Hi, Amy.

Happy.

Today we watched 90 Day UK Season 4 episode 10.

Are are you happy with this episode?

Yes and no.

OK.

There was a lot of all that sweet versus get off my screen.

I think I know who you mean.

Oh, my thoughts on this episode.

Very, very touched.

I was not prepared.

That is all because I don't I don't I don't care to let Sam and Allie upset me.

That's.

Fair.

They didn't upset me.

I think I'm just in a mood, OK?

Fair enough, let us start.

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Honestly, can you stop?

Let us begin.

Scotch seems anxious to make a comment.

Does he have anything urgent that he needs to say to us?

Do.

You want to say anything?

You want to say anything?

Now he's shy.

OK, Andrew and Ara.

Ara Aura.

Yes Aura, thank you.

The scene opens with them still at the dinner table as Andy has just announced that he and Aura are moving to England, which upset Mom a lot now.

Did you feel as I did that they were play acting in the scene?

There were a lot of smiles and a lot of smirking going on that was being hidden behind the hands or the face turned away so that the camera couldn't really see.

Yeah, I got that too.

And then almost like the fake emotional manipulation her mom, oh, I'm just a mother.

Am I going to regret letting you 2 be together?

And then it was just a big, OK, that's fine, you can move.

Did we really need that?

No, but I mean, this is the thing with a couple like Andy and Ara who get along so well, just like we saw with David and Sheila, there's there's no turmoil, there's no upset.

So the crew has to come up with some kind of tension, some sort of disagreement.

So I think they were definitely coached through this scene.

It didn't feel like any of their other scenes.

There was an element of theatricalness.

Is that a word?

Yeah.

There.

It just, it didn't feel real to me.

And I couldn't help but sense that we were being LED down a totally scripted path, which was disappointing.

However, Mom's reaction, I guess you can you can understand it.

She is upset her daughter's leaving her after 30 years of growing her up, of living with her.

That's sad.

Yes, that's what they call it.

When you have children, you grow them up.

So I I did feel like that her being upset was warranted.

However, it was just done in a very fake way.

And then she finally gives her blessing, which is a great relief to everybody, including me.

And Andy even makes a gesture towards the family of saying, look, we're going to be coming back to the Philippines every year, so we're not going to be out of the picture.

It's not like we're going to disappear forever, which was nice.

Consider it.

It's not like I'm taking her away from you for the rest of her life.

We are never going to come back to visit.

We've seen the amount of effort that he's cut.

He's put into going to visit, you know, for the initial visit now for the wedding.

And it happened in such like a short period of time.

So I think as long as her visa is OK and whatever immigration status she needs to to go back to her home country without, I don't know, being seized or yeah, whatever that looks like, I can like I believe him.

Yeah, what I also believed was the wedding itself.

It was so genuine, so lovely.

We haven't had a wedding like this in a really long time, I feel.

Yeah, Just one that is so genuine.

And, you know, the emotions are so real.

And I thought it was so beautiful that, you know, her brothers and family stood up to be his groomsmen.

I was really irritated when he brought up, you know, oh, I really wish that my family was here.

And I was like, well, maybe you should have checked with them before you booked anything.

But also at the same time his feelings are valid.

Absolutely, I can understand that.

Like the bittersweetness of the moment for him.

Yeah, so like I wasn't trying to like poo poo on on his feelings was just maybe a little bit more planning on your part would have set yourself up a little better.

Yeah, I suppose so.

I also thought that he looked so cute in his or handsome in his plum or eggplant suit.

I thought.

He looked.

Fantastic Aura looked fantastic, but I guess before we even get to Aura.

OK, what?

What?

What?

Well, the fact that she had his parents fly in.

Yes, that was incredibly, incredibly sweet of her.

So, so wonderful and thoughtful.

I really.

Want to know the thought process behind that or at least the process behind that?

Has she already contacted them and say, can you, can you come but tell him that you're not coming?

Or she called them after the fact to try to convince them.

Either way, I thought that was an incredible gesture on on her behalf to make sure that his family was there, his emotional response and his parents.

It was just, it was so genuine.

It was so heartwarming.

It was really something that we needed.

Yeah, definitely an appreciated moment of reality.

Everybody's reactions for me were just pure and and lovely.

I, I really, really felt it.

I was tearing up and crying as I was watching Andy hug his mom and that moment when he came out of the building and they snuck around the corner.

His double take, like wait, what?

And then you could see him bite his tongue.

What the?

Yes.

That was so cute.

And then, you know, as he starts walking away with his parents after, you know, the hugs and whatever his dad like subtly trying to fix his collar because the whole time I'm like, fix that collar, fix that collar.

It was just such a, a genuine moment.

I I really appreciated that.

Me too, me too.

Back to Ara for a second.

I thought she looked gorgeous in her dress.

I just love the way that she was so playful and happy the whole day long.

From all of the photographs that she was taking with her bridesmaids to talking to the camera, to going down the aisle.

She looked joyous the whole time.

And that to me, you can't fake.

Yes, that's a real emotion.

The way that they said, when they said their vows, they were so personal.

They were so touching.

There was nothing about this wedding that I could find fault with.

I mean, a location on the beach, beautiful.

They looked superb.

The surprise of getting his parents there at the last minute.

The way that they spoke to one another from the heart.

Everything was perfect and just beautiful.

I loved it.

I only have one complaint which is almost like a non complaint, just the food.

Yeah, we didn't get to see any.

That's my biggest complaint because you know, you know, my brother in law's Filipino and I know how they like to eat.

I don't know if you know this, but it's part of at least his family's culture to bring like leftover containers because they always have way too much food.

So I'd really wanted to see what they were having.

But I mean, that was my only like non complaint.

Everything was just so beautiful.

It was so perfect.

It was quite emotional.

I thought it was beautiful.

Yeah, and and that's what I love the most about the show, when they actually are so emotional on screen that they tap into ours as a viewer and we feel what they're feeling and we share with them their experience.

You can't beat that.

Yeah, there was like a certain level of like euphoric, euphoric energy, but also like the eager, the eagerness to to get married, but also the willingness and the acceptance that you can't, you can't make things happen quicker.

So it's like, yeah, I want to get this done, but also like I want to enjoy the moment.

And that's how I felt watching this with their all of their segments.

I thought it was just absolutely, absolutely beautiful.

I think production did an incredible job with it.

I think the the photography was fantastic and I actually look forward to seeing all the photos that she had done with her bridesmaids beforehand, because as you were saying, it just looked like they were having so much fun and it's just beautiful.

And I think a final shout out to the camera crew for this episode, that final shot of them on the beach together with the sunset right behind them, right at sort of head level, was perfect.

Now, nothing else could be said.

Shall we move on?

OK, it's time for Sarah and Marco.

Marco's coming to England.

Hurrah.

This means it's time for Sarah to show off England to its best, to make it shine so that she has a good case for him wanting to move to England as a married couple.

And I, I was very hopeful that she was doing this in either spring or summer, but it looks like it's winter slash, fall slash early, early winter, spring.

What is it?

Do you know?

I have.

Absolutely no idea, I'm just disappointed in how she presents England to him from the very beginning.

She does an abysmal job.

Tell me what you found the least appealing about her presentation can.

I talk about the most first.

Yes, her.

Cat Moo and how the cat tries to get out of the house and how he's immediately like, oh ha moo, I'm like, yes, you love that cat, you better get in there.

I'd love that cat.

Very handsome.

Extremely.

Handsome cow cat.

I thought she was so off the mark with ordering pizza.

This made me mad.

Knowing the Italians that I know, that would have been so offensive.

I thought he was a fairly good sport.

Fairly somewhat.

He, he, he's maybe tried a little bit, maybe to be nice, I mean.

He tried a piece.

He did he he put a piece in his mouth.

He did not swallow it.

He did not.

And the way that he runs up the stairs and she's apologizing the whole time, I'm like, this is so fake.

Like, you knew he was going to hate this.

Yeah.

And then she says disgusting.

A burger, pizza plus a Hawaiian.

I mean, I can sort of understand the Hawaiian, but a burger, pizza.

Oh, that.

I actually had an Italian make me a burger pizza with Pickles on it and it was delicious.

Though that did not look anywhere close to being as good as that one was, no.

Because she got the goddamn pizza from a fast food chain.

She didn't even go to a place where they do authentic wood fired Neapolitan style or like a real Roman pizza.

This was crap from some kind of chain, do you not agree?

Oh I 100% did agree or I do agree it was just like such a bad idea.

Why would you do that?

It was a terrible idea.

You know what?

Reflective of Ali's evil plan, You know, I don't want to move there.

So, you know, let me show him how awful our actual pizza is.

I mean this is such BS.

Yeah, it made me think that too, that maybe she's deliberately sabotaging it, or maybe she has already decided she wants to be in Italy as well and this is just all for our benefit, that they have an argument over where they're going to live.

It did make me think of you when we were watching the pizza scene, not just for the obvious reason that it's food and you appreciate food a lot, but because Marco was being introduced to the idea of fruit on a pizza for the very first time.

Which makes me think of you and the tropical pizza that you and I, well actually you had it and I just watched you eat it with bananas on it.

Friggin bananas.

Remember my reaction when I saw it?

And I was like OK, this is the English version of the menu, correct?

It does say bananas.

Because this was in Portugal.

It was like the idea of it was absolutely repulsive and I was like, I have to try it.

And it was.

It was surprisingly good.

I don't think I ordered it again when when we were there, but every other pizza on that menu was incredible.

But I just bananas on a pizza.

Sir, what is this?

Marco would probably have some kind of a seizure and die on the spot.

Cornery.

Is that what it's called?

Yeah, I was thinking more along the lines of an aneurysm because of of if he saw bananas on a pizza on a menu.

And this is not like a dessert pizza.

This is a meal pizza that you eat at lunch or dinner.

It's just such a bizarre idea.

So I can understand from having had that experience with you why he would be appalled at the idea of pineapples on a pizza.

Plus, I think most people already generally know that true Italians, like Italians from Italy, despise the idea of putting pineapple on pizza.

And it's it's a huge affront if you suggest that you would like to eat that.

She did like like a double disservice, triple disservice pizza from non authentic, quote UN quote authentic place the pineapple and then the cheeseburger.

Well, why would you do that?

You were setting yourself up for failure.

You have been to Italy.

You know what he expects.

And then I also thought it was hilarious that she offered to make him a carbonara with mushrooms.

Yes.

Didn't he say previously that, you know, some things are offensive, like mushrooms and carbonara?

So I think she was just really playing into it.

That was just their little joke.

That was their inside joke.

Then why she said that?

Yeah.

So why is she doing this?

Is it for our benefit?

Is it actually real that she is trying to woo him over with English pizza?

Hard to believe.

Or is she trying to reinforce the point that they are better off being in Italy?

Maybe it will become clear soon, but then we get on to this second part where he is going to meet with her dad.

And this is so that he can have the opportunity to ask for the dad's blessing or ask for permission to have her hand in marriage.

Little late, little, Yeah, little lot late at.

What's the point now?

Even I'm I'm glad he's making a concession towards her because she really, really wants this to happen.

So that gives me hope that Marco can compromise for her sake.

But this doesn't go so well.

I mean, first of all, he's very clumsy about it.

He doesn't get to the point.

He goes around for a while in circles, then kind of blurts it out in a very awkward way and Dad kind of sniffs it out right from the get go, doesn't he?

He wants to know if Sarah's aware that Marco wants to propose or has he already proposed to her?

First I was like, at first I was like, wow, I thought that was really nice that he's being honest with him, that, you know, he wants to ask for her hand in marriage.

And then it's like, oh, there goes the honesty.

He's like, well, yeah, are you asking because you want to or?

And then he just sucks.

Yeah, it was almost as if Marco didn't want to tell the truth, but he was caught between a rock and a hard place, and so he has to blurt it out.

Yes, he's already proposed to Sarah, and now he's asking for Dad's blessing.

And Dad just doesn't really know what to say.

He seems kind of stunned, taken aback.

There's no answer in this episode, Will likely see that in the next episode.

But from my perspective, I think Marco has really failed and this asking for the blessing moment has gone as bad as it possibly could have, just as the previous pizza moment failed as well.

Yeah, I think that this really couldn't have gone any worse for him.

I think it just really highlights how much he doesn't care about Sarah, about her wanting him to to get her dad's blessing before the wedding planning starts.

And the fact that she said yes and she hasn't really told anyone because she's waiting for her dad's blessing is like, OK, well, now you're just stringing her along.

She's sitting on this big secret.

She probably wants to scream from the top of a mountain.

Oh, I'm going to marry the love of my life.

And he's single handedly preventing this.

Like he doesn't care.

He just wants the control.

And maybe that's why he filmed it so much, because he just, he wants the control and he doesn't want to give it to her dad.

Yeah, I hadn't considered that That could be.

I just feel like he he tries to sell himself off as somebody who is feminist in the sense that he thinks a woman can decide for herself without having anybody asked the father for permission.

Great.

I can understand that.

But also he comes from our culture, which is actually very, very patriarchal.

And so I would have thought that this is a normal part of the process of becoming engaged if you're Italian.

However, he did say, and his friends said as well in another episode, that this is not something that Italians generally do, going around to ask the dad for permission before they actually ask somebody to marry them.

So I'm really confused as to what's part of the culture and what's not.

I think there was some discrepancy with what his friends had said.

I think 1 friend said that it was tradition, another one said that it wasn't.

What's the point?

So I'm really not sure.

Yeah, I really want some light to be shed on this issue for me because I'm not understanding fully.

And so I feel like I'm I'm just kind of dancing off the surface of the water when it comes to Sarah and Markel because I'm not able to get in and figure out what's what's motivating these two.

It just seems kind of arbitrary and silly.

Agreed.

Shall we read on?

I don't want to.

I know you don't want to, but you will have to it.

This is the way.

Sam and Ally.

Oh boy.

As usual, Ally has to make up for all the bad things he's done to Sam.

I hate the way she punishes him like this.

I really, really do.

So he takes her out for yet another romantic date dinner thing.

OK, great.

Again, we didn't really get to see what they were eating.

The plates were just put down and then they started talking and OK.

But before the dinner, they do go out house hunting because Sam decides now is the moment we have to go look at where we can live in Turkey because there's.

Only one place.

That there's only one place.

This is part of, I guess the master slash evil plan of Ollie's, that he's going to take her to this apartment that is a friend of his who was thinking of renting it out.

And I was like, OK, what atrocities is he going to have in store for us?

It wasn't actually that bad.

Yes, it was a bachelor pad and it was a bit sparse, but.

It was basic, but she was going on.

You know how there's like doesn't feel comfortable and it's just there's so much white and it's like so minimalistic.

Like that's what paint and art is for.

You can.

This is a blank slate.

And is the furniture coming with the place, is it not?

If she was renting something, wasn't she planning on getting her own furniture anyway?

Or moving any of her stuff from England there.

And the whole time I'm like, this place isn't that bad.

Like maybe Ali fumble on this one.

And I kept thinking like, what is going on with that purple light in the background?

And then we find out that it's like one of those color changing lights.

I'm like, oh, and she's like, absolutely.

We're not having one of those.

Like, do you realize that it's just a light bulb?

And it is somebody else's house, so if you're going to be tearing the lights out of the ceiling, they might be a little.

Upset at that.

It's one light bulb, but to her it was the worst.

And then, you know, when we saw the toilet, even then I was like, I'm out.

No thanks.

But I also wonder how common that is in Turkey because she's never complained about it before, though.

Is this no.

And can you not just install a a toilet?

Probably not in that apartment because it's just like a little teeny tiny closet.

But.

I don't.

Well, Sam has my sympathy when it comes to the toilet.

Logistically, no, that's not going to happen for her, for for anyone.

I have a funny little side stories to tell you.

Last weekend, you know, I was in Portugal.

We were driving from, well, it doesn't matter anyway.

We were driving for at least two hours during the course of this drive.

I said to my husband, I really need a peace stop.

Can can you pull over at a gas station when they when we next see one and the next stop happened to be like a picnic area with and there was a sign picnic area, washrooms, scenic point, whatever.

So he's okay.

Here we go.

We pull over and Oh my Lord, there was this little building with washrooms in it.

So I scurried over to the little building and I'm thinking to myself, as I get closer, this doesn't really look very nice.

I'm not sure that I will be able to, to go here, but you know, I can take it.

I'm, I'm a modern Canadian girl.

So I go up to the building and as I'm approaching, the doors are both open on the men and women's side.

And it is one of those, the little hole in the floor toilet, not an actual toilet.

Toilet I could do outhouses I can do going in the woods, but a squatty thing in a tiny little room?

No, no, no, no.

So I ran back to the car.

I was like, I don't have to go.

Anymore, let's just keep driving, not doing that.

Have you ever seen that in Portugal before?

Because clearly I have not no.

I have.

I have not.

I have never seen that.

Everywhere else is totally normal, modern toilets, what you'd expect to find.

In fact, probably nicer than anything we have in North America because typically the bathrooms have like real stalls with doors that go all the way down to the floor and walls that go all the way down to the floor.

So you have privacy.

It's quite nice.

This was not that and it scared me.

I just think about the balance that you need in order to do that.

Exactly like.

You know, with my history of weight lifting, I am very familiar with squatting and with weight on my back.

But to have to sit there and focus on a bodily function at the same time while, you know, not falling either way, not having any kind of support.

And where's the toilet paper?

Where's that like there's just so many.

I will, I will not deal with this.

I do not have to.

At my age, I don't have to do that.

So no, thank you, Sam.

I concur.

You may skip this apartment if it has such a toilet in the bathroom.

And then we think of Xena and we will talk about it soon, but when she first gets there and it's the same thing, just a little hole, and then he builds up with the concrete, I'm like, even that is better.

Yes, than anything else.

And like just how tiny that bathroom was.

Like she could probably brace herself on the sides of.

The walls but hovering.

I don't like sitting.

OK, hovering.

No hovering with support.

Is fine.

Yes, lots of hand hand hand sanitizer after but like I just thought it was.

Just.

Whatever.

I think that both of them are absolutely insufferable.

They're made for each other and all of their segments were just utterly useless and I don't care.

Yeah.

Was this whole master Evil plan from the beginning a complete contrived thing that he wanted to inject as something fun and exciting when they had actually already planned to move back to England?

Because it really doesn't seem like it took all that much for Sam to be completely turned off the idea of living in Turkey.

And she's changed her mind.

Yes, plus the money thing.

That was a huge discrepancy.

In this episode, he talked about how easy it would be for him, just him, not her, but just him, to save up enough money, 2000 lbs to get the visa to go live in England.

And when she introduced herself at the beginning of this season, she said the visa was £10,000.

Yeah.

So what the F is going on here?

Bunch of BS.

And also if this was his plan all along, his evil plan, yes, why wouldn't he have started saving up?

Has he started saving up?

Why wouldn't they both save up?

They could both contribute and do it faster, and rather than it taking six months or eight months, it takes 4.

It's so stupid green.

All right.

Well, anyway, good luck to both of you.

They're going to go live in England.

Yay.

Let's read on to Xena and Abraham.

My.

Favorite part of the episode actually occurred during their segments.

Did you think about me?

I always think about you when I'm.

Watching the show.

Was it because of the monkeys?

Yes, I thought so it was.

I love the monkeys.

This was a great idea to go do this.

Even though Xena says she's afraid of monkeys, This was a creative idea and I love a place like this.

I want to go to a monkey museum, zoo, park, whatever, where you can just go and interact with them.

Fun.

I thought it was an excellent idea.

I thought she was way over the top.

Like, have you never left the resort where there are no monkeys around when you were with Ibrahim at his compound with his family?

Like, you can't tell me that you've never seen a monkey before, but clearly she has because she says she's terrified of them.

But oh, my God, that was so funny.

When she went to go put the peanuts in front of the one monkey, what did she call him?

I don't know.

She called this one monkey something, Mr.

Greedy Pants or something.

And she throws them on the ground.

And then another little monkey comes to get it and he slaps the monkey.

Know how I laughed?

I had to watch it a couple times.

It was just my God, that was so adorable.

And it just really surprised me.

I've never seen a monkey slap another monkey before.

So like it was just, it was like.

Grandpa Monkey, Grandpa Monkey shooing the little kid away and get out of here.

Nuts it.

Was very cute, especially when you put it like that.

So now we get the flashback to 8 months ago when Xena was having a lumpectomy to remove some breast cancer.

Obviously very sad, traumatic for her, lots of recovery time.

But I think this sheds a little bit more light on why she is the way she is.

We understand a little bit more of her very strong desire to find love, to have fun right now because she's had this scare with cancer.

Very, very real scare.

This actually come to my heartstrings more than the actual wedding did because, you know, my best friend lost her mom to breast cancer and it's like, OK, this gives us a little more insight as to why she is the way that she is.

However, this only happened eight years ago and she's been with.

That's what I meant eight months ago.

But she's been with Ibrahim for two years, so I wonder how she was before that and that how how much her behavior has escalated since then, and maybe that's why her family is so concerned about it now.

Like, my heart really goes out to her.

I can't imagine how terrifying that must have been for her, though.

I don't see this as, like, a reason for her behavior.

Maybe the drinking.

Maybe her drinking has escalated.

Yeah, but but we don't know.

We don't know what she was like before.

No.

And I'm thinking back to when we first met her, she was talking about how much she loves to go dancing, how much she loves drinking with her friends and how she's had several plastic surgeries.

So that all seems like it's pattern that probably goes back in time quite.

A bit, yeah.

Pre breast cancer, pre operation.

My guess is she's always been this way but it's this has brought it out in her even more.

But I wanted to know why has this been kept a secret from us as viewers until now?

Why couldn't we have known this right from the start when we were introduced to Xena?

My fear is.

My fear is that she's going to go home, she's going to go back for a scan, and it's returned.

I hope that's not the case, but I think that would, I don't know, from a production standpoint, I mean, if you're really going to gain the viewership or gain that kind of emotional connection with a character or cast, why wouldn't you make mention of, you know, in one of the previews?

Oh, no, no, something's happening.

Oh no.

But there hasn't been any of that.

So I think the timing is questionable.

I really hope there's a reason for it.

Not for, I mean, I guess for everyone's sake, I hope there is there's timing for the reason for it.

Oh my God, I'm talking in circles.

Help me.

I don't know why they have kept the secret for so long.

It would have, I think, been better placed at the beginning when we could have known that about Xena and understood a little bit more of where her party character comes from, for lack of a better word.

Like, it just seems oddly placed that at this moment when they're at the Monkey Park and they're talking about this thing in the past, why didn't we already know that she had gone through that?

It just seemed really strangely placed in the storyline.

Yeah.

Have they not talked about it previously?

Because it seems as though he brings it up and they're like Dun Dun Dun 8 months before.

Is it so that they're they can create this feeling of intimacy between the couple?

Because they're talking about this very emotional moment in Zena's life, which presumably Ibrahim shared in, although he wasn't even in the country with her when it happened.

Is that what they're trying to set us up for?

Like this closeness pre proposal, they're they're trying to make it seem like there actually is a bond between these two people rather than us all thinking, which I think we all are at this point, that he is just scamming her.

Like maybe they're just trying to create a a narrative that is a little bit more romantic in order to facilitate this beautiful proposal that comes next.

Some kind of like redeeming arc for him?

Yes, exactly.

He.

Didn't leave when she had breast cancer.

Now he wants to propose, which he does and he doesn't even say will you marry me?

I forget what his actual words were, but I'm like, that is the most lackluster proposal I thought he said.

Will you marry me?

I think he just there was.

AI can't.

I want to have you in my life forever.

Something like that.

And then he gets down on a knee.

Will you marry?

No.

OK, I don't, I don't, I don't know, maybe I checked out because I'm like, this man is so full of shit.

I don't believe a word that comes out of his mouth.

The only thing that I believe that came out of his mouth and that I wrote down was I cannot afford to lose you, babe.

You can't afford it.

Literally.

Literally, I didn't like this proposal very much.

I mean, he brought her back to the place where they had their first date.

Sure, romantic point for that, but.

We've seen that so many times in this season.

You know, we went back to the place where we first had our first date or the first picnic or.

Something, yeah.

Like OK, this isn't original.

Nope, he didn't have any flowers.

He didn't even pick any of the wildflowers along the way to surprise her like he did last time.

That's true.

It was not very original.

And then meanwhile, Zena is talking about how she has a little nagging feeling at the back of her head.

That's what she said about is Ibrahim actually using her?

Yes, he is he a little a little little nagging feeling at the back of her head.

The furthest away it should be right here in big red letters.

He's.

Had that nagging feeling before she even left left England.

Yes, yeah, I know.

So how has his dishonesty and his behavior not made this like a massive red flag factory for you?

Yeah, I don't understand why it hasn't reinforced the belief for her that he is trying to get something from her, IE money and that's it.

Maybe a ticket to England.

We don't get an answer for the proposal this week.

Of course not.

We have to wait and see what happens next week.

Are you leaning either way?

Yes.

No.

I think she's going to say yes based on the random facial expressions that we had seen or that we were shown, and just based on her absolute desperation, yeah.

Yeah, which is?

I agree and I think she's going to say yes as well because of what she said the last time about thinking that this was her last chance to find love and that Ibrahim was her one true love, both of which I completely disagree with.

I don't think either one of those statements is true.

I agree.

Any final comments before we wrap up the show today?

I hope the next episode is going to be better.

Yes, well, next episode is 11 and then we have 12 and then I believe it's the tell all.

So things are going to be closed off very soon.

You notice we haven't heard from Mette and Shannon at all.

The Shannon, The Shannon, excuse me?

So their storyline is done, wrapped up, put away.

Or maybe we're going to have one big finale.

I mean, they already did get engaged, so are we going to see them get married or is that whatever?

I don't care.

I'm sorry I'm I'm super bitchy today.

That's quite all right.

We like a bit of spice on our show, don't we?

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