[SPEAKER_04]: I wonder if they've murdered someone or have ever thought about murdering someone.

[SPEAKER_01]: I've said it before, I am a maximista.

[SPEAKER_08]: I get up to the priest and I'm like ready to receive my body of praise.

[SPEAKER_08]: And I thought it was going to be like a nice piece of white bread.

[SPEAKER_01]: Do you not understand that I'm straight and for me to be in a relationship?

[SPEAKER_01]: That means that I would have to be dating a man.

[SPEAKER_04]: Adam just goes, I wish I had a boyfriend and Kobe goes, I'm your girlfriend.

[SPEAKER_01]: You have something better.

[SPEAKER_08]: Kobe and I are actually in a domestic partnership.

[SPEAKER_01]: You have a girlfriend, so I'm really better.

[SPEAKER_08]: I actually the best I've ever heard.

[SPEAKER_01]: He just goes to sleep with the mask.

[SPEAKER_01]: He just wakes up to a mask.

[SPEAKER_08]: Kobe's actually so clean and like it's like the second I do, anything like Kobe is behind me, like mopping up a surface.

[SPEAKER_04]: it stresses me out I lived in a household like that like with my mom my mom would like clean up after me all the time which I thought was scar like not scar me but like affect me as an adult like I wouldn't clean up after myself and yet I do.

[SPEAKER_08]: and it's good.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I don't know, nature versus nurture, like.

[SPEAKER_08]: It's just like a night and day with my old situation because obviously I was a two straight men for seven years and they were disasters and I was the one who was like following them around like a puppy dog like cleaning up after them non-stop and now Colby is just like, like she would be in a different room and I'll like put something on the counter.

[SPEAKER_05]: Colby's like, it'll be gone.

[SPEAKER_08]: Colby's here's another thing there and it's gone.

[SPEAKER_05]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_08]: Um, yes, we've quite the quite the good to see you live in a sparkling clean household.

[SPEAKER_08]: It's it's literally stunning.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like have you seen it since we've been furniture in it?

[SPEAKER_04]: I've seen just go over.

[SPEAKER_04]: I've seen visuals.

[SPEAKER_04]: I will certainly make my way.

[SPEAKER_04]: I would say down the top of this weekend.

[SPEAKER_04]: We're not really about cross town.

[SPEAKER_04]: Well, I'll see you at some point.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm in Nashville this weekend.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm very very jacks.

[SPEAKER_04]: The big wedding.

[SPEAKER_04]: College friends wedding.

[SPEAKER_04]: So fine.

[SPEAKER_04]: Um, but yeah, so speaking of living with a man this morning, I was very grateful that I live with a man because we had a near break in.

[SPEAKER_08]: And you're breaking that.

[SPEAKER_04]: A near break in that is not a traumatic as it sounds because it was definitely someone that was like supposed to be in the building but like just went to the wrong door and I had such a fright someone was actively typing in the code for the door.

[SPEAKER_04]: Several times like the person mystery person typed it in and then failed and then started typing it in again and like failed and then typed it again All the while I'm laying in bed like slowly waking up thinking is that the front door code that I'm hearing being punched in?

[SPEAKER_01]: Well, so then did you hear footsteps of them going upstairs?

[SPEAKER_01]: Well, I shoved Jack.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm like, yeah, get go and he springs and then [SPEAKER_04]: I don't literally get a knife, get a gun, if you don't have guns.

[SPEAKER_04]: He springs out of bed, but naked.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm like, what are you gonna do with?

[SPEAKER_04]: But naked, anyway, but he goes to the door and he's like, excuse me?

[SPEAKER_04]: He like yells through the door, excuse me.

[SPEAKER_04]: And the guy goes, oh, I'm so sorry.

[SPEAKER_04]: And like, goes upstairs.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I don't know who it was.

[SPEAKER_04]: I have no idea.

[SPEAKER_08]: Wait, that does kind of seem a little fishy, though.

[SPEAKER_08]: Now that you're actually like describing the story.

[SPEAKER_04]: Isn't it a little fishy?

[SPEAKER_08]: But I feel...

Wait, there's only one unit on your floor.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, there's one unit on each floor.

[SPEAKER_08]: So it's just yours here.

[SPEAKER_04]: Just me, just little old me and Jack.

[SPEAKER_01]: So it's kind of weird like, after a third try or something, it should make an alarm.

[SPEAKER_01]: Your thing is very fancy.

[SPEAKER_01]: I feel like it should do that.

[SPEAKER_01]: It should have some security.

[SPEAKER_08]: If you can have a Titanic sound track, it can have an alarm.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I don't know this Korean thing that we got on the door.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like it's it's so smart and yet, well, I wish I wonder if that has a video feed in there.

[SPEAKER_04]: I should get one of those things that films, a ring camera, a ring camera.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm on like ring camera TikTok, I feel like every other TikTok I see is someone's ring camera documenting either like a precious moment or like outfits of the day or like something funny.

[SPEAKER_04]: I don't have that.

[SPEAKER_04]: I love that.

[SPEAKER_04]: One thing that has made me miss having a door man, even though I haven't had a door man in like four years, is this one tick-tock that I'm on right now, which is this girl who talks to her door man every night, how do you see this?

[SPEAKER_04]: They might just be New York tick-tock.

[SPEAKER_04]: That's all right.

[SPEAKER_04]: Well yeah, well people think he's hop based on his voice, but he's still on.

[SPEAKER_04]: I have not seen the arm.

[SPEAKER_08]: There's an update on the arm.

[SPEAKER_08]: Oh my god, guys, if he comes and fixes her nightstands.

[SPEAKER_04]: This might be like New York, TikTok only, but it's this girl that like buzzes her inner com next to her door every night and like chats with her door, man, and asks him, like updates about like things, just various things, and he's a really masculine, like hot voice.

[SPEAKER_04]: The top comment was like, I can tell this man is hot.

[SPEAKER_04]: Don't ask me how I know.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's just from the voice.

[SPEAKER_08]: It's a good voice.

[SPEAKER_08]: And then so the update is that she after this one blew up, it got like literally 2 million likes and multiple, multiple millions of views.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like it's like super viral.

[SPEAKER_08]: And then she's been posting more like TikToks with him.

[SPEAKER_08]: But anyways, we haven't seen space, but he basically came up to fix her nightstand and he saw his arm and it was a good arm.

[SPEAKER_04]: Can you imagine if they start dating?

[SPEAKER_04]: Like that's the cutest story ever.

[SPEAKER_08]: It would be very funny.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, oh, I was just chatting with my dorm in every night through the inner com.

[SPEAKER_08]: Guys, this is why I love TikTok so much.

[SPEAKER_08]: I've made it more to spend as much time as I would like to on TikTok, but like, somebody that I was like, I've never had TikTok, I'm not interested in it, and I was like, I'm telling you, like, you learned so much on TikTok, and it's like so curated to you.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, how would you know that a girl is friends with her door, man?

[SPEAKER_04]: Like you're really learning how much you know well there's it's a good thing in a bad thing because truthfully We were never meant to be exposed to this many lives other people's lives That's all that TikTok that you reposted because I was like this girl is spitting straight-facts Because it is that she has I'll I'll show it to you.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's this I mean she's she's got she's a psychiatrist Yeah, she's got to be someone like very and she's just sounds so smart [SPEAKER_04]: Kind of it's ruining us that we are exposed to this many lives because it's like we're starting to think that like We're we just have seen too many habits too many lives too many people and it makes us think that like we need to be a certain way And it all so we see someone else you follow people that you met one time and the bathroom and may never see again And then you see them get married and like you still feel connected to them because you watch their every move type of thing [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, it's like the connection that we have is such a great thing, but then also like such a it just like freaks you out if you really think about it.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like if you shouldn't have Yeah, we shouldn't be seeing all of this little Kobe and I were talking about this today.

[SPEAKER_08]: I feel like the conversion of this more so when we were walking and I was like [SPEAKER_08]: Where did all these people come from?

[SPEAKER_08]: Like there's so many, just like looking at all the buildings in New York City and being like the amount of people that live here So it's stressful and they all their own little lives and their own little stories and their own siblings and their own parents and their own cousins and their own freaking like story lines and it literally stresses me out so much There's a word that describes this.

[SPEAKER_08]: What's it called?

[SPEAKER_04]: Sondor [SPEAKER_08]: Sondor.

[SPEAKER_08]: Walk Sondor in all of a sudden.

[SPEAKER_01]: Sondor is like my favorite band right now.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, that song 12 to 12 is like stuck in my head at all times.

[SPEAKER_04]: It says you're good Sondor.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm assuming that they names their band after the word.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Sondor, S-O-N-D-E-R.

[SPEAKER_06]: Okay.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's the understanding that everyone around you is living a life just as richly complex as your own.

[SPEAKER_01]: Well, that is the third definition, but separate from you.

[SPEAKER_01]: Well, I think about it all the time.

[SPEAKER_01]: No, it's so true.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's just mine.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's so nosy.

[SPEAKER_04]: I see people walk by me and I'm like, I wonder if they're an ant.

[SPEAKER_04]: I wonder if they do work.

[SPEAKER_04]: Neces and nephews and I wonder if they're nice.

[SPEAKER_04]: I wonder if they've, I also think, I wonder if they've murdered someone or have ever thought about murdering someone and that's on true crime podcast listening.

[SPEAKER_08]: And you know what?

[SPEAKER_08]: Brian Colberr walking around like a normal person.

[SPEAKER_08]: What a freak.

[SPEAKER_01]: Brian Colberr?

[SPEAKER_08]: Is that his name?

[SPEAKER_01]: Who?

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, you're correct.

[SPEAKER_01]: I haven't heard her.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: He's...

No, he's in jail.

[SPEAKER_08]: Well, he was walking around.

[SPEAKER_08]: I was like...

I was like...

I was like...

I was like...

Yeah, it's me.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, very like...

Stavigilant.

[SPEAKER_04]: People.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, when I heard the code going into the door, I was like...

[SPEAKER_08]: Damn, the you've retold this story like at first this morning, I was like, oh my god, he's being dramatic, like somebody was just like trying to get into their apartment, but then it like thinking about the logistics of it, like [SPEAKER_08]: you.

[SPEAKER_04]: We don't have that many apartments in the building.

[SPEAKER_01]: So it's like, yeah, but that doesn't make me think that maybe somebody was like, half asleep went to go get coffee and like thought they walked up the right amount of stairs.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, you're right, but like our door mat is obnoxious.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like just look down for one second and look at the door mat.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm not going to say what it is because I feel like that's like stranger danger 101.

[SPEAKER_01]: We should be saying good thing.

[SPEAKER_01]: You don't have an easily [SPEAKER_01]: Recognizable, guessable code.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god, our code is very complex.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, don't even try So you have like the apple suggested password for your do you guys forget your password?

[SPEAKER_08]: It's like nonstop because I literally have to click for good password.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god [SPEAKER_01]: like six passwords that I cycle through, but then sometimes when I go to change my password, it says that you can't use one of your previous, like, five passwords, and then I'm like, okay, I have to make up something else, and then that I can never remember.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, like I definitely, I reset my password for everything.

[SPEAKER_01]: I saved my password for everything now.

[SPEAKER_08]: it's a good.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, my laptop is toast today.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm like in a a world of hurt because a lot of my passwords are saved with like the touch thing.

[SPEAKER_04]: If I put my finger on it, it like I lost my ID on my phone.

[SPEAKER_08]: Or are you guys in this password?

[SPEAKER_08]: You're all in passwords to you kind of like yourself or their parents.

[SPEAKER_04]: We don't use our family password like you.

[SPEAKER_08]: Oh, do you know that I do that?

[SPEAKER_04]: because it's our password to our podcast thing.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I have, when we upload our podcast episodes, I have to enter Adam's credentials because you created the account.

[SPEAKER_04]: And I am just so aware that it's your mom's password.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, it's not.

[SPEAKER_08]: No, literally.

[SPEAKER_08]: If somebody found out what my family's password was, we'd all be fucked.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, I'll sell it to the highest bidder.

[SPEAKER_04]: Anyway, I think we should do the intro before we get.

[SPEAKER_04]: ahead of ourselves.

[SPEAKER_08]: I don't want to I think we talked for 30 minutes for you to the intro.

[SPEAKER_04]: And we have a lot of topics to cover today.

[SPEAKER_04]: So welcome back to another episode of Match Made in Manhattan with Katie Colby and Adam.

[SPEAKER_08]: Girls, how are we doing?

[SPEAKER_04]: Well, you guys tell me, I hear from from the spark notes that we discussed in our group chat, Colby is in misery over Justin Bieber's new album.

[SPEAKER_01]: We were wrong with his new album.

[SPEAKER_01]: No, I love the new album, [SPEAKER_01]: I feel physically ill because I keep seeing all of these paparazzi shots of people leaving the swag to album release party that was on Friday night and I was working Friday night and I had to go to a fashion week event for new meal and it was at this hotel called the 22 I was gonna ask it was at the 22 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: And then it was in the restaurant portion of it, the event that I was at, which was gorgeous.

[SPEAKER_01]: It was amazing.

[SPEAKER_01]: Very cool crowd there.

[SPEAKER_01]: But then I started seeing all of these photos and they're walking out the opposite door, which is like the hotel side door.

[SPEAKER_01]: And there was a barricade of paparazzi outside when I was getting to the event.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I assumed that they were just [SPEAKER_01]: And so that was going on just on a different floor in the same building that I was in, so we were breathing the same air.

[SPEAKER_04]: Wasn't the road party there the night before?

[SPEAKER_01]: That's what I heard, yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, the road event where like everyone met Haley was the night before at the 22 as well.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_08]: People love the 22.

[SPEAKER_04]: The 22, what even is this?

[SPEAKER_08]: I've never even heard of the 22, honestly until you started talking about it.

[SPEAKER_01]: Well, so I knew that it was opening last year, because I'm on the pulse of this sub- Colby knows everything before it happens, I swear.

[SPEAKER_01]: But so they have the 22 in London, and this is their first U.S.

[SPEAKER_01]: location, and obviously I was doing events at my previous job, and so I needed to stay up to date on new openings, and so I had been trying to get in there, and to [SPEAKER_01]: tour the spaces and so I actually went to tour the place like a couple of weeks before they actually opened last spring or no it was last winter and they were still fully a construction zone but you could tell that it was going to be absolutely stunning and so it's a hotel and then they also have [SPEAKER_01]: it's kind of like so else in that sense that they have some areas that are open to hotel guests but then some that are just members only and they have a members club portion of the hotel side of things and then they have a restaurant so it would be like chaconius for so else that it's open to the public.

[SPEAKER_08]: We do is the 22 members club though.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's a members club, a hotel, and a restaurant.

[SPEAKER_08]: Okay, but the hotel, anybody can stay there?

[SPEAKER_01]: Yes.

[SPEAKER_08]: There's like soiles, you can't stay at the hotel right unless, oh, you can.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: You get a special rate if you're a member.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Interesting.

[SPEAKER_08]: Which, do you guys still have your membership?

[SPEAKER_04]: I was just gonna say, no, I canceled my membership.

[SPEAKER_04]: I am no longer a member of any clubs, which honestly is freeing.

[SPEAKER_04]: because I would get stressed out if I wasn't going and not like getting my money's worth out of my we did.

[SPEAKER_08]: We did.

[SPEAKER_08]: Remember when we get like the under 27 discount like I feel like we would go all the time.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh my god.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, but we would still have the number of stories yet because you're grandfathered in until you're 35, 35, 35, I think 30.

[SPEAKER_04]: Regardless, we had such a time at so-called house like over the years that I feel like it was worth it in the time in the most fun like earlier.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like we used to go and do stuff there.

[SPEAKER_01]: But then the crowd, it got way too crowded and the crowd got...

[SPEAKER_01]: bad.

[SPEAKER_01]: Cole, he just says it out, it is.

[SPEAKER_01]: No, it's true.

[SPEAKER_01]: I mean, I don't think everybody says it.

[SPEAKER_01]: I feel like the crowd got like a little cautious.

[SPEAKER_08]: The service is bad.

[SPEAKER_04]: The food was also bad.

[SPEAKER_04]: I feel like for an older demographic, it makes a lot of sense, especially if you're maybe older and single and looking to mingle and like, I feel like it's swear.

[SPEAKER_04]: You need spots.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, I would join a different members club.

[SPEAKER_01]: I just wouldn't go there.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I mean now there's some amount of anti-government, I'm just anti-so You have to like, don't you think it's annoying that all the numbers have like filter?

[SPEAKER_08]: Like it's like there's always like a new hottest or a new best or whatever It's like how do you even know which one to join in that rate?

[SPEAKER_08]: Like if you join what's it called like shaymargo or something like that's like cool I mean that one's like a one-off effect Like diversify your members club [SPEAKER_08]: Memberships, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, rights, [SPEAKER_04]: theoretically like go to every Michelin star restaurant like every amazing restaurant in the city like a different one every day and still have like thousands to choose from like every day of a year for example yeah and still like there's just so many options and yet we somehow still need more that are more exclusive honestly [SPEAKER_04]: It's just a thing we've been doing for centuries, really.

[SPEAKER_04]: The concept of a member's health is just funny.

[SPEAKER_04]: Members clubs, it reminds me of like, in gossip girl, when they go to college and it's like the secret societies that like, brown and wherever else they Columbia and whatnot and like, when the boys are like getting haze, trying to get into like the special societies.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, we're always just wanting more.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, the other thing about the members clubs too is the food and drinks are so expensive.

[SPEAKER_01]: All of them is another thing.

[SPEAKER_01]: And then you're also stuck to that one menu when you go there.

[SPEAKER_01]: And it's like the same every single time you go.

[SPEAKER_08]: No, it's so house the personal margarita pizza that feeds like my appetizer is like $40.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yes.

[SPEAKER_01]: No, it's ridiculous.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like, and then you get the 50% off, but you're like, oh my god, this is a great deal.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: No, it's so crazy.

[SPEAKER_04]: Well, now we're, we're wiser.

[SPEAKER_08]: We're older wiser.

[SPEAKER_04]: When it came to New York, I was like, I need to be a member of So House.

[SPEAKER_04]: I don't care, like, who I have to screw to get in here.

[SPEAKER_04]: Literally, because I remember watching Sex in the City and Samantha Jones, aka Annabel Bronstein.

[SPEAKER_04]: If you know, you know, she picks up like a sew-a-house member, member card in the bathroom, and pretends to be Annabelle Bronstein.

[SPEAKER_04]: So she can get in because the weight list was that long in the 90s for sew-a-house?

[SPEAKER_04]: I don't know.

[SPEAKER_04]: I believe.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, there's a whole episode where the whole like premise is Samantha Jones trying to get into sew-a-a-house.

[SPEAKER_04]: And she's like impersonates this British eras to get in.

[SPEAKER_04]: and it's this whole thing.

[SPEAKER_04]: And so of course when I moved to her it's like I need to figure out how to get my foot in the door at the legendary Soho house because of Samantha Jones and now and you did it and now I'm no longer a member and of an era really and short seven years the fall from grace I like actually don't know any current members [SPEAKER_08]: I will say a lot of gays go though.

[SPEAKER_08]: Oh, there's it's like a kind of gay gay hub now.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, they like the gay pool party every year But the pool is another thing that was another grape that I had before he ended my membership in order to go to the pool You used to have to like line up [SPEAKER_01]: and it was first come first serve, whatever, and I never even did that.

[SPEAKER_01]: It would always be on like the off chance that a day bed was available.

[SPEAKER_01]: I would go send home on and you would just order as usual.

[SPEAKER_01]: They changed the policy so that you had to reserve it and there was a $300 minimum.

[SPEAKER_01]: And it's like two hours on the day beds.

[SPEAKER_01]: You had to spend three hundred dollars and two hours.

[SPEAKER_04]: Not to mention the money you're already spending on your membership to get there.

[SPEAKER_01]: Right.

[SPEAKER_04]: What's just like trying to snag a spot?

[SPEAKER_04]: Right.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like I just want to lay in the sun and drink water.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like I don't even, I don't need to spend three hundred dollars.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Overall, it just wasn't worth it because for that, you might as well just rent a hotel room.

[SPEAKER_04]: That whenever you want to go to the pool.

[SPEAKER_04]: Exactly.

[SPEAKER_01]: I use the old hotel room.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, go to the GANS board across the street.

[SPEAKER_04]: Rent a hotel room, which I've actually done.

[SPEAKER_04]: I did that one year.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I remember them.

[SPEAKER_04]: Me and I rented a hotel room so we could use the pool.

[SPEAKER_04]: And it was cheaper.

[SPEAKER_04]: We went on like a random weekend day in the summer.

[SPEAKER_01]: A two resort pass or a resort pass.

[SPEAKER_04]: But, yeah, well, end of an era of members clubs.

[SPEAKER_08]: Bye, members clubs.

[SPEAKER_04]: What else did we want to talk about?

[SPEAKER_04]: I feel like we had the whole list of subjects.

[SPEAKER_01]: Adam and I went to take McCry.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, yeah, how was that?

[SPEAKER_01]: The record show, we were a fan of tape McCry before her be amazed performance.

[SPEAKER_01]: But I'm very happy for her at that.

[SPEAKER_01]: performances raising her star where it's meant to be.

[SPEAKER_01]: Does she have a dance background like before she started like the sickest dancer in the world?

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm surprised she hasn't been undancing with the stars yet or she too good.

[SPEAKER_01]: I think she like is too much of a star.

[SPEAKER_01]: She's too much of a star.

[SPEAKER_01]: I can't wait for you to see what the stars just started.

[SPEAKER_04]: So she is a star like Zendaya did it?

[SPEAKER_04]: Dancing with the stars.

[SPEAKER_04]: So Cheryl.

[SPEAKER_04]: She's a star.

[SPEAKER_04]: She would win.

[SPEAKER_04]: She would crush the thing.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, she is.

[SPEAKER_01]: First of all, reason, I thought that like, no, you're right.

[SPEAKER_01]: I didn't realize that.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I did it.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, Zendate.

[SPEAKER_04]: Well, Zendate did it.

[SPEAKER_04]: She was, Zendate has been a star for a while.

[SPEAKER_04]: So yeah, she definitely did it when she was like in her starhood.

[SPEAKER_04]: But I feel like, [SPEAKER_04]: It, she wouldn't do it now.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, no, it's way too big now.

[SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if like, they pop stars is more what I mean.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, yeah, I'm following.

[SPEAKER_04]: Now they have the, or the, what's it called mom talk?

[SPEAKER_01]: Like the, yeah, yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: The Mormon moms.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: They had Mormon moms.

[SPEAKER_04]: So excited for Alex.

[SPEAKER_04]: They have Alex Earl.

[SPEAKER_04]: How could I forget Alex Earl?

[SPEAKER_08]: A Mormon mom.

[SPEAKER_01]: No one have friends on it.

[SPEAKER_08]: I went dancing with the stars.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: There's a lot of like, it starts soon.

[SPEAKER_01]: I think it starts next week.

[SPEAKER_04]: Dancing with the stars, like on TikTok, I don't really see what's going on with that, but because Alex rolls on it, and a lot of good people are on it this year.

[SPEAKER_04]: I feel like it's getting the buzz, it deserves.

[SPEAKER_01]: If we still need to upgrade our Wi-Fi, maybe we, I think, then we get more channels.

[SPEAKER_01]: We tried to watch the VMAs, the Emmys are on this weekend.

[SPEAKER_08]: Oh really?

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_08]: Wait, I honestly, so Colby and I tried to watch the MAs.

[SPEAKER_08]: We couldn't find anyone around the stupid TV.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, well, because I don't think we get MTV live.

[SPEAKER_01]: We have like MTV that plays live technically, but it was playing like CS to key.

[SPEAKER_08]: So poor of us, we tried so hard.

[SPEAKER_08]: And then we both were like, okay, whatever, we'll go to bed.

[SPEAKER_08]: I lay in bed.

[SPEAKER_08]: The second I lay in bed, I open TikTok.

[SPEAKER_08]: And I see all the tape McCray frickin' clips from the performance.

[SPEAKER_08]: And I literally text what we know, I'm like, are you literally kidding me right now?

[SPEAKER_08]: We're missing this.

[SPEAKER_08]: I'm literally gonna die.

[SPEAKER_01]: No, the VMAs is my favorite award show.

[SPEAKER_01]: I haven't even actually seen Sabrina's performance.

[SPEAKER_04]: I just know that she performed tears and I saw like some still images of her.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like there was a rain aspect to it where she like wet like her hair was all wet and she like flicked it dramatically and I saw this one comment on the photo and it was like she means business if we're seeing her forehead.

[SPEAKER_04]: Because you never see Sabrina's forehead.

[SPEAKER_04]: She always has her bangs here.

[SPEAKER_04]: She's very tailor and that way loves her bangs and we rarely see Miss Serena Carpenter's forehead.

[SPEAKER_07]: Wait, something happened to the lock.

[SPEAKER_04]: It looks great.

[SPEAKER_04]: She has nothing to worry about.

[SPEAKER_04]: Why is she hiding her forehead?

[SPEAKER_04]: I think she just likes her hair, like she just likes bangs.

[SPEAKER_01]: Her big bouncy blowout.

[SPEAKER_01]: Everyone looks like a polypocket.

[SPEAKER_04]: Everyone goes to the phase of wanting bangs or thinking you might be like...

Could we view it bangs?

[SPEAKER_04]: Looking better in bangs.

[SPEAKER_01]: I never wanted them.

[SPEAKER_01]: I had them against my will.

[SPEAKER_01]: My mom made me have them.

[SPEAKER_01]: She thought that it was a cute haircut.

[SPEAKER_01]: It was a really cute haircut.

[SPEAKER_01]: I've seen photos.

[SPEAKER_01]: You looked good.

[SPEAKER_08]: That's okay.

[SPEAKER_08]: I look at pictures of me from back in the day.

[SPEAKER_01]: I had a bold mind and then I had to like, I ended up getting a bob because I wanted my hair to all be one link.

[SPEAKER_01]: to get rid of my sidebings, after it's sidebings were a thing, the grow-out thing, and then that was also, it wasn't necessarily even that it looked bad.

[SPEAKER_01]: I just like literally looked so old when I was in high school.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like my senior year of high school, it was crazy.

[SPEAKER_01]: I looked so mature.

[SPEAKER_08]: I guess you're a section mature girl with your Bob.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, no, I did.

[SPEAKER_01]: I looked crazy.

[SPEAKER_08]: Um, the rounding out the tape a credit conversation, everybody needs to go see her like I literally want to go see her I'm a chicken's back in October.

[SPEAKER_08]: I actually almost had a panic attack when I realized that she was performing and I found out from Brooke's story Because I like totally forgotten.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'd been telling creepy for months I knew that it was on Thursday.

[SPEAKER_01]: I didn't know she was doing two nights, but she did three nights.

[SPEAKER_01]: I guess she did three.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, was she at MSG?

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, right?

[SPEAKER_08]: Where are you in, Emixie?

[SPEAKER_08]: Best, such a good concert.

[SPEAKER_01]: It was so great.

[SPEAKER_08]: We'll be hoping everybody around us is like 15.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: Brooke warned me of that.

[SPEAKER_01]: She was like, she brought us really young, but he's too the best you can.

[SPEAKER_08]: It was really, I can call me never just listening to this guy, like, spit game on these girls.

[SPEAKER_01]: He went alone to the concert.

[SPEAKER_01]: There were actually, I think, a lot of guys that were there alone.

[SPEAKER_08]: There were a lot of guys.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, a lot of guys.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, and they were like feeling The music they were like head bang Those two guys But we're like diagonally in front of us.

[SPEAKER_08]: It was so entertaining to watch They knew everywhere they did It was what I mean me called me some moms yeah a bunch of dudes and like dudes that were going together like a friend and then like 16 year old girls and then yeah 16 year old girls [SPEAKER_08]: the photoshoots that I saw also like I remember turning to these girls like taking photoshoots and going to Colby and being like, we like didn't look like this back back then.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's really unfair.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like they have, they look good.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like they're making a difference.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like the teenagers are, there's something in the water these days.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like they don't know.

[SPEAKER_08]: They're good.

[SPEAKER_08]: They're hares good.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like their skin looks good.

[SPEAKER_08]: I'm like cheese.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm telling you, TikTok.

[SPEAKER_04]: We're not supposed to be exposed to this many people.

[SPEAKER_04]: And the teenagers are seeing, [SPEAKER_04]: And so they're shape-shifting, and it's affecting them.

[SPEAKER_01]: But we saw Ashley Tidstail on the red carpet wearing a skirt over her pants and thought that looked good in the black thing.

[SPEAKER_01]: They didn't have better influences.

[SPEAKER_04]: That's true, because honestly, she did look good.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, she did.

[SPEAKER_01]: She looked fabulous.

[SPEAKER_04]: Did I beg my mom to start layering my clothes like Ashley Tidstail and Lizzy McGuire?

[SPEAKER_04]: Yes.

[SPEAKER_04]: What I always just rarely hot, yes, the thing about the layering that people didn't tell you is that you're just constantly sweating Because that's just way too many layers to be wearing, especially during the summer But you're long-sleeve with your short-sleeve on top, with your tank top on top of that, that's a lot of layers But we looked so good Yeah, I never wore that nice at all For the time, well there was more middle school [SPEAKER_04]: I wouldn't expect you to.

[SPEAKER_04]: You're also a man.

[SPEAKER_08]: I didn't think about that.

[SPEAKER_08]: I was like, yeah, I guess why would I put a screw in my pants?

[SPEAKER_01]: Did you wear cart, go pants?

[SPEAKER_01]: Or did you accidentally not?

[SPEAKER_01]: Did you ever participate in the like wearing your pants super low?

[SPEAKER_01]: No, honestly, like I always looked like a disaster because you're doing something in Maryland, yeah, every guy in middle school would wear like baggy pants with their like down to their butt, basically with Timberlens.

[SPEAKER_01]: I don't like the backwards hat.

[SPEAKER_08]: Was not doing that.

[SPEAKER_04]: We had, yeah, we had like either really tight like guys and skinny jeans.

[SPEAKER_04]: There was like the stuff, like, [SPEAKER_04]: I don't know.

[SPEAKER_08]: I used to wear a lot of sweats, though, because I would have swim practice before school.

[SPEAKER_08]: And so I'd have swim practice at like 5.30 a.m.

[SPEAKER_08]: and then I would come to school with like whatever seven.

[SPEAKER_01]: And like the only thing I would want to wear would be swap pants because that was always the best time of year when you got to break out your yoga pants and start wearing yoga pants and nugs to school.

[SPEAKER_04]: I would wear my yoga pants to school if I was having a bad day.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like normally I would wear a fit of dresses and skirts and [SPEAKER_04]: Every name she was from a very young age.

[SPEAKER_04]: I knew who I was and I was just very preppy.

[SPEAKER_08]: You were done with that.

[SPEAKER_04]: No regrets because I think I'm like, I'm reverting.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm becoming a preppy again.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like I really gravitate towards preppy things these days.

[SPEAKER_04]: I don't know what my style is.

[SPEAKER_04]: I don't think I have a personal style.

[SPEAKER_04]: Again, we're exposed to way too many people.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm letting people influence me.

[SPEAKER_08]: I don't think I have a personal style either.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, I don't have a purse.

[SPEAKER_01]: I need to like, I don't think there's like a category that my Personal style falls into.

[SPEAKER_04]: I like a basic You do like a basic, but it's like very classic the way you do it.

[SPEAKER_04]: I don't know.

[SPEAKER_04]: I feel like I I am a different person every day that I wake up I'm like I either want to be really colorful today or I want to be very neutral And I feel that way with my like homesay core too.

[SPEAKER_04]: I can't make up my mind [SPEAKER_08]: about your home decor.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, about what I want.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like, I'll, I don't give up the shed.

[SPEAKER_01]: I can't.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, that's what makes your apartment so charming.

[SPEAKER_01]: Thank you.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, you have a curated [SPEAKER_01]: a sort of meant of things that aren't all one style, but they all go together.

[SPEAKER_04]: Thank you.

[SPEAKER_08]: Colvin, I've been trying to figure out the decorate argument.

[SPEAKER_04]: Well, I think the secret to decorating the apartment and like I was reading this article about Nancy Myers aesthetic and like how to achieve and Nancy Myers aesthetic and all of these things apply to the same way.

[SPEAKER_08]: Who was Nancy Myers?

[SPEAKER_08]: I don't know that.

[SPEAKER_04]: Nancy Myers, she created the movies like The Holiday.

[SPEAKER_04]: Well, she adapted books and such too.

[SPEAKER_04]: The Holiday.

[SPEAKER_04]: pretty much anything that like Merrill Streep, like all of the like rom-com type moves.

[SPEAKER_04]: I think I did a good job explaining, but the holiday is like definitely one that you've seen.

[SPEAKER_04]: But you'll notice in all these films like Diane Keaton, she's always in him with the turtle neck on usually, but they're always like the homes are very [SPEAKER_04]: lived in looking like they don't look like sets and they the homes themselves like our aspirational and I was reading this article about like how you're able to achieve that, like how someone like a normal person will be able to achieve something like that and it's literally just time.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like you can't rush that sort of aesthetic because it's very collected over time.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's something that you can't just like buy a lot of things in the homes that you'll see [SPEAKER_04]: photo albums, like things like photos on the wall that are like, you know, memories that like you have to just like live in the space and then add as you go.

[SPEAKER_08]: And so it was me out because I had seven years of that and it was a disaster.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, but like in an intentional way, you can't just like hoard things.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, mine was sweating.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, this was a free piece of furniture for sale.

[SPEAKER_01]: We'll take it.

[SPEAKER_08]: Correct, mine was like literally emotionally scarring though because now I'm like minimalistic as fuck, except for my chair that I need.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_08]: But that's T-Bitty.

[SPEAKER_08]: Kobe's letting me have a chair.

[SPEAKER_01]: Potentially, once we get the dining table.

[SPEAKER_08]: There's going to be a chair.

[SPEAKER_04]: Hey, stop looking at me.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm not in the middle of this.

[SPEAKER_04]: Katie said no to the chair.

[SPEAKER_01]: I said no to the chair, but actually a podcast listener wrote back to my Instagram story of my Cheo Pudding saying, I don't see how a chair would fit here.

[SPEAKER_08]: Alright.

[SPEAKER_08]: Okay.

[SPEAKER_08]: I thought I would use that to make sure that you're referencing, and it was blurred in the background.

[SPEAKER_08]: She can't even see the living area.

[SPEAKER_04]: All she could see was your tea of putting in our counter which looks gorgeous by the way and all of the pictures And we and we got new pillows this weekend.

[SPEAKER_08]: You see, I'm loving what you're doing so far We did of course slowly curating Colby took me to friggin Satan's play around.

[SPEAKER_08]: I hated that.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god What's Satan's playground home good.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's my favorite place [SPEAKER_08]: I hate it, I'm good.

[SPEAKER_01]: I confess.

[SPEAKER_01]: Literally, I've set up before I am a Max Nista.

[SPEAKER_01]: I love all of the TJx companies.

[SPEAKER_01]: I love home goods.

[SPEAKER_01]: I was so excited to go.

[SPEAKER_01]: We took this up way to the Upper West.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh, I'm so excited to go to.

[SPEAKER_01]: I never been home.

[SPEAKER_04]: The inventory isn't that great at that story.

[SPEAKER_04]: We'll say.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: They had really good, I will say, serving platters and things like that.

[SPEAKER_01]: If you're in the market for those, and what I've realized with stuff like that over the years is if you're going to a party to buy like a disposable bowl, like serving bowl is like $12, and you can get one for literally $5.99 at home goods and then use it again and just have it.

[SPEAKER_01]: No, you don't need to go as well.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: just a mental note, but yeah, I bought a variety of written storage bins that I'm really looking for to store my towels in under my bathroom sink, but I'm really specific about it having a lid because I don't know why, just like on the floor, my bathroom I want it to be closed for my [SPEAKER_01]: but so I bought one that I thought would be perfect and then we want to cross the street to teach you max because Adam was like I have to get out of here that I'm really claustrophobic.

[SPEAKER_01]: They're really was so much stuff in this home goods but it wasn't freaking the fuck out.

[SPEAKER_01]: It wasn't exactly what we were looking for.

[SPEAKER_01]: They didn't have [SPEAKER_01]: that much furniture.

[SPEAKER_01]: I honestly, my mom's coming next week.

[SPEAKER_01]: I want her to go to the home goods in Swam's got and face time me in the furniture section in the air and see if there's anything for like that entry wire, things like that there because they usually do up good stuff.

[SPEAKER_04]: No, suburban.

[SPEAKER_04]: I trust her.

[SPEAKER_04]: Home goods and TJ Maxx are far better than we have here.

[SPEAKER_04]: If you are a suburban listener, just realize how lucky you are.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay.

[SPEAKER_04]: Just realize how lucky you are because you have the most amazing home goods.

[SPEAKER_04]: I can just, I don't even know where you live, but I can just tell you that you do.

[SPEAKER_04]: Because ours is so picked over.

[SPEAKER_04]: I mean, granted, we have like a lot of other great stores.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I won't complain.

[SPEAKER_01]: But this home goods was stuffed.

[SPEAKER_01]: It wasn't even picked over.

[SPEAKER_01]: But it wasn't.

[SPEAKER_04]: In like, things you don't need.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, they had so many bath mats.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, when we were there, I'm like, how many bath masks does one store need?

[SPEAKER_08]: ours just look like Halloween through.

[SPEAKER_01]: But yeah, there was a lot of seasonal stuff right now.

[SPEAKER_08]: Now Colby got me all hyped up about home goods and I was so excited we were making the Sunday activity out of it.

[SPEAKER_08]: I was so excited.

[SPEAKER_08]: I was excited.

[SPEAKER_08]: We go up.

[SPEAKER_08]: We walk in these doors and I just see pumpkins and scarecrows.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: I didn't even think about it.

[SPEAKER_01]: So I was on the house.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I was like, we're the...

Oh, but...

Think about, come Christmas time.

[SPEAKER_01]: How much fun we could have there.

[SPEAKER_01]: I would.

[SPEAKER_08]: Guys, I, oh my god, then we went down the escalators and we're walking around.

[SPEAKER_08]: There's so many people in carts.

[SPEAKER_08]: Colby and I had a cart at one point and I was in charge of the cart at one point.

[SPEAKER_08]: I just left it in the middle.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, I left it.

[SPEAKER_01]: You abandoned ship and then he left me.

[SPEAKER_01]: It was fine.

[SPEAKER_08]: And then I go to Colby and I'm like, [SPEAKER_08]: Hey, I'm gonna go stay on that side.

[SPEAKER_01]: I could be here anymore and then he went to teach him max across the street So I bought this basket at home goods and put all the stuff that I bought in there Whatever we go to TJ Max and I find a better basket so then I have to go back to home goods I'm really curious.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, because I wasn't gonna go back to that.

[SPEAKER_01]: What's that?

[SPEAKER_04]: That's killing me that you found a better basket What yeah, did a better basket really?

[SPEAKER_01]: It was exactly what I was looking for.

[SPEAKER_01]: Then I get home.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's one inch too big to go under my, under my sink.

[SPEAKER_01]: No way.

[SPEAKER_01]: So then I had to return it.

[SPEAKER_01]: But they have one at the container store that I'm going to measure before, again, before I actually go and buy, but they have it in stock in the store.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I laid my eyes on it last night.

[SPEAKER_01]: And it's more expensive double the price actually.

[SPEAKER_01]: But if it doesn't do the job.

[SPEAKER_04]: If it fits, if it's all mine, [SPEAKER_04]: are from the container store.

[SPEAKER_04]: All my like under sink containers.

[SPEAKER_08]: My bathroom is basically disaster.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's far less overwhelming there.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, we can go there.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, I need that place.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's very curated there and it's they don't really have too many like what my mom would call like fru-frow.

[SPEAKER_04]: They just have like.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, I need the essentials storage.

[SPEAKER_08]: Also some guy came to like fix one to shit in our apartment yesterday And I'm at the office and Colby sexy me like giving me updates about the sky fixing stuff and She's like hey like you might need to get like goop away like there's googon.

[SPEAKER_08]: There's get googon.

[SPEAKER_08]: There's goop away I don't know what she's talking about goo when I was like why is there goo in my apartment?

[SPEAKER_08]: Or my bathroom?

[SPEAKER_01]: Well you wanted these adhesive stuck things were moved from your bathroom.

[SPEAKER_08]: Okay left [SPEAKER_08]: all this weird shit in my bathroom.

[SPEAKER_08]: No, there was like a shelf, but it was right in front of the mirror and kind of like a weird position, and I was like somebody needs to rip this off the wall.

[SPEAKER_08]: And then they also had light bulbs.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like she made like a vanity mirror herself.

[SPEAKER_01]: But it didn't even work.

[SPEAKER_08]: And it looked like shit.

[SPEAKER_08]: And so I was like somebody's got to take care of this.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like this needs to come off.

[SPEAKER_08]: And so I had this maintenance guy come and take it off.

[SPEAKER_08]: And I get back to the apartment.

[SPEAKER_08]: And like first of all, my bathroom is destroyed.

[SPEAKER_08]: There's like shit everywhere.

[SPEAKER_08]: And like there's goo all over the wall.

[SPEAKER_08]: And the mirror looks effed up because you ripped the light bulbs off.

[SPEAKER_08]: And it's just, my bathrooms are the last one.

[SPEAKER_04]: So you need some googon.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_08]: Apparently.

[SPEAKER_04]: Googon, you just have to get the heats of all.

[SPEAKER_08]: I don't even know googon is.

[SPEAKER_04]: It does that.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's a sticker for.

[SPEAKER_04]: A sticker removal.

[SPEAKER_04]: My dad loves googon.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_08]: I don't like the name of it.

[SPEAKER_08]: I don't think.

[SPEAKER_04]: I mean, it's descriptive.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: You want your googon?

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: You want your googon.

[SPEAKER_04]: Get your googon.

[SPEAKER_08]: Your googon.

[SPEAKER_08]: Your googon.

[SPEAKER_08]: Googon.

[SPEAKER_04]: Um, is there been any updates with your neighbors downstairs?

[SPEAKER_04]: The the cute boys have you seen them.

[SPEAKER_08]: I think at this one I have seen pretty much everybody lives in the building now except for the people live on third floor.

[SPEAKER_08]: Um, I think it's it.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_08]: I did I mean any other boys who live below us.

[SPEAKER_01]: I saw one last night, but he didn't he wasn't into chatting.

[SPEAKER_08]: Was he cute?

[SPEAKER_01]: I don't even like now.

[SPEAKER_01]: Okay.

[SPEAKER_01]: Or like I don't know.

[SPEAKER_08]: I will say they are opening this kind of like iconic looking restaurant directly below our apartment, which I'm very excited about, and I did a lot of research on it and I'm pumped.

[SPEAKER_01]: Are you excited to be a regular?

[SPEAKER_08]: Yes.

[SPEAKER_08]: I've been like literally every day.

[SPEAKER_01]: I talked to them yesterday.

[SPEAKER_08]: I did.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I told them that I was like, when are you opening and the guy like wasn't gonna show me and I was like, I love upstairs and then he got really excited.

[SPEAKER_08]: What was it, the owner or the workers?

[SPEAKER_01]: I have no idea.

[SPEAKER_01]: Did he tell you when?

[SPEAKER_01]: Uh, yes, in October.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, yeah, October.

[SPEAKER_01]: Insider in the week.

[SPEAKER_08]: Excited.

[SPEAKER_04]: October is the best month.

[SPEAKER_01]: I think like the first or second week.

[SPEAKER_08]: It looks so chic and he was like it's going to be the next pull-over.

[SPEAKER_08]: So what I was reading and I was like the next pull-over.

[SPEAKER_01]: No kidding.

[SPEAKER_01]: Those are very high standards.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to take that with a grain of salt, but it's a good place to have in the vicinity.

[SPEAKER_04]: I still haven't been to Polo Bar.

[SPEAKER_04]: I haven't either.

[SPEAKER_04]: I know you've been your late night res.

[SPEAKER_01]: Didn't you work like 10 o'clock?

[SPEAKER_08]: I've been a couple times and yeah, I'm late as well.

[SPEAKER_01]: I actually happened to, well, I've been to the Polo lounge.

[SPEAKER_01]: I haven't been to Polo Bar.

[SPEAKER_08]: Honestly, it was so worth it.

[SPEAKER_08]: It was so good.

[SPEAKER_08]: Drinks were not worth it.

[SPEAKER_08]: I think my drink was like $30 and I was like, you know, I could buy an entire handle to kill over this amount of money.

[SPEAKER_04]: Well, I would still love to experience a martini there.

[SPEAKER_08]: Um, I'll try to get us for a moment.

[SPEAKER_04]: So my list, one year I would love to do New Year's Eve there.

[SPEAKER_08]: At the pole of the?

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I saw, I think, it was Peyton Sarton did it a couple years ago, and it looked so unbelievably chic.

[SPEAKER_04]: I love the idea of doing like a dinner res New Year's Eve.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, where you like are you start out the evening, maybe like seated at a table with like very fun friends and cool people and then you're like up and you can mingle like that sounds like it's closer to midnight.

[SPEAKER_08]: I feel like we're about to get into a stretch where there's going to be a lot of weddings on your seat that like you both have weddings this New Year's Eve we do I feel like that's kind of a just something exciting while the general I feel like this year.

[SPEAKER_01]: New Year's Eve is towards the weekend, is it not mistaken, so maybe that won't be a constant gravitation, but I don't know.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm excited for a New Year's Eve wedding.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's nice to have land a plan to dress up for.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, like a black tie situation.

[SPEAKER_01]: Very cool.

[SPEAKER_08]: There's a lot of weddings.

[SPEAKER_08]: I will say so the wedding.

[SPEAKER_08]: I was out this past weekend.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh, yeah, tell us about that.

[SPEAKER_04]: How was it?

[SPEAKER_08]: Oh, God is such lovely wedding.

[SPEAKER_04]: It was another Indian wedding, right?

[SPEAKER_08]: No, but you dressed up.

[SPEAKER_04]: It was two weekends.

[SPEAKER_08]: This is a white wedding.

[SPEAKER_04]: Shut up.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh my god.

[SPEAKER_04]: That was you've just been to so many weddings.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm so confused.

[SPEAKER_08]: two weekends ago, I went to an Indian wedding.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, yes, that was when you wore that fabulous outfit.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yes, my coat that.

[SPEAKER_08]: And then this past weekend was very, very white wedding.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yes, very white.

[SPEAKER_04]: But it was Carly's wedding.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yes, when the dress is stunning, something wedding, it was in Westchester, so we stayed in the city, took the train up.

[SPEAKER_08]: who's gorgeous.

[SPEAKER_08]: I will say I felt so bad for her because the forecast for it was like torrential torrential thunderstorms.

[SPEAKER_08]: Oh yeah it was raining like all weekend wasn't it?

[SPEAKER_08]: Oh yeah.

[SPEAKER_08]: I will say she got so lucky though and that we were in the church ceremony and it's like monsooning outside like you can hear it being against the church.

[SPEAKER_08]: At the point where you couldn't even hear the guy who was like doing the sermon.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah the priest that'll that'll bang.

[SPEAKER_08]: So actually something else that's kind of funny that I've been is so I'm not Catholic I'm Christian I'm going to be a homeless person to Iran But this is a Catholic wedding and so I'm Catholic wedding is like obviously you get Communion.

[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, and so did you make your first communion?

[SPEAKER_08]: I thought I got communion at my Christian church, whenever we went for Christmas, and like, I drink the wine and get the bread.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, we just communion at the Presbyterian church.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, yeah, but I think it was like only special occasions.

[SPEAKER_08]: Oh, really?

[SPEAKER_04]: I don't know.

[SPEAKER_08]: So what I remembered of communion is to give you some wine and some bread.

[SPEAKER_08]: And so we're sitting in this church harmony and I'm like, holy fuck, I've never been hungry or my entire life.

[SPEAKER_01]: You were like, I can't wait to eat the body of Christ.

[SPEAKER_08]: I was so excited to be the body of Christ and so my one friend who's also like not Catholic She was like, oh, we're gonna go up and I was like, I mean they they welcomed like everybody up So I feel like I can probably go but like I'm so fucking hungry like I think I need the Are you gonna go again?

[SPEAKER_04]: You're gonna go twice and so I went [SPEAKER_04]: No, I was going to see anyone notice.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, 100% I was going to wrap around and be like, Hey, can you give me two and so I I get up to the priest and I'm like ready to receive my body of Christ And I thought it was going to be like a nice piece of white pride, you know like a nice like a cut.

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[SPEAKER_05]: Yeah, it was a cracker [SPEAKER_08]: my disappointment when I get up to the priest.

[SPEAKER_08]: I mean, hands me, that it's literally you can see through it.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, that's how thin the way you feel.

[SPEAKER_05]: Yeah, it's a milk.

[SPEAKER_08]: And I put, I'm like, fuck.

[SPEAKER_08]: I'm so hungry.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_08]: I put it in my mouth and it evaporates basically.

[SPEAKER_08]: It literally just melts in my tongue.

[SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, it's the point.

[SPEAKER_08]: It's like a listerian strip.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like what am I supposed to do with this?

[SPEAKER_08]: So anyways, that was how my Catholic.

[SPEAKER_01]: You know, whatever it's all in any experience as well as I have a city wedding next week and that's going to be amazing Yeah, it would be really convenient if I still live to my old apartment because it's in Trebekah and on the street that I used Little so nice.

[SPEAKER_01]: Well, that sounds it'll still be fun.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like fabulous [SPEAKER_04]: Venue.

[SPEAKER_08]: I do love the wedding.

[SPEAKER_08]: The one thing all there about this wedding is that these entire time like I just didn't read the website Like I feel like I've been so busy.

[SPEAKER_08]: I just like I know like things that I need to do But I don't know the ministerial details anymore.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, and so my friend was like Or I think I was in a group chat literally the night before the wedding or even the day of and I was like damn It's hottest fuck I can't believe I have to put on a tox and my friend was like wait, what do you mean you're putting on a tox like [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, it's not black tie.

[SPEAKER_08]: I got the dress coat wrong.

[SPEAKER_08]: But I told my boyfriends just wearing a jacket and like, slacks basically.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like, I think it's just like Country Club wedding, like kind of wear like look-preppy, basically.

[SPEAKER_08]: And I was like, wait, what do you mean?

[SPEAKER_08]: Like, I'd been planning on wearing a tucks this entire time.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like, I don't really have another outfit.

[SPEAKER_08]: And then she sends me the dress coat and the dress coat is literally like, you know, either suit and tie or slacks and a jacket, which is like kind of casual.

[SPEAKER_03]: It's like, basically like...

Yeah, it's like formal, right?

[SPEAKER_08]: Or like, it's like...

It's like a uniformal, I think.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, I think it's any formal and so I was like fuck I literally and they were like yeah Like I'm pretty sure the groom is the only one wearing a tox like you would literally show it Be showing up to the wedding and a tox and the groom would be the only person you're impersonating the groom.

[SPEAKER_08]: So I was about to show up and out Yeah, outshine the grooms that girl [SPEAKER_08]: That was good.

[SPEAKER_08]: I've seen the groom.

[SPEAKER_04]: No, really it's her day.

[SPEAKER_08]: Oh, but it's definitely her day, but I was a little bit about top stages here.

[SPEAKER_08]: I'm so thank God somebody warned me.

[SPEAKER_08]: Why do this like an hour before I need just to get on the train to the wedding?

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, when it didn't happen.

[SPEAKER_04]: Our really tough, like this weekend's wedding that I'm going to a Nashville is [SPEAKER_04]: she put on the website like what's the word cocktail that's the word cocktail attire less dressy than formal that is verbatim what she wrote on the website and i'm like damn so we're wearing short dresses like i'm not this is jack's friend from college so i'm like not close enough and i don't know anyone else going so i can't really like ask and i'm not gonna have jack like text his guy friends from college like hey what do your girlfriends wearing [SPEAKER_04]: I'm being stubborn.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I'm gonna bring up a few options, but I fear I might be a bit overdressed.

[SPEAKER_04]: If I, but I'm not gonna wear a short dress to a wedding, I feel like that doesn't feel right to me.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like for me at least, they give in what I typically wear, but I'm very excited.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's apparently in the woods.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh, this is the woods.

[SPEAKER_04]: I've been to an outdoor ceremonies, but not one that's like, this is like, I look very photocopical, very whimsical, gorgeous.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm very excited.

[SPEAKER_08]: Is the after party on Broadway?

[SPEAKER_04]: I think it's like there's a venue, like you get out of the woods and there's a venue there.

[SPEAKER_04]: But it's she said it's like majority of its outdoor.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I hope that the weather holds up, I'm sure it will.

[SPEAKER_04]: But yeah, I'm going to be a little hot.

[SPEAKER_04]: Maybe I should bring out a fan, a personal fan or something.

[SPEAKER_04]: I just looked at it.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's going to be like 80 degrees here at this week.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh my god.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm going to be sweating like a hooker in church.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like a hooker in church or is it a whore?

[SPEAKER_04]: Or in church, or in church.

[SPEAKER_04]: Well, there's so many weddings.

[SPEAKER_04]: And every time I open Instagram, someone else is engaged.

[SPEAKER_04]: I know, it's really not.

[SPEAKER_08]: He's engagement, so weddings are like, what's going on?

[SPEAKER_04]: There's a bug.

[SPEAKER_04]: There's a bug that everyone's caught.

[SPEAKER_04]: Now, like so many of our friends in our friend group are engaged.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like we've had really engagement.

[SPEAKER_01]: Everyone's engaged.

[SPEAKER_01]: So exciting.

[SPEAKER_01]: But it's also insane.

[SPEAKER_08]: No, Colby and I are going to need center of marriage, practically.

[SPEAKER_08]: And because things are not working out in the dating pool.

[SPEAKER_04]: You've plenty of time, so much time that's what everyone is on their own time.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I swear every time we take care of time, like the...

[SPEAKER_01]: Issue is, I saw this on TikTok, Abbey Buffo, just posted a TikTok, and she was like, everybody's like, I'm so shocked that you're still single, and she is like, do you not understand that I'm straight and for me to be in a relationship, that means that I would have to be dating a man.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, a man in New York as well.

[SPEAKER_01]: And she all, I've seen her in person is tall.

[SPEAKER_01]: So, so I was having this conversation with somebody, the other night at this party.

[SPEAKER_01]: And she was like, oh, and you're tall, so the pool's even smaller, and I was like, thank you so much.

[SPEAKER_01]: I know.

[SPEAKER_08]: We call you have to say the message that you got on right at the day.

[SPEAKER_08]: I thought it was so funny.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so Adam and I have been on a cake of just going on the apps.

[SPEAKER_01]: I feel like I'm talking through our messages.

[SPEAKER_01]: But this guy messaged me also just as a heads up in case this is a non-starter for you.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm 511 so I'm still taller but not by much.

[SPEAKER_01]: The man is honest.

[SPEAKER_01]: I know honestly I admire that.

[SPEAKER_08]: And we didn't know that because on Riot doesn't tell you the height.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, it doesn't tell you the height.

[SPEAKER_01]: But a lot of guys put in their description.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, because now you can do a bio.

[SPEAKER_01]: They're like five to six of them as well.

[SPEAKER_00]: Because apparently that matters.

[SPEAKER_00]: There's six, four of that matters.

[SPEAKER_00]: Honestly, it's going to help her.

[SPEAKER_01]: It is, but like, it's been exhausted.

[SPEAKER_01]: Or whatever.

[SPEAKER_01]: So I updated my profile recently.

[SPEAKER_01]: Now that I started using it again.

[SPEAKER_01]: I wrote five ten of it matters in my bio.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, that's cute.

[SPEAKER_01]: I was going to say how this guy know how you are.

[SPEAKER_01]: That's how.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, I think that's helpful.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, like yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Okay, so [SPEAKER_08]: And then I've matched with the Skyrim Riot.

[SPEAKER_04]: What's your bio?

[SPEAKER_04]: I was just going to ask you what bio?

[SPEAKER_08]: I don't think I had one.

[SPEAKER_08]: I'm so mysterious.

[SPEAKER_08]: But then I was just thinking my head I was like, I probably need a bio.

[SPEAKER_08]: Because I need to start using the apps again.

[SPEAKER_08]: But Colby's been getting me back into which is good.

[SPEAKER_08]: We're not Colby specifically.

[SPEAKER_08]: But her messaging that guy and then him saying something funny.

[SPEAKER_08]: I was like, oh, I need to get back on Ryan.

[SPEAKER_08]: Start doing some things.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, okay.

[SPEAKER_08]: So I don't have a bio.

[SPEAKER_04]: No bio you're so mysterious.

[SPEAKER_01]: I think getting so many messages on tech talk from people asking send me money, and To send you money.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but there are all the bots.

[SPEAKER_01]: Obviously, but I'm like, what if they weren't though?

[SPEAKER_04]: What would happen if I just give them my Venmo?

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah?

[SPEAKER_08]: Um, I matched this guy right.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, who I was like wait cool.

[SPEAKER_08]: We like this is definitely the guy that we met at pieces like forever Go like when I probably would be able.

[SPEAKER_05]: Oh my god, the gay bar not yet.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, and I was like this is definitely the guy that our friend Justin tried to set me up I feel like I'm almost positive and then I go my crazy or do we meet at pieces forever?

[SPEAKER_08]: Oh my friend Justin and he goes not crazy at all actually so it was him good good not crazy at all so like [SPEAKER_04]: Either he's like, maybe, does he remember you?

[SPEAKER_08]: See, I took that as like banter and like, okay, yes, that's him.

[SPEAKER_04]: I think he does, he's like, maybe sounds like me, like, sounds like something I do.

[SPEAKER_08]: No, and then I sent it to a Senate to Colby and our friend to like, basically our friend went up to him and was like, hey, your guy, he's guy, are you single or what?

[SPEAKER_08]: And this guy had a boyfriend.

[SPEAKER_08]: And so I was like, wait, I just matched with this guy.

[SPEAKER_04]: He went up and so he broke up.

[SPEAKER_08]: That's what we thought.

[SPEAKER_08]: And so we're texting out of this thing.

[SPEAKER_08]: He's like, Adam, you need to like go message him.

[SPEAKER_08]: I'd be like, we know, we're eating some dating, somebody to whatever.

[SPEAKER_08]: And then I go back on Ryan, I'm like, wait, I'm pretty positive that I've matched with this guy before and he asked me on a date.

[SPEAKER_08]: And then I go back in my Tinder.

[SPEAKER_08]: And literally two years ago.

[SPEAKER_08]: Tinder.

[SPEAKER_08]: This guy and I had matched.

[SPEAKER_08]: And he asked me on a date and I didn't respond.

[SPEAKER_08]: And he probably knew that when I met him when we were at pieces and he was like, you're fake, you didn't match me on Tinder.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_08]: Well, now we did match.

[SPEAKER_03]: I didn't like him.

[SPEAKER_03]: He didn't reply.

[SPEAKER_08]: I think they replied once and then he asked me on a date and then I didn't reply because I'm a horrible person.

[SPEAKER_08]: But anyways, then I go back on Raya and I'm like, oh my god, like he's available again and he's cute Like Kobe was like wait, he's like so cute.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, you need to like he wants so cute I remember so cute.

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, when you're in person, but he had a boyfriend so I was like whatever and then I see him Raya He's here just for friends just for friends just for friends [SPEAKER_01]: That doesn't make any sense.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like you can set your status or whatever to hear it just for fun.

[SPEAKER_01]: That's just because he's like not looking for anything serious.

[SPEAKER_08]: No, but then remember I went back in Tinder and he had like it looks like he deleted his Tinder.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, just for friends and there might just like be out.

[SPEAKER_01]: Just for friends or just for Fox.

[SPEAKER_04]: What's he looking for?

[SPEAKER_07]: That's title.

[SPEAKER_04]: No, it's too much.

[SPEAKER_04]: Too many exploits.

[SPEAKER_04]: Too explicit.

[SPEAKER_04]: Or too explicit.

[SPEAKER_07]: Shave it for friends, okay.

[SPEAKER_04]: So why is he paying for friends?

[SPEAKER_08]: I have no idea.

[SPEAKER_04]: You need to pay for Ryan, why is he just for friends?

[SPEAKER_08]: Like, maybe you just want to break friends.

[SPEAKER_04]: To people who have to pay for bumblebeeFF, I feel like they don't.

[SPEAKER_04]: I feel like you don't have to pay for bumblebeeFF.

[SPEAKER_08]: I don't know, actually.

[SPEAKER_04]: He should go in there.

[SPEAKER_04]: BumblebeeFFF, I've actually met a lot of people who have met like very warm and friendly friends.

[SPEAKER_08]: I have too.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm bumblebeeFFF, if you move to a new city and you don't know anyone, get bumblebeeFFF.

[SPEAKER_04]: It's not cringy.

[SPEAKER_04]: I have met very legit, very normal people that have, I'm like, how do you guys meet me?

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_08]: One of my co-workers is like, this actually happened to me last week, like she was talking about this.

[SPEAKER_08]: She was like, going to hang out with some friends and she was like, oh, Adam, you would love them.

[SPEAKER_08]: Like they're super into Korean skincare because I'm like, I have a sweet fixation on Korean skincare.

[SPEAKER_08]: And I was like, oh, cool, like how do you meet them?

[SPEAKER_08]: And she was like, I actually met them on Bumblebee FF and like we've been best friends for like three years.

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[SPEAKER_04]: Sorry.

[SPEAKER_04]: Blacked out.

[SPEAKER_08]: No, no, you're good.

[SPEAKER_04]: I'm like death gripping the microphone.

[SPEAKER_04]: Oh my god.

[SPEAKER_08]: You doing great, sweetie?

[SPEAKER_04]: The subject line is, help a girl out.

[SPEAKER_04]: Hi Katie Colby and Adam, I'm a huge fan and I need your help.

[SPEAKER_04]: I've just met a guy, we've gone out a few times and I know I shouldn't get ahead of myself but I really like him so far.

[SPEAKER_04]: Of course we'll take it slow to see if we're a good long-term fit, but my concern is that he just moved to town and I will probably be moving locations in June.

[SPEAKER_04]: For us both, career is very important to us and would just go where the job is because the job market is so competitive in the field that we're both in.

[SPEAKER_04]: I wonder that I'll continue to fall for him and then logistics of location and career goals will make it fall apart.

[SPEAKER_04]: What do you think?

[SPEAKER_04]: Should I continue to see him and see where it goes and maybe talk through it with him or should I call it off before either of us get to attached because the chances of working out long-term are not great, question mark.

[SPEAKER_04]: To be clear, I'm looking for a long-term relationship and if I were to see him casually would maybe get way too attached.

[SPEAKER_04]: So I tend to either try to cut things off or pursue it fully to avoid any sticky situations.

[SPEAKER_04]: Would love and greatly appreciate your thoughts.

[SPEAKER_04]: I see both sides because I we have a friend who they were seeing somebody was a little bit more short-term and they dated short-term for like a year and now they're dating long-term and they're madly in love So her question because she might be moving locations So like she's wondering if it's like a waste of time Slash feelings of waste of feelings and she'll get too attached If they move away from each other like is it a waste of time?

[SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, but she's all saying that right that she likes him a lot kind of, but she doesn't want to like get into like this potentially short-term thing where she gets more attached and then he moves away and then it's like Yeah, when they went on a few times she's worried that she'll get attached.

[SPEAKER_04]: I don't think she I think she's in the phase where she doesn't know if she will, but she's at a good cutting off point if she wanted to cut it off Before she gets to ahead of herself that's what I'm that's what I'm gathering from this.

[SPEAKER_04]: What do you think hold?

[SPEAKER_01]: I feel like these situations are hard because I feel like I used to be quick to be like just see it through and have fun while you can type of thing which I still do feel that way but also now if she isn't going to want to be dating other people at the same time that she is [SPEAKER_01]: Or not, basically, which I understand, I don't know if it's more so like not wanting to waste either of your time.

[SPEAKER_01]: If you don't see it going anywhere, it with the moving logistics being involved.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, and I say you're saying, if this is like the only person on your roster, that could be a lot of pressure for both of you, yeah, I feel like if you have the bandwidth, like you should expand and like be going on dates with at least one other person, yeah, while you're seeing this guy, so it isn't so much pressure put on this potential ticking time bomb of a [SPEAKER_04]: situation ship but if you're having fun like I don't see why you can't just continue to see them just knowing in the back of your mind that it like there's a potential expiration date and if anything it's a lot less pressure yeah like knowing that they could be leaving slash you could be leaving like it's so much less pressure if you're a bunch of such an easy out if you're not like honestly this is kind of an ideals to hear you like yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah [SPEAKER_04]: If you start to, like, you've been all like, she says a few dates.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, if you start to feel like, ah, this isn't my person.

[SPEAKER_04]: You have such an easy out.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, you're leaving, he's leaving, like, what a gorgeous situation.

[SPEAKER_04]: Right.

[SPEAKER_01]: Hey, I must get to you.

[SPEAKER_01]: I know we're moving in a month.

[SPEAKER_01]: So might as well, just go over the way now.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's kind of romantic.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, we have limited time.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but otherwise, it's a nice part and gift to your city.

[SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, but like, I don't know.

[SPEAKER_04]: If you just put less pressure on yourself, I think you could have a lot of fun with this.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like it just sounds like you're putting a lot of pressure on yourself to like figure things out and like understand where things are going.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like, but I also, I'm very like that too.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like a very futuristic thinker.

[SPEAKER_04]: Like every time I go on a date with someone I would imagine, like, what are wedding might look like?

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_04]: So it's hard not to do that but like I feel like also it just sounds like you're very invested in your career right now anyway so just let this be what it is a fun thing that is potentially fleeting and just like I try not to get to in 2D feelings wise.

[SPEAKER_08]: This advice has Adam's stand for approval.

[SPEAKER_04]: Do you agree?

[SPEAKER_08]: Hi Greg.

[SPEAKER_04]: Judge Judy.

[SPEAKER_04]: Judge Judy.

[SPEAKER_04]: Put your gavled down.

[SPEAKER_07]: My gavled.

[SPEAKER_07]: Okay, I got all down and with that, that's all we have time for today.

[SPEAKER_07]: It's been fine.

[SPEAKER_07]: Love ya.

[SPEAKER_07]: See ya.

[SPEAKER_07]: Bye!

[SPEAKER_04]: Hopefully we have no audio issues this week.

[SPEAKER_08]: It's okay, it's so bad.