Episode Transcript
All right, it's double the fun on your Saturday.
Hey, welcome to Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
This is your Second Date podcast.
And yes, last week we discussed like why Saturdays our Saturday podcast episode is so popular, Like what people love about hearing two classics back to back?
Yeah, and man, did you turn out in the comment section?
Speaker 2I love it.
Yeah.
Speaker 3One person said, you know, I need to clean my house, so I must hear longer podcasts so I clean more.
Somebody else that I work as a cabin crew and I listen to you guys while I commute to work or get ready in the morning.
Speaker 2Cool.
I listened to on my way to work.
Speaker 3It takes me ninety minutes to get there, and these take up part of the time.
Speaker 1I mean, that's one reason we do morning radio, so we get here really early.
Speaker 2And one of the great benefits is no traffic.
Speaker 4Yeah, very true.
Speaker 1I always tell people, if you could switch your shift to five or six am, start traffic, do it.
So thank you, thank you so much for being here.
We appreciate it, and we're just gonna get it started.
Two back to back second dates right now.
Speaker 4I can guarantee after today you will never look could people's dating profiles the same ever again really, and it's all because of two little letters that apparently some people sneak in there, and it indicates a very specific type of thing that they're into.
One of our listeners says, she's into it, and it's way more common than any of us thought.
You'll find out what those two little letters are, and more importantly, what they mean.
It's probably gonna shock you in your second date update.
Right after this second date updated, we talk a lot about do women have a specific type?
Speaker 1Well, I mean every woman has a different type.
Speaker 4But I think the answer is yes.
Alexis only likes to date pro athletes.
Brooke prefers men who share her same values and same last name, and she wants that familial vibe.
Our listener today, though, Beth says, he has a very specific type of guy that she dates, no exceptions, and it's clingy el Salvadorian comedians who are afraid of heights.
So Jose, this could be it for you.
Speaker 5Can we run into each other's arms but not jump too hot.
Speaker 2This year?
Speaker 5Beth, Hey, welcome to the show.
Speaker 6Hi.
Speaker 4So yeah, I know I'm joking about the comedian stuff, but tell us you have a very specific type.
Speaker 5You said in your email, what's your type?
Speaker 6Well, I only date guys who want to be financially dominated.
Speaker 4What financially dominated?
Speaker 5Independent?
Speaker 6No, it's a niche thing.
It's called sindom like financial domination.
Speaker 4Where are Yeah?
Speaker 2So wait, you will date poor guys?
Is that what you're saying?
Speaker 6Yeah, well explain now, it's actually the opposite.
So there are certain successful men who find it very thrilling to give a woman complete access to their bank account.
Speaker 1Because you don't know, I thought this was like an independent woman thing like you were saying that.
Speaker 4I mean it is, this is it is?
Speaker 2Okay?
Speaker 1Okay, wait you only date God, how do you find these guys?
Speaker 3People you actually like?
Speaker 4Not really you're married, like.
Speaker 2Like a tab on?
Speaker 4Wells, Yeah, this is kind of blowing all of our minds.
Can you explain a little bit more about how this works.
Speaker 6So there are specific sites and then specific ways that guys indicated on the profile they'll put like FD and then you know they're into findom.
Speaker 7And okay, yeah, and I actually like the people I'm dating, like I actually want to date them, like we actually hopefully lead to a relationship.
Speaker 4So wait, wait, wait, can I still need more information, like, how do you get access to all of their finances?
How does that work?
Speaker 8Well?
Speaker 6It depends, right, You know, you might go on a date and they could give you a password or pin, and then, as the woman behind the scene, I would take out as much money as I want and I'm not screwing them over.
We're consensually playing a game.
Okay, yeah, regular just like regular domination.
Like they might like some pain.
This is a form of pain, right.
Speaker 4But obviously you don't want to deplete their entire bank account because otherwise you can't continue to date them if they're totally broke and they have.
Speaker 2Exactly much money to do this.
Speaker 1I'm sure they have multiple different accounts.
Speaker 4So there's guys who actually are into this that want this.
Speaker 2I totally forgot.
Are we doing a second date update?
Are we doing awkward Tuesday?
Speaker 4I don't know what I was like, it's come into like a financial segment at this point, how to make a buck?
Speaker 2But are we calling a guy for you?
Speaker 5Yeah?
Speaker 4Is there a specific guy that you are wanting us to call today?
Speaker 9Yeah?
Speaker 6So I did meet a specific guy and his name is Charlie and he had the FD on his profile.
So we matched and chatted and we had a first date and it was nice rooftop lounge, and he does he took out his wallet and laid out all of his bank cards and says, pick one.
Speaker 9It's pretty hot.
Speaker 8What what.
Speaker 2Did you have to put.
Speaker 3Your hands over and see what you get the most reaction.
Speaker 4Always picked the heaviest.
By the way, heaviest one is the biggest limits like.
Speaker 1Credit card roulette, which he's nervous like, oh god, don't.
Speaker 4He probably wants her to pick the big ones.
Which one did you choose?
Speaker 6I picked the MX so many places.
Speaker 2Why would you choose on the first day?
So what do you do with the credit card?
Speaker 10Well?
Speaker 6He immediately he texted me his pin number, and kind of over the next couple of days, I would take out a little bit here, a little bit there, and then you know, when he would notice it, he would get excited.
Speaker 8He would text me, oh, oh, I can see that.
Speaker 4Wow, I'm one hundred thousand dollars in debt.
Lucky me that time.
Speaker 8I just want.
Speaker 2This gives me anxiety.
This is so cool.
Speaker 5You would love to be findumbed over regardd.
Speaker 4On what's going on?
Speaker 10Now?
Speaker 4Where are we now?
Speaker 2What did he put the card on hold.
Speaker 5Ye what happened?
Speaker 6Well, it was really nice for a while, and then randomly the other day I went to do withdrawal and it said that the card had been deactivated.
Speaker 1It can we talk, like how much money did you take over the time period?
Speaker 2Are we talking thousands?
Tens of thousands?
Speaker 8Yes?
Speaker 5Yeah, great question.
Speaker 6I mean it was probably about nine thousand.
Speaker 4Oh wow, that's so much?
Speaker 2Would you buy one date?
Nine thousand dollars?
Not calling you back?
Speaker 6I mean I think for him, that's like a drop in the bucket.
But I texted him and he didn't respond.
So I'm just really confused.
Speaker 2Why do you want to call him?
Why do you want to see him again?
Speaker 6Because he was really nice and fun.
Speaker 8I had a good time.
Speaker 5Okay, what a good answer there.
Speaker 6Yeah, I also want to see if he's okay, Like did I make a mistake that I misunderstand our agreement?
I just I just want to get some closure either way, Like, yeah, I'd love to see him again.
Speaker 4Gotcha.
This is definitely interesting.
It's kind of a sensitive.
Speaker 2Topic at the table because now.
Speaker 4We're going to be calling a guy, not really even talking to him about the actual dates and the romance.
It's more about what he's into and what.
Speaker 1Happened good date, the romance, Jeff, that's what we're going to call him about.
Speaker 4That's not what I want, bro, I want to I want to get into the gritty dirty details here.
When we call him, answer, recognize their voice.
Maybe we can all findom him together.
Speaker 2Hey, you guys don't know how to do this that.
Speaker 4You're going to be our sir as we call him.
A second date update Findom edition right after this hold On Second Date update.
Man, this is a really interesting second date update that we're in the middle of.
Speaker 2I died to do that.
How long were those songs.
Speaker 10Spent that time?
Speaker 4We're all really interested because we've never heard of anything like this before.
Speaker 5But I guess we've been talking about this.
Speaker 4Trend or a niche I'm not sure what to call it.
Speaker 5That's what I described it as.
Speaker 4It's called Findom financial domination.
And instead of explaining it in general, I'll just tell you how Beth's date went.
Speaker 5Maybe you'll understand it that way.
Speaker 4Because she met this guy, Charlie up at a rooftop lounge.
Speaker 5First thing he did.
Speaker 4Was spread all of his credit cards out on the table and told her to pick one any one, and she got to use it and take out however much money she wanted from his bank.
Speaker 5Account for the next week.
Speaker 1Until suddenly he's not texting her back and the card is declined.
Speaker 4Yeah, deactivated his card, ghosted her with no explanation for why.
And Beth doesn't understand because they both had agreed to this.
That's what Fendom is like.
Speaker 2I think it's good to know that, Beth.
Speaker 1I mean, you're actually interested in him romantically, it's not just a money transaction.
Speaker 8Yeah, I like him.
Speaker 2Okay, some money would have spent way more than nine thousand.
Speaker 4Easily right now, Alec, you got to teach Brook how to do this properly.
Speaker 5But we're going to find out what the reason is.
Speaker 4Hopefully he picks up.
Let's call Charlie and see if he answers.
Speaker 5Here we go.
Speaker 2Are we okay talking to I mean, can.
Speaker 4We that's a good point.
Let's try and be sensitive about it.
I don't know if he'll want to talk about it.
Speaker 2I mean, I don't think we should come in hot.
You give your credit cards to women?
Speaker 4Okay, well, we'll tread carefully with it.
But let's see if he even answers.
Speaker 5Here we go.
Speaker 4Hello, Hey is this Charlie?
Speaker 9It is Who's this?
Speaker 4Hey Charlie.
Speaker 5My name is jeff on a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2Hey, Charlie radio show that.
Speaker 5You're on now too, So welcome.
Speaker 2We have never been so excited to talk to someone.
Speaker 9Okay, what is this all about?
Speaker 5Well, this is a segment that we do.
It's called Second Date Update.
Speaker 4What we try to do is help out our listeners who've gone out with somebody and they had a really nice time with them.
We try and help them reconnect afterwards if there hasn't been a second meetup.
And recently you went out with a woman named Beth.
Speaker 9She did she call you?
She contacts you guys.
Speaker 5Yeah, she reached out to our show.
Speaker 4She is a little bit confused because after your date there's been kind of a lack of communication.
And I hope I'm not over stepping my bounds here, but she did say that you and her are both into it, well, a certain type of thrill dating.
Speaker 9Here.
Speaker 1You can't see your air quotes that you're using to frame it positively, you know, she can you just say that she told us about the credit card well, I don't look.
Speaker 4If you don't want us to talk about it, that's totally up to you, Charlie.
But she mentioned that you're both into Findom financial financial domination.
Speaker 9She told you that.
Speaker 1Yeah, I'm gonna say she came off so confident and like it was just a very normal thing.
Of course, we're all surprised in the room because we've never heard of it.
Speaker 5Brooks jealous of her in some way.
Speaker 4The thing is, this is how she found out that you weren't interested in her, because she tried to make a withdrawal and the card got canceled or declined.
And I don't know how it works in the Findom world, but that seems like sign that things.
Speaker 5Are probably over.
Speaker 9You could.
Speaker 4Yes, Beth is confused because there was no follow up afterwards, no explanation, And I don't know if there's a term for Findom ghosting, but.
Speaker 5She gotezer or something, but that's it.
I don't know, but she is hoping to figure out what happened.
Speaker 9Oh my god, this whole thing is funny.
Speaker 5We're a funny show.
I think that's that's what's happening.
Speaker 2So you're cool with the money part, right.
Speaker 9Of course.
I mean, that's what I'm illustrating on my dating profile.
It's exactly what I'm trying to help you.
Speaker 4Then okay, well but what happened?
Yeah, what we're trying to help Beth figure out is where things went south.
Speaker 9Well, I guess, let me just put it this way.
After about a week, I guess I was just disappointed in what disappointed?
Speaker 4She did tell us that she spent around nine grand Is that the reason the it's the amount of money.
Speaker 9I guess I was just so when she would go bigger?
Speaker 2What Bill, did you say you want to spend more?
Speaker 5Bigger with the spending?
Speaker 10What?
Speaker 9Yeah?
She was too careful.
Speaker 2To cautious.
Speaker 9It felt like findom light.
Speaker 5I don't know findom light.
Wait, I didn't even notice you took anything out.
Speaker 1I'm sorry, But when you've gotten out with other women who are into this, how much do they drop in a week?
Speaker 9I mean a lot more than that.
Like I said, I don't I didn't think you would understand.
Speaker 5I think we understood.
Speaker 4You want a woman that that is willing to be more risky.
Speaker 2How many dates are you a month?
Speaker 4Don't don't you think that she would be open to the idea of spending more.
If you communicated that to her, you would.
Speaker 9No, I really don't think so.
I mean, I need a woman to go hard and really do some.
Speaker 2Damage to your financial accounts.
Speaker 5Finish the sentence form, bro, and you don't You don't see Beth being able to do that.
Speaker 9I mean Beth is nice, don't get me wrong, but she's talking about budgets, trying to be careful.
Speaker 2Even threw up in her mouth a little bit.
Speaker 9If I wanted to talk about budgets, I would talk to my wife, your wife.
Yeah, that's what I said.
Speaker 7Okay, budget saying.
Speaker 4I don't know if we want to do any deeper, let's not Yeah, let's not ask any of those questions at this point.
We need to be bringing on somebody else into this conversation because you don't know this, Charlie.
Speaker 5But Beth has been listening on the other line.
Speaker 9She's on the other line.
Speaker 4Yeah, she's been waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 6So Bethy there, Yeah, okay, So I just I just want to understand.
So you don't want to see me because I did not spend enough of your money and you're not willing to communicate that to me, So you just go to he is.
Speaker 2Married I don't think she cares about that.
Hold on, that would be that would have brought up.
Speaker 5Did you know that he was married?
Speaker 8I mean no, but like I could work around that, but.
Speaker 5Like, man, the fandom world is complicated.
Speaker 7At all.
Speaker 2Him.
Speaker 6Yeah, we had a good time.
I'm sorry that I'm such a considerate dumb.
Speaker 9That's I'm not sure if you understand how this is all supposed to work.
It's just really not sexy at all when you're trying to be careful and cautious, Like, that's not the point of it.
Speaker 4I know to do that.
Okay, Beth, talk to your sub here?
Oh my god.
Speaker 6First of all, in a dominant sub relationship, you're supposed to build trust, right, boring?
Speaker 4Did you say boring?
Speaker 9There was a couple of days throughout our short brief time together where I checked my account and guess what, zero activity?
Speaker 4Not even Starbucks.
Come on, that's irresponsible Starbucks breakfast.
Speaker 5Beth, you can you can step up your game though, right?
Speaker 6Yeah, I could absolutely step up my game, But maybe I should check in with his wife first.
Speaker 2Actually, actually, can I say that?
I think that's a good idea.
Speaker 1Because I've been very worried about this woman.
Speaker 2Does she know, Charlie, there's a lot of questions.
Speaker 9Yeah, you guys are asking a lot of questions right now.
You called me.
I'm gonna be a part of it.
You guys will take what.
Speaker 5You get, Okay, exact.
Speaker 4Yeah, Charlie's words boring, So let's move on to the interesting stuff.
Well, yeah, this is what we do, Charlie.
The whole purpose of this segment is to try and reunite you and Beth together.
Speaker 2Again by him being married.
Speaker 4Beth says she doesn't care, and clearly he doesn't care.
Speaker 2One other person here.
Speaker 4His wife can listen and text in and weigh and however she wants to.
But the whole goal is to set you up on another day, and we would pay for it.
Speaker 9I mean, listen, it's not gonna work for me.
I've found another woman already.
Speaker 4I'm sure it's easy.
Speaker 2Actually, And what.
Speaker 9Well, she's actually putting fear in my heart and that's really all I'm in it for it.
Speaker 2Why do I want?
Why do I want this woman to bankrupt you?
Speaker 9That's what he wants to She can try.
I love it.
Speaker 4Actually, this conversation is turning him on a little bit too much.
So you know what, charld are we gonna let you go?
Thanks for your time, Beth.
I'm sorry that that didn't work.
Speaker 2New Beth, I thought you did serious damage.
Speaker 6Yeah, I guess I gotta step my game up.
Speaker 5J Jose would you like to volunteer your bank account?
Speaker 6Oh?
Speaker 4I got it, you got a budget a nine dollars?
Speaker 8I got you?
Speaker 2Wait already an overdraft O.
Speaker 10God Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, so.
Speaker 4Many texts coming into seven eighty five to nine two from people saying they'd love to go out with Charlie.
Speaker 2I'm sack.
Speaker 4I had our producer check the numbers.
Alexis, we really need you to stop texting.
Speaker 9But I have a.
Speaker 3Wholess I could spend like fifty K to day.
Speaker 2Okay, I could do honestly, very easy.
Just because you keep crashing your car.
Speaker 4Charlie is already with somebody, and I highly doubt you could do more damage than her.
Speaker 2Charlie is with multiple people.
He is also married.
Why does that keep slipping through the.
Speaker 4Cracks, because that's not what findam is about.
Speaker 2Okay, again, he would not answer whether his wife knew or not.
Speaker 4Can you imagine having so much money that people try to bankrupt you when they can't.
Yeah, that's amazing.
And if his wife doesn't know that, like random people are taking out thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars from his account and has no idea, then she doesn't want to know.
Speaker 2That is not true that so far, That's.
Speaker 4The stance I'm taking.
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You'll find it there.
Speaker 10Rook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4Women might not realize this, but before going out on a big date, there's certain things guys do to help boost their self confidence.
Speaker 2Oh okay, like what.
Speaker 4They'll knock out twenty push ups real quick in the bathroom.
Speaker 8You heard that.
Speaker 4They'll take a couple shots of Jaeger.
Yeah, and most importantly, we'll watch the snow kiss scene in Bridget jones diary because he's so checked up.
Nice boys don't kiss like that, yeah talking.
Unfortunately, for one of our listeners, none of those tricks would have boosted his ego enough to handle the site that he saw just as he was picking up his date.
He admits it ruined the rest of the night for him.
You're gonna hear exactly what happened in your second date update.
Right after this second Date up date, you might remember we did an awkward to day phone call a few months back with a guy named Aaron because even though him and his ex broke up, she was still planning on attending a wedding for their mutual friend.
That's right.
Aaron thought it was weird because the groom was his buddy.
First back down, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, he wanted our help, and ultimately, I know this is probably gonna sound weird, but we had to flip a coin in the studio.
Speaker 2That's right.
I couldn't remember how that ended.
Who ended up going to the wedding?
Heard him?
Speaker 4Aaron lost right and erin, Please tell me you still went to your buddy's wedding anyway?
The rules?
Speaker 8Jeff, No, I didn't go.
Speaker 4Yeah you.
Speaker 9Did.
Speaker 1You still give a gift, though, Aaron, what kind of friend are you send a gift?
Speaker 4Yeah?
Speaker 8I gave a gift, and it was kind of a spiteful one.
I got him like a five dollars gift certificate to the Bucks.
Speaker 2I can't even get you a drink.
Speaker 8It's anything at Starbucks.
It's like just below a coffee.
Speaker 5You can't do anything wrong.
Speaker 2Well, he invited the ax the X.
Well no, wait, she didn't have an invite, did she.
Speaker 4So ultimately, the weird part is that after all of that went downhill for him, Aaron is back again for a second date.
Speaker 9Update.
Speaker 4Now, so what's going on in your love life at the moment?
Speaker 8So I got another problem here to crack.
I met this girl on the apps.
Speaker 2Well we know it wasn't at the wedding, so yeah, yeah, it wasn't there.
Speaker 8No, not at all, and kind of a breath of fresh air for me, like super grounded, glow maintenance type of woman.
And went on a first date.
Went good, nothing okay, too crazy, but we had great danter.
Speaker 2Did you say she's a great dancer?
Speaker 8Banter?
Speaker 1Oh, like, oh cool, you had dancing.
Speaker 4I was more interested in dance moves as well.
Speaker 8All right, but we had a good time watching the car.
We did kiss, so that was good.
Speaker 2Oh probably okay?
And what was the kiss?
Speaker 8Like, it was good.
It was like saying that you're going to want to go on a second date without actually having to say it, you know, it's one of those.
Speaker 2Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 4There's a term called kiss you goodbye.
Speaker 3There's also a pity kiss.
Speaker 5Sorry, we know all the depressing types of kiss on this show.
Speaker 8I've had them all.
I've had them all.
Speaker 5We'll see a later time.
Speaker 2You're saying you left feeling really hopeful.
Speaker 8Yeah, so it did go to a second.
Speaker 1Dated, so it wasn't a sad kiss.
Speaker 8You read it right, I did.
Speaker 5Yeah, ok, tell us about date number two.
Speaker 8Yeah, so she said come meet me at work, like right at the end of her shift or whatever.
Speaker 4Oh god, okay, weird.
Well, well, I guess depends on where she works at a cool place.
Speaker 8Yeah, well she worked.
She works at a hotel four star thing, and I showed up, not totally sure what she does, like if it's like reservations or concierge stuff or.
Speaker 2I don't know, but maybe you could break in the pool and have a pool party.
Speaker 4Yeah.
You said it was four stars too, right, sound like it's like a dingy motel up.
Speaker 8The highway was really nice?
Speaker 2Yeah, okay, different though, Okay.
Speaker 8She kind of runs out, She's like, hey, I got ten more minutes.
I gotta wrap some stuff up, and then she runs back, and I'm as I walk in, I'm kind of noticing there's like all these dudes and they're all like hout and six foot two, and like the.
Speaker 2Hot Dude convention at the hotel.
I go to that every year.
Speaker 5This is why you go to the four Stars.
How didn't get my invite this year?
Speaker 4What happened?
Speaker 10Like you're losing.
Speaker 8It looked like there was some sort of thing like an agency.
I don't know, but she was, I guess, wrangling something in the back, like with all of them, and she was having the time of her life.
Speaker 4Well, dude, wouldn't you flip it around you were run a bunch of beautiful formale models, you'd probably have a smile on your face.
Speaker 9It doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 5You're just like enjoying the.
Speaker 8View, enjoying your I couldn't agree more.
Speaker 4Okay, so that's however, However.
Speaker 8We go on like mini golf date and see I would be doing the same thing she was.
You're right, but I would also kind of carry that energy through to whoever I was dating, hopefully immediately after, and she was kind of stand offish.
It was just like she wasn't treating me that way.
She was It was more just kind of like there was this distance.
But then I could have been being weird too.
Speaker 1Yeah, it sounds like you were being weird.
I mean just even your mindset in the hotel lobby sounds kind of.
Speaker 4It also sounds like she's like, bye, hot guys, good to see you you.
Speaker 2Maybe she used all her for, like, you know, fake customer service, Yeah, emotional capacity for the day.
Speaker 4Did you try anything with her to try and get the mood right?
Yeah?
Speaker 8I did, And I only mentioned this thing once.
I was like, what was going were all those dudes?
She was like, Oh, it's like this model convention thing, and I.
Speaker 1No, I mean I get it, like if I looked into a model convention and I was meeting some guy.
Speaker 2For our first date, it would just be a hit to your ego.
Speaker 4I could see that totally.
Speaker 8I feel like a solid ache.
But then I walked in there and I was like, no, I'm I'm a five.
Speaker 1Maybe personality probably sucks you're in her hometown, ing, that's how it works, I.
Speaker 8Get it, right.
Speaker 4So are you thinking that overall your attitude that day may have affected how your date played out?
Speaker 9Yeah?
Speaker 8And I know you know, I said it the one time I brought it up just to see what she would say, and I didn't touch it again because I'm not a complete idiot.
Speaker 2But that's good.
Speaker 8And then I'm like, was I weird?
And then it was like if I was a little weird, that was she like taking some misread cute and then that snowballed into her being weird.
Speaker 2And you're in your head about this.
Speaker 4Sure, you're your own worst enemy, even right it's a little yeah, that's the word, thank you, And we want to we want to be what's the opposite.
Speaker 5Of difference.
Speaker 2Compared to us.
You're gonna look like a nine when we get her on the phone.
Speaker 8So yeah, I'm glad this is radio.
You can do that exactly.
Speaker 4So we're gonna call Natalie and we're gonna send her out with a ten personality.
Speaker 2One like it.
Speaker 4Okay, okay, person we'll come back and do your second ate update, next second date update.
I really feel for Aaron because right before his second date with Natalie, he went to go meet her and there was a hotel lobby full of attractive male models.
Chances yeah, I mean not good.
At least they seem to be models, And that may have thrown off Aaron's confidence right before they went to mini golf.
Yeah, and it just made me think it must be how all of you feel whenever you come into the studio with me, exactly.
We get intimidated and it rows off your confidence.
Speaker 1It's like, how do I talk to you?
Speaker 4I'm single?
Yeah, and I apologize for making you guys feel that way.
I feel really bad.
Speaker 5I'm really sorry.
Speaker 1I'm just you didn't get invited to the model convention, and yeah I didn't.
Speaker 5Because I was invited to the one in Paris.
I couldn't do the small pond stuff anymore.
Speaker 4But you know what, this man is going to help the man on the phone to meet up with the girl that he likes, Natalie.
Again, it just, Aaron, it sounds like you just didn't put your best foot forward with all that stuff going on in the back of your mind.
Speaker 5I'm hoping we could pull it off for you, all right.
Speaker 8Yeah, thanks, I kind of stuttered into the whole thing, you.
Speaker 4Know, totally.
Speaker 1And you know, even if you end up telling her that, like, hey, I'm just a little thrown off, I think she'd get it, like there's there's no personal live that wouldn't feel a little uncomfortable walking into unless you are, in fact a model.
Speaker 4You know, you'd like to hear if you're honest, like I was a little insecure and.
Speaker 2Yeah, yeah, totally yeah.
Speaker 4Women like it when you project all of your insecurities right out into the open.
Let's go.
You're gonna have to lie, that's not true.
This is the model we're talking to, jeff.
Speaker 2Jeff Nos I think we got this.
You got two dates under your belt, we get you a third.
We're good.
Speaker 5All right, Okay, let's not waste any more time.
Let's call it right now.
Okay, here we go.
Speaker 4Hello.
Speaker 5Hey is this Natalie?
Speaker 9Yeah?
What's up?
Natalie?
Speaker 5You're You're on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2Hey Natalie, Hey, how you doing.
Speaker 11No way, young Jeffrey, No way, Hi, Jeffrey.
I cannot believe this totally shoke that you called me.
Speaker 8What is just a reference to?
Speaker 5This is in reference to a second.
Speaker 4Date update and a guy that you've gone out twice with named Aaron.
Speaker 2Okay, oh yeah, it's just like went in the lottery.
Speaker 11All right, So how did you hear about this?
Speaker 4You know that Aaron emails us and tells us a little bit about your date dates plural.
Actually why though, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2Because you're not calling him back and he likes you any things.
Speaker 4You don't like him.
Speaker 11I think it's the other way around.
Speaker 8But okay, what makes you say that?
Speaker 11Well, I don't know.
I just got like the feeling that on our second seat he seemed a little aloop.
Speaker 2Okay, that makes sense.
Speaker 4We talked to him about the second date, and he mentioned something about trying to meet you at the hotel where you work, and there was a bunch of kind of attractive guys in the lobby.
Speaker 2There was there, legit a model convention going on.
Speaker 11Oh yeah, yeah there was.
Oh yeah, but that's my job.
Speaker 2He thought that too.
I mean, it's not like he was like jealous or anything like that.
Speaker 10No, I don't know.
Speaker 11I just sensed like maybe he wasn't really that into me at that time.
The first date went really well, but then the second dat he seems like a said stand office a little bit, and I don't know, I just sent like a different vibe, and so I was like, all right, maybe this guy just really isn't don into me.
And I kind of backed off a little bit.
Speaker 4I mean, but you could understand where he's coming from, because he's around all these you know, apparently really good looking male models.
Speaker 1I think I think what Jeff's saying is like he just took a little like hit to the ego as soon as he went to meet you, and then it was hard for him to kind of get back that confidence he lost.
Speaker 4Yeah, because he mentioned that you look like you were having a lot of fun with them.
Speaker 11You know, I didn't even really think about that, And that's on him.
It's he's insecure looking.
I mean, yeah, they're good looking, absolutely.
I mean their money.
Speaker 8Now I rest my kids.
It's like still I'm here by the way.
Speaker 4Oh god, remember how this was Natalie Aaron's on the other line listening.
Speaker 2We were doing a good job, erin.
Speaker 5Were getting the meat of it.
Speaker 11How quickly I forgot Hello Aaron?
Speaker 8How are you?
Speaker 2Hi?
Speaker 9Hi?
Speaker 8Sorry?
I just thought that your head was kind of with the models during many golf and not with me.
Speaker 11That's I like you, I'm I was on the date with you.
Speaker 2I get it.
Speaker 8They're models.
They're supposed to be good looking.
Speaker 11You know, models are good looking, whether they're male, they're female.
Speaker 8These models were good looking.
Oh and they were male, so we'll get that out of the way.
But she's the one that keeps bringing up how good looking these guys were.
You guys did hear this?
Speaker 2Yeah, but didn't you hear her on your date?
Speaker 1You were like aloof and and we're into her, And so that's why her attitude change.
Speaker 2It didn't have anything to do with models.
Speaker 8I get it.
It's fine, but it's like I showed up for her because I wanted to be with her, and then I felt like her head was somewhere else, which is back it like a it looks like a bud light commercial or something.
Well, you're a bad example.
Maybe not today, but like a.
Speaker 2Top gun volleyball scene.
Is that what we're sing.
Speaker 4That's not helping with That's not helping with my focus either.
So let's refocus because not only what I think Aaron is saying is to him, whether it's true or not, it felt like you were more interested in hanging out with the models that day than hanging out with him.
Speaker 5That was just a vibe that he got.
Speaker 11I have to disagree because I'm like that with everybody.
We're in the business of being happy and creating a happy experience for everybody, and I'm just being myself when I'm with Aaron, and of course I like him, but I'm not going to be all Holly Dolly like, oh.
Speaker 2Yeah, makes sense.
I mean, Aaron, you hear her because.
Speaker 8It Yeah, it's just like I don't know.
I mean, I'm sure it was like being a weird, so that's part of it, but it just like it just kind of felt like I was competing or something with all of these dudes.
One thing you weren't.
Speaker 2How many times does she have to tell you that?
Speaker 7Yeah?
Speaker 4Yeah, one more would probably help?
Just drive it on.
Speaker 11God, I like you, Aaron.
I mean, come on, now, I like you too.
Speaker 4That's why now we're getting somewhere.
Speaker 11I like you, okay, so fine, you like me and I like you.
Speaker 6So with a problem.
Speaker 8I don't get it.
Do you want to go out on date number three?
And then then yes?
Speaker 11I you okay, you do?
Speaker 8Okay, you do, so then I'll go with you.
Then okay, okay, then mad wow, Maybe I don't.
Maybe I don't like anybody else but you, and then I want to just go out with you.
Maybe that's how a.
Speaker 4Threat, but it's not a threat, like that's.
Speaker 2A good thing.
Speaker 5Don't interrupt them.
Speaker 11This is the feeling is reciprocal.
Absolutely, I like you.
Speaker 3Angry kiss this time.
Speaker 4You just skipped the third date and they officially have the exclusive talk jeff for the two of them too.
Speaker 9Why are we yelling?
Scary?
So?
Speaker 4Wait, are you guys happy going out again?
Speaker 11Like?
Speaker 8Yes, we are, Yes, we are, we are, and we're gonna it's gonna be the best date, damn.
Speaker 6It we have.
Speaker 4Well, we're gonna pay for that best day, damn it.
Speaker 8Yeah, you'll pay for that date.
Speaker 4Oh yeah, okay, I'm happy to pay for it.
Okay, how about that?
Speaker 8Well, this is going a little bit better than I thought.
I don't know why.
Speaker 4I am mad though, Yeah, but we're not quite sure either, but it's working.
So I will keep this energy when you meet up with Natalie.
Speaker 9Okay, now are.
Speaker 4You cool with that?
Speaker 11I am cool with that.
Speaker 4Let's end this segment now, congratulations.
Speaker 8Don't be late, very mad, It'll be fine.
I'll be fine.
Speaker 2Okay, Yeah, that's sensible.
Speaker 4I appreciate that.
Speaker 10Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, Well.
Speaker 4There was a lot of yelling going on in that segment that was unexpected.
Speaker 2You're just going to say, but there was passion behind it, right, was.
Speaker 4Happy yelling, So I can only imagine what the romantic life is going to be, like, Brooke, do you want to re enact it right now?
Speaker 2I don't.
I actually didn't even want to imagine it for them.
I just wanted to let them have that.
Speaker 5Do that on my personal time once we go off the air.
But remember, you could check out all.
Speaker 4Of our second date updates if you want to hear them up on our Uh where are they on our website?
Speaker 2That's a good place for him to be.
Speaker 4That's where it is.
Is that on the worldwide lab Jeffrey thinking of the romantic scene.
Speaker 2You can also find them on our podcast.
Speaker 4Yeah, yeah, don't.
Speaker 2Say it like that.
I don't know.
I just want to get out of it.
Speaker 4Let's go in the hallway, all right, grab my hand.