Episode Transcript
Hello, gorgeous.
It's Lala Kent.
Speaker 2Welcome to untraditionally Lala.
Hello, gorgeous, Welcome back to untraditionally Lala.
The Boner episode I'm with Frankie Grande, I had people write in to ask you some questions.
Oh, I love this, Yeah, we'll keep it right, We'll keep it tight.
What is your favorite memory from your time on Big Brother?
Speaker 3Ooh.
I really really resonated with when Kathy Griffin walked into the house because I was a very queer man in a very straight house with all straight people, and I forgot that I had a community.
And then when that homosexual icon walked in, I was like, Okay, thank Lord, oh my god, Gathy Griffin and every of course, every single person in the house was like who is that?
And I was like what dusting people?
Yeah, they were all straights, No one kne who she was, and yeah, well I died.
And I felt like it was a gift just for me, and it gave me enough energy to get through the rest of the show.
Literally, I was like, oh, thank god, I forgot that I was gay.
Speaker 1I forgot that I was Okay, this is so good.
Speaker 3I was like, I'm turning straight.
With all of you people.
Speaker 1E you know, I you is right.
Speaker 2I only feel comfortable in this time in my life with girls and.
Speaker 3Gays love it like the best.
Speaker 2Anything outside of that community, I don't want it.
I don't know how to approach it, like I'm good.
So I'm glad that you find that you felt like, Oh.
Speaker 1Here we go.
It's a reminder I have community.
Speaker 3Yes, exactly, that was exactly right.
Speaker 2Would you ever go on Traders?
Have you watched Traders on?
Oh?
Speaker 3Yeah, I would, and I shall, and I love.
They have to just call me, guys, I'm ready, let's go.
Speaker 1No, they have to have you on.
Speaker 3I have to do it.
I have to do it.
Speaker 1I don't.
Speaker 2I was never a big like I'm so into reality, but like the competition shows, I was never really that into.
I just gave traders a chance and was like, oh my god, I understand the hype.
Speaker 3It's great, and I would.
I would eat it up.
Speaker 1Would you be a good trader?
Speaker 2Late?
Speaker 3I think I would be a good trader, But I think I would be a good faithful too.
I just think i'd be good at the game.
So okay, done, let me put my money where my mouth is.
Speaker 1Boom, boom.
Speaker 2Oh my god, I really want you on it.
Okay, favorite childhood memory with Arianna if you can pinpoint just one.
Speaker 3Yeah, let me try to think of one.
We had such a wild age gap because they're ten years apart, so I'm like trying to think of like ones that were like later in life, because like all the ones in the beginning are like running on Disney and like the monorail together yesterday.
Uh what was my favorite?
Mar We have so many good memories.
We're so silly together.
I think probably one of my favorites was when she showed me her looping machine for the first time, when she was like, ooh, I want us maybe like fourteen years old.
I have a terrible memory, but she showed me her looping machine, which was what Image and Heap uses to create her vocals and stack her harmonies.
And the first time she showed me what she could do live, which is what Image could do live.
Like I think, I like, like, I think I passed out.
I was like Arianna, what the fuck?
Like, how are you this fucking talented?
And it was just a moment that I'll never forget.
One other one is when I told her that I am also Image Heap just inspired me when I told her I booked Mama Me out on Broadway.
I got the call in a room with my mother and my sister, and we started doing the high note whistle tones from Image and Heap's album and together and trying to go higher than each other.
And it was just also just a wonderful, giddy, giddy moment.
She was twelve.
Yeah, that was fun.
Speaker 1I love these memories.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Fun.
Speaker 2So, cause ten years is a significant age gap.
When did you find that you guys like really got close.
I'm like, I my oldest brother, so I'm thirty five.
He is close to turning fifty, and I feel like he and I really started bonding once I hit like twenty one.
Speaker 3Yeah.
I think we had a really good period in like her early teens, and then I think my drinking and using made me like kind of like disappear from the family dynamic for a hot ten year maybe hot decade.
Yeah, and then I think our we're closest now than we've ever been.
We've closer now than we've ever been in her entire lives.
Speaker 1Once you got sober, you found that it was different.
Speaker 3Yeah, Yeah, it just was.
I mean every everything was, but especially my familial relationships because I was a putting the effort into rebuilding the bridges that I had burned, and also be like I could like fucking have a normal conversation totally.
I could be fucking cool for like a second and not be like like twitching because I'm like trying to get Jones in for my next hit.
Speaker 2I so relate to that.
Yeah, there are so many times I look back on certain things and I have to actively stop my brain from doing that because then I start feeling guilt where it's like, Yep, I could have been so present for that moment, and instead I was fixated on where the bar was yep.
And I missed out on like being with people that I love and care about.
Speaker 3Yep, one hundred percent.
And I'm glad that you don't give yourself shit for that, because it is really hard to not do that.
I call it shame touretts, like like all of a sudden, I'm like, oh my God, like like you know, it's like you're you suck and I don't.
I try to avoid that as well, because it's not useful and it's not helpful, and we're not those people anymore but it is hard.
And the other thing that I do is also I tell, especially with my sister, I say I don't remember that, will you tell me the story?
Because in the beginning I used to lie and say, oh, yeah, I remember that.
That was so fun.
Yeah, but I don't remember it because I was drunk or hot totally.
So if she has a really good memory of us and I don't remember it, I'm like, will you tell me the story?
And then she does, and then I'm like, that was fucking fun.
Great, we did have fun.
That was awesome.
It sounds like a great day.
Speaker 1It sounds like it was a great day.
Speaker 3Noted.
Speaker 1I have to do that too.
People will come up to me and I'm like, okay, was this.
Speaker 3Like I gain twenty twelve.
Speaker 1I'm like, I was gone.
Speaker 2I don't even remember who you are, So why don't you enlighten me on the great times we've had.
Speaker 3Exactly yes, And it's fine to say that.
Speaker 1I agree with you.
Speaker 2Sobriety is like the proudest thing I've done in my life.
I know that you've done a lot of wonderful things, but sobriety is like the one thing I'm very proud of.
Speaker 1Same worst house guest you had to.
Speaker 3Work with.
Speaker 4If you can see it, the worst house guest I had to work with.
Oh, fuck, let's see it's it would be best and worst.
Okay, I'm gonna say they're the same person, and it's Nicole because on my season in BB sixteen, I wanted so desperately to work with her and she would not fucking work with me, and so I evicted her, not.
Speaker 3Once, but twice.
I got her out of the house, Get her out of here.
Then ten years later on Reindeer Games, Nicole's back in the house and I was like, bitch, I have been dying to work with you for ten fucking years.
Are we gonna run this fucking house or are you gonna be a bitch and are you gonna like fucking turn against me?
And she was like, we're gonna run this house and then we did and we got all the way to the finale together.
So that made me really happy.
Speaker 1That makes me very happy.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Speaker 1I love what the same person can be the best and worst?
Speaker 3Yep mm hmmm.
Speaker 1Who do you still talk to?
From Big Brother.
Speaker 3Nicole, Cody, Derek?
I talked to Derek all the fucking time, Taylor, who else?
Do I talk.
Xavier and Josh and I talk every once in a while, Brittany.
Speaker 1So you've got a long list of people that you stayed in contact.
Speaker 3With, Yeah, I do, I because I had Like it's interesting because the producers were like, we thought you never ever wanted to come back or play again, and I was like, no, I was a fucking drug addict.
Guys, Like after the show of don't I can't imagine what I said about Big Brother because I was high and drunk and fucking pilled out, so like, god knows what I said, So like, don't don't pay attention to that.
I'm sober now and I'm telling you I'm I want to come back.
I love you, guys, And so in through that that relationship mending, I also kind of got to make an amends to the show, and then I reconnected with all my Big Brother friends like via just being like, guys, I'm ready to come back into the family.
I think everybody thought I was like too good for Big Brother or whatever the fuck I did, and I was like, probably because when I was drunk or I probably.
Speaker 1Said that totally.
Speaker 3Yeah, wow, look at that, guys.
Accountability baby, Accountability bitch, Like and so like I was like, no, guys, don't listen to anything that I said between the years is of twenty fourteen and twenty seventeen.
Speaker 2So then would you if they asked you back again, would you go back?
Speaker 3Yeah?
For sure, Yeah I would go back.
My mother's like, fuck, no, don't do it, and I'm like, I would do it.
I love that fucking game and I played again.
Speaker 2I love that you loved it.
Life it's too short to do things you don't want to do.
So if you're down for the cause, let's get you.
Speaker 3Back in that house exactly, I'll do it.
Speaker 1All right.
Speaker 2My final question for you is I want to know how excited you were when you found out Ariana was going to play Glinda.
Speaker 3Yeah.
I'm gonna cry thinking about this moment we were in.
I was in tech for a show called Horror Camp and she was like, come into the bathroom.
I had to tell you a secret.
And I was like okay.
We went into the bathroom and she told me she was Glinda, and me, my mother and my sister collapsed on the floor and we were sobbing and it was just like the craziest moment.
And then she came to the show that night, and I you know, gave like the performance of my life like for her, knowing that she was just the happiest human being in the world.
Yeah, and it was such a beautiful night, you know, like I got she was in the audience, I got to perform for her, but I like give her that gift.
But at the same time, just knowing the gift that she's about to give to millions of people around the globe.
Fuck it pretty cool.
Speaker 2I mean even my my daughter, who I think at the time of that was around three years old.
I mean, she's now obsessed.
She wants to be Glinda, she wants to make the cookies, she wants to do so, you know, it's it's just such an iconic I mean, from from Broadway to the film.
They they crushed and I'm so happy that you got to have that little moment with her in the bathroom where you collapse.
Speaker 3On the floor crying all the Yeah, and it's so cute to see like little kids go by the Swarovsky store and point to my sister and be like that's Glinda.
Yeah, Like that's wild.
Speaker 1You know that is I I can't even imagine.
Speaker 3Yeah, it's so cool and it's just so fun and I'm just like, I can't wait for the second one.
It's coming up to TikTok, TikTok.
Speaker 2We'll get the tickets, We'll get my little we'll get my kids in there, dress.
Speaker 1Them all up their costume.
Yes, of course, we're in it to win it.
Speaker 2Now.
Speaker 3Do you have an Alfianna Glinda or are they all Glinda's No?
Speaker 2She Ocean's first barbie was actually Alphabet and then like that was her go to and then she switched over.
Speaker 1How funny is that?
Speaker 3So you do have both.
Speaker 1I can't keep up.
Speaker 2You know, when they're that age, you just roll with the punches.
You're like, whatever you're into this week is what we'll do exactly.
Speaker 3And you know what, I think that's the moral of the stories, that we're all a little Elfie and we're all a little Glinda.
I think we got a little bit.
Speaker 2Of both in one hundred percent.
Yes, thank you so much for sticking around for the bonus.
I fucking love you.
Speaker 3I love you too.
You're fucking awesome.
Do anything you say, John by saying how hot be it?
Speaker 2Yes, baby, go and us slay the day, rock your life as you always do, and I will be in touch well.
Speaker 3Thank you so much.
Speaker 1Bye Boo me I will bye bye.
Speaker 2And you guys, thank you so much for listening to another episode bonus episode of Untraditionally La La I'm going to catch you guys on Wednesday for a regular episode and then again next week.
Speaker 3Bye.
