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Now let's heat things up.
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Speaker 2Hello everybody, this is DONALDNN and welcome to my Hot White podcast.
And of course I'm here with my ever loving husband Vince.
Speaker 3As I move my mic and make noise.
Speaker 2Oh that's okay, I mean we're human, so yeah, that's blowss No, We're not.
Speaker 3Just go with that, okay.
So again, kind of exciting being back and it feels fresh and new.
Speaker 2It does.
Speaker 3It is little I think, what was it?
Maybe we were off for two months.
Speaker 2Something like that, and it was yeah, I mean, just life just got in the way.
Speaker 3I hate this always gets the way.
Speaker 2Yeah, it really does.
But you know now it's like I'm I'm getting all kinds of text messages from play meets, like, hey, Donna, how are you doing this week?
You know, my birthdays right about the same time yours is.
Speaker 3So if by the way, I'm not that didn't say it right, but I'm saying on the show, happy birthday.
Speaker 2Yes, yes you did the first thing.
It was like a couple of minutes.
Speaker 3After I said, three minutes after midnight last.
Speaker 2Night, and he's like, gotta be birthday.
I'm like, real, you have to rub it in.
Speaker 3Well, but I know you said you were tired and get that away from you.
So I didn't rub it in, you rubbed on out and whatever, you know whatever, play on words.
Speaker 2Yeah, So I have a have another playmate.
His birthdays a little bit before mine.
So one's true.
Speaker 3Talking about whatever.
Speaker 2I'll tell you, Yeah, it doesn't matter, Yeah, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 3Are you going to give him a birthday gift?
Speaker 2Yeah?
Probably.
Maybe I'll surprise you he pops over some Saturday You're at work, and I'll, you know, have him come over.
We'll have some fun and then I'll tell you about it after he leaves.
Speaker 3There you go, Wow, it seems like a.
Speaker 2Little thing that we're delving into.
I'm definitely being more of a always been a hot wife, but this is playing a lot more like by myself.
Speaker 3I think you're more secure with it.
Speaker 2Well, these are guys I'm very secure with Yeah, and that helps.
I wouldn't do it if if I weren't.
Speaker 3No, we're just going to pick some stranger off the street.
Speaker 2You know.
Speaker 3I trust you won't go murder my wife.
Speaker 2Yeah, here you go here, just beat her up, fucker.
I don't care whatever you want to do, but.
Speaker 3Make sure we can find the body.
Speaker 2Yeah, there we go.
Speaker 3There's no evidence that I.
Speaker 2Did it exactly.
Speaker 3I don't want to be playing this time all the other wives.
Speaker 2I have the other wives.
Okay, you and Henry the eighth right.
You try to say fat, I didn't say that.
No, he murdered a lot of wives.
Speaker 3Too, and and he was fat, and he was fat.
Speaker 2Okay, so there you go.
Well, you know, because I sees.
Speaker 3It, you know, Wow, we get old, we get nasty.
Speaker 2Yeah, thanks, I feel this actual.
Speaker 3Yeah, well, you know, the pair of transit buses here for.
Speaker 2You and I'm good with that time.
Speaker 3So no, that, I mean, that was kind of what we you know, uh, would be a great topic to talk about, is how we have evolved.
It's something that not every couple can do.
Speaker 2You know.
Speaker 3The the whole hot wifing thing element is a different level of swinging.
Speaker 2Oh yeah, I remember I was talking to Yeah, I was talking to one lady and no, I saw her profile on so maybe was as ill asked who knows?
And she was like, I am definitely not a hot wife.
And I'm like, oh wow, that's a little I mean, she was like it was all in capital letters and I was like, okay, what okay, So you're a still swinger, but you're just not a hot wife.
He doesn't play or you.
Speaker 3Can be a swinger not a hot wife, but you can't be a hot wife and.
Speaker 2Not a true That's very true.
And for us, it's we trust each other.
You trust me.
We have a trust.
If I play with somebody when you're at work, you know about it.
It's always been that way.
Speaker 3There's been a few times you're like, oh I had.
Speaker 2Some yeah, but I tell you about it eventually.
It's not like I don't tell you about it.
I mean, yeah, there has to be a trust's a level of trust.
Speaker 3Sure.
Well, first of all, I'm aware you're not again just going to go to the local grocery store.
Excuse me, sir, and as you come home.
Fuck yeah, I mean you know I tried that with women, wound up in jail, just terrible.
Well, first, the first part is it, you know when they laugh at me.
Speaker 2Well yeah, then again they put me.
Speaker 3In jail because I think I'm crazy because we're just sitting there in a fetal position, crying in the middle of a grocery store.
Speaker 2Well, you know, you do have your your emotional issues, so we'll get help for you.
Speaker 3Thank you.
But no one, I know, if you play with somebody when I'm not around, it's going to be you know, a few things.
One someone you have played with exactly, to someone we both trust exactly and three year horny exactly covers the.
Speaker 2Three main things.
And yeah, it's it's the safety first thing, of course.
And these are guys I've been with on hot dates or some kind of dates or some kind of social.
Speaker 3Hot day.
You know, they know what they can do, what they can't do.
They you know, now they're well behaved, like the one gentleman who I think you're talking about for his birthday.
Speaker 2This is the guy that comes like.
Speaker 3He has to jerk off your shoes at a mile, takes planes out of the sky.
Speaker 2That's him.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Yeah, I mean you haven't hot dated him yet at all.
No, he's he's so such a great guy.
We have such great conversations with him, uh and everything else.
Yeah, it's like that.
It's a no brainer.
He's been really fact you haven't gone on a hot date with him.
Its kind of more amazing.
Speaker 2Well, it's just been timing and sure, I'm just all that.
You know, trying to scheduling is just an issue.
But I mean that's just that's just life again.
So yeah, I mean we'll definitely get around to going out to i'ming dinner, then come back here and having some fun.
So that's all I think.
Hmm.
Speaker 3Yeah, I don't think he has his own place, no, so yeah he doesn't.
Ye See that's something you haven't done.
But one or two times he isn't actually going a hot date and then go back to their place.
A lot of times the one guy you did that with his mom had passed right and his dad's older, right, so he moved he moved back to take care of his dad.
Speaker 2Ye, so that yeah, that kind of ruined that is like.
Yeah, and even with the second gentleman, he's living with his parents because they again are older, and he's kind of taking care of them in a way too.
Mister jerk off his shoots it.
Speaker 3I didn't think his dad was around it.
I think it's just his mom.
Speaker 2Yeah, I don't remember if you had it.
Speaker 3Yeah, I don't remember the situation, but I think his mom lives with him, right, And.
Speaker 2Yeah, he's kind of taking care of her because she is up there.
Speaker 3And she's all right.
And he's a younger gentleman.
Yeah, he's younger, so I maybe I would say, what, he's early mid thirties.
Speaker 2Something like that.
Yeah, yeah, I think so.
I think his mom's like, all right, she's got to be older than that.
Speaker 3Right, I don't know.
I don't have a situation.
Not important, that's important.
Speaker 2But he's fucking someone.
Speaker 3So do you find the aspect of playing without me being there running a camera or anything a little more a little more titillating?
Speaker 2Yes, I know I kind of like that you're there because I know I'm teasing you, and.
Speaker 3I like that you're teasing me.
If I'm not there, I know.
Speaker 2But I don't see the visual.
I don't see you know.
Speaker 3You never even look at me anyway when you're playing.
And I'm not a person who sits there and jerks off while you're doing it.
Speaker 2No, no, but I know if you're there that I know that you are aroused.
Yeah.
Yeah, And of course we send you videos when you're hurt work.
Speaker 3You sometimes sometimes you haven't.
Speaker 2I've been very trying to be very good about that.
Speaker 3Now I'm trying to turn out the videos even you just send me a still.
Speaker 2Vieies are a lot more fun.
It was ten seconds, you know.
Yeah it's kind of hot.
Speaker 3But yeah, no, it's no, it is.
I find it very erotic.
No, and you're having fun and yeah and again because I've seen it, like when you play with someone without the cameras, it's a little different.
Speaker 2Yeah, I don't have to worry about it.
Oh it is this my good side?
Speaker 3Well you're not.
Yeah, you're not worried about camera angles.
Speaker 2You're not worried about getting your ass in the right place to see a good cream pie, which is that's what I like to see I want I want to see that.
Speaker 3Yeah, I get that.
Speaker 2I find that erotic.
I do like to watch myself again having sex.
Speaker 3Okay, you know you're both a boy.
Speaker 2Or and exhibition sort of like we were gone.
Speaker 3What's a what's a word?
I'm looking for the people like I think they're great narcissistic.
There you go.
Speaker 2Yeah, I could be that too.
Speaker 3I thanks a little bit narcissism.
Speaker 2Look at as look at my ass.
It's not not like that.
It's like we were going through many bits and we're just seeing, like you know, all the different videos.
And there's one I did with that one black guy and I'm kind of in reverse cowgirl on.
Speaker 3His he's on his side.
Speaker 2No, god, his dick was so huge.
Oh my god, Yes, that was you know, that was like the yeah, milk loves a or what a cougar loves a or whatever that is called.
Yeah, thank god.
This guy's dick wasn't so long.
That guy get hitting bottom.
But I'm like on like kindomy verus cowgirl, and his stick is is thicker, not as long, but it's there's such a contrast between his dark, dark, dark skin and my white, white, white skin.
So it's it was very erotic.
I used to I do like watching those videos.
I'm riding the cowgirls, seeing that big black and I mean it's very very titillating.
Speaker 3Good.
Speaker 2Yeah, it's it's kind of exciting.
It's titillating.
Speaker 3It's I can honestly say, I've only ever seen myself in one video.
It wasn't with you as my first mistake.
And I told her after I watched it, it's like, you're a lion bitch.
No way to no way after seeing what I look like, I having sex naked, there's no way you find me sexy.
You're a lion bitch.
Speaker 2That's why we have blindfolds.
Speaker 3Yeah, it's always funy and funny.
How you insist on wearing them?
Speaker 2Well, you know, I mean.
Speaker 3It's like, wait, you play with these other guys you don't wear a blindfold, but with me, you well to talk like the lights are out, curtains are drawn.
You said you want to have a room built onto the house with no windows and no lights, trying to give me a hint.
Speaker 2Yeah, well, I like being blindfold and I find that very erotic.
Blind pholt is cool because then you use your like 're tactile.
You can use your fingers to you know, sort of kind of yeah.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Speaker 2You don't have that visual queue, so you're not you're not exactly sure where you're going with things because you have to like, you know, feel your way in the dark.
You know, where are things?
Speaker 3Okay?
Speaker 2I mean, you know, once you start kissing and kind of like no, okay, here's this tourso and we're going down and we're going down and then you find something boink.
Oh that must be his dick.
Speaker 3Hello, you can't tell your problem.
Speaker 2But it's so cool because you can't.
I mean, usually you can see it first, but if you don't, you feel it first, or sometimes you can like feel like especially if a guy that oozes a lot of pre come, it's like it's like rubbing against your belly, so you can feeling it's like, oh, that's wet.
It's like, oh, somebody's excited.
And but you don't see that.
You can just feel that.
You can you know, you can touch that.
Speaker 3So there's a new gentleman we're talking to that we're going to meet for the first time at a public restaurant right Sunday.
Speaker 2Nice guy, you're gonna have.
Speaker 3You seen what he looks like?
Speaker 2Oh?
Speaker 3He's got a great podcast podcast voice.
And so when the first time you guys meet sexually, do you think you want to be blindfolded for that?
So you that's what your fingers do.
Exploring what he's got.
We haven't.
You haven't seen a picture of his things yet, have you?
Speaker 2No, I don't don't know what he's packing or not.
Speaker 3With hints because we know somebody else he played with you who insisted on a certain criteria.
Speaker 2Right as far as girth and length.
Speaker 3Goes, general size will put it that way.
Speaker 2Yeah, he might be a little challenging for me.
Speaker 3Just might that's the same.
Do you think the blindfold will help add to your excitement if you're blindfolded.
Speaker 2And that might be interesting, help.
Speaker 3You get your motor running head on the highway.
Speaker 2Maybe that might not be a bad idea, actually, you know, yeah, I mean something certainly different having done a blindfolded a long time since.
Speaker 3Yeah, I mean I talked to I talked to him, you know, ten minutes before the show.
I talked to him for over ten minutes.
But yeah, he has a bunch of questions he's wanting to feel out, like what you like, what you don't like, and everything else.
He has his questions for it.
Oh okay, well so he's uh interested in uh pleasing you.
Speaker 2Okay, well you know, maybe tell him I like vanilla ice cream and.
Speaker 4You know, smothered an apple pie pie.
Now you're after you've served me on lobster baked potato with butter broccoli, and.
Speaker 2You have to have a steak.
If you're gonna have baked potato.
Speaker 3You have a surf turf.
Speaker 2Uh.
You know, I wasn't hungry he started talking about that.
It's like that would be.
Speaker 3Now, you have had other gentlemen that we can only assume.
I have not seen, nor have I asked this gentleman to show me what he's bringing to the table.
But you've had other gentleman that you could not.
Speaker 2I could have put him in my pussy.
Is that what you're trying to say?
Yeah, okay, yes, yes, that is very true.
I'm not a large person.
Speaker 3I don't think those guys in the past put the time in to get you revved up enough.
We've had to experience.
We've talked about this.
Speaker 2Yeah.
Speaker 3Yeah, sometimes these guys with the big dicks just want to think, like I got a big dick, you should be fired up and I plunge it in.
I'm going to make you like a popsicle.
You know.
Speaker 2I'm like those toys you pull, you know, this little puppet and you pull the like.
Speaker 3This guy used to be an exotic dancer.
Speaker 2Yeah.
Speaker 3That do you think him doing a dirty couch dance for you might be fun?
Speaker 2That would help?
That actually would be a lot of fun.
Speaker 3Do you think that would help?
Oh yeah, well you're doing one for him.
Speaker 2Reciprocal.
Sure that might be kind of fun too.
Speaker 3Yeah.
And he was a huge video so we could actually make videos.
Speaker 2My god, his his b his biceps are huge.
Yeah, he is a he seems to be a large man.
Speaker 3He works out.
He's six four six six.
Speaker 2Oh really, I had no idea.
I was like, you know, some people look kind of oh Jesus Lord, I am.
Speaker 3For ten for ten and a half.
Speaker 2For ten and a half, Oh my god.
Yeah, I mean in the pictures he looked big.
But I thought, oh yeah, sometimes sometimes like stockier guy.
Speaker 3Years.
Speaker 2Yeah, so I didn't think he was that tall.
That's crazy tall.
Speaker 3Close to our age group.
I'm going to say, yeah, he's more mature.
Speaker 2You can put that one for sure.
Speaker 3He's in our age area.
I'll put it that way.
Yeah, I don't know his exact age.
Speaker 2No, I don't need to, don't.
Speaker 3I don't know, you know, you know, but he you know, maintains his shape.
Speaker 2Holy crap from the pictures he sent.
Now, these pictures are current, which he said they are.
He's got nice abs, He's he's very very meat, which might be kind of fun.
Speaker 3You haven't seen the meat yet.
Speaker 2No, I just meant like his arms, chest, you know, he works out.
Yeah, he's a fine specimen of a man.
You're gonna, well, I'll find out.
Speaker 3How you're going to take a specimen.
Speaker 2I think I will.
Speaker 3So I'm going to meet him, just hang out and have a face face chat Sunday.
Speaker 2Right, that sounds nice.
Speaker 3We could talk about that on Monday show.
Speaker 2Yeah, that'd be great.
Sure.
I think will be a lot of fun because he's definitely has a lot of experiences he can pull from with the dancing and stuff.
Speaker 3That we're going to get him on the podcast.
Speaker 2He has the stories he's been telling us.
He has a very interesting yeah past background sure with the dancing, and then he knows a lot of the people that were in the porn industry that we knew or at least one in particular.
Speaker 3Well, I'm sure it's probably more if we dove into it.
I don't need to dive into it.
I'm trying to get away from some of that.
Speaker 2Well that, yeah, I get that.
That was not a good error for us.
He ended up being a scumback, but that's another story.
But the podcasts, Yeah, but the cool thing is, I mean you had a lot of really big names on the podcast, well, big names.
Speaker 3Back then I ran back then it was called the porn Star Network.
No, it was all Pleasure Now to Triple X all Ports our network which I did not come up with a name one, but yeah, we had all the big porn stars on there, and for that time I did.
I co hosted a few shows.
Yeah, so I shot some of them.
Speaker 2Yeah, yeah, true.
Yeah.
I think it would be really interesting and with a lot of fun.
And I think he could bring a lot of excitement and some new experiences to the table, you know, just because he just has a different background, the whole male dancer thing and that whole I think that'll be fun.
I just think that'll be a hoot, you know.
Speaker 3Well, and again having you both compare your experiences as dancers could be good guys.
From hearing from the male ende.
Speaker 2It's much different being in that industry, if you can call it that, as a male dancer as opposed to be female dancer.
Sure, you know, I mean he traveled.
Speaker 3A lot, but my experiences A.
Speaker 2Of course you can.
I'm but I could if you have.
Speaker 3If I had been a successful jig and have one customer like that, would.
Speaker 2You could have rad it so you could have joined in the conversation.
Speaker 3But I'll just run the board.
I'd be fine.
It's all good.
You just hate.
Speaker 2And you do that so well constantly my profession.
Oh my god.
Yeah, I think he'll be a lot of fun because he's very easy to talk to and he's very forthcoming with his yeah, great voice, very forthcoming with his experiences.
So it should be.
It should be a lot.
Final'll see what happens with it.
I'm I'm hoping good thoughts here.
I'm hoping that it, you know, works its way out and we can schedule things.
Speaker 3It's going to happen, but so for now, don't forget to check out hot Wife donald Win dot com.
Speaker 2Yeah, and I'm posting things again, so.
Speaker 3I'm I'm I'm fresh stuff.
Speaker 2Yeah, I'm getting back into things.
It's it's going to take a little bit.
Yeah, yeah, I have a funny thing that the stuff I shoot with him is going to be a little bit over the top, but I fun over the top on the bottom top, you know, in out whatever.
Speaker 3And and just so you guys will get to see what I see, we bought a camera system more recently that's all wireless and remote that actually so when I'm not around, if Donad's was a playdate, she can actually record it, you know that.
Speaker 2Yeah, I know that you have to set that up for.
Speaker 3About saying so they'll be seeing what I see for the first time.
Speaker 2Right potentially sure, But yeah, I am not the camera person.
Sorry, guys.
I am just not that person.
Speaker 3Just set them up person, take it in the ass and.
Speaker 2And I am so you know, a yeah, we're synergistic very.
Speaker 3I'm half Italian half as I don't know where synergy is, but.
Speaker 2Yeah, I mean I I do like the newer cameras because.
Speaker 3The quality sound and no wires that.
Speaker 2You that is that's worth right there, because we had like all these cameras like mounted in our bedroom were Goody came in and be like what the you guys are shooting poorn for shorts like yo, yo, we are.
There's wires subscribe well these are like you know, playmates and like yeah they see other wires like yeah, no doubting that, no doubting.
There's lights and all kinds.
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All right, hey everyone to say have a good night.
Speaker 2Everybody