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Rolena is on the phone today for our first Day follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Marcus.

So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and see if it tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.

But first, Selena, how long has it been since you heard from Marcus?

Hey?

So about a week and a half.

Okay, have you been trying to get a hold of him or was the last time you guys talked on your date?

Yeah, I mean the last time that we talked another date afterwards?

You know, I texted him, hey, I had a great time, and he wrote back, yeah, me too.

And you know, during the date, everything was awesome, So I assumed, so we'd go on another date.

I mean, yeah, one would if it was good, right.

It was amazing.

We like went for like this midnight mini golf and arcade night at like the retro game lounge, you know, and I'm talking neon lights if he's downtrack pumpkin spice cocktails, you know, the best and and honestly, it was marcusistic.

So I was like, all right, this guy's got a great vibe.

He also has like this low key, you know, bookish charm, but still we're sneakers, Like I don't know, he's about to start.

A dance battle like slag.

I'm so into that exactly, and like he's.

Got a great laugh Like I mean, he was awesome, this really great guy.

Okay, so why do you think you're getting ghosted?

Well, so when we were at the Arcade, we were like doing this you know, best of three air hockey challenge, and honestly I got way too into it.

What does that mean?

Yeah, exactly, this sounds so lovely.

I can't even imagine.

So so mane, they don't know myland strength.

And you know, at match point, I launched the puck so hard it literally ricocheted, smacked the feeling quam and definitely went right into someone's nachos.

Oh like tage hot cheese everywhere.

Wow.

Okay, but I mean the is that a reason to ghost you?

I don't think.

So.

You know, Marcus like doubled over, laughing even high five to me.

And then you know, we spent like an hour, you know, talking about vintage pinball tips like it was.

I don't know.

I was just thinking about like, you know, this is a kind of night that you tell your grandkids about, you know.

Well, so then where was the issue?

Well, I don't know, Like we texted a little bit after the date and then he like completely disappeared.

Okay, okay, so you actually were texting after the date.

Yeah, like a little bit, nothing crazy, but like, is it because I'm frequently strong and like, maybe you do that stuff after like a little bit, but nothing like a little bit of a makeout.

But I thought that vibe was there, But maybe he's obviously not into it anymore.

I don't know.

All right, Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

Then we'll play a song come back, and then call him and see if ho tell us why is ghosting you and maybe get you a second date.

Okay, thank you so much.

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Right in the middle of your first date follow up and if you're just joining us, Selena is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Marcus.

So we're about to call him and see if it tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date.

But first, Selena why don't you break down your date again first, real quick.

So basically, this awesome our date and we ended up going to this really cool retro arcade and we played you know, Best of three air hockey and I hit the pack way too harsh radios.

Someone's got Joe's I don't know my own strength, but I thought we were laughing about it.

And now he's pretty much ghosting me.

All right, well you ready for us to call him?

Please?

Okay, here we go.

Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Marcus.

Please.

This is Marcus.

How can I help you?

Hey?

Marcus?

How are you?

This is a radio show.

It's called The Jubil Show.

Hi, Marcus.

I'm Nina.

I'm Victoria and my name's Juble.

I know you guys.

All right, well now we know you Marcus win something.

I must have won something.

It's possible you could have won something.

This is the first Day follow up.

You know the segment where if you go out with someone and you got them, they email us to call you and find out why.

I've heard of this.

I've heard of this show.

Yeah yeah, no, but you did ghost somebody?

Oh yeah, so any idea who you're ghosting?

Hello?

You're just laughing about it.

Marcus, where are you coasting?

I feel like I know who you're talking about.

Una, Yes it is Selena.

She told us about your date.

We talked to her a little bit since she really likes you.

But now you're not calling her back.

You mind telling us why?

Yeah, mini golf date.

Uh, I gotta say the day was great and and and she's she's pretty, and and I just like she dressed like my mom, Like, uh yeah, minilf Did you say mini golf date?

Yeah, we went to like Neon minigolf eighties was like an arcade place.

Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, No, I mean I went to minigolf with someone else.

That was arcade night, right, Okay, are we still talking about the same person?

Oh yeah, nachos.

She like, we were playing knock hockey and she kind of hit the knock hockey thing into it doesn't It was like a kind of a mess.

But okay, okay, but that's not why you're ghosting her.

No, she dressed like my mom.

She dressed like your mom.

Yeah, it was a kind of turn off.

I like, everything was great, but then she were the top.

It was like my mom, So your mom has the same top that she was wearing.

It was like exactly the same top, and I was like, oh gosh, it's my mom.

Just gonna say sometimes things just like turn me off and that that was just kind of it.

Okay, But you guys kissed and stuff.

Huh.

Yeah, And when I was kissing her, I kind of felt like I was kissing my mom.

Yeah, all right, probably better not to go back there then.

Yeah.

I don't know.

Would you date someone that dressed like your mom, I don't know, or your dad, It depends.

I don't think it would bother me, but I don't know if it's a deal break.

Yeah.

Did she act like your mom too?

No, she didn't.

She was fun.

It was fun.

It was just like I said, it's just a little thing like that can make a break deal.

It's like a deal breaker for me.

I guess if like you're playing air hockey.

Everything was great.

But I don't know.

You guys don't have like a little things that bother you when something goes not the way you planned.

Yeah, I guess.

I just I don't know how your mom dresses, so I don't know if it was bad or good.

I don't know, like Mom's like, Oh, I don't know the tom just target mom section.

Mom.

Okay, all right, well keep step margus.

Thank you for telling us.

I will let you know that Selena is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

Oh okay, hello, yeah hi.

So oh yeah, great taste.

You got our mom's taste.

I think that's ridiculous.

He goes to me over this that's in sade.

I don't know, like if you if I dress like your your dad, would you be into that?

Okay?

No, but I wouldn't hold it against you.

Okay, so you you wouldn't date your dad or you wouldn't.

I mean, I don't know.

I'm not trying to day.

My mom just escalated.

It's not the same thing, okay, markets I am not it's not the same thing.

I'm not your mom.

Okay.

Look, I'm going to send your picture right now of me wearing something else.

You can raise that image of me and your mom pop away from your bro.

We had a vibe.

You're sending him a picture.

Okay, So.

That good?

Oh what?

Oh wow?

Okay, so like my mom has that braw By the way, now you're lying, okay.

Also, how do you know what kind of brought your mama.

I don't know.

It's all in her laundry room.

I don't know.

Okay, okay, basically, do you like what you see or not?

Oh?

I mean yeah, you're you're beautiful to be fairy like you rock?

I want to be fair.

You rock the top that my mom wears way better than my mom.

Okay, all right, well now we're getting somewhere.

Oh all right, come on, Guys end up marrying women like their moms anyway, so this will be a hilarious story one day.

Maybe sure.

And you know what, I bet your mom's sending pictures like that to your dad.

No, I don't know.

I don't think so.

But uh oh yeah, oh I don't want to think about that.

Marcus, would you like to go on another day with Selena?

Will pay for it?

Yeah?

I mean well I kind of have to go, Like I got a coffee date right now, so I kind of have to go a date right now.

Yeah.

I just want to say, good life.

You're gonna do like really great out there.

Thank you?

Where are you going?

I have a date?

Okay?

All right?

You really just give me that you'll do great out there like a sports I'm so sorry.

Whatever, you know, I just sent that picture to someone else and actually I'm going to go on a coffee day.

Now, wow's a waste of my time.

So I'm going to go your coffee and probably do it a bunch.

All right, Okay, what just happened?

Juble's first day follow up