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Hello, Hello, Hello, beautiful wonderful mixologist.

It's your girl Moni again.

Y'all, I'm back again, and it is You're in the mix with Amani and the set of Brooks is here from who asked me, I am so happy to be in the mix with you.

Thank you for coming back.

How are you doing?

Of course?

Of course I'm great.

How are you?

I'm good?

I mean are We're like living in the overflow right now.

I know people like us who are into the reality TV, the pop culture and being like I love being in the in the mix, like so like on the bandwagon.

I don't like to miss a miss a movement.

This week today, even from where we're recording is has been like bananas, are you gagging right now?

Look, I'm literal, we have O truly, god on.

I don't even know what it was, but no, it was in one of my group chats.

I opened one of my group chats and all I saw before I even opened the link it said Mia Thornton arrested.

I said, I texted everybody.

I texted Raven, I texted Kendrick, I texted ter Riha.

I literally like the British are coming the British are coming MEO was arrested.

I didn't know.

I was literally one.

I had a love don't you like?

Love it though?

That people not to send it to you that yeah, it really made my day.

And I've trained every one in my life so well.

The people that I don't even who were like got it from like real news sources.

They were like, hey, and it's one of your housewives.

She did a thing.

She's arrested.

You should know this.

It's like, oh my god, this is such a big deal.

Let me tell you.

But while I tell you, I'm gonna post about this.

I too was like I gotta tell you and you and this person I was between, like is no one gonna care because it's like Mia from Potomac?

Or is everyone gonna care because it's me and for a potomac but like on steroids on brain literally and we like, unfortunately this is doing nothing for the people who say real Housewives of Potomac should be called real housewives of prison.

Okay, I mean, and you know that was one of my questions.

It's like, did she with me?

I don't know.

Did she do it because she needed the stuff and the money, or does she do it allegedly because she wanted to be back with the crew and that's.

A good crew.

That's how you fit in over there.

It's so bizarre because like this is all crimes are avoidable, just to be clear, right, nobody needed to do any of the crimes, but this one is just so like girl what so they were she was renting an apartment, a furnished apartment from someone who apparently lived in China.

She was living with somebody named Jared.

Who is Jared?

I don't know?

And they moved.

Out in the middle of the night last month in October and took the lady's furniture and her six hundred and fifty dollars TV with them.

Where is the stuff?

Mia?

If you rented a furnite apartment, why did you take furniture with you?

And she's like in the airport, She's like, I need to get in touch with my roommate.

Roommate, roommate, your mother of three.

I don't understand roommates, and why and who is this person around your kids?

And why are you Jared?

Why did you do this?

I mean, this is why if you and I thank you for appreciating the rhetoric and the tone of my caption of my post when I posted about this, because like she, I was confused for what she moved to Atlanta four.

She moved to Atlanta four something I don't know who scamming because she just had to move to the scam capital.

One must believe you are just choosing to live a different life and Atlanta is the best place to do it, that that's where your contacts or whatever are.

But I don't understand what you needed to leave the DNV so badly, so quickly for for Atlanta.

Nothing good comes from people I know who moved from the DV to Atlanta, at least just that pipeline.

Yeah, I'm always like they're like, Okay, I want a fresh start.

And they said, Lena, and to tall you something I wasn't intern I was going to be a lawyer at some point.

That was a lifetime ago now, it seems.

And I did a criminal law internship for a summer while me and my wife were dating in Georgia where she was in school, and I.

Flew down there moved in there for her a bit.

The Fulton County Jail and the Fulton County Police Department in general stress the whole thing.

I know that's not a county.

George's not place I play.

And now the major reason why for me, how so many people like to get the the scam cabin.

I don't know how y'all risk it.

I guess I'm just risk averse, like through the fullest, like I'm not.

I don't even know if I'm scam averse.

I think I'm just risk averse of scamming in Atlanta.

That don't seem like a good idea.

I don't know one thing about me.

I am gonna follow the rules.

I am a rule follower, Like I.

Don't know if people are like I'm shocked by that, but I am like, I'm like, no, let's not go over there.

Just don't intro people think.

I get that exact same I get that exact same reaction and response because I seem like i'd be risk averse sometimes to people, even though one, I'm an elementary school teacher that should tell you everything you need to to women in America, So I'm trying to Yeah, I.

Just want to live boo, I just want to Okay.

Like three, I like, yeah, I always talk about you know I'm smoking, but maybe girl, it's legal in all three places that I live.

Yeah, I didn't even drew.

Okay.

The most illegal thing I have done to record is I started drinking six months prior to my twenty first birthday because I didn't want to embarrass myself on my twenty first birthday in front of people who were much more risk friendly than I was and already were drinking.

But a bitch waited till she was twenty one, Okay.

I was just be fair drinking like oh little SIPs.

I had my first sip of alcoholic twelve, Okay.

Then I did drink in high school.

I drank all through at high school.

I think I started drinking at like sixteen, maybe like yeah, like really like.

Yeah, six seventeen June type of thing.

Or did you just like it at that point and you were like I liked it.

I always when I say okay, I should fix this, because when I say risk averse like I did, I started like smoking weed.

I smoked weed for the first time at fifteen.

Still haven't really cut that one out.

What we do is teens and youths is very different than like risk averse adults because me again, you do have three children, you are literally older than me.

You're older than most.

Okay, you're.

Well, and Okay, I have to point this out about me.

A two.

Not only did she get arrested in the airport, I don't know, because again I've never been arrested.

I've never been arrested because, make no mistake, while I drank as a teen, and I did go to house parties, I was a runner.

Okay, if the came, my mom could not My mom could not be called by the Ol'fallen police department.

I could not be in the custody of anybody else except for where I said I was, so I ran right.

Yeah, I've never been arrested.

I don't know.

I just assumed that when you got arrested in the airport, they took you around some backway or something.

They were walking her in front of what the in front of the Starbucks, in front of the Hudson news stand, in front of handcuffs, if in fact to the point where like I was watching the footage like and the and looking at the photos.

Because again, my wife having gone to school down there while she was getting her doctorate, she was there for so long.

I have been going in and out of Hartsville Jackson Airport so many times, not to mention is it the busiest airport like ever?

Yeah?

I hate I hate it.

I hate it, and I know.

It's not even no shade to Atlanta because y'all hate it too.

I've heard it.

Yeah, I myself have been approached by many a scammer at the Hartsville Jackson Airport many times.

I hate it, and honestly, it's because it greaves my spirit.

I low key want to give in because I understand the hustle.

But then I'm like, no, you can't scan me.

I am hustleless.

Look I need the ashle too.

I just can't do what you do because I'm scared, Okay, but I respect it.

I'm just scared.

Please don't hurt me.

Like so, I don't understand, but I knew the route that she was taking.

I was like, oh, no, they're gonna take her all the way?

Oh she up there?

She upstairs?

So she about a Calie Cosmetics machine down the escalator.

Are they gonna take her on the plane train?

That was my question.

Because there's no way.

Out, my yay, there's no way.

Everybody else is known who has been to Hartsville knows we either have to walk the twenty minutes, but everybody gets on the plane train that is crowded as hell.

Is she allowed to hold onto the rails if she's in handcuffs?

What do we say?

I don't even know if I would prefer to be walked through the whole airport at the twenty minute walk in handcuffs or get on that plane train in handcuff.

I don't even know, because like it's one thing.

I'll walk through the airport when you're like passing people and people may not be paying attention to you.

You get on that plane train and people are gonna notice when the cops are on there in close quarters with somebody in cusso.

Yeah, because the bish on a loudspeaker, don't stop talking.

She no, you you got three gates to go before you even can get the ground transportation.

And oh my god, she's getting off of a plane.

She had to be at a gate.

And again at Hartsfield, you have to go three gates before you can even get unless you are on date A.

You have to be.

You have to stay on that plane drain until my ground transportation, which is after tea and baggage play.

That's four stops in handle.

Oh my god, I'm sorry, I'm not I just don't get it.

And why do you need to call your roommate and not a lawyer?

No?

No, okay, So I did notice in there because you know, I'm gonna turn the volume up, and really like I almost took notes.

I noticed that she said in there.

She was like, can we call him?

And she's like to get to the storage unit because this is just enough.

They've been eating, she says something like they've been emailing me.

She's said something about a storage unit, and she's like, it's just enough.

It's just this is enough.

What's enough?

What?

What storage?

Why is the stuff in the storage unit?

When you rented a furnished apartment, the whole point.

Of it being furnished is that the furniture is already there, so it gets supposed to stay stay there.

You can come and go.

The armchair and the like the armoire and the TV day.

And like here's the thing.

TV day.

The TV was six hundred and fifty dollars, So that's a pretty big TV because you can get a nice sized TV for like three hundred dollars nowadays it's for real Walmart.

I saw fifty five in the corner.

Yeah, I saw at five in and wal Mart for like three two fifty two seventy five exactly.

So we're talking of nice TV huge.

Yeah, And I just want to say there are there are so many ways to get furniture nowadays.

You can use after pay on Wayfair and Ashley Furniture has no interest for twenty months, twenty two months they have a Black Friday sale.

I did see the billboard the other day.

There's options.

Wait, so this inner program, I'm applying.

They asking you to apply to me if they will ask me to be on their creative program.

Yeah, I'm sure they'll ask you, Girling.

Yeah, yeah, you you've been on TV.

I'm just saying there are options.

You know, start a podcast, do anything else other than literally anything else other than go to jail.

Britt started a podcast.

I just need you to do something else.

Britt who Eatie No.

From New York.

I mean she grants it.

She hasn't done.

Brint from New York, Jenny when when.

That's it's like out of sight, out of mind.

But because she don't even have no episodes, but she did she tried to do something.

But you're not your attention in a different way other than read it through the airport because also Atlanta cops don't give a fuck if they have that.

Also, any word on what airlines she flew, that's what I know.

It has to be Delta.

Oh it has to be.

But if she's still in TVs, it might not be.

Delta is expensive to people who.

Scam, it is Delta is yeah, Okay, I do like the Delta seats though, I do.

I mean yeah, and it's a Delta airport, so like it makes sense.

When you don't like Delta out of Atlanta, you don't.

Have a nice time because no, literally, last time, last time I flew into Atlanta was Delta, and I literally I probably get And it's funny because I only flew Delta because my mom was paying for that flight because I was meeting her down there.

I only fly Delta when my mom pays for it.

And I got on that plane, I was like, this is not for real.

It's like, okay, I was somebody's buddy.

People want a flight that their mom or whatever got free free flights, and you get the flowers.

Friend, I was friend, and I said, exactly, we about to be friends forever.

B ff, I like this.

I felt like fresh princes are different, you know, sipping orange juice out of a champagne glass.

Yeah, listen, it's giving fraudulent.

I just felt like, you know, I think it's just interesting because the criminals were at Bravo kan in one way or another alleged and otherwise a legend convicted, and it's just like the very next couple of days, that's so crazy to me, Like it's just so I just I'm like, Nia, damn, you.

Are thirsty even when you aren't trying.

But she was laughing at Wendy for being arrested and was like, oh, not the professor, not the professor, And I'm.

Like, mom, But then I also I bats owner.

Look at the scene.

Look at the scene.

That's all I could think of, Girl, they got you in cuffs.

Crazy.

I posted the pictures to my stories.

I might even make a highlight because the woes and flood and lows of Mia Thornton is like abundant insane.

You had me when she was dating Bobby Valentino.

Because I don't because where is Bobby Valentino in Atlanta?

Okay?

Can I think I've shared this on my show before, But one of my best friends.

Her trainer was dating Bobby Valentino until unexpected, like very casually having fun, hanging out, sleeping with literally up until he met Mia.

He broke it off with her, like they stopped seeing each other randomly.

Swear to god, it was on the shade room.

Two days later they were on jess Ki's because she was like, yeah, so because she was like, my friend was being like late ghosted, low key like to her training sessions, because the trader was like, I'm runna late stirt those warm.

Ups, Oh my god, oh my god.

So for but when that was your clout relationship, that told me everything I needed to know.

We're in trouble.

Insane, like not only is Bobby out of money?

Like not only is me a out of money, Bobby must have also been out of money because why did you do this?

I don't understand it at at all, Like this is maybe it's the non criminal in us, it's the risk of verse, like I don't even know if it' said on risk a verse.

I might take the risk, but I'm so afraid of getting caught because I cannot do time.

I'll tell you when I tell you.

I watched the Oranges the New Black, and it was not.

It didn't seem fun to me.

I didn't know people like my pap was like Camp prison, like we're Teresa one.

That didn't seem fun.

Whatever No did for nine ten months at camp, I didn't say I.

Need to leave, I need my free will.

Girl.

I'm not No, I'm not I like that weird schedule.

One of my biggest fears is being wrongfully blamed for a crime, in not being able to prove my innocence and going to jail, no sail.

Look, are we the same person?

Have we just spent forty minutes literally just being like, no, same, Like y'all are not unless you're watching the visuals on Patreon like we're nodding ferociously like yes, saying go to jail.

Listen.

Okay.

So it's one of the reasons why.

And this is no shade to twins out there who are identical, but I've always believed that identical twins are like evil by trade, because they have the potential to be evil individually.

And that's not fair, right because DNA is nine point nine percent when they test it, And.

What if I'm risk averse and you're a murderer.

Okay, and they find our DNA we're identical, and it says nine to nine point nine percent.

The change the the point that it's you.

And you want to know what's crazy.

I literally watched an episode of a show last night that gave me that entire thing.

Literally, the twin was mad at him, wanted revenge for a long time ago, identical, It looked identical, and they got twin actors.

It was crazy.

I was like, oh my god, proven my point and he wanted to get back in them, so he stole somebody's.

Bracelet to send his brother to jail until let's brother apologize.

I said, oh no, no, I can't do it.

I can't do time.

I watched sixty sixty Days In while I smoke a happyetti, and then I get sad for both of them, which is why I put down the happy EDTI.

But I keep watching sixty days In to remind me to make sure I follow up after I send in the turbotext.

Because you're not sending me to jail.

I know you're not.

I would like my IRS receipt that you got it, because I'm not going.

I don't even understand how Teresa has been able to avoid the jail again because like, what's going on Bravo?

KHNS really was this weekend?

It was a cons conference.

Like I don't know how she did it.

I don't know.

I couldn't do it.

I just know that, Like literally I watched sixty Days in and one of the many of the seasons are in Fulton County, which is how I know.

I couldn't be.

I couldn't be me, baby, No, no, y'all.

Though we are here to talk about selling Sunset, it's a broad we're brought hello.

First of all, all roads lead to Bravo.

We can have that discussion all the time.

And too, that was the biggest news.

To happen to me.

And it happened like an hour and a half before I was supposed to talk, So it was like, girl, would you say this.

I'm okay, I'm gonna talk to you in a minute.

But wow, Leah, yeah, damn, we're gonna get custody, Like what's happening?

I don't know?

It was a custody.

Last Bravo thing?

Did you see that?

Meghan King Edmunds just lost custody the Jim Edmunds.

I'm sorry, what.

Today just now a couple an hour ago, same time, it's too much.

How did he's temporarily lost physical custody fully of all children?

To Jim, Oh, something must be wrong.

What's going on?

Something?

Okay, because they're here in Saint Louis.

I'm pretty sure.

I think so cold maybe I've seen I've seen both of them before.

She was really nice.

He was not.

He was actually, ironically really really mean to my now ex husband.

He was like, my my ex husband was a manager at like a social bar and that's like really popular out in the county, kind of near where like Jim and them hang out.

And he was like drunk and just belligerent as we know to be.

And my ex husband was a new manager at the time, and he didn't recognize him.

So he was like, who the fuck is that?

Why is he looking at me?

Bull?

But I'm like, I don't know, because you're fucking Jim Edmonds in Saint Louis.

What And he's like, when did he get hired?

And it's like, dude, she'll talk up.

Oh my god, what Yeah.

First of all, I've never seen it for Jim, so that really just makes me.

I don't it's this certain people, and I have I have one of those kind of minutes.

Brian McKnight.

Unfortunately, oh my god, knew that before.

He hated on his own kids.

But he was an asshole to my dad, and my dad is complicated, but he was all told to him once upon yesteryear in a very similar fashion.

When first of all, sir, you're only acting like this because you know people recognize.

You, right right.

Why are you asking why people are looking at you when you know you're acting like this because you get looked at.

I don't understand your confusion.

Mm hmm.

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I brought you here today, Sail, because your things on the threads could not.

I okay, I love Selling Sunset.

I've loved it since the first season.

This season, naturally, it was hard for a lot of people to watch, whether you are a person of.

Color or not.

A lot of people are just like ill Illeah.

A lot of fringe not.

As fun for a lot of reasons, many of them being bigotry, many of them being caused by some of the people that you just really just felt like we took a one eighty and a left turn when was coming and as we were watching through this season, you were you know, really illustrating the processing that was happening for a lot of people, of at least me myself, of like why what are we watching?

Happened between friends right and coal workers too at the same time, which really is like it was almost like we all chose to double down right now, And I think that was like a really heavy thing to witness.

Yeah, or in real time?

What was it?

Like, what's your relationship with selling sun Set at least this you know, the main franchise, and how is this season for you?

So I last season, I was when Mary started acting up last season with Chelsea.

I remember.

I will never forget that scene.

It was like one of the first episodes in last season when they were like the beef really started and Mary started talking about Chelsea, and I literally said, oh oh, I literally remember because I didn't like Mary ever.

I really have a hard time with people who like are like, uh, well, yeah, like you can't you can't stand up for shit, and you can't like make a definitive answer on anything.

And you're supposed to be the boss, you're supposed to be the manager, Please get the fuck out of here.

But when she started talking about Chelsea, I said, oh, oh oh oh.

Oh, we are wow wow, And so I immediately was like, Okay, I am very sensitive to white women and how they like speak on black women and how they have conflict with black women because it can go really left really quickly.

Yes, right, yes, and I feel I'm sorry, go ahead.

A lot of people are like, oh, what black women and white women can't beef.

That's not what I said.

And as I always say, it's you're not racist because you have conflict with a black woman.

But how you act when you have conflict with a black woman is what shows your true colors.

Yeah, and how Mary.

Acted within her conflict with Chelsea is what showed her true colors.

So by the time we got to this season, you could not pay me to give a fuck that that house was broken into.

You could not pay me to give.

A fuck about a goddamn thing that has to do with miss Mary mac Okay, I don't give fuck.

You also couldn't pay me to really give a fuck about Breathe from Day Die, because I don't like when people.

Like act like the obvious is shocking.

Do I think that Chelsea, I do think that.

The only thing I will say is Chelsea did say what we were all thinking about.

Nick Cannon.

Right, I'm very annoyed by breathing Nick Cannon, because like, stop trying to make us think that y'all are in this unconventional, ethical, non monogamous relationship when you are not.

You're not to tell me you've been locked in for ten years.

You sound sly you do you were married to Johnny Manziel.

That's untrue, that's yeah, And if that were true, it may be even more ridiculous because your son is like two, yeah, and he had a dozen kids on you boo, that's not a flex Like he was still married to Maria Carrey ten years ago, thank you?

Okay, so like his kids aren't even ten.

Sitting there saying I don't speak on Mariah.

No, you don't speak on Mariah because she don't know you.

What is there to speak on?

What is there to speak on?

Like Nick said, okay, well no, because she really is trying to be like, I'm like, we where you know, I let him do this?

What are you talking about?

Monroe Lydgal release got on Instagram and said, I have one brother.

My dad has other siblings and I have half siblings.

I have one brother.

Yeah, that's about it, and that is her mother's child.

She said, she don't know them, she's a twin.

She's like, literally, if anybody knows the difference between my father's other children and the brother that I have, like my actual brother, that's different.

Like yeah, what that lady is so crazy?

And she hated Chelsea.

She's insane out on it in a non mean way.

I mean, they just hate it.

That beautiful doing it and has an accent, and so it's really hard to hate on her.

I will say, and the like.

There was a couple times when Chelsea kept going, I was like, Chelsea, girl, drop it, like you you your point is made, Like your point is valid as fuck, right, but just drop it because this is her business and she sounds stupid.

That's my thing when people like if I'm trying to get a point across, for sure, but once you start.

Sounding stupid, I'm like, oh, never mindlo, you got it because you sound dumb.

Right.

But after that, Chelsea said, Okay, Brie, I'm sorry.

Brie has a right to be like I'm never gonna fuck with Chelsea like that.

Okay, cool, But I personally feel like it really was.

I do personally feel like Brie came in with an attitude with Chelsea because I remember I had made a video back then when Chelsea they were all sitting around in the office and they were just talking real estate, right and Chelsea was like, Oh, what was your or how much did you bring in last year?

And they were having that conversation, and Chelsea was like, just don't get discouraged, you know, because it can be your first couple of years, can be x y Z.

Really just like having camaraderie being a coworker.

And Brie got really like, Oh, I'm not going to be I brought in this much.

I mind you.

I don't think I've seen brisell one house since she came.

On to Nick's giving her all these clients, these famous people who will do him the favor via text to show up on your show apparently and mic up and never buy a house from you because zero we're still looking at zero.

I see you throw a fit, in a very unprofessional fit, and threatened to leave the agency.

If Jason doesn't give you a bigger cut.

Mind you, you have not.

Actually I think she has sold one.

I think she has sold one.

Okay, I think I think for arguments sake, imna say she's in Like, yeah, I'm gonna give her one.

I'm gonna give her one.

Give her one, but it's not enough for you to be shaken up.

Ball headed twins down.

But I'm still looking at these ball headed twins sideways because aside.

From Bree, you know, wanting buying her entire look.

And then criticizing other people, Chelsea because of her doing you know whatever tweets and things to her body as well.

It's kind of interesting.

She acts like she is Nick Cannon's partner, like life partner, carry like she just is his new woman.

When and and got people thinking that, like people really do think that.

I've seen even like when the Shade Room and neighborhood talk, when some of them will report on her, they're just going based on what they see, and they'll be like, you know, Nick Cannon the girlfriend, long time girlfriend of Nick Cannon.

I'm like, so one of six, do you know?

Okay, I'm a little bit girlfriends more than I believe.

No, literally, just so tad off, I was watching, I went back and I was bored.

I needed some background noise, so I started watching Love and Hip Hop Atlanta.

Okay, and Jessica what's her face was?

Now?

Is her name?

Jessica?

She was actually Nick Cannon's longtime girlfriend before he started having.

Who what's her name Jessica dime?

Maybe fit model, model, very skinny.

Oh okay, keep talking, I'm gonna figure it out.

Yeah.

She and I was like, oh my god, I forgot that they did date for the longest because he did he turned out having started having all these motherfucking kids.

It was his girlfriend, the one that we knew to be his girlfriend after Mariah.

Yes, yes, that was the one we knew to.

Be his girlfriend after Mariah, right, and we and I was like this poor girl because she was complaining about him.

She was like, I'm so hurt he embarrassed me, blah blah blah.

I was like, this poor girl because now we don't associate and actually it's not even boor he did you a favor.

We don't associate her with him anymore.

And that's my other thing.

It's not like Bree got with a I'm trying to think of.

Like an esteemed like person in the black community who who still sucks, but is like they're pulling rank who who like because it's not Nick, You're correct, it's not whyans would think so, I don't even think they would.

You're right, because he's old to them too.

Yeah, they do find him corny.

I don't even know, Like I'm trying to think of like a OG two thousands hip hop person that maybe.

It's like you're that's still very active.

In the like industry.

It's not like b pulled somebody like that.

Like girl, it's fucking nick in it.

Yeah, that's good.

That's a good one.

Yeah, I'm sure one of the hip love and hip hop girls on one of the shows is the act of fifty cent and now, yeah, I'm like reacts like she has this like street credit or this credit in the black community because she has been with Nick Cannon.

We think Nick Cannon is fucking corny girl who.

I love, don't cost the thing corny, Like that's the last No, Like he was too nerdy for Christina Milian and that really in two thousand and whatever, And so it's not the flex.

You think it is.

But she really does act like she does into blackness is hinged upon the fact that she's with Nick.

Okay, and what I really want to say is like you and her sand breathe when Mariah Carrie got with Nick Cannon, we were like, Mariah, what are you doing?

And that's why he literally got her name tattooed on his back shoulder blame.

We were like Mariah and as an Arias just like Mariah who when I begin with people, sometimes people will be like, It's like they can really y'all can really be lover lovers and clocking when you're like when your.

Lights turn on, baby, huh, you're.

Just right, And it's kind of petty and a little funny, but like, yeah, so why did she sue a man?

She could get a Nick Cannon, But then she also sue a man from wasting her time, which literally works off the engagement.

She said, not only am I leaving you, I'm going to sue you because yeah, did you waste my emotional time?

Are we are so funny because yeah, when our lights turn on, it's bright and we are lover girls and we are like, oh my god, I'm.

Obsessed with you.

But when we were fed up and they turn off, we're like, oh.

You discussed me.

I feel liked ever give need a shame with the shade.

One of my best friends in Bridesmaids is An aries, and when she's and she's also a lesbian, God bless her.

So when she's in love, wow, all the romance, you gotta stop her from putting all the bathroom body works things in a basket and taking the viewer right.

But when she gets it, she's like, I will never be in that place again.

You understand, Yeah, you will now that again.

I don't even know who's that.

Yeah, I've heard of her.

I'm like my friends always joke because like, again, technically I'm bisexual, but they're like, you, you hauled every relationship you were ever.

She's with the men or women, a relationship with my other bridesmaid right now.

But me, I mean me and Meghan, probably you hauled the quickest.

But you know whatever.

I was laughing because there was some TikTok and it.

Was like lesbians and it was like my flex is she told me she loved me before we were even dating, and.

I sent it to Meccan because I was like you.

And and that's why you hear now.

Yep, I was like, and I was like, that is also my biggest flex.

Oh that's amazing.

I love that.

That's also, unfortunately one of the reasons why we're seeing so much bigotry and weirdness on the show is because of the open and very like just fine, beautiful sexuality and real relationship shipness of someone like Chraschelle part of me.

And this is gonna be like y'all are gonna be like no, and maybe y'll say it.

I don't know, but I.

Emma the dynamic of Emma and Prachelle and Chelsea, but Emma and Prschelle specifically where and now that we know what we know, Chelsea even being gracious with this man is to me because she was gracious with the soul hobbit of a man that is younger than me, like by a lot.

He's young and stupid and entitled and wealthy.

And mean, am I?

How desperate are you?

How desperate are you?

She's like, I have my own receipts.

What of Krashelle calling him a fucking maga weirdo?

Like what?

What?

What?

Shut the fuck up?

Would it be a significant It's just like we are met with this man.

I didn't even we were introduced that he was an ex, so I was really confused to why all of this was even happening in a real time.

You're saying he's an ex, So that means you know, also that one of your best friends really hates this man for reasons like being transphobic, you know, being homophobic.

Referring to Chrishelle's partner who uses they them pronouns in some way that is disrespectful, proves you're not even trying.

You don't give a fuck about anybody else's feelings.

But your own unbiacts to care blah blah blah, because you're a rich, white young Georgia boy with no manners and a lot of entitlement and private jets and real estate air or whatever, whatever the hell that means.

And Emma, who we've been.

Led to believe for years is like Hella wealthy on jets and banadas, all the things, and.

I believe that is all true.

So then why are we sitting here with this young man who won didn't pay and she's said I don't need.

A man to pay, not the So then what is he bringing to the table.

That's my question, because it's like, it's not like we're with Christine Quinn, who I at least put respect at the time, right being like, I don't care if he's a good man or not, but he brings more money to the table than I do, and that means something to me.

And I'm like, Okay, I can get behind that, but what does this man bring to the table.

Because you don't need this money?

You say you just like him.

You won't even say I love you bad, you don't feel comfortable being with him.

And people are saying the light is gone out of those eyes, honey, yeah on the internet.

So like, what is it then that he brings to the table Because it's not looks and it's not the money, So what is it?

And growing your friendships over literally And I am genuinely confused, not really, but I'm saying that for to be gracious by the women that are like Chrishelle should just be quiet and sit there and not judge her best friend.

But support her.

Hey hey, hey, hey hey.

Supporting somebody is also telling them when they are in a situation that is potentially dangerous.

Why should she not?

And and and I'm not gonna support you in something that is harmful to me, dumb ass?

Yeah, why should I support that?

Like?

Why should I support that?

Guy?

I said?

My partner?

I can now now I can't even I could never double date with.

My best friend and my prior because you want to bring some bigoted and now we know racist, yeah, talking about using the inn words and words.

It's really a lock, Emma, because I'm kind of trying to understand how you could even defend that.

Well they were seeing when I well, I'm it's just me.

Then maybe because I'm a they were saying it in a song.

Thing is not an excuse to me.

No, no, it's not excuse.

It was an excuse for my girl.

Hannah Brown, not the no famous TikTok comedian, but Hannah Brown.

The Bachelorette, And I watched him, loved her season.

Thought it was fun.

Oh, I could not stand her.

Oh, I thought the season was great because I knew from day one she wasn't there for a husband.

She wanted to make out on tables and I said no and kiss some lips and okay and okay, and I think you're behind that.

But I had a fun time watching.

But again, I watched most of these shows anthropologically.

I watched a bachelor, you know, for all the skepticism and the funkiness of it all, and that was a campy ass season.

But then when she did her big one, and we couldn't get through a de baby TikTok on a boat without saying the N work rap.

I've blocked friends from on Snapchat because they were rapping us song.

Oh yeah, they go to UK and around a bunch of white women or woman girl in the car.

Now, all of a.

Sudden, I'm scared for her, exactly.

I listened to enough true crime.

Okay rr p, Tamala.

We will find out what happened to you, siss, but like I don't the dog whistles is crazy, but we're talking about blatant racism.

There is no excuse.

But I'm hearing there wasn't a good one.

Yeah, even know, like even so it wasn't even like yo, he was singing it in a song.

You flat out find a way to excuse it.

So what is it about this man that you're going to excuse all his bad behavior that you have welcomed also back into your life.

Because again, we were introduced to him as an ex, so you started dating him a little bit, and now we're fast forward.

We're getting deeper and deeper and deeper.

Into it every single episode.

Now we're having drinks with this man and we're making our friends sit down.

Nothing genuinely uncomfortable for Christianity.

We're not asking him to do any work.

What course do we take is can you at least send him a TikTok, tell me he got a photo or something about how to be better anything.

I literally am not.

That's one thing I will not like, bend On.

I am not going to as a black woman, as a black queer woman, going to put up with problematic people in general, but especially problematic white people in my life via the way of my friends.

No, because if you cared about me as much and these causes right as much as you say you do, you wouldn't even be entertaining this man.

In the amount of women that are like, she's finally happy, she let her be with you.

Value just having a man, a warm body.

A living being.

I mean, man, why, but like why and why this illness I wish to never have.

I'm watching so many birds hatch this week, so yeah, I am, And not that I didn't know they were before, but and I know A Summer Walker's album was good, but it's really pulling out the tweeted tweeze and all of your yeah them, I'm seeing really interesting bird behavior and this Emma this season and I have never in my life because you are attractive to you were okay, backtracking, but still on the topic of the racism and micro and macro aggressions in the workplace, especially with Mary who's a.

Manager and can't be shit.

Yeah, you've got that the only person she's ever brought up to Jason and the other one with about the direly clad dressed with Chelsea's booty cheeks exactly because that live that skinny woman still has a booty even though she is small like all of you, and therefore you're uncomfortable with it and insecure about it for whatever reason, in which case I say, I don't understand why not.

You've had years before she was even here to prepare because I've seen so There's been many times because some of them walking and I'm like, there's no way they're really showing a house like this.

They can no way, And I'm that I'm not that, but I am like, you're naked, right, yeah, Amanza especially, and she's one I want your opinion on in a second.

Please please don't get me started on Amansa Keys, because that bitch pisses me off.

To no, avail, I cannot fucking stand that woman.

First of all, First and for fucking most, I do not care how many corn rows Amanza puts in her fucking head.

I don't care.

You ought to be embarrassed.

You are a grown ass woman putting heart.

Shaped braids in your head to feel some type of connectivity to your blackness.

Okay, No, to.

Sit there and tell us that you've been best with Mary for twenty four years and she's never done anything to get a black woman killed.

Yes, that is the comment that she left on a page on a video of somebody calling out Mary for being racist.

That's your bare minimum for being best friends with the white woman in That's it, I said.

But at most, and I really need.

It's very ambiguous.

And you know what, I know what's just like pain, like skin privilege, and I am still very clearly black.

Every time I get pulled over the same say know it.

Yeah, I know that I exactly.

Different experience than someone likes exactly as beautiful.

As she is in a landa exactly.

Honestly, it's almost worse because when you are of that complexion and of the dark skin color around women who pay and spend a lot of time and money to be pretty, preserve they're pretty and all of that, and you are just gorgeous and quote unquote too black.

Oh they oh, they they can't do it.

They can't do it.

I watched Mary self destruct at that first dinner where Chelsea to me very calmly, and you know she was calm because you want her to lose it later, So she was calm when she was telling Mary while you're saying that I am sending you flowers while you're filming on camera to get camera time.

I don't need camera time.

They're going to get this face regardless.

Oh baby, she's self destructive.

She's self destructed.

She started malfunctioning.

She started malfunctioning.

Okay, it was obvious.

M Oh, that's why we're here.

You really hate this black lady from being prettier than you.

And then the fact that Mary tried to switch up her story on podcast after the season, saying like, I was never mad at Chelsea for sending the flowers.

I was pissed off at production.

That's untrue because you didn't curse out production.

You didn't for aggression that white woman in your home.

I remember you asking her first you did not give her the same energy that you gave Chelsea days later.

So bullshit, you're insane.

That's what I wanted wanted to know.

Who do you what?

Who do they think their audience is?

Like Michelle to me is like, in fact, most of the people I know that do watch at least this selling Sun said, but the selling Suns at all are either women of color and also queer, yeah, and like all of them I don't and and or men of both.

Yeah.

So then then who do you think your audience is?

That they're not gonna care that your boyfriend does this, or that you are picking on the black girl and throwing her flowers in the trash via Brie, because Brie was just excited that she could do the same microaggressions and not get caught out for because it's on the defense of Mary is.

Such a loser.

She is a.

She is it's painful to me to see how bad of a loser she is.

It is because also, you are, regardless of how I feel about you, you are raising a half black son and who will presume get more, presumably that more than you ever could in proximity to over time at some point, and that does worry me because then I'm because I'm watching the way everyone's reacting at this table, this this table at the end of the season of Mary, you know, Mary picking the fight with Chelsea.

Chelsea not even know when there is a fight.

She's like, I didn't know it got there.

Fucking one hundred and sixty dollars flowers.

Whatever the hell, You're.

Just like, it's a it's a it's a it's a it's a coin that I would be a nice gesture.

I don't text you because we don't talk.

Right.

In fact, I probably Here's what I really think happened.

I think she sent it through production on something because she does not have her, she does not know her, but she wanted to do something kind.

So she's like for you to say that I did it for camera time when I wasn't even on camera.

I didn't ask to deliver the flowers.

I mean put on we clad outfits and to give you the flowers.

And mind you when you want to get into the nitty gritty, like the.

Person who is not harming Mary, who is harmful to Mary is her own husband sleeping in the bed next to her, so with his rude ass.

Okay, talking down in his throat to her.

Also, the streets would like y'all to know.

That the theory that y'all think, that that y'all know I have about the Reek's situation, they would like y'all to apply that conspiracy to mary situation.

I have the frame one.

It's on it.

But because I've been not because I don't think I could, but because I've rested all of that energy into my thoughts about to read, I have just too much faith in the fact that she was set up and and and y'all would like to copy paste that on the threads.

And I just simply look and not.

I interested in your in your thought and your theories.

And I see y'all and I understand I here, oh, and that we're throwing away this black lady's flowers because no, first of all, nobody else sent flowers.

You would rather get a tag.

I just don't understand.

No, she wouldn't know, she wouldn't talking about you know, she wouldn't mad at this lady.

She would not.

It's just that good that being a I've been on the other end of this, and it is in the workplace and not too not too long ago, and it literally took me so long to recover from the nervous system shock for how everything you do is a time and you are like, I can't be believe that this is really something I'm defending.

And you're like, even though you know you've been.

Warned, your mama told you, oh yeah, oh yeah, everybody, You're like, you can't just be because I'm.

You think it can't be.

No, no, no, no, no no no no no no.

And I would.

And I watched Chelsea fidget in her seat multiple times and re calm herself, redoubted herself so that she is not the angry black whatever the hell y'all are gonna get ready to do, because I saw it immediately.

She is so trained at this, she knows this game so well.

Of insecure white woman for.

No reason like it.

Also, Mary, you have no reason to be insecure, but you married that twenty three year old and we ask what I am so, but here we are, And because of your insecurities, you have literally allowed them to project out of you so much so that the whole world is now thinking that you are a racist because you picked this fight with this black woman.

You goaded and gated and you baited her.

Into this argument where she had been sending you flowers because you happen to be filmed the same day, when news flash, bitch, you're filming a reality show.

There's a good chance you're filming on any given day you're in filming season, and if there's a call sheet, she probably knows that.

Or but I don't think she's checking up.

No texting Penelope, Hey girl, are you at marrying Them's house today?

You make sure my flowers get to the door.

I just don't think that would have been in case you would have seen the singing telegram.

She didn't do that, I really think exactly.

And the fact that you decided to let that be the way that the rest of the season got shaped and portrayed is really crazy to me, because we had some beautiful homes and some really cool guests to seem to look through and talk about some really interesting things, some great work charity and things like that.

But we have to now watch that and that felt almost like black Shabat.

To me, or where oh my god, don't just as dislike arming, where I was like, I need a minute.

I had to take a break from the season for days.

Same thing was selling Sunset before y'all got into the reunion, did you watch.

It'll Take a Choice?

And I didn't either.

I couldn't see the defense, and I heard many of y'all be like, Oh, it's up for everybody in Chrischelle news flash.

After the way this season looked after the reunion, I think the way things were cut, I think there was a large part of that scene between Mary and Chelsea also that got cut out that Chrischelle is really upset about that, you know, where things were explained to her and you still decide to double down.

And then after the narrative of the final episode being painted that Mary was so afraid of the way of Chelsea coming possibly to this final dinner or whatever, seeing her name on a plate because she's afraid of her as if Chelsea launched stay cross the table.

Now, let me tell you something.

What I did not see from Chelsea is anything that could even go for a down at Housewives.

She would never make it past the casting room.

It was too no, no, oh, god, don't get me starting to hell.

No to have that reaction.

I remember just seeing one threads you included people just being like nah, Mary's reaction to that name card was crazy, like Mary sane, this is insane, like a name, God, girl, you got a calm that like girl called a lady?

Like what's going on?

What what she never gave She never gave stable, never gave stable and is not.

If you were like, oh, well she had her trauma, but.

Who's that's not that's not Chelsea.

It's given you know what it is?

They like, oh, we think we have a sketch of the men and you know they're probably both black in the in the sketch, and that's enough that person to Mary know and she had here with this British lady.

That part we're not even.

That's the thing that it's like that what did that family guy mean with the just like it's just colors because the car.

She's also Chelsea's a lover.

But she's a diaspor what I call a diasporic black, Okay, but she's black by shade in society, not necessarily by culture orality, is British and has a totally different experience than I understand and I know and her experience as a black American citizen that of whatever it is, but it is also layered with her being a British woman, and that is different and my experience is very different than hers.

So with that being said, I.

The looping of it all together, just like these young people, who are these people who broke into my.

Home and I now need to attack?

It's given me a meson, that's what.

Yeah, for those who don't know, you know, I love this story.

It's my fave facetious.

His friend like cried and told him that he that she got attacked by a black man and she like was really scared and all these things really sad.

It was a horrible story.

I'm sure he was very sad as a friend for whatever you know he believes happened to his friend.

He then told, he proudly boasts what's y'all.

I don't understand, but he probably on a syndicated platform that made it to my ears somehow that he then went out enraged that night or whatever and wanted to allegedly let go and just f up some black guys, some black because he was so mad.

Not signed him, not go all taken on as and look at who did it find?

Who did it?

Go?

Vigilante justice?

No, just fuck up some black people.

Yep, I said did this week just to admit to like the desire, the conspiracy to commit lynchings, and we're trying to move on just all not talk about it.

And that's literally what's happening.

Mary.

I don't understand why you suddenly turned on Chelsea, and it's bad, but you went from criticizing her for what she's wearing to accusing her of being a cloud chaser off of your burglary by sending you flowers that you only we only knew who and what it was and what it was about because of your.

Reaction, Yeah, because you read it out loud.

No, you didn't even read it out loud.

Mary said, oh my yeah, yeah, it threw it down.

Yeah, I'm not doing this.

I'm not doing this.

Oh my fuck, that's oh my god.

I'm not doing this.

I'm not I'm not filming.

All you had to do, if you really was bout about it, be like, oh, Chelsea sent me flowers and put it down.

That was nice of her who gave it came a time you were her.

You made the final two episodes about Chelsea.

Mm hmm.

In Emma, now your whole serieson and storyline is about you dating a bigot willingly back into your life and literally choosing a broover host.

Which is weird, weird as fuck.

You were in a cute little trio, the most liked one on TV famous, you have it all, and you are choosing.

We watched her actively choose to go from one poor decision to the next.

And now this is the story of the remainder of the cast and just calling them the selling Sunset Maga pipeline, how they're all choosing to double down on it in media as well, especially Emma.

I'm like, Emma, you all you have to say is like I care for Krishelle a lot, and obviously there's some things that Chrishelle and Chelsea, and obviously there are things.

That I miss and blind spots that I have.

So I'm definitely taking that into consideration, especially considering my friends are upset with me.

Even if you.

Don't take it into consideration, that's all you have to say.

Yeah, we really could have just been like you know they are, even I would have even taken They're entitled to how they feel and their opinions, you know, and I respect where their experiences.

You know, they're coming from different experiences than mine.

So yeah, it is what it is.

So you know it sucks.

I won't even take it sucks, but it is.

That's how they feel and their experiences, and they're entitled to that.

And to not want to be around him.

But you knew that would make it look like a bird, but so does this.

So yeah, I don't know, Sis, it's giving not a good idea.

No, this was a bad one and something I said, I really hate to see you.

I really hate to see you tumble like this one.

They went outside, they went out.

Really sad, and those season not looking no better.

People are really concerned about it.

Are you looking?

Do you watch Owning Manhattan?

No, okay, I do.

I will let y'all know how that one goes.

Y'all know, I'm only watching for that black lady from Brooklyn, so shout out to her unless she's not in it.

But I'm hearing the selling sunset.

Overall, the production is looking a little bit catchy, and that might be Jason's doing.

So I don't know.

It might be the end of an era for us, y'all, but I'm going to continue to do, you know, do the other things.

We will hop one over to Hulu and talk you know, slummel and whatnot over there soon, and I know you're already watching Where can people so find you?

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I really appreciate having you.

Your such a key and you have all the best insights.

Y'all.

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