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Ruby is on the phone today for a first date follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jordan.

So in a few minutes we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.

But first, Ruby, how long has it been since you heard from Jordan?

Hi, it's been nine days?

Okay, oh, okay.

How many times have you tried to reach out to him?

So I did a double text and I sent one Instagram reel?

Okay, yeah, that last text was two days ago.

So you didn't make the reel.

I just sent like a top gun, like real, like a jet reel.

So I said, like, oh, still feeling the need for speed.

So well, I'm sure that's an inside joke somewhere.

So questions, well, don't you tell us about your date?

Ruby?

Yeah, it was an incredible date.

We went to an aviation museum.

Uh oh and big top gun fan so oh okay, yeah, it was my idea.

And he even did that quote.

He said, like I feel the need for speed in front of me with the jets and it felt perfect.

It's like the fantasy.

Yeah, it was like kind of my dream day, honestly.

Like we grabbed burgers after two and then we talked about our childhoods for like two hours maybe, and he told me about how he built model planes with his grandpa.

I guess I'm confused why, Like, I don't know why he's not talking like texting me.

But we also kissed in the parking lot and he really kissed me.

Okay, yeah, so it's like a good kiss, but you don't know why he's ghosting.

Yes, Like why would you kiss me and start to ghost me?

It doesn't make sense to me.

Is there anything you can think of that would be something that happened on the date that was awkward?

I don't know.

Maybe I like talked about like my hedgehog that passed away during COVID.

I'm so sorry.

I showed him a.

Picture, right, it's the earn of my hedgehog.

She's a little tiny pick, like a tiny and pink.

Or maybe I asked him any questions about his grandpa.

I don't know.

I was just curious, Like I didn't mean to make a therapy or anything.

What why do you think the hedgehog would be a reason he wouldn't call you back.

I just felt pretty emotional when I showed it to him, Like I started to cry because it really was a good she was really a good emotional support for me, Like stem.

Yeah, maybe this was a hymn thing.

You know how some people get really overwhelmed by other people's emotions and if you're somebody that can't really like carry your emotions, like well or you's too much, I don't know, like maybe he really liked you.

But then it was like I don't know how to express myself.

I hope he's like in an act, like he gone to an accident and he's in the hospital, you.

Know, like.

He's doing okay.

He just had a really good reason.

I get where you're go all right, And.

If you're just joining us, Ruby is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Jordan.

So we're about to call Jordan and see if he'll tell us why he's a ghostinger and maybe get her a second date.

But before we do that, Ruby, why don't you break down your situation again for us real quick?

Hi?

Yeah, so I went on an amazing day and it's been nine days since he hasn't texted me back, and we went to an aviation museum.

We had a great time.

He kissed me like really hard, and oh yeah, I think I overshared about bubbles my hedgehogs who passed away.

And yeah, maybe I scared him by having like big emotions.

I'm not sure.

I think he might be in the hospital or an action, because I honestly he really led me on.

Okay, well I hope not.

Are you ready for us to call him?

No, but I guess we have to do it all right?

Here we go.

Hello, Hi, man, speak to Jordan.

Please, uh speaking?

Hey Jordan, how are you?

This is a radio show.

It's called The Jebel Show.

Hi Jordan, I'm Nina.

Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jebel.

Is how many people?

What is this?

Yeah, there's three people on the phone.

It's a radio show called The Jebel Show.

Have you ever listened to us?

I think I have.

Actually, I just don't know why you're calling me now.

Well, we're calling you because we do a segment on the show called the First Date follow Up.

And what that is is if you go on a date with somebody and then end up ghosting them.

That person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

So we got an email about you.

Oh now, okay, it's Ruby, isn't it.

Yes, it is Ruby.

Congratulations.

Do you mind telling us why you're a ghostinger?

I don't know.

It just it's we had one nice date that it got a little weird.

What happened.

The date was awesome actually, but Ruby's awesome.

She's smart, funny, definitely interesting.

But then she she told me about her dead hedgehog within twenty minutes of meeting me and cried, like real tears.

Right, Yeah, we talked to her about your day.

She did tell us that par she thought that might be one of the reasons.

We found that kind of hard to believe because it just feels a little bit, you know, harsh.

Well, yeah, I mean I didn't want it to be a big thing, but she kind of made it a big thing.

Like, I mean, she really cried.

Did you comfort her?

I tried, but.

It was just a little overwhelming for me.

So we finished out the date and that seems like enough for me.

It's just a sign that might not be the best to come.

The hedgehog thing.

That's it.

Yeah, well, you know what, it's not even just that.

She She also at one point showed me this, this little picture on her key chain of an urn for the hedgehog.

It was really a lot but the hedgehog.

Okay, so there's a lot of hedgehog.

Memorial for hedgehog.

It was a lot of hedgehog, a lot of here's a lot of hedhog.

All right, Well, thank you for telling us why you're ghostinger.

Now, Jordan, I'll let you know that Ruby is on the phone and wants to talk to you.

Uh yeah, Hi, Drodan, it's Ruby.

Hi you Ruby.

You've been ghosting me, haven't you.

Uh yeah, I mean you've been listening in so I guess you just heard that.

Wow, you are a jerk and you're ghosting me because of Bubbles.

You seem to have like run away from commitment or any like issues that requires yet it seems yeah, it's like you never had a pet, or you've never felt deep emotion for something for anybody.

Okay, I mean, hold on, this is a lot.

This is what I mean.

This is a lot.

This was the first day and it's not even because of Bubbles.

It's because you told me about bubbles being dead within twenty minutes of meeting me, and then you cried about it for another twenty minutes, and then it's like you wanted me to cry too.

It's just I mean, come on, it's a lot on date one.

So okay, I'm so sorry for having a heart.

I guess you should have talked about something more superficial, like crypto or like sports injuries.

I guess I.

Really thought you were someone else, but like it seems like you're showing me that you really are just like shallow.

I mean, you kind of should be a little lighter.

I'm the first meeting.

I mean, we're taking the point of dating is like what marriage?

Right, So like we're supposed to jump and dive in pretty deep.

Not in twenty minutes of meeting someone.

And then that means me saying, well, how much deeper is it gonna go?

Crying about a dog?

You're counting the time when you meet someone on a date, like, oh, there's a time where twenty minutes that's when she cried.

Oh yeah, But why did you kiss me after?

Why did you leave me on like that?

Huh?

I mean I guess I just kind of felt bad.

It's I mean, you've been like mourning this hedgehog for years and oh, oh my.

God, you are my first kiss.

Who Yeah, that was my first kiss, Jordan.

I don't believe like you ruin my dream of like my first kiss that was supposed to be with my my soul may or something, but you did it because of my pet that died.

I so I didn't know that.

I mean I would have guessed the first kiss would have been aheadhog.

Honestly.

Oh, I just can't believe it did that.

Oh, it's it's okay, it's all.

We all go through things.

It gets better.

You'll be You'll be fine.

I didn't know it was your first kiss.

Than I am sorry I ruined that.

Moment for you.

You just don't ever do that to your girl again.

Ruby.

Thinking about it like this, how many people actually end up with the person that they kiss for the first time, like their very first kiss?

Like, who's with that person?

I just wanted mind to be special.

I was been waiting for years for this moment, you know, like I'm three.

Wait, hold on, wait a minute.

I thought that you've had boyfriends before.

Yeah, well I may have cuddled with them, but I've never kissed them.

Well, we talked a little about this.

I thought it was more than just cuddling.

I stocked with six people, but I've never kissed them.

Oh oh why not?

Because I was trying to save it for my soulmates and Jordan kissed me.

So now I really have to rethink my life is honestly.

Yeah, I mean maybe you should have started with the kiss and then saved the other stuff for the soulmates.

Yeah, well that's your opinion, but you really ruined my kiss, so off Jordan's Oh