Episode Transcript
If you know what I'm saying so so shameless, if you know what I'm saying due so shameless, If you know what I'm saying so shamous, so shameless, so so so shameless.
Speaker 2If you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1So shameless, If you know what I'm saying so shameless, if you know what I'm saying so shameless, if you know what I'm saying so shameless.
Speaker 2Let's need attention.
So, being that you're looking for attention, I want to provide you what you're asking for.
You miss me?
What am I miss you?
I saw you yesterday when you was getting dragged?
Speaker 3Who dragged you yesterday?
Speaker 2When you getting who dragged you?
Who dragged you yesterday?
What happened?
You're right, I'm good.
He's kind of tired.
Speaker 4I'm good man.
Speaker 2He's withdrawn today.
Then he's shooting shots at me as if I did something to him.
Speaker 5I check my check.
That's good.
Speaker 2Huh, you're good.
Now she's gonna talk loud in that bro, don't even she's she's no, no, no violent, hello violent?
You hear the right voice?
Right?
You hear a voice?
Right?
Yeah?
Yesterday?
Are you okay?
Seriously?
I do want to ask you I know you had a row episode with our what is she a coach?
Uh, yeah, like a life coach, life coach, something like that, and she asked him about his dating and ship like that and got he got a little he got a little beat up.
Speaker 6I would say that I got vulnerable for a second.
I don't like, of course, you're gonna make it sound like something wasn't.
Speaker 4We had a real nice conversation.
Speaker 6It was a lot of learning, a lot of growth, a lot of room for spanshon.
Speaker 4So yeah, that's what happened.
Speaker 3This would be saying nothing but everything that was good.
Speaker 5Though.
Speaker 2We have a guest on the show today.
Speaker 5We do hello everybody, you know.
Speaker 2Actually, I don't even know if Trump is pulling up.
He said he was gonna try, but we didn't even have a micro for him.
Now I forgot, but we'll see if he pulls up.
I'm like, if we if he pulls up with Adam, Yes, we have a guest today.
Uh, Lola divine?
What is it?
Lola divine?
The Lola, divine Lola, the divine Lola?
Yeah, what is just Lola the divine?
That was just my Instagram here, But what's divine about you?
Speaker 5Everything?
I'm a child of God that in itself is divine.
Speaker 2But isn't all right?
Divinity?
Yes, divinity?
Do you walk in divinity?
Speaker 5The divinity in you?
Speaker 2Now?
Speaker 5Mis stay?
Speaker 2I said, I said, I say, that doesn't work.
Shout out, just show shameless community.
I'm hoping you guys are all enjoying the fall.
Have y'all changed y'all?
Uh oh, he did it so nonchalant.
He just walked in.
No problem.
Have y'all changed your houses to fall?
Stuffy?
Speaker 5Do all that decoration stuff?
I just like it.
You do do the Christmas and Thanksgiving?
And you got pumpkins up?
Speaker 3No, do y'all do that?
Speaker 2Pumpkins and spices?
Speaker 7And I do hate pumpkins spice though, but I do the like I changed the colors of the pillows and throw pillows on the couch.
Little decorations I have.
Like it's fall, y'all, like little faults are doing stuff.
Speaker 2I know dog should do that in school and all that she does?
Speaker 3About that?
Speaker 2Right?
Yeah, do y'all do that?
What's those thing?
Pine cones and shit like that around Christmas?
Pine cone smell?
Speaker 5Yeah?
Speaker 3I like pine con little cinnamon, some little.
Speaker 4A little sweeping tatter palm.
Speaker 3Yeah, I can't wait for Thanksgiving?
Speaker 2Yes, are you not supposed to wear white?
And do y'all do that?
Did not wear white?
I got the white sneakers all to day.
Speaker 5Yeah, I wear what I want to wear.
Speaker 3Yeah, I do what I want.
Speaker 5Somebody asked me that while white, I thought it was like white pants.
I didn't know the sneakers were.
Speaker 3Thought it was white pants and white shoes like white.
Speaker 4I thought it was like an all white outfit.
Speaker 2Yeah, you can't wear all white.
Speaker 5Listen, it's gonna be eighty two degrees this weekend.
We had the white you want.
Speaker 2I want the white sneakers to work today?
Niggas stepped on them?
Speaker 4Nice?
Speaker 5Why would you wear them?
Speaker 2New York job, nigga?
Because I was leaving, I was in the I got there, I changed into my clothes, I finished my round.
I'm leaving and the motherfucker's playing around with somebody and steps back, steps down on my ship.
Look like, got to the to the.
Speaker 4To the cloth, to the cloth, it's carry it's over.
Speaker 2It's over.
So yeah, does he owe me?
Like?
Because he was like, yo, my bad, and I was just looking at him like.
Speaker 5Remember do the right thing.
Speaker 3He was having a nigger moment shortage.
Speaker 2I had to focus.
I had to like calibrate my because if it's like yeah, it's it's over.
Speaker 4Yeah.
Speaker 2So I just and he's a white boy cool damn.
Speaker 5So he doesn't know.
Speaker 3He doesn't He.
Speaker 2Said sorry a bunch of times.
As I walked out, he was still.
Speaker 5Like, yo, your energy?
Speaker 2What do I what do I do?
What?
Such?
It's just nothing you eat that.
Speaker 4I mean, you could go to the next phase.
Speaker 2What's the next phase?
The next chair?
Speaker 6The next phase is just you could just start rocking a little, you know.
The white people they were the dirty ups and stuff.
That's like a style.
Speaker 5Have you got into that port of life yet?
That's like dirty ups?
Speaker 2Like you could just go if I'm about to wash my car or some shing like that.
I don't walk around like I don't you I don't.
I can't.
You know they sell dirty ups now, yeah, yeah, they style a sneaker.
They sell dirty white uptowns now.
But I haven't.
No, that's not my thing.
I'm not I'm not even fast forward enough to do it.
I feel like the fashion girls can wear dirty sneakers and make it look good.
I can't.
Speaker 5I've never seen a dirty uptown look nice.
Yes, that's not that's not not that maybe a dirty chock.
Speaker 7So there's nobody a dirty chuck, yes, but dirty uptown you wild.
Speaker 2So there's nobody in here that thinks I would be right for saying, Bro, you owe me a book forty?
Speaker 5Nah?
Speaker 2No, you you're paying a book for you go to HR.
Yeah, you're stuck on my ship, playing around, working around.
Speaker 5What's he on the clock?
Speaker 2Yeah?
But I ain't doing all that.
I'm not.
Speaker 3I don't care, but he was.
Speaker 6It's your fault because why would you wear white air forces?
So like get off work?
Like, get off work?
Yeah, Like why did you need to wear those?
Speaker 5Is this what you had to want?
Speaker 2Yeah?
Speaker 5You left work like this.
Speaker 2I went to work from somewhere and got dressed into my outfit.
I dressed.
I don't want to say nice at work, but I'm my shirt is tucked into my pants like I feel like I'm a presentable ass nigger.
Speaker 5Listen, at this point, there's nothing you can do about it.
We are older.
You can't whip his ass.
What if you don't want to give you the one forty?
What you're gonna do?
Speaker 2Right, he's saying, I can't so I can't wear nice things to work.
That's what I'm saying.
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3With your specific job, I don't know why you would do.
Speaker 5Your people know what you do, damn people.
Speaker 2So I have to go to I have to have a grunge outfit to go to where I have to walk through the streets grungey to go to work because of my occupation.
Speaker 3You can do whatever you want to do.
Speaker 2That's what you said.
I'm asking you.
Speaker 6I feel like this, all right, there's certain things that I just feel like you can wear anything you want.
But it's like I just wouldn't wear that.
Like there's certain sneakers that I just would never wear to work.
I don't know if what's going on.
I'm just never gonna wear those because if a kid to step on it.
Speaker 5What I'm gonna say, what you're gonna do?
Speaker 4Yeh, What I'm saying, Like what I'm gonna do.
Speaker 3I almost kick the kid once for putting drop red slime on my times.
Speaker 5I hate slime.
Speaker 7And I hate it slime from that day.
Speaker 5I didn't know coming my daughter threw slime on the ceiling.
There's still a slime splot.
I hate it.
That's my every time she asked, it's like you see this.
Speaker 7Yeah, no, it's a hell no.
Yeah, slime is not allowed in my house.
But I would never like.
That was one of those moments and I was just like, red slime on my brand new butters, Like should you.
Speaker 5Wear brand new butters in the school environment.
Speaker 3I was good because, like I have boundaries.
Speaker 2The certain time, you can't go to school, you can't go to work because this nigga wears all his new sneakers there.
I don't care what he said.
You literally in videos every day dressed like yesterday, Hey, dress like me.
You show all your nice sneakers off.
They all have white in them.
They can all be stepped on.
Not true, they can.
Okay, I just want black age.
Speaker 4Yesterday.
Speaker 2Great, that was yesterday.
But you understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 5Look looking at it.
Speaker 2You can't wear nice things to your occupation.
Speaker 7I think I think that there is an accountability that you have to take knowing that it's possible that your ship is going to get mess.
Speaker 5You can do whatever you want to do, but you can't control with someone else to do, and you cannot control him giving you one forty because he's not giving to you.
He doesn't even understand the value of why these white sneakers would cost one forty.
Speaker 6He do, He's just not paying you.
He's like nigga, no, I said sorry to get out of here.
Speaker 5That's it.
What makes you think that because you you mentioned that he was white, So in my mind, if you have to mention that he's white, that means he probably does not respect the value of a fresh I just.
Speaker 2The idea because what he's trying to do is for with my ego, y'all real.
I'm just like, yo, what what did I do?
Speaker 3Seventy three types of pussy?
Speaker 2Like you think that if I tell his nigga that, like what?
But then I wouldn't even do that because he's my friend.
He's my friends a friend.
Yeah, so I literally would let's walk in there, like, yo, bro, you know, I can't do nothing with this.
And because you was fucking around I she just sucked up.
We got to figure that out.
Speaker 3Why did you try to bully him?
Speaker 2Because how was that this accountability?
Speaker 5That's not accountability.
You can't control his accountability.
That's accountability as a person who would have gave.
Speaker 4You the money off rip if if he.
Speaker 5Felt that way, damn you buy you another pair.
He ain't say that, so he's not going I.
Speaker 4Told you, he told you, yo, go ahead, I said, yo, my bad, get along.
Speaker 3He's not doing that.
Speaker 2Speaking about friendship, Gosh, why I had an issue?
Speaker 3We don't have no issue.
What are you talking about?
Speaker 2And she thinks I might be wrong?
Apparently I'm wrong.
Speaker 3I didn't say you were wrong.
Speaker 2You're saying I'm wrong.
Speaker 3I did not say that.
Speaker 2I said you were wrong.
You did say that Dodge goes out to a party.
You look nice at that party.
Wait a minute, I know that place.
Oh that's a place that I do business with.
She's like, yes, it's our friend's party.
I'm like, oh, that's kind of fucked up because I didn't know he was having his party.
The party is literally half a mile three quarters of a mile from here.
Dodge lives in Jersey.
Speaker 5I have a problem with my friends.
Come from out of state, and don't let me know.
Speaker 2You went past my crib, because you have to go past.
Speaker 4My crib to get to that past the spot to get this.
Speaker 5You know, you go.
Speaker 3You know, I don't know what you're talking about.
This nobody was thinking about you, you.
Speaker 2Know, such and such having party.
Now you're going to such and such a party, and we've had this conversation.
Lo, Look, we've had these conversations that I don't be really member and don't we've had these conversations, right, help me, help be a nice person to people, because I don't.
Speaker 1Even know.
Speaker 2Huh nothing.
Speaker 3I'm talking to my man, Yes.
Speaker 4Talking about something.
Speaker 2Yes, I am Yo.
Speaker 5Even was a vibe.
Speaker 2Okay, were you there?
Yeah?
Speaker 3Because we were together together.
So are you mad at everybody in a room?
Speaker 2No?
Because she doesn't know that.
She doesn't even know that I'm the one who set him up with the spot.
Speaker 3It's not about you.
Why are you centering yourself?
Speaker 2He really reached out like, yo, do you know anywhere?
Yes?
Speaker 5Yeah, Okay, he ain't mad at me.
Speaker 2I was actually mad at her because.
Speaker 7Trying to be mad at me because I didn't because I didn't alert him where me and my husband was having date night because for some reason, that was his business.
Speaker 2Why are you making this about you and your husband.
It's literally our friend that's throwing a party that you were attending the party with your husband.
It's about you attending this our friend's party, not about going out for date night.
First of all, while you're making this about him, First.
Speaker 7Of all, that's not what it was about, because at first I didn't even know that seven o five belonged to our friend.
Speaker 3I found that out later.
I saw because that's the way that it was given.
Speaker 5His identity Batman.
Nobody knew yeh, like.
Speaker 3No, even in there he was interesting.
Neither had nor there.
I didn't know.
Speaker 7But the premise of what it was, I was like, wait, this should sound cool.
Speaker 3I love an R and B party, and it's like, wait they playing R and B B.
Speaker 7Because oh yeah, and I just put it on the calendar for date night.
It honestly, it was on somebody else's story, like are you in the room?
Speaker 3I said, oh, what's this?
Speaker 7And then I clicked on the page and then I saw that the page had mutual followers with me, and I'm like, no, ten no shade.
Speaker 3I was like, if they know about this, I'm cool too.
Fuck out of here.
Speaker 7So when I followed the page, and that's literally what happened.
So you didn't know, No No, I didn't know it was no no no a few weeks I found out a few weeks afterwards.
Speaker 3No no, no no.
Speaker 2But originally after what all right?
Speaker 5So first, first you followed the page, you have to request you order to get a ticket.
Speaker 3You have to so no, first you listen to me.
No, I did not know.
Speaker 7A few weeks after, listen to what I'm saying.
The first time I followed the page, I did not know.
Then they dropped a link about a party playing B sides, R and B music in Brooklyn, and I said, oh, I can do that.
So then I literally went bought the tickets and set up the date night for me and Drew.
So afterwards, you get like a member I D.
And with the member I D like you had like a number, they ask you for a picture.
But then I saw on his page he kind of was saying the same things as the other page.
So then I really looked at the page and I'm like, oh, this is you.
But he was still keeping his identity.
Speaker 3On some batman ship and he was like, no, that's not me.
Speaker 7Or like if he was writing me from the page, he would be like, remember such and such whatever my number is, and I'm telling y'all.
He was like, remember you have been invited to like talking to me like we're not dead ass friends.
Speaker 5And I thought that was cool.
Speaker 2Very nice, But you did know.
I found out, and you did know, not later because I hit you maybe the next day after the party or the day after that, like yo, these pictures from last night.
Speaker 7No, No, What you're not understanding is I did not know it was our friend's party when I first, when you first, But when you knew you were going, you knew it was his party.
Speaker 2Yes, and you did not say yo, because it was.
That's fine.
So that's why I had a problem with her.
I'm not going to keep going back and forth.
Speaker 3YO, tell me one.
Speaker 5I appreciate you guys having a good dynamic that you can share that you're upset and y'all will still be friends.
Speaker 2That I was bothered, but more so than.
Speaker 5I do think you could have been like, yo, you're going why do that?
Speaker 3Because at that point I'm going on with my husband.
I didn't give a fuck.
Speaker 5Well that and that is the answer.
She didn't care about the exact moment because she was with exactly.
Speaker 3Look at my husband either.
Why why does she have to tell you what my.
Speaker 5Husband she's about?
Nobody, I'm damn sure wasn't.
Speaker 2It's fine and all that being fine?
Whatever the fuck are you?
So now?
Time now me and him is under he's under my he's under my comments.
Right, I said, you know, thanks for the invite to your party that I set you up with.
You see how I said, it's very passive aggressive here doesn't say nothing else.
Speaker 3It was aggressive.
Speaker 2Right.
She's now telling me there's another one.
She's like, are you going?
So first of all, I told her I appreciate her telling me about this time.
Speaker 5She's making a man.
Speaker 2I'm not really I told you I'm not.
It was what it was.
I called out on it when I felt how felt away?
Speaker 3How dare I?
Speaker 2And now she's saying, are you going?
And I said, know why?
Because you literally are having a recurrent like, yo, thank you that meeting went well, thank you for linking me with the place.
Hey it went well.
Hey we're having a body I booked the day anything like bro, I went and helped you with this.
You wouldn't even say, like yo, things went well.
And so now I have to go through the process like every other person that has no idea what's going on you?
Because that's what's happening.
You actually said, did you follow the page?
Did you you know all.
Speaker 3This to me because you follow your friend's party?
Page because I didn't know what's going on but you.
But when you found out why, he.
Speaker 2Told me, Hey, I'm trying to do an event.
Do you know any place?
I said, let me make some calls.
I made the calls, I connected them, I backed the way.
I don't know what what's what I'm getting my friend the favorite.
Now you have a whole movement.
And don't even say nothing.
Speaker 5Personally, No, no, because I don't want to dismiss how you feel me personally.
I probably would have been like I would have been like, hey, you have a special invite your member number three, Like you know what I mean something, I can understand why he feels a way.
Speaker 2And now after I say something, now you know, oh shit, damn.
I didn't even tell this nigga that I booked the spot.
Now you're recurring this ship and then I tell you, a damn bro, Really you still on somewhemp?
Oh well yeah, no, I ain't pulling up.
No good luck.
I wish you the best.
And I heard the party's fire.
I heard it.
But he is an eloquent, elite ass nigga.
So yes, his ship is going to be good, and I wish him the best.
But damn bro.
Really, But now, now when you reach out next time, am I gonna go that length?
Because y'all you didn't even respect the fact that I did that.
Speaker 5I think he should show up to the party.
You can still feel how you feel.
You're my plus one.
Speaker 3I am not nominating him.
I'm not not him his attitude because we don't need that.
Speaker 5I think you have every right to feel that way.
Speaker 3I don't think that.
Speaker 7I never said that you were wrong again, because I'm not making this black and white, right and wrong.
I said, I don't understand why you're taking it to this length.
You can feel how you feel, but you're dragging it now in my opinion, because now you're purpose you now you know, you know that it's happening.
You might feel some type of way about not having that acknowledgment, But then also should you really feel that way, because if you did something out the kindness of your heart you didn't need did you need that?
Speaker 3Thank you?
Speaker 7Did you need that?
And if you needed that, that's cool.
I understand that.
But for me, like I wouldn't take it that far.
Now you know you're linked with these people, you know the owners of the business.
Nobody is gonna turn you away at the door.
It's not that serious.
I don't know why we're taking it.
I think we're taking it further.
Speaker 5Than but it feels good to be acknowledged.
Right.
Speaker 3A lot of things feel good.
Speaker 7But at this point, you know that your friends were there, you know that your friends are going to.
Speaker 3Be there again.
Why not come?
Speaker 7It's like it's like you're not coming to be almost self righteous, like you didn't say thank you, so now I'm not going to show up?
Speaker 3Okay, Nikki?
The fuck is wrong with your It's not less sarious?
Speaker 4How smoke point on that oil cooking over there?
Speaker 2Lo?
Lo?
How you feel about what you said?
Speaker 5I think you have a valid point of feeling how you feel, But I would go.
I would go and be like, all right, bitch, I'm here the invite and then party.
You said?
How you feel?
And now still show up because it's a vibe and.
Speaker 2It's your friend yesterday.
How you feel you've been over there doing all these little effect How do I feel?
How do you feel?
Brother?
Speaker 3You went a nomination?
Speaker 6I was just about to say, to be honest with you, nobody invited me, so I don't give Yeah, somebody nominated me.
Speaker 3Then nominate yesterday so you can come.
I'm all nonmed out.
Speaker 4About Yes.
Speaker 3I nominated several.
Speaker 4People and you didn't nominate or me.
Speaker 3No.
Speaker 5She already said how I don't need to be in the room because of his Why yesterday didn't get a nomination?
Speaker 3He didn't ask me for I didn't know.
Speaker 4I didn't even know this ship existed.
Speaker 5Yeah.
Speaker 7When I started posting it, people was like hitting me up, like yo, can you.
Speaker 2Get me in?
Speaker 7Can you get me in?
And I'm like, I got you.
I only nominated people to ask me.
Speaker 6So I work with you every week and I see you almost every week.
And it just didn't.
It didn't.
Speaker 4It didn't just register to say hold up yes for me.
Speaker 2Yeah, you know that I'm finding new ship today look at this.
Speaker 7But you know what, I will find you.
A nominated I'll get I'll get my friend to nominate you.
She has a No, I nominated her?
Speaker 2Which one you?
Hey?
Your brother, My brother asked you question.
You made it about yourself very interesting, but you was definitely overhead with the acknowledgement.
Just a lot going on over it.
No, no, no, do you when it comes to friendships and ship like that, do you feel like I'm bugging, Like, what do you think is like, can you be genuine or not hating?
Because if you're genuine and you disagree, cool, But if you're just gonna hate because that's the mood you win.
Speaker 6No, no, no, I don't.
I don't want to hear your no.
No no I can no no, no no.
I do I understand where you're coming from.
I do understand where you feel like you linked something or you or you made a play, not that you needed to have some grand acknowledgment, but just the call or just the like you know, like oh yo, for me, ship went well you know what I'm saying, or the ship worked whatever whatever, So I understand what you're saying.
I don't think you're saying something crazy, but I do think I feel like with you doing that, you should have the cachet to be like, oh nah fuck that.
Speaker 2I'm pulling up right.
Speaker 6Invite or notmer member or not nigga, I'm pulling up out of here.
Speaker 3Like if it wasn't for me, you would have none of this ship I'm pulling up.
Speaker 4That's how I would move.
Speaker 6I wouldn't even I wouldn't even sign up, I wouldn't follow ships could.
Speaker 5Be true at the same time, I could be annoyed, like I don't.
It's not that I need validation, like I'm insecure and need the validation.
But damn like you putting on this big shindig.
I'm a part of the crew.
I think this time they got food.
Speaker 3I cannot.
It's going to be a ball.
Speaker 2So the nigga, this small man in the.
Speaker 3Comments, don't put my husband small.
Speaker 2The tiny nigga.
Speaker 5So you do for someone and expecting something back every time.
Speaker 4That's also a good point.
Speaker 5Weren't you just talking about etiquette?
Speaker 7Yes, you know, because he was trying to tie this to etiquette, and I was trying to say, as a nigga that just opened mouth, sneezed and didn't give a fuck about nobody.
Speaker 2Covering my mouth.
But I didn't do it well enough, Yes I did.
I did like this.
I didn't do it well enough.
I acknowledged that I was wrong, and I said I wouldn't do it again next time.
Speaker 5So divided as a culture on what's proper and what's not like again, because we said proper is going into your elbow sleep.
That's what you seezed five times into your hand.
Speaker 3And you had to wash your hand.
Speaker 7You touch people, but you would have because I tell you to wash your hands.
Speaker 2You're touching people.
I'm standing over here.
Speaker 5You're not gonna like, You're not gonna tap nobody.
You see what I'm.
Speaker 2Saying, wash your hand?
Speaker 3Why do to wash my hand?
Speaker 2I didn't even let it sneeze out.
I sneezed into my mouth.
I did not even let it out.
Speaker 3Okay, now your mouth open.
Nothing happened.
Speaker 5This is the perfect example of what I was about to say.
Speaker 3We are all Look.
Speaker 5That's perfect example, though, because we all feel a different way about small minute things.
So me personally, I like the acknowledgment.
I like to do for my people's but I love of my peoples be like thank you, and I would have loved to bring a bottle.
Right when I was already running late, he was talking mass shit.
So I wasn't about to stop at the liquor store.
My homebird, you was talking shit.
Speaker 2I didn't say.
Speaker 5My hairstylist moved into a new spot.
I had not been there in the last three months since she's been there.
When I went to go get my hair done, I bought her flowers.
I'm that type of person.
I feel like if I show up somewhere, I should have something, But other people don't feel that way.
And it's not about them being wrong.
It's just that we have not been raised cohesively as a generation to all have the same outlook on something.
Everybody, you know how that whole like don't say shit to my child, But then you've got somebody else that's like it takes a village.
It's different things.
So, yes, you have validity in your feelings, but I don't think you should not attend the.
Speaker 2Function totally understanding.
I mean, everybody has the different feelings about it.
Speaker 7I want to say, like when you talk about like things that are like minute and how people think differently.
I was looking at this video on Instagram yesterday.
I was cracking the fuck up and I played it like four times because I totally resonate with this, And tell me if y'all agree, you're ready hear.
Speaker 3It in the outside of the cuff.
Speaker 2That's not wet.
Speaker 3I'm not drinking it.
Hold on, where's your hospitality?
Speaker 2Is a fuck?
Are you just starting?
Oh that wasn't That wasn't the clip.
Speaker 3No, that was the clip, But it's that's my cup out.
What you're doing like, do not hear me no beverage tasting like cabinet.
I don't care if you just washed it, it was already wet.
Print it out again just because.
Speaker 1You breathed on it, like just because you had your booty fingers on my rim.
Speaker 6With y'all.
Speaker 5This won this wone.
Speaker 3No, I'm good, don't even worry about it.
Speaker 1And another thing, if you to bring me a beverage in the outside of the cuff that's not wet, I'm.
Speaker 4Not drinking it.
Speaker 3How do you guys feel about that?
Because I was cracking up because I I agree.
Speaker 5That's what it made.
My cup as soon as I pulled it out.
The cabinet just.
Speaker 3Taste like.
Speaker 2Sure, there's people that don't.
They don't know you have to wash it, and I do that just so that you don't feel like I'm on some dirty ship, Like I definitely want even if I know the cup clean, I want you to see, hey, I'm cleaning it again.
Speaker 5I'm making an effort, extra effort for you.
Speaker 2Yeah, but that's the point, the effort, that is the point of all of this.
Where somebody doesn't negates the effort.
Yeah, you have a right to feel away this tiny midget motherfucker and your comments that you fucking sleep next to every night, talks about Oh, yo, I don't mind.
You don't take it anyway.
I don't Oh you're doing something for someone and expects something back every time.
No, it's the lack of attache, and it's like, yo, it's insulting.
It's kind of insulting.
Speaker 1You know.
Speaker 5Back in the day, we used to have etiquette classes.
Speaker 3And that's what I'm saying, like, as somebody that.
Speaker 7A part of my upbringer was actually very like Christian conservative understanding that I don't see a lot of etiquette period for one person to uplift like this lacks etiquette, like you were wearing a hat inside talking about etiquette, like.
Speaker 2Your hats all the time exactly.
Speaker 7I am not the picture of like that would not be my argument against somebody.
It wouldn't be like it lacks.
Speaker 5Etiquette modern times like everything changes, right, Yeah, so wearing hats indoors unless you're in the military isn't really seen as a lack of etiquette.
But if my grandmother was alive today and I walked in that house with a hat on, and she didn't give a fuck what my hair looked like, and she's like, take that head off at the table, take that head off when you walk in my house, Like, there's certain people that really abide by all of the rules.
Speaker 3And I don't think that we should pick and choose.
I think that you're valid in saying that your feelings are hurt, because that's really what it is.
Your feelings are more so hurt.
Speaker 7So it's that instead of saying like, oh, this person lacks etiquette, like no, this person hurt my feelings because I wanted to benotic.
Speaker 2I think that was a lapse.
That's what happened.
You should have that, and you put that.
Then you reach back out to the person like, yo, thanks, I think it's gonna go well.
And what date did you pick?
Like have that convo?
Won't just go about your day?
Have the ship.
Then when I say something, you just act like, oh you be passive aggressive.
Don't say nothing like passive aggressive.
Speaker 3But you could have owned it and been like, hey, friend, I heard that you had a party.
Damn man, hurt my feelings that you didn't even tell me about it.
Speaker 7I would love to have come and support you, like, because these are your feelings, this is how you really feel.
Speaker 3So my thing is we can't.
Speaker 7I would not respond in that way for me, and I'm and I'm keen to pressing my friends.
You hurt my feelings.
I'm finn to press you.
I'm not gonna be passive aggressive about it, like, oh no, no, I'm not.
Speaker 2You're literally very passive aggressive when you about things of this nature.
How you say things that are passive aggressive about things of this nature.
Oh so, yeah, I see that you had your little this or that you do say that.
Speaker 3I said that I've ever said something like that to you.
Yes, give me an example.
Speaker 2I need an example.
Come on, that's not because because.
Speaker 3This type of person, So I need to say that you've done.
Speaker 2Yeah, I don't think that's fair.
Give me an example in the midst of a conversation.
Now, say that you don't have to be thinking of something.
I know you've done it, but it's fine.
Speaker 5Yes, I was just going to say, the next time it happens, if he does something, if he calls it out offended.
Speaker 3No, I'm not going to be offended.
I'm like, if this is what it is.
Speaker 7When we had the conversation, you doing it again, And that's valid, right because because this is my first time ever hearing that from you.
So if you feel that type of way that I'm being passive aggressive instead of direct, yes, definitely give me that feedback.
Speaker 3I could switch that up.
Speaker 2You can be direct.
You are mostly direct, but you have your moments and lapses where you do pass ship because you're also my friend.
So you feel like, yo, I'm doing this to tease or whatever, which is exactly what I was doing with him, right, But at that point I would think you reach out on the back end like yo.
Speaker 7But then also when you have to talk, when we're talking about things that people don't do, you are assuming background knowledge and I think that that's really where you have an impassed because if one thing is like I know that you know better than this, then I can hold you to that standard.
Speaker 3Versus has this ever happened to y'all before?
Have you ever been in this?
Speaker 2He's gay?
Speaker 5That means.
Speaker 2He knows he's gay, everybody knows he's gay.
Speaker 5Everybody might not know he's gay.
Speaker 2Is he.
Speaker 3Did he?
Speaker 2Yes, we've talked about, he's been on the show.
We've talked, he's been on the show.
We've talked he's gay.
So now Ivory gay people have him him let's not talk about all but him.
He is very on point with etiquette class the way he carries him, him, him him, So what of him being gay?
I don't know, but I just brought it up.
Speaker 5You know, etiquette is societal.
Speaker 3I keep going back to this is the lack of etiquette, and.
Speaker 5In the torch, I just have to say, etiquette is a society based thing.
So because societal societally, we are all on different pages.
Your etiquette and somebody else's ate the same.
This is the question when people become friends, do we talk about this?
You know how when you're dating somebody, you're like, what's your color?
Speaker 2You know?
Speaker 5What do you how do you channel your emotions when you're angry?
What do you do when you're happy?
We don't talk about this with new friends.
Are you laughing at oh lord?
Okay, wait, but somebody said, do you still talk to the lady?
Speaker 2It's fine, listen.
I know when I'm in a hostile environment with this group, me personally, I feel like if it was me that did this to somebody else, they would still come in me like, yo, if you did that, why wouldn't you have reached out?
If you know they that they felt the way, why didn't you say nothing?
Now it's me, it's oh, why wouldn't you?
It's just that's what it is at the end of the day is you are o G.
We expect more from you, and that's fine.
Speaker 5I'm human because you're a human.
Speaker 2It's not fair like you'll always do that with me.
It's fine.
Speaker 4I know.
Speaker 2Like I said, when I sneezed, I was like, we got beef.
Speaker 5We haven't spoken in a while, and I feel like you know, and I said absolutely said it's like, why would we have beef?
Okay, just make it sure?
Speaker 3Yeah, because sometimes you got a person.
Speaker 5But you know, some people don't do that.
Some people will let things fester and that's where resentment comes and then they will have these passive aggressive marks.
I'd rather just be like we are right.
Speaker 3Should have pressed that.
Speaker 2Nigga, I should press them.
Speaker 3Yeah, you have to do.
Speaker 5You ain't invite me for ano.
Speaker 2Bitch, Like why you ain't inviting said something?
Speaker 5Event and be like give me this is the thing.
Speaker 3Right shipping, I'm go like, yo, I'm pussy running up with you.
Speaker 5Where's where am I at?
Speaker 2Right?
Speaker 6I'm making sure I'm coming in that ship and unsubscribed no membership.
Speaker 4I'm not following the damn thing.
Speaker 2I don't in this ship.
Speaker 3Shot at take a shot the funk out of here.
Don't tell me what to do.
Speaker 2Jesus, this niggas on the being the phone over there in that damn fire house, coming for you.
This Molly called them attle tiny nigga.
I think that's what it was.
I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 5They were really sexy together though.
This was the first time I've seen him in person, and I was like, I would watch it was sexy.
Speaker 3It was sexy.
Speaker 5That's a compliment, that's a lot, no weirdness, but it was very sexy to see you.
I love that for you.
Speaker 3I love him so much and he's so amazing.
Speaker 7And because she was worried about her and my name, I wasn't thinking about a no of nobody.
Speaker 2That's not true.
We had so much actually think about them, because youve seen them all.
It was going to be there and you want to be there.
But it's fine.
I am a cool kid.
Speaker 3Because I saw who was the following the page, I said, what the well, I don't know what this is.
Speaker 5I'm supposed to know him?
Are you going to be my first one?
I will nominate you because people have reached out to.
Speaker 2The person and tell them I'm not feeling how I was excluded, and we'll see what happens after that.
Speaker 4Okay, there's somebody go to nominate me.
Speaker 3I told him I'm gonna hit I'm gonna I'm gonna tell her to nominate you.
Speaker 5People have reached out to me, but I don't know their etiquettes.
Yeah, so I have not nominated them because you ain't about to embarrass me exactly.
Speaker 2They ain't gonna be like who.
Speaker 5Exactly, So you're gonna be on your you know, good behavior always.
Speaker 2Yesterday I did nominate you to come with me to the nb A Young Boy concert.
Speaker 5That's scary.
Speaker 2He's been asking me to go on a date for months.
Speaker 5Oh wait, didn't you go already?
Speaker 3Yeah?
He went.
Speaker 5How'd you enjoy that?
Speaker 2Oh?
It was horrible.
I was glad that I was able to have this experience for my kids and for yesterday.
Yesterday was viban.
Speaker 5They was loving that ship.
Speaker 2He was vibing.
He was you know, was in the air and he was being all like he was, No, I'm not I don't know, So why would you having such.
Speaker 5A good time?
Speaker 6Because I love live music and even sometimes if I don't know the music, like seeing a crowd and stuff like, you can just get in seah, you just feel an energy feet.
Speaker 3It's nothing I want to me in a room full Ofwaiians.
I'm gonna have a panic attack.
Yeah, I'm literally gonna have a heart palpitation.
Speaker 2One of little niggas was hit me in the head with his handkerchief.
They all showed up with green handkerchiefs and their black so they jumped like one of them shits because I'm waiting for her to bring us backstage.
This nigga hit me and shit, I'm turning away on my battle.
Speaker 5G Oh your og now yo.
Speaker 2The nigga walked up.
Another nigga came from over here over to me and say, Yo, you're a young Boyfrian or you here with your kids.
I'm definitely with my kids.
He's like, oh yeah, because I don't see.
Speaker 5How does that feel?
Speaker 2It's real?
That's literally my life.
I ate, I'm fifty almost fifty one.
Speaker 5You're fifty right now today.
Speaker 4Today, I'm almost fifty one right.
Speaker 5Now, you are fine as fuck work.
Speaker 3Yes, I was giving maybe forty six maybe.
Speaker 2All right?
Speaker 5Do that ship, yo, methan man, all these old niggas niggers could she.
Speaker 4Thought, she thought you're the method.
Speaker 2All right, don't want to go home.
He is strong on inside of the room.
She was gonna be fine, be fine, nigga, change the camera and I couldn't get there.
You go real quick, like nigga hate it.
Speaker 3Because Malcolm x I was like, fine, motherfucker.
Speaker 5No, he was a fine motherfucker.
But Martin Luther King looked.
Speaker 3Very aged, yeah, because his head was boxing.
Speaker 5See you're making it weird.
I'm trying to be respectful.
Speaker 3A big head and a big ass face at twenty six.
Speaker 5He was looking age.
Speaker 2He was.
Speaker 3He wasn't thirty when he died.
Speaker 5He was under thirty when he thirty.
Speaker 4Like that, Okay, that's what was going on.
You're like the young niggas that look old.
Speaker 5So where you fifty and you're looking.
Speaker 2Like, yeah he was under thirty.
Speaker 5Yeah I made twenty seven.
I don't think he made twenty seven.
I think twenty six was it?
Speaker 2What?
Yeah?
Wow?
Yes, did you know that?
Yeah?
Speaker 6A lot of those people died not old, bro, like, very like mid twenties, early thirties.
Bro, You like what you thought they was fifty.
Speaker 3Oh he was thirty nine when he died.
Speaker 7But still who mlka he was thirty nine, but that you thought he was fifty sea ass had he had a face?
Speaker 3Was his face so big in his twenties?
He was in his twenties.
Speaker 2Listen, I ain't judging you, man.
Come on, he's crazy, y'all are going crazy.
Speaker 5Yeah, no, we're not judging him.
We're comparing to how we have elevated.
In Angela Bassett, it is bad she's sixty three.
No, she doesn't.
Your grandma was sixty three.
Speaker 2Sixty three she is three.
Speaker 7Definitely what you're gonna look like at sixty three, you're gonna be like one of them old brolic niggas.
Speaker 2I have no idea.
Speaker 4They don't have the white man.
Speaker 2I hope I make it.
You make it.
My daughter has grandchildren and I'm able to hold them and take care of them.
Speaker 3And oh, your daughter has children for you.
Speaker 2Children gives me grandchildren by then, that's thirteen years from now, you know, Yes, I would.
I would love to reach that point in my life at the time.
Apprpriate.
I have no idea, but they call me it now.
Everywhere I go pops all types of ships.
Speaker 3Is what it is pop pop.
Speaker 5You know Mary Mary Jli don't like being called auntie and.
Speaker 3It's like girl.
Speaker 2You know.
The funny thing is somebody said, why do we have to say Mary J.
Blige's whole name?
Speaker 5Because Mary about Mary Magdalene.
Speaker 2Want Mary?
Speaker 4I told him that is Mary Mary.
Speaker 2And the nigga's name isn't even married.
Speaker 3You can't call gospel artists niggas.
Speaker 2And you definitely can't even call them like yo, if there was one Mary, if they say yo, Mary's at the Palladium, Mary's was Did a new Mary came out with a new album?
We all know who Mary is.
Speaker 5I don't know the same reason why we gotta call Laurence Hill miss Hill like it's I.
Speaker 3Don't call that what you call her?
Speaker 4Late lady, late lady, late lady.
Speaker 3They can't sing no song the way that I remember.
Speaker 5You know why she can't?
I know, Okay, I'm gonna take him out before that talking about my height.
Speaker 2Damn sorry, it's affected in the comments.
You know.
Speaker 7I can't wait for the day that you really pussed me off, and I like, mush you like on air, stop talking about my husband.
No me and Toname would beat you up together.
That's a crazy one because if I really mushed you to, they would be on my side.
Speaker 2I don't care.
Speaker 5I don't care.
Speaker 2Verdict came out today in the Diddy case.
Speaker 5I don't think it was enough time.
Speaker 2I do.
I think he got fifty months.
It's equivalent fifty two months, I believe it, which is equivalent to about four years in prison with.
Speaker 5The thirteen or fourteen time served time serve.
Speaker 2So I believe that's another year and a half before he's eligible exactly.
Speaker 5To come out, which is why I don't think it was enough time.
Speaker 1I don't.
Speaker 5I think eleven was way too much.
I'm thinking maybe six.
Speaker 2Hmm.
Gosh, how you feel about that?
Speaker 5I know you got feelings about that.
I don't really Did you grow up in a bad boy era?
Speaker 2Yeah?
Speaker 5Did you really look at him as No?
No, you never saw him as that.
I mean, we don't.
Speaker 3We don't know.
Speaker 5He was weird as fuck.
We all knew he had as ship.
Speaker 2I mean, do you not want to give you an opinion on this?
Speaker 3I don't have one.
Speaker 2So what is that?
I don't have an opinion?
What is that?
Speaker 3That means that?
Speaker 7When I saw the verdict on Instagram, I scrolled, and then it popped up again, and then I scrolled again, and I was trying to like get away from it, and it was kept popping up, so and then I closed my phone.
Speaker 2Well, okay, so this is where you're going with it.
You just don't want to talk about it, that's fine.
Speaker 3It's not that I don't.
I think that.
I think that the misconception sometimes is.
Speaker 2You don't want to talk about it.
Speaker 3It's not that I don't want to talk about it.
I literally don't have.
Speaker 2Enough all types of you don't care about like we like.
Speaker 3This is because I don't believe that rich people get there do justice anyway.
Speaker 2So I don't.
Speaker 3I don't.
I don't have an opinion on it.
It's just like it's another rich man that got a slap on the wrist for some shit.
Speaker 5Right, So fifty months was enough for what he allegedly did, for what I was convicted of.
Speaker 3What was he convicted of?
Because it wasn't everything.
Speaker 5The man crossing state lines, the process, constitution, that's it.
Now that that that's what we've seen on television, what we've seen in the video.
Speaker 2Right, was convicted of.
Y'all want to y'all want to even though he was a quitted of those charges intro.
And that's my problem because I thought that he was disgusting.
I knew he's been a vile individual.
I've worked, I've been around him, I've seen how he treats people like literally, and this ain't about me.
But I'm just saying, like, I ain't know for a fact he's a vile individual.
So yes, nigga, I was never like defending him.
But if we're talking about the legal system and the court system, this is what he was convicted of, prostitution.
Speaker 5One has the legal system ever been a bit does for us because slavery was legal.
Nice and what they're doing right now and pulling those kids out and zip time them in Chicago was legal.
Speaker 2So what do y'all think that based off of how y'all feel about this, even though he was acquitting whatever, y'all, he should still do life.
Speaker 5No, I don't.
I said six.
Six, I said six.
I said four.
Speaker 2He got four and a half.
Speaker 5He's eligible for parole in a year and a half.
Speaker 2What is the difference between two what's two years?
All right?
The two year difference is where you're like, no, And what I think is he spends another year and a half in jail.
In that time, he yo.
I personally think in that time he should definitely take account of what he did to people, the way he affected them.
There should be a real effort.
Two.
I don't want to say like when you pay somebody back restitution, but emotional like, there should be something where you're truly apology.
You're truly apologetic because he can't give back the time of mental abuse that he took from Cassie.
Can't give that back.
You can't give back what you did with the other girl, So there needs to be something there.
I don't know.
Speaker 3Jill doesn't rehabilitate people.
Speaker 5It's not a rehabilitation facility.
Speaker 7So he's just gonna sit there on his hands until it's time for him to come back out, and either he's going to continue to do the same things or do the same things differently, more discreetly.
I don't know what I'm supposed to feel about it, other than the fact that I'm I'm more keen to dissociating it because there's so many more other things that's going on right I'm trying to care about certain shit, and I just can't bring myself to like giving a fuck.
Speaker 3Let me, let me, let me why alla folder?
Speaker 2I don't know if I should do this, stop me if I shouldn't, because it's just being me being impulsive.
Speaker 4I don't even know what this.
Speaker 2My mother gave me this folder in it it's just catfish in it.
What was a bunch of things that my grandmother had saved from me or that pertained to me?
Right.
One of the things was my baby shower invite, you know, just things from church and stuff like that.
Just a bunch of things that she thought.
There was a letter from me in here yesterday that I wrote to hell when I was in jail.
I read it and I thought it was interesting the things that I was talking about.
Would you like to hear it?
Speaker 5Yes?
Speaker 2Because before I went to jail, I went to try out for attempted murder.
I have I have done some incredibly street nigga for real, super street nigga, for that was who I was, for real, Right, I wrote this letter, y'all want to hear it?
I'd like to read it to y'all.
Speaker 5I would love to hear it.
I didn't even know that was your past.
Speaker 3Yeah, here, Hooligain reformed.
Speaker 2It's just one page.
It's just it's one page and that half.
But I'm gonna read.
I'm gonna just get to the.
Speaker 4Wash the was it the ship with the feather on it?
Like you had to dip it in the ink with the feather.
Speaker 5You're trying to be attle serious, make him laughing, diabolicals and hurt.
Speaker 2You're ready doing.
I never hope everything saying with you.
Just now getting back from church.
I went to church passing, said boom boom boom boom boom.
Speaker 3No, no, no, no, read the letter.
Speaker 5You want to read the whole thing behind this and make it a real poetry type of moment.
Speaker 3Mm hmm.
Speaker 2Oh see, y'all really mocking the ship out me today.
I'm right, let's get to it.
Let's do it.
Hey, how you doing.
I'm fine and I'm hoping everything is the same with you.
I'm just now getting back from church.
I wanted to write you and let you know that I love you.
The past their church here spoke well today, and his tears rolled down my cheeks.
I praised the Lord, stood up and clapped in front of two hundred other inmates.
I'm sure some of them thought I was crazy, but I didn't care.
I was happy and proud to be there.
Sometimes I think that if I would have kept going to church, that I wouldn't have made the mistakes that I made.
But I guess I can only look forward to the future and hope that I can learn from this experience.
A lot of people say that jail makes you criminalize, but it's giving me hope that I could change to be a better person.
Most of my day, I sit on my bed watch the other inmate socialize and tell each other war stories.
But I don't talk to them.
I just watch.
I read books that they provide for Why is that fun of you?
Speaker 4Because I could see you doing that.
Speaker 2I could see you look at.
Speaker 4You want to play cards and he no just watching niggas.
I could see you doing it.
Speaker 2I'm better than you.
Liked tell stories, but I don't tell just why.
I read books that they provide for us to write my mom or girl.
Every day.
I know I've disappointed a lot of people who care for me, and I feel terrible about that.
I think about every day.
I miss my family.
I'm eating dinner with y'all, and I hope when I get home everything can be like it used to be.
I'm asking for my family to forgive me, and I am sincere.
I look around me and I know that you all didn't raise me to be here, but I turned the death air to the love you all raised me with and chose a different path.
I've asked God to give me for those choices, and I have embraced him and his wisdom.
A lot of times, I think about my daughter and my absence in her life right now, and I worry about her.
It makes me feel like I failed as a father.
I want to correct that as well.
I know that her mother is taking very good care of her, so I'm happy for that.
This place affects people in different ways.
I'm trying to make the best of it.
I eat well, I exercise so I can remain healthy.
I don't think any of the officers know my name.
That's good, I mean all I know.
I'm just waiting to come home and show my family a different side of myself, as well as my community.
I think that I can help my community, and if you ever need me to talk to anybody anywhere, it'll be my pleasure.
Actually, I think it's my responsibility.
I would like to write to my younger cousins because I think it would benefit them to hear from me.
Speaker 4Oh wow, that's crazy.
I was a kid.
Speaker 2This is oh wow.
Right after you mocking me the fact that I was thinking about you when I was going through some shit, then it crossed your fucking mind.
It's fine.
I hope they are right.
Anyway, tell everybody that I'm doing well.
If anybody's to write me blah blah blah blah.
Are y'all sure that jail can't change the way a person is thinking, behaving.
Remember that I had a crew.
I had bends, range, Rover, motorcycles, dry cleaner, motor shop, I mean, barbershop, all that shit.
When I came home, I went to work at a fucking coffee shop.
I was like, I'm not going back to none of that shit.
I sold all that shit off the cars because I couldn't pay the notes.
But let's be hey, right, it is what it is.
I could have leased the ship while I was going and came back, but at the end of the day, I went, I moved.
I didn't come back to Brooklyn.
I went to the Bronx and I went worked at a coffee shop.
Yeah, I think I'm big.
I was huge in the fucking hat and a little hats was even cool a coffee Dad had, and I worked until I figured out a way to support my family.
Are y'all sure that jail can't do anything to change motherfucker that wants to change.
Speaker 5In jail is not what changes somebody that wants to change.
The person that wants to change is going to change himself.
You changed yourself because you really believe that it was necessary that you could, that you had a purpose for living, that you owed the family that raised you.
You recognize what needed to be shifted, and you did that.
I didn't even know that was your story.
So that means that you've done so good in yourself and in your community that some people don't even know that that was your past.
Speaker 3I have seen.
Speaker 5Did he puff Daddy be this person?
I've heard of him being this person since I was eight or nine years old.
He has you talk about rain and Benz's and BM dubs and all of that.
You still haven't had an inkling of what he's had.
Once you get a taste of that addiction, it is very hard for.
Speaker 3You to go back.
Speaker 5And this is coming from the product of two addicts.
I don't think that he is truly remorseful.
I think that he said whatever he needed to say to get the fact that he would have even had speaking engagements planned prior to the verdict being or prior to the sentencing being released.
Lets me know this is not it's not genuine, and it's not to say that it can't be.
But he needs a little bit more time than fourteen months than fifty months.
I think he needs more time of solitude.
Even having all of these young boys in jail behind him, following him, him teaching classes in there, he's still the king.
Sometimes you need to be stripped of everything before you recognize what you had, and that getting back to that is less than the material and more about the spiritual.
I don't think he's there yet, and while to get there too, it did.
Speaker 2But I given the right heart, given the right heart, because I can't say what's his heart right, We could just hope.
But I agree with you on thousands saying a lot of what you said, like his history is what it is.
You have to do a lot more than doing a class in jail or go to church in jail, like I was just going right.
But you gotta remember, Nigga, I was in church crying in front of niggas, with niggas was cutting tunic cans to cut your face, I ain't give a fuck, right, So I have faith that there was a nigga in there that could be him that says, you know what, I was fucked up.
I was really fucked up, and I'm actually genuine and doing this class and using the power that I have to change these niggas lives.
That's a possibility that I'd love to believe is true.
I'd love to believe it's true because I don't know what it looks like me comes home.
But I don't see six years being that different from four because socially, when he hits, y'all, motherfucker's gonna be on his ass regardless.
He's never gonna be puff Daddy again.
Y'all gonna be on his ass regardless.
So there's only really one way he can be successful is if this is real.
I would think that he would know that, and they try to make it that the speaking engagement was they said it was a healing thing.
We don't know the I would just think that with Brian Steel, with all of the lawyers, him having a speaking engagement before the verdict, drivest be a reason.
The hubris is the nuts that you would even do that, knowing that the judge can be like.
Speaker 3What he keeps like he told you that you was leaving.
Speaker 5Bitch, but he keeps forgetting still, Nigga, like you might have cross paths with all of these high anchoring Caucasian men, but you were not them.
The thought that you and even some of us have said, like, please, he's not doing no time, he's getting off.
Why did you feel that way?
But they're always going to make a mockery of a black man, and you set yourself up for that.
You talk too much, You got too big, too cocky, and you didn't know when to simmer down.
Speaker 2I think it's way worse than that.
Speaker 5You think it's way home worse.
Speaker 2That Nigga fucked people's lives up for real, anything was talking about killing people, blew up somebody car, like you blow up somebody car.
You really don't give a fuck about nothing, right, Let's think about that.
Let's think about the little things that you do when you don't give a fuck about nothing.
That was when you was really mad, but that was an everyday thing when you don't give a fuck about nothing, And that's what we saw.
What I saw when working around him, hedn't give a fuck about nothing.
Speaker 5And it could have been the drugs.
Again, addiction is a disease.
It could have been you know, it could have been was a drug too.
Who absolutely, So, now you've had multiple You've had the addiction to women, the addiction to sex, the addiction to power, the addiction to whatever supplement you were using.
Multiple addictions had him fucked up.
And I just personally feel like, you know, I was listening to some of the things that he was saying in regards to my kids.
Some of them, four of them don't have their moms and now their orphans.
Did you think about that prior to what you were doing.
It's hard for me to empathize.
And this is coming from a motherless child.
My mom is gone, my dad has gone, my grandparents, my great grandparents.
I am literally it's crazy.
I'm thirty eight and I would be considered age wise the matriarch of the family.
Right in that era, you didn't think about these kids not having their mom when you were doing the shit that you were doing that was getting you.
Speaker 7Grabbed, you stopping out girlfriends and shit like that.
You have mad daughters like, men are very terrifying, really, you know how.
Speaker 2Men not just people.
It's not always we're gonna talk about women today too.
As to what we're seeing in the media.
Let's be easy, hold on, just chill, let's stay flow through it.
So, by the way, Lola, you're right.
Because a dude walked up to me the other day when I'm with my sons.
My sons live with me right now.
Thank god, I love I love the thing.
It's a little, it's a lot, but whatever.
Ooh, I want to talk about that a little bit.
Speaker 3Mm.
Speaker 2I don't know how I should do that.
But he threatened me.
I'm with my sons.
I took we went for a walk.
I'll be taking them for walks, shit like that, whatever, just to you know.
And I looked at the nigga.
So he threatened me like he was like, he said my real name.
So I'm looking like, who are you?
He's like, what nigga?
What?
Oh?
Something?
He said some ship.
He was like, never mind you good?
You good?
You good?
And I was like, because I felt threatened.
The energy was threat but that my son's with me.
So I slowly backed up and just grabbed them and just start walking with them on the block, and I'm thinking to myself, I keep looking like it's this nigga coming behind me.
He wasn't, but I was like, the main job is to get them right and to remember that you got to take care of these little niggas, not to prove to this nigga that you ain't pussy right.
But in my mind, I've been in the gym three days.
Nigga, I will kill.
Speaker 3You for three days.
Speaker 2I will crush you.
Nigga.
Speaker 3You gotta do better.
Speaker 2The judge.
I have what the judge said to Did he do?
Y'all want to hear it?
Did y'all hear it?
At the outside?
I want you to understand, mister Comes, you are not being sentenced for acquitted conduct, but I must consider many things.
You are a self made artist who had by the community of color.
But we saw the video, the free game course you're doing the colpes.
Hope you continue to expand it.
You are devoted to your family.
The court, of course considers the collateral consequences.
The court has to consider all of your history here, A history of all of your history here, A history of good work can't wash away the record in this case, you abuse these women, you use that abuse to get your way freak offs and hotel nights.
The evidence of the abuse is massive.
I was sitting right here during the testimony.
This was subjugation.
That is the reality of what happened.
Speaker 5Oh my god, sure it's okay, you got that yesterday.
Speaker 2This was subjigation.
That is the reality of what happened.
These offenses irreparably harmed to women.
You supplied them with drugs.
Why did it happen for so long?
You had the power and the resources to keep it going.
You were more than a john.
A significant sentence is required to deter you say you're sorry and you won't do it again.
After Miss Venturer's civil lawsuit was filed, after the video was public and investigations started, you had a brutal, whole hotel night with Jane.
You punched her in the head.
Jane says he told her take He told her take this pill, go out there and suck his dick.
Fuck him.
I don't care.
The court is not convinced this would not happen again.
The court has considered the programs.
They are weighed by the trial record.
In this case, exploitation and violence against women must be met with real accountability to promote respect for the law.
Speaker 5I appreciate it.
Speaker 2So yeah, he did say that eleven years is not reasonable for that would also not be sufficient, So yeah, that's what he got.
Speaker 5This lets me know if he would have been convicted on those other charges, he would have done life.
Speaker 2Yeah, he never come home.
Speaker 5He would never come home.
Speaker 2But I also feel like, damn, A little bit feels like can you I've been acquitted for those how do you still So the judges like, yo, yeah, you was acquitted.
But that's what got us here, So there's the route.
Yeah, we might might be able to charge you on that shit.
But this is a story, a long story that I have to follow to get to where we are today.
And I believe him regardless of whether those other things were a crime.
I believed them with this.
So I don't know, yes, say what you think.
I think.
Speaker 6Kind of like Dodge, this is kind of one of those things where it's like it can kind of go either way.
But I did think that he was in a bad space when he early on in the trial where he was threatening the witnesses, when like the judge had got him on some of that.
I knew that from that moment right there, whether they whether he was gonna get like a little bit of time or not, they were definitely gonna throw some extra shit on him just just for that.
And to add on like all of the like the speaking engagement, all of this, you know, the macho ship that you've been doing.
I feel like at some point, you know, the prosecution, the courts, the jails, like they just don't want to have you or make you look like, I'm sorry, they don't want to just let you make them look like a mockery.
You know what I'm saying, Like this whole ship was just for nothing.
You're gonna just walk side of here and just you know, do whatever.
It's like, Nah, nigga, sit down for a few We're not gonna hit you with the book because it's that wouldn't be obviously fair.
But yeah, niggas sit down for a few extra few extra Then if you would have just shut the fuck up and been remorseful and did everything the right way, you probably could have came home today.
Speaker 4But because because of the extra shit.
Speaker 6We're gonna hold you for another what two years, a year or two Yeah, nigga sit down for a year or.
Speaker 2Two, just just for I think that's just makes me feel comfortable.
I definitely think he needs time to consider who he's going to be, what his legacy looks like now, and he's still is going to have that power when he comes home five hundred thousand dollars'ever, that's nothing right, So what are you going to do?
Power?
I'm sure you saw the Nikki Carter.
Speaker 5Stuf salute the real bitches, Salute the real bitches salute.
Speaker 2How y'all feel about that?
I don't know if you honestly?
Speaker 7That's another thing, Like this is why me and social media we haven't been getting along because I'm tired of seeing that shit too.
Like I don't know how many ways I have to say that there's something wrong with Onika Tinia Mirage for people.
Speaker 5To understand something.
Speaker 3Something is very, very very not right with this, But it's cool, like.
Speaker 2Everybody have fun.
Speaker 5Yes, it's not cool.
I think that when they reference that she might be schizophrenic, I think there's something to that.
It makes sense on why she's had these characters, Roman Plansky or whoever it was, like, I think there's some mental health concerns.
Speaker 3And there also might be some drugs seriously involved.
Right, we listened to pills and potions.
Speaker 5You said that you gave it, You gave us the AMO.
I think there's something drastically wrong with a woman coming out of nowhere and saying I'm going to kick your daughter's guns?
Are you fucking crazy?
And somebody somebody to me like, oh you know, Cardi B is responding, I hate yo.
Don't slap me and be mad that I punched you.
You can't do that.
Speaker 3You can't.
Speaker 5You can't slap me and be mad that I fucked you up.
Carti is not as evolved as a Beyonce.
Beyonce is just gonna ignore you, bitch like you're you're dust.
I've actually learned how to ignore people now that I'm not that ignoring people hurts them so bad.
I will ignore.
But I've never had somebody tell me that they was gonna kick my daughter's gums, And so there's part of me that maybe I would not ignore that.
I can't really beat up Cardi for reacting to what someone did.
Could I say, yes, you know, have a higher power.
Be used to always be like, so I'm being nigga.
Speaker 2Yesterday is a barbe.
Speaker 3You're barb.
You were just playing Cardi album a couple of minutes ago.
Now you're bar bar?
Speaker 2Are you a bar?
Are you a bar?
Are you a bar?
Speaker 4Are you?
Speaker 5What's the right way of being?
Speaker 2And I hear you back then reacting, are you a barca already?
Are you a barb?
Are you a bar?
Speaker 4I'm as much of a barber as y'all are Cardi fans.
Speaker 5Obviously, it's not about to be fans.
It's not about to being a Cardi fan.
It's just about I hate you.
Speaker 2Yep.
I'm gonna go ahead and end this here because the battle that is about to ensue between Yesterday Dodge and Lola goes on for a while over this Cardi versus Nikki.
We have a barb in the house.
I have a barb in my family, a male barb, and boy does he fight tooth and now to defend his queen, Oh Nika mirage.
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I can't wait for y'all hear the second part.
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Yesterday is so crazy and I love it when he's mad and you can't you know he's mad, but he don't want to end it.
He's mad.
It's so good.
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