, but I'm not a big cocktail person.

You got to explain why you were there.

What were you doing at Salvation Spirits?

I went there because Salvation Spirits, they wanted people as fill-ins for photography, like to be models, just to kind of be a crowd.

Was that for their Christmas card?

No, no, no.

For the, for Salvation Spirits, for the, for the, for the, for the, for the distillery.

Yeah.

Oh, okay.

And so I went there and it was with a bunch of friends from church.

And I went there and I realized I never drive at night.

I just don't.

I got in my car and I'm like, oh, this is how my car looks at night.

Oh, pretty lights on the inside.

It's got colors.

Yes.

And so I was driving home and I don't speed.

I really do not speed.

No, you don't.

You are a rule follower, baby.

I am a rule follower.

You're a rule follower.

In the car, you'll be like, this is a 55.

You're doing 56.3.

Sometimes I'll do two, maybe two miles over the speed.

I think you can do 10%.

But I'll tell you, I love, I can pass people.

Like I can leave them in my dust.

Like no problem.

I love that.

The car is so fast.

Turbo.

Get to the ninth gear and I'm in the distance.

It's got nine gears.

Yeah, I know.

Your car has nine gears too, right?

Yeah, it does.

Okay.

So I'm driving home and it must've been, so it was dark out and it must've been where the speed limit changed from 60 to 55.

Yeah.

And so I'm just driving along, minding my own business.

All of a sudden I see these flashing lights and I'm like, what?

I was mad.

I'm like, are you kidding me?

I know I wasn't breaking the law.

Here's the text I get.

I'm getting pulled over.

I'm like, are you okay?

Yes.

I'm doing the voice because I have no context, obviously.

So this young guy, I don't know, maybe 26, 27.

Oh, it's even worse.

From the Department of Public Safety.

Not even, because I asked him, I go, you from county or the city or the town?

Neither.

He's a state, basically a state trooper.

So he's on my passenger side and he's got this flashlight and he's flashing it in my eyes.

And I said, will you please stop?

I said, get that out of my eyes.

One of these days I'm going to get a call from jail.

I know.

Hello, this is Gillespie County jail calling.

Your wife is in the slammer.

I realized I was getting snarked.

I was getting very snarky.

You know, this is how you wind up on TikTok.

Yes.

He was like, look at this entitled Karen getting arrested, going to jail.

But it was so rude.

And he goes, do you wear contacts?

I said, yes.

I said, I can't even see.

Will you get that out of my eyes?

So he goes, do you know how fast you were going?

I go, yeah, 55.

He goes, no.

He goes, do you know the speed limit?

I go, yeah, 50.

It's right here in my car.

He goes, you were going over 60.

Wait, wait, wait.

There's a discrepancy.

You said 55 and you said 50.

He said, how fast were you going?

And I said, I don't know, 55.

And he said, what's the speed limit?

And I looked down at my car and it said 50.

And I said, it was 50.

He goes, no, you were going over 60.

I go, no, I wasn't.

He goes, yes, you were.

I go, no, I wasn't.

Clink, clink.

There's the handcuffs coming out.

Zip tie this lady.

So then he goes to the front of my car and he sees that I don't have a front license plate.

You bet.

This is the second time I've been pulled over for this stupid front license plate.

because when I bought my car, the dealership said, Hey, Texas law.

Now you don't need a front license plate.

Here's a letter.

And I'm like, cool.

I put it in my glove box.

You show him the letter.

I go, he goes, you don't have front license plate.

I go, I don't have to have one anymore.

And I have a letter.

I opened my glove box.

This is, this is jackpot.

I'm arresting this one.

He's reading it.

He's like, no, this, this, they, they, no, you need a front plate.

They misdirected you.

I go, Oh, okay.

I better calm down because this guy's going to give me a ticket.

He goes, I'll just give you a warning for now.

I said, okay.

Keep that letter.

Keep that letter for the next time.

I know.

So here's Tina.

Of course, I don't have a front license plate either because a lot of modern cars, because most States don't have a two plate rule.

I found out by the way, why this is, this is big paint.

You've heard of big pharma, big tech.

This is big paint.

Yes.

So multiple times, lobbyists have tried to get this change in the state of Texas every single time.

3M, who do the paint for all the Texas license plates, lobby harder because that would cut half of their revenue of license plates.

Yeah, of course.

Of course.

It's unbelievable.

It's bogus.

Yeah.

We should get Trey to lobby against that lobby.

Yes, Trey.

Hello.

Yeah.

Come on, Trey.

Get on this.

Does Trey listen?

I don't know.

Oh, come on, Trey.

This is an Easter egg for Trey.

Okay.

We'll hire him as our lobbyist.

I don't think we can afford him.

Well, you were a model for him, for his photos.

Come on now.

I was in the background.

That's good enough for me.

We got free cocktails and free foods.

That's how we got paid.

Listen, I'm negotiating here.

You're not doing, you're not helping your cause.

Okay, okay, okay.

I just don't think we can afford him, but okay, we can try.

He'll do it gratis.

So I called my salesperson at the dealership.

I'm like, hey, just so you know.

Whose name is Guy.

Guy.

I called Guy.

And I'm like, just so you know, I got pulled over and that letter is inaccurate.

I go, now I've got to come in and I've got to put a front plate on it.

He goes, we hate that.

He goes, we're going to have to drill into the car.

I hate that.

I hate it too.

And I'm not going to do it until I get pulled over again.

Take me to jail.

I don't care.

Well, okay.

So this is how Tina was for five days.

I got to get my plate.

Cause you're a rule follower.

I got to get my plate.

I should make an appointment.

I'm like, no, no.

I know you haven't had one on this car.

You've had your car for three years.

You haven't had one.

And I've been pulled over and never said anything.

So I'm not going to do it.

I think it's stick.

He didn't have your speed either.

That's why it wasn't on the ticket.

He didn't have your speed.

No.

You can just say that.

But by the way, if they say, do you know how fast you were going?

It's kind of a trick question.

First of all, you don't have to answer any questions.

You can say, I want my lawyer.

No, I said, yeah, I know.

I was going 55, I think.

That's what I said.

Do you know where the speed limit is?

Right here in my car, it says 50.

Well, then you were going five miles over the speed limit.

Because you were going over 60.

You already incriminated yourself.

But I said, no, I wasn't.

Just the minute you get pulled over, call Rob.

I should have said, show me your radar gun because I don't believe you.

Yeah.

That's what I should have said.

These are all good ways to get- Listen, punky.

Yeah, exactly.

Exactly.

Punky.

How old are you, kids?

Dookie Hauser.

Dookie Hauser.

i will gladly bail you out if you call a cop doogie hauser that will be legendary that's the stuff legends are made of absolutely that's a good one so i was just like i cannot you came home and you were mad you were mad because i felt like he he did he targeted you yes yes he was not honest cute girl in a car look at that i'm gonna i'm gonna pull look at her hair i'm gonna pull her over.

I'm going to shine my light in her face.

Let me see if he's grandmother.

No doubt.

You should have said that too.

Listen, Doogie Howser, I could be your grandmother.

Now get out of my way.

Exactly.

Yeah.

So that was my exciting.

Hey, he's there for your protection.

I'm driving, driving, writing that down.

It's like 80% of the world's like Doogie who?

Yeah, exactly.

People who listen to the show probably will know Doogie Who.

Remember, I did the thing with Patriot Academy.

I was telling the kids about Prince and they were like, who?

Who?

Prince.

Prince.

I know.

That's crazy.

I know.

That's because they were old.

I know, but it was kind of a stark realization.

I'm like, so I don't have to tell you any Elvis stories either, do I?

Yeah.

Who?

Who?

Elvis.

Hey, I like your haircut.

I like that.

Thank you.

You had one piece of hair.

It was your one bang.

that hung down like one after one long bang after she was i went to austin's and i get my hair cut and after it was cut that one hair was hanging down i said my bang is hanging down she said no that's interesting so she actually went in with the razor and said there's another one too and she and she completely annihilated it yes because it was it was and i'm like can't you feel that on your forehead no she says it grows the wrong direction i said get rid of it and so i I, when we were at dinner on Monday night with Shane and Michelle, and I see that hair and I just keep focusing on it.

And I'm like, you should have told me what to pull it out of my head.

I want to fix his hair because that one bang.

Wow.

So why are you divorcing your husband?

Listen, did you see that hair?

He's got a bang.

He's got a bang.

He's got a bang.

He's got a bang and it's just, it's bugging me.

I would never divorce you for that.

What would you divorce me for?

It was for the hoodie.

Another hoodie issue happened.

And you know what it is.

I do.

Yes.

Yeah.

And I feel very bad about it.

Yes.

Because I, and I really did check it.

See this one I had.

No, you did not check it.

No, I did, but I missed it.

It must have been.

How did you miss it?

Well, there's.

Explain what happened.

Okay.

So Tina comes into the studio and and I already know just by your walk I like I in trouble Click clop click clop click clippity clippity I not clippity the Hillary Clinton Clippity-clop, clippity-clop.

Oh, oh, oh, she's coming in.

Ain't coming.

I'm trying to do it.

Could you please be more careful leaving tissues in your hoodies?

It's all over the dryer.

And it was the second time.

No, it was the washing machine.

Oh, but it was the second time.

And you're absolutely right.

And I have been so careful because after the time before that, but see, in this particular hoodie, in the, what's the three nails hoodie, there's two pockets.

There's the kangaroo pocket, and then there's another one.

And I think it was stuck in there because every night I have to make sure there's no, is there no mints anywhere?

Is there no, is there no, I got it.

I mean, I have a whole checklist.

I have more checklist.

Two picks, mints.

I have more checklists for my hamper than I have flying airplanes.

It's like, check this, check that.

Okay.

Do I have my chapstick?

Give chapstick, pet tape chapstick back.

Okay.

Did I check the garage door?

Did I check the garage door again?

Are both garage doors closed?

Is everything else closed?

Okay.

Can I lay my head down now?

Is it okay for me to go to sleep?

Now, the funny thing is, we were, who were we out with?

Was it with Shane and Michelle?

About?

What are you talking about?

No, it was at the meetup about the hoodies issue, about the hamper.

People were saying, this is the conversation we have all the time.

Oh, they do.

Come on, man.

We had a meetup and there were a lot of Keeper fans there.

A lot of Curry and the Keeper listeners.

You've got to admit.

Yes.

Particularly the young people.

They're like, yes, we're learning a lot from you.

We're learning a lot.

The thing with the Kleenex, so I was washing all black clothes.

And in your black three nails hoodie, you had a tissue and it was everywhere.

All over the clothes.

No, I know.

It's horrible.

And I said to you, I said, can you please be more careful?

No, no.

No, you what?

Clippity-clop, clippity-clop.

Oh, darling, darling.

Whoa, I don't think so.

Clippity-clop.

No, that was the second time where I clippity clopped into your studio and I said, listen, you did it again.

And you felt so bad.

I still feel bad.

You should.

I'm telling you, I understand.

I completely understand.

Yeah.

I mean, I'm lucky that the things I'm responsible for that involve you, you are perfect.

I know.

Everything is fabulous.

How did you get so lucky?

Jesus.

Jesus gave me this gift.

I know.

And for some, I don't know what you did wrong, but you got me.

Jesus went, okay, this is your guy.

I mean, it's a third world problems, Kleenex in the washing machine.

I'll take it over like alcohol abuse.

So if I can, if I can interject here.

So we have this thing coming up called the love dare.

Do you want to explain the love dare?

And then I'll get to my question.

Yes.

Why is your mouth open like that?

Because that's part of my question of the week.

Oh.

So do you want to say that?

Well, the reason why I'm bringing it up is because the men have a text group too.

I know.

Oh, you do?

I'm well aware.

Oh, well then, how do you know that?

I didn't tell you.

Because I was the one that suggested it to Melinda.

I said, look.

Look, look.

No, I didn't say look.

Well, explain Love Dare first.

Well, Love Dare is a 40-day challenge that we have to do little things every day that strengthen our marriage.

And it's all based on scripture and little things leading up to big things.

There's a movie.

So our assignment, we had to watch Fireproof with Kirk Cameron.

It's about 18 years old, the movie.

And it shows this marriage that was kind of on the brink of divorce.

They were in divorce.

And the father coached the son, Kirk Cameron, to do this 40 day love dare challenge.

Yes.

That's why the title of the newsletter was challenge accepted.

And you'll all be able to benefit because we're going to talk about this.

Yes.

So for 40 days, we have to do something every day for our spouse.

And I think for us, we do a lot of the things already.

So it'll be pretty easy, but it'll bring it into focus instead of just being, you know, instead of just being something that we just do every day without thinking, like, which hit me tonight was when I say good morning, Holy Spirit, I really want to, we say that every morning to each other, I really want to stop and focus on that instead of just coming out of my mouth.

Just like things that come out of my mouth, like I love you.

I love you too.

Like I want to be sincere and thoughtful about it.

So the things on the love there.

Well, that's interesting because I am very sincere when I say that.

And when I come to greet you in the morning and I hold on to your head with my hands and I kiss you.

I know you're better than me.

I know.

I know.

Not entirely.

See hoodie.

Okay.

So, but no, I felt like sometimes you just go through the motion and I want, and it hit me tonight during WWJD that I want to be more sincere.

So my point is these 40 days, there are things that we already do, but I want to be more sincere about it.

So you're not sincere?

Yes, I am.

but I think you just go through the motions of like, Oh, I don't.

Okay.

You're perfect.

As far from it.

But when it comes to that, yeah.

Yeah.

I I'm very intentional.

I mean, I am too, but I, I, for the most part I am too, but I want to be much more intentional is my point.

Okay.

Okay.

So anyway, the, the 40 day love dare, we're doing it with, there's a total of seven couples.

And, um, so we have the launch next Wednesday, which will be here at our house.

And then we have a mid, we have a mid, midway point.

And then we'll do.

Now, is this something that's been around forever and Melinda just decided to do it?

Or is it something that she came up with based upon the movie?

Or has this been out there?

I've never heard of it before.

Yes, it has been out there.

Yes, it has.

I don't know if that she's, I'm assuming, I've never asked her.

I think she's done it.

There's another one called Love and Respect Afterwards, and that's 10 weeks.

So.

Oh, there's a sequel to this.

It's not a sequel, but it's a much more intense.

Who are the couples again?

So it's us.

Us.

Andre and David.

Melinda and Alan.

Yes.

Mindy and Brent.

Leslie and Stuart.

Nicole and her husband.

I don't know her husband.

I don't know.

Do I know Nicole and her husband?

I don't think so.

I don't think you know that.

I met her briefly at church.

Is that, who am I missing?

Oh, Jules and Trey.

Oh, okay.

Oh, this is a good group.

Yes, it's going to be a really good group.

So it'll be fun.

I have noticed, by the way, I know we both read the, the, the couple's devotional every single day.

I look at it and like, yeah, we do that.

I know that's what I'm saying.

Yeah.

I want to be much more, I want to be much more intentional about it is what I'm saying.

So, okay.

So, but yes, my question of the week ties into the love dare.

So, okay.

So Melinda had, well, I'll go into it in my question of the week.

Okay.

All right.

Oh, it's a tease.

It's a tease.

And there's going to be, there's going to be games that we have games and prizes like a pinata.

Yes.

not a pinata but yes there's gonna be prizes there's games we gotta work together as a team like you better listen to me like three-legged three-legged race like do we have to it doesn't involve eggs passing them off between people or oranges i'm not saying a word so hold on you know you know all the stuff that's coming up i had lunch with the girls today as usual the men are like oh okay yeah yeah well we have our text group now So now I'm going to have to, hey, hey, this is a setup, guys.

No.

Be careful.

It's going to be fun.

It's going to be fun.

Be careful.

I like that we're doing this.

I do too.

I think it's really, you know, and I don't know all the couples, but the ones that I know, they seem like they have very good marriages.

Yes.

And so it'll be just strengthening and even better.

If someone cracks, it'll be a surprise.

Yeah.

If a couple goes, oh, no.

Oh, no.

Oh, no.

No, we're all invested.

We all want our marriages to be stronger.

Yes.

So, yeah, I love it.

And I love, these are fairly new friends that I thoroughly enjoy.

So I'm going to look forward to it.

And I think most of them are younger than us, except for David and Andrea.

No one's older than David and Andrea.

You're so rude.

Rude.

Yeah.

I think, yeah, everybody else is in their 50s.

I think Jules is in her 40s.

Since when did 50s and 40s become younger?

Listen, I feel 40.

I feel 40.

I'm still working out with my trainer.

You are, you are cut girl.

Well, hardly, but yes, you are.

I, I, you, you grabbed my arm today and you're like, Whoa.

Yeah.

I better be good.

Yeah.

Beat me up.

That's right.

That's right.

All right.

All right.

So, um, you want to talk about, should I talk about how?

I'm looking at you like, I'm like, no, the answer, whatever's coming out of your mouth next is no.

So, so one night.

No.

One night I was sleeping and I went over to touch Adam.

This is good.

Wait, let me tell my perspective first.

When I sleep, like I go to sleep within one minute and 27 seconds.

Exactly.

I'm so jealous.

I mean, literally I spoon you and I turn to the other side and I clasp my hands and I pray.

and I usually get through the Lord's Prayer and I start off with some other things and then I'm out.

And then you're out.

And then in the middle of the night, Adam, what?

What?

What?

Adam, what?

What?

Nothing.

What's the matter?

No, nothing.

Go to sleep.

And I'm so tired.

No, it's okay.

It's nothing.

Okay.

And I go back to sleep.

So three times I said, what?

What?

I'm upright.

I'm like, what, what, what, what?

No, oh, no.

It's okay.

Go to sleep.

And it was convincing enough because, you know, you've talked in your sleep sometimes and you have conversations and you're having a real calm, like a calm conversation.

You're like, what?

So I'm like, okay, well, I don't know what happened here, but the dog's not barking.

Everything seems to be okay.

She said it's fine.

I went back to sleep.

You were back to sleep instantly.

Yes.

So, and I was hoping, I'm like, gosh, I hope he doesn't remember that in the morning.

I sure did.

I sure did.

So I, I don't know.

I woke up and I went to cuddle up next to you and I touched your arm and your arm was ice cold.

She's like, where are the Bitcoin keys?

So then I'm like, his arm is so cold.

And I stick my hand at like on your chest.

I'm like trying to feel you breathing.

I can't feel you breathing.

And I'm like, Adam, Adam, I thought you were dead.

I thought you were dead.

That would be horrible if I was dead next to you.

Are you kidding me?

Yeah.

A lot of forms to fill out.

A lot of annoying things.

People over the house in the middle of the night.

Where are the Bitcoin keys?

The dog's barking.

What's his password?

You got to grab my thumb real quick, put it on my phone to open up the phone.

Yeah.

Now it's horrible.

Oh, so I get.

But I breathe very slowly when I'm asleep.

Your arm was like.

Well, it was outside the covers.

It was freezing.

And I have to tell you this.

When my dad passed away and he was laying in that casket, because, you know, of course he had to have a wake.

Open casket.

He wanted to be the center of attention.

I'm not kidding you.

I can see Tony doing that.

And then we had his music playing in the funeral home.

We played all Tony Allen classics while he was.

And I'm sure he was looking down like, yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

This is my jam.

I've never touched a dead person before.

And I touched my dad's arm and it was like a piece of ice.

Yeah.

Like ice.

And so when I touched your arm, it was a piece of ice.

And that's why I put my hand on your chest and I couldn't feel you breathing.

And that's why I said, I thought you were dead.

It scared me.

I want to die first.

I don't want you to die first.

I want to go first.

Babe, babe, babe.

No, I'm, I'm, I'm sticking around.

I'm sticking around.

Yeah.

But see how much I love you.

No, it's all about the Bitcoin keys.

And the passwords.

Like you've got everything, you know, where everything is.

I could care.

I would.

And who do you call?

And who do you call?

I would call Annette.

And who do you call after that?

Jimmy.

Two people.

Ghostbusters.

Yeah.

Two people.

For any problem you call.

Rob Cardy.

Rob the constitutional.

Yes, Rob Cardy.

Rob Cardy.

And you can probably call Gene.

I can call Gene?

Yeah, I would call Gene.

Sir Gene.

Okay.

Yeah.

I hope I never have to do that.

Because Gene would come out and help with everything.

I trust these guys.

These are my guys.

Gene and Rob.

Does Gene know how to get into the Bitcoin?

Well, you know where it is.

I know, but I have no idea how to get it.

Gene would be able to help you with everything.

Okay.

And Gene will help you.

And he'll calm Phoebe down.

He'll bring his snakes out.

No, the first person I would call is Annette, for sure.

That would be the first person I would call.

Yeah.

Because she's closest.

Yeah, I know.

Yeah.

There's going to be no need.

There's no need.

There's no need.

Good.

I want to go first.

Please take me first, Jesus.

I want you around for a long time too, babe.

No, there'll be no dying for the next 30, 40 years.

We're good to go.

Thank goodness.

What about you?

What do you want to talk about?

Well, um, uh.

You have no, you don't even have a list.

I don't know what you're looking down at.

I'm looking at space here.

And because I was like, oh, I'm going to spring this whole text message group on you.

That was going to be my big thing.

That was my big surprise.

But now I got basically nothing.

Well, we can talk.

Because we've been together, except for the last two days, we've been like ships passing in the night, man.

I know.

And I don't feel good about it.

I don't like that either.

No, it's like, I'm off and then you're off.

And by the way, you are on the road all the time.

You're in and out.

I'm going.

You're lunching.

You're working out.

You're going to church.

We did meet each other at church the other day.

We did.

By coincidence.

I know.

I've done the podcast.

We get to do this available on the Godcaster app with Pastor Jimmy.

And I walk out and they're like, hey, Adam, Tina was just here.

Oh, is she still here?

No, she's in the bathroom.

I'm like, oh, I'm going to wait for this cute woman.

I know.

You know what?

I loved that we were both at the church.

I told you that.

I love that because I was doing the women ministry meeting and you were recording with Pastor Jimmy And I just like I love that Like it our second home you know Every single time I walk in it like yeah I know.

This is, the sanctuary is the sanctuary, but the rest is clubhouse.

You know, it's like, oh, we're here at the clubhouse.

Yes.

Yeah.

Girls are allowed in this clubhouse.

It's cool.

And we were there last week when the Embassy Church Network was there.

And this is, it's way involved, but we had this, there's one pastor that came in from Florida, Jack Hillegoss.

Pastor Jack.

From High Point Church.

High Point Church.

High Point Church.

Yep.

Pretty big church, probably 2,000 people.

No, no, they have 3,500.

Oh, 3,500.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, 3,500.

They built this huge sanctuary and they told me they had outgrown it already.

They're doing three services to.

Anyway, so we were sitting there and Jack was actually asking me about.

About you.

My faith.

And I'm not used to people asking me questions because usually they want to just talk to you.

And I'm just there for moral support, holding your arms up like Moses.

Aaron.

No, they held Moses' arms up.

Aaron held his arms up.

Yeah.

Just call me Aaron.

Yeah.

You call me Moses.

Okay.

Some people call me Moses.

Oh, was it Maurice?

I'm sorry.

Anyway, so he was, I had a revelation.

So he was asking me like, he said, well, did you grow up in the church?

And I said, well, I grew up Catholic and I was forced to go to church.

My parents didn't.

They forced you.

They didn't go.

They stayed in bed.

They said I would be grounded because they wanted us to make communion, make my communion.

So you had to go attend church.

Is it make communion or take communion?

Make communion.

You have to make your communion and your confirmation.

And then once you do that, you can take communion.

Oh, you get like points.

I don't even know.

Yeah.

And so then I was telling them that I went to a Lutheran church and like nothing really stuck.

And then I said in 2015, I started going to this church in Austin, Austin Stone.

And the music, the worship music really affected me.

Like just, I would just cry.

And then I was, so I was saying how that's how I was being ministered to is through worship music.

And then I fast forward and said, yes, I'm the president of this really small nonprofit called Harvest Project Texas.

And we're bringing worship music to Fredericksburg to teach the gospel.

And it hit me like, oh, my gosh, music has always been a part of my life.

God is using this part of me, this spiritual gift that he gave me.

I saw you realize it on the spot.

It was a light bulb moment.

I could not believe.

I was like, oh my gosh, that's why, that's why he led me there because it started with being ministered through music.

Did you also notice Pastor Jack smiling when you had this revelation?

Cause I was right in between you and I'm like, oh, he saw it too.

It was really, it was a beautiful thing.

I was caught up in my own head like, whoa.

That was a beautiful thing to see.

I see what you did there, God.

Yeah, that was really cool.

That was really, really cool.

Just remind me, when can we start running promos on Hello Fred so we can get people going to the website and supporting you guys?

Probably not for a couple more weeks.

Okay.

You let me know.

I will.

You let the head of promotions know.

I will.

Hello Fred promotions department.

Yes.

Okay.

So that was really cool.

So I wanted to share that.

That's great.

I saw it.

It was a beautiful moment.

It was really, really cool.

Big thing.

We went to the No Agenda meetup last Saturday, which was about 50 or 60 people, right?

I think it was more.

Was it?

I think it was closer to 70.

Really?

Yeah.

Did you do a count?

Just rough.

I know that everybody who came for other reasons just happened to be there.

They're like, even the bartender, I forget his name now.

He said, we've never had this many people here.

Oh, I love that then.

Oh, yeah.

No, it's great for them.

And unfortunately, J6 or Jenny wasn't there.

She was on a retreat or something, I believe, in Pennsylvania.

Yeah.

um oh it it was by far the biggest we've had in Fredericksburg a lot of younger people yes people with babies like baby babies yes the trap babies were there the trap babies were there oh the trap babies I know so gosh that baby girl is so cute what's her name Lucy Lucy and Ophelia Ophelia yeah one the older one is Ophelia yeah and Lucy just holding on to my finger with those little hands like and then i made her cry looked at her i'm like sorry in this case she was smiling at me that usually is the other way around kids look at me and go like look with that hair but there were so many lovely people there was a guy there that picked up his dad i i want to say he drove from oregon and picked up his dad in colorado durango yeah no i think they drove from durango Colorado.

Yes.

And, and, and he's listened to you since show number four.

Oh yeah.

Marco.

That was Marco.

Yes.

But the, but Sir Patrick Coble showed up all of a sudden and pops up and he's just such a lovely man.

Um, but the one guy that touched that I, I actually cried was that young man, Caleb.

Caleb was the Gen Z guy.

Gen Z with his wife.

Young, young.

23, I think.

And he was, he was talking to you about several things.

And he said, I've been praying for you since I was 14.

Because I wanted to see you and John in heaven.

Yes.

I know.

It still makes me cry.

Isn't that beautiful?

I wanted you and John to be in heaven with me.

And I'm like, oh my gosh.

Yeah.

So many lovely lovely people it was it was a good one i i think i spoke to everybody i think i actually got i see tears in your eyes i know it just it really just it just touched my heart i don't know why mine too mine too of course the old staples were there uh rob the constitutional lawyer came up with his buddy in this 57 t bird which was a knockout car um sir brian with an eye uh who else uh uh jersey whore baron scott yes baron scott and his crazy dogs heel heel and the dogs are like get out of here he's like i'll teach you guys how to how to train phoebe and his dogs are like running rough shot everywhere like heel heel bonnie clyde bonnie and clyde no natasha and boris it was natasha oh it was bonnie and clyde no natasha and boris good names too by the way But they were like wild.

And he was like, I'll train your dog.

I'm like, I don't know.

That's like going to working out with a fat trainer.

I don't think so.

I love Scott.

But what was great was, so Sir Patrick Coble lives in Tennessee.

I don't think he's in Nashville.

I'm not sure exactly.

No, he's in Murfreesboro.

Okay.

Murfreesboro.

And so he just, I mean, he has shown up at meetups.

Around the world.

Around the world.

London, Tokyo, Vegas.

Was he in Des Moines when we were in Des Moines?

I can't remember.

But he has shown up a lot.

He goes all over the world to the meetups.

And so he was spending the night.

He's like, yeah, I just came in today, drove in.

I'm going to fly home tomorrow.

And you go, are you going to come to church?

And he's like, heck yeah, I'm coming to church.

Yeah, I said, we go to early service at 9 o'clock, 7 o'clock, 6 o'clock.

Doesn't matter.

I'll be there.

And he came in.

And he was worshiping.

We were standing next to each other.

It was so awesome.

I love that.

It's so awesome because through our show and living up in a down world, it brought him back to God.

I know.

It brought him back.

And he is all in, man.

I mean, he texts me every Sunday.

He texts me with a song.

He's like, and it's, it's sometimes it's something I haven't heard of before.

And I'll add it to Hello Fred.

But every Sunday it's like clockwork.

Sir Patrick Coble texts me a song.

And I always take time to listen to it while I'm prepping.

Like, oh, let me hear what song he sent me.

Yeah.

And so, and, and I'm so happy because, you know, he was driving around, going different places and he decided to get barbecue.

No, well he, no, at, after church, I said, you should try and go to the beloved gallery.

And I said, in the blue bonnet cafe.

And so he was texting me while you were doing the show.

And he said, how about if I do this?

How about if I bring dinner, a barbecue dinner over time and some pie?

He said, and I would love for Jimmy and Annette and Pastor Jimmy and Annette to come too.

And so Sundays, I mean, Sundays are as tiring for Jimmy, Pastor Jimmy, as it is for you.

Oh, yeah.

No, we're all doing shows.

They were like, yes.

And I know that Patrick just really appreciated that.

So he comes to the door, rings the doorbell, and there's Phoebe laying on the carpet.

And I'm like, Phoebe, come on, your place.

She just looks at me.

I'm like, come on, come on, get down in your place.

Because I didn't want her to charge it.

I didn't know how to.

So I grab her by the collar.

And she snarls at me.

She shows me her teeth.

I'm like, really?

Really?

I put my hand on her snout.

I go, go ahead, bite me.

I dare you.

Bite me.

And she was so timid the rest of the day.

Oh, and I grabbed her snout.

I'm like, you do not do that to me.

Don't you dare her.

And then I grabbed the leash and got her on her place.

And she was so meek.

Oh, yeah.

Her eyes were like half closed.

Like, I'm sorry, mom.

Oh, yeah.

She learned an important lesson there.

I'm like, you are not the alpha dog, girl.

That's right.

I'll put you right in your place.

Amen to that.

You sure did.

And she was perfect the whole night.

She actually went to Jimmy like, Jimmy, she's so mean.

Pet me, please, Pastor Jimmy.

Pet me, pet me all night long, please.

It was great.

And Patrick told his stories and his testimony.

And it was just fantastic.

It was such a lovely evening.

For a Sunday night.

And I really appreciate Pastor Jimmy and Annette coming because they don't live next door.

I mean, they're 25 minutes away.

And they already drove that twice, you know, to church and back.

Yes, yeah.

And so they came out and it was really nice.

It was.

And then, of course, Pastor Jimmy's like, what is this?

Oh.

New steak knives.

I know.

The only guy who would notice that.

Exactly.

He's like, whoa.

Whoa.

You got real steak knives.

Yeah.

We were tired of the serrated things that were ripping the beef to shreds.

Yeah.

So that was a lovely evening.

It was good, man.

It was good.

But yeah, speaking of Phoebe, she's got a new fighting weight.

She does.

88.8, ladies and gentlemen.

Yes.

Triple eights.

Triple eights.

Wow.

So you started adding nuggets to her dog food.

Some croutons.

Just some croutons.

I'm like, she's going to put all her weight back on.

You are so traumatized by weight in general.

No, she's not going to put her weight on from eight croutons.

eight little snackaroos.

I mean, we were both like, that's, she kind of lost a lot.

Let's make sure.

So I talked to farmer's dog and they're like, well, check her.

I got to, this coming week, I should weigh her again.

Well, we need food.

We're almost out of food.

No, they'll send it.

They always send it on time.

They're good.

I love the farmer's dog.

I do too.

Although we had to heat it up this morning in the microwave.

I'm looking at this dog.

I'm like, dog, do you see what we're doing for you?

We're heating up your food in the microwave.

It's so frozen.

She doesn't care.

Believe me.

She's like, wow, it's just frozen.

She doesn't notice for a second.

But do you notice that I try to mix it up because she has turkey, chicken and grains, and beef.

And I try to like give her a different variety every day.

She'll eat rocks.

The dog does not care.

No, she does eat rocks.

Yes.

The other day.

And clumps of grass, like and clumps of mud.

The other day we were walking back and some animal, which it wasn't a cat.

It was bigger than a cat.

I don't know what it was, but, you know, and the turkey buzzards were out there and she gets real mad.

Anyway, this thing had been dead for a while and I thought it had gone.

And then she's rooting around the grass on the morning while she has like a stick in her mouth.

Like, give me that stick.

I'm like, oh, it's a thigh bone from whatever that thing was.

She let you take it out of her mouth?

Right away.

Okay.

Yeah.

I was like, this is not for you.

I know.

I have no problem prying her jaw open and putting my hand down her throat and grabbing it out of her mouth.

I've had to.

The other day, she's like, sandwich.

No, you're not eating this sandwich.

Whatever that.

Drop it.

Did she drop it?

Well.

She probably ate it so fast.

And she can't.

And she'll drop it.

And then I got, oh, whoops, you dropped it.

And I kick it off like, oh, there it goes.

Too bad.

And then as we walk back, she's like, go.

I said, no.

She wanted the sandwich.

No, we're not going towards the sandwich.

Yeah.

But no, I had to put her in her place.

Yeah.

Good.

Good for you.

She's a good girl.

She is a good girl.

All things considered, everyone who comes, she's like, this is a very chill dog.

Yeah.

Once she hasn't attacked you and eaten you up, she's a great dog.

Yeah.

With 14 people coming into our house.

She'll be fine.

We're going to have to keep her in a place for a while.

We'll put her in a place.

Yeah.

She'll be fine there.

Yeah.

She'll be fine.

The thing is, it's the people that are the problem.

Ignore the dog.

Don't say anything.

I know.

They go right up to her.

Like, no, no.

That's what I was saying to Patrick because he has a German shepherd.

And I said.

He knows.

I said, I tell people all the time, do not pat her on top of her head.

Do just ignore her.

I said, do they listen?

They don't listen.

They don't listen.

Because she's so cute.

That's the problem.

Well.

They look at her like, oh, she's so pretty.

Wow.

Yeah.

She is.

Anyway.

So.

Rob, the constitutional lawyer is on our side.

He says, just don't let her bite anybody and you'll be fine.

Yeah.

Okay.

Thanks.

If she would have bitten me, she would be gone.

she will not bite you yes she better not no ever she won't jack her jaw jack her jaw that's another show title jack her jaw you hear that she's not even in the studio anymore she's so afraid I know she doesn't even come in here she doesn't even sleep in her bed except at night she sleeps in the laundry room now maybe we should just put her in the laundry room no she this is good she likes her studio she likes it I like her here because if someone is prowling around the house, you'll hear it here.

Yeah.

So I'm looking into planning my next hiking adventure.

Yes.

Like another planned trip.

How long will you be going on this one?

It'll be a week.

Yeah.

I'm going to Banff.

I want to go to Banff, Canada.

Do we have producers in Banff?

I don't know, but I want to go.

I'm recruiting people.

The Blonde Squad plus Tricia?

Well, I put it, I opened it up to them.

I don't, I haven't, Shane is on that text thread, but she doesn't really respond.

but I promoted it to them.

But I also asked Tiffany if she wants, Oh no, Tiffany brought it up to me.

And then I asked Brandy if she wanted to go.

And I asked, Will Brandy go?

She expressed an interest, but I don't know.

I asked Annette, but Annette is not, she's not much of a hiker.

She likes the beach.

No, you gotta be.

But I'm like, she could do it.

Annette is like me.

We looking forward to our vacation in wherever it is on the beach Yeah Yeah Yeah I looking forward to that I forget who else I asked to go Another person Oh Ashley Slater I asked her.

Oh, she had, she had asked me about going hiking and Ashley's a climber.

She could totally do it.

Totally.

I like that.

Yeah.

She's rocking all the time.

Yeah.

Well, Phoebe and I will be here watching formula one, but not till, not till September.

Oh, okay.

Yeah.

Yeah.

All right.

It's a ways away.

And then this weekend, And I'm so excited because we have friends from Dallas coming in, Vic and Chris.

Vic and Chris.

We have not seen them.

For a year.

It's been 13 months since we've seen them.

Wow.

That's actually.

I know.

And I didn't really get to visit with her or him.

Well, because it was his birthday.

It was your birthday.

It was your birthday.

Was that the last time they were here?

They were in Fredericksburg.

Yeah.

How come they're coming again?

I thought we were supposed to switch it off.

I said that too, but she watches her little granddaughter.

And so she just said it would be easier for them to come down.

Oh, okay.

So then they can actually hand it off and like, we're not, we're not doing the grandbaby.

Well, I guess.

I guess.

Like I need to get the details.

We'll get to get caught up.

So yeah.

So they're arriving Friday and then they'll be here till Sunday.

So I'm really excited.

That's going to be fun.

Yeah.

So I'm going to make a frittata.

Frittata?

A frittata.

What is a frittata?

It's an egg dish.

Is it just like egg?

Egg casserole.

Egg and stuff.

Egg casserole.

The frittata is for what?

For breakfast?

Yes.

Oh, okay.

Yeah.

I want to make, I have to make something for breakfast.

We're having the, oh.

There she is.

Yeah, we're having the picana on Friday night, and then I'll make breakfast on Saturday, and then we're going out Saturday night.

Yes.

It'll be fun.

It's going to be good.

Yeah.

Yes.

Okay.

That's all I got.

I got my Godshot.

You ready for the question?

Well, no.

No, we got to...

Oh.

Don't we do cork soakers first?

No, we do Godshot first.

Hello.

It's been so long, I don't even remember what we're doing.

Tina's Godshot.

Hey, now.

The Godshot is here, everybody.

also known as Tina's Jesus moment.

Oh, that's new.

I'm just making it up.

Okay.

So I had this conversation with my daughter, well, text conversation, my youngest daughter, and she had expressed an interest of coming in for Christmas.

Well, we know that Christina and Kevin are coming in for Christmas.

Yes, praise God.

So I said, well, if you come in, I'm going to have to put you in downstairs bedroom on an air mattress.

And she's like, oh, well, and I said, and if you don't want to come, I said, I understand.

You know, I get it.

So then she sends me a text message and she said, I'm going to California for Christmas with her girlfriend, Meg.

I'm like, oh.

Interesting.

And so I, do you need to check on this dog that's barking?

No.

Interrupting my God shot.

Be quiet.

Okay.

Keep going.

And so my first thought was like, huh.

Oh, you felt slighted?

I felt dissed for sure.

And then I really, I really wanted to think about it.

And I really wanted to be transparent with her about.

You didn't tell me any of this.

No, I didn't.

And I'm going to, I want to read.

Just because you were keeping it for the God shot?

Oh, I'm not sure why I was keeping it.

Let me see.

So I said to her, I said, I'm going to be honest with you.

Oh, let me preface it with this first.

this is the scripture that i thought about because i remember pastor jimmy always telling me you know that it's about love and that you're honest with people because you love them you say it in love because of love and with love right and i wanted to tell her i how i felt about that what my feeling was straight from love and so this scripture for is this is a fan favorite first corinthians 13 verses 4 through 7 love is patient and kind love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude.

It does not demand its own way.

It is not irritable and it keeps no record of being wronged.

It does not rejoice about injustice, but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.

Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful and endures through every circumstance.

And so I, the Holy Spirit directed me when I responded to her.

So what I said to her, I said, I'm going to be honest with you.

On one end, I feel like you're choosing Meg's family over your own.

Then on the other hand, I understand because I've been there before.

I chose your dad's family over mine when we were first together.

So even though I'd rather you be with me, I understand.

And I know it doesn't take away from our relationship.

I love you.

And I felt really good about that because it was from love, which is what God wants us to do.

And I felt really good being completely transparent with her that I had that twinge of like, Oh, how did she respond?

And she said, she said to me, I'm sorry you feel that way.

That's really not the reality of the situation.

She said, I would rather be there where we wouldn't have to sleep, you know.

I understand that.

Yeah.

She goes, she said, if anything, dad should feel left out because I have no plans to go to Chicago.

But I'm sorry, mom.

She said, I love you very much.

We can nail down a date in the spring.

And it was, I just felt, I felt good that I had that.

I really want to tell her how I feel.

And that's because I trust her and I love her and I wanted to be honest with her.

Good for you.

And it stems from what God wants us to do and wants how, you know, to just.

Isn't it amazing how when you follow that, you follow God's word, how it just seems to work out so much better than the alternative.

And it made it so easy for me, you know, because the Holy Spirit was directing me and it made it easy for me to be honest with her and say, this is how I was feeling.

but I also understand, you know, and I, and I, it doesn't change our relationship and I love you very much.

So anyway, that's my got shot.

Oh, yeah.

Now, oh, that's the question of the week.

I'm sorry.

I was confused.

Thank people.

You have so many different segments on this show.

I do.

Now it's time to hear from the Coke Soakers.

That's right.

But we got to hear from those cocksuckers now.

Wait, what did you say?

What did you say?

Now it's time to hear from the cocksuckers.

So three and a half thousand people listened, four people donated.

Value for value, people.

This is what you're like, you know, nothing in the P.O.

box.

And that's not what it's about.

No, but it's always nice.

But Brian, Brian also, Sir Brian donated $10, but he sent it through Apple Pay and I go, Apple Pay?

Apple Wallet.

I go, I don't, I don't have a, I don't use Apple Wallet, the Apple Wallet.

So it's gone unclaimed?

Yes.

Yes.

And I said, I'll read your, I'll read your donation.

Oh, we'll go ahead and read his donation first.

Okay.

So it's $10 and it says.

Thank you, Sir Brian.

Hang on.

You do the show a day early and someone messages me about it.

Next episode, you do it again.

And I got a call from the Netherlands, from somebody, from someone who was practically in tears that I wasn't included.

I'm sure.

Y'all can always text me and let me know.

You're out some sats in the evening, y'all.

And I said, you know, I said, I'll read the boost, but I'm not going to accept your $10 because I'm not setting up an Apple wallet.

In the evening.

You'll give me an in the evening.

Thank you, sir.

Thank you, Brian.

We got, let's see, Steve Weiss through the Fountain subscription, which we really appreciate, $25.

Daniel Williams, $25.

Daniel, always there.

Then we go to 6969sats.

Oh, who's that?

Comics or blogger.

Okay.

And he says, how do you love birds, Tina and Adam?

Tina, what is your favorite genre of music?

oh now yes definitely worship music worship or Christian contemporary oh is there a difference like Brandon Lake is more Christian contemporary yeah Christian contemporary yeah okay I'm a hobby music creator myself and I release new music videos in very divergent divergent genres every month my favorite song I created recently is Don't You Know I'll Hoddle a bitcoin anthem in euro dance genre find my i'm not gonna play it find my website uh music.csb.lol uh music.csb.lol he has the weirdest domain names and then he says yo csb from www.trading.toys which is a website he's made with all kinds of Bitcoin charts.

He's a Bitcoiner.

Yeah.

He's a Bitcoiner, which is nice.

Awesome.

And then Tommy Breakfluid comes in with 500 sats, says to clear up any confusion with my name, no, my actual name is not Tommy Breakfluid.

Really?

I'm surprised.

Oh.

Because that's a cool name.

Yeah.

That's a cool band name, actually.

Hey, everybody.

Hey, Cleveland.

Tommy Breakfluid here.

Breakfluid.

It is the name of my YouTube channel and Instagram.

Sorry for any confusion I've caused.

And I love the show.

Oh, thank you.

Thank you so much.

Go to koreanthekeeper.com.

You can learn all about us, about the show, listen to the back episodes.

There's an Aboot page.

Sign up for the newsletter.

Tina diligently writes a newsletter every single time we do a show.

And they're cool.

Oh, thank you, baby.

They're fun to read.

Thank you, baby.

And always a fun picture.

Yeah.

Always nice.

All right, here we go.

Now I got it.

Noah, it's time for The Question of the Week Well, this time I may be prepared Praise Jesus The Question of the Week Here we go, everybody, it's The Question of the Week Tina has a question, I have no idea what it is Except for I kind of do Yes, you do So Melinda sent this out to the group And asked us, and I said This is the group of women Women, yes, the wives And I said, I think you need to send it to every I think you see the men need to be asked the same question.

So, you know, you know, my answer because I, I told you already, but the question was.

Well, that's not exactly how it went, but okay.

Well, how did it go?

So here's the question.

That's not exactly how it went.

Correct.

So that's exactly how I said it.

You did my voice uncannily.

I know.

You can do no agenda now.

It's easy.

In the morning.

I want to cut that.

That's a good one.

I saw.

so you say, what do you think I said?

I'm like, I don't like this test.

I don't like this quiz.

So go ahead.

So this is the question that she asked the women.

She said, what is the first loving thought or attribute that comes to mind when you think of your husband?

And the first thing I thought of was generous.

And you're not, not just generous financially, but generous in your time, your spirit, your affection, your willingness to help, your willingness to be there.

I mean, you're just, you are the most generous person I know.

Yes.

Well, it comes naturally.

Can I get a new ring?

Upgrade.

She says today, a stone fell out of my ring.

I think I need an upgrade.

I said, this is janky, janky jack stuff.

I need an upgrade.

It's time for an upgrade.

You go, have fun window shopping.

I looked at you and go, I'm serious.

So here's the text message I received from Alan.

Okay, guys.

Melinda made me send this and she says to suck it up, buttercups.

She sent this to the ladies last night and they all rocked it.

So we better step up.

Here's the question.

What is the first loving thought or attribute that comes to mind when you think of your queen?

three two one go what do you think i said i have no idea i was thinking compassionate love oh it's the first thing that came to mind it was the first thing because you are i am a compassionate person i guess you are so i wouldn't i don't like the word empathy and because i just empathy that's different it's not that's not really but you are compassionate on i mean you'll be watching something on Instagram, you go, oh, I mean, it doesn't matter who it is, where it is.

You, you immediately are compassionate.

You're filled with love for whoever or whatever their problem is or whatever their joy is.

It goes either way.

And that's the first thing.

So should I just read some of the others?

I won't tell you who they are.

One had compassion, full of the spirit, sincere empathy, positive and joyful.

I think I win.

I think I win.

I don't think it was a contest, It is.

I win.

I win.

Compassionate love.

Nailed it.

Nailed it.

That's really sweet, honey.

Thank you.

It's true.

It's the first thing that came to mind.

3-2-1-go.

And when someone says 3-2-1-go, I'm like, compassionate love.

I know.

The first word I thought of for you is generous by like a long shot.

So, yeah.

Especially with tech help.

No, just everything.

You're like, can I help?

Can I help?

Yeah, you can help.

I always want to help you.

Well, instead of, can I, cause you say, I want to fix this.

I want to fix this.

I've learned.

I've learned over the years.

I know.

And I remember that from the first time we were dating and you looked at my computer and you said, do you mind?

Can I help?

And I was like, wow.

Wow.

My heart just skipped a beat.

And now it's like, I need a new Mac.

This thing's, it is like an 18th hand-me-down from 15 years ago.

But you barely ever use it.

And when you find out that the iPad sucks.

Yeah, no kidding.

The iPad is not good for document storage.

I have no idea where things are on this thing.

This is Apple's way of making it easier for you.

I looked at Annette's Mac and I like it.

It's good.

It's nice.

No kidding.

Yeah.

It's a good one.

Yeah, that's a good one.

I need a new computer.

I mean.

You are now the president of Harvest Project.

And I need a new diamond.

All right.

How about we meet back here in two weeks and we talk about it?

Okay.

I love you.

I love you too, baby.

We'll see you next time.

Yeah.

Next time.

Next two weeks.

Next time.

Next two weeks.

Go to curryandthekieper.com.

In your nation.

In the evening.

With Curry and the Keeper.

Yeah, a curry and a keeper.

Curry and a keeper.