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"It's the safety first thing"

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Speaker 1

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Now let's heat things up.

Speaker 2

Let them get to scramedtimes.

Speaker 3

Do rough little wild air streams on my podcast, breaking on the norms, open discussions about the swing a fall.

Speaker 2

Hello everybody, this is DONALDNN and welcome to my Hot White podcast.

And of course I'm here with my ever loving husband Vince.

Speaker 3

As I move my mic and make noise.

Speaker 2

Oh that's okay, I mean we're human, so yeah, that's blowss No, We're not.

Speaker 3

Just go with that, okay.

So again, kind of exciting being back and it feels fresh and new.

Speaker 2

It does.

Speaker 3

It is little I think, what was it?

Maybe we were off for two months.

Speaker 2

Something like that, and it was yeah, I mean, just life just got in the way.

Speaker 3

I hate this always gets the way.

Speaker 2

Yeah, it really does.

But you know now it's like I'm I'm getting all kinds of text messages from play meets, like, hey, Donna, how are you doing this week?

You know, my birthdays right about the same time yours is.

Speaker 3

So if by the way, I'm not that didn't say it right, but I'm saying on the show, happy birthday.

Speaker 2

Yes, yes you did the first thing.

It was like a couple of minutes.

Speaker 3

After I said, three minutes after midnight last.

Speaker 2

Night, and he's like, gotta be birthday.

I'm like, real, you have to rub it in.

Speaker 3

Well, but I know you said you were tired and get that away from you.

So I didn't rub it in, you rubbed on out and whatever, you know whatever, play on words.

Speaker 2

Yeah, So I have a have another playmate.

His birthdays a little bit before mine.

So one's true.

Speaker 3

Talking about whatever.

Speaker 2

I'll tell you, Yeah, it doesn't matter, Yeah, it doesn't matter.

Speaker 3

Are you going to give him a birthday gift?

Speaker 2

Yeah?

Probably.

Maybe I'll surprise you he pops over some Saturday You're at work, and I'll, you know, have him come over.

We'll have some fun and then I'll tell you about it after he leaves.

Speaker 3

There you go, Wow, it seems like a.

Speaker 2

Little thing that we're delving into.

I'm definitely being more of a always been a hot wife, but this is playing a lot more like by myself.

Speaker 3

I think you're more secure with it.

Speaker 2

Well, these are guys I'm very secure with Yeah, and that helps.

I wouldn't do it if if I weren't.

Speaker 3

No, we're just going to pick some stranger off the street.

Speaker 2

You know.

Speaker 3

I trust you won't go murder my wife.

Speaker 2

Yeah, here you go here, just beat her up, fucker.

I don't care whatever you want to do, but.

Speaker 3

Make sure we can find the body.

Speaker 2

Yeah, there we go.

Speaker 3

There's no evidence that I.

Speaker 2

Did it exactly.

Speaker 3

I don't want to be playing this time all the other wives.

Speaker 2

I have the other wives.

Okay, you and Henry the eighth right.

You try to say fat, I didn't say that.

No, he murdered a lot of wives.

Speaker 3

Too, and and he was fat, and he was fat.

Speaker 2

Okay, so there you go.

Well, you know, because I sees.

Speaker 3

It, you know, Wow, we get old, we get nasty.

Speaker 2

Yeah, thanks, I feel this actual.

Speaker 3

Yeah, well, you know, the pair of transit buses here for.

Speaker 2

You and I'm good with that time.

Speaker 3

So no, that, I mean, that was kind of what we you know, uh, would be a great topic to talk about, is how we have evolved.

It's something that not every couple can do.

Speaker 2

You know.

Speaker 3

The the whole hot wifing thing element is a different level of swinging.

Speaker 2

Oh yeah, I remember I was talking to Yeah, I was talking to one lady and no, I saw her profile on so maybe was as ill asked who knows?

And she was like, I am definitely not a hot wife.

And I'm like, oh wow, that's a little I mean, she was like it was all in capital letters and I was like, okay, what okay, So you're a still swinger, but you're just not a hot wife.

He doesn't play or you.

Speaker 3

Can be a swinger not a hot wife, but you can't be a hot wife and.

Speaker 2

Not a true That's very true.

And for us, it's we trust each other.

You trust me.

We have a trust.

If I play with somebody when you're at work, you know about it.

It's always been that way.

Speaker 3

There's been a few times you're like, oh I had.

Speaker 2

Some yeah, but I tell you about it eventually.

It's not like I don't tell you about it.

I mean, yeah, there has to be a trust's a level of trust.

Speaker 3

Sure.

Well, first of all, I'm aware you're not again just going to go to the local grocery store.

Excuse me, sir, and as you come home.

Fuck yeah, I mean you know I tried that with women, wound up in jail, just terrible.

Well, first, the first part is it, you know when they laugh at me.

Speaker 2

Well yeah, then again they put me.

Speaker 3

In jail because I think I'm crazy because we're just sitting there in a fetal position, crying in the middle of a grocery store.

Speaker 2

Well, you know, you do have your your emotional issues, so we'll get help for you.

Speaker 3

Thank you.

But no one, I know, if you play with somebody when I'm not around, it's going to be you know, a few things.

One someone you have played with exactly, to someone we both trust exactly and three year horny exactly covers the.

Speaker 2

Three main things.

And yeah, it's it's the safety first thing, of course.

And these are guys I've been with on hot dates or some kind of dates or some kind of social.

Speaker 3

Hot day.

You know, they know what they can do, what they can't do.

They you know, now they're well behaved, like the one gentleman who I think you're talking about for his birthday.

Speaker 2

This is the guy that comes like.

Speaker 3

He has to jerk off your shoes at a mile, takes planes out of the sky.

Speaker 2

That's him.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Yeah, I mean you haven't hot dated him yet at all.

No, he's he's so such a great guy.

We have such great conversations with him, uh and everything else.

Yeah, it's like that.

It's a no brainer.

He's been really fact you haven't gone on a hot date with him.

Its kind of more amazing.

Speaker 2

Well, it's just been timing and sure, I'm just all that.

You know, trying to scheduling is just an issue.

But I mean that's just that's just life again.

So yeah, I mean we'll definitely get around to going out to i'ming dinner, then come back here and having some fun.

So that's all I think.

Hmm.

Speaker 3

Yeah, I don't think he has his own place, no, so yeah he doesn't.

Ye See that's something you haven't done.

But one or two times he isn't actually going a hot date and then go back to their place.

A lot of times the one guy you did that with his mom had passed right and his dad's older, right, so he moved he moved back to take care of his dad.

Speaker 2

Ye, so that yeah, that kind of ruined that is like.

Yeah, and even with the second gentleman, he's living with his parents because they again are older, and he's kind of taking care of them in a way too.

Mister jerk off his shoots it.

Speaker 3

I didn't think his dad was around it.

I think it's just his mom.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I don't remember if you had it.

Speaker 3

Yeah, I don't remember the situation, but I think his mom lives with him, right, And.

Speaker 2

Yeah, he's kind of taking care of her because she is up there.

Speaker 3

And she's all right.

And he's a younger gentleman.

Yeah, he's younger, so I maybe I would say, what, he's early mid thirties.

Speaker 2

Something like that.

Yeah, yeah, I think so.

I think his mom's like, all right, she's got to be older than that.

Speaker 3

Right, I don't know.

I don't have a situation.

Not important, that's important.

Speaker 2

But he's fucking someone.

Speaker 3

So do you find the aspect of playing without me being there running a camera or anything a little more a little more titillating?

Speaker 2

Yes, I know I kind of like that you're there because I know I'm teasing you, and.

Speaker 3

I like that you're teasing me.

If I'm not there, I know.

Speaker 2

But I don't see the visual.

I don't see you know.

Speaker 3

You never even look at me anyway when you're playing.

And I'm not a person who sits there and jerks off while you're doing it.

Speaker 2

No, no, but I know if you're there that I know that you are aroused.

Yeah.

Yeah, And of course we send you videos when you're hurt work.

Speaker 3

You sometimes sometimes you haven't.

Speaker 2

I've been very trying to be very good about that.

Speaker 3

Now I'm trying to turn out the videos even you just send me a still.

Speaker 2

Vieies are a lot more fun.

It was ten seconds, you know.

Yeah it's kind of hot.

Speaker 3

But yeah, no, it's no, it is.

I find it very erotic.

No, and you're having fun and yeah and again because I've seen it, like when you play with someone without the cameras, it's a little different.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I don't have to worry about it.

Oh it is this my good side?

Speaker 3

Well you're not.

Yeah, you're not worried about camera angles.

Speaker 2

You're not worried about getting your ass in the right place to see a good cream pie, which is that's what I like to see I want I want to see that.

Speaker 3

Yeah, I get that.

Speaker 2

I find that erotic.

I do like to watch myself again having sex.

Speaker 3

Okay, you know you're both a boy.

Speaker 2

Or and exhibition sort of like we were gone.

Speaker 3

What's a what's a word?

I'm looking for the people like I think they're great narcissistic.

There you go.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I could be that too.

Speaker 3

I thanks a little bit narcissism.

Speaker 2

Look at as look at my ass.

It's not not like that.

It's like we were going through many bits and we're just seeing, like you know, all the different videos.

And there's one I did with that one black guy and I'm kind of in reverse cowgirl on.

Speaker 3

His he's on his side.

Speaker 2

No, god, his dick was so huge.

Oh my god, Yes, that was you know, that was like the yeah, milk loves a or what a cougar loves a or whatever that is called.

Yeah, thank god.

This guy's dick wasn't so long.

That guy get hitting bottom.

But I'm like on like kindomy verus cowgirl, and his stick is is thicker, not as long, but it's there's such a contrast between his dark, dark, dark skin and my white, white, white skin.

So it's it was very erotic.

I used to I do like watching those videos.

I'm riding the cowgirls, seeing that big black and I mean it's very very titillating.

Speaker 3

Good.

Speaker 2

Yeah, it's it's kind of exciting.

It's titillating.

Speaker 3

It's I can honestly say, I've only ever seen myself in one video.

It wasn't with you as my first mistake.

And I told her after I watched it, it's like, you're a lion bitch.

No way to no way after seeing what I look like, I having sex naked, there's no way you find me sexy.

You're a lion bitch.

Speaker 2

That's why we have blindfolds.

Speaker 3

Yeah, it's always funy and funny.

How you insist on wearing them?

Speaker 2

Well, you know, I mean.

Speaker 3

It's like, wait, you play with these other guys you don't wear a blindfold, but with me, you well to talk like the lights are out, curtains are drawn.

You said you want to have a room built onto the house with no windows and no lights, trying to give me a hint.

Speaker 2

Yeah, well, I like being blindfold and I find that very erotic.

Blind pholt is cool because then you use your like 're tactile.

You can use your fingers to you know, sort of kind of yeah.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 2

You don't have that visual queue, so you're not you're not exactly sure where you're going with things because you have to like, you know, feel your way in the dark.

You know, where are things?

Speaker 3

Okay?

Speaker 2

I mean, you know, once you start kissing and kind of like no, okay, here's this tourso and we're going down and we're going down and then you find something boink.

Oh that must be his dick.

Speaker 3

Hello, you can't tell your problem.

Speaker 2

But it's so cool because you can't.

I mean, usually you can see it first, but if you don't, you feel it first, or sometimes you can like feel like especially if a guy that oozes a lot of pre come, it's like it's like rubbing against your belly, so you can feeling it's like, oh, that's wet.

It's like, oh, somebody's excited.

And but you don't see that.

You can just feel that.

You can you know, you can touch that.

Speaker 3

So there's a new gentleman we're talking to that we're going to meet for the first time at a public restaurant right Sunday.

Speaker 2

Nice guy, you're gonna have.

Speaker 3

You seen what he looks like?

Speaker 2

Oh?

Speaker 3

He's got a great podcast podcast voice.

And so when the first time you guys meet sexually, do you think you want to be blindfolded for that?

So you that's what your fingers do.

Exploring what he's got.

We haven't.

You haven't seen a picture of his things yet, have you?

Speaker 2

No, I don't don't know what he's packing or not.

Speaker 3

With hints because we know somebody else he played with you who insisted on a certain criteria.

Speaker 2

Right as far as girth and length.

Speaker 3

Goes, general size will put it that way.

Speaker 2

Yeah, he might be a little challenging for me.

Speaker 3

Just might that's the same.

Do you think the blindfold will help add to your excitement if you're blindfolded.

Speaker 2

And that might be interesting, help.

Speaker 3

You get your motor running head on the highway.

Speaker 2

Maybe that might not be a bad idea, actually, you know, yeah, I mean something certainly different having done a blindfolded a long time since.

Speaker 3

Yeah, I mean I talked to I talked to him, you know, ten minutes before the show.

I talked to him for over ten minutes.

But yeah, he has a bunch of questions he's wanting to feel out, like what you like, what you don't like, and everything else.

He has his questions for it.

Oh okay, well so he's uh interested in uh pleasing you.

Speaker 2

Okay, well you know, maybe tell him I like vanilla ice cream and.

Speaker 4

You know, smothered an apple pie pie.

Now you're after you've served me on lobster baked potato with butter broccoli, and.

Speaker 2

You have to have a steak.

If you're gonna have baked potato.

Speaker 3

You have a surf turf.

Speaker 2

Uh.

You know, I wasn't hungry he started talking about that.

It's like that would be.

Speaker 3

Now, you have had other gentlemen that we can only assume.

I have not seen, nor have I asked this gentleman to show me what he's bringing to the table.

But you've had other gentleman that you could not.

Speaker 2

I could have put him in my pussy.

Is that what you're trying to say?

Yeah, okay, yes, yes, that is very true.

I'm not a large person.

Speaker 3

I don't think those guys in the past put the time in to get you revved up enough.

We've had to experience.

We've talked about this.

Speaker 2

Yeah.

Speaker 3

Yeah, sometimes these guys with the big dicks just want to think, like I got a big dick, you should be fired up and I plunge it in.

I'm going to make you like a popsicle.

You know.

Speaker 2

I'm like those toys you pull, you know, this little puppet and you pull the like.

Speaker 3

This guy used to be an exotic dancer.

Speaker 2

Yeah.

Speaker 3

That do you think him doing a dirty couch dance for you might be fun?

Speaker 2

That would help?

That actually would be a lot of fun.

Speaker 3

Do you think that would help?

Oh yeah, well you're doing one for him.

Speaker 2

Reciprocal.

Sure that might be kind of fun too.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

And he was a huge video so we could actually make videos.

Speaker 2

My god, his his b his biceps are huge.

Yeah, he is a he seems to be a large man.

Speaker 3

He works out.

He's six four six six.

Speaker 2

Oh really, I had no idea.

I was like, you know, some people look kind of oh Jesus Lord, I am.

Speaker 3

For ten for ten and a half.

Speaker 2

For ten and a half, Oh my god.

Yeah, I mean in the pictures he looked big.

But I thought, oh yeah, sometimes sometimes like stockier guy.

Speaker 3

Years.

Speaker 2

Yeah, so I didn't think he was that tall.

That's crazy tall.

Speaker 3

Close to our age group.

I'm going to say, yeah, he's more mature.

Speaker 2

You can put that one for sure.

Speaker 3

He's in our age area.

I'll put it that way.

Yeah, I don't know his exact age.

Speaker 2

No, I don't need to, don't.

Speaker 3

I don't know, you know, you know, but he you know, maintains his shape.

Speaker 2

Holy crap from the pictures he sent.

Now, these pictures are current, which he said they are.

He's got nice abs, He's he's very very meat, which might be kind of fun.

Speaker 3

You haven't seen the meat yet.

Speaker 2

No, I just meant like his arms, chest, you know, he works out.

Yeah, he's a fine specimen of a man.

You're gonna, well, I'll find out.

Speaker 3

How you're going to take a specimen.

Speaker 2

I think I will.

Speaker 3

So I'm going to meet him, just hang out and have a face face chat Sunday.

Speaker 2

Right, that sounds nice.

Speaker 3

We could talk about that on Monday show.

Speaker 2

Yeah, that'd be great.

Sure.

I think will be a lot of fun because he's definitely has a lot of experiences he can pull from with the dancing and stuff.

Speaker 3

That we're going to get him on the podcast.

Speaker 2

He has the stories he's been telling us.

He has a very interesting yeah past background sure with the dancing, and then he knows a lot of the people that were in the porn industry that we knew or at least one in particular.

Speaker 3

Well, I'm sure it's probably more if we dove into it.

I don't need to dive into it.

I'm trying to get away from some of that.

Speaker 2

Well that, yeah, I get that.

That was not a good error for us.

He ended up being a scumback, but that's another story.

But the podcasts, Yeah, but the cool thing is, I mean you had a lot of really big names on the podcast, well, big names.

Speaker 3

Back then I ran back then it was called the porn Star Network.

No, it was all Pleasure Now to Triple X all Ports our network which I did not come up with a name one, but yeah, we had all the big porn stars on there, and for that time I did.

I co hosted a few shows.

Yeah, so I shot some of them.

Speaker 2

Yeah, yeah, true.

Yeah.

I think it would be really interesting and with a lot of fun.

And I think he could bring a lot of excitement and some new experiences to the table, you know, just because he just has a different background, the whole male dancer thing and that whole I think that'll be fun.

I just think that'll be a hoot, you know.

Speaker 3

Well, and again having you both compare your experiences as dancers could be good guys.

From hearing from the male ende.

Speaker 2

It's much different being in that industry, if you can call it that, as a male dancer as opposed to be female dancer.

Sure, you know, I mean he traveled.

Speaker 3

A lot, but my experiences A.

Speaker 2

Of course you can.

I'm but I could if you have.

Speaker 3

If I had been a successful jig and have one customer like that, would.

Speaker 2

You could have rad it so you could have joined in the conversation.

Speaker 3

But I'll just run the board.

I'd be fine.

It's all good.

You just hate.

Speaker 2

And you do that so well constantly my profession.

Oh my god.

Yeah, I think he'll be a lot of fun because he's very easy to talk to and he's very forthcoming with his yeah, great voice, very forthcoming with his experiences.

So it should be.

It should be a lot.

Final'll see what happens with it.

I'm I'm hoping good thoughts here.

I'm hoping that it, you know, works its way out and we can schedule things.

Speaker 3

It's going to happen, but so for now, don't forget to check out hot Wife donald Win dot com.

Speaker 2

Yeah, and I'm posting things again, so.

Speaker 3

I'm I'm I'm fresh stuff.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I'm getting back into things.

It's it's going to take a little bit.

Yeah, yeah, I have a funny thing that the stuff I shoot with him is going to be a little bit over the top, but I fun over the top on the bottom top, you know, in out whatever.

Speaker 3

And and just so you guys will get to see what I see, we bought a camera system more recently that's all wireless and remote that actually so when I'm not around, if Donad's was a playdate, she can actually record it, you know that.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I know that you have to set that up for.

Speaker 3

About saying so they'll be seeing what I see for the first time.

Speaker 2

Right potentially sure, But yeah, I am not the camera person.

Sorry, guys.

I am just not that person.

Speaker 3

Just set them up person, take it in the ass and.

Speaker 2

And I am so you know, a yeah, we're synergistic very.

Speaker 3

I'm half Italian half as I don't know where synergy is, but.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I mean I I do like the newer cameras because.

Speaker 3

The quality sound and no wires that.

Speaker 2

You that is that's worth right there, because we had like all these cameras like mounted in our bedroom were Goody came in and be like what the you guys are shooting poorn for shorts like yo, yo, we are.

There's wires subscribe well these are like you know, playmates and like yeah they see other wires like yeah, no doubting that, no doubting.

There's lights and all kinds.

Speaker 3

All right.

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Speaker 2

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Speaker 3

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There's some bondage stuff in this one, but.

Speaker 2

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Speaker 3

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Speaker 2

Yeah, God damn good looking.

Speaker 3

Goddamn right.

All right, hey everyone to say have a good night.

Speaker 2

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