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Now let's heat things up.
Speaker 2Oh you'll let them get to scramedstime, to rockly, your wild their dreams.
Im why podcast breaking all the norms, open discussions about the swing a.
Speaker 3Fall he Welcome to my Hot Wife podcast.
This is Donal Lynn and of course I'm here with my wonderful husband, Vince, so wonderful.
M I don't know, since the last podcast, I don't know we're gonna be able to top that one.
That was pretty good with Ellie and Sterling.
Speaker 2Yeah, it'd be.
It was interesting.
Speaker 3Yeah, it was their first time on a podcast.
I'm sure that there was a lot of.
Speaker 2Little over talking, yeah stuff, but excitement.
They'll be back and they'll get it better.
Speaker 3Yeah, well, it's it's it's really.
Speaker 2Did I mention on the podcast how hot she is?
Speaker 3I think you did.
Speaker 2Okay, wouldn't make sure to forget that she was hot?
Speaker 3Yeah, But I like seeing the development that she's gone through, especially going from such a vanilla lifestyle for so much of her life and two marriages and sexless marriages, is like, how how does that even happen?
Speaker 2Well, the interesting part is going to be you know, she claims she has this extremely high sex drive, right, so she's kind of been able to to expand upon that now a little bit.
Still hasn't gotten into the swinging world.
No, she gets over that little hurdle.
Yes, of the swinging world, she could go completely bunker crazy.
Speaker 3It's very possible.
I know she's not comfortable with sharing Sterling at this stage of the game, but she you know, gone to the nude beaches.
They've gone, you know.
Speaker 2It's kind of a non threatening thing.
Speaker 3Yeah, it is pretty non threatening.
So when they start doing other things.
Speaker 4She's been so repressed by her two previous marriages, right, and you know she's with Sterling now and they have this you know, great relationship.
Sure now she's like, I don't want to lose this.
Yeah, yeah, so she probably has some level of jealousy I'll put it that way.
Speaker 3Apprehension even it's another.
Speaker 4Good word, more soulables than I can do, of course, But you know, so I think once you it's a little more secure with their relationship and herself a little bit.
And I think what she's been through is kind of even damaged her ego a little bit.
Speaker 3Yeah, I get it, I get it.
I think I think Sterling might like introduce her to maybe a male or female playmate and let her big center stage and let her have the fun.
Then after a while she'd be like, hey, I'm having all the fun.
Maybe Sterling would like to have some fun, and then you start.
Speaker 2You know, that's up to them.
Speaker 3It is up to them, you know, when she gets comfortable with that whole thing, and they may never sing.
Yeah, it's very possible, but I think it's until you can separate sex and love, the swinging is probably not going to happen.
Speaker 2Yeah, I mean it's going to be interesting.
You know.
Speaker 4She wants to me do some photos and stuff of her and twing a little bit with video aspects right right, Yeah, see know, I mean she went to a swinging club and had sex in front of other.
Speaker 3People, right, and that's that's you know, that's the first step.
I mean we've seen that a lot of parties where couples come in, they're not not ready to play with anybody else, so they're just together enjoying that being watched.
That's very exciting.
You know, depending on your personality, that might be very exciting for you.
But yeah, yeah, but for some people that's you know, very titillating.
So it's just baby steps, you know.
We we're you and I have been in this lifestyle for a while.
When even I when I first started, it was a little weird.
I have to admit it was definitely weird.
Speaker 2I brought up with that concept of swinging.
Speaker 3Right right, you're you're brought, you're with one person, blah blah blah.
Speaker 4And I actually think the younger generation today is a little more attuned to it.
Speaker 3Yeah, it's become more and more mainstreams.
Speaker 4So yeah, talk about you know, at the high school parties and stuff like that, there's you know, girls just given blow jobs.
Speaker 2Way, I'm trying to not being in relationships.
Speaker 3I mean, just well, I remember going to orgies when I was in high school.
Speaker 2Never never invited me.
Speaker 3I didn't know you you you that's your Wait a minute, you were You're younger than I am, so you were probably in what middle school?
Speaker 2So you're going with that too young?
Speaker 3If if I was seventeen.
Speaker 2It's funny now you tell me I'm old.
Speaker 3You would have been eleven.
Speaker 2Right, we were six years different.
Speaker 3Yeah, so yeah, yeah, you would have been could I could have no, no, no, no, no that you were definitely a minor.
I was a minor.
Then I guess it's okay, okay, right, never mind.
I just thought, me, there's some legal aspects and think about no, when when I was in high school, I graduated at the age of seventeen.
So but yeah, I remember going to a little i'll call them orgies.
They weren't flown, you know, full blown orgies, but they were definitely you know, me with the other women other men.
Speaker 4In the eighties, yeah, age was at big thing, so nudity wasn't a problem, but there wasn't the orgies.
You know, we had toga parties and people wound up not wearing a toga after a while and got drunk and you know, next thing, you know, they're naked, or two guys are comparing Dick's size.
Speaker 3Yeah, I remember that, never me.
Well yeah, then of course there was the AIDS scared kind of put a kibo you playing that whole thing on the aid scare.
Okay, that whole thing.
Speaker 2You know, they thought I was so ugly I had to have AIDS.
Speaker 3Oh my god, stop it.
Speaker 2Anyway.
So, but tonight's topic.
Speaker 3Is orgasm control.
Yeah, male and female, like.
Speaker 2People can do it.
Is it a good thing or not?
Speaker 3I don't.
I have been with some men that can do the orgasm control, and it's some I think, and you can correct me if I'm wrong.
I think it's women that I've told men you know, you come too quick, you come too quick.
And now these guys can hold out for forty five minutes, an hour, hour, hour, two hours.
It's like, I mean, dude, you know, mister Idaho are you tah Utah Steven?
Speaker 2Oh yeah, he said he can go two and a half hours.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Speaker 4And it's like there was one black gentleman you were with it, you know, He's like, oh I could a couple long time ago.
Speaker 2I can control it.
Speaker 4It's like and there there was an other mature couple right that we met and we went back to how we shot guns with him.
Speaker 3And oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 2He was another one can control orgasm.
Speaker 3I mean that's great, but after a while I get kind of sore.
So I'm I'm good for like, you know, I don't you don't want to do marathons.
Speaker 4I mean even our friends who just moved home, right, right, yeah, moved back right.
She was saying, how you know her boyfriend, you know he can go for like an hour and a half or whatever.
Speaker 2She's like, no, no, half hour.
I'm done.
Speaker 3Yeah, a half hour forty you know, forty five minutes is more than enough.
I get sore.
I don't want to say this that's going to sound.
I do get kind of like bored.
There's like so many positions and then you keep going over the same thing and the same thing and rub them the same way.
You get kind of shaped, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2And you know it's I get it.
Speaker 4It's you know, it's like how many times can you ride the ride at the amusement park in a row before all since.
Speaker 3Like, okay, it's the same thing.
Speaker 2I'm not a different day or hours later.
Speaker 3Yeah, I'm better.
I would rather have this is just me and I would rather have shorter exp like rounds.
Speaker 2Sure ideal time to have intercourse and have the guy come.
Speaker 3I'd say a half hour tops.
I think that's that's about That's about right, because you can always you know, you know, I'd rather have more shorter time frames of sex rather than a marathon, because it's all the same, it's the same thing.
The most important thing for me is the orgasm.
It's not the riding up and down the org How many orgasms can I have?
You know?
I mean, there's it gets to a point where even if you're even if you can have multiple orgasms, how many orgasms can you have with it before you're exhausted?
I mean I know what, yeah, exactly exactly.
And I know with or or I can or I used to be able to have a lot more orgasms back to back.
But when you're having thirty forty orgasms, that's a lot.
That's a lot of orgasms, idea, I don't ye know, after that, you're like a dish rap.
I mean it's great, it's wonderful.
Speaker 2A few times and yeah, you've experienced them.
Given them to me where I can keep going after one or guys another one and then after two, after two two, you know that relatively close to each other.
I'm like, no, you're done, You're done.
Speaker 3It's it's it's almost like it becomes painful, you know.
Speaker 2Away.
Speaker 3I didn't want to go there.
I did not want to go there.
But yeah, I mean, I'd rather have shorter interludes of sex that are really exciting, really heightened runther than these these marathons are.
It's the same thing for a long period of time.
You know, it's like in out and out.
Okay.
This position, that.
Speaker 4Position, when those are good, is when it's a new relationship, not a playpartner, but a relationship, and there's still that passion, yeah, and that excitement.
Speaker 3And when I was younger, well then there's that yeah.
I mean remember when you were with your your X and the relationship was new and she wasn't the wicked witch of the West yet.
Speaker 2And East West.
Speaker 3Yeah, exactly.
I remember being in a when I was like, you couldn't enough, you couldn't fuck enough.
Speaker 2That's saying when you have that newer relationship, that passion is there.
Speaker 3I was also at eighteen seventeen.
I was sixteen.
Speaker 2I was nineteen twenty when I got together with it.
Yeah.
Speaker 3Yeah, you have a lot more stamina that you're you're you have a lot more your libidos higher the the the chemicals.
I was going to get to that.
Yeah, the chemical messengers like testosterone and estrogen are higher.
So yeah, I remember fucking so much.
I mean it seemed like we would we would fuck for you know, a certain amount of time.
Let's say, let's say forty five minutes.
It wasn't like an and then you rest, you get a drink, you might grab something, eat, and get right back into it again.
You know.
It was like a yeah, but they were shorter.
They weren't like marathons that lasted hours and hours.
I mean sometimes it did, but yeah, but the next day I am freaking sore.
Speaker 2I was sure with five hours and it came like five six times, and I had.
Speaker 3You know, little little breaks because you had to take a shower in between your little escimator.
Speaker 2No, we just kept going, man.
Speaker 3I really I thought this was when you had the three girls that came out of different times.
Speaker 2I'm talking about when I first started dating my now X right.
Speaker 3Oh yeah, we went.
Speaker 2And got a hotel, other parents and stuff.
Speaker 3We had to make the best of it.
Speaker 4Really, we had the hotel.
We know, we weren't staying overnight in the hotel room or motel actually, so we just.
Speaker 3You know, went to the hotel motel.
Speaker 4Yeah, but I think we only stopped after like five hours and we went to go get some eat and we tried to come back and I'm like, oh, it ain't working.
Yeah, it's just like I fucked sandpaper because my dick is oh man, were hurting me.
I can lay here with you.
We can, you know, snuggle watch them bad TV at the motel.
But it's done, man, you know.
Speaker 3Yeah, I remember those days.
Speaker 2There's no freeing Willie.
He's gone.
Speaker 3Yeah, I remember these days.
It's like, yeah, like you are sure you are at least I will hurt for days.
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 2I mean yeah, I mean I was it.
Speaker 3Was worth it, that wasn't it.
At the time.
Speaker 2At the time, it seemed yeah, yeah, the last couple of guys.
Speaker 3Have had like yeah, there's nothing left.
I have nothing left to give.
Speaker 2But yeah, that was that was the days.
I guess.
Speaker 3Yeah, I don't okay, okay.
Speaker 2How hard is it for a woman to control and worgasm.
Speaker 3Why would I want to I'm just asking you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2Could you be able to off?
Speaker 4Yeah?
Speaker 3You tend to some degree, but I would rather or not because you know, it backfires.
And I know guys are like that.
If they if they have to squelch it or postpone it, sometimes they can't come at all and they're like, damn, but I should have just come when I was ready to come.
And then, you know, because they were afraid it would be it would be too soon or whatever whatever, and then they've they've squelched it so much now they can't come.
Now it's worse.
Now, it hurts.
Now, it's not comfortable, and you know you could fucking fucking fuck and they're still not going to come.
So I'd rather just come.
If you come too soon, you come too soon.
So so what's uh, you know, what's the problem there?
I mean, sometimes it just happens.
Speaker 2You know, there's women, especially one woman I mentioned her before.
Here's my excess friend.
Speaker 4Oh yeah, yeah, I remember it should never had an orgasm by anyone you had done a couple or not many because her husband wasn't crazy about her having a vibrator, right, But she had like one or two orgasms she'd given herself.
Speaker 2But that's all she'd ever had in her life until she met me.
Speaker 3Oh, until she met Tonguezilla.
Speaker 4But I mean there's you know, there's women I've played with at these parties that had more orgasms.
Again, not trying to toot my own horn, but they were able to relax and enjoy it, I guess.
And we're able to have more orgasms in one session than they've had in a week.
Speaker 3They tell me, I'd rather just relax and have the orgasm come when it arrive, when it's supposed to happen.
If I have to squelch it, it's somehow.
I don't want to use the word ruins it, but it kind of ruins its.
It does.
It does.
Speaker 2When my kids were here or whatever.
Speaker 3We had to squelch it.
Speaker 4Yeah, yeah, doing your wild you know, answer so I answer to jungle call.
Speaker 3Yeah, it does dampen it, yeah it you know, it takes the takes the oomph out of it.
You know, the excitement is is damp dampened because you have to squelch it.
You have to you know, constrict it to some degree.
Speaker 2But that's one of the cool things.
Like at the house party, no one squelches it.
Speaker 3You're hearing Thank goodness.
We're in a basement, right, If you were.
Speaker 2Outside the house, it would sound like a hornted house.
Speaker 3Yeah, that's true.
I'm glad.
I'm sure that's why we're in a basement.
It's underground as part of it.
Speaker 2There's no windows.
Nope, that's probably a bigger part of it.
Speaker 3That's true too.
Yep.
Speaker 2They can hear noises, but they can't see.
Speaker 3Yeah, I don't think they could hear anything because it's poured concrete.
It's not even concrete block, it's poured concrete.
So I'm sure it still do you think it is?
Speaker 2But there's nobody really in the air.
Speaker 3No, not really.
Speaker 4It's not a sustained noise for like fifteen No.
Speaker 3Sometimes I'm pretty I wonder.
Speaker 4I don't know if if I was able to control.
I mean, I'm not a speedy Gonzales.
Speaker 3No, you're not a speedy Gonzales.
Speaker 4I don't think.
I mean I'd want to prolong it.
I mean my goal of sex is that an orgasm.
No, my other goal is to make sure the woman i'm with as.
Speaker 3An orgasm right.
Speaker 4If it's not through intercourse, I'm going to make sure at least before intercourse that she has an organism orally.
Speaker 3Oh yeah, I think for me, I that gets me ready for the intercourse part, you know, because they get up yeah yeah, yeah, yes.
Speaker 2That's why it's four point not after play.
Speaker 3Yeah, but I mean that's yeah, it gets everything everything going.
Speaker 2It's four point.
Speaker 4Is is a great thing in a sense that you're building that excitement.
Like I said, there was you know some women I played with that all I ever did was have oral with them, right, you know, and I kept that level of excitement.
It's like, okay, if we have intercourse, then you've kind of jumped the fence, right, and not that it's not going to be fun and exciting.
Speaker 2But it loses something.
Speaker 3No.
Speaker 2No, if I kept the relationship where it was just oral and.
Speaker 4There's always that like I want to fuck you, yeah, you know, it's like so, and then again you get into the oral next time with them and it's you know, and you start talking about it while you're doing them and what it was.
Speaker 2It was very exciting.
Speaker 3I think too.
For play is great, but there is For me, there's definitely a threshold like if if it goes on too long, I will lose that excitement because you know, the I'm not sure how to put this.
It just seems like it goes on too long and then I kind of lose the momentum, you know what I'm saying.
Yeah, so this is there's a certain time frame, and I'm not exactly suames that.
Speaker 4You know, you know that something new that you and I are playing around and I know, like your shoulder is bothering you think about that and then you're just comfort and then that prolongs it, and then it gets to a point where all of a sudden, it's like, Okay, I've been riding that you know, like edging like the last ten minutes, and it's only getting worse because I know you're even in more pain.
Speaker 3Now that's a distraction.
Maybe that's what guys do to prolong there, you know, you know, they think about something, they think about baseball or something that's it that's going you know.
Speaker 4I mean, I think part of the part that prolongs it for me during that is when you, like you utter those sexy words my fucking arms kill me?
Speaker 2Can you come.
Speaker 3I've never said that.
I've not said that.
I just say my arms, my arm herds because I'm in a like a weird position.
Speaker 2That's yeah, you don't talk nce, I want a fantasy.
Speaker 3Shut up.
It's like, yeah, you have physical pain.
Yet that's definitely going to modify the orgasm.
It might kill it.
It might you know, it might prolong it.
Speaker 2And for whatever reason, I love you and I care about you.
So if I know you're in pain, I'm sitting there like, okay, I can't enjoy this.
Speaker 4And I know she's you know, it's not a good pain.
I'm not into administering pain except to one asshole I work with the point a different.
Speaker 2Kind of pain.
There's not gonna be any pleasure except for me.
Speaker 3He's not violent in folks, I promise.
Speaker 2No.
That barrel of acid that's been here, oh.
Speaker 3Yeah, the body that's in it, it was here.
Speaker 2All that toxic suit I have that's just in case, just in case.
You never know when a toxic attack is going to happen.
Speaker 3You don't know.
Speaker 4I haven't seen the other guy.
I don't where he's been.
I think he went for a swim somewhere.
But anyway, was that recorded.
Speaker 3Just a little bit, but.
Speaker 4Anyway, but uh, now.
I mean, if you're in tune to the person you're playing with those things, you are also in tune too, at least for me.
I mean, I'm sure some people can just like channel it out like I don't care.
I just want my nut busted here, you know.
Speaker 3So that's that's that could be true.
That could be true, But I can't you know, yeah, no, I know.
Speaker 4He's like, you know, when I was playing with that woman who had no arms away, she just kept falling over and that was really upsetting.
Speaker 3What did you play with somebody no warms and down legs.
Speaker 4You're actually fucking taking me seriously, No, of course, I'm proper up against pillows.
Speaker 3It's that's terrible.
Don't even listen to him.
Speaker 2I'm not saying anything bad about it.
Speaker 3No, No, that's just so nute.
Speaker 2You couldn't push me away.
Speaker 3I'm not even I'm not even going to entertain this conversation.
I'm not I'm not going to go there.
You're not going to reel me in.
I'm not falling for it.
Nope, almost nope.
No, I knew you never played with anybody.
Speaker 2With a guy with no arms and no leggs in a bath of.
Speaker 3Bob, No, that's not right.
That's that's not that's insensitive and not right.
But getting back to the orgasm, which is always right.
I I I just want it to happen.
When it happens, just let it, let it go.
And if it you know, if it takes ten minutes or five minutes or twenty minutes or a half hour or whatever.
Speaker 4I've noticed with you, like when you're riding somebody, if you have an orgasm early with them, it heightens your sex drive with them because now you've had an orgasm, you're looped up naturally.
Speaker 3Right, right, and it's like okay, But but again, there is a threshold.
If I have like an orgasm earlier in the playtime, it's yeah, it definitely loot.
It definitely escalates to having another orgasm.
But again there there is a threshold that there's only so many orgasms in there before.
Speaker 2It becomes my pez dispenser only has so many pezz.
Speaker 3Yeah, it's kind of is like that.
And when this thing comes out of my like my from my neck and it's it's yummy and sweet.
Speaker 2And the first time an orgasm has ever been referred.
Speaker 3To as pez dispencer, well, you know, when we first got together, I could have a lot more orgasm.
And I think, you know, age has come into play with it and that kind of a thing, and my body has changed and you know, the whole.
Speaker 2Some people have multiples.
I have to be like, as you tell me, I don't know.
Apparently whatever I do makes you have like very.
Speaker 3Much stronger one.
Well, we have getting back to the types of orgasms for me.
You know, I have a a I won't say a plethora of different org absence, but I have a I have some there check.
Speaker 2My case over here, see which organisms I brought with me.
Speaker 3Yeah, it is kind of like that.
I have the little wavy ones, which I could have many, many, but they're not they're not They're like they're like, you know, in the amusement rides, you have the little kiddy roller coaster.
Of course you're not neither.
Neither am I.
But it's like the little roller coasters, you're.
Speaker 2The same side.
You're allowed to have.
Speaker 3I probably, you know, I probably could still ride them.
Speaker 2That's the park.
You can ride it.
Speaker 3You know, you make fun of that, but that is absolutely true, because.
Speaker 2Making fun of them, yeah, it is.
Speaker 3It is.
I was literally not allowed to ride one of the rides at our local amusement park because I was not as tall as I think the character they had was like Woody Woodpecker or something.
I wasn't as tall as Woody Woodpecker, and I was like, I'm thirty years old.
I was already at the time.
I was arguing with the guy.
He's like, no, you can't, you can't ride this, right, Yeah, it was truly a safety issue.
I was.
I was really genuinely pissed.
But but you know, but going back to the orgasm, which what is the actual topic, you know, then I have the ones that are like the big giant roller coasters, you get to the top and you can feel yourself right at that edge before you go over, and that that little bit of edging there.
I mean, as much as people are like, oh yeah, I want to edge, it's like I don't want to do that for a long period of time too, because if I edge too long, either a it it becomes uncomfortable and painful to some degree, or I lose that stamina.
I lose that that that the like that threshold and I don't come at all.
Speaker 2So that that's purpose body just sometimes do it.
Speaker 3I don't want to, but you know, I don't want to.
Speaker 2It's fine for like a minute, it's fine for like a minute, but after after you five minutes into it, I just need to.
Speaker 3I just want to go over the edge already.
I just want to go on the other side of that fucking you know roller coaster.
I want to.
I want to go over well we put my hands hands, Yeah, exactly.
So, I mean, I don't know why anybody would would want to spend a long time edging.
I find it.
Everyone's different, everyone's different from me.
After a while, I find it kind of uncomfortable and almost painful.
So I don't It's okay for a short period of time.
It's exciting, but then yeah it's a little high.
Sure, I'll give you that.
I'll give you that, But I want to let's let's let's do the let's go through with it.
Let's go down the other side, because that's that's where the that's where the fun is.
Go to the other loops.
Yeah right, I don't know.
That's just me.
Speaker 4You think guys should actually say I should ask their partner, like, you know, say hey, I'm able to not come for two hours?
Speaker 2Is that something you want?
Hm?
Speaker 3That seems very There must be a nicer, like more romantic.
Speaker 2Yeah, I'm not.
Speaker 3Yeah, here's here.
Speaker 2Here's a menu.
Speaker 3Here's a menu.
Speaker 2What time frame would you like, my coumeloak, Yeah, exactly, a very fine fifteen minute organs.
The ship recommends the twenty thirty five minute.
Speaker 4But you know, we have had some really good Google reviews on our one hour orgasm.
Speaker 2Yeah.
Speaker 3I think that might be a conversation that you could definitely should explore to some degree.
I mean, I don't know how you broached.
Speaker 2That conversation should be you know, do you like it?
Rough?
Do you like it?
I'm sure I think that's part of the conversation.
I just don't want to get onto a woman and starting away like you're trying to drive a nail through a fucking two inch thing.
Yeah, exactly when she doesn't want that.
Speaker 3Oh yeah, it's true.
That's true.
And I know when you tall Stephen was here when he was playing with that other girl.
I remember saying, she goes, are you ready to camlady?
Because it had been like an hour you know.
Speaker 4At the house party.
He just fucking for like three hours and didn't come and banged.
I don't know how many different women.
I never had an orgasm.
Speaker 3How is that fun?
Speaker 2I don't know.
I think the orgasm is the best.
Speaker 4Yeah, exactly, doing all the fucking and sucking not to get an orgasm, right.
Speaker 3It's like I'm doing.
I'm doing the whole workout.
I want.
I want the results.
Now.
Speaker 4I go to the pizzeria to eat fucking pizza, not just like look around.
Speaker 3I don't go to the pizzairie to pound the fucking dough.
You know what I'm saying, beat it up, flip it around.
That's not why I go to a fucking pizza rio.
I don't go there to make.
I don't go through to make the pizza.
I want to eat the fucking pizza I went.
I went that.
Speaker 2I want it in me.
Yeah, so I want that sausage thub.
Well, I just went nice and hot, hot crammy with cheese.
Speaker 3Oh, here's a question for you.
And I can't answer that because you know, Utah is not here to answer, because he would be the one.
Were the women liking.
Speaker 2These long Everyone's different.
Speaker 3That's why I'm asking.
Speaker 4The conversation we're having here is is the fact that you know, I almost think the.
Speaker 3Guy now, I think he got changed.
Speaker 4The poor guys that are a little faster on the draw, right, they don't get to ask that question.
So you want it in three minutes or three and a half.
I can go maybe five pumps.
I'm good around three.
Speaker 3Well that that is a little bit on.
Speaker 2You want five pumps, I'm gonna have to go a little faster.
I have to put a little extra lube on, so I can't get any track, no traction at all.
I brought some WT four.
Speaker 3Can I recommend spunk clube for that?
These condoms, I can't feel any no traction, none.
Speaker 2And I'm going to put some ambasaw on.
Speaker 3I was going to say anales.
That's the problem with anales.
If you put that on your you know your took us because painful.
Speaker 4Back when Marilyn Chambers was alive, she actually did a sex advice column.
I had happened to read that one, in particular because I don't like the pictures.
Speaker 3Of course, read it for the artist.
Speaker 4Somebody had written in about you know, you know I have a premature ejaculation problem.
You know a friend of mine told me to try ambusol.
What do you think?
So she wrote back to me and said, I mean She wrote back to the guy and said, the problem with that is once you put your dick in her, her.
Speaker 2Pussy goes numb.
Oh no, you're both are going to be numb.
Speaker 4So say, I guess if you put that on and then put a condom on to protect her.
Speaker 2You could be all right.
Speaker 4But again, if you're not getting that feeling, you might actually go soft too.
Speaker 3That's true too.
Yeah, there's a fine line between keeping the stimulation so you stay hard as a man, obviously, but not so much stimulation that you come too quickly.
And I think two guys that might think that they're the premature ejaculation.
There's all kinds of things you can do desensitize yourself.
I mean, if you're that excited that you come quickly, I mean, okay, you send.
Speaker 4You a picture of my life and that will cure that problem.
You just have the woman hold it.
When you look at it, you will not premature.
Speaker 2You actually go limp.
You will now suffer from pdfe you dick.
It's one of those things you can't unsee.
But she's a lovely woman, right.
Speaker 3Let's go with that.
So, I mean, I think there's more you can can you can to some degree desensitize yourself and so you don't come so quickly.
But if you're that excited, I mean, that's the whole point.
You're that excited, why would I want to Okay, I understand, you know, the woman might not be that happy about it because you didn't get a chance to come.
But if you're that excited, why would you want to hold back?
You know, thinking selfishly, I think for yourself.
Speaker 2I think there's a cheese mouth type of thing.
Speaker 3I could go for hours, and it's like, well, yeah.
Speaker 2You know, I mean, you know, sixty minutes make up an hours.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Does that mean you're gonna have sixty sex sixty times?
Speaker 2I didn't say that if we have sixty times, like over a year, I fucked you for an hour, okay, one second every twice a month.
Speaker 3Oh g sixty second because it is still an hour Okay, Yeah, I mean, but I don't know.
For me, it's like I want to have the organism and the time it takes, at the time it takes.
Speaker 4I mean, I know different everyone's in all fairness, men lead a more difficult sexual life, they really do.
Speaker 3I agree, women.
Speaker 4Get to control if you're going to have sex, true way, and simple two.
A woman will sit there and go, oh, this dick's too small, he came too quick.
We don't get we're just happy to get sex.
Speaker 2I mean, man, it's playing simple men, you know, simple, especially in the swinger world.
Speaker 4You know, basically we sit there and go, she's a sweet looking woman.
She you know, she's a sweet woman.
She's you know, she might not be you know, selma hyak right, but I'll close my eyes and she is, you know or whatever.
Speaker 2You know, women get to be a little more picky.
Speaker 3Women are a lot more keep.
Speaker 2Women control sex.
Women control the world.
They just don't know it yet.
Speaker 3No, they we just don't know it, but you do.
Yeah, women are definitely.
Speaker 2It all boils down to the man's penis.
That's where the brain is.
Speaker 3Yes, that's what they always say.
He thinks with the small head.
Speaker 2I'm a man, I admit it.
You know I've said that before.
Speaker 4You know, a couple with a great sexual relationship is the happiest.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Speaker 4When you go a long period of time without sex, you know, your wife says and you take the trash out.
They may do it, but in their head they're like, fuck you take out yourself.
Speaker 2Put you to what.
Speaker 4That guy's getting sex every couple of days.
You sit there and go, honey, I need your left arm.
Can you shut cut it off?
Speaker 2Sure, honey, it's the truth.
It's the honest truth.
Speaker 4Men.
That are all the guys I know.
The happiest ones are the ones with the most actress sex.
Like they might not be happy about what their wife asked them to do or what they're expected to do, they do it because they're getting sex.
Speaker 2It's everything you want to you know.
Speaker 3Uh, they do anything.
Speaker 4Surely, go and cut her mom so on.
I hate her mom, but you know what, I've been getting it three times a week.
I'm not going to mess that up.
Speaker 2I'm going over there.
That's the truth.
Speaker 3No, men are simple creatures.
Speaker 4We are women.
Some women understand it, but they don't utilize it.
Speaker 3Mm hmmm.
You know, and we need to have some firewood cut too.
Speaker 2Just cut up a bunch of gotten, so shut up, you will I do.
I got fifty bags of forty pound bags of pellets, a whole up tour.
Speaker 3I better be sucking you, dick.
Speaker 2I better I get the top of the steps.
You better open your mouth.
Speaker 3I'm not gonna do that tonight.
I better suck a mean dick tonight if I want those bags of.
Speaker 2You know, I don't know which of the seven Dwarfs that it's in the Dwarf family family.
Speaker 3Sometimes it's sleepy, sleepy.
Speaker 4Spitty anyway, all right, So that was a discussion.
Speaker 2Yeah, info at hot wifepodcast dot com to hear from you.
Let us know your thoughts on four guys from control men or women or both or whatever you might identify us.
We've been hearing from our friend, my favorite cookie.
You know, he is living the cuckold life.
Speaker 3Mm hmm.
Speaker 2He told me that his neighbor he bumped into and was talking to her, she has had sex in like five years.
I said, dude, sounds like she's making you an offer.
And he's like, well, I'm a cuckold.
Remember It's like, you know, you can take a break from cuckolding and just have sex.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Speaker 2Yeah, he says.
He found out she has something.
He says, I said, run oh oh yeah, something makes you burn burns when you pee.
So so he said stay away for her.
Speaker 3She's had it for five years.
Speaker 2I guess she got it and then stopped having sex.
I don't know.
Speaker 4I don't know the whole story and that's fine.
But but he's living his cuckhold life.
Man, He's he's got friends, he's watching his ex.
Seat is her boyfriend's ass, and a bunch of stuff going on there.
Speaker 3You have not forwarded those emails to me, even you forwarded the one from j you know out there and I've been too busy working.
But yeah, she's still with her, you know, her friend, and you know, sex is hotter than ever, you know.
I mean, she says she's still having fun with him, and and you know, the I think with her there must be I believe there's like an age difference.
Yeah, there's definitely an age difference.
And he's got a lot of energy, and that she's just loving it.
I mean, you know, because she told me stories like to wear like a short skirt and he'll just bend her over and just fuck her like, you know, just over the kitchen table skirts.
Because I bend you over and you over the kitchen table.
Speaker 2I was in funny.
I couldn't tell.
Speaker 3I could have been somebody else skirt.
I'm telling you you are rocking that world.
You are, and it's so not fair, but I'm just I'm just glad that people can be honest with themselves and their desires, and you know, as long as everybody's like like we said before, everybody's consenting and on board and all this other stuff, and that they're able to experience it and be true to themselves, whether it's being cuckled or whatever.
You're into whatever you're you know, and nobody looks at you like you're a freak.
And that was one thing that that Ali was bringing up.
And when she talked to Vanilla friends about her desires, are like, oh, you know, they're into this, and then there's such a freak.
And she got like, you know, I get it.
Speaker 2That she's a freaking Yeah.
Speaker 3Exactly, and she's like, just clamp.
You just stop talking, you just stop talking.
Speaker 4But the other thing, tomorrow I'll be putting up the new fifty Shades of Pleasure, Yes magazine.
Speaker 3The free and it is a Halloween version.
Speaker 4It's it's a Halloween themed Halloweener Halloween, and you've seen it.
Speaker 3It really looks great, it looks awesome.
I like it.
Speaker 4Probably by noon tomorrow it will be the new issue at fifty Shades of Pleasure dot com.
Speaker 2Check it out.
It's free, Tell your friends.
Speaker 3It's all kinds of like spooky recipes.
Speaker 2Sorry, not all kinds.
Speaker 3Now, there's two two.
Speaker 2Just a couple of drinks, just.
Speaker 3A couple of drinks.
I saw the pictures.
Speaker 2Role playing carr Stories and Blindfold, and my dog's given Donna kisses here.
It almost sounds like Donna's masturbating, but she's not.
Speaker 3I can't with my mouth, my dog'.
Speaker 2Excusing me stop anyway, So check out what and where and who Donna is doing.
Speaker 3Someone scene kisses.
Speaker 2Very intrusive for a dog, ye, intrusive.
But check out where and when Donna is doing the hot livedonaland dot com.
Speaker 3I'm posting tomorrow for sure, since a day off.
Speaker 4Also, feel free to emails with questions, comments, statements if you want to write for the magazine.
I also next month will be another Swinger Magazines.
So we're going to make Fifty Shades of Pleasure be more what it was originally meant to be a B DSM magazine, right, and we're going to have a new one called The Swinger's Journal that's going to be a basically just about swinging, you know, So it.
Speaker 3Sounds like fun.
Yeah, we'll work for me, yeah of course.
Speaker 4But anyway, so again, I hope you uh all, you know, thank you all for listening, and again our numbers are growing back to where they were, which is very flattering.
And yeah, so again I want to thank everyone and stay horny.
Speaker 3I have a great night, everybody,