[SPEAKER_01]: You know, I'm gonna get deep here for a second.

[SPEAKER_01]: Help, I hate my friends, new boyfriend.

[SPEAKER_01]: If the sound so sketchy, but like, he really was so nice.

[SPEAKER_01]: Guess where?

[SPEAKER_01]: Where?

[SPEAKER_01]: You just had your anniversary.

[SPEAKER_01]: Did you guys do anything?

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh yeah, we did!

[SPEAKER_00]: He just looked at her, like, she was the sun, moon, and stars.

[SPEAKER_00]: Well guys, just the two of us again.

[SPEAKER_00]: We're back.

[SPEAKER_00]: Back at it.

[SPEAKER_00]: Just the two of us.

[SPEAKER_00]: We can make it.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'll spare you.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'll spare you, but we're back.

[SPEAKER_00]: Colby and I.

Adam is in Australia, right?

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Is he still there?

[SPEAKER_01]: Which is so wild.

[SPEAKER_00]: Adam is really the world traveler these days and it's crazy to me.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's so crazy.

[SPEAKER_01]: I cannot believe he literally is an Australia for four days.

[SPEAKER_01]: That doesn't feel like enough time.

[SPEAKER_01]: No, consider it.

[SPEAKER_01]: To adjust the timing.

[SPEAKER_01]: A day to get there.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like a full day.

[SPEAKER_01]: I was texting him while he was traveling and I was like, oh, how is your flight?

[SPEAKER_01]: Then I fully lived out a day, went to sleep and woke up and he was still on the plane.

[SPEAKER_00]: No, I know.

[SPEAKER_00]: The same thing happened to me because I said, I sent him a picture.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: And because he was in the air, he couldn't see it.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I was waiting for his reaction to said photo.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I didn't get it for quite some time.

[SPEAKER_00]: It is so crazy.

[SPEAKER_00]: Well, Adam is there for work, but I'm sure he'll be doing fun things maybe, and we'll be telling us about them next week.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yes, next week.

[SPEAKER_00]: If you're missing him, don't worry, he'll be back soon.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, also next week, I'm realizing I'm going to be in California, so it might just be you guys.

[SPEAKER_01]: Just the two of us.

[SPEAKER_01]: I have my company off site.

[SPEAKER_00]: That'll be fun.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: Where in California are you going for that?

[SPEAKER_01]: So I am going early to meet with a few brands that are based in LA.

[SPEAKER_01]: I think I might be able to go to the Allegem and like cross your fingers that I have a really exciting celebrity sighting while I'm there.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so I'm meeting with a few brands on Friday, so I'm leaving early Friday morning, and then I'm gonna spend the weekend in Santa Monica with a college friend, and then our off-site is in West Hollywood.

[SPEAKER_01]: I mean, you sing.

[SPEAKER_01]: And then I come back on Wednesday, but I get back at midnight, and then I will work from home on Thursday, and my move is coming Friday.

[SPEAKER_01]: A lot going on.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: You don't say.

[SPEAKER_00]: You're also sick.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: Well, you're doing all of that.

[SPEAKER_01]: Thanks my month of, like, not being in a routine and being around a million people has finally caught up to me.

[SPEAKER_01]: But I did something very retro and took a COVID test because I know there's a new strain going around and I don't have that.

[SPEAKER_01]: I think it's just a cold.

[SPEAKER_00]: Congratulations.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I do, I heard that you did something.

[SPEAKER_00]: Not, well, I guess it is kind of retro as well.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yes, to help yourself for your cold.

[SPEAKER_00]: Please know the class what you did.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so I'm trying to flesh this out of me ASAP, obviously because being sick is the worst, but also just before I leave, I don't want to be on a flight across the country with the suds.

[SPEAKER_01]: So, I got acupuncture for my Zionist's last night and I swear to God, it has helped so much already.

[SPEAKER_01]: They put like two points behind my ears.

[SPEAKER_01]: two points by my nostrils and then a couple of my forehead and then some on the top of my head.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's top of the head.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I came there for like forty minutes or forty five minutes with them in.

[SPEAKER_01]: And then they did like a few other points just for like, destressing and things like that.

[SPEAKER_01]: But it seriously wasn't credible.

[SPEAKER_01]: I've been going to within.

[SPEAKER_01]: They have a couple of locations in the city.

[SPEAKER_01]: They have a membership.

[SPEAKER_01]: And it honestly, I was telling my mom that I was starting to do it.

[SPEAKER_01]: And she was [SPEAKER_01]: saying that it's usually expensive, insurance is always covered at whatever but they have a membership that I think is like a hundred fifteen dollars a month for multiple sessions which I feel like if you're going to do it especially for healthcare things which in my opinion the healthcare system is like such a scam.

[SPEAKER_00]: I feel like that's relatively affordable.

[SPEAKER_00]: Do you ever get like freaked out that there's needles in you?

[SPEAKER_00]: I've never done acupuncture.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's honestly super relaxing.

[SPEAKER_01]: So they put their tiny little needles.

[SPEAKER_01]: Do you see that you just lay my eyes closed?

[SPEAKER_00]: So like, there isn't a mirror.

[SPEAKER_00]: You're not like watching.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, no.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's like a dark soothing room.

[SPEAKER_01]: They have white noise on.

[SPEAKER_01]: And then they give you a buzzer.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like if you need anything, but they put, uh, they give you a buzzer.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, yeah, in the hospital.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, kind of, but they like put it in your hand.

[SPEAKER_01]: Cause you, it's a thing.

[SPEAKER_01]: I think they call it like an acupunap, but while the points are in you, your body like really relaxes.

[SPEAKER_01]: And, ooh, you kind of fall asleep.

[SPEAKER_01]: Okay.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, did you sleep for like thirty minutes?

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, my ordering always picks up a nap.

[SPEAKER_01]: Even if I don't feel like I fell asleep, like your body's in such a restorative state, if you don't actually fall asleep, but I feel like I probably did.

[SPEAKER_01]: I just didn't even realize.

[SPEAKER_00]: I fell asleep during a massage once, and I woke myself up because I was freaked out that I was asleep.

[SPEAKER_00]: It was a whole thing.

[SPEAKER_00]: I get very embarrassed by falling asleep in public places.

[SPEAKER_01]: If you're on a plane and you feel your head not and wake yourself up, it's so embarrassing.

[SPEAKER_00]: I catch myself like fully mouth open.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh yeah, especially on a plane.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like I don't typically sleep with my mouth open.

[SPEAKER_00]: I mean either.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like I think I would know if I did because I would like have a lot of like drool or something.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: mouth tape never worked for me because I would take it off in my sleep in my slumber.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, whoa.

[SPEAKER_00]: I would take it off and wake up with it like in my hair.

[SPEAKER_00]: So that wasn't sustainable for me.

[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe you do drool in your sleeve and you just didn't know.

[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe your drool makes the mouth too fall off.

[SPEAKER_00]: I should ask Jack to check on me.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Although he sleeps like he's dead.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: I and the lightest sleeper in the world living in the loudest city in the world.

[SPEAKER_00]: So I was just telling Colby I want to get a white noise machine.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I used to have a hatch, but for some reason, I struggled with the hatch.

[SPEAKER_01]: This is the Jenkins thing on the planet, but I really like mine.

[SPEAKER_00]: I've really struggled with the app and like the technology aspect.

[SPEAKER_00]: I just want something that I can push on and off.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like I want to like just turn it on, change the setting maybe like a few settings.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like the white noise machine or the sound machine from Sex and the City that Burger carries boyfriend had, I want that.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm unsure of what you're referencing, but I can send you one that my sister has in her kid's bedroom.

[SPEAKER_00]: I literally want the most basic.

[SPEAKER_01]: It literally has an on and off switch.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I'm gonna convince Jack to allow it in our bedroom because I feel like he'll protest, but also like I said, he sleeps so heavily that I feel like he wouldn't know if it's on or off.

[SPEAKER_00]: He genuinely, so it's gonna take like maybe two seconds of convincing, but also I've been taking my melatonin gummies like way too much.

[SPEAKER_00]: I feel like I shouldn't be relying on them for like normal nights.

[SPEAKER_01]: I hate feeling dependent on it, which is how I've been feeling.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I also wonder how much of it is like a placebo of knowing, like thinking it's gonna do, like taking it, knowing it's gonna knock me out.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I only take one when the serving size is two.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Of the ones like the Lemmi sleep, it's like you can take up to two, I guess.

[SPEAKER_00]: I take one, but I think it's like the mental understanding that I will sleep, that helps me get to sleep.

[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know how much of it is the actual like drug.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Or whatever, you wanna call it ingredients.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, like it's a kind of a placebo, like, oh.

[SPEAKER_01]: I don't know though, because sometimes I will be sitting on the couch and I recently have been taking melatonin gummies or whatever it is early so that I'll fall asleep at the time that I want to fall asleep at like last night.

[SPEAKER_01]: I took my melatonin at literally like eight, thirty and I was sitting on the couch like nodding off by ten, but I didn't feel tired before I took it.

[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, that's good to know.

[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe I should take mine earlier.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but I usually don't know that I need to take it.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like it isn't like a ritual for me.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's more so like I'm laying in bed sleepless.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like I cannot fall asleep, but I'm so tired.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, which is honestly hate that.

[SPEAKER_00]: One of the worst feelings ever is to be I forget what like early, two thousand song it was, but [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, it's cold play.

[SPEAKER_00]: When you feel so tired, but you just can't see.

[SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if I ever knew that.

[SPEAKER_01]: What's the word?

[SPEAKER_01]: Is that how it goes?

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: I mean, I believe you.

[SPEAKER_00]: I believe it's the song called.

[SPEAKER_00]: Fixio.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Fixio, which let me sleep gummies are my fix.

[SPEAKER_00]: Fix you.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: They're fixing you.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I'm usually like, [SPEAKER_00]: Doing that right I'm restless.

[SPEAKER_00]: I can't sleep and Jack is just like out cold next to me and I'm jealous and so then I get up and put a gummy in like I pop one in at that point like I don't do it Going into the night there has to be a science behind how men can sleep so peacefully anywhere [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, maybe it's just like a, you know, I'm gonna get deep here for a second.

[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe it goes all the way back to like the hunter gatherer days like we were more women were more [SPEAKER_00]: endangered.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: You know, the men had spears.

[SPEAKER_00]: What did we have?

[SPEAKER_00]: A baby on our hip like a man with a spear.

[SPEAKER_00]: Man with a spear coming at us.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Sometimes protecting us sometimes not.

[SPEAKER_00]: I feel like women were just like on edge because we know what can what's out there.

[SPEAKER_00]: Sure.

[SPEAKER_00]: That's true.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm just an overthinker.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm a chronic overthinker and my brain does not turn off.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I hate that feeling of like actually not being able to turn your brain off, like laying in bed and thinking about the worst is when you're thinking about how you need to be asleep, but you're not asleep.

[SPEAKER_01]: And it's like, you just can't stop thinking about anything.

[SPEAKER_00]: Well, for me, I start calculating how few hours I have.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I'm like, oh, well, not gonna look at the clock so I don't know what.

[SPEAKER_00]: No, and I do.

[SPEAKER_00]: I keep it.

[SPEAKER_00]: I roll over.

[SPEAKER_00]: I look.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, well, there goes my eight hours.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yo, I'm getting that now.

[SPEAKER_00]: And then it starts trickling down.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I digress.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm hoping the sound machine will help me.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm hoping the acupuncture will help you with your sinuses or by wake up tomorrow feeling brand new.

[SPEAKER_00]: California weekend.

[SPEAKER_00]: Well, you said you've already, you can already breathe through your nose again.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: It really has helped already.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm amazed.

[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, well, maybe I'll put it on my to-do list.

[SPEAKER_00]: I hear it helps with like joint electronic pain, which I have like residual of from Lyme.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: It does help with that.

[SPEAKER_01]: I've done pressure points or whatever that they like.

[SPEAKER_01]: feel around and like break them up with the needles.

[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe I'll do that because I do get like joint pain and like weird feeling and my joints, which I think is from Lyme disease, which recently, another member of the Lyme community, Justin Timberlake.

[SPEAKER_00]: has Lyme disease, and the club, Justin, J.T.

[SPEAKER_00]: Speaking of silent diseases, I am going to get my skin checked.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yes.

[SPEAKER_00]: Where are you going for that?

[SPEAKER_01]: Because I need to do that.

[SPEAKER_01]: I've never done it.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, it's so easy.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's so easy.

[SPEAKER_00]: You guys, everyone needs to do it.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's like nearing the end of summer.

[SPEAKER_00]: So I recommend doing it at the end of summer because that's of course when you get the most sun exposure.

[SPEAKER_00]: And although I wear SPF like every day, I feel like I got some new freckles this summer.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I've been keeping an eye on them, but there's just so many of them.

[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, you're more than me.

[SPEAKER_00]: I feel like yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I have like moles, but not like raised moles.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: So I always thought that like when they're not raised, they're not going to be a problem.

[SPEAKER_00]: But then I saw classic.

[SPEAKER_00]: This girl made a TikTok about how she's discovered she had stage four melanoma and She's like everyone get your skin check and I'm like Roger that I booked my skin check.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I need to go do it dermatology specialists is where I go and I'm actually trying their new look that will not their new location But new to me because I used to go to the Greenwich Village one, but now that I'm a little closer to the flat iron location I'm going there [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what it looks like, but I know that the Granted Phillage one is really gorgeously decorated.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that's where I went when I had my perioral turquoise flare-up.

[SPEAKER_00]: They're great.

[SPEAKER_00]: And one of the nurses, I want to say that helped me one time when I had like a bad exima flare-up was a listener of the podcast.

[SPEAKER_00]: So we have friends there.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, at Derritel, I love that.

[SPEAKER_00]: And they take my insurance, which not many people do, so I think they take a lot of insurance.

[SPEAKER_01]: When I had that flare up on my face, the way that the urgent care that I went to described it was like an urgent care for dermatology.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, it's not super difficult to get it.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, they have a lot of appointments and a lot of locations.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: I feel like not many people go to the dermatologist.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm generalizing, but I feel like people are more so, you know, go into the primary care or like, right, although I haven't been to my primary care doctor.

[SPEAKER_00]: I have an either I need to get blood worked on, like, in so long.

[SPEAKER_00]: But it's hard to keep up with all these things.

[SPEAKER_00]: It really is.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's so many appointments.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I'm just trying to get into my dentist, but the last few days I've been calling them, they haven't answered my dentist appointment got canceled.

[SPEAKER_01]: Why it was supposed to be yesterday?

[SPEAKER_01]: But it got canceled.

[SPEAKER_01]: What happened?

[SPEAKER_01]: Due to a change in my [SPEAKER_01]: uh, provider schedule.

[SPEAKER_01]: It was canceled.

[SPEAKER_01]: But that's fine, honestly.

[SPEAKER_01]: Another week will be better for me.

[SPEAKER_01]: Okay.

[SPEAKER_01]: I needed the day yesterday.

[SPEAKER_01]: I actually can't imagine having to sit in the chair at the dentist when you can't breathe out of your nose.

[SPEAKER_00]: Mm-hmm.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, no, no, no.

[SPEAKER_00]: I canceled appointments because of that.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: That were like a a canker sore.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yeah, mouth like I full on canceled appointments over that because there's nothing worse.

[SPEAKER_00]: Well, actually, I feel like it's worse to not be able to break through your nose because you kind of have to break through your nose for most of the procedure.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Well, I think we should do the introduction.

[SPEAKER_00]: And then I want to hear all about your Bachelorette.

[SPEAKER_00]: They want to do this weekend in Vermont.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yes.

[SPEAKER_00]: I want to hear all about it because I did not very much this weekend.

[SPEAKER_00]: So I need to live by here easily through you again.

[SPEAKER_00]: So welcome back to another episode of Match Me in Manhattan with Katie Colby and Adam.

[SPEAKER_00]: Girls, how we do in.

[SPEAKER_00]: Doing fabulous Kobe how it was you were bachelor at tell everyone because I feel like you didn't even really talk about it.

[SPEAKER_01]: We were like just outside of Killington We went to the distillery at the base lodge of the mountain which was really fun one of the nights But there really is not much going on there in the summer [SPEAKER_01]: Uh, that's kind of surprising because I feel like these like ski towns have a lot of, yeah, summer people as well.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like my personal stuff, right?

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: I mean, I thought so.

[SPEAKER_01]: In New Hampshire where I grew up going, there's a big summer crowd that goes there too because there's other things.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: There's this amusement park called Storyland.

[SPEAKER_01]: And it's a dormitory.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's never an amusement park that's kind of based off of children's books basically.

[SPEAKER_01]: And so there's an area with like empty dump, empty dump, there's Cinderella's castle.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's very cute, but I grew up going there and then you could also go to the ski mountains and do like the summer activities on the mountain.

[SPEAKER_01]: So Killington doesn't really have that?

[SPEAKER_00]: No.

[SPEAKER_01]: They really don't.

[SPEAKER_01]: Interesting.

[SPEAKER_01]: The main operaski bar that they have isn't even open in the summer.

[SPEAKER_00]: So what did you guys do?

[SPEAKER_00]: So I know.

[SPEAKER_00]: We had like...

[SPEAKER_01]: thirteen people in the house that we were at so like that was who we were going to hang out with anyway but we were just laughing the whole time that we were like there's literally no one here like it was so funny but we just really made our own fun and it was exactly what my friends whose bachelor at it was wanted they just wanted everybody to be together and like do outdoor activities luckily we had a gorgeous weekend [SPEAKER_01]: So we did the distillery at the base of the mountain and I took the Amtrak up on Friday, which was a very, very long train.

[SPEAKER_01]: It was like six hours.

[SPEAKER_00]: That is one.

[SPEAKER_01]: I had a similar experience to when I went to the Cotswall.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I was like, oh, I'll just call it Uber.

[SPEAKER_01]: When I get there, they have apparently one Uber driver in the whole town.

[SPEAKER_01]: Luckily, I traveled with another girl who's coming from the city and we went into this little bar.

[SPEAKER_01]: to get a glass of wine after the train.

[SPEAKER_01]: The owner of the restaurant was like, here's a guy's number.

[SPEAKER_01]: He's a local taxi.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I trust him to get you there safely.

[SPEAKER_01]: And we were like, OK, thanks.

[SPEAKER_01]: Whatever.

[SPEAKER_01]: So we go with this guy.

[SPEAKER_01]: And he, the sound so sketchy, but he really was so nice.

[SPEAKER_01]: He was like a very friendly dad.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I trusted him to be this in the right direction.

[SPEAKER_01]: the taxi driver came and we were chatting with him the whole ride and he told us about a few bars that like had live music and like work good places to go in the area so we ended up going to one of those bars and it was like a very local crowd very low key and we became bestiest with [SPEAKER_01]: This waitress who had worked there for eleven years.

[SPEAKER_01]: And she was like, I am so happy that you guys came here.

[SPEAKER_01]: You really live in the place.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, they had touch tunes, which was like all we needed to make it amazing.

[SPEAKER_01]: That'll fill up a bar.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: So that was pretty much what we did.

[SPEAKER_01]: And then Saturday, we did a beer Olympics, ask situation, cute, but my friends who were bleeding it, like, [SPEAKER_01]: had all of the stuff and it was set up so cute and then they got in a slip-in-slide but there wasn't a hose hooked up at the house or we could have find a hose so then we had to like get really innovative with how to like make the slip-in-slide work but we figured it out dish soap yes we had that would be my first guess we had that but then we were like trying to connect to gutters or on the ground to like [SPEAKER_01]: get the slip and slide wet, because then we were filling up salad bowls basically with water, but done wasn't enough.

[SPEAKER_01]: But then we found the hose head that you could hook up to the faucet and we just put it upside down and made it like a waterfall.

[SPEAKER_01]: That was a great thing.

[SPEAKER_01]: So ended up working, but it was just like so funny.

[SPEAKER_01]: It felt like we were back in college for a day, basically.

[SPEAKER_01]: And then we did the backyard about you again.

[SPEAKER_01]: And the chef that we had was so cute.

[SPEAKER_01]: He literally drove an hour and a half from New Hampshire to come to the Hobachi.

[SPEAKER_01]: And he was so fun.

[SPEAKER_01]: He told us he left us when we were leaving.

[SPEAKER_01]: Very wholesome, like good friend bonding time fun.

[SPEAKER_01]: That sounds really great.

[SPEAKER_01]: Was it cold in Vermont?

[SPEAKER_01]: It was similar to the Hampton's, how it got chilly at night, but during the day it was really warm.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like we were in bathing suits, laying in bed.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh wow, oh my god.

[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know why I always think Vermont, I mean, this is stupid, because I know that it's like anywhere on the East Coast, like there are seasons, but I always imagine Vermont cold at all times, like all year.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, no, it's beautiful in the summer.

[SPEAKER_01]: Other towns are like happening in the Summer League Burlington, Vermont.

[SPEAKER_01]: That's where my cousin lives.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, my uncle lived there and I have been up there so many times.

[SPEAKER_01]: There's so much should going on there.

[SPEAKER_01]: Do you think that's on the lake?

[SPEAKER_00]: Do you think Burlington Vermont?

[SPEAKER_00]: is like akin to Burlington Coat Factory.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like do you know Burlington Coat Factory?

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I grew up going there like to get my coat for the year.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like it was like a kind of like a marshals.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: They had one of those.

[SPEAKER_01]: We're trying to hear my free come fall.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm not sure.

[SPEAKER_01]: There's also a Burlington in Massachusetts.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm looking this up.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I'm unsure.

[SPEAKER_00]: Where did Burlington Goat Factory come from?

[SPEAKER_00]: Guess where?

[SPEAKER_00]: Where?

[SPEAKER_00]: Guess where they originated.

[SPEAKER_00]: Burlington New Jersey.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, how interesting.

[SPEAKER_00]: I would never have guessed that.

[SPEAKER_00]: Burlington New Jersey in nineteen seventy two.

[SPEAKER_00]: But you're going to kill these ten next weekend, aren't you?

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I'm going to killing ten.

[SPEAKER_00]: Is it already next week?

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, oh my god, yes.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, that's when I'm living for that weekend to be over.

[SPEAKER_01]: So I know exactly when it is.

[SPEAKER_00]: Well, yeah, that's cool.

[SPEAKER_00]: These big move.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but I'll be back just in time for your move.

[SPEAKER_00]: We're driving.

[SPEAKER_00]: And we get back Monday, like I'm having Jack like we're getting out early.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: We're driving out early back.

[SPEAKER_01]: I recommend that because we spend the entire day in the car on Sunday.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: I think we left at ten and got back to the city at like four o'clock.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: We're leaving like crackouts of dawn.

[SPEAKER_00]: We're staying at Jack's friend's house.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: His friend is turning thirty.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's a big thirty at birthday party.

[SPEAKER_00]: That'll be very fun.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, and they like, his family lives their part time.

[SPEAKER_00]: So I'm assuming he'll know a lot of fun things to do.

[SPEAKER_00]: He'll definitely bring good shoes this time because the last time I went on a weekend with Jack's friends.

[SPEAKER_00]: Jack's friends are like very adventurous and fun.

[SPEAKER_00]: And your girl looked like Hannah Montana.

[SPEAKER_00]: Hello New York.

[SPEAKER_00]: That was my vibe when I rolled up to his friend's trip last year because I didn't even bring like one good pair of footwear.

[SPEAKER_00]: I brought every pair of shoes that I brought on the trip to Upstate New York last year were healed.

[SPEAKER_00]: And we went on a little hike.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like they said it was going to be a trail, like a walking trail.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I was like, oh, I can do that in a little boot with a little heel.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I did, but I was in misery.

[SPEAKER_00]: That's awful.

[SPEAKER_00]: It was mostly downhill, which healed boot downhill.

[SPEAKER_00]: I was also wearing like my barber, which like doesn't keep you warm.

[SPEAKER_00]: No.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's be real.

[SPEAKER_00]: Barber coats are adorable, but they do not keep you warm.

[SPEAKER_01]: No, they have no insulation.

[SPEAKER_00]: So I, I was really struggling.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like the mountain.

[SPEAKER_00]: mountain girl and me I'm still trying to find her so this time I'm going to have a proper footwear and that's that that's on growth yeah and trying to impress jacks friends which is I'm still working on that and I [SPEAKER_00]: bringing sneakers.

[SPEAKER_01]: Now bringing sneakers, I do need to, I feel like you really just need leggings and like maybe a maxi dresser to a casual maxi dresser to.

[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, maybe I can figure that out.

[SPEAKER_00]: I just did a big purge of clothes this weekend because feeling, I'm just struggling with the lack of closet space in here.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I don't know if I told you this, but my landlord has created storage space in the basement.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, that's so high.

[SPEAKER_00]: So there's like there's three units in the building.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I am one of three and then in the basement there are three storage units with like doors and locks and they just built these and they painted them white and they're like gorgeous and clean and I was so excited about them But I assumed that they would be involved like included in the rent Yeah, stupidly thought that like or maybe my charge to that [SPEAKER_00]: Like, oh, I don't know, fifty bucks a month or something.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I think my first apartment in the city, I did technically have a basement with like space that you could buy and it was like fifty dollars a month.

[SPEAKER_00]: And it was like a large space.

[SPEAKER_00]: And these are decent size storage units down there.

[SPEAKER_00]: Probably like a classic like walking closet size.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Guess how much they're charging us a month or trying to keep going.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, shut up.

[SPEAKER_00]: five hundred okay the the largest one there's three of them ones larger than the other two that one is five hundred dollars a month and the other two or four hundred dollars a month that is ridiculous on top of my rent which is already astronomical I was a poll when I got the email that that's crazy they were that much and so [SPEAKER_00]: So what we have been doing some investigative work.

[SPEAKER_00]: We know upstairs neighbor didn't take a storage unit.

[SPEAKER_00]: We know actually we know that no one's taken a storage unit because I sent Jack down there yesterday to investigate to see if anyone has used them because they've been available for like over a month now.

[SPEAKER_00]: So, you know, in theory, if someone said yes to the email, they would be putting their stuff in there and they'd be locked.

[SPEAKER_00]: But they're all unlocked and wide open.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I would like to assume that would be included in your run.

[SPEAKER_00]: No, it should be.

[SPEAKER_00]: It really should be.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's really cruel that they should just make six of them and have it be offered.

[SPEAKER_00]: But don't even need to have sex.

[SPEAKER_00]: There's only three units.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, for some reason I thought that you said that there were sex.

[SPEAKER_00]: No, there's three units and three apartments.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, that wasn't clear.

[SPEAKER_00]: Three apartments in the building.

[SPEAKER_00]: And then three storage units, like one for each of us, which makes sense for it to then just be included.

[SPEAKER_00]: And that is a perk.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, that could be a perk for the next tenant that you might get here, like, because they just built these.

[SPEAKER_00]: So these are like, they weren't able to like, advertise them the first time around for the [SPEAKER_00]: Lisa's, but anyway, so we responded yesterday.

[SPEAKER_00]: I was like, Jack, I am at my wits and with the lack of storage in here.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, our shoes are on display right now, out in the living room.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I need more space.

[SPEAKER_00]: I need someone to put the suitcases, like, and this close to buying a storage bed.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I'm like, I want to give you the review of mine.

[SPEAKER_00]: Goldwater's built.

[SPEAKER_00]: Goldwater's in the hallway right now.

[SPEAKER_01]: I know I need to also send my dresser and mattress, but I was waiting so that it wasn't sitting here for so long.

[SPEAKER_00]: No, you can do it.

[SPEAKER_01]: I feel like this week or next week.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Um, and I, these time my dad and talk to him about it and he's, he called it something and I, of staging a coup.

[SPEAKER_00]: Something in the building and be like you should like he was like you should reach out to the other two tenants and you guys should all be in on it and like negotiate with the landlord because It's not like they don't really have much leverage on like what are they gonna do like if they don't fill them they're just gonna make zero dollars a month on them and how much money did it cost them to build them?

[SPEAKER_00]: So really they they should be taking anything they can get really yeah, so we negotiated [SPEAKER_00]: And we actually I jacked like did some research on the storage place down the street and how much day charge per square footage per square foot and so We offered one fifty a month, which is still insane by the way, but not four hundred [SPEAKER_00]: It's that is actually how much it costs for like a fifty square foot or I don't know how much square footage, but like that is what's standard in New York.

[SPEAKER_00]: First of all, a unit.

[SPEAKER_00]: So we are offering.

[SPEAKER_01]: Give you my boxes if you want.

[SPEAKER_01]: After I move, I can keep them assembled and put stuff into them.

[SPEAKER_00]: That would be nice pending.

[SPEAKER_00]: They [SPEAKER_00]: They accept our offer because fuck no now I'm feeling I am like stubborn.

[SPEAKER_00]: I am not paying four hundred dollars a month.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm like jack.

[SPEAKER_00]: We're taking our business elsewhere if they say no.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I'm like I will [SPEAKER_00]: You know, what's probably going to happen is they're going to be like, they're going to counter.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, they're going to counter because, you know, that's, that show is baby.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I'm not paying more than two hundred a month.

[SPEAKER_00]: No.

[SPEAKER_00]: That's my final answer.

[SPEAKER_00]: But it's just, it would be so convenient because like the suitcases down there are vacuum cleaner.

[SPEAKER_00]: We only have two closets in this whole apartment.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Which is crazy.

[SPEAKER_00]: We don't even have like a general closet for like, [SPEAKER_00]: are swiffer.

[SPEAKER_01]: The lack of closet space is really baffling.

[SPEAKER_01]: For some reason, and I think it's because your apartment was built by a man.

[SPEAKER_00]: It was built by a man.

[SPEAKER_01]: And then you just don't think about it.

[SPEAKER_00]: Nope.

[SPEAKER_01]: They're like, this is more than enough closet space.

[SPEAKER_01]: They're like, there's a closet in each bedroom.

[SPEAKER_01]: The living space is gorgeous.

[SPEAKER_01]: Done.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: Literally.

[SPEAKER_01]: That's it.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's like, no, he's like, even a second thought to them.

[SPEAKER_00]: He's like, let's make heated toilet seats.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Which they have.

[SPEAKER_00]: We have they.

[SPEAKER_00]: We have heated toilets.

[SPEAKER_00]: He did toilet seats.

[SPEAKER_00]: What are you going to do?

[SPEAKER_00]: It's a new work apartment.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm happy with it overall, but I'll keep you guys posted on what happens in the basement.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, our new apartment is lacking in closet spaces well, but there is a front closet.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, everyone needs to call closet like that is like a basic human right that would have just like the basic you know things you need to hide away right not even close like more so just like your vacuum cleaner like where are you gonna put your vacuum cleaner yeah in the closet yeah, but what if you don't have space in your closet then where does it go right now my dice and it's just against the wall yeah So it could be worse it could it could it could be worse [SPEAKER_00]: You didn't even notice my Samsung frame art.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, it's giving the life of a show girl.

[SPEAKER_00]: I have Ophelia.

[SPEAKER_00]: If you guys know the Ophelia painting.

[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know who painted this, but it's like the Hamlet's Ophelia.

[SPEAKER_00]: She's like in the water with the flowers.

[SPEAKER_00]: It was suggested for me.

[SPEAKER_00]: on my frame art tab or whatever.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like my frame TV, the Samsung frame has like an art tab and maybe they're pushing it on everyone.

[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe Taylor has a friend at Samsung.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I feel like every brand is trying to rub elbows above.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, for sure.

[SPEAKER_00]: The cultural moment.

[SPEAKER_00]: It is the cultural moment.

[SPEAKER_00]: Although I'm really sick of these countdowns.

[SPEAKER_00]: Wait, yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: What was the one yesterday?

[SPEAKER_00]: It was for the vinyl, which like another vinyl, which I'm loving all of these photos.

[SPEAKER_00]: We're getting to see of her like really embracing her femininity and wearing the skimpy clothes and being, you know, being a showgirl.

[SPEAKER_00]: Right.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like I'm living for it.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm happy for her.

[SPEAKER_00]: She seems like so happy in her own skin.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I don't, you know, I'm not a vinyl gal.

[SPEAKER_00]: My sister in the other hand loves vinyl.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I'm like, okay, cool.

[SPEAKER_00]: I was hoping for a single, but [SPEAKER_00]: Cool.

[SPEAKER_00]: Another vinyl.

[SPEAKER_00]: Cool.

[SPEAKER_00]: She has to release a song by August, thirty-a-th.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I saw that for the Grammys.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's called the Grammys.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I was reading some comments and I agree.

[SPEAKER_00]: I don't think she cares.

[SPEAKER_00]: I don't think she cares about the Grammys.

[SPEAKER_00]: I don't think she cares about the deadline.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like I feel like she will just, you know, do her thing and October.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe we'll get like a single in September.

[SPEAKER_00]: Anyhow, so I have a feeling on the TV for now, but I was very pleased with the podcast.

[SPEAKER_00]: Did you watch her?

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I listened.

[SPEAKER_01]: I saw clips and I listened to it.

[SPEAKER_01]: It was so good.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I feel like it gave us such a glimpse into just their relationship.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god, I love seeing how they interacted.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like how he just looked at her.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like she was the sun moon and stars.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, the whole episode.

[SPEAKER_00]: And then Jason was such a good interviewer.

[SPEAKER_00]: He really was.

[SPEAKER_00]: I loved all the questions he asked.

[SPEAKER_00]: And he was like, he took her so seriously.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I saw yesterday that the podcast on YouTube has eighteen million views.

[SPEAKER_01]: That's wild.

[SPEAKER_01]: But also hearing you talk about how much he loves Jason's kids.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: And how she's trying to make rainbow sourdough for them or confetti it's sourdough.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like so cute.

[SPEAKER_00]: What do you think about people thinking that her talking about sourdough was an Easter egg for the Super Bowl?

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yes.

[SPEAKER_00]: Do you think she's going to perform with the Super Bowl?

[SPEAKER_00]: Because I really do not think she will.

[SPEAKER_00]: You don't.

[SPEAKER_00]: I think she could do the national anthem or something like that, but I feel like and I saw a comment about this and I, you know, I don't.

[SPEAKER_00]: Men are not my primary focus and I don't really like give a fuck about men getting their tickets to the Super Bowl football fans.

[SPEAKER_00]: I should say not just men, obviously.

[SPEAKER_00]: people saying that like if Taylor were to be the halftime performance and it would to get like leaked somehow which her tracklist for this album got leaked so like leaks yeah leaks happen like even with Taylor Swift who keeps her circle very small but people fear that like Swifties would take up all of the Super Bowl tickets and literally leave after halftime [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like because also clearly based on the era's tour ticket prices people will pay whatever it takes.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yeah, like they will pay for Super Bowl tickets to Jessie Taylor and imagine I don't think she would want to be responsible for that kind of like what's the word like [SPEAKER_00]: staying on the NFL.

[SPEAKER_00]: The ball fans shouldn't have to fight to get tickets over people who are just there for the halftime performer.

[SPEAKER_00]: Which I guess you could say that about any year because there's been some amazing halftime performances over the years with people that music fans would die to see, but that shouldn't be the reason why you're getting a ticket to the Super Bowl.

[SPEAKER_00]: So I don't know, but I could see her doing a surprise [SPEAKER_00]: like national anthem.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I would love to see you're seeing the national anthem.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that's a good, that's a good prediction.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I don't know.

[SPEAKER_00]: I don't think the sourdough mentions are like a lot of the things are yesterday when she released the new vinyl.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's called the shiny bug.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, shiny bug vinyl.

[SPEAKER_00]: And people were saying, oh my god, SB Super Bowl, shiny bug, SB.

[SPEAKER_00]: That's wild.

[SPEAKER_00]: And like that's a reach.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: But [SPEAKER_00]: You never know with her.

[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know because I do think she deserves to perform with the Super Bowl.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: I really do and I feel like all of her like counterparts like people that are similar in fame level to her have.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: And she's like the one person that hasn't or like one of.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Has Katy Perry performed with the Super Bowl?

[SPEAKER_01]: I have no idea.

[SPEAKER_00]: I feel like she would kill it.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: She's fascinating, it's me.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I would, I would see her live.

[SPEAKER_00]: Really?

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I would.

[SPEAKER_00]: She was just here.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, fuck.

[SPEAKER_00]: You missed it.

[SPEAKER_00]: It was last week.

[SPEAKER_00]: Has Katy Perry performed at the Super Bowl?

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I don't know.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, she did.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, my god, twenty-fifteen.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.

[SPEAKER_00]: This was like her, her era as well.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, this was, she looked, she had like the, [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, yeah, that's one.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, this is like I bet she did California girls.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god, twenty fifteen was such a time.

[SPEAKER_00]: Really was for music.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, she did the Pepsi Super Bowl halftime show.

[SPEAKER_00]: That was our freshman year of college.

[SPEAKER_00]: She wrote on a giant gold tiger.

[SPEAKER_00]: That's okay.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I feel like I kind of remember that.

[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, so I don't know who else it would be.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Sabrina?

[SPEAKER_00]: No.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, she would be so good.

[SPEAKER_00]: I feel like Sabrina is too new still.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like two freshly famous.

[SPEAKER_01]: That's another thing though.

[SPEAKER_01]: I feel like they lean into like trying to appeal to everybody which Taylor Swift does.

[SPEAKER_01]: But they a lot of times go more old schooler people who have like [SPEAKER_01]: audience that spans generations, rather than just like a new act.

[SPEAKER_01]: That's so true.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, like my dad doesn't know who's Sabrina Carpenter.

[SPEAKER_01]: Right.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm excited for football season to start.

[SPEAKER_00]: How did you start it?

[SPEAKER_01]: No, no.

[SPEAKER_01]: It starts in season.

[SPEAKER_01]: But speaking of football fans and football season, I really, really, really want to make it to an NFL game in London this year.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: I wanted to go last year, but it was in the midst of what I had like a wedding every other weekend.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I just couldn't swing it.

[SPEAKER_01]: In this year, I really want to try and do that because I think it would be such a cool experience.

[SPEAKER_01]: How many games happened there?

[SPEAKER_01]: They, I think are having more, well, it started off, I think, which is one.

[SPEAKER_01]: And then I think they had two.

[SPEAKER_01]: And now there might be like four to six, I think.

[SPEAKER_01]: I know that the Jaguars were pushing to be the home team of London and just like move the team there and play out their season there.

[SPEAKER_01]: But I don't know if that's gone through or I actually don't think it was approved but previously they have been the home team.

[SPEAKER_01]: But for some reason I think the Cleveland Browns are this year.

[SPEAKER_01]: I might be wrong.

[SPEAKER_00]: So I just googled it because I [SPEAKER_01]: Like, I know that they play games in London, but I have no idea why, and I'm just like, they're trying to break the random NFL, like, or spread American football outside of America.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, they play it in London.

[SPEAKER_00]: The NFL plays games in London as part of a broader strategy to expand its global reach and cultivate a larger international fan base.

[SPEAKER_00]: There's been at least one game in London each season since two thousand and sevens.

[SPEAKER_00]: This is not a new thing.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but that just like feels, I mean, I know it's like obviously effective in people go, but I just, it just feels kind of silly to me, because I feel like to international people care about American football, like, will they ever?

[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know, because they have their own stuff.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, like in London and England, especially like Jack is obsessed with football like soccer.

[SPEAKER_00]: Football.

[SPEAKER_00]: They have so many sports over there.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I guess they don't.

[SPEAKER_00]: Jack didn't grow up throwing a football in high school.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like in gym class, which is funny because like we play rugby, which is like most rugby, right, you're right.

[SPEAKER_00]: He played rugby in school.

[SPEAKER_00]: he said there was something they did cricket yeah cricket as well which cricket is the craziest thing to watch like he'll put it on the TV sometimes and I'm like this sport feels it's so wild like I cannot even follow it but I guess that's the American and me saying that yeah but I don't know the rules I like to go to the London yeah I really really really really want to go okay we'll put on our list um [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, need to look at the calendar.

[SPEAKER_00]: Absolutely.

[SPEAKER_00]: Well, we're kind of nearing the end of our broadcast today.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: I feel like we should answer a question.

[SPEAKER_00]: Do you want to read the one from the DMs?

[SPEAKER_00]: Sure.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'll do that.

[SPEAKER_00]: We got it.

[SPEAKER_01]: Speaking of Jack, you just had your anniversary.

[SPEAKER_01]: Did you guys do anything?

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh yeah we did.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god I literally forgot.

[SPEAKER_00]: Um well I was heading out to the Hampton's on the day of our anniversary.

[SPEAKER_00]: Our actual anniversary is July twenty ninth because he asked me to be a girlfriend after midnight on the twenty eighth.

[SPEAKER_00]: So technically it's the twenty ninth but it was a Tuesday this year.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I was driving out to the Hampton.

[SPEAKER_00]: So we really didn't.

[SPEAKER_00]: We more so celebrated when we were in Nantucket.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh yeah, we did.

[SPEAKER_00]: So nice.

[SPEAKER_00]: That was kind of our anniversary trip because it was romantic.

[SPEAKER_00]: It was romantic.

[SPEAKER_00]: We had like our cute little room in the lifehouse hotel and I bought him a pair of Ralph Lauren shorts.

[SPEAKER_00]: And he bought me dinner.

[SPEAKER_00]: So like, you know, it really was in like anything crazy.

[SPEAKER_00]: But we're also like I said, driving out to Vermont.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I'm thinking we're gonna squeeze in like one night of just us two.

[SPEAKER_00]: But we'll say he rented us a Jaguar.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, that's a fun car.

[SPEAKER_00]: One thing about Jack is he literally just got his license renewed.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like he didn't have a valid license driver's license for three years.

[SPEAKER_00]: He has not had his expired.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: And you can't just miss your passport.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, that's just he's just not like me.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I would have, I'm already thinking about renewing my passport.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I have like six months to like before I have the pre-six month.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm ready.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: Um, I still haven't gotten the real ID and I'm getting a New York license when my mom comes.

[SPEAKER_01]: Those are perfect numbers.

[SPEAKER_01]: So that'll do it.

[SPEAKER_01]: Well, yeah, because I have to.

[SPEAKER_01]: I don't want to, but I don't get any official mail sent to Massachusetts anymore.

[SPEAKER_01]: So I have to get a New York ID to get the real ID.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, that also reminds me since I don't have it.

[SPEAKER_01]: I need to remember that I need to bring my passport to a wedding calendar.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh my gosh, okay.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, I literally need to put that in my calendar.

[SPEAKER_00]: No, that is my calendar.

[SPEAKER_00]: I remember to do.

[SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god.

[SPEAKER_00]: Well, anyways, we're renting a, he rented on Taro.

[SPEAKER_00]: Have you reused Taro?

[SPEAKER_00]: Taro's when you like rent real people's cars and like just use their car for the weekend and like pay them.

[SPEAKER_00]: So he just got his new idea.

[SPEAKER_00]: So I've been driving us around for the entirety of our relationship, which I love to do because I love to drive and he will be driving us to Vermont, which I'm excited to be passenger princess and he got a Jaguar so far.

[SPEAKER_00]: We couldn't have just gotten a Hyundai.

[SPEAKER_00]: He's like, no, we need to roll up in style.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, okay, that's a huge thing.

[SPEAKER_00]: All right, I think it's whatever's preventing it.

[SPEAKER_00]: Big Ask Jaguar.

[SPEAKER_00]: I love it.

[SPEAKER_00]: Anyhow, play me fun.

[SPEAKER_01]: Alright, from the DM's, okay.

[SPEAKER_01]: This says, help.

[SPEAKER_01]: I hate my friends, new boyfriend.

[SPEAKER_01]: My friend has been talking to this guy for six months and he honestly hasn't treated her amazing and has been very inconsistent with texting and did not really put the work in.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like he invited her to wing nights with the boys type of thing, not actual dates for reference for twenty-five in living in New York City.

[SPEAKER_01]: She just decided recently that now he'll be her boyfriend and I'm truly shocked now that I met him.

[SPEAKER_01]: I say I was horrified because he looks not so on her level physically but then also emotionally is just weird.

[SPEAKER_01]: I asked him his favorite thing about her and he literally said quote unquote boobies.

[SPEAKER_01]: This is even worse than I was expecting for him.

[SPEAKER_01]: I just think she's such a beautiful, smart, funny girl.

[SPEAKER_01]: And he literally is not cute in the slightest, but doesn't treat her amazing either.

[SPEAKER_01]: I was very honest when she asked me my thoughts on him and said, I'm very confused.

[SPEAKER_01]: Do I need to raise the sounds?

[SPEAKER_00]: I think she just dropped.

[SPEAKER_00]: I think she just typed it wrong.

[SPEAKER_00]: I was very honest when she asked me my thoughts on him and said for me it's a total no, but then of course the week later she said he's now her boyfriend.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: How do I be supportive when I [SPEAKER_00]: actually cannot fathom saying I like him because truly if this man approached me the bar would run approached me at the bar I would run away my philosophy on this which everyone might not agree with this but I feel like a rule of thumb when you get to a certain age which these people are twenty five and it doesn't sound like he's being harmful to her like he's not [SPEAKER_00]: of using her like anything like that he's just like not who you imagine for not very mature not very cute yeah but the thing is as her friend you just need to put up with it you need to be like [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, cool.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's like you just have to be there for your friend and trust that she knows what she's doing and this will just be a good lesson for her or it could be the love of her life and maybe you'll come around.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I think a lot of friendships have been ruined by people sharing their true thoughts on someone else's significant other and like that just people make their choices and that's that.

[SPEAKER_01]: I think it also is just such a part of growing up.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's realizing it's not my boyfriend.

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, I don't have to love him.

[SPEAKER_01]: She does.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: He's great for her.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: That's a period of sentence.

[SPEAKER_01]: Right.

[SPEAKER_01]: And like, he makes her happy.

[SPEAKER_01]: And that's literally all that matters at the end of the day.

[SPEAKER_01]: But it's hard considering like, he's your best friend's boyfriend.

[SPEAKER_01]: Do you think so highly of her?

[SPEAKER_01]: Like, sure, but keep those thoughts to yourself.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, and I know it sucks, but you kind of, you just have to.

[SPEAKER_01]: It's been six months, which is kind of when you know whether you see a future where the person are not and clearly she decided that she wanted to keep dating this guy.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: commit to him there could be something like some redeeming quality and you just don't want to be the one that like my dad always tells me this story like how he expressed to one of his friends when he was in his twenties that he didn't like her group his like he didn't like his friends girlfriend right [SPEAKER_00]: And then they ended up getting married and my dad wasn't invited to the wedding because he was like, I don't like this girl.

[SPEAKER_00]: And then they lost touch because of it.

[SPEAKER_00]: Because my dad was like, you know, it wasn't that deep.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like I really didn't need to say anything.

[SPEAKER_00]: Right.

[SPEAKER_00]: Lo and behold, they did get divorced.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like recently, my dad was like, hi, I saw that I always had a hunch.

[SPEAKER_00]: I always had a hunch, but the thing is, it doesn't, okay, you have a hunch.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's not all about you.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like it's really, it's about them.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's about your friend.

[SPEAKER_00]: The only second thing is when it impacts you and you have to like hang out with him.

[SPEAKER_00]: Right.

[SPEAKER_00]: But that harder things have been done.

[SPEAKER_00]: You can do it.

[SPEAKER_00]: You can persevere.

[SPEAKER_01]: persevere and also like your twenty five yeah coming from experience there's going to come a point where if you are doing a lot of things with your friends boyfriend now I feel like there was such a time when it was like okay let somebody just got a new boyfriend like let's go meet all of their friends and like if you have a lot of other single friends it was like exciting to like go meet the friends and see if anybody was cute that like it's probably gonna wear off [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_01]: And so you might not be around to as much as you're thinking that you will be anyway.

[SPEAKER_00]: Exactly.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like once people get busy and like have jobs, whatever, I mean not that you don't when you're twenty-five, but you know what I mean.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's like you don't really spend that much time with your friend's significant other.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Unless like you want to, unless you kind of become entangled in their friend group as well.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it's really not the most important thing is that your friend is happy right like you might be like, oh, and of course you're gonna like track like clock these things and be like, oh, but my friend is so great.

[SPEAKER_00]: This guy doesn't match up.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like something's not the math is not nothing here.

[SPEAKER_00]: Right.

[SPEAKER_00]: But it literally like doesn't matter.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Anyway, any who.

[SPEAKER_00]: I think that's it for our episode because we've got to go to work.

[SPEAKER_00]: You have a coffee chat and I have your skin check.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to get like naked.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, if I recall.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm wearing mandarin, but like I hope I requested a girl.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like a wolf woman nurse.

[SPEAKER_00]: But last time I did this, they just threw it in a man.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like they just threw it in.

[SPEAKER_00]: It was like the lead doctor was a woman, but they just had like a guy taking notes in the corner and I'm like what the fuck is going on here?

[SPEAKER_01]: So interesting on my sister's just thought her skin check and she said that the doctor that did it was like a good looking young guy.

[SPEAKER_01]: Oh shit.

[SPEAKER_00]: Well, I hopefully the doctor is in the one that I requested and then maybe she doesn't need a man in the corner taking notes, but [SPEAKER_00]: We'll see.

[SPEAKER_00]: We'll cross our fingers.

[SPEAKER_00]: We'll see.

[SPEAKER_00]: The most important thing is that I am getting ahead of health.

[SPEAKER_00]: Getting ahead on potential issues.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[SPEAKER_00]: Anywho, that is it for our episode.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like I said next week, Adam will be back.

[SPEAKER_00]: Colby will be gone.

[SPEAKER_00]: But we will be here.

[SPEAKER_00]: Matt made will be here.

[SPEAKER_00]: Yes.

[SPEAKER_00]: And that's that.

[SPEAKER_00]: That is that on that.

[SPEAKER_00]: Love ya, see ya, bye.