Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

It's till in.

Yeah, in the scrubbing.

Impact, I was gonna try to harmonize, but I didn't have the full thing.

I didn't have a full thing.

I didn't know what Tony register you're going in.

Well, I just let me know and I'll give you that.

We'll practice.

How you doing, dude, I'm good.

How are you doing?

Super?

Appreciate you doing this early?

Spoiler alert, We are recording this today's episode early because I'm going to be in Mexico City for a wedding.

So fun, so fun.

We do what we do.

We do what we can to help each other out.

We do what we do, and we do it well, happily, happily.

Yeah, I appreciate you.

Happy to be here.

We're in the we're actually in the podcast room.

We're not in our normal studio, and typically Easton's just like in the corner doing the sound.

He doesn't talk because he doesn't have a mic, and Mark's just nowhere to be found.

But we got the full gang in this in the podcast room today.

This is a first, is that all four of us have been in here doing a show, all four microphone exclusive.

It's very weird that it's so dark in here and yet the lights are so bright.

Is that for a reason, it was.

Just what we had it last night.

I can turn more lights on, I.

Could turn these down.

No, I found that maybe it's better to have it dark with these lights on.

I'm not a lighting guy.

Yeah.

I found that a lot of people want all the over, they want all the lights off in the room except for these like.

Oh, it gives you a glow, love a glow, loves loves glovelow.

Yeah.

Well, we're here in the podcast room, and you know, it's interesting because there's fresh things on my mind that we talked about in the last podcast, like what well, because we were talking about the Dancing with the Stars cast, and it's very high on my mind right now because I feel like it's potentially and this could just be these are people relevant in my everyday scrolling in life.

So I find it to be like a very stacked cast this year.

I think it is maybe your your algorithm, because I've heard many people disappointed in the.

Lineup really who are these people?

People not in pop culture, so they're like, who are these people?

That's yeah, So like, if you're not a scroll, if you're not chronically online, you might not know who these people are exactly.

But also there's some iconic people in there that every one knows well Elaine from Parent Trap.

Who is Meredith Blake?

Oh right, right right, I'm obsessed with it.

I hope she's I don't know her dancing ability, but I hope she's great.

You have to know alex Earl, even if you're not I scroll.

Majority of people know Alex Earl.

I think she's like the one that people.

Know Robert Irwin.

Everyone knows that Irwin's his sister.

One.

You don't know who Robert is.

I don't.

That's Whinny's partner.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, he's cute, but no, I would I wouldn't know him.

And then people when I posted about people were so excited about the secret.

Yeah, but again a lot of people that don't watch that show.

Well I don't either, But I know who they are.

Are these people in the age range of our life?

Are they old.

Elders age range of Dancing with the Stars?

I feel like is Is it not like fifty plus?

I would say that's.

Accurate, not anymore.

I think Joey gras Adod I think he brought I think last season brought a youthful viewership to it, and I think this season's really going to bring youthful to Pang.

We got Daniel Fischer, which I said was a rumor.

I think that's the point.

Was still a little skewing a little older.

Those then those people will know who Topanga.

Correct, They knew who Tipango was.

I feel like they did a great job catering to all generations.

I feel like they did a great job of catering.

To me, to my like it.

I like the cast too, like I know more people than I've ever known Briar, like Lauren Haddigy from Fifth Harmony, Jordan Child's child, Child Child's who else was on there that I know?

A mom, Dylan Dylann, Yes, correct.

Fans, all generations, all sexualities, everyone loves him.

What you know, I'm just playing devil Devil's attorney over here.

Devil's attorney, Yeah, she says, yeah.

So I'm just saying, well, I think, but you can't.

You can't please everybody if you try to please everybody.

You're just gonna get a pie, you know.

Well, anyways a pie.

And if you are, if you're not playing Devil's Attorney.

Who are you excited to watch?

Dylan?

Just Dylan, Dylan, And uh who's Mark Ballas's partner one of the Mormon wives.

Yeah, Whitney.

Yeah, I'm excited.

I like him, and obviously I love Alex Earl and that about sums it up for my uh my faves.

I'm very excited.

Well, Dylan Epron's partner Daniella posted he only follows one person on I think it was TikTok or Instagram Mountain, know which one.

And she's the only person he's following.

Who Dylan's partner Daniella.

Oh yeah, she's only following one person.

He's only following one person.

It's her.

Oh wow.

I also forgot Riley Arnold's partner.

He looks like he can dance too.

I don't know, I don't I've only I've interviewed them before, but I've never seen him there, yeah, in a ballroom.

But I love him, so I'm like rooting for them too.

I just feel like it's gonna be a good season.

I'm excited.

Everyone's been wanting Pasha, who is danielle officials partner, to have a good partner, so everyone's really excited about her.

Could she dance Easton?

Do we know any of Do she have a dance background?

No?

Oh, but she's been working hard let me tell you on dancing.

Yeah, yeah she was.

I was just talking to her earlier today about how much training she's doing.

Wow, yeah, it's a lot.

Yeah.

I also feel like there's certain people where you go, if they just have the right teacher, I think they'll be great.

And she don't think anybody could teach me how to dance.

Do you know what I would give to watch you on dance?

I literally don't think the world's best teacher.

I missed you on the Bachelor, but this is still we could just don't get you on Dancing with the Stars.

It feels like not my playground.

But when you can even learn a TikTok dance.

You can, you just don't care.

You would care about this because even though you're not competitive, I think it would kick in and I think you would care to learn.

But I just don't think I have rhythm, and I think you rhythm more.

Rhythm than you give yourself pretiform I do.

And I think if someone like Mark.

Ballas well Mark ballas I mean, I think.

If he got his hands on you respectfully, respectfully, Yeah, I think he could really make some some good content for us with you.

From your lips to God's ears.

Yeah.

How's the free bleeding that's on the rundown?

That wastle.

Speaking of pause on you?

Yeah?

Yeah, so I I keep saying free bleeding, but I am using a.

Pad, right, so you're not.

Actually I'm not actually free bleeding, but I'm enjoying the transition, all right.

Yeah?

Nice, that's good.

Yeah.

If we're not evolving, what are we doing in our lives?

You know what I mean?

M hm?

You know what I realized today though, So I had to go to three different courthouses to change my name, which is the dedication.

I just like forget it at this point.

I literally texted Robbie this morning.

I was trying trying to find parking downtown and I was like, Tiana, Roddy saw you.

He sounds really good because I was.

Driving for twenty minutes trying to find yeah, and parking, like the parking structure around the courthouse.

Anyway, I digress.

I was waiting in line at the Nice Courthouse and I was like six in line, and I was like waiting and I'm like just watching everybody in front of me get into a fight with the poor person that's like at the front of the thing.

And I'm watching this everybody just like have really zero patients and just being like it's just snippy, snippy.

Everybody's being so snippy.

And I get up there and this guy is so sweet to me.

I'm missing a couple things in my paperwork.

He like points them out, He like lets me step to the side to finish feeling it out.

He's like basically like holding my hand through this whole process.

And he was so lovely and so patient and so kind, and I was so said.

I didn't get his name.

I was leaving and I was like driving away, and I was like, shoot, I wanted to like call the court and tell his boss how wonderful he was because everybody was just so snippy and he was just so kind, and I never got his name.

And so this is my reminder to always get people's names, and to always call their bosses and tell them what a great job they did.

Yes, I feel like it would have made his day to like.

Know that, sure, or yelp Google reviews.

Yeah but the blue Okay, so shout out to the man in the blue long sleeve sweater in Room one O two at the Stanley Moss Courthouse in downtown Los Angeles in the blue line, thank you.

Or you can just go on your podcast and the shout out, Yeah, he knows you know who you are, you know who you.

Definitely a p one scrubber.

Yeah.

It is a nice reminder of just like letting be kind.

Everyone's everyone, what's everyone's going through a battle?

You know nothing about?

What's everybody's fighting silent battle?

Sure, you know nothing about something.

Like that, basically the same, but thank you for adding something to it.

It's true though, like you know, the courthouse in the DMV armed places where you're likely stoked to be.

No one's excited.

It's very hot here in Los Angeles, which I think is hot everywhere, and people are just a little bit more snippety.

Yes, And it's a reminder of just slowing down, soaking in the moments of getting to change your name or whatever it may be.

Whatever it may be, you know, like we all getting lights stand in line.

And light stand in light while you're standing in light.

Well, I'm happy you had a good experience, But I do think it's a good reminder of like taking time to compliment someone when they're in those positions, or just look them in the eye to me, like the color of their blue shirt.

Literally, yeah, and just give the process.

And he made it like it seem so easy.

He was like, this is the newspaper you're gonna call.

I was like, I love.

You a newspaper.

Yeah, you have to publish your name in a newspaper for a month.

Oh my god, it's hid it so is like it's so archaic.

I'm like, what am I doing at the publish it in a newspaper for a month.

So people could object?

Yes, literally in case I'm like a murderer.

Joke, because then I'll probably have to appear my hearing, which I do not want to do.

I asked Tanya today, I saw this video.

I mean Easton, I can barely see because the lights are just like a figure.

And she was talking about how her therapist told her, I don't know what she just like write down things that she has boundaries with that like she's never put down on paper something like that like that.

But she was talking about how she grew up in a family where they teased a lot, and how she noticed when her partner would tease her and then their friends this personal TikTok, and then this their friends would start to they felt entire like, they felt inclined that they could tease her.

And she was like, it was fine when my partner was teasing me because we have that banter.

But when I became like the butt of the joke with the friends, I was like, you don't have permission to tease me.

So I texted Donya because sometimes I'm like I can't.

I've never asked her if she likes being teased, so I was like, do you like being teased?

And did you think I meant sexually?

Yes?

I fell you were coming to what happened.

I didn't at first.

I was like, I sent you came out of the because I sent it right when I watched the TikTok, and I didn't think of I didn't think of another way of it being interpreted.

So I was like, what they say when you answer the phone and the scream movies hello, do you like yeah.

Yeah, that's creepy.

I was like, come again, or is there more to this question?

Yes, she goes, I was.

And so I'm asking this like genuine like really trying to make sure that I'm like trying to understand Tanya.

No, like if I ever take it too far, you know.

So I go, do you like being teased?

And then she goes, is there something more coming?

And I was like, I want to answer that, I know, I said.

She goes, I don't get it.

I said, do you get upset when I tease you?

And she goes, oh no, but and then I was confused.

But then I go, oh, did she think that was like a sexual firtatious thing?

I didn't, Just like, you tell me enough that I don't even have to ask questions about those things.

I don't ever need to ask you questions like that, just in my like right, just off the random, off the cuff.

Yeah, yeah, because I tell you enough.

Yes, yeah, you sure enough.

Yeah you're welcome.

So but you you don't mind being teased?

I don't mind being teased.

Enough platonically, platonically or sexually, whichever you choose.

All right, great, good to know, Robbie.

There you go.

Football season has begun it has, which means fantasy football.

And this is a fascinating thing to me because it's kind of like the golf thing that people have with their husbands, which Robbie isn't a golfer, right, so you don't have you don't have the golf wife thing, no, but you do have the fantasy football league.

I just like enjoy being with my husband, Like, I just enjoy being with him, and I don't like anything that pulls his attention away from me, and this fantasy thing really does that.

But it seems like it's not just you, like you obviously love being with him and love his affectionate attention, but like this seems like.

It's like a universal thing.

R.

Yeah, that's what I'm I feel very less alone since people have been reaching out.

But what happens?

Like where do they go?

Because aren't they just watching the game and keeping up with their players?

Yeah, it's just it's like, okay, So it's funny because that's what I thought to him, like, oh, they just like watch their football.

It's like whatever.

They just get very into their their phone, like they're very distracted.

Like when the games are on, it's just like nobody's home, you know what I mean.

So it's like that, it's like he could.

You might physically be in the house, but mentally he's not home.

Okay, if you're a fan of one team, like I am with Green Bay, I watched the Green Bay game.

I don't need to watch the other games.

Yeah, he's watching a million games.

You have players every on every team, Yeah, every.

Team Monday, Thursday, Sunday, every game.

You're watching because you have a vested financial interest in the result of every game.

But can't you just watch the highlights because like whether you're watching it live or not doesn't switch up correct whether your team player does good.

Right, No, you could.

You could just watch the highlights.

You could just check the score on Tuesday morning and see how your team did.

But that's not typically how people do.

Because they're like it's active.

Yeah, yeah, like you're like the coach, like you got to see how your players are playing.

Yeah, it's kind of fun, like if you had a love Island of fantasy like you do.

However, yeah, I get it.

You get the hype of like keeping up in the moment.

I do.

I do.

It's just like when you're not involved, it's like a no.

Go yeah, it's just like whatever.

But it's like this is stupid.

But what's really funny is he was they did their fantasy draft last night, and like Robbie just posted like a video of like all them in the room or whatever, and like all the other wives were like dming him saying please tell it?

Did Jay?

The kids miss His wives are like like dming him is And I was like, okay, I feel.

That's what that's what I saw.

And I was like, oh, this isn't just Tanya, right, this is an experience for most women dealing with.

This and every so the last couple of morning notes I've been writing him, I'm like, I love you, I MISU see you in February.

When your name gets changed.

Perfect for us.

What's the name of this team?

No, because a lot of guys give their teams clever names.

Oh yeah, let me ask him.

Actually, how do you know how they chose who went first?

In their dream?

You do like an auction, so like it's like fake money, but they like they all have like a certain amount and then like you like you pay for certain players, all right, but who goes first?

Because I saw a thing of like people racing in the sand to see who went first, which felt like a big toda.

By the way, it occurred to me recently that we never did the Tan Rebecca foot race.

Speaking of racing, Oh, we did at my wedding.

Yeah, we did in the sand.

Yeah, who do you think, Becca?

Yeah?

But remember there was a day we were in the studio and I said, let's go down right now and do it down here, and You're like, no, no, no, no, we gotta do it right.

We got to get like a right track.

I still would like to know the track.

But here's the thing.

We already discussed that in a sprint I would win, but in a long distance Tany would win because my.

Endurance is stronger, but my speed is slower.

But the craziest thing was that Jojo and I raced and I didn't know.

I've never raised her, I didn't know her background.

She is so freakishly fast.

She dusted me.

She was a track she ran track was this.

Barefoot on the sand.

She was shockingly fast.

Almost beat Robbie, which he would hate to hear, but she did.

Yeah.

It's tough, tough on these streets.

I just lost all of them, Like I was just oh my god, what are you talk fine?

I don't.

I think I might have speed.

I'm fine.

The slow turtle gets the worm, isn't that it?

I don't slow turtles the Yeah that is?

That is?

Yeah, that's real.

Thank you.

Are you caught up on the summary turns?

Pretty?

Oh?

Their team name is the Bumblebees?

That or No, I don't think that it chose the most childish name possible years ago.

Oh, it's just always been.

Always the Bumblebees.

Yeah.

Are you caught up on summary turns?

For one of the new one that just came out last night?

Yeah?

No, okay, did you watch it?

Yeah?

So I just haven't watched the one from last night.

Oh, but I had that.

It was like filler and stupid.

So annoying.

Yeah, just worth nothing to me.

Let's skip it.

Well, no, I think it's worth I mean, I think it's worth just putting it on and watching it.

But you don't have to like really pay attention.

But what's the point.

I don't know.

Maybe there was something in there that everybody that.

I talked to you said it was stupid, boring.

I've heard the most recent episode is particularly unsatisfying.

It was I don't want to do anything that unsatisfies.

Me Tanya twenty twenty five.

Right there.

If it doesn't bring me satisfaction, it's not happening.

Wow.

Yeah, I kind of elimon made a lot of things, well like what I don't know, like going to the courthouse.

Yeah, but it's ultimately going to give me the satisfaction that I meant.

Yeah, at the end of the day, it's satisfaction.

Okay, Well then that's fine.

So Travis went on his podcast, Yeah, and he talked about the proposal yea, which is so funny because you would think that Taylor, what we've known about Taylor was like everything's private, Like you're scared, like you don't want to talk about anything that could be what she wants to keep private.

Yeah, And obviously I'm sure they have discussions of like what are you going to say about the proposal on the podcast, but he it was really cute because he was saying that he it's so fun getting to call her his fiance.

I'm not kidding once a day more so at night, Haley, you will go I just loved proposing to you.

I love that.

I like keep replaying it in my head and I last night she was talking about it a lot, and then Tanya sends us our happy anniversary poem for our two months, which neither of us remembered.

By the way, it's crazy, it's.

For you, it said, happy two months of being engaged by fiance.

Queen's true love at last.

Do you know what it means to love with every piece of your heart?

And true love is really a work of art.

So happy two months of engagement.

Bliss sending you both a very big kiss.

Wow.

Yeah that's effort, thank you.

Yeah, that's really good.

And she gets one of those every day.

Robert Gadigar No, not, I know.

I know my stepson a poem a day every day with us the other step so he opted out.

Of unsubscribed unsubscribed.

Which is fine practicing.

Will I like it?

He like, said the boundary.

He's like, listen, I love you, but you don't have to do all that.

Well, No, I wasn't doing them every day.

At one point I was doing them like sporadically.

And then the younger one asked me for one every day, and I was like, okay, And then I asked the other one if he wanted one, and he said, I'm good.

So in the morning he wakes up to one when with his breakfast Yeah it's written out.

Yeah wow, but that one with you guys, I mean I whoop them out like I whoop them out like this now.

Yeah, the rag family goes through a lot of post it notes, a lot of station.

Paper, a lot of pre prorection, a lot of trees getting usage.

Well, you know a lot of people use email now, so those people are saving and I am using.

How about a dry erase for each day his poet?

Oh that's not a oh, but then he can't keep them.

Keep them?

But what if you take picture?

It's pretty sweet.

I know I'm gonna get a box because there's so many.

That's like a little rock that he like puts them on like or like to put, you know, like on top of them.

I know that's emotional.

I know he probably goes be prepared one day for those to just go in the trash.

Dang, he's setting you up for that disappointment already.

Yeah.

I said, it's fine, I'm ready for it.

I will fish them out of the trash, keep them in a box, and save them for.

Yeah.

Yeah yeah something like that.

Wow, that's cute.

Thanks sweet?

Do you save that poem?

Are you going to save your inniversary poems I send you.

Well, they're in our text threat, so yes forever.

Dang.

Yeah.

But it was funny because we were both laying on the counch and we were like, oh, happy two months of being engaged.

Thanks Tanya.

By the way, I put in my calendar of my phone every month of your engagement to remember to wish them a happy anniversary.

And I don't know if you knew this, but I just had like a crazy like crash out of my phone like two weeks ago.

I lost like a bunch of contacts and like it didn't sync with my calendar, so I lost all those calendars and this one I just remembered off.

That's amazing.

Then last night I went in and put the rest of them in for the rest of the year.

Wow, that we're covered.

I literally couldn't sleep last night because I started thinking.

I was like, you're wedding daydreaming, no about proposing to Haley.

Like I started like thinking.

About it, and I was like, have we gotten No.

I was just thinking about Like I was just thinking about like what I would say, And I was just like laying there awake, listening to her snore.

Do we know when we're going to do that.

No, no plans, no plans.

Do you need any help getting the ball rolling?

No help getting the ball rolling?

But could use maybe help with some logistics eventually.

But I'll keep you posted on a post it note.

Is the monthly text until they get married?

They're going to get that?

No, it's just five the end of this year.

Yeah, got it?

Okay, and then when they do get married, I'm guessing they'll get monthly wedding anniversary text.

We'll see for the first year, we'll see, all right.

We'll see what she does with that.

We'll see what she does with that.

There's been some new couples spotted that we kind of briefly talked about, but some shocking ones in my opinion, like who well, let me tell you when we come back.

All right, So some new couples.

Oh, first of all, Justin Bieber's releasing Swag too.

Cannot wait.

I love Swag one.

Yeah, there were some really good songs.

I'm excited to see what he's cooked up for us too on this next one.

Have you spent any time with the Sabrina Carpenter album?

Actually, do you know what I realized?

I did listen to the whole album, and I went back and listened to House part tour and I really liked it.

And you know what it reminded me of was Jessica Simpson's public affair just kind of like discoy like, kind of just fun.

Pop's public for the Stoup.

Affair when they're on the roller rink.

I don't remember it.

Your homework tonight is to go and watch that music video.

Okay, I feel like you would be such a Jessica Simpsons stand.

I was, so I'm surprised I missed that one.

That's interesting.

Sydney Sweeney and Scooter Braun.

People really hate this.

I'm pretty down on it myself.

Oh really, why don't we hate him?

I feel like we hate him.

I feel like we universally like got over it because she now has her masters and all is right in the world.

But is any kind of weasley in the first place for taking them away from her to begin with?

So, and also it.

Doesn't chates his wife.

Yeah, I think there's.

Weasel, weasel energy energy.

From Scooter braw So I'm geting weasel.

It's I feel like we are speaking out of allegations that I may not be true, because who was I talking to about the Master's thing.

I was talking to somebody that knew what they were talking about.

Mark.

Maybe you could do a little search here.

But there's something where I feel like the scooter thing, I don't know, he wasn't so to.

I don't know.

I can't speak on it because I don't really know.

I mean, I don't know this is all just a leged but I didn't I felt like there was things about him that was weasel central.

I could be wrong.

I looked it up.

There is no evidence he cheated on his wife, so we all owe him an apology.

Yeah, sorry, sorry if it's false.

I never want to accuse someone of doing such damage if it's not true.

Exactly, thank you.

But I always felt like there was a reason aside from the tailor masters that.

Yeah, okay, that's what I actually Yeah, I have come around on the scooter brawn thing, and we're.

Fine with Sydney, right.

The jeans thing was a little weird.

Yeah, that was a little controversial.

That's what I think it is.

It's like there's just like a lot of have a little bit of controversial.

Yeah, yeah, that makes sense.

Yeah, and the age difference.

How do we feel?

What is the age difference?

Well, let me get back to you and have to do.

I know Sydney's twenty seven and Scooters forty four.

I like it?

Okay, all right, you.

Don't like it, you don't like them?

I don't.

I don't know that I care.

You know, you either like them or you don't.

No, I don't know.

I just think I'm indifferent.

What Yeah, the opposite of love?

And yeah, I was like shocked because I was when I saw this, I was like what.

And then as a collective, I was like, everybody's like hating on them.

I quite like it.

Yeah, I don't think.

I just don't think I care kaya Gerber and Lewis Pullman, which everyone also it shocked me because everyone's like, oh, I thought she's not with Austin.

But still they broke up in like late twenty twenty four.

Come on, everybody so beautiful together?

Yeah.

Yeah, they were just like a guy and this guy.

Yeah, I don't know much about this guy.

He is from He's like the internet boyfriend.

He's from you just like.

Throw off buzzwords, like internet boyfriend, who are you?

He is?

He's Mark?

Do you mind he's like from The Incredibles or something.

He's from The Incredible Thunderbolt Thunderbols.

I just watched that recently.

Can you even from that to what is this gentleman's name was?

All right, he's son of actor Bill Pullman Thunderbolts.

Yeah, he's like the Internet boyfriend from Thunderbolts.

Oh yeah, I rememberally got from Thunderbolts.

Yeah.

Yeah, what's the other guy that was Internet's boyfriend?

Noah Centeneo?

No, what from like fourteen years ago?

Yeah?

Yeah, so he's the one one.

No, yeah, I guess he was the Uh who's Gracie Abram?

Yeah?

Another Internet boyfriend?

Yeah, to have many boyfriends.

There's a lot of boyfriends on the Internet.

I love Kaya Gerber and Lewis Pullman.

Let me tell you, Okay, you're very happy about that, So happy?

Okay?

Great?

And what about Harry Styles and Zoe Kravitz.

I'm very excited about this one personally, this.

One's not my favorite.

Tell me why, because Harry is my boyfriend.

He's not he's not.

Unfortunately that Robbie would not like you saying that he's not.

M guys, it's a joke, Like.

I like Harry and Zoe.

Those are attractive folks.

So I heard that they are not They're just like seeing each other.

It's not like an tell.

Every romance starts well, whether they're whether it's official or not.

There seem to be spotted handholding and arms around each other, and they look cute doing it.

I like it.

So you like all these kinds.

I just hope that she inspires some new music because I would love some new music.

Do you know if Harry Styles played at the sphere?

Yeah, I would love it.

Tate, you would like it.

I would love it, Harry Styles.

I would levitate, Oh, levitate.

I would like a Tate And I was like, Tate my crey to open, no.

It Tate's cookie.

Oh yeah, levitate, yeah yeah, excitement.

Yeah yeah yeah yeah, that'd be a great chim Anyways, I'd be happy with new music.

He doesn't even have to put it out there, you know.

I would do.

I love Harry Styles.

I love Harry Styles.

Relax, you're changing your name.

Okay there, I'm going to end on this.

What oh wait, Actually, I would like to talk about the best time of the day to have sex depends on your age.

Did you know that no, have you done your research?

Tell me, well, so, in your twenties, hormones are at their peak, so mornings are ideal.

Your body naturally wakes up ready to go.

Do you identify with that?

I identify with that now in my thirties.

Oh interesting.

We'll think of your thirties as your era for embracing scheduled sex.

According to the sexpert, the best time is whenever you have time, because small kids in job stress can get in the way of this stage of life.

Mike says the hormonal shifts happen to thirty somethings can actually make your sex like deeper and more emotionally satisfying.

Mike is hormone health expert Mike coxus, that's a.

Great name for it to be a sexpert.

In your forties.

Routines may change again during this decade, and that means the return of spontaneity.

Morning sex might make a comeback, but long lunch breaks are a good option as well, or any stolen moments you have with your partner.

Menopause can affect hormones and arousal levels in your forties, but you're also more aware of what fulfilling sex means for you.

And you know how to ask for it.

Do you identify with this, I'm not in my forties, twenties, thirties.

Oh, I think I'm more in like the like spontaneity of it.

Uh.

Yeah, there's not scheduling because we don't have kit like, there's not that need.

Yeah, but I support it.

Yeah, I'm not getting scheduled.

I mean, I guess we kind of schedule.

In your fifties.

Sex of this stage is less about frequency and more about sensuality.

Oxytocin becomes more important than ever for intimacy.

Timing wise, mornings and midday are ideal when energy levels are high in desire.

Maybe Yeah, at the end of the day, the last thing I want to do is have sex.

I mean, I think it just I love these types of things because it's so just depends on who you are and like your partner and just everyone's different.

But I love reading these because I think it's fun.

I think it's interesting.

Do you know what I was sing about the other day, Like the desire to learn something new and having to keep that because I feel like with what I do for work and stuff, I don't really learn anything new.

Like I've taken a lot of information on my phone, but it's a thing that's of importance or like.

Do you want to go to a challenge?

Yeah?

I think I need to do something where I'm learning a new like craft or skill.

Okay, because well.

I'm going to tell you what got me thinking about this, But this is not what I want to do.

No, I'd love to that would be so I'd love to cook.

But what got me thinking about it was watching Alone and these survivalists and I'm like, how do they know how to do this?

Like they just I learned a lot from Survivor.

Yeah, so I'm but like learning the craft of survival is fascinating.

And then I was watching the guy build my deck the other day and I was thinking, man, how did he learn how?

Like how do you just learn how to do that?

It is kind of amazing.

It's amazing, and it feels so easy, like it's it's it's just like anything of like once you learn how to do it, it's easy because it's a practice and you practice and practice and practice and you challenge yourself.

But I was thinking, like I need to like get my brain learning something new, because the only thing I learned something new it was when I do my New York Times games at night.

By the way behind the pay wall, those bastards.

Oh they got me.

I signed out, you did I pay.

I've been paying because for.

A year you can get a dollar a month or so.

Refuse.

I draw the line because I forget after a year, and then it'll be fifty dollars.

An alarm.

I set an alarm for September twenty twenty six.

Maybe the new Domino game.

Though I tried, I'm too afraid to try it.

It's so funh yeah, it's great.

Any you need to start learning too.

You need to get on the New York Times games.

It's so fun.

I can't play all these games and meditate just.

One of me for playing the game.

See, maybe you should just play them instead of mocking others.

It really is so nice, and it would be such a lovely way for you and Robbie to connect after you watch Love Island.

Just like, get the brain going again, start her up, get the.

Turn her down, turn off.

Haley falls asleep nine times out of him while we're playing, so it might just llull you to sleep.

I guess she's like, yes too much, she's getting a little to sleep.

I do.

I have to turn my brain off.

I'm gonna start meditating.

That's my new pursuit.

Tell us more.

I promise Robbie had start meditating every day.

Oh yeah, Why did you have to make that promise?

Why I prompted that he requested it.

I've been a little tightly wound, held out.

The big guns.

Can you start meditating?

But he's not wrong, that's a thing.

Like I was like, he's not wrong at all, and I should be.

And so I'm gonna start like a minute and a half to two minutes a day.

It can't hurt.

It can't hurt.

It can only help correct.

So that's that's a good it's a good hobby for him to request from you.

Yeah, we are at the end of the show.

We gotta go, I implies, when you're having a blast, we will be back on Thursday with more content.

I don't know what we're gonna be back with on Thursday.

I just said I said we will be back with more riveting content.

It's going to be real.

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We love you so much.

Hope you have a great week.

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