Episode Transcript
Second date update to c K and Carmen.
It's be ninety five friends nos home for hip hop and hits.
I know you're excited.
You went on the first date.
You had a great time.
He hasn't hit you back yet.
I believe his name is Sam.
Tell us, what's up?
Speaker 2I met Sam on Tender and I mean he has the best lips ever.
He's finest.
Speaker 3Okay, okay, okay, girl, she and her feeling right now is.
Speaker 2No Carmen, He's like fine, We like hit it off.
It was like great conversation, like it was just dope and make So I took him back to my house.
We had coffee and you know, we did we did our thing and in the morning, I don't know, so I was trying to get him to leave, but then I just made him French toast and you.
Speaker 1Weren't trying to get him to leave, Caryl.
Okay, to get someone to leave if you make it in French toast, I.
Speaker 4Know, but I just couldn't.
I was trying, and I just was like, okay, I surrender, Lord, you surrendered girl.
It was that it huh yeah, so wait, but hold on, Carmen.
So like, so we just spend the rest of that next day together, I mean in French toast, and then we would just he glass the movie.
Then we wait, but wait, k we went back to my house after the movie again, and you know what happened?
Speaker 1Wait a minute, Okay, so it happened the night before and.
Speaker 2Then it did again.
Speaker 1After the movie.
Yes, okay.
Speaker 3So they were clearly y'all couldn't get enough of each other, right.
Speaker 4Exactly, But I mean that's what I saw cardon.
So I'm like, I'm all hype and like.
Speaker 3And so we were supposed to look up.
Speaker 2Again this weekend.
This time wee can y'all, and I can't find him.
And now I'm like, what the like?
Speaker 3What went wrong?
Speaker 2W T asked, like, what the fuck?
Speaker 4I know?
I know, I know?
Speaker 1So good Lord, all.
Speaker 2Right, oh good Joe.
Speaker 4So it was everything.
Speaker 1It sounds like it was everything.
It sounds like it was a fantastic run.
Speaker 3Y'all were vibing.
Speaker 1I mean, you would trying to do the right thing and get him ab out of there, but then you ended up making my dude French toast, which.
Speaker 3I don't know what you were thinking.
If you were trying to get him out of their girl was trying to leave a good impression on him.
Speaker 1You know what I'm saying, Well, she already left a good impression, so good that day, y'all.
Speaker 2I was like caught up in the moment because everything was just like it was like perfect charge.
So help, can you help me?
Because I don't know where if he went, and I'm really like, what you.
Speaker 1Know, here's what we're gonna do.
Here's what we're gonna do, Tapitha.
We're gonna go ahead and get Sam on the phone right now.
We're gonna get the bottom of it.
We're gonna see if we can make a second date happen.
We're gonna see where he disappeared to.
Speaker 2Okay, because I'm really stressed right now.
Please help me, y'all.
Speaker 1We're gonna help you.
What's Sam gonna say?
You're gonna find out next second date update?
Speaker 2C K and Karmen.
Speaker 1So in the middle of a second date update, Man, it's c K and Karmen.
It's B ninety five.
I think we got Sam on the phone right now.
Let's see what Sam has to saying why he ghosted.
You want to come on radio with.
Speaker 5Us, Yeah, happy to do it.
I'm I'm lets fantasy K carmens, you appreciate that man, unless fantasy K Carmen.
Speaker 3Appreciate that man.
Speaker 5Okay, wait a minute.
If you guys, auld call and I know probably why you're calling.
I listened a lot.
Uh it's about Tabitha.
Speaker 1It is about Tabitha already one step ahead of us.
Speaker 5Tabitha is this is amazing.
Okay, are you there?
Are you there?
Right now?
Speaker 4She's there, she is, Zoe.
Speaker 3We gotta ask before you all stop talking.
We want to know how your day experience was with her, Like, we want to know your side of the story.
Speaker 5Uh, I'll be scary with you, guys.
Speaker 2It was.
Speaker 5It was dope, It was awesome.
I had a really good time with tabith She makes a great breakfast, she's a great kiss.
We had a great chat the whole way through the date.
It kind of puts something in perspective for me to be quite honest.
Speaker 2And uh, then why did you disappear?
Speaker 4Uh?
Speaker 5Well that part.
I hope she doesn't hang up on everybody here.
But I had not really a date, more of a meeting with an ex girlfriend.
And during that time I said it straight that I'm seeing somebody else.
And her name is Tabitha, and that was kind of a breaking point where I had to communicate what was going on.
Speaker 1So wait, this weekend was all about you seeing the eggs.
There's been in time with the eggs, and that's why you disappeared on Tabitha.
Speaker 5I mean yeah, but you know, like I already feel nervous and say spending time, Like spending time was kind of setting things straight and making it and making a clean break to be sure.
Speaker 3Oh, I see, so you kind of wanted to end things with this person, and you wanted to do it the right way, letting her know the truth.
Hey, you moved on, you found someone that you met, yes, Carmeny, Yeah, I.
Speaker 5Let her know what was going on.
It wasn't ething crazy, wasn't romantic, was anything where that's that's I would say, uh like queen break.
Speaker 3Yeah, okay, so you wanted said the right straight up.
But why can't you tell your girl that?
Why couldn't you just be like tab I be honest with you.
I got to go back to my ex and tell her this is not I don't know.
Speaker 5I guess I'm sat stuff.
I thought, you know, like things are still kind of fresh, So I didn't know that I left her hanging as much as maybe she's she felt, which is probably why she had you guys call me.
So I just kind of dropped the ball and that I probably could have been a little clear with her.
Speaker 1I guess all right, so, Tab, But then now that you hear your thoughts.
Speaker 2Okay, am I crazy?
C K Cornor and like he was on the app pretending like he was single, like and then we hook it up, and then he goes back, goes back to his girl and tell her, oh, I got somebody like you were almost like one in one foot out.
Speaker 5Yeah, I guess that's true.
I was kind of on it out, but if you check where I'm at now, it's my half, it's different.
I'm sorry.
Speaker 3So, so were you together with that girl or were you with your ex?
Or were you guys already like broken up and trying to, you know, explore but still working on each other.
Speaker 4Yeah.
Speaker 5See, it's kind of a soft breakup, like we were kind of like kind of like done, kind of has a space.
It wasn't Yeah, it wasn't easy for anybody here.
Speaker 3Well, he's being honest with you, Tab, I'm.
Speaker 2Okay, Carmen, but he just called it quote a soft breakup.
You know what I mean?
You guys, you don't go on and have to say you single when you not.
Like that's not cool, man, Like I really liked you, and it's like I get all that stuff with you under false pretenses.
You're not you weren't single, Okay.
Speaker 1So here's what we got right now, though, here's what we have right now.
He says he's available, he says he's single, he's really into you.
Yes, he admitted that he lied, he lied about being one foot in, one foot out, but right he's now focused on.
Speaker 3You, officially single single.
Speaker 5You can check the app right now.
I'm not even on that thing, okay.
Speaker 3So I mean, do you want to, you know, give it a chance at least.
I mean, you were on here calling us because you were really into him.
Girl, did this really completely you know, become a deal breaker?
Speaker 5I mean.
Speaker 2I really like Sam, y'all, like for real, for real?
Speaker 4Oh?
Speaker 2I know you do.
Speaker 1Okay, I'm just saying like, I mean, you know, like one day too.
Come on now, yeah, she's.
Speaker 5She was really.
Speaker 2No, You're right, you can't.
I do really like him, but I need I'll give it another.
Speaker 1Chance, all right?
Speaker 2All right?
Speaker 1I know it's kind of shocking because you're like, I thought he was fully single.
Then I realized he's one foot in, one foot out.
But you know what, here's the one thing I did here.
He's really into you, You're really into him.
He wants to go on another day with you.
You kind of like shocked by this whole thing, but I think you're ready to go on another day with him too.
Speaker 2Yeah, you're right, y'all.
All right, I do, And.
Speaker 3Tavithan, now you can have this conversation with him and say what you want in your in your you know, future relationships.
That way, he knows what he can and cannot do with his boundaries are.
Speaker 1One in, one foot out right.
Speaker 5I want to pray about that too.
Speaker 2Yeah that makes sense because it would be a waste.
But I'm taking it glow and yeah, yeah, I'm taking it slow though I don't trust you.
Speaker 3Oh, there you go where you guys can have this conversation off the radio.
Speaker 1Okay, okay, cool, I'm happy we made a second date.
Speaker 2Happen
