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Now let's heat things.
Speaker 2Up, Hill, let them get to SCRAMed.
It sounds too roughly you wild air streams.
Speaker 3I'm my podcast.
Speaker 2Breaking all the norms, open discussions about the swing a fall.
Hello everybody, This is Donald Linn and welcome to a Hot White podcast.
And of course I'm here with Vince as usual, as usual as usual.
I'm hearing some humming.
What is going on with our system again?
Speaker 3I don't know, I have to.
Speaker 2I don't hear it until I start watching things.
Speaker 3I'm going to actually take this mixing board and reset it on and go back from scratch or things.
Speaker 2So yeah, I'm just hopefully not too.
Speaker 3Many things, and I don't didn't untoy a couple of things, I think, But anyway.
Speaker 2Stop playing with the switches.
You're like a child.
Stop it.
Keep your and keep your hands back.
Speaker 3I don't masturbate my whatever knobs I can get my hand on.
Speaker 2I was just gonna say, stop playing with your dick so much.
Speaker 3But that's why I can't.
I'm having a hard time seeing them.
My mom was right, go blind.
Speaker 2Gold blind.
I'm masturbated ways too much.
Speaker 3Memories, memories.
Hey, we had an interesting conversation prior to coming in here.
Speaker 2Yeah, I wish we could have gotten them on like right now.
Speaker 3Yeah, I wish he was available to show right up.
Well, there's could be hopefully hopefully not guys when the guy wants a girl.
But we uh met via phone call a gentleman that is in the lifestyle.
Is he sent us pictures his very gorgeous girlfriend.
Speaker 2And he's really hot too, very you know, in shape and fit.
Speaker 3And I didn't notice that.
Speaker 2Yeah right, I kept saying, look at these arms, look at these halves.
He's like, no, no, no, I don't see anything.
Yeah, you just.
Speaker 3Ignore you're that good looking.
Problems.
But he is in the process of making a new swinger site.
Speaker 2Yeah, that could be pretty exciting.
Speaker 3And his gorgeous girlfriend.
Did I mention she was gorgeous?
Speaker 2No, he didn't.
Do you want to mention she's gorgeous.
Speaker 3She's also a content creator.
Yes, so we have a lot of things to talk about.
You know, we're going to be getting him in here.
It's still beta testing his site, and but he's going to be releasing a new uh swinger site.
Speaker 2Yeah.
One, that's I'm hoping that it works out well because he's on the right track.
When you can, it's easier for people to meet, there be groups, you can, you know, it's it's I just feel like.
Speaker 3It's going to be doing some things that others don't do.
I guess right, right, you know he's wording it.
It's going to be kind of a swinger's Facebook.
Speaker 2Yeah, yeah, so we'll see.
He also compared it kind of the fet life.
I mean, I know how to that combination.
Yeah, combination.
Speaker 3It's exciting.
We'll have him in here more.
He could talk about it.
I don't want to talk out of turn because.
Speaker 2We don't know that much about it yet.
So it sounds exciting though, I mean.
Speaker 3He's exciting, very passionate about it.
Speaker 2Yeah, that's for sure.
Speaker 3So, and that's wou'd be kind of cool.
And he has a very experienced past in the life in the lifestyle.
So he said he's been seeing our profile for twenty years.
Speaker 2And I looked at him.
I'm like, he doesn't look like he's much older than twenty, but he is.
Speaker 3He's forty four forty four.
I was like, she looked at him and goes, you know what, he looks like one of the next guys I'm going to fuck.
Speaker 2Did I say that out loud?
Speaker 3Yeah?
Yeah, you don't have any inner monologue.
Speaker 2Oh no, I don't.
That's true.
Speaker 3You know I can see where you want too.
Speaker 2Yeah, and he's really hot.
His girlfriend is really hot too.
Speaker 3It's like, hmmm, I told him cards right, you could have me.
Speaker 2I know, she'd have to really play her cards right then you are very very difficult to.
Speaker 3Take some drama, mean throwing up of it anyway.
So tonight's topic.
Speaker 2Is how frequently should couples have sex.
Speaker 3This isn't just about couples in the lifestyle.
This is just like couples couples.
So even if you're in the lifestyle, it's we're not talking about how often should you play with other people?
Right, we're talking about just.
Speaker 2In your relationship, in your relationship, And we are not authorities, not even a little bit, don't even don't even pretend to be.
We're just going by with what we have seen in our relationship because a lot of people do reach out to us.
In fact, we just had a couple reach out that are going through a divorce and they're like, you guys sound like you're happy.
You know, I don't know if they ask like, what's the put it on?
We do.
We're really full of crab here.
But but yeah, there's there's things in a relationship, and sex is definitely part of a relationship.
I know you and I have talked about this, you know, at nauseum really you know.
But but sex is just one small facet.
There's so many other things in your life that makes up that relationship.
So tonight's topic is how often should you know a couple have sex?
What's the ideal for them?
What's you know?
Speaker 3This is just talk.
Speaker 2Oh yeah, we're just brainstorming.
Speaker 3People are like, well it should be three times a day everything, you know, and if you have a schedule and a partner that is all about that, sure, right, right, you know we're just going to share our thoughts on it.
Speaker 2Sure, absolutely, that's all this is.
Speaker 3I mean one of the first I think talking points to that is it all going to hamper on age and how busy you're schedule it.
Speaker 2Well, that's as you get older, that's true.
I mean, for sure, there's there's so many things in your lifestyle and you know, and you know, work or kids or this or that, and aging involved and you know, maybe physical limitations as you age and all these other fun things to look forward to.
So, I mean when I was younger, it was, you know, you fuck like a rabbit.
I mean, you know, the wind blew and you're like, I'm horny and you know what I'm saying.
So there's a there's a whole quality versus quantity type of things.
Speaker 3So it also depends how new your relationship.
Speaker 2Yeah, when it's new, all the time you were like masturbating to them and thinking about them, and you know all that was.
Speaker 3Shut I'm just checking.
Speaker 2Yeah, I mean, you know, when you're it's new, it's you know, it's.
Speaker 3There's a heightened passion, excitement, excitement.
Speaker 2For sure.
Speaker 3It's not exciting when you've been with him for you know, it's like the time, I don't dress sex anymore.
You wear baseball hats, grandma's shorts, hypothetical situation, shoulder braces, just things, throwing things out there, just you know, spitball.
Speaker 2This just happens, you know, asshole.
Speaker 3You're wearing trifocals.
You know sometimes.
Speaker 2When you get your glasses, you know, young.
Speaker 3Stud, I could find my walker, So I mean, now paratransit gets here.
It takes me to the eye doctor.
Speaker 2I'm true.
I know that feeling.
I know that feeling.
Well, I think now it's like, uh, I like a quality fuck rather than just quantity.
I want something I can really enjoy, you know, or that didn't even have to be fucking necessarily.
The orgasm is what I'm going for.
And I want a quality orgasm.
Why would I I don't want a half asked orgasm, no, but some are definitely bad.
Yeah, and I want a high quality one.
Why would I have like, or maybe not even achieve an orgasm.
You go through all this, you know, rigamarole, and you get nothing.
Speaker 3So that would and sex be satisfying without an orgasm?
Mmm mmm, different topic, but.
Speaker 2That's a good question.
I.
When I was younger, it was okay to have sex without an orgasm because I was just so happy just to have a dick inside me.
A dick insider, that hard sider.
But yes, I think now that I'm older, I'm a little more particular.
It's like, no, I just if I can't have a really good orgasm, I'm not going to bop or just going through the U the rigmar role of having sex for nothing.
Speaker 3Okay, is it important to have a higher quality orgasm or just to have an orgasm because you've played with guys as an example, he said, yeah, I had an orgasms.
They weren't like it weren't too rattling.
Speaker 2We weren't earth showering.
I'd rather have the earth showering dithers, you know, I mean, come on, I.
Speaker 3Have a you know twenty twenty six uh Ferrari or you know that you have to have a Honda.
You know I can give you a yeah in nineteen seventy eight Civic.
Speaker 2You know, they both get you to where you want to go, but one gets you there in a lot better style, a little more exciting as were that way.
Speaker 3But you know, it's like, no, if.
Speaker 2I have my ditherers.
I'd rather have the you know, over the top of all that goes.
That's kind of obvious.
Speaker 3Yeah, if you just get an orgasm.
Speaker 2With oh, I'm that's fine, that's nice.
You know, that's good.
That's fine, that's good.
But if I have the earth shadowing on, that's what I'm be talking about for quite a while.
Like the run a mill orgasm was like, but those ones like where you see colors and you're like, you know, you extra project your body to the next waiting for that one.
I guess.
Oh, there have been times that your your toes curled.
Well, no, you said you felt it in the toes you were missing.
That's how strong the orgasm was.
So that's a pretty strong orgasm.
Speaker 3And they haven't found that woman yet.
Speaker 2What did you do to I don't I don't even remember who that was.
I don't even think that was you think that was me?
I don't know.
I remember having a couple.
We call them toe curlers.
Speaker 3But yeah, I'm I mean, okay, so back to a couple.
Speaker 2Okay, the average couple, average.
Speaker 3Couple, Okay, and not you know, not necessarily in the lifestyle.
Okay, yeah, it's you know, I'd like to think it's quality.
You're not going through motions.
Speaker 2Yes, please don't.
Just don't take one for the team, or you know, just put out for me keep you know, to strutch your husband up, or either pussy just to shut your wife up.
It's you know, I hope, hope it's more than that.
Oh, shut up.
Speaker 3No, but I mean there are people in relationships that one of them might not necessarily be into the other one anymore.
Speaker 2Oh that's harsh.
Speaker 3Oh it happens.
Speaker 2I'm trying to tell me something, honey.
Speaker 3You know, I have a billboard sign at the bottom of the drive.
Speaker 2Well, because the other the other talking point for for this whole thing is communication.
So maybe you should communicate that to me.
Honey, you're just don't turn me on.
Well, you were communicating.
I guess I wasn't picking it up.
Speaker 3But no, I mean, you know, that's a whole other issue.
Though.
If one of the couple for some reason has lost sexual interest, either in sex or sex with.
Speaker 2Their mate, Oh, that's that's that's that's a that's a long hard road.
I don't I don't know.
Speaker 3If the guy not getting sexy, it will be hard.
Speaker 2Yeah, it would be difficult.
Yeah, that's I mean.
But again, to get back to that communication, why are you disinterested?
Is it me?
Is it the partner?
Is it?
You know that whoever it is is going through life changes or stress or work or kids or you know, communication, talk about it, talk about it.
Speaker 3Well some people Okay, yeah, some people I mean do I'll say, well out of love of sorts.
But they might love them, but they're not.
Speaker 2Passionately in love with them anymore like you were when you were first met.
Speaker 3Yeah, but I mean or the aspect of just well.
The one thing that could happen too is one of the people in the relationship might not be happy with their appearance.
They've gained weight or whatever.
Speaker 2Yeah, I got it.
Speaker 3You know, their ass doesn't look like it did when they first.
Speaker 2Got My ass only slides down half the back of my thighs.
It's not all the way back through.
I don't care what you say.
Speaker 3You can't run anymore back your knees.
Speaker 2I do hate you so much.
Speaker 3No, I mean, but no, but I mean that happens.
Speaker 2It does happen.
Speaker 3You know, people get uncomfortable with the way they feel they appear, even though their mate might sit there and go I'd love.
Speaker 2You the way you are, yeah, regardless.
Speaker 3Of you know, so that's an aspect too.
Speaker 2Yeah.
Yeah, until you until you have like a positive self image, you're not going to care what anybody else says.
So they could, you know, fly, how were you with all kinds of lavish compliments and you know, throw pedals at your feet.
But if you feel like you're not deserving or you don't like how you looking, yourself image is negative.
It doesn't matter what people say, because that's external.
My first wife, you know, lovely woman.
Speaker 3You never met her.
That's not my first wife.
I'm trying to be a dragon lady.
Okay, but anyway.
Speaker 2You lost your track the train of thought.
Speaker 3I have no sex drive now.
Speaker 2Sorry.
Speaker 3If I was ever gonna be impotent, it's right now, right now.
But but you know she was uncomfortable, especially after the kids, right you know, she put on the baby weight and you know the Danish weight and the cookie.
Speaker 2Baby waited, they the cookie weight, all the weights weight.
Speaker 3She would not have sex when the sun was up or during dayly eight hours and there's no light at all.
Speaker 2You know what she did?
You know what she did all these years she had she had a stunt double coming and.
Speaker 3Fucking why would you go get another woman as fat as she was?
Speaker 2That's well, maybe in the dark you couldn't tell the difference, but she she was like, quick, jump in, we won't be a stump up stunt double if they looked totally different.
The stunt double has to kind of look like the actor.
Speaker 3Right, it's in the dark.
Speaker 2How would you know she has blindfolded?
Speaker 3Wow, you're you're quit like an eight inch cop.
Speaker 2I don't remember this, yeah.
Speaker 3Honey, I don't remember having walls.
Fuck.
Speaker 2Okay, so she didn't do a good job of getting.
Speaker 3Like a man's chest.
Now when did you get hair?
Speaker 2Okay, she didn't get a very good stunt double.
Speaker 3She wasn't smart.
Okay, but no, and that happens.
Speaker 2Yeah, I got it.
Speaker 3But you know, well, and there's people that the other partner might not necessarily make them feel comfortable either.
Speaker 2Well, that's true too.
Okay.
You have to communicate.
If you're if your significant others, you know, calling you a lard ass, you might want to say, hey, that's not very nice.
I don't like him.
You call me that?
Speaker 3Will?
Speaker 2Is that free?
Will?
Speaker 3He?
Speaker 2Or I was wondering where you're going with that?
Speaker 3Slightly obscure, very obscure.
But yeah, so I mean again, the the average they say that a couple should have sex a week, right, they say, really for healthy raceship is at least once a week rain.
Speaker 2That's that's doable for most people, you know, not a month.
Oh yeah, I mean it's not a quarter.
Oh not not every equinox.
Speaker 3Yeah yeah, on February twenty ninth.
Speaker 2Yeah, I mean that that's a very doable.
It's not.
It's not like, oh, you know, three times a day.
It's like, oh my god, if I did that, I wouldn't get anything done.
You know, I'm saying I won't be able to hold out a job.
Speaker 3Stay awake.
Speaker 2So that's kind of like.
Speaker 3I don't know if I have three orgasms in me a week?
Speaker 2Oh you try, Yeah, you can definitely do that.
Speaker 3Prove me wrong.
Speaker 2Oh is that what this is?
They're baiting me?
Okay, oh no, hanh not.
Speaker 3You can't do that all grocial kind that's Sunday.
You only got two, so we got to start all because it's you know, Monday starts a new week.
Speaker 2No, Sunday starts the new week, depends on county.
That's true.
I'm old fashioned.
I like the week they start on Sunday and on Saturday because it is a week and it makes sense to me.
Speaker 3But whatever, would Sunday be the week end?
It's the Sunday would be the week beginning?
Speaker 2Oh God to pay, I asked, Yes, you're right.
Technically Sunday would be the week beginning and Saturday will be the week.
Speaker 3The week end is Saturday and Sunday Monday would be all.
Speaker 2Right, whatever you whatever.
Speaker 3County could be a whole different podcast anyway, But so.
Speaker 2What so once a week is what they're saying is pretty normal.
Speaker 3Well, it's what you should aim for as a minimum.
Yeah, that's definitely scheduling, and I agree.
You know, people have children and stuff like that, and know it's a busy world, kids and everything else.
We've talked about that where you know, some men aren't privy to how much a woman does.
You know, she might have a full time job, she goes home, does a laundry, has to take make meals for everybody, take care of the kids, help with homework, you know with the husbands puts his feet up, watch his TV.
You know not they don't.
Speaker 2They don't all do that.
Speaker 3Hm.
You know, dishes have to be done and all this, you know nobody, but you know, come ten o'clock at night.
Yeah, it's like, okay, I gotta take a shower and then try to please you.
I'm just repeating your words.
Speaker 2Oh my words, not yours.
Is that what you're trying to.
Speaker 3Say by what you tell me?
Speaker 2Yeah, that's it.
Okay, but.
Speaker 3No, it's understandable that you know.
But you know again, if you're in a situation like that where you're a sick significant other, because I can't say which way, it's not prone to just one.
Speaker 2One sex or yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3So if your partner is tired all the time, help them out.
Speaker 2Yeah.
If two people do the dishes, one washes, one drives, you put them in a dishwasher, whatever your thing is, if you both do it, you can get done quicker, like in half the time.
I mean realistically speaking, I mean yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3While someone's doing the dishes, someone helped the kids with homework whatever.
Speaker 2Yeah, So divide and conquer and then you can reward each other, you know, because there are so many benefits that come from an orgasm, all the emotional benefits.
Speaker 3I mean, oh, it's stress reliever, stress reliever, It brings you closer.
Speaker 2Yes, I agree.
I when we have gone through stretches where we have and had sex.
You know, I do feel like our team approach is kind of way meaning a little bit like there's some praying in the fabric.
You know, there's some holes in it.
Yeah, I know you have.
Speaker 3I know, not just about us, but right exactly in general that you said men are simple creatures.
An organism for a man buys a lot.
Speaker 2I know.
I got you to bring up pellets and do this and do that'ry to suck your dick.
Speaker 3It's great, but you didn't do that last night.
Speaker 2I did so last night.
You lineck a ship.
I sucked your dick last night.
Speaker 3Not to completion.
Oh well your arm was hurting.
Speaker 2Oh made me come though.
Speaker 3Well OK, but no, I've said before, you know men kind of in general.
I can't say everyone.
You know, when it gets to be a longer spance span span and longer distance.
Speaker 2Between worksts, use a different word.
Speaker 3Let me correct that.
Speaker 2Hey, how do you like that peanut butter stout?
Anyway, I know it's very right.
I had one sip.
Yeah.
Speaker 3The you know, if you're a week out or weeks out or weeks out and you know, I've said it before.
Your wife goes, honey, can you take the trash out?
You go and do it, but in your head's like, fuck you bitch, take it out yourself.
But you just had you got fucked or whatever in the last twenty four to possibly forty eight hours.
The wife says, honey, take tresha.
Yes, ma'am.
Yeah, I'm gonna keep her happy because I might get my dick sucked again.
She says.
You know, you know, she fucked you really good.
And honey, I need your left arm here, your left arm whatever.
You know me.
Speaker 2You know, if we'll drag their balls, we get.
Speaker 3An orgasm, you know what.
Men will fucking do anything.
Speaker 2Yeah, pretty much sometimes really, you know.
Speaker 3And so I mean that's why I like before sex, you know, it's a man just be kind of being man to stand around do it.
But like after he gets an organism, that's when he, you know, wants a cuddle and spoon and it's like you just you just pulled all the anger out of the tiger.
Speaker 2Yeah, that's a good way of putting it.
Sure, sure, I just can't.
I know, it's impressive, impressive, Yeah, I mean, there's so many other things to muse all kinds of chemical things that happened.
You're releasing some you know, and endorphins, and it's a bonding moment.
Yeah, it's a bonding moment.
But there's also the chemical things are being released, which is a great.
Speaker 3When I give you a good orgasm, how you just like roll over and go to sleep.
It's like, wow, she loves.
Speaker 2I've only done that a couple of times because sometimes it's just a lot.
It's just a lot many.
Speaker 3Times I want to go to sleep after an organism.
Speaker 2You can.
I don't care.
You can.
I do not mind at all.
Stop.
Well that might be, but I.
Speaker 3Tell everybody that too, so you get me next time.
I make sure my wife gets her organism.
How are you doing today?
Speaker 2That's why I like to I like it if if I don't come first, yeah, I like it.
If I don't, sure because it just wipes me out.
Speaker 3And wipes me out too.
But I got it, and you don't have to if you're after a few nights of that ship.
Each other's a pillow of my head.
Not that's why I cook to make sure you don't poison my food.
Good idea, but you know, I think you know once a week is if if everything winds up, sure, if everyone's feeling.
Speaker 2Well, exactly okay, right, you know, and.
Speaker 3You know, I mean there's a lot of factors to it.
Sure or again.
And the feeling well thing isn't just like oh I have a cold.
No, it's like like I have got a bad back right now, you're going through your other shoulder, you know, stuff like that.
Speaker 2Yeah, if I'm in like a weird position, it'll it'll start.
Speaker 3But there's days well, yeah, with my back and neck being all fucked up, you know again, high humid days.
Speaker 2Oh the humidity does my.
Speaker 3Brain or human heat or whatever, I'm in a lot of pain.
There's been times you've asked me to have sex and I'm like, I can't.
Speaker 2And I wrote all them down, I said, on this date.
Speaker 3Yeah, I see that list.
It'd be three.
Speaker 2Times twenty seven seven you denying.
Speaker 3Sex, and you hold that against me.
Speaker 2No, I would never.
Speaker 3I kept a list of all the time.
Put me thicker than the Bible, Old time Testament, Today's Testament, last year's testent.
Speaker 2Oh my god, thanks you throwing me right under the bus.
Thank you so much.
I love you too.
Right to hear that, Okay, that's good.
Well, this it's we have to look at like the stages of relationship.
Remember when we first got together first, or we were twenty years younger.
Okay, we so had that, but the relationship is actually we were twenty two years younger or more.
Speaker 3But we're going three years now.
Speaker 2Something like that.
Yeah, yeah, I think so something like that.
So I mean I remember, do you remember I was wearing that that sun dress and we're driving somewhere and you were like finger me as we were driving.
We stopped at a park and I sat and you like reached it.
I just like saying like Indian stores early early days, and like you reached across you started finger me in like this park, and I had this skirt on so we could tell what was going on.
But you know you're doing me like in.
Speaker 3Public, remember that exactly whatere you're talking about.
Speaker 2Yeah, you know in the time we're in that office and you picked me up and put me on that fireplace.
Man to my bussy.
Speaker 3Now, because of my back, you could I couldn't pick you up.
Speaker 2I couldn't have you pick me up because I wouldn't be able to support myself with my shoulders.
So we're a pair here.
You know, it's like.
Speaker 3Never a time yet took me from my walker and put me in.
Speaker 2A Wheelchair's getting to that point.
Hey, hey, we can laugh about it.
Speaker 3You know, I did shots of jar tog got all crazy.
Speaker 2Hey.
If if that's where it takes to have an orgasm, I will do it.
I will do it.
I am not I.
Speaker 3Am not a shamed you know the important of that whole scenario if someone is not wanting sex.
Speaker 2Or not able to have sex.
Yeah, communication is huge, we you know, I think we've said that earlier.
Speaker 3Absolutely it's important.
And everyone I talk about all right, when you're playing with other people and swinging, you know, you got to communicate.
What are our what are our rules?
What do we like, what don't we like?
Speaker 2I think just in life communication is key, just in life in general.
But I mean as you get older, you know, it's going to get to the point where maybe you can't have like actual intercourse.
So there's other things you may have to do, and you have to think outside the box.
Speaker 3It's always options.
Speaker 2Yeah, there's always options, you know, doing oral or toys or.
Speaker 3Again ran into that young guy who doesn't do or because out of that Oh my God, well he is gonna be lonely man.
Speaker 2Yeah, he's older.
Speaker 3His saying don't work.
Speaker 2It's like.
Speaker 3Because remember in.
Speaker 2A relationship, he stays, I don't get in a relationship, you're going to spend more time with somebody outside the bedroom than you do it.
Yeah, we have said that a millillion times.
Yes, that is absolutely true.
Speaker 3Absolutely, So why you have them in the bedroom, Take full fucking.
Speaker 2Advantage, plug every hole whatever.
Speaker 3It starts to scream, put your dick and no.
Speaker 2Come on, that's wrong.
But I mean you have to think outside.
Speaker 3The box, you know, you think about her box.
Speaker 2Yeah, or you know, bring a toy, you know, do some kind of massage, you know, bring a buddy in.
Sure, just stunt double, bring.
Speaker 3All your buddies in, you know.
I mean, you know there's things you could do to mix it up too.
Sure, don't rely on having intercourse every time.
Just have oral.
Speaker 2True you know, leaves you wanting more sometimes.
Speaker 3Yeah, he made a teaser and then maybe set it up so maybe the next night, so maybe both you can get orgasms, have twice in a week or whatever.
Speaker 2Yeah, that would be kind of cool, because you know, you're you.
I mean, I have a great orgasm orally, so it's not really quite the issue for me.
But yeah, I mean he leaves you wanting more up.
That's what you use to fire yourself up, you know, and things like oh, I'm wait till tomorrow.
I don't know that could backfires.
Speaker 3A really nice date night, get really nice dates.
Go get a hotel room someplace different.
Speaker 2Yeah.
Yeah, it seems like you have sex in the same place like all the time.
Speaker 3You know, money is tight.
You sit there and now you're stressing over.
Speaker 2How much a hotel that's going to ruin it?
Okay, you just grab your blow up mattress and go out and set up a pup tent.
What you know.
I guess we could probably well, we've we've had Yeah, we could have had sex in this place.
We could have I mean in the studio, it was.
Speaker 3You've had plenty of sex in here.
Speaker 2Yeah.
I oh my god.
We got to do something about that.
Speaker 3I'm just told you, like a month ago, we were in two months ago, we were in the pool.
Speaker 2Ye.
Speaker 3And it's like I said, every studio we've had because you're old, not when other people are there.
We had plenty of time in this you.
Speaker 2Know, I'm slacking here, folks, I better chick it up or not.
Speaker 3I have not had sex down by the pool.
Speaker 2I did not, I do not.
I guess you were sitting on the side of the pool.
Did I not blow you there?
Are you sure?
So many dicks a little time?
That is a.
Speaker 3Problem, Veranda, our decks never had sex?
Speaker 2Oh my god, I'm really I'm believe.
Speaker 3Could you tell me the orgasms I give you are so strong that you just want to go to sleep afterwards.
That's why we don't even have sex in the morning.
Speaker 2You say, oh, yeah, that that'll be too much.
And I do like lying I have the best orgasms in our nice comfortable bed, you know, like lying down, just just being to.
Speaker 3Wake up in the morning, and you're sure you sit there that fucking bed.
I hate it, but now it's a comfortable bit.
Speaker 2I say that way to get out of I'm so much trouble now there was so much got shitty and grin on your face.
Oh my god, no, I mean, yeah, I know, I know.
It's some of those some of those places are kind of unusual to have sex.
And I have done it, and it's.
Speaker 3Done you in the edge of the pool.
You didn't do me.
Speaker 2I did you.
I wouldn't swim.
Speaker 3I would remember.
I'd be like, wow, I actually get to have sex and places other people that sex with my wife.
Speaker 2Okay, I'll have to definitely make it.
Well, how about you.
We'll go down to the pool right now.
Speaker 3I'll get in the water.
Speaker 2Such an ass I think the water is like seventy degrees.
Speaker 3We would be able to have intercourse because you're so tight and you're as I have a cold piece of coal in them and get diamonds inside a half.
Speaker 2Hour, and you know what, my lips would be so coold or I wrapped around your dick go inside.
Speaker 3All right, Well that was just a little thing we want to kick around.
It's like, what's you know, what's the ideal number of the amount of times you should have sex in a week with your partner?
Speaker 2With your partner?
Well, I think everyone has to come up with their own sweet spot, you know, on their own and what works for them with you know.
Speaker 3And that's the magic number.
Speaker 2Yeah, well there is no magic.
Speaker 3Number, partner to determine.
Speaker 2What works for you.
I agree, I agree.
Speaker 3Uh, you know, so it's a communication.
Oh they got that.
Speaker 2Deer, Oh did they?
Speaker 3Right before we did the podcast?
We're on the phone.
As we've said before, our house is on a big hill and we have a lot of woods, and you need to say, have a lot of deer on the property.
And our neighbor as a tree stand in our backyard.
Speaker 2And see him.
But he's there.
Speaker 3They while we were on the phone, is big deer jumped and running across And I texted him right before the show and actually talked to on the phone.
Then were you guys back there hunting?
That's a big deer jump and he goes, matter of fact, we did, and we're tracking it now.
Speaker 2So I'm there.
Speaker 3It's hung up now he's waiting out.
Speaker 2So they're not going to save us the backstraps we.
Speaker 3Have ring blowney, we don't get backstraps.
Speaker 2Bring Blowney's good.
I'll take it.
Speaker 3Yeah, whatever didn't cost us anything?
Yeah, one unless do you have a chance of getting hit by true?
Speaker 2And one less they'd be eating my damn hostas I'll be eating it.
Speaker 3Okay, how we I think we're done.
Speaker 2I think we're done with this one is topic.
Speaker 3So again check out the free magazine.
The new one is posted.
Pretty happy with it.
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It's free, we share, tell people about it and what else.
The other magazines get ready come out for next month.
Okay, we're going to convert fifty Shades into more of a BDSM magazine.
Speaker 2Okay, that sounds good.
Speaker 3So go check out Donna and what Donna's doing doing.
Speaker 2That Hot Wife doonaland dot com.
I definitely need to do some posting.
Sorry, work has gotten in the way, guys.
Sorry about that.
It's been a little hectic around here.
But I think, well, we can do it.
We can do this.
Speaker 3Do you want to reach out to us info at hotwavepodcast dot com.
I love hearing from you guys all and uh, you know all the things people are doing while they listen to the podcast.
I mean, this one wasn't a sexy podcast, sorry, but fed was a worthwhile topic.
Yeah.
Speaker 2I think it's helpful, you know.
I mean, it helps boost your sexual relationship or relationship with your significant other.
It's all.
It's all valid.
Speaker 3So so in the next few weeks, I think we have some pretty sexy work coming up.
I have some people coming and stuff.
Speaker 2I oh, we have people coming, Okay, I have people showing up.
Speaker 3Anyway, So again with that.
Thank everyone for listening.
Please you enjoy the show, which I see a lot of people do, share it with your friends and you know, stay horny.
Speaker 2Oh wait, I have a great nine.
Everybody