This gone sounds so bad, but I like I like pickle jallapios and like nigga foods, Yes, like Nacho's or something like our kind of food.

Like if it's like our tacos, our.

Talk what kind of tacos were?

Because let's be fucking for real, we all know that black people make tacos completely different from the way that.

First of all, first of all, we use ground pees.

That's first and foremost.

No cilantro, that's part of the.

Mother fucking foremost.

We don't be using no onion.

We don't be using no size on.

We just found out of our size on.

Black people just fouled out of our size one like five years ago.

You could and you could tell because we're using it everything now.

That's that chi can be orange chicken orange?

Why is the chicken and yo gumbo orangees?

Fugs?

What's up?

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Green Drunk mind speaks sober.

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We ain't got no guests today.

I know they'd be so happy every time we do a solo episode.

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Yeah, we back turned up.

We love.

No not really very cold and like raining in Atlanta.

So I don't know if I was prepared for that, Like I definitely ain't prepared for the fall.

I love fall.

Fall is one of my favorite seasons.

I'm a fall spring girl, maybe because I'm a spring baby.

Spring is perfect because I feel like it don't be too cold, be a little breezy, the sun be out now we back day like saving time.

It's getting dark early, I mean it's getting dark later again.

I love spring.

Summer be too fucking high, Like summer be too hot for me.

And then fall.

I like fall because I feel like it's kind of like a cooler version, more calm version of spring, Like it's not as cold, but it's a little chilly because I pulling the colts, I pulling out your fall pieces.

Winter.

I don't fuck with winter.

Be too them cold, too freezing.

I don't want to leave out the house.

I'll be trying to be bundled up.

But yeah, so today's raining.

I'm a little mad because my hair doesn't feel flat, but it's fine.

I'm look cute, thanks serving, thank you.

But yeah, so that's my only complaining about today.

I just hate that my curls feel because I went to sleep in these rollers.

And by the way, with rollers, I just be like, how the fuck was our grandmother's and aunties and mama's sleeping with rollers in every day?

Because ain't no mother fucking ways they hurt.

It's just uncomfortable.

And I feel like the rollers that I be using, it's like these satin rollers that are like pretty comfortable, and I only do four of them, but.

Even still it's uncomfortable to sleep in.

So I can't imagine how they were sleeping with them hard ass plastic rollers back in the day every night, Yeah, absolutely night, and.

Then for your hair they still end up not being curled.

Well, I will be mad.

They used to use the sprints and then when they take out that rollers that had that line on it.

Remember it was a snap one.

It was a snap roller.

Yeah, yeah, my mama used to use them sponge rollers, but some people used to use them hard ones.

It was like it was hard and then you just put the little thing on top.

That's the one I was talking about.

Yeah, that's the one when I was because it would have the line on it.

This scene.

They used to try to blend it down.

And they used to have that sprints on it because it would hold all day.

You spray some sprints on there, but you know what you need to do because I.

Like my hair to be flowy.

Sprints don't have you stiff.

So you need to use that.

The hair spray and just do it real, real, lightly, real real lightly before you go to bed and when you come and them curls gonna stay all day.

The light the lighthole, you can either.

Choose, but you gotta spray it far away and just put a little a little mist on there.

It's gonna hold all day.

I mean, I have a hair spray that I use, and I feel like even on Sunday it was raining a little bit, but my hair pretty, my curls be staying for the most part.

I just I don't know, I feel like it's just today the weather.

Is just like just not Yeah, it's.

Just ain't giving because yeah, but I don't like nothing that make my hair too stiff.

Like that's why I try to stay away from sprays and oils and all of this stuff.

Like I just like for my hair to be I hate an oil.

It's gotta be the right oil that you put in your hair just to give that little shine.

Oh, it's some brand.

I'm gonna bring it next week and I'm gonna talk about it.

They have an oil that I spray on my hair, on my braids and it just gives it that sheen, but doesn't have that heavy oil because you know, sometimes it looks greasy and it'll hold it.

Down, ye'all.

I don't like nothing greasy.

I don't like no sheet where I'm putting my head on my fucking car seat and sleeping sin, letting my soul glow.

I can't stand it.

I don't like that or on my pillow because I did that before.

I spent the night at somebody house before and like got up with some braids in my head and it lifts like a little oil stain on the pillow.

Use that light dry oil.

Yeah, fact sex sex.

But shout out to my girled Asia because she did my hair and she always killed my hair.

And yeah, the color is cute.

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And y'all know every week we have to talk about our poor decision that we.

Made this week.

So Dre, what's your poor decision that you had this week?

Rolling my hair?

Rolling your hair?

Okay, rolling your hair, rolling my hair up last night and then like my curls didn't stay.

I could have just not roady.

I could have just flipped as eve.

That's it.

Like I just wasted my time.

I wasted my like trying to sleep cue.

It just didn't work out in my favor.

So that was my bad decision.

Oh and I also lost my grill.

Damn, you just got just got that motherfucker.

I was having too much fun on Sunday, me and Lynne.

We ended up going hand got one of my friends and like we was too turned up after that.

After we left one music fast on Sunday, it was two turned and I feel like I took it out to eat.

Or something, or maybe I'll look it out in the car.

I don't know what happened, but I know when I woke up on Monday and I was looking for it in my purse, in my pants pockets, in my jacket pockets, I could not find the bottom grew nowhere.

So shout out, say Anna Grobb, be back tomorrow to.

Give me another one.

But you still got your mold.

Yeah, cause she gave us the mold.

So oh okay, I'll be back to get another one tomorrow because I don't know where they grew.

Eat.

Well, my poor decision this week is so again it's always something with this goddamn house.

But I'm I'm learning, I'm having a good time.

I learned how to fix holes in the drywall, and I was like, okay, so I got new outlets and new light switches.

I got this vintage brass with patina for my light switches.

Oh they're gorgeous, Like a light switch needs to be a statement, yes, because it's some small details like that that people don't pay attention to.

Right.

So I was like, okay, I'm gonna change all of them in my house.

I didn't change the ones in the kitchen because obviously I'm getting my kitchen renovated.

But I've changed all the outlets, all the things.

I was like, you know what, I'll go in after they changed the switches and I'll just and now.

I can fix the drywall.

I should have fixed the shit before and then let them install it.

But it looks good now.

But it's just taking me a longer time because now I have to unscrew the plates, fix the drywall, let it dry, do all the sand and then the paint, and then put it back.

It's been a lot, but on a good note, it's so gorgeous.

Like when I tell y'all, if you are in the house, or even if you're an apartment, you can just change the plates.

It's it's just such a statement piece.

So yeah, my new light switch is my poor decision was I should have did the drawball before.

But I'm learning.

I'm a new homeowner.

We're figuring it out.

But they look so good.

So y'all know lex p TV.

I do that all the time.

I'm an update, y'all.

I haven't done an episode in the Walk because I'm over the struggling, sweating braids in a bun, working hard.

But I like stuff like that, like you know, it brings me joy.

But Yeah, that's my poor decision.

So if you are out there, do the drawAll before you put the new place on.

Period, How what's your poor decision?

Speaking of houses, I left some eggs like I made, I make egg bites like meal prep throughout the week.

But I had to take it to the garbage And I came home Sunday actually after the one music fest, and my house was rank.

Oh my god.

I had to take that bag out so quick.

I had to like candles spray everything.

So don't do that.

Don't leave eggs even if they've already been discarded.

Yeah, Sam and skin fish and stuff like that.

I just feel like fish, poultry, all of that.

Like as soon as you are done cooking, you need to just yeah, you need to take it to the trash shoot immediately.

I learned that a long time ago.

Like if I'm making some chicken and not just put it in a new trash bag, I'm not gonna throw the container in there.

I'm just gonna put it in.

The seperate bag and then just go take it directly to the trash hute, because if you let it sit in there for like a day or two.

And I had just turned my heat on I was like marinate in there.

I was pissed.

I'm already know you.

Well, I don't got no trash, shoot no more.

So my garbage can is in my garage mine too.

When I throw that shit in there, I'll be like, oh my god, you gotta be careful because you can get maggots.

Because, like sometimes I have to clean my garbage out.

Mine is the same way we have to.

Our HLA makes us keep it in the garage home.

But in the summertime it gets so hot that if you are discarding stuff like that, you'll get maggots inside of there.

So just keep that in mind.

Like I clean mine out quarterly.

Well, I found this company.

They'll pull up on you and they'll clean it garbage can.

Please me.

There, I am, I am.

I haven't tried that, Okay.

I'm not gonna shout them out until I try.

Okay, but once I try, because they clean your garbage can out, I have to because it's awful.

Yeah, and I ain't even been in there four months yet.

Yeah, So it'd be so that we.

Would be you know, I like to cook that salmon dip.

They beat us like stuff for I just be like, I don't know, maybe I just need to buy a condo, hey, because I just I cannot be bought.

I cannot be bothered with having to clean out Megga juice.

Yeah, it's disgusting.

That's why I said I can't do it.

I had to find a company.

I was like, how can I clean out?

But it's actually a few companies that do it in Atlanta.

Okay, it's actually a common service that I didn't know either.

I didn't know that either.

And there's another service that people come and they'll clean out like your ac like the big thing and the act like you're supposed to get that cleaned out too, every once in a while.

So yeah, it's a lot of things I'm finding out.

I'm getting that garbage can clean up.

Yeah, that's a convenience I'm willing and happy to pay for.

Yeah.

I love paying for convenience.

Me too, I love to pay for some sheet.

I just am not by to doey.

It's money, well spence.

If I don't have to do it every time, If I can save myself.

The time and a hassle, yeah, I'm gonna do it.

The sun coming out.

The sun will come out tomorrow today.

Bet your bottom down all what I struck.

With a day that's great, lonely.

It was gray and lonely earlier, and you just stuck out your chain and you grined.

Because I because I've seen the sun shining behind Kyler Head.

I said, oh my god, the sun is coming out.

Love that for us.

But yes, so those are our poor decisions for this week.

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I like it though it's given like this.

You wish you had a big, fat tongue so bad.

I want.

It's so little to me.

You know, my friends in high school used to like making fun of my tongue, that sugar girl on.

My tongue, tongue, my tongue I got to though.

Okay, okay, let's get into this first topic.

Are you a stressed eater When life is stressing you out or you're having a bad day, do you feel more inclined to eat a big meal or something you've been craving, like what's something that you crave?

Like that you don't normally eat, like, what's something that you crave?

I don't really like referring to myself as an eater in general.

I just don't really like that term.

Why because I feel like our generation has made it into something that it should not have ever been made into.

So I don't like to refer to myself as an eater in any capacity.

I don't eat nothing.

Actually, I actually be sorrvy like Marvie girl.

Yeah, like I don't eat.

I'm not.

You're not.

Are you a stress eater with food?

To be clear?

No, if anything, I'm a person who you when.

I be like this, I don't want to eat.

No, it's not even that.

I just I work out.

Like I work, I get more locked in on my goals when I'm stressed out, Like if I'm stressed, it's just gonna make me go harder.

Because one thing about me.

I just always feel like everybody got me fucked.

It's like a motivational thing, Like if somebody stresses me out or if something stresses me out, it's like, I'm gonna just get better.

I'm aa proved to myself.

I'm approved to them, Like, I'm not gonna let these bother me.

I'm gonna probably lose weight because I'm a game, more muscle, I'm gonna start locking in on my protein goals.

I'm gonna start going to the gym more.

Yeah, that's funny because you are like that.

Yeah.

Like, no, I'm not really a stress eater.

I feel like if anything went I'm super super like happy.

Especially when I was younger, I would eat bullshit all the time because I was just happy and I just didn't give a fuck, and I'd be like, oh yeah, I want Popeyes today, so fucky.

Especially when I started really getting money for real, it was like, I'm gonna just do what I want.

What do you think about Papa's?

They got that, they got their big back six dollars bucks bag.

I heard have you ate Popa's lately?

No?

I haven't ate.

I'm not gonna lie I have that like two years.

Well, I had, I had some pop pees and.

What was wrong with I don't know why that that was God telling you I'm eating that ship.

It was bad.

It was not tasty.

Yeah, y'all know me.

I love I always get the red beans and rice from there.

You know, do you know how bad beans have to be for.

Me to throw it away?

It wasn't good because that's my favorite dish.

It had no mean.

I used to love the poor A little of that barbecue sauce on top.

He was getting facy.

Yeah, she like to mix it up, make a little spree.

I do.

I did getting We're not gonna get off topic today, no, but.

This is an't happy because it's like we're talking about being stress eaters.

Like so I was saying when I used to when I was younger, I used to just eat stuff just because it was like, oh, this is what I want today, So I'm gonna just order it and I'm gonna eat it.

And that's when I ah, wait, I'm had.

Yeah, it had nothing to do with like being stressed now because actually, when I'm going through sheit, it just really makes me become more discipline than locked in on my goals.

What about you.

I'm not a stress eater.

I'm a stressed sleeper.

When I'm going through it and I'm sad, I will literally just be like, I'm going to sleep.

I'm going to sleep.

I just want to sleep.

I just want to sleep.

I just want to sleep.

Now, you know, recently this year, I was like, oh, I was so proud of myself because I did the work.

I was walking on my.

Walking path, y'all.

I lost thirty pounds.

I was so proud of myself.

No, I didn't gain it all back the way it came back.

I've been in this house.

Look it's gonna be back there.

But to ask was never the problem.

But you know what it is to be these thighs.

Okay, it's the thighs, the arms getting meaty, the titties.

Getting heavy, the stomach get a little when people start asking me, oh my god, congratulations.

Ha you don't girl, No, Well, but you know what the thing about me is, whether I'm thick or.

Thin, I always look good.

Yeah.

I just I know my body though, and I know the seasons that I'm in.

Right now, I'm in that season where like I'm focused on like poor Mind's love, lex p my house and things like that.

And I haven't put my health on the back barn.

Like, not my health, just my eating habits.

Like I kind of eat when I can, and when I do eat, instead of eating small meals throughout the day like I was when I was losing weight, I'll eat like one big meal and then my body is holding on today and this and X y Z.

So I know what I have to do.

But also what I'm learning is like, girl, you can't make excuses just cause you're busy.

You need to find a way to work this into your schedule.

You know what I'm saying.

But I'm all right, I don't stress, see that stressed sleep?

Yeah.

I always say, like being healthy is a lifestyle.

That's just how I look at this point in my life.

Like I don't be wanting to do shit every day, any days where I be like ooh, I don't feel like And that's one of the main reasons why I'm glad that I got a walking pad in my house, because it be days where I just don't feel like doing nothing.

But I'm like, you know what, I'm gonna get on this walking pad.

I'm gonna watch six in the City.

I'm watch like four episodes, and I'm gonna get in my little two three miles and I'm gonna just make it work because even when I don't feel like going to the gym doing the waits, I'm gonna do something.

It's about moving my body.

And I've also been doing like this stretching challenge.

I'm on day like fifty three, I think of like ninety days, so I'm trying to be able to do my middle splits again and I'm almost like there.

That's crazy.

Middle splits are so hard they.

Are, and I'm almost there because I've been doing it for fifty three days.

I have like another what.

Twenty six days now, so yeah, so I've been doing it every day and it's just like it's something that fitness and willness.

It's not something that I always want to do, but I know there is something that I have to do.

And I think about the fifty three, fifty six sixty year old version of me.

It's gonna be fine as fuck.

And I'm gonna be thankful that I locked in on eating better, prioritizing my willness, taking my vitamins, working out every day.

I'm gonna be so happy that I did that.

In another ten twenty years, even when I don't feel like doing it.

So to me, it's just more of like a bitch, you gotta do you, you gotta do what you gotta get it dohing.

And I just don't like being the size that I feel uncomfortable for me when I get to like one sixty, and not that there's anything wrong with that way, but I'm also five too, so when I get to like one sixty, I feel uncomfortable.

I'd be like, I need to be in like the one fifties for me to feel comfortable with my body.

One sixty.

Yeah, but your way, but you're also taller than me.

Like people carry weight different.

If I was your weight, I would.

Be plus sides.

And not that there's nothing anything and not that there's anything wrong with that, but it's just not what like I feel comfortable.

For my brat and I think that's okay.

I think some people, whatever.

You I'm vain, and I'm okay with saying hey, like.

I I be wanting to look a certain way in my clothes.

I like to look a certain way naked when I look at myself in the mirror, and like that's what keep me motivated to just stay.

Fine and also just fighting off like.

Diseases and stuff like as we get older and we find out a lot of stuff that we consume is the reason why people have high blood pressure and diabetes and high cholesterol, hypertension, gout, all of these things.

It could be avoided by like the foods that you're consuming.

So I don't know what you think, say, cause you work out a lot too.

Now this is new.

Yeah, like my first full year and now I'm disciplined.

But like I'm like you, like every day, me and Andre and my trainer to talk about this, like we got to do this for the rest of our lives every day, Like that's crazy.

But now that I've built this regiment and this discipline around it, now my body feels it.

If I don't go to the gym after saying, I gotta just keep that going, cause I'm like you when I'm fifty, fifty five, sixty and age is creeping up and these bones ain't.

They creaking out?

Wohll.

So we do hip mobility, and I do bodies and stretching and all of that, Like those are things that are important, but like you said, moving your body is the key.

Like even if you're in the house, do some push ups, do some jump and jazz, do something that's quick that you can just like stretch inflex your body.

I'm not a what'd you say, eater, A stress eater.

I'm not a stress eater.

I won't eat stress be I'll go to sleep same or I just don't.

I need to just be by myself.

I can't.

I don't have an appetite.

I don't do none of that.

Yeah.

Yeah, and I'm the same way.

I feel like for the people watching, like she said, even if you don't want to go to the gym, just move.

And that's one thing I will say that It's probably saved me.

It's one thing about me.

I'm a move Yeah, I am a mover.

Like I'm a I have a trail.

I walk all the time.

Like you have to at least keep your body moving.

Cause one thing that we do take for granted is people is just getting being able to walk.

Until you get up and you can't walk, you know, you have to keep your body moving and.

Stuff like that.

Like I talked about this like probably two weeks ago in the episode when I'm talking about like I'm in hot yoga now I've been going to my yoga classes.

You know what I'm saying, just because like the mobility is like you know what I'm saying, It's really important, y'all.

But yeah, I don't got I done, got thick again, but we gonna lose it again and we gonna I don't know.

It was a Blund's cem smoke cinnamon.

But oh that's why I smoke.

I said, we're not ru Mike.

I mean, yes, y'all, y'all know I and I be hating to be that person cause I feel like sometimes I have gotten so deep into like my feetness bag that I feel like I'm that friend now where it's like when people around me don't be working out and they don't be being mobile, I'd be like, yeah, like what did you do today?

Did you work out?

Did you strange?

Did you do something?

And it's like it's not even to be judging, but it's just like on some real sheet, like we're getting older, Like you need to be doing something every day unless you want to be old and you want to be like sitting tore.

You just want to be like not able to move your body and having a walker and all like these are the habits that we're creating right now.

That is gonna make the difference thirty years from now between you having a walker, having a cane, and like being somebody who mobile who can still go to us NBA Young Boy concert and dance.

Up.

Oh no, butuse he gonna be like forty, but we gonna be sixty.

She gonna no, I guess he ain't that young.

He's a young boy, but he's like twenty three.

So he gonna be like fifty three and I'm gonna be like sixty three.

He gonna call your baby.

So we all gonna be old.

It's the point that I'm making, But we.

Need to shake.

He looked like he is shaped too.

He'd be working that stage.

Does it be about working out?

Like you have to work out and some people be thinking like, oh, I could just do cardio.

It depends on what type of body you want.

Yeah.

Me, I be wanting to be ton like when I look in myself, especially these days when I be having short tone.

Me and Lexis just need a photo shoot.

It'll probably be out by the time this episode.

Now, the way I look in shorts and stuff, I be like my legs be looking soul fired in soul toned two years ago.

Absolutely, not like I had so much cellua, light and stuff.

But I know it's because I wait train, that's a fact.

Jack, Yeah my legs.

Yeah, crushing fucking coking up with the motherfuckers.

I probably can't.

I know you could.

I probably can't, but yeah, but yes, it's just somebody.

It's discipline, like and I to knew the things that you don't want to do.

That's what separates you from other people.

And I also think so it's not about like successful people size.

Like sometimes people look at certain people and be like, oh, she's not in shape, and she's everybody's body type is different.

So you can look at somebody who would look like if you.

Think like a of an Olympic gold medal winner and shotput they're not.

These are not small women, but I bet you they're way more shape than you.

It's not about size.

It's about do you move around, what are you eating, what are you putting in your body?

It's about weights because that's what has to do we stream.

Well, I'm just talking about just like because people like to look at people.

You can't look at somebody be like, oh they're in shape and they're not, because it'll be some really small people.

And a bigger.

Girl who is probably like a shot put throw or somebody who's just in the gym all the time, and that girl is more shape and more in shape than the smaller girl.

And I'm a good example of that because before I started working out, people would just I'm naturally slender, right, and I have like an athlete's body.

But I didn't work out, so I couldn't even run a mile.

I couldn't run down the block when I first started.

But I had to build that up now and weights.

I was a weakling.

I couldn't do anything.

Now I've built that up in that stamina over the year.

Now I have a lot more strength.

But I would weeks.

Hell, you know what shocked me?

No, same because I be when I be doing my leg pressius, I be shocking the fuck out of myself because I be pressing like three hundred and forty five.

Now that's good.

That's a lot.

That's a lot.

It's no, it's a lot.

But when I first started, But when I first started working out with mister Reggie, like what two years ago, I could not even barely do like one twenty to one fifty, So now I'll be doing like three forty five.

And it's crazy because it's.

Like stamina, endurance, building the muscle memory over time.

It really makes a difference, y'all know what?

And when I stop, I'll be having to start back and go lower and then get back to three.

Y'all.

What shocked me?

Well, who doesn't work out?

Because I saw a comment she left and there was like, I need her a routine.

Tana Taylor?

Really she said she doesn't work out?

Is it fake?

No, She's just that's a I had a girl I went to high school with.

I haven't talked to her a long times.

With she call me about why she said my name, but you know it's still love you.

Still you're still my girl.

This girl with Amanda Bean, she.

Was just naturally muscles are natural too, just how fat can be natural.

Muscles can be natural too.

And she was just like, I mean she could jump, flip, do this, do that, do that.

Had an my sister's best friend, Jessica.

She was just, I mean, calves out of this world, legs out of this world.

Some people are just naturally muscular too.

She said that in the comment.

I saw it and I was like, she doesn't she doesn't work out after the kids too, and it just snapped back into an eight pack.

Life ain't fair, but I think.

But I think also people be taking away too from like nutrition.

Yeah, of course it makes a big difference in that stuff too, because some people like no, they don't necessarily work out, but they eat really well, so they don't have nobody fed for real because of the nutrition, because they eat a lot of protein.

They make sure that they're not eating a lot of carbs.

They make sure that they're not eating a lot of like processed sugars and all of these things, and it's a lot of protein.

In their diet, yop.

So it's easy to naturally for like your muscles to show through when you don't have a lot of body fag.

And she doesn't have a lot of body fag.

That's a fine lady.

Yeah she's small.

She's a small woman.

She don't have a lot of body fag.

Shut out to town.

I come sit on the couch and talk to all right, ta, you.

Know, I'm a little tip tip.

What where are we?

What are we drinking today?

I'm gonna add a little more this.

Yeah, yeah, I get it right, all right, old.

This one, hold on, let me get myself together.

This one we are going to call Smoky Secrets, Oh mochy secret.

So I actually infuse some vodka with ginger and vanilla for this one, so that is gonna be our spirit of choice, our base in there.

We added some apple cider, little lemon juice, and then I floated some pomegranate juice on top, so it kind of floated to the bottom, and I added a little bit of vanilla syrup to it.

And then as the garnish today, we have some coconut based with cream, which is a lot healthier if you are lactose and tolerant.

And then it is fall y'all.

This is like what the holiday season now, so we're getting into those warm cocktails.

This is a cinnamon stick that I just smoke, so it smells really good in here.

And that is the Smoky Secrets, y'all.

Smoke that thing, girl.

It tastes good when I go like this.

Okay, all right, y'all.

This next one is for the girlies that are still learning, evolving and leveling up.

We call it the grown Woman Glow.

Up because this season we're stepping into our softness, our confidence and our crown.

And this port is the perfect mass dog.

It's made with Taylor Port.

Y'all know, I love me some tailor port.

It has a little lavender syrup, fresh lemon druce, and a lemon wheel on top.

It's like laural grown like me.

You know, it tastes good.

I really like it because it's a really good balance between strength and sweetness, just like womanhood, just like me.

And a reminder that glowing up starts from the inside.

I agree, Like, here's to setting intentions, claiming your crown except for something that feels like like peace in the glass.

Cheers to the grown woman glow up only with Taylorport.

What's a crazy of food combination that y'all like, because I know we all said that were not really stress eaters, but like when you do like to eat and indulge and dabble, Like, what's a crazy food combination?

It's crazy because I'm not a sweet person, but I always crave pickle.

I eat pickles.

Anyway, like I love pickles, but like.

Pickles and skittles together.

Really, Oh my gosh, it's so good.

Like I try not to do it a lot because I used to really really do it.

In high school.

I know, I keep talking about my high school friends.

My friend Taylor shout out tailor.

Yeah, she put me on pickles and skills in high school.

And since I've been an adult, like I every time I'm on my cycle, I crave pickles and Skittles, the regular skittles.

Like that makes the skittles in the pickle.

Yeah, Like you can either take a bite and eat yeah, either or but you gotta get that juice from the kittles.

You gotta chew the skittles a little bit m and didn't take a bit of that pickle, so that pickle juice and that skittle juice.

Can mix up in your mouth.

You know what I'm saying.

You can't just shake it in your hand like some dice, and you gotta put it in your mouth.

Let them juices.

Okay, what about shoot side, I don't know, you don't have a crazy I have like a crazy crab.

I do crave like carbs around my cycle.

But that's that's normal.

What about you?

I mean, I feel like it's kind of like it's gonna sound so typical, but no, it's gonna sound so typical, but like French fries and ice cream.

It's such a good combination.

Like it's like the perfect sweet and saucy are like potato chips and ice cream.

But what French fries were talking about?

McDonald But I haven't ate that.

I'm not gonna lie.

I haven't ate that in a really long time.

But because I haven't, I don't eat no, I believe you.

But I'm saying that that ain't no craving because sometimes you got to satisfy it.

Well, I didn't say a craving.

I just said, like, what's something that you eat that's like a weird combination, okay, or something that you like that it's a weird combination, not a craving.

But yeah, like I haven't ate that in a long time.

But there used to be something that I used to like, like to do my French fries into like the soft serve.

Yeah, that's salty and sweet.

It's like a good it's a nice little combo.

And even when like Legs is talking about pickles and it's terrible because you absolutely should not be eating this shit.

But like I used to love to.

Put tahin on my pickles, but pickles are already salty, so adding a tayhen.

Just makes Yeah.

And I used to like the bread and like the hot what is it called hot days?

Like they have like these sweet spicy.

Bread and butter pickles.

Yeah, if you like bread and butter pickles, you're a psychopath.

Is bread and butter pickles, I'm a sweet Like they're sweet pickles?

Is it breaded?

No?

They just they're awful.

I don't.

I disagree.

I think that they have the ones that are like just the regular sweet ones, and then they also have the ones that are like sweet and spicy.

I like the sweet and spicy ones.

Or what I've tasted, but I said, hey, go to hell.

You gotta try the ones that I eating may be good.

Maybe.

So what was the last time you ate something that you was like, this is a I'm a bad bad girl.

All the time I was with you all weekend, you didn't eat nothing that I ate pasta the other day, like and I ate the whole ball a bad girl.

Facts because I don't eat that type of stuff all the time.

Like I'm really, but I'm saying something that's like cause that wasn't.

Bad to me.

It was cause it was like that was like at least fifteen hundred calories that ball of pasta.

It wasn't no fifteen hundred calories.

Do you count your calories?

I used to until I started obsessing over it and then I figured out how to lose the weight without doing that, because me too.

But I just like to count them because I like to just be mindful of like how many I burned and then what I'm eating because I don't want to gain weight.

Sometimes it be about maintaining yeah, not losing weight.

But yeah, that was a lot of That was a lot of caloriees.

It was so tasty.

It was very tasty.

But outside of that, I would say, like maybe like a month ago, I had five guys.

I had a burger like the Petti meal and get it out, get it out, get it out, get it out.

You was digger in that bag.

Five guys.

Be so good, Like it's so good, and I be getting it with like the petty meal, with the caramela, caramelized.

Onions, Barbie.

That's how you know that it was.

Good, caramelized onions, barbecue sauce.

Then I get the Cajun fries the kitchen.

That's the last.

Okay, okay, that's fair.

Lapinos.

Do you like, okay, last question.

We're gonna move on because you'll know.

I love food.

I'm getting hungry crying now, Like, damn, we shouldn't ordered cabbo, We shouldn't order five guys.

Fresh Kilipinos are pickled halopenos.

Pickle for me, fresh for me fresh, they're spicier, They're just I like the they are spicier.

Now I will say this.

I like fresh in my drinks.

Yeah, pickled in my food.

Yeah, like you like pickled in your picko?

That guya.

I don't like picko.

I like, that's my favorite.

That's my I hate fresh tomatoes and I love guacamole.

Guacamole.

Now you know I make guacamole from scratch and you use jopos in it or no, so I don't.

I know it's controversial because you can't use pickledopenos in guacamo.

You gotta use it.

And I do not like.

I don't know, And I like crunchy stuff.

It's something about that crunch of the fresheno with my food.

See for me, I'm I'm with tie.

It just depens on what it is, like, it depends on.

What it is.

I don't want somebody watching getting their hair Brothered like about these hallapenos.

Bitch, this gonna sounds so bad, but I like, I like pickle hallopios, and like nigga foods, yes, like nachos or something like our kind of food, Like if it's like our tacos, our what kind of tacos?

Because let's be fucking for real, we all know that black people make tacos completely different from the way that First, first of all, we use ground peeve.

That's first and foremost.

No cilantro, that's part.

Of have mother fucking foremost.

We don't be using no onion.

We don't be using those size on We just found out of our size on.

Black people just filed out of our size on like five years ago, and you could tell because we're using it everything.

Now, that's that chicken be orange?

Chicken orange?

Why is the chicken and yo gumbo orange?

As fugs go through that.

Said it in the song what she said, But what's the white rapper dude?

She she said the song about.

That's not first heard about it, y'all.

I'm not trying to be funny.

I feel like like American black people just thought out about size on, like not that long ago.

You've been so I agree.

Well, the reason I asked her because I grew up with you used your mama used tazone when.

You did it.

But you know we had some later friends, not that these on the side.

You know, that's what we call our friends.

Okay, So yeah, Like I had definitely had food with like it's not so that.

Orangeizon in the package, the boy package in the box.

But boy looked different.

It was different.

It looked different back then it had a different I think it was blue back then blue.

The packaging that said, but all that stuff.

Oh normal, we saw the general.

But I want with the sizzon in the orange boty you get and you get the package.

Yeah, the package.

I feel like we new to these, not true to these because they just want to use Sizon on every thing.

And si Zone is not made for everything.

Yeah, it's like I think, so.

We needed to get into more like using season your food with herbs.

Yeah.

Times Roads had.

Got the season that that's what brings the flavor.

Out and less salt like and get rid of that.

If you got Tony's, get rid of it, man, I'm telling you, let me tell you how it because there's better there's better seasons that.

Have less so I agree.

But Tony's also has like a salt free version, which is something that I use all the time.

They have a soft free version and they have the regular version.

And then I feel like dan O's has a really good season in that doesn't really have that much salt and it's pretty spicy.

But you gotta use your onion powder, your garlic powder.

You have to use your season in Bleans like I love Missus Dash as somebody who was like really serious about salt and take Missus Dash has really good seasonings.

Kenders has good seasonings, but a lot of Canders stuff be having salt any though.

It does have salt in it, but Kenders has a good balance.

I will say that Kenders is not heavy on the salt.

You can put a lot of Kenders in something and it's.

Not gonna be too salty.

Kenders is good.

But before we move on, let me tell you something.

This un turned into polities.

If you use jarlic, do not cook for me.

I hate jarlic, jar lit garlic in the jar.

I hate it.

Cap because I've cooked for you many of times and you loved the food and it definitely had jarlely.

Okay, cool.

But what I'm talking about like now as I've grown, because I used to use jarlic.

I'm talking about now as I've grown.

I first started like using fresh garlic probably about like two years ago.

It's so now you booze.

Yeah, I'm not boogie about a lot of things.

I'm boogie when it comes to garlic.

You can taste it if you can.

I didn't know that either.

I promise you can.

I promise you when you chop up that fresh garlic and you either roasted or whatever.

Even when I make my garlic bread, I make fresh garlic bread, it's.

I'm telling you, I'm just chopping up one time.

No I do.

That's what I was about to say.

You don't have to tell me.

I come from a family of cook it all the chefs, if you will, and like I so, I do both.

It really just depends on how I'm feeling, like if I don't.

If I don't feel like doing all of that and I'm trying to do something quick, I'm gonna use Jarlick.

I also like garlic paste.

I think garlic paste working for.

A lot of.

But I also will chop it up sometimes too.

But like my mom is one of the best cooks, the best shifts that I know, and like the difference between when she used jarlik and when she don't.

You would never know the food is still gonna.

Taste the same, like because it's such a small portion of the dish if you really season it right, if you're using all of these other herbs and seasonings, you're not gonna really be able to tell, Oh, this person you use jarli.

I just I like that fresh I love that fresh garlic taste.

I love it, and I can taste now because I crave it now, like that garlic flavor.

So I'll tell you this though, y'all.

If you are a DROLLI user, I'm not shaving you, but just try try fresh garlic one time.

Then you get that that or.

You can use both, because sometimes I use both in my food too, Like I might pop up a little fresh garlic and then I also use like a spoon a teaspoonful of like the jargar or like the paste.

You can never have too much garlic y off food.

Never much two garlic clothes a whole one.

Yeah, I'm the same way, like, you can never have too much garlic in your food.

Oh the song to like.

Like I said, red onions, I could even like an apple, seriously red onion.

Next level it is shall Yeah, I'm just not getting quarte.

Oh them shallots, and like a good pasta a little.

More elevated than just traditional.

It makes some onion and garlic.

To me, I feel like they have like that.

Flavor, make a little razzled a.

Yeah, I make a crab pasta.

I have to use sharlice and you got to use the fresh garlic.

That's what you could taste the difference.

But how do y'all feel about green onions?

Because I don't really I love.

A green onion, but as a garnish, just a garnish, a garnish like.

On some chili and a soup.

But I'm not cooking with it.

I raally cook it with yeah on like a tie dish.

Yeah, that requires it.

I always asked to get my food without it.

I love without green.

I love a little green chopping.

No, I love it green childs.

I'm a give me, give me a cream cheese bagel.

I had that this morning.

Be tearing it up, bitch.

I got all the gadgets in my kitchen now, yeah, I got gadgets galore.

When I bought my house, I had my Amazon list.

That was the thing that you know, people buy kitchen gadget that's the cheap h She brought me a TV, but.

You know, a cheap bead.

But no that you give people.

Well, no, I'm not gonna lie, but the kitchen gadgets I had were not cheat Like my friend Clay bought me the big silver Magnelite pot, you know, like I got the.

Electric toaster with the screen on it.

You know, I got some someh I'm not gonna lie tie if I really I'm hoping for I want to have a friend.

I was given him possible.

I want to have friends at my house.

So I'm trying to get it together, you know what I'm saying.

All right, y'all moving on?

You know, we get chatted.

What's topic to do?

You really know the lyrics?

That's typic number two?

So are there any songs that you swore you knew the lyrics too?

But you were dead wrong?

Now I'll say this, I am really good at knowing lyrics to songs.

For most part.

I'm like a human jew box almost.

But and I think because I am like that.

It irritates the fuck out of me when people don't be knowing the lyrics to songs, cause it's like, how the fuck did you think that that's what they said.

I will never forget something that you really like just pops out in my mind.

Is growing up?

I remember the cash Money song give Me a Project, bitch.

Okay, so.

Growing up my mom.

I remember one day we was in the car.

I was talking like ten years old.

She thought that many first said I love my baby Lama.

Now no, now you just be trying.

No.

Nobody thought, okay, okay, all right, no, I'm not saying I.

Would literally FaceTime her.

I believe that she said that, but how that's what I'm saying.

I know same, But she literally thought that he said I love my baby Lama.

And I was like, why would you think he said I love my Lama?

He said I love my baby Lama.

I never thought but she thought that he said that.

And I just feel like that happens across the board with so many songs, like people just be thinking all this person said this, and then they said something completely different, and it's like, how did I hear this?

How did I hear what?

He actually said, you heard something completely different.

That silk song meeting in my bedroom.

My father thought it said there's a big dick in my bedroom.

And this is what he asked his daughter when he's at meeting.

There's a big dick in my bedroom.

Was on the radio.

Ye.

So I feel.

When Missy came out with work it and she had the and like we didn't realize what she was saying backwards.

I had convinced myself and all of my friends, so we were like, no, this is what she's saying, and she just distorted it.

We were saying that she said, it's yours if you get the thing.

Wet are we you saying in Houston?

So I think that was just like like we were like, that's what she's saying, because she didn't release what she really said, like she it.

Was backwards, so we were like, yeah, it's yours if you get the thing.

So that's not what she said.

No, it's just reversed.

She said, I put my thing down flipping and reversed it.

And then she reversed it.

And then little known facts.

See Craigs that he never knew that she said if yours, it's yours if you get the thing, but she reversed it and little known facts.

She produced signs by Beyonce and she did the same thing for her.

Remember when it was like here, yeah, that part she was reversing something that she was singing, shout out to Missy.

It's us going around something like hers.

If you get the thing with.

I was like, no, one, I ain't know what I have my gods, if you get the thing, I like to get that note.

Yes I can, yeah, girl, just fast fast, It's fun.

What was that song by Rihanna?

She said something about some.

It was something about some, not the cake song.

I can't think of it.

I can't think of it.

We're gonna move on.

I talked about this the other day though.

I My pet peeve is when people don't know the songs, don't know the lyrics to a song, and then they'll like be recording the video and then they be like mouthing the words, and then it's obvious that you don't know the fucking words because your lip's not meshing up to the music.

And then they posted any fucking ways That ship irritate the fuck out of me because I'd be like, are you slow?

Yes, the answer is yes, because why would you do that?

Like and maybe I'm just maybe I'm o c D.

Like if I record a video and then I even mess up a word, I'll record it again.

Lebron is shaking one thing about Lebron what Lebron don't matter.

He'd be like, I got my.

Love it.

Lebron loves it.

Is so unorthodox for a Capricorn.

Oh, Lebron don't care, but I love it.

I feel like Capricorn people are just so like monog like specific.

I can't believe that he be.

I never knew that the internet thing, like he will post a song singing the world.

He'd be like, he loves it.

But at the end of the day, though, it's Lebron, that's you knew it.

This was the lyric I was talking about only girl in the World, about Rihanna, I.

Want you no because we like and we like.

That was such a good.

No because we're not gonna talk about that.

Man.

Was that not a good no?

Because in a few years, how I me Molly Sirens, Angelina Jolie, He said, Wood shout out to D woods Man, Damn Molly used to love.

Me some D Wood, I too go to jail I don't go to jail.

Not at all.

No, none, you should he said, what did he say, ass soft kick kat if?

I asked, off our break off jail?

What does that mean?

We don't know, just go to jail, because what the fuck are you talking about?

But that's funny.

It it's real interesting though, how we're it's twenty years later or fifteen years later.

We all like, ooh, you used to be a butfly line singing that.

Ship to the top.

And I used to like to hunh up man shot at Now I don't want to take a shot.

Okay, okay.

The lyric I was talking about was the only girl in the world.

This was a long thing that was debated because she said, I don't want.

You to love me like all my hot guy.

But people thought she said like all my hot pie.

I thought she said.

I thought she said a hot car.

Oh oh she said hot guy.

I thought she said, but you.

Said car hot car and you said heart thraw.

Love me.

Like I'm my heart fall.

That wasn't good, you know what, it'd be some lyrics that I'm like, they probably should have said that, you know what I'm saying.

What was the song?

Oh?

It was something he said in those lyrics, Chris Brown, what was that song called?

I don't know what.

No, that's all we little tipsy right now?

Yeah, what's what's the name of the song, y'all?

So I can look up the lyrics?

It is on eleven eleven though it is under the influence Okay, So these were the lyrics and under the influence that Oh, because he didn't say something about robotesting.

Oh no, No, it was something that he said he did listen fucking roba testing.

Mm hmmmm.

It was something that he said that people were like, he should have said this, oh, because he said your body like way speaks to me.

And they were like saying that he should have said something else.

But I can't remember what.

People said he should have said it, and they were like, that makes more sense if he would have said that.

Should it be heavyweight?

I don't know, No, but he said, I don't know.

I don't know.

I'm confused.

I don't know either.

I can't remember what it was.

It was something, though, But all I know.

Is they people it irritates you out to be with people don't be knowing.

The lyrics or something that's me.

I don't know.

The worst to me, that's not true, though you do be knowing you know a lot of lyrics that's not true R.

And B, but rap song, I'm gonna fuck that shit up.

I told y'all for the longest time.

I was just well, hot nigga dropped.

I don't know what the fuck he was saying, and sue he am a hot nigga, like I told the Sashes when he dropped Niggas.

Yeah, you did say sausage and almost like he said shisty sausage thing.

It's not the same thing, the sausage and.

He could have been his name could have been sausage like I told the Sausages when he had dropped nigga.

I just feel like, just look up the lyrics, like it's we are in twenty twenty five, We're in the twenty twenties.

All you gotta do is to look it up.

Yeah, you're right, Like all the music apsal Yeah, literally just click literally if you're on title, if you're on Apple Music, it's literally a tab that you can click on at the bottom where you can literally see the lyrics as a.

Song is playing.

It's no reason to not know the lyrics, but sometimes people be rapping too fast, Like.

If it's twisted, then cool.

Bedroom.

That's what I'm saying, because do y'all remember that song that he had with Chris Brown when he was like, right off the back, I'm gonna I'm gonna.

Get it poppy, we can get it crack.

Yeah, that's not the same damn what I was like what I'm talking about.

But do y'all remember what the song I'm talking about?

It was like popping and Little Wayne did the rema make I'm gonnack.

We can get a poppy, we can get a cracking.

Man is waking if you like what I lower, I think she's talking about.

And that's what I did with bus around tu Okay, get away, get away, get away, y'all, that's.

All you gotta do.

No, because Chico actually really know all the worst Jones.

Why would y'all know the worst?

Today?

And I feel like I got.

It was the Popping Room meet, Yeah, y'all, Okay, all right, we gotta move on.

We got Now it's time to get into the beat Bowl the Beato.

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Get you some period, all right, get into this topic.

Are you horny or sad?

Mm?

Are you really.

Using six as a kope mechanism, because some people really don't be sad, they just well not in my bad They don't be horny, they be sad.

Yeah.

Sometimes when I see people online, I'm awful horny.

I did.

I'm not gonna lie.

I do be horny, but I think it's because, like you can know, like you horner, you just want Yeah, but there's a difference between you don't get online and be talking about oh my god, I can't wait to go and kiss this nigga down.

Oh I would love to suck some dick right now.

Oh my pussy so wet right now.

I think a lot of times when people get on yeah they do that.

Yes, no fucking way.

I would pull up a tweet right now if somebody saying, my pussy so wet right now.

Oh, I'm so honey.

And Okay, when you see somebody who is constantly tweeting and they're trying to get like the male gaze going, you need some attention because something is empty in here.

I don't care when nobody says when you're being extremely horny online.

To me, this is just my opinion.

And you're always talking about how because like we have sex conversations on here, but we're doing it because we're having girl talk, like we're.

Talking with our homegirls.

But if you're online talking about how good jo koochie is, how wet it is, how deep your throat is.

Oh, I want to kiss somebody, slab somebody down right now.

It's something empty inside a little bit and it's something missing there because what are you doing.

Some deep.

This?

What's me saying?

It's things searching for it?

You might be right, Yeah, I'm playing though, because I do I agree with you.

I feel like something is wrong.

With people who say that, Like, if all you do is sit online all day and talk about sex.

Something is seriously wrong unless you're right, if you're not a sex worker.

And then most of the time, let me not say most of the time, I take that back.

Please erase that we've had two sex workers on the show.

We had Miss be Nasty and we had Denie on here, and they both told us how they started in the game, and it wasn't no happy, go lucky story, you know what I'm saying.

So it's kind of like if you are chronically online.

No, I'm not saying all women and men too, because it's men too that be doing it.

I'm not saying that you're that you don't enjoy what you do if you do sex work.

That's not what I'm saying.

And even people who don't do sex work, because honestly, it's worse if you don't do sex work, because while you're talking about sucking Dicky, you ain't.

Even I mean, I hear you.

I personally feel like everybody that do sex works don't enjoy it.

I don't really think everybody.

No, I don't think everybody enjoys it.

I think jobs are job, no matter what industry it is.

Like, sometimes you're doing what you gotta do, Like you got ends to me, you got kids to feed, You got to take care of responsibilities like the RESPONSI you gotta take care of responsibilities like.

Life is hard.

You gotta do what you gotta do.

I don't think everybody that does it enjoys enjoys it.

But at the end of the day, I do think that the sad girl spiral is the thing because I think girls go through breakups and they go through things with their men, and then they result to posting a lot of sexual things online because they think, Oh, it's going to garner the attention of other men, and then it's gonna make this person who hurt my feelings feel like, oh I missed out because she's getting attention from all of these other guys, even if it's the wrong attention.

I think sometimes people use sexual attention and sexual innuendos and all that stuff on the Internet in the wrong way.

Just because you're getting attention from people, it doesn't mean that you're getting the right attention.

Right.

But when you're going through sheet which is why I agree with the initial statement of like you not horny you just said sometimes when you going through sheit any attention make you feel good.

Yeah, yeah, it make you feel validated.

It make you feel like, okay, well, like if this person don't want me, if I'm going through a breakup and he broke my heart, he hurt my feelings, he played me to the left.

If I'm attention from all of these other ten fifteen twenty men online even women sometimes too, then I am desirable.

I am still wanted.

I am still validated.

You ain't horny, though, you just you just sad looking for validation.

And I think a lot of the time when people are over it really is some free codes I do.

It ain't nothing wrong with it, It ain't nothing wrong with being wrong with it.

I was a free code on my dad.

Hey, everybody get a little free human.

It's time to be.

It ain't nothing, including shade because it's looking like you know what was going on wrong.

Everybody get a little for human.

It's time to be.

But the point that I'm making is like, if that's what you feel like you have to result to all the time to get attention and to be validated, I don't really feel like that's what you want and that's really your persona or it's really something that is your identity.

You just trying or are you trying to find something that makes you feel better about yourself, because like I said, you got people that's really freaky, and that's what they like.

Yeah, they're not doing it for an identity reason.

Are you have people what they're into, That's what I'm saying.

And you have people who are just like they love their body, they're into it and that, and they're doing it for them.

These are not the people that we're talking about, you know what I'm saying.

So I agree with you.

It's like the hyper sexuality if it's just coming from like, can somebody respond to this tweet?

Like, can somebody like slide in my dms?

Can somebody if I post this story, is somebody gonna respond to it?

It's like, Hey, what's going on?

Yeah, what's going on?

But what do y'all feel about?

Like people like the healing era?

Right, So, like if you are gonna say that you're in your healing era, do y'all feel like you can still be having sex with other people or do you think that that's the time that you should be taking for yourself to be abstiny and still to be focusing on self.

Because some people will try to say, oh, I'm healing, I'm getting over this relationship, but they're still out here being hyper sexual.

I think it depends what you're trying to heal from too, because the healing for everybody looks different.

And I think that's the problem with everything nowadays.

Everybody wants to make things linear.

The way I heal is it the way you heal?

You know what I'm saying.

So sometimes a girl can go get her get her rocks off, and she can go back and be normal, and not some girls can't do that, or some men can't do that.

Some men get distracted by the pussy, and but some men can go get something they can still Hay, I gotta go to work, I gotta do this.

Healing isn't linear anything.

Life isn't linear.

So I think that it depends on the person.

You know what I'm saying.

I think it depends on the person.

Me personally, if I'm really healing, I'm really trying to I can't get no dickon hell dickon and healing and healing.

I don't want to see it.

That's what I was gonna say.

It don't work for me personally.

Yeah, I don't think that it makes sense, Like to say that you're trying to get over somebody else, but you in a bed with somebody else, that you don't really have any real emotion and feelings, or because you still have feelings for these other person that you're trying to detach yourself from.

It.

Just it's a recipe for a disaster in my opinion.

But I think it goes back to what we've talked about before, like not everybody is comfortable being alone or being by themselves.

So, like you said, they could be searching for that attention sexually from somebody else because they're used to.

Maybe they've been in a relationship for a long time and now they're just looking for some way to cope with it.

But I fully agree.

With everything like said, Like it depends on a person, and it depends on what they're healing from.

Because if I'm just talking to somebody and it wasn't really that deep, maybe.

He couldn't fuck good enough.

Maybe I do want to go outside and keep on something else, you know, now that I'm free from that.

But if I've been in a situation for so long and it's emotional and it's tiring whatever coming out of that, yeah.

I need some space for myself about now.

It's time to yat into.

The by a bow A.

Bow, bow, bow, bow, bow.

I don't even know why y'all playing with me right now?

Y'all know my bop of the week because I went on a little quick, little bay k real quick, you know, a little one two, and you know what I was listening to the whole time.

My man, my man, my man, my baby and my baby man.

They have it die.

I supposed to drive make crazy day and the girls are mad about the song, but I feel like it's a fun song.

Listen.

This is what you're supposed to do with it.

I have to give instructions because sometimes when you when you are a girl that's outside and then you got your man and you this is a song that you get drunk with your man with and you turn up with him, pop your pussy for your man.

I was literally in the hotel room twerking.

He was just in the bed like go ahead, girl and letting me dance, and I was popping that pussy for my man.

It's a fun song.

It's not supposed to be think pieces written about it.

You supposed to listen this to with your man in a car when you getting dressed.

He's supposed to come behind you, grab you.

You're supposed to twork on him a little bit and y'all supposed to go to dinner.

That's what lover Girl is.

And it's a it's a fun song.

And when I tell y'all, that's my.

Theme right now.

Okay, young you and your love a girl, your man A pop that pussy for your man, bitch, y'all, don't pop y'all pussy for y'all man.

That's why you said right now, I'm being hyper sexual online.

But go ahead.

Mh.

I feel like that was a good song.

I like Birthday Girl by Huncho.

Like all the girls, the Fall birthday girls.

They all been coming out posting their birthday pictures and they be putting the hunch Show Birthday Girls song on a pictures and I'm like, okay, I like this now I'm a little bit And I never said that my birthday is not when I got to wear a coat outside, but.

What because I'm not.

I love having a spring birthday like you laughing, because you know we've always said these imagine I have to wear a coat.

On your birthday.

They gonna eat us up again.

They eat us up every year.

It's okay, but at the end of the day, all the Fall birthday girls me eating it up.

I really do like this song.

And I'm like, damn my birthday way and aver for this song.

Gonna be oldbody, I know, and ever time too.

Every time is gonna be all by the time my birthday.

Yeah, but shout out to Huncho.

Shout out to hunch I don't give it.

I don't care what y'all have to say about Huncho.

I love me some o.

That's my dog.

Shout shout out to me.

Yeah, shout out to.

Me, my me and my me and my me, my baby and my baby dicking me down.

Okay, you can like this, man, go ahead, man, all right, listen to the post, your man, what was this?

Not mean?

You ain't horny?

You just.

This girls, I'm just following instructions, but.

All right, uh it's something getting to part your heart out.

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Okay.

Uh, Hey, lex Andrea can't express in words how much I love y'all.

And how much I'm proud of you guys and your growth.

I was wondering this, though, as you grow more successful, do you think that the negative things that come with the world of money and power are worth it?

Because from my observations, it seems like that world has a lot of soulless and empty people.

I think I remember hearing Drea say that to to reach a certain level of success, a person would have to bend some of their morals.

I'm curious to know what extent you think that goes for the majority.

Thank you.

I don't really be worried about that because I feel like if you really locked in and ruty with who you are as a person, then you don't really let.

This industry affects you like that.

I also have always been a person that I've said, and you can go back to old episodes like I personally feel like money just amplifies who you already are.

If you're a shitty.

Person and you not a good person, you don't have good character, you don't have morals, you don't stand for nothing, you don't know who you are, that's just gonna be amplified.

When you get money.

If you are a person who you are.

Steadfast, and you know your faith and your roots and your morals and your character, and you know that you're not gonna shift.

I know that you can't shake and being when it comes to certain stuff, you gonna still be that person.

You're gonna give more.

If you are already a given person, you gonna give more and more money that you have.

I just think it amplifies whoever you are at your core.

So me personally, I don't ever be worried about that because I can't be shaking, like I'm just so me and I don't really give a fuck about like outside noise, So I don't really ever.

Worry about that.

If anything, Sometimes I think that a lot of the people in this industry do be having to sell their soul to get to where they want to get to.

But I also think that it's ways to do things to where you don't have to You don't necessarily have to do that.

You just have to carve out your own lane, which that's what a lot of people don't want to do, because that's the more difficult role people like to a lot of people don't like to take the road let's trouble.

They want to do what's already been done me.

I'm cool with be in.

The first to do some sheep, even if it's harder to do it, because I don't have to compromise the things that I believe in to accomplish what I want to accomplish.

So no, and then I don't be in a mix like that.

I love staying grounded and rooted and hanging with my same people, friends, family, who I've been fucking with, who I've been cool with since before I started getting money, since before poor mind started blowing up.

I actually don't like being around people who are like industry people that I'm meeting as I'm getting more deeper in the space.

So it's not really something I worry about because I'm headstrong.

I know who I am.

Yeah, I agree with one thousand percent.

I feel like everything she said was spot on, you know what.

The thing that bothers me more like as we grow, it's not even about the people that are already there, it's about the people that support us, because I feel like those be the meaner people sometimes, like damn, It's like I feel like if I evolve or I changed my opinion, or if even if I stay who I am it's like it's it gets very judgy and oh wa le said this, or or you used to be like this are you?

So sometimes it's like I'm.

Not worried about where I'm going because this is in my past.

But sometimes it's like y'all gotta grow with me or y'all gotta undert y'all gotta understand me and I.

We are family.

The poor CREU is my family, Like we doing this together.

So sometimes it be more so like I'm not worried about them people because I got my circle.

I'm solid.

If y'all talking shit about me in the comments and y'all got a whole bunch of negative shit to say about who I am now versus who I am five years ago, we actually is not family and you can really go that way.

Yeah, Like that's just how I feel about people.

Like That's why it's not to say I don't care what people be saying in the comments, but I feel like the people who fuck with us is gonna naturally grow with us, and it's just gonna be there.

People who was saying negative she meets you don't really support me because.

You don't know me, and you not okay with who I'm becoming, And if you're not okay with who I'm becoming, you're not really a person who really supports the vision and supports me as a person, because you want me to stay in a box.

When people are ever evolving, you gotta be okay with understanding it.

Like nobody is the person that they was three years ago, five years ago, ten years ago.

That's what I love about getting older, And that's what I love about meeting people that are younger than me too, because meeting people who'll be like twenty one, twenty five, twenty seven, twenty eight, it reminds me of the versions of myself that I was at that age too, And it's just so beautiful, the weakness, because I know you not even done growing.

It's okay that like you might look at something this way, because when you get to thirty four, when you get to my age, you gonna look at that shit from a whole different perspective.

But people just be mean and weird, and I just be blocking people going by my bees.

I used to pour a lot of energy into this stuff, but not just black people, because how are you lane?

Period?

And she said what she said, All right, y'all this has been another episode.

But I said all this to say because they be piecing you off and need be piecing me.

Well, no, I think honestly, this week it was just a lot with that viral clip that went viral and I got a lot of just like really nasty, mean messages.

I was like, damn, bro, you know what I'm saying.

So you know it's just but I think people forget like I'm still a human.

Was it from the niggas that kim pucker car?

I mean that it was women.

It was a lot like a car.

My inbox was really crazy, Like my inbox, that's the what it be.

The it don't be much so like the comments cause I don't really read the comments no more.

But it's like you took your time to like message me this, Like that's crazy.

But like I said, I think sometimes we tend to forget like yeah, I signed up to do this, but at end day, like I'm still a human, Like let me enjoy my job, like I'm here to make people feel good and I'm still a fucking human.

You know what I'm saying.

So I don't be worried about the people up there.

And because like I got my circle like as long as I'm doing this with her, and you know, I got my my my core around me, my sister, my family, these people like we were good.

But it's like I just be worried about like the people.

It's like, damn like you you if you've been.

Watching us at the beginning, you.

Know I play a lot.

Why are you being so offended or acting like you don't know my personality?

But I'm starting to understand though truly, the people who understand me and the people who don't.

But you know, like I said, I'm still a human, but it is.

What it is.

So yes, y'all, y'all know this is a Tailor Port sponsored episode, so of course we have our bottled up sigment.

Go ahead, call up, play the voice.

The reason why AI is fucking up the environment is because we're not supposed to know everything we know.

We are thinking too much with credit, trust, bond finances, all that that's not natural.

We are animals.

We are animals, and they got us learning all this stuff.

And the reason why all these college students are learning or using AI is because there's too much pressure on them to remember and do all these tasking assignments.

Because this is not natural for the human brain, for the human body.

And then humans made AI so that we can make life easier.

And now we're making life easier because they made life hard.

But now it's not natural for the Earth, the most natural thing, and we're fucking up Earth because we want to do too much.

We're doing too much.

If we did a little bit less and maybe didn't expect everybody to know everything about everything and just all these weird, crazy concepts, then we will be able to save Earth because we wouldn't have to use AI because everything is stupid and dumb.

Oh hey, bears never had to pay rent.

You need to learn about stocks and bonds and finances.

Hey, I don't give a fuck them niggas.

Go go shit in the woods, go to the river and dig you up a fish and eat it raw.

Then, yeah, I got to.

Learn about them finances.

Brou lost meant she lost me very early too, because I'm just like girl.

What like, if anything, everybody loves AI because it's making our lives easier.

Like AI has actually been something that has added to the piet.

Like if I had AI when I was in college, you don't how many tests I wouldn't have healed, But I don't think it's making people a little stupider.

I do think that, however, though.

I just think the way that she was conceptualizing it, in the way she was talking about it, that just don't make.

Sense to me.

Like, no, Cees, you need to learn about a lot of the things that you were talking about, stocks and buns and finances.

We need to learn about our basic math.

We need to know these things.

You got to know.

Baby, This ain't this.

Ain't Dorothy and my motherfucking click your heels and you do whatever you're wanting.

No, we got to learn something.

That's our problem now.

Yeah, and uh now, I will say, like college getting through college, I don't want no doctor on me who got through with AI.

So I hope that the testing is still the same how we went through college.

It wasn't no AI, you had to know.

So I do agree with you on that point, but I think we are losing the plot.

Education is very important.

I understand what she's saying.

I don't think maybe she worded it correctly though, but everything does matter, and we actually need to educate ourselves more and know more.

So education is very important and it does matter, and we do need to know about finances.

We do need to know about stocks, we do need to know about bonds, because that's how a lot of these other races got ahead of us, because they were just hoping.

That we wouldn't find out about it.

So we're gonna continue to educate ourselves.

And that's on period.

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We have some floral boxes, some floral arrangements from Mumba Soul.

It's mmas l L and this it's my girl.

I met her.

She actually works at.

Well, I don't know if I should stay where she works actually, but I met her at one of the restaurants that I frequent out here in Atlanta all the time, and she was telling me how she has this business, that she's building, this floral business, and I'm like, oh yeah, girl, like I love floral arrangements, me and lick.

So she was like, I'm gonna give y'all some boxes.

And I thought they were super cute because I mean, you know, they come into a curly boxes.

It's something that different that's different.

I don't feel like everybody does these, so I sow her, I will shout her out.

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