Hello, Hello, Hello, beautiful wonderful mix ologists and y'all out there.

It is your girl, Mony.

You are in the mix, Honey, you're in the mix with MONI and I have the pop culture priestess.

Oh my gosh, shout out to Alsa.

Back in the day, from shots to sunset used to be yeah, the medsic death of y'all.

Please okay, at Ross, please y'all bear with me.

The meds have worn off and school is back in session, but it has been so much good stuff going on.

I had to hop in l Marisaki's d MS immediately and be like, are you down to record about all this mess, specifically the love Islan reunion, and she was like, literally immediately, yes, let's do it.

And so we're here because I can't not feel feelings about it and we got a chat.

Soll welcome back, pleasantries, Luvey girl, welcome back.

I didn't think we had two hours worth of information to go through.

I was actually shot when I hit that play button it said two of them.

Thanks, Oh my word.

Would anybody even go together to be two hours?

Told me nothing?

Two hours forty eight minutes of this was going to be an email worthy conversation.

Like yes and no, but I was mad at what we received, Like as an audience, I feel like we could have gotten better, right, Like we could have not talked to Bella and Hooko and all of them, and then we I could have seen get showed out.

For the extended version, like we had stuff to fill the forty We did have time.

It was just what we got.

Sup.

I would have liked to have talked to Jeremiah a little longer.

I doubt we could have talked to Chris a little longer because I liked the way that was going.

I was like, m hm, let's let's everybody get called over the roastick Coles.

But yet we didn't.

I don't think we prioritized a lot of our time because when I thought, oh shoot, we're getting in with Chris, we're gonna get started, we never went bad and we did pretty much a wrap and I was like, what, But there was so much they ended this show together.

We really should talk about some of the things that we experienced on the show.

And then why no one believed her because of like I can't even say her name right now.

I will, but I can't right now why we believed her, especially considering no, Hilda Broomstick, I just I just want to stay up to please go girls, guys, dolls don't be here.

If because I'm I'm actually going to warn people about y'all.

If you are a Hood of supporter, I'm concerned for the public around you immediately.

Yes, If still after the reunion you see it for her, I'm concerned for those or everything I thought about you was true.

Alabama Barker, I'm looking at you.

I Travis Barker's daughter.

I'm like, oh, wow, that makes a lot of sense.

And post reunion, I'm like, oh makes even more sense.

Everything about her that is that's clocking.

Fase to like give me thirty seconds.

Okay, it was.

Always going to be enough for me.

When it came a hard no, was the Dingdong.

Ditch situation on the stream right, and the black boys were telling her like if you were going to buy and immerse yourself in black culture things doing immerse yourself in things deeper than the superficial, right, like being black isn't about chains and laid edges and braids.

And stuff like those are fun things that we get to experience because it's part of our culture.

And yes, they have deeper roots.

But like at this point, right five, nobody's getting their hair corn roll because my answer is that no, you're getting it because like a style and your hair can do that.

Cool.

But also part of you being a white person who decides to suitp your edges and get filler and do all the things that you recognize as black, it's.

Also recognizing the black experience.

These black boys are telling you it's not safe for them to do what you're asking them to do, and they're explaining it an explanation that they don't own your grown ass.

There are tons of free libraries.

You still chose not to listen.

So that was one, and then it became a super hard no when she is talking about her black scent and she was like, oh, this is just how I grew up.

I grew up around black people listening to black music like it was a typical white experience.

Let's cut to around we met Alabama Barker as a artist, right, sure, yeah, yeah, I.

Mean sure it was it not?

Was it not?

Carrie Underwood?

Like, was it?

You can't tell me that it's always been this when I've experienced you as something else?

Also, where did you grow with what parent.

I just let's start there, because I know your parents on there, You're not you can't.

How are you going to say that to me when I literally know where you come from?

A little black though, like she got it?

Yeah, and that's very fair.

Did I used to watch what was she on Hollywood Access?

Yes?

Oh girl, you know I'm in it.

I've done my I've done my work.

Okay, old school listen, Hollywood AXS eight.

Anyways, that's another day.

Yes, and your dad is like the man as White ye on TV.

He's with the whitest sister of the white girls who try to be black, but he's literally with the one who is the most caucasi.

Who's only with the one who ain't never had no black babies.

He never tried to, doesn't want to.

Bodie never went through the transition of trying to be never did.

Like literally when the girls were getting their hips plucked out and clube, just try to tell you all of us from them squats in that photo shoot.

Listen, I watched for data.

Okay, was going there getting X ray, old girl was going gluten free, trying to get the excess body weight off her, going non deodorant, which is the least black thing you could ever do was going deodorant free, all things free.

And then has been only sleeping with that white man from Fire Island, New York or whatever for the last four out of five kids, or three out of four or whatever number out of whatever number, and then like she takes on the full Like it's when when Chloe and Kim are in them are like, we're actually half Armenian.

When you call them white women, We're actually half Armenian.

Courtney's like yeah, She's just like, yeah, my mom's Dutch, So what are you talking aboutthing Like, actually, Alabama, when I watched the show, let me see what I experience.

You look like the odd one out.

Your tan literally rivals that of Kim's, who does aim who claims to be leaning in to the ethnicity that she does have the little bit And that's fine.

Listen, I've never been to Babylon, Bethlehem, none of them, so I'm not here to tell you what the sun does to the people of her lands.

But I will say it makes no sense to me that that lady who does try to replicate black culture has some Meloni.

A teen seawing sea bed is still pale in comparison literally to that of this young hairy white woman Alabama.

The marker in which I say to rap like to bring it back.

If they're the level of delusion in that lady's brain that can present what Alabama.

I hope y'all are looking it up right now, if you don't know what I'm talking about.

If there's a level right now, yeah, if there's a level that can do that, it would make sense to me that not only would she be a Hilda supporter, but then she would say that the girls are all so jealous and that she will go far Joseph what First of all, I would say that no man on that couch wanted to be near her talk to her.

Everybody she was sitting by herself.

Chris was like, I am here because so I won't get fine, Like it's literally him, he basically said.

My mama was like, Thank the Lord, the things worked out the way he did.

They did.

But I was kind of disappointed in Peacock, whoever produces that show, whatever, whatever, whatever, because if again, if y'all could find time to give a disaplaimant to acknowledge that you don't condone bullying as it pertained to everybody talking about Savannah's over plastic surgery face.

Banna, right, that is what.

Yes, if you had that, there should have been a moment for the coorgion that that Chris experience.

And they did touch on it, right, like I'm I'm we have to be fair.

They did touch on it.

They did call it what it was by name.

They didn't try to like sugarcoat it, you know.

But again there was no firm like, hey, that fucked up.

If you or anybody you know is going through that, like we are not here to normalize.

That's what I kind of got from that scene that they already gave us something when it was Vana.

Parents, because that's a lot of plastic.

It is.

You got the little note on the screen, who yo, daddy know it's given Taylor Swift okay, likes like circa back to Heidi Montag getting it way too early, way too and now it's she's you know, really growing into it.

Or out of it because she took it out.

But that also I hope she's, well I do, I think she's, you know, she's she's grown up a different way.

Then I'm actually the least disappointed in her of some of the ways that some of those girlies could have gone and have Like Kristin, I'm looking at you.

I'll be rooting for you, but damn disappoint me sometimes.

Also, Jay Tyler is now doing time.

Unfortunate her ex husband, Jay Cutler, he's going to be doing time for his d U.

I yeah, so that's why Karen got out.

They had to make rooms.

Listen, listen, l try as I might, and y'all we are.

I promise you we're gonna actually talk about the love I lai.

But I'm I'm trying to figure out why Karen's getting released early, what the real reason is.

Other than you have a theory, I'd love to hear it.

I have a theory as well.

In mine is based in absolutely nothing, but I love it.

Let's go with it and you know, discuss it as if we have real bad research.

But like, she's getting out September second, which is in a matter of days, she will be Yeah, she will be fully released this week and that's a great.

House and rest or nothing.

But however, she cannot obtain a license for like the next year or something.

Yeah, yeah, but as long as she has a driver driver or like Uber money.

She should be good.

I mean she should have always been good, like there should have always been a driver.

Yeah, have the money that Karen claims to have.

I'm not driving anymore.

I don't drive now because.

I don't know imagine, okay, so is she.

Rich?

Yeah?

You know how money works, and you know how and you know how the know how money works.

I feel strongly that she does not want someone to track her movements and where she's going, which is why she does not take the Uber things because things can get released.

I think Karen does think kylie of herself.

Also, I think she would have a point because it's no Karen is enough to be like, I'm getting Karen Houger you know who that is, and then tell me where she's going and then that ends up with us.

Because if they did shaw, they would do it.

You're right about that now.

I okay, I would listen.

I would answer that DM.

I would.

My husband's sister is an Uber driver and she picked up Karen Huger and DuPont Circle and then like took her to a home.

And but that's the But Karen lives in Great Falls.

I have questions.

No, no, I think though that.

Again not back by any research.

But I feel like if we started to pull a thread, we.

Would get a little bit of a Tom Girardi situation over there with Rag.

Oh you think that it has something to do with Ray that they're playing into, like rais not doing well without any.

So you know how many works?

You know, how expensive a mortgage would be, how expensive rent would be, the mind variety of which you said was probably least than it probably was.

Nobody bit on the.

Tourism part to her family's land out in Virginia, right, so whatever money was poured in there.

Have you ever been to anybody's house and they're burning a grand dom candle?

Three wick?

Right?

I haven't.

I haven't.

Have you ever been out and smelled somebody and said they've you say, what are they wearing?

They say, Ladam, Like.

I forgot about that.

She has both of those thing.

Have you ever seen somebody's hair and been like they're so cute and they say, oh my.

God, that's who Wow.

Ella's reminding us?

So what but like, listen, throw things at the wall.

Be a business woman.

That part I'm not downing her for, but I do mention that to say, we know how expensive those businesses are we know what the startup is.

And again, if we are counting money out versus money in, where.

Is it right?

So that's the money thing, the out thing.

And I don't wish still on anybody.

But Ray didn't look okay when they were going through the trials.

He did it.

So my first thought when I said, when I saw September second, I said, oh my god, I hope Ray is okay.

But also I felt like if she was getting some and maybe it was a condition of the release, but if she was getting some sort of early release due to family issues, wouldn't that have been noted in the court docs?

I would think so.

I just especially if there was any kind of petition or specific request for release, like from the judge, I feel like that would have been that was granted, we would know about it.

But I genuinely feel like I think they were just like yeah, we you know, lesson learned like her year was it was two years of a sentence with one year suspended.

If she's been there there six months, and I think that they're just like time serf, like whatever, like get yeah, like you get it.

I don't think she does, but I do think this was humbling my question for everyone as we you know, see what our sites are for Karen Huger, which way do you think she's gonna go with this?

Like?

Is she gonna go Teresa Denial?

I you know, just you know camp, but it was away I was away, or she's gonna go like lu Wayne, I've been to prison and she gonna be like, I'm about that life now now, don't play with me.

I have been to jail.

I think it's so.

As soon as you said, which way is she gonna go?

I said, when to cut you off?

I do too.

I think she's not gonna let these girls up.

She's gonna be like, you don't understand.

I've lived a life.

She'll find a way.

You know what.

I think it's gonna get.

It's gonna give Janet Jackson.

And why did I get married to at the end after Malik Yoba pass?

Yeah, that's it, that's it.

Shout out to Janet.

It was when she had lost her brother and Tyler famously is like I didn't even have to tell her to do anything.

She just did it.

And I'm like, well, yeah, yeah.

Jana Jackson, if you're listening, I say again, been a supersis since you were seven.

You should have known better than they open up your mouth during a very crucial election, and somebody that you yourself said you didn't.

Know r training to be in this post.

Well, my brother said, what are you talking about?

Why don't you say that you're grown?

Sorry, I just think you would have make informed decisions.

And I'm surrounded by poor decisions every day.

Speaking of let's talk about the youthful people who make poor decisions in bikinis and dehydrated and had to all reunite together to talk about those decisions.

Listen, let's start off off top with like the facts.

Yeah, I don't even have to worry.

We'll get to we'll get to the nitty gritty.

But let's start with the facts, the big bullet points.

Yes, Ace has short man syndrome and is a little bit.

I disagree.

Go you you I do.

Did you see his interview today?

I did, and I still disagree him talking about his friend's girl like that, or his girls girl like that, or maybe that's not his girl.

I just don't believe that out of pockets see urry my issue.

And it was a dis record, A it was, it was a dis record.

I don't know who he was dissing, but like everybody but you was just mad and the mic was long, it was low, and you're little and you're upset about it, and that's okay.

I loved it too.

I thought it was a great song.

I just also don't I think that anyone's sensitive about what Amaya did and her TikTok with Alex Cooper is not.

You're fine and you were the ringleader and it's fine.

I liked it.

I do think.

Okay, so I think that it was a dis record.

It was, and he's like, didn't you release a dance record?

He was like, it wasn't a dance record.

It was a style and give you Andy for messing it up.

I I think that Ace has the disease that Tamar used to have, like circa Tamar celebrity big brother when the Braxtons came on, and that is they both suffer from your saying the right thing at the wrong time.

Itis.

Okay, okay.

I do believe that Nick probably had that conversation with him.

I'm sorry, I do.

And we can go into like it gives lust, it gives attractiveness.

I just personally don't see love.

You don't have to show it to me.

Though, like whatever, get your get your endorsements.

I don't think that he needed to say that on that podcast, And I think that's the mistake that a lot of these people who were thrown into these situation and then thrust into being famous and now they're one big podcasts with big megaphones.

You don't have to say all of that.

Some of that should have been said in private.

As it pertains to Amaya, I do.

Understand the no be as loud about the apology as you were about the fuck up.

If you did something and you realized the clip was wrong and you had a phone call for me, just as loud and as viral as that clip was, so did genropology.

I stand on that, Yeah, and I totally understand that.

I think you're not that sensitive.

I don't think you were really hurt by it.

I think you just wanted to have something to address somebody about at the reunion.

I don't think he was heard about being called short.

I don't because he addressed it nonchalanti earlier, like we can play at solo jokes and then he's like I just feel like, yeah, because she apologized to you and quiet that is like now I can say you need to stand on it, you need to stand on business.

He just needs to be right, and it's just needs to hear himself preach.

And that is like, my, I can't like you just you're twenty three and you want to be a pastor and I need you to calm down.

His always stimonious singing and Quad, you know, and I do love Quad, So I do understand, and I don't like Ace.

I just feel like he always needs to be right, and I'm like, you're not always and that's okay, and it's okay that you don't know everything.

I think he's very insecure about how young he is.

I really do hear that.

Yes, he needs Yeah, he needs like people.

He doesn't want people to discredit him and how smart and wise he is, how mature he is because of his age or because of his height, or because of his this, or because he already met you know, Shelley before or whatever.

Like, he doesn't want people to discredit And I understand that, but you can't like dictate and narrate someone's experience and how they're handling it based on only your criteria.

And all season long, he applied his criteria to everybody and every situation and then people and he also I know he knew that one Taylor is a weak minded individual, and that he knew that these boys were listening to him.

So and for him to adamantly be like, I wasn't the ring leader.

No, He's like, I just feel like I have a big presence.

No, you can't say what it really is.

It's like, no, but I feel like, you know, I had a lot of sway.

You can't say that I had good ideas.

And he wasn't wrong in a lot of those things.

But he had me and tell me that you weren't actively knowing that you had those nigga's ears.

You had those boys ear.

I watched them just nod and listen.

Every day.

Ace was asking people's plans ideas, what are you doing?

I think you should do this, I think you should do this.

He was directing, and he was not wrong about a lot of it.

The only thing all season that I even had an issue with him, literally was how he treated a Maya.

That was it, and I felt a little like aggravated that.

I'm like, I don't think you were that annoyed about the tick.

I think you wanted to have something for hurd upon us to you four because this girl basically one off the strength of you being an asshole?

Are it really was nothing more than you won the people's vote because I was rude to a woman and that's it.

And now he's like got his lick back in a way and not like in a revengeful way.

I don't think he's like that, but I do think that he thrives off of being able to correct or write something like to be able to be like I need to be able to and I just like, okay.

But I came here for love teachable moment.

It's like he's in his twenty three teach me.

What rust it down?

Oh for sure?

Seconds out the door.

He's in his own like one man show.

Every time he talks you hear the spot like shift I was a young war his own TV show.

He's given Manteo or like Caramo.

I to see it, yes, always, yeah, I did for a future Monte real bad and I'm okay with that.

I'm watch you know, and I would watch it absolutely.

I watched the A show.

I mean, I hope it starts with his back to us, and I love that he is And again Okay, so that's my thing.

I don't disagree.

Okay, I don't disagree that Nick maybe had this conversation with Ace.

I think Ace is not confused about his timing though I think that even I say the right thing wrong time.

I think he's very aware of what his timing is and that is why he is saying it.

He is not very satisfied, though he acts mature.

I see an insecure twenty three year old who is upset that he does not have the center of attention all the time.

Him and Shelley should have been in the top two or three.

I think that, I really do think that they were.

They did it for love.

They looked like, I don't care if they knew each other or whatever.

I think that he thinks that too, and he is very upset that he didn't because he really played his cards right and he should have and they were trying to say that about him.

And I also think that's okay.

Strategy is fine in these situations.

I love, are you the one?

It's fine.

You can play for love and still try to get money.

That's the whole gay.

So like, I like that he and her did that, and I do think he believes that, but he also smells his own shit so much that he is just like a little annoyed that we're all talking about Nicolandria, even now when he's like, yeah, I get it, they're great, but like, also the other beautiful Barbie that everyone loves.

Everybody's talking about either Nicolandria or Shelley and Alandria, and no one's talking about Shelley and Ace.

And I don't think that he loves that.

I don't think that he loves that, and I think it and.

That's what I feel like.

He had to neutralize Nicolandry and be like, well, you know, you're not even not attracted her.

He told me, like, okay, that's like what my third graders do.

I've heard him be like, well you not even.

Like her, That's true.

It was immature.

Again, I just think I think that you can't do.

Nothing about the fact that you have people's ears.

I think there's a connotation with Ringleader, and for me, that's why I don't connect him to Ringleader.

He did have some people's ears.

I'm not doing because I think he was intentional.

I just don't put nothing past nobody.

And even though I don't think he did it, he's too young to be.

I think he realized he had it and he could use it.

I don't think.

I do think he is smart, smarter than this.

Okay, this, this is this is the part that I disagree on.

I don't think that it was intentional in that I'm going to come in here and do this.

I think it.

He's a sports player, his dad is a coach, like I think I see that as their form of communication in this way, I think he knew.

I don't think he would use that word, but I'm like, okay, so let's argue.

So semantics, I'll give you.

Let's argue the words.

But I think that's what he was.

And used a different word he would not have fallen back as hard, but ringleader was what the internet used.

And he's like that, I didn't come trying to do that semantics.

I think the other side of that is the other side of that coin is twofolk number one, boom thumbs down.

You know, you ace more than anybody know exactly what Shelley and Orlandria were going through online and are and went through and currently going and you're one of them.

Just you you know more than anybody what that is.

Only speaking on them.

Two specific Black women should be their beautiful.

They deserve everything in the world and the.

Period.

I can't wait to see Nick kiss his feet again, like that's all that you should have said.

We deserve love.

However, what I think we are witnessing, Yes, you're right, young twenty three year old feelings hurt.

But we've seen this play out in reality TV before.

We've seen other housewives not be able to fully connect with the fact that like, oh, you're making a shut So I think there is this little bit of knowledge that Ace has of what's happened behind camera or what was edited out conversations that may have even been said on camera right, but then didn't make it to us the general public.

And I think because he's young, because his feelings are hurt, he doesn't know how to navigate that.

I don't think it's necessarily like fuck it, like no, I think he just is a kid.

He's a person who can't not have the last word.

And I can don't know if that's immaturity or that's just his personality.

So he'll be like that at forty five, and it'll be even more insufferable when he's an every math on our TV screens, because this man is never going on.

I've been following him for two years, so I have always liked his content, and I've always thought that he is really good at content creation, which is why I had no issue with him content creating basically in producing half the season.

I just think that he saw an opportunity and tried to go with it, and I think that's fine, but it was also it was a reason for why people who really love watching Love Island and really liked season six thought that this season went as good because of how vocal he was in other people's relationships whatever you want to call it, and yet heavy producing and we don't like to see it because we already know it's happening.

We don't need to see it.

Oh on time, right, and so like that was like annoying.

So for him to try to like shake that blame and then be like, I don't like he still doesn't like the edit that he got at the reunion, or he feels like he's explained away something enough and it didn't air, and so now he has to continue to being like, you missed the part where I explained blah blah blah, which again could be aged like, I'm fine, that's a twenty three years own thing.

It's just something that I don't have to participate from.

From a straight little black man, I just don't.

I don't have and I don't like I'm just a word sexual laying a little too long, and the way y'all like men, and the way they be treating y'all looking like this.

And it acting like it's crazy to me.

I really I would have.

Texted this man after the interview dropped today and been like, so, baby boy, it's gonna have to be you know, Cash, we'll see each other.

And they're villa this season, like.

We just go and go follow Nicolandria back at home apparently, and the mom's hanging out, and I'm here for the moms hanging out, Like I want to see the mom, want to see Nicolandria go the way of Cameron and Lauren from season one of Love is Blind.

I want them to have all of the things like just.

Which, by the way, they did look much more connected during and I know he saw it.

He saw the reunion and just didn't like the edit.

And that's fine, but so neither did Hooda.

And I'm gonna give the exact same like fervor, then I am about to give Hooda because she too is a woman who watched the things and felt like she may have manipulated it in her mind better than what was portrayed, and now she is here to be like, no, you will not see it the way that it was shown.

You will see it the way I explained it and accepted in my mind that it went okay.

And that is what we're here to do with the Hooda is revision, is history down and when she forgets details or doesn't have a further concept for us to bite instead of the reality that we witnessed, which she hasn't had a full fleshed idea, she just goes and it's over.

We're moving on.

Y'all are happy, right like it Just be happy.

And you know, I've grown so much Andy in a month, You've grown in a month.

So since a month since rapping, you've grown and mature.

Uh huh.

I'm not saying that I'm done.

I'm just saying I've done so much growth.

So I don't even apologize because I've grown.

Because that's grown.

That's not I can't I can't give you that apology for her because she's not here.

If she was here, can't give it to you.

But she's not.

So like, I also want everybody.

On this show and then every other show to shut the fuck up about things that weren't there, right, Like, if you don't get.

That edit also, I don't break it to At this point, I'm almost believe you.

Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

It doesn't matter, It doesn't.

What matters is what we saw.

If you can't talk about that, if you can't speak to that, if you can't break that down and dissect that, then actually shut up.

Go do a photo shoot, Go dor instagraart commercial, fill your day with something else.

Sign autographs with.

Cameos with Sonya Morgan.

I don't care you see did you hear that?

So we're living house the townhouse says I thought it was sold.

I'm so sad for her it did.

I thought it did sell.

And that's oh, I don't know it.

It's not her sober.

It's just very you know, it was a very natural next step.

I do.

I would love to know was her husband ex husband's lawyers just that good?

Yeah?

Like why did I just watch Sonya Morgan on a girls trip legacy?

Like give me Shannon Bador energy, Yeah, and say that she was like sleeping on people's couches because she didn't have like yeah, and then we know she was water off and stuff like.

That, especially with an infidelity clause, you know, especially when you marry into JP Morgan Chase Bank and he's what the Morgan, He's the Morgan and the JP Morgan.

That's why Carol and you didn't even make it again ten years.

Carol, you lucky you've got the house.

In fact, you probably should have taken it from you would have done you a favor.

Anyways, I have been in a minute because that level of delusion, and like it's like funn because I can at least excuse a lot of these people's bad behavior with like the oldest person on Love Island is like what twenty eight now, Shelley, Yeah, Like and she just turned twenty two three days ago.

It's like, you have a reason.

I have a reason that what are these other ladies excuses at forty plus?

Okay, you just said it's giving quad and Quad has not been twenty three when we met her, Okay at all?

I know I could have saying that the one that really just like stood out to me with her laughing at the montage of.

Herself but then saying that she's sorry she had grown so much.

And so at no point in your growth did you.

Like or your healing didn't tell you to like look back at that and you don't see that and go like, wow, that was gross.

I can't believe that that was me, Like, oh my god, God, sorry I put you through that that would insinuate growth.

So I want to know who the therapist is so that we can report them.

There isn't one.

I want to say this because y'all know I'd be saying this on the show a lot, and so when that happens, I'd be real sensitive to it.

And it is a superpower that I did not ask for of mine.

So I'm just going to start with and give the disclaimer of the only thing I'm going to talk about with Hooda is the Shelley and Landria of it all, because yes, her personality and mental health is not really that of concern of mine.

Because let me just say this, and I'm gonna leave it here and put a period on it.

I'm very sensitive to narcissists of all kinds because I was raised by a narcissistic parent.

When you were raised by a narcissistant parent and you were raised in a household with a narcissist, it is almost like the language that they speak, the words that they use, the tenor the tone.

It could be male, female, whatever gender they want to subscribe to, whatever personality, whatever background, doesn't matter.

It is a language that they all speak in children.

You could be married to a narcissist.

My mama sometimes sensitive to is sometimes not.

She's happy and healed, she can heal.

But when you are a child of one, it is embedded in the fabric, genetic coating of your skin, and it makes it crawl anytime you hear the same language.

I have had a problem with hed all season long.

This reunion was inredibly hard to get through.

Literally I had to ask my wife can I fast forward for a second and she can watch it later?

And she did because I was so triggered by her performers the entire reunion about by that time we got that the Latin you it was an hour and thirty two minutes.

That's when the package of her started.

Because that's when I was like, I can't do it anymore, and I had to take two plufs of my happy Addy.

That's a business.

It's not failing.

Okay, that's a happy Jersey.

But he is trying trying, right, Yeah, actually I think I'm trying some growers.

And yes, guess because I know he went up to Philly or something.

He had an event the same day of Spacey Stacy in Virginia, even though she said she wasn't going to start a company.

But that's of course, and she did not advertise it until the day of My wife actually got an email from the Virginia Dispensaries because she's a Virginia license holder.

And it was not I didn't even see it on Homegos Instagram yet it was a pop up yeah no, yeah, so it did not The word was not supposed to get out when it did, so that was interesting.

Came to see how that plays out on the season.

Yeah, I have to, And I want to tell you about the conversation that I had with one doctor one day when that happened, when I'm no longer on record boom, Okay, so yeah, I took two mouths of that Happy Eddie because I needed to calm down and she had to watch it without me.

It was really hard for me to get through.

So I will just say that in regards to Shelley and Orlandria, if you were a friend of theirs, they shouldn't have to ask you to deter people's racism or at least be like this is bad.

Don't do that at the very least.

And if that is something that flew over your head and you just didn't, it didn't clock for you.

When they do bring it up to you, the response can simply be I wish I had done more, and I'm sorry you're feeling that way, and now I am also experiencing racism.

Because let me tell you something we're not gonna do is monopolize the experience that people who were Palestinian are going through right now via social media, via the internet, the news, or the erasure of what they're going through via social media, the internet or the news at the same time where people had to look up what you are and didn't have to to cut faces of your co stars off and put them on the bodies of animals, various animals.

Okay, so again, if at looking at one person, we can cut and paste and start an entire memeable smear campaign and all these things and let it be.

Then that can also be something like, yo, you know what I am actually because I'm all in fact, I'll give you the narcissist apology like I do for my dad.

You know what I'm experiencing me because I've been experiencing racism in a new way since this show aired.

I really actually can't even imagine what you guys have been going through because it has been really rough and brutal for me.

And so I'm sorry I didn't say or do more because I would have definitely wanted that support to and so me not giving it, I'm sorry.

That's how I spoon feed it to my father, sold and interesting.

I didn't have a narcissist dick parent, but I had a grandmother.

I'm sorry.

Grandparents are also hard.

I've heard, and like you said, it it is embedded.

It's something that when.

You hear that, it's the language, it's the way they put the words together.

I call it on a string because they are so it's so carefully done that you're just like, I don't hell, yep, how what I'm feeling what you're saying.

Why most of them have what I referred to as the narcissistic smirt.

Grandmother would do this thing where what was getting ready to be said was going to be so out of pocket, and it's like without getting to like, that's the part that makes me feel like it's a spirit and not necessarily just like this is who you are.

Because that little smirking everybody does it.

It's almost like involuntary.

It's almost like that you can't even control it.

Or if I told you you just did it, you'd be like, no, I didn't you know what I mean?

Yes?

Or they I know they've learned how to use that tick, their facial tick in a different way because my dad his turns into a he starts to either cry or get like it but it's not real.

But the smirk ers to a frown real quick, and it's like and as a child who doesn't want to disappoint their parent, you can imagine it's big impact when it goes from right and you're like whoa and so yeah, I'm sorry, go ahead.

No, my mine would go from like listening and receiving what you have to say, then that little smirk would happen, and then it would be no, I can't believe you would sit.

Here and make that up.

And in front of your mother.

Nonetheless, you're going to sit here and just fabricate this whole story.

Anyway.

Trauma to the side.

The difference, I do believe because a lot of people have been in my comments like, well, Shelley and Landria didn't say anything in support of hutt It and she was experiencing racism.

What's happening and Guza is horrible.

I think we can agree on that.

And if we can't agree on that, you scare me get away, right.

I think that.

The way that the US is funding and helping to support this erasure of people and land is absolutely disgusting.

Nobody deserves that.

My heart breaks for the people who live there every day, whether it's there or or you live it here as somebody who has this direct family.

They're heartbreaking all of the things.

Right.

The hate that happens in that is not the same.

And I I hate to even make it sound like you're trying to compare trauma, right, but.

Everybody's like, well, Landria and Shelley didn't do anything.

It's not it's not mutually exclusive, right, Like they're putting Landria's space on George Floyd.

This black man who should still be here, this black man who called the cops for himself.

This is the girl.

You get it.

You get it yet that I know you get it.

I don't think you're confused exactly.

You definitely understand.

You understand the gravity and the magnitude of both.

Period speaking out.

One is speaking out directly to people who are directly doing something to Shelley and Orlandria, and another one is speaking out about a situation, or in support of a situation or the lack of support of a situation.

They're two differferent things, both extremely heavy, but they're two different things.

And because there are two different things, we're addressing the thing that Landria asked for and that Hood has said that she would give, not on a podcast, not on a space where people can say, oh, I don't watch that.

I didn't know about that.

She asked them to her to directly make a post.

And I have not seen one thing.

I can't speak to somebody's feelings.

How somebody something made you feel is just that how it made you feel.

I can't see that.

I can't police that for you, okay, But what I can say is that I have not seen racism spewed at Hudda by fans of Shelley and Landria.

Neither has Hudda, thank you, she hasn't either.

Then that's just you know what we're talking about, Hudda.

You can be experiencing the worst of it.

And also if you were, I still expect what they're saying to be just as valid and still like, okay.

Right, because it doesn't cancel it love.

It Leya doesn't okay, But you don't only got time to combat one kind of racism every day.

You going that hard that you'd be like, oh damn, I forgot to race to tell them to stop doing the other racism?

Look, what are you talking about?

Shut up?

Hudder?

Like I cannot.

And that's why I'm just like, I can't argue with her because I know that she's doing it, So you will argue with her about what she's saying now instead of what she did then.

And I don't like doing that because when you do finally get to the resolve, you walk away still having the same feelings that you had from before, but then there thout then displaced on you.

And I'm not doing that with hood that because I have to think about the fact that she has a child, and I don't like doing that.

I do not like thinking that there is a little girl who could possibly experience any amount of the lulu that we have experienced on this here show.

From the optics, though, Praise God for Jesus, and I hoe it that I believe he's right.

Baby stays majority of the time with the daddy, and that.

Is deployable, active military parent, and I just feel like those who have children to let that sink in no shape.

In fact, Dad hope baby girls having a grade school year.

I hope she has all her school supplies and that she's happy and that she is doing her very best for the rest.

But that says a lot about the reasons I was about to say, that says a lot about her, because nine out of ten they aren't going to give full custody.

As a parent who has to leave the most and then put the baby with somebody else.

The court is thinking about it as Okay, well, the mom is here, her job is around the corner.

She's going to have babygirl X amount of hours a week, assuming she gets a babysitter to.

Go out, whatever the case may be.

Whereas if dad.

Leaves, he leaves for let's say six months a year, and then dad has to put the baby with a family member who knows what's.

Going to happen there.

Why don't we just let the baby stay with the mother and the dead visitation.

That's normally how it goes.

The parent who has the police officer job, the deployable job, they don't normally rush to give full custody to that parent.

No, they don't, among other things I've seen Southern court systems work.

So let me just say, off of the strength of I have had a friend who in Georgia was her mom had an active diagnosis of schizophrenia, and they still granted custody to this woman post job being left posts fire started in one state, moved to this one without father's permission.

Dad fought for custody, Mom still got it of both children.

So let me just say, though we like to, I guess we don't.

I don't know pretend that we are this progressiveation.

I don't know what we're doing at the moment.

It told me a lot when the way she moved this entire season while having this baby girl.

It was.

Information that could be the moms and my dms and my comments told me everything I needed to know.

They were just like, it's just very interesting that like this is how she did it.

And me, as a bachelor bachelorette watcher, for instance, I've seen plenty of whatever's come through here and be like, so I have a daughter.

First night, So I have a daughter and her name is Amber, and she's lovely.

Men, So I have a daughter and lovely and normally because these people are they're here for love, they are also there for whatever that might look like, and you know, to see what they need.

But people are like, so am I.

So maybe if we're a match, will be a match.

And I'm still gonna have this kid, so let me tell you about them.

Okay, Well I'm gonna tell you up front.

Okay.

So it was just giving interesting that we had to come out to people and the mom that I didn't that strategy was strange, and I said, oh, I've been that, I've been that, I've been that kid before that some people didn't know about sometimes until it was time to reveal that in a strategic situation so that you don't hate me as much.

For instance, let me reveal to you, Nick that I have a child.

How did you feel about her and Jeremiah's reuniting and Jeremiah altogether.

I feel like Jeremiah said on Business, yes he came a receipts he said, he did say that he did.

I felt it very interesting he gave verbal receipts in my opinion, right like he said, For example, we're talking about this conversation.

About moving right and I said that I would like the steps to.

Be that I came to the state that you were at, and then we dated then and then maybe if that were we you.

Know, moved in like and you took that and was like, oh, he doesn't he wants to move out with me.

I also like that he stood on business with the definition of love bombing the whole yeah, to paint me as something that I am not.

Yeah.

I even loved the fact that he all but said I fell in love with your physique, right like he said that he was like, I fell hard.

Yeah, And to me, I feel like the physique part was implied because what we have seen from hood.

That hasn't been a beautiful person, right, So.

I think something similar fell for that physique the whole time, and then the part before he clocked it before it was too late, and that's what the song when he said, I am not carrying you across the water, when she asked, you're really not gonna carry me?

You just tried to keep me up last night.

You course, you tried to course me to having sex with you, even though the producers told us we only had four hours.

And I told you someone who claims that they're interested and care about me and when been a relationship with me, but somehow only has concerns and needs for herself.

I'm telling you I need to sleep.

They're telling us till night to night where you might want to get that because we're not gonna get a lot of it.

And you're like, you have ten seconds counting me down.

You've got some nerve, and then you don't get your way.

So the next night, when we're at this thing, you're like, I.

Just feel like you don't.

We just stn't.

Yeah, so it's just not here.

We can be friends, though you're not gonna carry me.

You're confused, and you're irritated that he didn't confuse Chris didn't stay confused for long.

But this this body him Ballerina places right like that behavior.

Works, which is why she does it this is it seemingly like her first time that she was in the wrong market.

This is going to work for the out So you're not gonna pick me up like they're coming back.

They gonna pick you up, well you hell, and then they're gonna pick her up.

Yeah, they're gonna go do what to be done.

But I like that Jeremiah said that, like listen, I fell quickly.

And I don't think he was loved bombing, either as someone who therapy or not.

You can look it up.

I like that he did his homework because he really did try to, and it didn't seem like it was a vengeful thing either to be like don't like yeah, and then he's like, no, I didn't.

And I don't think he should be made to feel some kind of way for how he loves or how he fell for this woman, because I also think of it as manipulative.

So I'm really not gonna fault him for falling hard for a woman.

They were in a relationship, they both were wildly toxic with each other.

They both were and they were separated.

So why is Jeremiah being made to be How did how was he the coulport of a toxic relationship when it takes.

I also think that Jeremiah is like a good case to study for like when people ask like, oh, well, which parent is why, Yeah, it's you.

Know it is.

It is the dad and but this is my thing.

I guess yeah, his mom.

Correct me if I'm wrong.

But from what I saw online, the mama was the mama was, and that's what I thought.

I felt like.

Chris hasn't told us why, but like you know, without researching, my feeling was that Chris having a black mom, having four black sisters.

You know what I'm saying.

I know how a man should speak.

To those women, and I also know what those women put up with, what they consider normal, what they emulate, what they teach to their kids.

Right, I'm not even receiving what my mom said my sister should go.

Get you know what I mean?

Like that that like I'm not even wording it right, but like I'm not a situation right, No, I get it the guy, but you're not being the girl.

And so this is weird for me, and so I'm gonna leave.

Whereas Jeremiah was more like what I don't like it was he liked it until he had to go around the third time on the coaster.

Yeah, and then he was even like, oh my god, this is a lot, and he started believing delusions.

He was like all over the place and he was confused.

Yeah, but he came to the reunion unscrambled, and I appreciate that for him.

We do appreciate that.

And let me just say to wrap up the hood of package, because I've already spent more time on her than I wanted to.

But that's just how consuming she wants to be.

It's just I just like Andy said, it's her.

I don't feel like you were bullied that much.

But let me just reiterate the person and I counted I gotta find my tally sheet, but I counted the person who had to apologize or answer to something the most for their behavior to another human on and off the show was hood up.

So I don't really want to hear at this point.

It'd be like saying that Jax Taylor is like everyone ganged up on me.

Okay, I don't believe you.

You have the most to answer for here.

The most hood I had been answering and apology or non apologizing the moment we sat down.

Her package came at the last fifteen minutes, but that lady had to talk almost every single segment because somebody had to address something with her.

But you were bullied, okay.

So I also before we leave hooda fifteen seconds, I want to address iris.

As it pertains to the extended version of the heart rate challenge.

Yes, bitch, are you cool?

Like is you really cool?

If I if WHOA, this is my man.

Everybody knows it's my man.

That in and of itself should be the boundary.

You freaky, beaky broad Why do I have to then say, hey, as it pertains to my boyfriends, please don't look his genitals or clap your ash cheeks in his face.

Thank you, And yes, of Ace shouldn't have grabbed it.

He's also twenty three, and I am.

He was mad.

I'm saying I'm married tomorrow and I'm.

Okay, like hello, like listen, it was an ass grab, you know.

It was.

It was that night that she was giving entertainment, you know, and that's fine, and she's like it was a challenge.

It still was a thing.

I would like to ask the timeline of the conversation that some people incorrectly believe vindicated Houda with Shelley and the timeline of the heart Rate Challenge, because let me tell you something that I saw all season, Houda trying to get the Black Girls to be on her side.

She wanted to create PPG for herself.

Yes, that did not happen because they are Honestly, I love Shelley and Landry, but they're just a little bit boring and that's okay.

They're beautiful and non chaotic, and I'm okay with that, and I wish them everything, and I hope they get all the things, like all the things.

I want more of them all the time.

But I think she really wanted that, And they were very careful about who they let deep into their energy outside of them each other, because they were the only two that could understand their specific experiences on this show and what they might experience outside of this show.

And remember, I really felt that when they sat down with Kiki and she was like, they got the producers gave them their phones and was like, it's bad, it's bad, just letting know before they left the villain they got their phones back and like the hate is bad, You're really not what and they were like okay, and they were able to understand that.

When that didn't happen, and when Hooda got her phone back as well, and she saw the way people were talking about them, she saw away that she could become a victim say they were mean girls, but they weren't not tell you or not that we saw, not that we didn't see.

Simply you cried every time.

Shelley likely had a reason to be upset with you.

You cried.

I had a reason to have it be upset with you, And I was wondering why then, because it was giving some implicit biases.

I'm like, nobody's yelling.

They're actually like so chill, They're just like.

She trying to stick up for Landria, and Landria was like, it don't even got.

To be She literally said, I just will talk about it later.

She's like, no, I was gonna talk about it later.

And she was like, oh, okay, what were you afraid of?

Okay, and now they're mean girls.

Never saw it your buggin.

So again, we're all here because you had to apologize to a lot of people didn't but you had to the stack.

The questions were stacked for you.

So I just really want to reiterate.

She didn't get her way again in a relationship.

She could manipulate the situation each time to be different or like deeper or more meaningful than what we believed or what she wanted us to believe.

So then she had to come out and be like, then fuck it.

They you didn't see that because they just, yeah, they were bad to me.

That he was bad.

Those two black men that I tried to date, they were bad to me.

One love bombed to me was basically and and you know, and very bad and mean to me.

And those two black girls they were mean girls to me because they didn't want to be my best friends.

So, y'all, all the black people were so mean, so mean, and me and my five year old daughter baid each other's hair and talk about boys, which is developmentally inappropriate.

And I'm an educator.

Don't play with me.

You don't do that.

So I believe the first thing about as much as I believe the other thing, and that is thank you.

And it's honest, honestly a rap.

On the season's seven cast, this was not it was actually okay.

I had missed feelings about how long this was.

At first, I started with being like, how are we going to get through two hours?

Then there are so many pockets where I was like oh, or it was so awkward or it was so like bananas that I was like what.

But then we didn't get enough of it, so it just like we were moving fast.

And then I was like, we're at the end, and then they put it on it at the end and I felt like, damn not were wasting time, and then we had no time.

And so I'm like, which is interesting because I didn't think you would have that much to give me anyway, because I wasn't this river by this season.

I had a lot of emotions and feelings about it, but I wasn't riveted by what I watched, especially as a season six watcher and especially as other Love Island season watchers or watcher.

This one didn't give me.

I came here for love, but up but it up?

You know, it wasn't giving me that.

It wasn't giving me the proper final three that I was looking for.

Like, it just wasn't given me.

At the end, I said this, I wasn't feeling the way we connected with each other.

I wasn't feeling the connections I was worried about being nobody was closed off towards the end, I didn't like a constant wind.

We had no move.

It was just like I wasn't riveted, but go through broken up and we knew that they such conspiracy.

They were never together.

How about that boom?

I don't believe it.

I don't believe it.

They were bronk on the couch if they was ever together.

Also, how did throw a party for one hundred of her best friends and closest family members in the same city that he is from?

And for hours before he was buying a rolex But thirty eight hours later he's not at the party for his girlfriend.

And that was the time they were so together.

They had just gotten back.

Oh, because they weren't together, thank you, go ahead.

They were not together.

I would have loved to see.

I felt like, okay, I felt like Amaya and Brian were the winners.

We should have gotten more of a package on them.

And when I say I thought the winner, yes, yeah, But like I wanted to.

See an extended version of whatever conversation that Ace and Amaya had, or maybe even footage to show, like to justify that Ace wasn't tripping like it was od.

Like I wanted certain things cleared up that I felt like could have been cleared up.

I wanted to see or talk about how much time Ace was.

I mean, Shelley was really spending in between Ace and Austin, because that was always a storyline that felt weird to me.

It was never anything about Shelley that made me feel like she was at track get to.

Ace like pussy.

Okay, so if it got two legs and it is over the age of eighteen, hellfuck it.

Yay.

So I know that he was attracted to Sheley, that wasn't a question he but I don't I never believe that Shelley was stuck between the two of them, So I wanted to talk about that.

I did not need cocoa there.

Who y'all did.

Y'all bullied that girl in the bleach on her top teeth, but she didn't bleach the bottom teeth, And I don't like that.

Y'all should have left her alone.

She had a jewel on her little side teeth and she had just taken it off.

But y'all, y'all bullied, bullied that girl on the bleaching in her hot teeth and her top teeth.

I'm mad at y'all for that.

It's like I'm mad at y'all.

But letting Brian and Amaiya, Way, Bella A and Jeremiah told us nothing about the fact that they have canoodled in the Brown Chicken, Brown Cowboy and.

Again come here.

If you wasn't going to come in and give the tea, then you should have stayed home.

Why did y'all let her get off the hook that someone should have said, You're literally on contract with Peacogo right now.

Literally, helly, I mean just when I when I hang up from you, I'm making a video because I don't watch whatever show that her boyfriend man, mister Luis, he's on a Perfect Match right now.

Hmm, okay him, he made a video telling Andy to shut up.

He's on Perfect Match and he's on a apparently another dating show over in the UK or something right now too.

Yeah, they say he's like a scholar, you know he's This is not even his first one on Netflix.

See, he's been on another one on Netflix.

This is his second or third or something on Netflix.

Okay, that is airing the same time that she was supposed Okay, listen.

But she's not on it.

No, but once her contract, she has.

None in her mind.

She wants us to believe.

She wants us to believe that there is something in the works.

She got out of saying it by saying something in her mind, something is in the works with Netflix for her and this boy.

And if we're to believe that there is legal things is because something's on the horizon and she can't talk about it because he's on Netflix.

And since we all know who she's talking about, or who Andy's talking about, this boy who's on Netflix right now, She's like, I can't for legal reasons because what you're gonna be on Netflix too?

You're not.

This season a perfect match that he is on is also the season that ad from Love is Blonde, who was dogged out by Clay at the last final moments because his deadbeat daddy told him you were just like me, and I ran out on your mama, so he ran out on her at the last minute at the Altar.

Ad is Now he's out there doing interviews though, like saying that again, there was more that we didn't see, and that villain you are the villain that was wild.

You definitely could have told that lady before she walked down that aisle and got your I'm just saying listen.

Video.

Yeah right, okay, but Ad is now with that man that she was at matt on Perfect Match.

He has an accent, he is very cute, and they are pregnant and engaged.

I knows he is.

But I know for a fact Netflix is not putting no money into a package with non confirmed, brand new dating girl from another network streaming platform and this boy who they just have on retainer whenever they need a dating show slot filled.

I know they're not.

And so when later we asked her, so, what happened with that, Oh, it just didn't work out.

Okay.

She just want to be able to get.

She's gonna go so far, Alabama worker.

Said, so, Alabma went so far.

That's how she knows.

She doesn't.

I didn't even a together.

To be fair.

The most famous of the children of that man, Travis, and she's the only one with a social media presence.

The boy with the black nail polish gets me every time I watch the show.

He's interesting.

I forget his name, but I want to know him.

Alabama, No, don't think about her at all.

She thinks about herself though, God bless her her and Ky sannat So I hope her and her go off into the sunset and have a very nice time being.

Are you just saying kay?

Sat thinks about himself a lot too, Oh, he.

Thinks about her.

She wants his attention.

I really believe she wants his attention.

She's with someone else though right now another wayan who should know better but won't doesn't, so poor them.

I'm glad this season is over, and I really think the timing of all these breakup announcements between Iris and Pepe and Aya and Brian happening within the same week and right after the reunion and those contracts are up, which again I think Amaya and Brian only pulled it together July they can promote the reunion.

They had to be on Watch What Happens Live, They had to be together, and especially up against fucking Nicolandria.

You don't want people watching Watch That Happens Live before the reunion going.

We voted for the wrong couple.

I'm not gonna watch.

Yeah, and people with time to not waste would do that.

They'd be like, girl, fuck you, how y'all love exactly?

And the girls are watching it, so listen.

I'm glad this is over with.

I think these boys showed their behinds, almost all of them not very well this season.

They didn't do they disappointed me.

But these beautiful women, Bill Flood, I really just remind y'all.

Every time I watch one of these and I wrap one of these series of I am praying and constantly thinking about you, ladies, especially for people in general, but definitely my girlies who'd like to sleep with and the company of men.

Because I watch these things and I am like, this behavior not a rule out And the answer is no, it's crazy, And tell them an you know, discrib moment of discretion or something.

I'm like, not the way he's talking or hygie nothing, Okay, Austin, really, why do we spend so much time with as now?

But no, I.

Choose your choose your thing, you know, because listen.

My best friend and I have a pack.

If, if God forbid, we ever both end up single, we're gonna marry each other.

Because she has two kids, I have my one.

Will raise the children together.

If then, when you need somebody to throw the hot dug down the hallway, I will watch the kids, and when I needed you will watch the kids.

There we will collect our tax dollarism live happily.

Ever, is that is that what a lavender mad at Ridge is?

Yes, that's very, very similar.

You know, we're just gonna do what we gotta do, d L and you know, listen, but let me not talk too much about the man, because when they reverse this whole situation I got going on with my wife, I might be calling on of y'all to be.

Like, hey, yours won't get reversed.

Everybody that's in, we don't know, stay in.

We don't, I don't know who knows.

Listen.

We love to be able to bring y'all the like a little bit of relief with this BS and talk about other delusional things.

But remember, the world is still no America is still on fire, and we have to return back to that reality now.

Literally, Elle is like as invested in the gutter.

She has us invested in the work, yes, maazing, But the politics, y'all, she's in it.

She really recovering the real stuff, like the serious stuff as well as this pop culture stuff.

And it's like, I loved how quickly and available you were to pull away from the actual dumpster fire that is the American government and the politics system, especially in New Jersey, with all the elections and things going on and the things happening up there to just you know, come on and talk some ship about these you know, young beautiful people who we knew we're going to be different love, but we still got big feelings.

Anyway, It's important you have you have to be well.

Versed on what's going on in the world.

So you go.

Touch crash, you have to know what's going on with the grass that you touch.

But you can't stay outside in the grass, right Like, everybody needs an off switch, everybody needs I will say this, and I've I've been saying it, and I will.

Continue to say it.

Bravo.

Housewives specifically is one of the most uniting topics.

I have been in rooms with me as wires and.

Been there for serious things.

Right Like, we're there for business, we're talking section and somebody says makes.

A Housewives reference, and now we're off in the corner whispering about the fact that we watch Housewives.

I did.

I interviewed Mikey Cheryl yesterday.

She had a rally for Women's Equality Day, and I'm there and I'm meeting the other people on her comms team, and we end up talking about Bravo.

Me and this girl, we have a whole moment.

She goes home and tells her Beyonce, but she met her sold me it's me.

We were talking about housewives and one girl had everything before.

We gave her the roadmap.

So I would say that to say it's important.

It's it's it is.

Housewives are just as important as politics.

It is so imp No I do, I don't, and I think it's.

First of all, you need to know the road map of politics, and you can learn that best and most entertainingly by watching housewives.

They do the same thing.

You ever watched these fan live?

I watched these span all the time.

It looks like the same it's watch CNN after ten pm.

Let me tell you something, and it's not as civilized all the time.

Okay, real early seasons in New Jersey.

Let me tell you.

I today said, and I want to leave y'all with this.

This is a generational unifier, I today said.

After the third day of school with my third graders, we all walked in.

One teacher age she two thousand and four, the other teacher nineteen eighty four.

Me in the middle of nineteen nineties.

Blah blah, blah and literally I said, oh today, drain me and they all were like, oh my god.

Same, both white women both knew it was Marlowe.

Thank you, thank you, and it's keeping us a flow.

And that gave us joy after a long day of being overstimulated by twenty one to forty eight third graders.

Okay, that is why housewives matter.

Okay, thank you for your service.

We do.

We do, oh me, thank you, and we think that house was for theirs as well.

Because when I'm in the private toilet like the teacher toilet for my eight minutes that I have to myself, and I choose to do that instead, I am on the TikTok, fully clothed, just scrolling, and when I see things like Karen's getting out of jail, I rejoice.

When I see things like, you know, a reference or meme, I rejoice.

And I can do that, you know.

So we appreciate the moments that we can take together to discuss the mess as much as the important things.

L where can they find you to just to scroll through the things?

You are wont get that range over there.

I again take care of the youths.

So I'm going to maintain my self preserve my mental health.

But LL covers it all.

And I'm a firm follower, like listen, where can I find you and engage?

I am briefed by L on everything.

For whatever reason.

TikTok is glitch, so I can't change the actual act.

But my name on TikTok is briefed by L.

You can send to you anywhere on social media and you'll find it Twitter, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube brief by L.

And I brief you on all things politics and pop culture, and I make it digestible for the everyday person.

I'm always talking to the women, but if you're a man, you could come to But I do always and all things for the for the female gays, never for the man.

It's so good.

It's so good over there.

Maybe that's why I feel safe, and I like to go scroll go over there and get briefed by EL.

Y'all, and you know where to find me on all the things at Mixing with Money and my x SI g W I T H M A N I the visuals on Patreon because you know, I don't know it looks hurt for free, yet I work with children.

Make me an offer.

Okay, just wait, just wait, just wait, just wait.

So that and then of course you know I'm on Thursday, I talk Love Island, I be talking about the things when I live watch that's my place to live, right, I guess.

And on Instagram I be cutting up in stories and everything like that, so you know, I like the things to disappear.

I'm a kid of Snapchat.

Take care of yourselves.

Please try to take care of one another because no one else seems to be doing it.

Someone really encourage y'all to do it, so they, at least my little population of the world's takeing care of other people.

And then that at least helps, you know, spread the word.

Ask somebody, shame someone into taking care of someone else, or shame them for making bad decisions.

No, I want to drive and do that when a stranger looks at you from across the room and like you see them doing something.

Okay, we'll tell y'all something.

I've been thumbs downing people instead of flipping them off when I drive, and it makes them matter.

I highly suggest it.

They don't know what to do.

They don't know when you make a post, is it a so selling.

Come with so much us visions?

Oh my god, hell, get out of here.

She has ideas, y'all.

Yeah, y'all don't even know I'm about to start the whole tiktoks.

Anyways, let me go and be creative.

My wife is also yell at me, and you know, let me not make no more dark jokes.

Have a blessed one.

Y'all.

Take care of yourselves, stay happy, stay healthy, stay safe.

Please, by all means, and if you are in the DMV area, please reach out.

We can support each other or complain together, or cry whatever you want, yeah we're all the things, or shot a lunch train.

Let's try not to get people.

Have a good one.