Episode Transcript
Well, it's lip service.
I'm Angela Yee, I'm Gg Maguire.
Speaker 2Jeordie, or I'm Larca Pippen.
Speaker 1You know what it is, Larca Pippen.
Speaker 2I definitely know what time it is.
Speaker 1First of all, thank you for coming in here and admiring these Chanel couches.
Speaker 2I mean they look so vintage and one of the kind.
Speaker 1And you know what it is now with the tariffs, you can't get stuff like this, so if you want to, it has to be secondhand.
We may sell them, so you guys look out for that vintage, a vintage Chanel.
Speaker 2And it's super comfortable, authentic.
Speaker 1Sup.
Well, welcome to the show, and of course congratulations.
We were talking about your tequila that just launched recently.
Speaker 2Yeah, I'm super excited.
Speaker 1How do you say?
Speaker 3Alohu a luho aluho alo luho alujo okay aluho.
Speaker 1And so talk to me about this venture because we're tequila drinkers in here, I'll send you some.
Is it only an yeho?
Yes?
Okay?
Speaker 2So our first, our first bottle, So yeah.
Speaker 1You start at the top.
I mean, I like, I.
Speaker 2Like premium things.
Speaker 1Yeah, and the bottle is amazing.
Y'all gotta look this up.
So even you were just getting into this space because I know it's not an easy space to get into.
Tell me how that happened.
Speaker 2So ten years ago, my dad's an entrepreneur.
My dad has different businesses.
He called me ten years ago and he was like, let's do a tequila.
One of my business partners has the distillery he owns in Mexico.
And ten years ago, I really wasn't ready for it.
Speaker 1Like I have young kids.
Speaker 2I didn't have time.
And my dad was like, we can go to Mexico on Thursday.
I'm like, it's time.
Speaker 1Yeah, I don't have time.
Speaker 2And so fast forward years later.
Three years ago, I decided I wanted to do a tequila and so I got together with a couple of my friends, Adam Whitesman, one of them who is a New Yorker.
Speaker 1Do you know Adam Whitesman, Yeah, I know who that is.
Speaker 2And so we decided to do a tequila.
Speaker 1We got to see couches.
He didn't kid it.
Speaker 2So we talked about doing a tequila and we wanted to do something that was different.
There was ultra premium, you know, just unique in every way.
We hired like the biggest designers to do the bottle.
Speaker 1It's artwork.
Speaker 2Yeah, it's really pretty, it's really special.
Speaker 1It's like something you give as a gift and you can't throw the bottle of the way it feels No, it's beautiful.
But speaking of gifts, Joordie, I know you have a gift that we're giving away.
Yes, we're finally giving our way our trip, y'all.
We have a winner.
Speaker 3And basically what we were doing was we had a sponsor.
Her name's chlobe Love.
She's one of my best friends, and she is giving.
Speaker 1Away a vacation.
Speaker 3Yes, there's a list of really fun places that our winner can go.
Speaker 1It's up to her.
Speaker 3And she's been tagging us every day for the last couple minutes.
Speaker 1She's committed that though every single day I was like, I thought it was somebody who worked here she was tagging.
She clocked in.
She was clocked in.
Speaker 3And her name is Renee Ken.
Yes, her instagram is m Z Underscore cloud nine.
So Miss cloud nine is about to be flying in the clouds to her new vacation.
Speaker 4I wonder who she's gonna I wonder where she's going to go.
Me too, It better be somewhere.
Speaker 1But anyway, she's finding out now as where this episode comes out, so she doesn't even know yet.
So now, congratulations.
It's nice to be able to do nice things for people.
Speaker 2It's so nice.
Speaker 1If you had to pick a place to go on vacation, what would be your first pick right now?
Speaker 2Like July, like June July?
Yeah, probably south of France.
Speaker 1Okay, periods and of course we would be remiss not to say we saw you recently on Watch What Happens Live new Man and the audience and in front.
Well seven months right, yeah, so it's seven months still considered new No, it depends.
Speaker 2Yeah, I think it depends if the person stays with you every day and you kind of like spend a lot of time together, then no.
But if they live in a different state, then I agree.
Speaker 1You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2It depends how much time you spend with them.
Speaker 1Right, Okay, so you guys are together every day though, so it's a consistent seven months, so doesn't.
Speaker 2I'm not used to having relationships where they're like a little bit in a little like I'm not good like that.
I meanither like we're together, We're just not.
Speaker 1You are definitely like the I'm not just like casually dating.
It feels like you're like, what are we doing?
Speaker 2Yeah, but I like to know that beforehand, Like I'm not just trying to date you to like just.
Speaker 1Because so you don't have like a talking phase.
Speaker 2No, I definitely have a talking phase, but I'm saying I need to know like where your mind is that, Like, are you the kind that wants to get serious?
Are you not?
Because I feel like when I was, like I was divorced for like six years and I dated different guys, and I feel like I would talk to guys just as friends and they'd be like, I never want to commit to being married.
I never want to commit.
I'm like, well, you're talking to the wrong one right, Like it's not for me.
I'm not just going to sit here and play house with you and like have you come over like for what.
Speaker 1I always think it's weird when guys say that because they also don't know.
I remember I dated a guy and in the beginning he told me like, I don't want to be in a serious relationship, but you don't really know that because then you can start dating somebody.
And then he tried to like lock it down and I was like, no, you didn't want to be in a saving sight.
Yeah, and I wasn't taking you that seriously.
So I also feel like you probably said that because he was confused.
He sounds confused from day Well.
Speaker 4He probably said that because he didn't want to stop sucking his baby mama or whoever else he was already.
Speaker 1Having sex with.
Speaker 4Well, he didn't have any kids or anything, whoever else he was doing it.
But I'm also okay, but you didn't want to stop doing it to her to commit you.
That's why they say I don't want.
Speaker 1To use accountability.
Speaker 3Yeah, you know, it's like a safety net of saying like, if something goes left, they don't have to be responsible for it, right.
Speaker 2Yeah.
Speaker 1But also, Larsa, it feels like you managed to get guys that want to be like all the way in.
Speaker 2I'm my girl.
Speaker 1I'm just kidding.
I'm listen.
I mean, I'm just kidding, because you know how hard it is to get a guy to do the things that Larsa will get a man to just be like, I don't know, it's because sometimes guys feel like I'm not going to get like your man.
Jeff Kobe, right sitting in the front of watch what Happens Live, like like very involved in what you have going on.
Yeah, you know, and I know previously dated Marcus, he was there like involved.
I remember Mana was like he's holding the purse like he's doing And some guys won't do all that.
No, but seriously, like they're not.
They're like call me when you're done, right.
Speaker 2But I feel like you have to also know your worth, you know what I'm saying.
I feel like women need to like have standards for themselves and then guys have standards for you.
But if you don't, then guys are just you know, it's just to happen and they're just creatures of nature.
If you don't show them how to act towards you, they're not going to treat you like that.
They're just going to think you're one of many.
Speaker 3How do you like give us a scenario because we're struggling out here.
Date dot com Okay, first of all, the fact that you've got date dot com is crazy.
Speaker 1It's crazy to get that, to get that website, Like, do you have webinars on there?
Because that's what we need.
Speaker 2Yeah, we got it all.
Speaker 1Okay.
Speaker 2You know what else is really cool?
About date dot Com because when I was single, my girlfriends and I were trying to go on dating sites.
We're like, which one should we go on?
And I was like, if I meet a guy, I can't give them my number, Like I don't want to talk to a guy like when you're first getting to know them.
So everything that I found that was wrong in other dating apps.
I like perfected, so you can they FaceTime video call from date dot com.
You can mass text.
If you're like five guys, you can text them all and be like, hey, what are you doing this weekend?
Speaker 1That's hilarious.
You could know.
Speaker 2And then there's no catfishing.
So instead of guys being able to upload a photo that looks nothing like them, you have to take it from the actual app.
Speaker 1Oh you got to take the photo from all okay, so you have to take the picture so you can't catfish.
Speaker 2We don't have your personal information, we don't have your credit card.
Everything goes through the app store.
It's like very safe, secure, and you know what's hard dating.
I feel like when you meet someone, I want to talk to you on the phone.
I want to see your face, but I don't necessarily want to give you all my information.
Speaker 1Right, So yeah, I mean it's also a struggle to figure out how much information do you give in the beginning?
Yeah, because some people are like, well, what do they need to know?
Like do they need to know your history?
Where you ever married?
Do you even reveal?
Like do you ask somebody like do you have kids?
Right away?
Like what are the things that you think you need to know?
When you initially, like say the first time you're talking to somebody, I feel like you just.
Speaker 2Know from their vibe, just kind of go by the conversation, like where did you go to school?
Speaker 1Where do you live?
Speaker 2Where does your family live?
Like I feel like for me, I think what I mostly gravitate towards people that come from like a close knit family like that to me is very important, you know what I mean.
I don't care like what circumstances you have.
I don't like I always feel like if you're close to your family, then it's like a good thing.
Speaker 1You know what if they have a record, like they've been in jail.
Speaker 2Let people make bad decisions, Okay, good, see I love that, so good people make bad decisions.
But I just feel like sometimes you're like, you know, your problems are like your surroundings, and if you hang out with people that are troublesome, you're going to if someone's like, hey, let's go do this, and you're just trying to be friends with your friends and getting yourself in trouble, then that doesn't really mean you're a bad person.
Speaker 1You just made a bad decision.
And we've all made bad decisions.
Some of us just ain't got caught right right right.
I was thinking about that too, because it's definitely things when I was younger I could have went to jail for.
And trust me, I think we didn't have in the nineties.
Ce She's like, I actually did go to jail.
I did, right, That's what I'm saying.
You could be a party, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2Sometimes good people make bad decisions, and that's not you know, Okay, I don't feel like that's a that's a deal breaker for me, you know, and you know what, you know what, it's a deal breaker for me.
Speaker 1I feel like I could never.
Speaker 2And I don't know, you tell me if this is right or wrong, but I could never if I start talking to a guy and he's bashing his baby mom or his ex wife first girl, I could never be with a guy like that, I instantly get turned off.
I'm like, oh, heck, no, no, thank you.
Speaker 4Nothing's his fault for me.
As fathers who aren't present in their kids' lives.
Yeah, like you spend way more time with me or trying to be with me.
Then I see you trying to be with your children.
That's a huge reflact for me.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 2You know what's interesting, I dated a guy that had a couple of kids, and it's weird because I have kids, but I feel like I'm not one to date guys with kids because I feel like women know how to navigate when we have kids and men just don't.
That's interesting, I promise you, Like I can like do it all.
I can handle work, kids, everything, But I feel like when I dated this one guy that had kids, it just was like he just didn't know how to know navigate like his personal life, his work, and his kids.
Speaker 1So Jeff doesn't have any kids?
No, okay, And is that a conversation too, because then also like, since he doesn't have any what are his thoughts about that?
Speaker 2I mean, we've talked about it.
So I did this thing like maybe eight years ago when I was shooting the Kardashians where we froze our eggs.
Speaker 1Okay, So I think I have like eight or level, so you're open to that.
Speaker 2I think.
So I feel like I'm a really good mom.
Speaker 1I feel like you guys are so fire too, like and just with like how connected you guys are with each other.
Yeah, you know they close.
Speaker 2Yeah, we're like, I'm obsessed with my kids, Like I do everything with my kids.
Speaker 1It's funny because it has to be hard for them to to have like you as their mom.
Yeah, because you're famous.
Speaker 2I feel like it's harder for Scotty that's in the NBA.
The other ones are okay, but like Scotty being in the NBA, Like, you know, if I say crazy things on TV, he's like, oh my.
Speaker 1God, did you have to say that?
He's in the lock room.
H what are you saying?
What are you doing?
Speaker 2I'm like, oh, I didn't.
Speaker 1Mean it, like it came off like you're used to me.
Yeah.
Well, okay, so date dot Com.
So Jordie Door, you definitely I think could be a good candidate too.
Yeah, I need help.
It's hard out here.
Speaker 2You know what it is you have to swim in the right water.
That's a good point, because if you're in the wrong water, you can be amazing, but you're not gonna You're not gonna that is.
Speaker 1I almost feel like that's in another country at this point, I feel.
Speaker 2Like, you know what's interesting Now that I'm dating Jeff and all of his friends are like Ivy League guys, I just feel like it's a whole nother world out there.
I'm like, this is Harvard, this is Stanford, this is penns Down.
I'm like, this is an amazing place to be.
Speaker 1Where did you guys meet?
Speaker 2So we both used to go to the same gym.
The owner of the gym had his tenure anniversary, and it was like at this place called Zz's in Miami, it's like a private membership.
Speaker 1We have that here too, exactly.
Speaker 2And so we went and we met there.
Speaker 1See, go to the gym is the moral of the story.
Go to the right Jeff, you know so funny.
One of my homeboys put on his social on his stories.
He was like, this is a woman at the gym and I really want to like talk to her, but I don't know how I should approach her.
WHOA how do you approach?
Speaker 3Like?
Speaker 1What would you want?
What if I.
Yeah, he wants to talk to somebody that he sees at the gym, he should bump into her, like basically, yeah, yeah, he should.
Speaker 2You've done that before.
I've done that before when I was like younger, Like if I was like if I was like nineteen so cy.
Speaker 1And I was.
Speaker 2I was at a club and there was like a cute bouncer, remember, like running into and be like, oh my god, I'm sorry, and then they start talking to you and then okay, but and then that organs on distress.
Speaker 1Does that work?
If a guy bumps you, right, he can pump inch you, but.
Speaker 2Like hug you softly and like touch you, and then you're.
Speaker 1Like, WHOA, well, I don't know what.
Not really cute, it doesn't matter.
He can't do well that now that's weird.
Really would be bumps into you?
Speaker 2And no, it depends.
If he's really cute and you like him, you don't want to hug him too.
Speaker 1You've fallen on him.
So how all right?
So how did Jeff approach you?
Speaker 2We were just in the same corner and his cousin, I know his cousin.
His cousin was offering us shots and he was standing behind me and he passed him the shot and I just turned around.
He was walking behind me.
Speaker 1He was like God, was like, oh yeah, tequila.
Tequila.
So then what happened?
Like did he ask me?
You know?
Speaker 2So we just hung out all night and then my friends wanted to go to this dinner party and I said I have to go, and he's like, I'm going with you.
Speaker 1Well, damn, see what I mean?
How you get people to do that?
Very bad?
He's even talking about marriage already and it's been seven months.
Jokes and that.
Guys don't just joke about that, you know what.
Speaker 2I think I just do that to guys because my mom got married in a week and my parents were still married.
And I feel like I when I was dating Scotty, we were engaged for three months.
We were dating for three months and got engaged and got married.
You were so young too, Yeah, And I feel like I just come off like that.
I'm like, I'm not messing around, Like what are we doing?
Speaker 1She?
How are you sure about them?
Speaker 2I mean, I had a great relationship with my celphone for twenty years.
It was pretty six was twenty years to restart kids.
Yeah, yeah, and we're great friends.
Like I love him he loves me, do anything for me, do anything for me.
I really haven't been sure up until now, to be honest with Like, you know, I dated a little, you know, a few guys here and there.
But you know, when you're married for a long time, you're not necessarily looking to like being another relationship.
So you're trying to figure out where you are, where your mind is, like you know, it's like different, like.
Speaker 1And has some fun too.
Imagine being married all that time and now you're like the rest back into the world, like here have some fun.
Speaker 2I know, No, life is good.
Life has been fun.
I feel like it's I think I did it the right way.
Like I got married super young, I had my kids right, and I was like I don't eggs right, and now it's like I'm only like having fun.
Speaker 1What about?
Okay, So your friends with Lisa, and you know clearly you guys have been like bumping hands, but you love each other, right, you guys have history, and you feel like in that situation that her person is not necessarily the right person for her.
Speaker 2I you know, honestly, it all stems from this, like I'm very loyal.
Okay, Okay, So if you're dating someone and you break up and you're my friend, And then the person is literally, you break up with your boyfriend.
He's bashing you publicly.
If you're cold with my enemy, you're not friends with me.
If you are cold with my enemy, then like you are not my friend.
And she keeps showing me she is not my friend.
She's following him on Instagram.
It was like, I was like, why would you follow him on Instagram?
You've never had one conversation with us man that didn't include me.
Speaker 1Oh wow?
Speaker 2And I was there for her when I tell you, I was there for her, Like she would call me at two o'clock in the morning crying, and I'm such a good loyal friend, like I'd always answer.
I'd be like, do you need me?
Are you good?
Speaker 1Like whatever.
Speaker 2I was like, I knew she was going through a really hard time and I was such a good friend to her.
And I'm like, I don't I'm stronger than that, Like I don't need someone to do that for me.
But it's like it'd be nice to know that your friend that you supported all those times could just be like, Hey, I love you, I'm sorry you're going through this, you know, let me unfollow him?
Speaker 1Because that's like whack, right.
I get that this is interesting because I so this guy.
I know, he introduced me to his wife because she moved to New York.
He was like, she don't know a lot of people here.
So I ended up really becoming friends with her.
I knew him like casually, but me and her actually started like hanging out.
Really liked her, and then he dogged her and he didn't like that.
I continued to you know what, it got awkward.
He never said nothing to me necessarily, he just started being like weird, like because I also felt bad.
They had kids together.
She moved here, she didn't have any friends, and she didn't do anything to him, but he dogged her out, and so I stayed out of it.
But I wasn't gonna like stop being friends with her, you.
Speaker 3Know what I'm saying, Yeah, no, but that's like you had your own relationship with Yeah, you're saying.
Speaker 1She doesn't even have her own release.
Speaker 2And they've never had one conversation that didn't include me.
They've never hung out, they've never done anything without me.
Speaker 1Do you think you and Liasta would be friends if it wasn't for the show.
Still, I don't know.
Speaker 2I don't know.
Speaker 1I feel like we're different because that it might also just be you guys are just friends for TV too.
Like No, I feel like, you know, we we travel, like we have similar circles in Mia.
Miami's kind of small, we go to the same places.
I feel like that is what it is.
But I don't know.
Speaker 2I just feel like when someone really really needed you and you were there for them, and then when the roles get reversed, and the one time that I need you to support me, you're like sitting here making it about you, you.
Speaker 1Know what I'm reasoning.
Yeah, she's in a situation.
Speaker 4Now.
Speaker 1I think she's in a situation.
Speaker 2She's with this guy, and I think it's him more so than her, you know, And so I feel like she's just like following like whatever he says, you know what I'm saying.
But it's just weird because like you got to know who your friends are.
I feel like in our world, like you got to know who your friends are, who's there for you and who's like.
Speaker 1There to go to war with you?
You know what I mean?
Speaker 2Things go belly up And I was up front for her, I testified in.
Speaker 1Court for her.
Speaker 2It's like bro like on court, I'm a real good friend.
Speaker 1Your friends.
She's the only one who's still like following yeah.
Speaker 2And making it like it's my fault from I'm insensitive for me even saying that, And I'm like, how am I?
Speaker 4Like?
Speaker 2Am I deliver?
I'm from Chicago, so I'm really nice to tell I'm not, you know what I'm saying.
Let him know, like I'm really nice until I'm not, and I'm just like I'm you know, when you're hurt, you just kind of go off.
I'm like, how are you my friend?
But yet, like it's so hard for you to do this one thing.
Speaker 1See, I was friends with Gig's ex, but I was friends with him first also, and then he got mad because I stay friends with you know.
Yeah, but that's you know what I think.
Speaker 2I think when someone's publicly bashing you, like, that's different.
Speaker 1Yeah, that is.
Speaker 2And it's like a person you just met a year ago.
It's not like it's like a ten year.
You've been around them for ten years, you traveled with them, you you know what I'm saying.
No, it's like you met this man all of five minutes ago, bro, Like he doesn't know who you are, right, you think you have, like friendship trauma.
Speaker 1I feel like you've been through some things where unfair it could be unfairly that like you've gotten the bad end of things.
Speaker 2I think whenever you're in a situation with someone that's more famous than you, whether it's my husband, whether it's whatever, whoever's the bigger fish will always win.
Speaker 1Okay that's fair to say.
Yes, that's fair to say.
Speaker 2So that's how it works.
And I come from a school of like, I don't need anybody.
I don't need anybody.
Speaker 1You think you have people in your corner that are for real in your corner though, Yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2I feel like I don't feel like I need to be friends with people to for like to be fake.
Speaker 1Yeah, exactly for the fake of it.
It's genuine.
Yeah, Like if I.
Speaker 2Don't have, like, I'm good, I need real friends.
I don't really care about the hocus pocus like, oh, we're like real friends on Instagram, Like that's not my goal in life.
Speaker 1That's a good space to be in there because sometimes like that's something you have to learn.
I feel like, yeah, until you get that lesson, you don't really know, you know what I mean, Like we have to go through some traumatic Like have we all had friendship traumas?
Absolutely?
You know.
Speaker 2It's really weird because I feel like I'm so forgiving that, Like I could go through almost anything with my friends and I'll almost forgive you because I feel like I'll understand your circumstances.
Speaker 1I always see things.
Speaker 2I always see people for like, Okay, you were going through this, Okay, this happened to you.
Like and maybe it's because like I'm the oldest of like five siblings, maybe because I've had four kids.
So I know if people go through things, and I have to see the good in you, like regardless to what you do in life.
I always see the good in people.
Okay, So and you're a cancer and I'm a cancer there.
Speaker 1You Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 2I feel like I'm more like that.
So I can't forgive my friends.
So if Lisa was to come back and be like, listen, I made a mistake.
I shouldn't have done that, then I'm gonna be like, it's fine, like you were going through things.
I get it.
Speaker 1Would you forgive Marcus?
Ever?
I don't.
I don't know.
Speaker 2I don't have anything against him.
Speaker 1Okay, that's nothin there's you know because he said he was publicly bashing you.
Speaker 2Yeah, you know what I feel like I when I leave a situation.
Honestly, I don't keep up with what you're doing.
I don't care what you do.
I'm in my own own vessel.
I'm doing my own thing.
God is blessing me and every which you know, way, shape or form I've ever dreamed of.
So I'm not worried about other people.
Speaker 1How is it for death if he had when he has to hear like you know, because I'm sure that's annoying to him that he has to because that was your first like super public marriage for sure relationships, So now he has to hear things like on watch what Happens Live?
You know, it can get a little messy when people are bringing up things.
But you know, with you and Marcus and he's there, how does he navigate that?
And have you guys had a conversation about, you know, anything that might make him uncomfortable?
Speaker 2You know, I think when you're dating someone that's mature and emotionally mature, it's a big difference.
You know what I'm saying.
He's very emotionally mature and like not phased by all the you know.
Speaker 1I know he wrote a book about meditating, right, so do you guys meditate and stuff he's been teaching me.
I knew it.
You know what.
Speaker 2He's very he's very calm, and he's very like he's always happy.
Speaker 1He wakes up every day so happy.
That's nice, that's amazing.
Yeah, how you wake up is really frames your day absolute because you could wake up and say I hate that, I gotta get up so early.
Here we go.
Or you could wake up and be like that morning, I got licen next to me.
Ready, just stay going, And that's like a whole different way.
You know how they say you wake up on the wrong side of the bed, But it's just how you look at life like a rite.
Today's another day to have some you know, amazing opportunities to get things right from yesterday.
Or you could look at it like, oh, I hate my job, I don't feel like going in.
Speaker 4And then you have a bad day, right and it's late traffic, you spill some coffee, like you just one thing after the next happens.
Speaker 1You know, you set the tone definitely.
Speaker 2But I also feel like you attract that too.
Speaker 1Yeah, that's a fact.
Misery loves come absolutely now has he met the kids yet?
Yeah?
And so what do they think?
They love them?
Okay, good, Yeah, they love them.
Speaker 2They think it's really nice.
Speaker 1You like twelve guys too.
I think it's what you're used to, you know, right, you know what I'm saying.
If you're imagine you with somebody, sure, that would be crazy.
I tried that before.
Didn't work.
I know you didn't date somebody short.
Speaker 2I did, not, like I'm sure, but I do did a short guy.
You know what I always used to do when I would date guys, because I would look at them next to me, like, and then I'd be like, this doesn't look right.
Speaker 1We gotta look right together.
Yeah, it doesn't like I don't know the short guys.
Boy, they got so mad one day on this show when we were talking about short guys.
Speaker 2But don't sleep on short guys.
Yeah, short guys have a lot to offer.
Listen, they have a lot to offer.
I'm saying, like, they're probably better boyfriends.
Why because I's not online.
Speaker 1Date dot com.
Speaker 2All the short guys are killing it.
No, but there's something about like you know, Shorter.
Speaker 1Said that statistically they have bigger penises.
Speaker 2Oh, there you go.
Stats don't lie is.
Speaker 1That Is that really a statistic?
It is for my research.
How's your relationships in?
How long has it been for you?
Speaker 4It'll be one year next month, okay, but we waited like eight months to make it like an official relationship because he lives in a different city.
Speaker 1It was long distance.
But we're thriving.
Oh good, Okay, not just surviving, but thriving.
Yeah, he's good.
We're in a very good space planning our one year anniversary.
Guess what we said we're gonna do.
What go back to the cameria.
Speaker 4Okay, We're gonna get a room there and just like go back to the rooftop and like where it all begins.
Speaker 1Because there we're definitely there.
I'm gonna be back again.
Yeah, it was.
It was a little party for show we are now.
So let's talk about this season because it's only been two episodes so far of Real Housewives of Miami and so we're getting like a little glimpse of how things are going to play out.
So how are you feeling about things?
Because I know, I feel like I was.
Speaker 2Really emotional this year, like just going through you know, like a breakup publicly.
I feel like it's hard, you know, especially when you care about the person you know and then just like hard and.
Speaker 1So what did you learn from that now to carry into something new?
Speaker 2I think, like you know, when you see signs, see them, you know what I'm saying.
I feel like sometimes I like I'm a fixer.
I like to fix people.
I like to fix things, and I always feel like I can make anyone feel good because that's like my personality.
But I feel like sometimes you just can't, you know what I'm saying.
Sometimes you have to like be like realistic, Like listen, you are not about to fix the situation.
Speaker 1Try though, right, you try?
Speaker 2I do try, and then I you know what happens though, Then when I leave, it gets really bad because you give them a taste of something that's so good, but they don't appreciate it, and then when you leave, they like spirally.
Speaker 1That breakup was crazy, you know.
It was also kind of like no one believes it because it would be a breakup and then you guys be spotted together again.
Speaker 2I know, I know.
It's like Lisa said, it was a fake breakup.
I'm like, who's having fake breakups?
I'm not doing that.
That's so weird.
Speaker 1Yeah, but that's also what does tend to happen in real life, Like you break up and then you miss the person, and then you're like, all right, let's give it another try.
Yeah, then you break up again, but you say no.
Speaker 2But I've never been in a relationship like that.
I feel like, when we break up, we're breaking up.
This is the only relationship that I ever had.
It was like three times, like we broke up, we got back together.
I was like trying to like buy into the idea of it being better, you know, like it could be better.
He's going to work on them, trying to it.
Yeah, and then finally like I was like, what am I doing, I'm Larsa.
Get the hell off this, right, am Larsa?
Like I'm Larsa.
I don't need this.
Speaker 1Like no, it's also sometimes had, like you said, in the public eye, because you don't want to like feel like it failed.
Speaker 2Yeah, you're trying for me, Like I worked hard for that relationship.
People were hitting on me from before, and they had all these stories that we were I knew him.
I'm like, I never knew these people, Like I never knew these.
Speaker 1Pe You've got a lot of flak for that, and so sometimes people are like I told you so, And when people do that, it makes you more.
Speaker 2I want to be like, right, you're stubborn as all trying to make it work.
Speaker 1But yeah, I.
Speaker 3Feel like you get that a lot too, of people kind of second guessing your truth or what you say.
I feel like a lot of even on traitors, when no one believes you about Dan and yes and no one clocked that.
And I feel like even from the press and certain things and with your relationships or even with your public friendships, people don't believe necessarily what you're saying.
But usually then it comes out that that was the truth, And so how do you navigate that?
Speaker 2I don't know.
I feel like, you know, the people that know me know that I'm like real and I don't really care about all the other people.
Speaker 1And then the truth always comes out any.
Speaker 2Yeah for not.
You know what I don't do is I don't like I don't handle things publicly.
I've told you this before.
I don't really like speak like I don't speak negative on people that are in my past, Like I don't do that.
Yeah, I'm saying I'm very like I'll take it to the grave, like I know where so many.
Speaker 1Bodies are buried.
Speaker 2I was fucking like beard them, you know.
Speaker 1But all certain things you've said, you know, people ask you questions like I remember an interview you did where you talked about how you briefly dated Tristan Thompson before Chloe, and I feel like that kind of like went under the radar a little bit.
But I'm in my head when I saw that, I was like, there's a lot more.
Speaker 2I just I just never like, I'm not like that, you know what I'm saying.
It's like, whatever the perception is, let it be.
Speaker 1It's that's that's another level of strength.
Yeah, yeah, I'm not some tough skin.
Speaker 2Yeah, I feel like there's no point, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1How many times do you start typing back a response to somebody on social media and then say, you know what, I gotta I'm not even going to do it, you know what?
Speaker 2I the other day like I feel like I really wanted to go off on some people I have some extra time, but then I'm like, who am I fighting with?
Personal not even relevant in my life, and then like, I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1I love you everything.
Speaker 2You know what's interesting people that talk negative about you?
If you ever hit them up back on DM and you're like, let me tell you what really happened.
And I talk to them, then they'll be like, thank you so much for clarifying that.
I knew you were amazing, Like they change your so.
Speaker 1You've done that.
Yeah, you know what's crazy?
Speaker 4As more recently, I started another show, Conversations on Down That TV, and I've been saying.
Speaker 1Some crazy shit because Gigi's crazy.
Speaker 4Everybody knows and I just really don't give a fuck, like I don't care, so and people tend to make their own scenario, Like if you say one sentence, they'll make up a whole scenario.
Like I said, I've dated the order guy when I was fifteen in high school or whatever, and they're like, oh, you were a victim.
He was raping you and like all of these things and where were your parents?
And at one point it's like I felt myself wanting to respond, but then I'm like, no, for what you know.
But I even thought about this one girl.
I even thought about DM and her and trying to like kind of not even really clear it up, but just give her the facts, because you're sitting here making all these assumptions and you really have no idea of what the facts were, like have been fifteen dating a twenty three year old.
But I was also a freshman in high school at thirteen, and I had my own job and I became a mom at seventeen, Like I was way more advanced than the.
Speaker 1Average twenty three year old should be.
No, No, And I'm not saying that, and I'm not saying.
Speaker 2That I get it an older guy.
Speaker 1Yeah, so much.
And I think you did it back then.
Speaker 4I was about to say, the time back then was different and we were in nineties kids, the last key kids that whole era.
Speaker 1You were one of those kids.
Speaker 4We were way more advanced than the fifteen year old's there and no way in shape of my saying that it was something that shit was morally riter should have been done.
Speaker 1But it was my life.
And I remember my friend's older brother liked me when I was in high school, and I felt like he he had like he used to drive us to school, and I felt like he was so old because I think I was like fifteen or sixteen.
He had a suit on.
How old was he he probably, I don't know, he was in his twenties.
Speaker 2Okay, Well, there's a big in his twenties.
He could have been twenty nine.
I don't know exactly how old he was.
Speaker 1It was her older brother and he gave me like a gift for Valentine's that I remember told this old man, you know, because I and I looked really young too.
Yeah, you see, like me at fifteen and sixty, I looked like I was like twelve, you know what I mean.
Yeah, so I thought that was girls.
But you said when you were sixteen you.
Speaker 2Dated like I liked older guys like eighteen.
Speaker 1You know.
Speaker 4I get that's still in school together at the same time nineteen and now you're like younger guys like it's weird and they like you.
Yeah, but the fact that you dm somebody before I really thought about doing it, but I didn't.
But I feel better knowing that you've done it before, because she felt like I was like these people driving me making me crazy like that, I want to just like, you got to be careful drink kids.
Speaker 2If you publicly, like go at them really hard and like they do something to themselves, they could come back and.
Speaker 1Say, guess what, that's why I just didn't.
Speaker 2You have to be very careful how you navigate, Like I just respond.
Speaker 4I just learned, and I've also learned from being on this podcast to just not even just let it.
Let them say what they want to say, let them come up with whatever scenario that makes them feel like they know what they know.
Speaker 1Like they it's almost like you don't know shit.
Speaker 2When people thought, like when me and my susan broke up, they're like, oh, she cheated on him.
I was like, I'm never like, I was like what mm hmm, you know what I'm saying?
Yeah, that was ever said nothing no negative about you.
No, he did, like this GQ interview and he was like, we were you know, we were broken up way before like I started dating other people.
Speaker 1He seemed mad, chill.
I've interviewed him once, like a long time ago when I was as serious, but he seemed like, you know, just a nice, chill person and clearly, like you said, it was a successful marriage, it lasted it.
You know, you guys had four beautiful kids together and still cordial with each other.
Yep.
When he's dating, do you meet anybody?
Has he ever like been like I want you to meet.
He's got a girlfriend okay, and she's nice.
Speaker 2I like her.
Speaker 1Okay, good.
Speaker 3See that's a good space to meet when you could be happy and be like, she's nice.
Speaker 1No, she's nice.
Speaker 2I'm super nice to her.
I feel like she's trow my kids.
I want him to be happy.
I don't want to cause any problems for him because then I feel like that'll go trickle down to my.
Speaker 1Kids, right, So I don't do that.
Would you guys like hang out you and her?
Or I like her?
I would hang out with her.
Speaker 2I mean she's nice.
Speaker 1Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 2Yeah.
Speaker 1You know it's interesting since we just talked about JG's boyfriend.
Her boyfriend is how old is he?
Twenty nine?
Twenty nine, so he's a lot and initially she didn't want to date him for that purpose.
Speaker 4She's like, my daughter is twenty eight, so they're like very close in age, almost approximately the same age.
And I just felt like I should not be dating somebody that's the same age as my kid.
But if I didn't have a kid when I was a kid, he wouldn't be the same age as my kid, right.
And for two, he's very mature, like he's very much not the average twenty nine year old, So that helps a lot too.
Speaker 2I dated a guy that was forty seven years old before I dated Jeff and he was so immature.
And when I broke up with him, I said to him, there's a reason why I dated you.
And he's like why And I was like, just to prove that age is nothing but a number.
I never did anyt wane Like you again.
Speaker 1You were a test and you failed.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Speaker 2I was like no, because he literally like, you know, I think some guys know what they want.
You just got to like know you know what I mean?
You have to be with someone that knows what they want.
Speaker 1Yeah, what did he do?
That was like so immature?
Like what is so?
Speaker 2He literally was like I never want to get married.
I'm afraid of commitment.
I just the things he would do and stuff.
And every time I would say stop calling me, then like you know who I am, stop calling me, And then he would like go crazy and buy me like thousands of dollars in flowers and send me all this stuff and send me bags and send me all this stuff.
Like every time I would like kind of be mean to him, try to push him away, he would try to like do more and like try to come back.
No one damn well, like he was dating someone like he's in like he's a public figure.
He was dating someone he like wasted her time.
I was like, bro, you wasted her time, had a kid with her, and didn't marry her.
So chances are that's just who you're going to be forever, right, let me keep it moving.
Speaker 1He liked the chase.
Speaker 2I think he liked the chase, but I also think like he just you know, he just didn't want to like step up away like a forty I was like forty seven years old, Like, you got to decide what you want.
What at forty seven years old, you don't know what you want?
You've got issues.
Speaker 1I feel that I wait about my ex write Some people just don't right.
They could be forty one.
In fact, your ex is older than you.
And he definitely was like not knowing no, which is why.
But I feel like you convinced yourself you didn't want to get married too at one point if it probably wasn't worth it, right.
But I also felt like maybe that's a protective thing where you're like, well, he's never gonna marry me.
I don't want to give anyway, you know, yeah cucket, yeah, because now you're now.
Speaker 4We are getting married, like we talk about it all the time.
We just was talking about it on the way here.
Speaker 1What Yeah, so there you go, like, I mean he hasn't proposed yet, but I know what's happening.
Speaker 2So yeah, you're in a good place.
Speaker 3Do you guys feel like there was ever a moment of having to have like a learning curve with dating younger guys where it was like, ooh, I'm not quite used to that and it was like an adjustment.
Speaker 2I mean I think no, because I was dating that forty seven year old man and he showed me that there was no adjustment, like.
Speaker 1You know what I thought that it would be, And no, it's not.
My boyfriend's younger than me too, and he acts like an old man, Yeah doesn't he does.
He has old man energy.
I'm like, because people be thinking he's older than me.
Yeah, he does have energy.
Yeah, he don't want to like he's not even like an outside type of person, very calm too well until something happens, he's you know, and I think like I'd be having it turned down because I don't want him like if somebody does something, I'll be having to make sure I stay calm because I don't want him to get mad.
Oh yeah, because when he gets mad.
It's like he goes.
Speaker 2Zero to one hundred.
Yeah, it's always the quiet ones.
Speaker 1Like that exactly.
So, but yeah, I think you know it's that because you're right.
I have dated older guys and they do a lot of them.
I think sometimes it's also where you grow up.
You know.
I do feel like people may hate me for saying this.
My boyfriend is from New York, but I feel like guys from New York, most of them can be a lot more immature to really.
Yes, yeah, because people in New York get married a lot later in life than people grinding.
Yeah, yeah, they're hustling.
Speaker 2Yeah, grinding, They're trying to figure it out.
Speaker 1You're trying to figure it out.
It's a lot of hustle.
And I think it's really hard to also feel like you're in a space where you have a house, you own this.
Things are so expensive to live here, and some people don't feel like they want to settle down until they have those things.
Speaker 2You know.
It's really interesting if you look at different cultures, like the Asian culture, everyone is married.
If you look at certain cultures and they're like socioeconomic, like, family life is so much better.
So if you're married, Like it's like dual income in one home.
It's just so much better for the environment too.
You spend lots of money on water.
Speaker 1Like I'm just saying, like, it's just like I'm doing my part to save the world.
Speaker 2I'm saying, it makes more sense to be married, you know what I'm saying it Culturally, I feel like Americans now, it's like nobody really wants to get married.
Speaker 1People are scared of divorce too, I think.
Speaker 3But I feel like people are scared of stepping up to the plate too.
And I think, you know, when you have all these talks about the male loneliness epidemic and all that stuff, It's like, to me, there's a lot lack of accountability in that because women as a whole have stepped up.
We're more educated, we're making more money, we're more independent, and I feel like we're looking for people to match that energy, and they don't even want to do that.
They want to stay where.
Oh it was enough when I was taking care of the household and that was enough.
It's like, no, we want you to be gentlemen, we want you to be a leader, we want you know what I mean, And we don't have that and so I don't know how we continue to invest in marriages and relationships when like, it's not an even partnership anymore.
Speaker 2I feel like, but that's how you have to swim in different water.
Speaker 1Yeah, I feel like you.
Yeah, I feel like she'd be a great girlfriend, a great wife.
I don't know what's going on out here.
Speaker 3It's hard.
And you know what's happened a lot lately is maybe two guys in a row have been on my body.
I mean calling me down seven times a day, texting me da da da da.
We will make a date the day, will call and I'm like, where's the where's the confirmation?
Like we said two o'clock.
Why is it twelve forty five?
And I haven't heard from you?
So I was like, you know what, let me give this person a benefit of doubt, and I texted him.
I was like, I'm not coming across town if I haven't heard from you.
Speaker 1Whatever.
Yeah, this man does not respond for four hours.
Speaker 2Oh god, did you block him after that?
Speaker 4Well?
Speaker 3I like seeing them gravel, so I didn't block him, but I haven't answered him since seventeen Text messages, tomb phone calls, dms every day, being like where are you?
Speaker 1Where?
Where are you?
Where are you?
And I'm like, you played with my time.
Speaker 2Well, he's just a time oyster.
Don't even invest in that.
Speaker 3And then that happened again.
The last time we were at lip service, I was supposed to go out to dinnerver someone.
Speaker 2Oh, different guy, different guy.
Speaker 3And he'd been chasing me down whatever his friends even knew about me.
Speaker 1And then I was like, yeah, I'm done.
Where are we going?
Crickets?
What this was last week?
This was so crazy to me.
Speaker 2You need to date a British guy.
Speaker 1He was British.
Ah, maybe I thought too skeptic.
Speaker 2Hello, because I feel like I see you with the British guy.
Speaker 1I feel I've been feeling that lately.
Speaker 2Yeah, you give me like you can be with the European guy.
Speaker 1I've been feeling that lately.
Sounds like we need a trip and win the trip.
We should.
Speaker 2You know.
It's interesting.
I feel like the girls that don't pay any mind to guys get all the guys right right.
It's weird because it's like, at the end of the day, it's really about the chase.
Men love to chase that and if you and nowadays, I feel like in twenty twenty five.
Girls make guys feel so special and like they're the prize, and so there's so many girls chasing that you're getting diluted.
You're diluting all of our stock.
Speaker 1You know, It's crazy because I've been so big, I'm always so busy.
People really do have to like, if you wanted to go out with me, you gotta find me.
You gotta make sime for me.
You have to be like, oh, what time, And especially like because when we first started talking, you know, it was I used to have to get up so early in the morning, so we weren't even talking yet, but he would like always ask me out, but I would be like, I'm sorry, I can't go to dinner at nine.
I have to get up at four o'clock in the morning.
It's not going to happen, and so I would never go.
And then when I started this new show, I could get up later now, and that's really when I was able to like, okay, have a little time to focus.
But I think guys do like when you're not available and you can't let them get away with stuff like you know, although I would love to hear what his reason was, which one the first guy like that well first, So the first guy was like, hold on, I'm actually gonna read the text because it made me laugh that he thought I was never gonna respond.
Okay, so he said he sent this, look at this currently, my bad.
Speaker 3I knocked out late, got an email half my company is getting laid off Monday.
Speaker 1So I was.
Speaker 3Stressed, okay to me if he had given me a real apology, and then said, I'm so sorry this has happened at work, saying my bad.
Speaker 1And this dof there a car accident.
Speaker 3You need to be deceaved for me to feel bad, like you should have been laid up in the hospitals, have the pictures with everything, because I would have responded, but you'll never hear from me again.
Speaker 1And then what about last week?
The guy from last week?
He just never even answered because we ended up going to dinner.
Speaker 3Yeah, probably his wife found out the next day he was going home to London.
So I don't know, I don't know, I don't know what happened.
I just thought it was mad, weird, he.
Speaker 2Trying to have fun here while he was here.
And then he writes home, right, you didn't want to go on that date anyhow.
Speaker 1So when he comes back.
Are you going to give him?
Yeah, he would have to go through a lot.
He would have to go through.
Speaker 2I feel like guys just said the precedence.
They know when they meet you what they want with you.
They determined what they want exactly.
Speaker 1When you break up, do you like delete all the text messages all or do you just let it you?
Speaker 2Do you give me that I delete you from my memory?
Speaker 1I delete you.
I'm like, I went to the oo with you.
I'm so removed.
Speaker 2Anytime someone leaves my life, I'm so removed and I feel great.
Speaker 1It's weird.
I wake up, I'll be like, damn, I feel better.
It's like a burden is gone.
Speaker 2Yeah.
Speaker 1I feel like that way about certain like friendships and things like that.
When you were friends with somebody and then it was just like, why is this friendship so hard?
It's too much drama?
And then yeah, I don't necessarily delete their stuff, but I will be like, you do wake up feeling and that's how you know it wasn't good for you.
If you wake up and you feel like refreshed, I'm deleting all that shit.
I feel like a lot of.
Speaker 2People are jealous.
You got to make sure you're on the right front.
Yeah, yeah, I could see that of women are jealous like other women.
Speaker 1And nobody wants to believe that too.
But it's just like people would tell me that about people and be like, yeah, you know, she seems like she's and I'm like, no, that's not true, because I never want to feel like anybody would be like that because you're not like that.
Speaker 4You have to accept that.
I found out that I had to accept that in about a year ago.
I ended a friendship with a girl that I was friends with for like eight years, and at the end of it, I'm like, everybody was right, you know, And I didn't want to feel like that because you don't.
Yeah, and I'm just like your friends.
Speaker 1I want to work for my friends and find out they're jealous.
Speaker 4And it's the single black female, the single white female, Like you want to be you one or the other.
Speaker 1And you know, when you really know, if you feel like you have to like not talk about your accomplishments and things like that because you don't want them to feel bad, you know, if you can't like share stuff like that, and.
Speaker 4You expect for your friends to be there and support of your congratulations and there's this.
Speaker 1One girl I used to go shopping, right, and so, like, say we went to the mall together or something, and I would be buying something.
She would be sending like, God, damn, you spend how much?
I'm like, since back up, I haven't the years?
Why is she over my shoulder looking at how much I spend?
You know what I mean?
Speaker 3And then I wished that she could spend when I had a girlfriend that literally I was dating this guy in LA and she would be like, Oh, he's not good enough, he's not cute, he's not this.
Speaker 1And I broke up.
Speaker 2Yeah, I broke up with him because she kept convincing me he was not cute.
Not two weeks later she was dating him.
Speaker 1Yep, she wanted him.
M hm.
Speaker 2So it's kind of yeah, it's kind of crazy.
Speaker 1That is wild.
All right.
Now, let's go back to this new relationship because it's his lip service.
So the first time you guys hung out, right, you were at the gym, and then you said you spent the whole day together.
No, we were at a party.
Oh okay, you met at the gym, but then went we met at gym.
Speaker 2Party, gym party.
It was a ten year University of Okay.
Speaker 4It was.
Speaker 1It's gym.
Speaker 2It's like a really it's like one of the best gyms in Miami where they trained like a lot of the NBA players, baseball player, like they trained all the pro athletes.
And so he had his ten year anniversary.
I went and met him, and then my friends wanted to leave and go to this other dinner and I was like, I have to leave, and then they with you.
He's like, I'm leaving with you.
So he left with me, and then we just kind of had a night like we just went to all these different places, and then he wrote me the next day and sent me an itinerary of what we were going to do the next day.
Oh, and then he sent me flowers.
Speaker 1He was not playing.
I had a schedule.
Oh.
He you know.
Speaker 2It's funny because I said, I want to go back and read the text messages between us and he sent me because I was like, we have such a long thread.
He found it, like all the messages and it was like so cute from day one.
And he sent me this like itinerary, like I'm picking you up at seven thirty.
We're going to get drinks here, We're going to this piano bar.
We have dinner reservations here, and he had like a whole night planned for us, and it was like the next night.
Speaker 1I love it.
And it wasn't like where do you want to go?
Speaker 3Right?
Speaker 1Had the itinerary when.
Speaker 2He had these flowers and the cards said something like you know, like it was like so beautiful, like getting to meet you.
You're a very special person and like all this stuff.
Speaker 1That's amazing, Yeah, because it also has to be a little intimidating to talk to you for the average you know, for the average person.
But he was so on it and kind did he so he didn't have any thing going on in his life that he had to clear out either, like girl situation.
Speaker 2Yeah, I don't normally when I meet guys, they kind of drop on my own.
Speaker 1I don't know, you gotta go, you gotta go rest in peace.
Speaker 2I don't know.
Speaker 1I don't know.
Speaker 2I kind of you're supposed to give somebody like a little bit of time drop off like the little fly ons.
Speaker 1Do you want to know those things?
Like do you would you want him to be?
Speaker 2Like no, we we were like so open from day one because like we would talk about stuff.
So like the first night we met, like I was in another guy's car and he got in my car with the driver.
And then the night the first night we met, we ended up going to this restaurant called Giselle and he said he dated the girl that worked there.
Oh wow, so we already like it was like from the very beginning, I was like, by the way, the security that's not really mine, that's this guy.
Speaker 1That's a great foundation though, to like from the beginning, just kind of lay it out there, because.
Speaker 4We have to realize that life doesn't start when you meet somebody.
We are always say you have somebody in everybody has somebody in some capacity.
Speaker 1Rather it's a talking stage.
Speaker 4Rather it's an x that you're still lingering on with, whether it's dick in the box, you know, breaking case in versity, no matter the case, Like, we always just have somebody that we're just that is present.
So it's like, when you meet somebody, you do have to take the time to Okay, if I'm going to move forward with this person, I need to end these things.
And it's like for him to be so open and you guys both to be able to be so open from the gate like that, Yeah, that's beautiful.
Because people feel like they have to hide, you know, and it's just like, you had a life before you met me.
Your life didn't begin with me.
There was somebody before me in some type of capacity, and that's fine.
I don't feel like that's something that you should have to hide or like, you know.
Speaker 1Yeah, did you guys cass on that first the first night?
Yeah, it's like, yeah, that's all right.
And he was fun.
Speaker 2He was like very normal, fun, nice, Like you know what's really weird.
I feel like when you meet someone that you actually like, the way they touch you makes you feel good, right, unic stopt and you could be with someone that offers you the world and if they touch you, you want a crint.
Speaker 1You're like discussing me.
Speaker 2Yeah, so I feel like he always had that, like when you would touch my arm, I was like the chemistry.
Speaker 1Yeah, it was like chemistry.
Speaker 2It was good from like the day one.
Speaker 1Have you ever tried to make something work with somebody that you felt like was good on paper?
Speaker 2Yeah, the forty seven year old was great on paper.
Yes, it was like he's an NBA coach, like it would have been great, Like, you know, it's both of our worlds and sheh and it just was not what I thought I was gonna be.
Speaker 1Yeah, that's unfortunate.
Yeah, because people would think, like, Okay, that's the NBA coach, he's got a good career, you know, in a space that like you know a lot about that space too.
He could have been on the show.
Speaker 2Oh No, we literally, like I feel like our conversations were about like his games and like you know, it's like that kind of conversation, Like I feel like I thrive in that community.
Speaker 1Right, somebody you know what I'm saying, somebody that he could relate to.
Yeah, and I like, like I watched I love watching basketball, but he was Peter Pan and he never want to us.
Yeah, were you ever asked to be on The Basket Wives?
Speaker 2Yeah?
The problem with that show is I talk a lot of ship and I'm sure to get into physical fights.
You Like, I'm not that's not me, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1But I'm not.
Speaker 2No, but I'm saying I do talk like I'd be like, well you did say it, and then like you know those girls like they like to flip tables and all that on my show, we don't really feel.
Speaker 1I think I'm trying to think how has this season been what a basketball?
Yeah, it's the beginning.
It was in Miami, wasn't it.
Yeah, that's where it started starting in Miami.
I feel like I might have been around for a scene or two.
Oh yeah, I'm sorry.
And she looks good.
I just she still look in a movie recently, she's been acting.
What about you?
With acting?
Speaker 2Oh my god?
They just keep they keep sending me these lines.
So NBC calls me and they're like, hey, do you want to be on this piece cock show?
And I was like, send me the lines, and they sent me the lines.
Girl, I can't memory.
It's nothing.
Speaker 1I'm so bad.
Speaker 2And I was on for a week and then I called like my NBC person and I was like, I don't think I can.
Speaker 1Do this type of character.
Is it?
Speaker 2It was like a normal It was like a normal role, Like I should have been able to do it right, But I like had myself on ten.
I was dressed out, and then I wanted to cancel, and then finally I didn't.
Speaker 1I was so bad.
Speaker 2Then a week ago, I get another opportunity to do a movie with Kevin Hart and it was like a kissing scene.
So I screenshot and I sent it to Jeff and I was like, what do you think of this?
And Jeff's like yeah, right.
So then I was like, no more, I care more about my relationship making him feel good than I do about some role because you know, I'm not going I'm not Anne Hathaway.
I'm not going to be like Denzel anytime soon.
So why am I going to invest in that when I have like a really good situation with him?
Speaker 1So with the meditation, you said, he's been kind of teaching you about that and here.
Speaker 2Are journals and like he's really smart, like he I feel like maybe because he's like his family's really smart too.
Dad's an engineers that as a tech company.
Speaker 1Oh that's amazing.
Yeah, it's a whole different like yeah type of space for you to be into.
Speaker 2No, he's like very analytical.
Speaker 1See that's what we all need relationships that kind of compliment us, but that we could learn things from He can learn things from you and you can learn things from him.
But he also plays basketball, right or he did?
Speaker 2Yeah he did play years.
Speaker 1Okay, he played seven years overseas and now he's in this other space because I saw he's done interviews and everything about his book and about meditation and all of that.
So when it comes to is that different, Like I know, in the bedroom, tanti sex is a real thing.
Speaker 2Like I'm not talking about more sex scenes.
I'm just saying, like I feel like they ask me about this all the time.
I'm like, I can't talk about this.
Speaker 1But you know, sometimes it's not actually sex, it's more like a connection.
And yeah, well I.
Speaker 2Don't know what you call it, but I do it, and I.
Speaker 1Do it well.
I just wonder as we're getting older, how to like what are there new things to learn when it comes to the bedroom.
You know, chandeliers, No, do you do a split mid air?
I can't do a split even on the floor.
Speaker 2You got to learn how to do that.
I'm just kidding, kidding, I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1But I do think that different people unlock different things in you.
Yeah, for sure, absolutely, you know, like us, when I sleep, like I can cuddle all night sleeping, I've never really been like that before.
Speaker 2You know what's interesting.
I feel like when I was in other relationships, I could never sleep with guys.
I just couldn't sleep.
I would be like had I gotta go home or you gotta leave, or like I could never sleep and with Jeff, I sleep like a log.
Yeah, it's just like I'm really comfortable.
Speaker 1They said, if you fall asleep fast, but the person you're with, that's like a real chemistry thing, Like if you okay, do.
Speaker 2You want to hear what happened to us on our way coming here?
You guys, we flew commercial and our first light we got on, we were both so tired, was like us seven am flight.
We fall asleep, and then the flight attendant says, hey, you guys have to get off the plane and we're switching planes because there was a problem, mechanical problem with the plane.
We're thinking we landed, we get up.
I'm like, even take off yet, No, we ain't even took off.
Speaker 1Then we get off.
Speaker 2We a girl recognizes me as we're like walking off, She's.
Speaker 1Like, I love Housewives.
Speaker 2I'm like, oh, thinks we go sit on the chairs.
We fall asleep, almost missed our flight.
The girl that watched Housewives came over and touched us and she was like, don't miss.
Speaker 1Yeah, I thank God for God.
Speaker 2Can you imagine if I had to call like bra and be like me and my man fell asleep in here again.
So the moral of the story is where we sleep together?
Speaker 1Well, yeah, together at the airport.
So you guys, do you live together now?
Speaker 2We stayed and he stays with me along.
Speaker 1Okay, Yeah, you know I was watching what show was it?
Maybe it was Real Housewives where it was no, no, no, it was Married to Medicine where they had to figure out who was going to move into whose house?
Because that's awesome a thing, right, because like, sometimes men don't want to move into your house, but you might love your house and be like, you know.
Speaker 2I think Whoever's house is the biggest, that's where you go.
Speaker 1We got to do a square footage.
Speaker 2Yeah, Whoever's house is biggest, that's where you go.
Speaker 1But you wouldn't want to give up your house either.
I would.
You would if you If.
Speaker 2You're gonna buy me a twenty million dollar house, I'm going.
Speaker 1And that's why they love hate if not that we can live in my house.
Well, I love the fact that you have so much going on just outside of being on television.
That's a great way to amplify your businesses.
I'm glad that the tequila has launched because I know they was talking about you on the show.
I can't wait to.
Speaker 2Try you you know, it's funny the people that talk the most or people that have nothing going on.
Speaker 1Ex Clockett.
Speaker 2I'm like, I'm so booked and busy and.
Speaker 4I don't have time to talk about anybody else, right, I'm trying to figure my own shit out, right.
Speaker 2Like YouTube looking cute, you're good, Like I'm like, I'm good.
Speaker 1And then date dot com right now, everybody can go date dot com.
KMA, right, we're gonna get you.
So y'all heard it because Jordan is gonna be on there.
So anybody who's listening if you want to date, but you already heard the rules, do not waste their time, all right, And anything else that we need to know about.
Speaker 2No, I feel like that's it.
I think we talked about my large slight mm hmm, my tequila, Lujo day dot com.
Okay, yeah, all good things.
It's all good, positive things.
Speaker 1Well.
Speaker 4I started watching the new season because I am an avid Housewives the entire franchise.
Speaker 1I don't miss a beat.
Speaker 4And I just started watching the new season and I'm so excited to see how everything plays out because the first I done got through the first episode so far, but it got me.
I'm ready for more.
So I can't wait to see how like everything happens.
And I just want to say that I'm happy for you and your relationship, and you know, I just want to hear more good things about it.
Speaker 1I'm watching.
He seems like a really nice guy from what we know, so no, he really is.
So he'll be on this, you know.
Speaker 2When I say him all the time, I'm like, you know, if if you weren't my boyfriend, I would still want to be like I like like you as a person, Like.
Speaker 3I really like him as a person.
I like you as a human being.
Yeah, like I really a good feeling, right.
Speaker 2Yeah, he's just like he's a great person, Like I don't you know the things he likes.
Like the other day I called him and he was at his parents' house.
He was like, oh, I'm teaching Cora multiplication, like he was teaching his niece multiplication.
Speaker 1Because kids don't know that no more.
I was like, I love that, right.
They don't know cursive, they don't know how to do long division.
They don't you think you would write your book too, girl?
Speaker 2If I wrote a book, I would take out I would take out lives.
What book am I writing?
Speaker 1I don't know your memoir.
You could change the names, no.
Speaker 2Because I feel like I don't really like to put my business out there like that.
Speaker 1It could be like a Devilwares proud of type of book that's based on real things the characters.
Speaker 2I feel like, yeah, right now, I don't know.
I feel like it's like people judge you for you know what I'm saying, your.
Speaker 1Stuff, okay, And I don't know.
Speaker 2I feel like I could judge enough.
Speaker 1I'm good, Okay, I'm just saying I lasted pipp and book I would read that.
We all would bestseller for sure.
Speaker 2I mean maybe one day you guys can help me write it.
Speaker 1You can help me write it.
Yeah, no, listen, I'm telling you right now because I was just thinking he has his memoir out.
But I also feel like as much as you might think that people would judge you, people can also relate to you in certain ways and also hear your side of the story when it comes to certain things, and why not put it in a book and profit orpital like tell the truth and if it's not true, somebody would have to try to see you, but they can't.
Speaker 2If it's true, trust me, I only speak the truth.
Speaker 1So my God she's the vault.
We appreciate that well, thank you so much.
Last, so we always love having you know around.
Yeah, you're a good time.
So are you.
Guys.
Speaker 2I love meeting you.
I love meeting you.
Guys are adorable.
Speaker 1It's lip service.