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CHRISA is on the phone today for a first day follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Charlie.

So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and see hotels why he's ghostinger, and maybe get her a second date.

But first, Christa, how long has it been since you heard from Charlie?

Hi?

Yeah, it's been about six days, six days, texted twice.

Did you guys leave?

Like, how did you leave the date?

Did you have a plan to see each other again?

I thought that we would.

I guess it seems like there was yeah, potential for a call.

I thought that it ended.

As well, But then.

Again, I don't know, maybe there's I made this well, I kind of made a mass at the event that.

We what do you mean by that?

Okay, So, like so we met at this It was actually really cool.

There was this rooftop astronomy event thing, like there were like all these telescopes and there was like five chatz and wow, yeah that was amazing, And there were like cocktails and peak in teapots and we were like taking cocktails of teacups.

It was really cute.

That's really super cute.

I am not the most graceful person, and I uh, I accidentally I was like looking through the telescope and I just accidentally knocked over this tray of the peak cups and it landed.

So there was this broaderberg guy there.

And it's basically I failed like a bunch of cocktails over this like really fancy star chart that's just like really commented yeah, and everyone saw and everyone gashed and it was really not cute, but actually, like it's funny because Charlie was like really sweet about it and like laughed about it and helped me clean it up with you know these like meeker like cocktail napkins.

It was so I mean, I think, you know, that was.

Not great, but I still thought that, you know, we had like an infer home and I thought that things were going well.

I'm glad he.

Helped you clean up, because what was he supposed to be would be like, oh, I'm not with her.

Exactly.

That is really embarrassing, though, I'm sorry that happened to you.

Yes, me too, but it's like yeah, not the first time, not the last, so.

Sure, okay, did the day continue past the rooftop or was that the spot?

Yeah?

No, we we like talked after that super embarrasing incident, and like, I don't know, we had an uber home.

We like talked about music, and I just I thought that there was a spark.

I mean, I know I need a mess, but like I was really nervous and I'm, like I said, I'm kind of a consany person.

So I don't know.

I just I think that I really hope he gives me another chance.

Well, how did he seem afterwards?

Like in the ober and staff?

Was he being different with you?

No, we were like having like cute conversation and yeah, it felt very cute.

I don't know.

All right, well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

We'll play a song come back, and then call him and see if I'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date.

Okay, all right, all right, we'll get your first day follow up next.

Right in the middle of your first day follow up if you're just joining us, Chrisa is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Charlie.

So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date.

But before we do that, Christo, why don't you break down your situation for us.

Again real quick.

Yeah.

So I met Charlie at this astronomy event with like tell us ghosts and all this stuff.

And while we were.

There, I like build a bunch of drinks over this like star chart and maybe that was the reason, but like, I don't know.

We we just like clicked even after that and took an uber home and like chatted and did this start.

Chart any event?

I Oh god, I mean.

I know that the.

Guy who was like running it.

Was really that.

Yeah.

No, it was definitely like not the thing to do.

All right, well we'll see if that is the reason.

Are you ready for us to call him?

Yeah, all right, let's shoot us.

Hello.

Hi, I'm asking to Charlie.

Please Charlie.

Hey, Charlie, how are you?

This is a radio show.

It's called the Jubil Show.

Hi, Charlie.

I'm Nina Victoria.

My name is ju hol Us Up.

Oh really how are you?

Yeah?

I'm pretty good?

Uh?

When's the radio shirting me?

We're calling you because we do a segment on the show called the First Aid follow Up.

That's where if you go out on a day with somebody and they end up ghosting you, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

So we got an email about you from somebody, Charlie, did you know?

Do you know who it is?

Or do you think you know who it is?

I mean, I mean I've got a pretty good idea right now.

Really, who do you think it is?

What?

Did it happen to be Krista but Champs?

Yes it is Christa?

Yeah you got it right?

You want nothing, I guess, but yes it is Christa.

Do you mind telling us why you're ghosting Crystal?

She's really curious that she liked you a lot, but can't figure it out.

I feel like this some sound weird without the context, but she's just me in an uber and I just want any part of that.

What wait, I have to explain?

Okay, we were taking an uber and she just starts just casually singing every lyric to this early two thousands boy band song and saying, I mean, like every single line, she's doing the choreograph number and everything, and you know whatever, I like myself she likes herself, that's cool.

But in the middle of it, I try answering her a question and she just aggressively just like and I'm just I'm not trying to date someone who's just comfortable disrespects me with like a violence, you know.

Okay, if I'm disrespected with there's.

A very disrespectful you know.

Yeah, I guess that's true.

There are different ways you can shish somebody.

Yeah, and there's a disrespectful way for sure.

Yeah.

This was full, you know, finger up in the face, spit coming out of the mouth when she so it just wasn't a God looks.

So that's that's it.

Though.

Other than that, it was good I mean before Yeah, but you know, I'm sure a lot of good things happened before terrible things happen, and you don't just look back on the good things and.

Try to record the bad.

So, you know, life for short, and I'm not gonna tolerate that sort of things.

Yeah, okay, before you know, you could be married for years and then you think back, you're like, man, if I would have just paid attention to.

That shit, I haven't spoken in fifteen years.

Hey, I'm walking proof.

Don't let that happen to yourself.

I get it.

Well, Charlie, thank you for being honest with us.

Christa is actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.

Wait she's here.

You mean she actually let me talk without.

Us?

What?

Oh my god?

It wasn't that bad?

Yes, hi, oh here?

Yeah?

My first stuff like for real, like, how are you gonna ghost me over singing a song?

I was just into it.

Do you know like music?

Like?

Oh no, no, I like music.

It's just you're really downplaying it.

You're saying you were just singing.

You were just sol on choreography dance number like we were in a music video.

And look, I thought it was kind of cute.

But you shush me like your library on steroids or something.

And again you spit like you just turn to do a different person.

And I said it was disrespectful.

Well it was bye bye bye.

Like honestly, dude, who tries to chat during an InSync classic?

You know what I mean?

Do you have like librarian.

Issues or like, what's the deal?

Well, it made me want to say bye bye bye to you.

Okay, it was really disrespectful.

It had made it has made the quiet peasant energy to it and I just haven't been just that way since third grade story time, so maybe I do have some trauma that you're unlocking.

Thank you too, I think you too.

Oh my god, it was really meant to be a fun shoush like I.

Really, it's like you're acting to me, threw something at you like I.

It was like a sarcastic shush.

It was a power shush.

It felt like you were establishing dominant, like you were trying to be the alpha or something.

For me it was playful.

Well for me, it wasn't.

And I think you were staring the driver too.

And also just remind you, I was literally trying to ask you a question when you did this, and it was literally me trying to say, hey, I think our driver missed the turn, and you cut me off with a spitty shush.

And honestly, like even the driver looked like he he gave me a look as if to be like, I don't have an HR department, but if I did, I'd be calling them right now.

That is like so dramatic.

It was a polite.

Shush, okay.

I just and also, by the way, the driver was definitely vibing with me.

He knew every word too.

It was a whole thing.

I was setting a fun show.

I was trying.

Yeah, he knew every word because he was trying to tease you.

He was scared, he was hoping.

Oh maybe if I sing along this crazy dur will stop my windshield and make it so that I have to crash the car because I can't see anything through it through this glob of saliva all over the world.

Well, Charlie, would you like to go on another day with Crystal?

We'll pay for it.

Look, I don't like being disrespected.

Nobody does.

And throughout all of this I just heard a bunch of excuses.

I haven't heard any apologies or even any reasons why I should give you another chance.

So tell you what.

If you can give me a reason and I'll let you speak without shushing you because I respect soul, then maybe, But if not, then I'm out.

Okay, all right, I'm Charlie.

I'm very sorry for the power shush.

I got lost in the moment with and think the beat took over me.

Here is why you should.

Definitely take me out again.

Okay.

I make really good cookies, like hands, stop eating them cookies.

I'm really Shelly, obviously and yes I do sometimes break out.

It's just spontaneous stands break but that's kind of my love language.

I have awesome relationships with both of my parents, so I don't have any family drama.

And I volunteer at a rescue on weekends.

So you know, if you have a pop, then we're basically sold me.

Charlie, I'm not gonna lie.

That was pretty good, you know, first cookies.

Look, honestly, I might need to see the therapist whatever happened to me in third grade, but uh, apology accepted.

Look on the tradition, no more weaponized session otherwise than I will be saying bye bye bye.

So second date it is

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