The Demons Want You To Share Your Location === Regan: [00:00:00] Hello everyone and welcome to the Mr Pick, me and the Man Hater Show. I am. No, I knew it. I knew it. Okay, everyone, oh, Jessica has the soundboard and it will be my nightmare. Chesko: I only have three sounds on it so far, so I'm gonna try to use them sparingly, but the air horn is gotta be after the debacle of me playing the silent air horn Regan: Checo. The joy I felt editing that video with that smug ass grin on your face with your tiny little air horn making 0% noise. Chesko: I was so exci, I, I spent like $20 in that. Uh, but I, oh shit. I have a soundboard now and this is week one where I get to feel like an actual radio DJ and, and playing all sorts of fun sounds with three right now. But, uh, there will be [00:01:00] more. And I can, I have, well, how many did I say? I have 24 buttons on here that I can add sound to. So, Regan: so, 24 ways to make this podcast my nightmare is what we're saying. Chesko: I might lose, we might lose all of our followers if I get too annoying with it, but I'm gonna try to be sparing. 'cause you know how good I'm self-control. Regan: Yes, you're known for it. Chesko: I'm known for it. It's my thing. Regan: So friends, today we are again doing a little bit of a mish board of can we Chesko: introduce ourselves? Regan: Oh, I don't know. You rudely interrupted me with the foghorn or blow horn. I just foghorn add that in. Add that as your fourth sound. Okay. Hi, I am Reagan ak, the man hater, even though I don't hate men. And you are Chesko: Jessica. Mr. Picked me even though I've already been picked and together we make podcast twins. Regan: Oh God. Let's not be twins, please.[00:02:00] I hope that's not true. Okay. You have to stop now. You're cut off. No more blow horn. Okay. Okay. You've already done it 84 times. Chesko: Can I do it at the end of the show? Regan: Potentially. Okay. We'll see how good you do in this episode. Okay, so Jessica and I have decided to bring our own videos to the table. Now I know I am bringing a more unhinged, like it's like a potluck, but I'm bringing something totally Chesko: fucked up. Mine is the least loosely related to our normal themes, Regan: and mine is revolving around demonic possessions that people are making claims about online. Chesko: Okay. So it is un themed then. Clip: Theme son. You want bad advice, man. I'll give it out. Glad I got some good advice for [00:03:00] you. No, you don't. I know you don't. I got some good advice for you. No, you don't. I Regan: I can't help it. I went down a rabbit hole. Chesko: It's all right. A demonic rabbit hole. Regan: Yeah. A la boo boo hole. Oh, that sounds horrible. A la boo. No, no. I, no, I had a, I'll explain how I got there. When it's time. Do you wanna start with the least unhinged thing, which is your video? Chesko: No. 'cause I feel like we go, we start with mine. We might talk for an hour on it. Yeah. So I think let's go with yours first. Regan: Okay. And Chesko: then, uh. Regan: I found this video and like I am, um, I have a mild fascination with people who like claim things are [00:04:00] demonic, right? Uh, but not like, not like a pentagram or something, but like everyday items and specifically children toys. I think it's really fascinating and this woman came on and she was really upset about something that. She had her child listening to. And so I, I'm gonna play her video and we'll talk about it because she is very upset with herself here. Clip: I've been letting my baby listen to a song that I should have done my research on, and I'm here to tell you about it because I feel like such a bad mom. One day I was scrolling on TikTok and this mom was like, Hey, if you have a baby that's crying in the car all the time, or fussy in the car, I have a song that you can play. And literally the baby will stop crying. And so I was like, oh my gosh, this would be such a cool thing to try. And the song was called The Happy Song, and she said it was like literally designed by scientist to soothe your baby. And I was really intrigued at this point. And I saved it for [00:05:00] a day where my baby would be crying. So sure enough, there's a day she's crying in the car, can't get her to stop, and I remember this song and I play it. Okay. Regan: So, mm-hmm. What are you expecting this song to be like? Chesko: Happy. Happy. Joy. Joy. Happy. Happy. Joy. Joy. That's what I'm, or like genuine answer would be more like something like ethereal. Regan: Well, like I having heard this because at this point I don't know who sings it. Like I didn't know if this was a situation where it was like, like a facetious name, right. You know, like the happy song. But it's like burger people, you know? I don't know. I don't know what the song, or was it like Chesko: Christian Rock where we Regan: happy Chesko: and here we. Singing happy song. Regan: You might go to hell if you don't listen what I say. Okay. Ooh, that was like a little bit creedy. Uh, that's what I'm thinking. Like, or like it's got a [00:06:00] hidden meaning in it, like mm-hmm. It's not unheard of that people are fricking weirdos. I was on, I've been on kids' YouTube before. I actually don't let my daughter watch YouTube because there's weird stuff that sneaks in there. Like, I totally get that. People are fricking weirdos. No doubt. No doubt. Chesko: Have you seen the, the, uh, Nutter Butter webpage? Regan: No. Chesko: Have you ever seen their TikTok? Regan: I don't plan to. Chesko: It's, it's all like Jen Alpha humor, and it's a insane, Regan: well, I'll make sure my daughter doesn't get on Nut butter. TikTok Chesko: on the other side, like, you know Veggie Tales, right? Yeah. Yeah. I didn't know it was like super Christian. Oh, CHASCo. I know. I, because I'd only heard like songs, I didn't watch it growing up, so I was putting it on and they're like. And that's why we pray to Jesus, our Lord, and say, I was like, whoa. What's going on? Why is this cucumber preaching? My kids were like, what's that? And I'm like, eh, just keep watching. I don't care. They're fine. Regan: It's just like, there was one time there was this little girl on the bus with my daughter. Mm-hmm. Um, and she just [00:07:00] turns to her friend and is like, I love Jesus Christ. It's like, oh no. I'm more concerned about her not liking us than us not liking her. But it's just, it's very interesting. So if anything, I've seen marketing from more Christian people towards children and like, not like as many like satanic. Chesko: Right. Regan: The, the Church of Satan, I don't think is trying to get the children, from what I've seen, not, Chesko: not a big marketing budget. Regan: No. They don't have the budget for that. Chesko: Mm-hmm. Regan: But anyway, so the song is the Happy song. It's by Imogen Heap, which I love them. They're so good. And to like what she said, literally they like did some studies and tried to find the type of music that would be most soothing to children. Like that's what this is. The lyrics. I'll just read the first lyrics. Bring, bring on the bicycle. Beep, beep in the car. Ping ping a submarine. Pew pew helicopter. A choo choo train an airplane. Or we down the slide. That's the demonic lyrics. We're disgusting. Chesko: Disgusting. [00:08:00] Regan: Satan like, traitor. You fucking ju. You know Chesko: what you're like, why is, why does she just yell at that chef? Regan: Okay, that was not me. That was me from last episode, I think. Okay, so that's what, that's the demonic song she's talking about. Now, listen, she goes on, hold on. Clip: It's the weirdest song and it makes no sense, but she immediately stops crying. I'm like, oh my gosh. And every single time we're in the car and she cries, I turn this song on so much so like my mom, and I'll be in the car, and if she starts to cry, we play it. And she's like amazed. And for reference, this is the song looks like a kid song. So one day I'm in the car with my husband and she starts to cry and I'm like, oh my gosh, play the happy song. It works every time. So he is like, okay. He looks at the happy song and it starts to play and he's like, this is the [00:09:00] weirdest song ever. I'm like, I know, but it works. About halfway through this song, he goes, I don't like this song. And he clicks on the artist and his face was like. Ashlyn and that man has discernment because I never thought to even check the artist, terrible mom mistake. This is what she looked like. Yeah. Literally gives me the heebie-jeebies chills. Ugh. You can look her up and see some of the songs that she sings, and in my opinion, they're demonic. And I literally almost cried in the backseat 'cause I was so upset that I had been playing this for my baby. The enemy will literally use anything, even a song that sounds like it's designed for babies and that other moms are like, let your kid listen to this. I'd rather her cry in the backseat than expose her to any of that. So this is a reminder to literally do research on everything you let your kids see, hear. Anything as simple as just a song [00:10:00] that you think is made for kids. Um, there could be something happening behind the scenes that isn't so innocent. Regan: But the photo is like, it's literally like, because the lead singer is very artistic, like she's very, uh, unique. It's like her with weird stuff on her head and googly eyes. It's googly eyes. Yeah. It's just googly like to be like, oh, she's a demon. Like, what? Okay. What is what? Okay. What is the goal here? Like how your child was soothed by a song that has no bad words in it, that has nothing that was made specifically to help soothe children. Mm-hmm. By someone who, like, they're a, a philanthropist. Like they donate to a lot of causes. Mm-hmm. Um, but because her husband goes, I don't like it. It's demonic. Chesko: It just feels very exhausting to have to worry about that all the time. Like, oh no, my child. Like, I even, I gave the example of, [00:11:00] uh, veggie Tales, like Yeah. With, with my kids. They like, she, uh, they were into it and I was like, oh, and it's a c like even, um, as, as a secular household. Yeah. Who does not believe in anything. A Christian thing came on that my kids liked. I was like, all right, whatever. It's, it's not the end of the world. It's like they're as if they were like, if it was giving like. Really weird, terrible lessons. Right? Like gay people are bad and that's why marriage, like if, if there was a cucumber coming on and saying, and that's why marriage only should a bad and a woman Regan: a homophobic asparagus. Chesko: Yeah. If the asparagus is talking about like, transphobic, then, then we're gonna cut it off. Right? That was, um, but that, that's where I draw the line. But like, I, I can have my kids also learn, watch k-pop demon hunters, and they know it's not, you know, they're, they're not worried about demons coming into their house. Regan: It's just the idea of like, you can just not like something, like, you can just not like it. It's, it's wild to me that her husband's like, [00:12:00] I don't like this. And then it turns into this is demonic. Mm-hmm. The enemy is trying to get you, Chesko: what, what is the goal from the enemy? That's what I'm saying. Regan: First we get a really talented artist who is actually really into philanthropy. Then we get them to make an incredible song. I Step three. Step three. We've figured out Chesko: demonic world, conquer Regan: step 1,000,005 we win. Yes. Yeah. It's just like, I don't understand why, what the leap there is and like why it has to be demonic and like I, when it worked, like there was no negative. The only negative was that her husband did not like the song. Chesko: Yeah. He didn't like the song. And then he looked at her picture and he was like, there it is. Regan: Demon. Chesko: Demon. This one photo of this artist, which have you ever seen any musician ever? They have a lot of, I know [00:13:00] like, oh man, why is it always there's, it's just, it's always something. I remember like, you know, Harry Potter was evil for the, for, for so long and now they're okay with it because she's trans because jks transphobic. Yeah. She trans. So now it's good to like Harry Potter Regan: and then she comes in with a response because people are like. Girl, it's, it's probably not demonic. Chesko: It's a happy song. Yeah. Regan: You don't like it, that's fine. Your baby liked it. Now you're gonna deny it. Also, like ironically, the baby is crying in the background. Chesko: Right, right. This Regan: whole thing is about, I'd rather have her cry than listen to. It's like, I, Chesko: I really, I really hope that she plays the song backwards in this next one. And it's like, Jesus is gay. Demons will eat your face. It's like, God, I didn't even need anything like that forward but backwards. Regan: You didn't even say that. You know, that works out good because I [00:14:00] was laughing too hard to speak. Okay, here she comes back again. Chesko: Okay. Regan: This says, um, discernment and the title is Discernment and, uh, ex Discernment and Exposing Darkness. Chat Clip: about the power. Good morning. Let's chat about the power of discernment and a recent video that I posted and what has happened since then because I'm truly blown away. Y'all, I really wanted to post to get ready with me right now, but my stomach and my spirit is so like, there's something called a righteous anger, and my spirit is angry because I am reading some of these comments on this recent video, and I am, I'm honestly shook y'all. If anything, it is sos insanely important to protect what you welcome into your house, into your life, especially into your kids' lives. I posted a video yesterday about a song that I was letting my daughter listen [00:15:00] to that was recommended by another mom here on TikTok, and honestly, I just took her word for it and didn't think anything of it. Then I did some research on the artist and was absolutely blown away and. Uh, I can't even focus on doing the get ready with me, honestly, because I feel so strongly that I need to get this message out there. I know this is not my normal content. This is not what I normally post. I'm normally not in pajamas, bare faced talking about God on the internet, but I feel like this is so important to talk about. Most of the comments on that video are other moms sharing that they also did not have a good feeling about the song. They're kids. Regan: That is not true. But I, I just wanna pause right there. That was not predominantly the comments she was getting. I wanna be clear about that. That's Chesko: the comments she paid attention to. Regan: Correct. Clip: Let's let her, let's let her talk. Their kid literally kick and scream and cry to it and it didn't work. Or they now regret it 'cause they've been letting their baby sleep to it at night. So many moms saying, I just took the song off of my baby's [00:16:00] playlist. Oh my gosh. Thank you. I knew I had to discern it about the song, but I didn't wanna believe it. Y'all, that gut instinct that you have when you know something is just not sitting right, is what I had about this song. And I wanted to share this video because I, if it was just for one other mom to realize that there might be some things going on behind music made for kids that's obviously underlining. Um, I wanted to help someone else out there, and there have been some comments of some people that obviously have some things working within them that are dark and they're trying to attack me through this TikTok video in the comments. And you could go scroll for yourself and see they are big mad that this stuff is being exposed and I'm sorry, but I'm gonna talk Regan: about it. That's enough. I don't care to hear any more of that. But this, it was this idea that, like she's saying that everybody in her comment section who disagrees with her or who's just pointing out like [00:17:00] it's a song, like it is what it says it is. You cannot like it, but it doesn't mean it's demons or whatever else you're saying. Mm-hmm. She's now saying they have a darkness in them. Mm-hmm. They're revealing their darkness. It's like. Girl, they don't agree with you. Chesko: No. That's all it is. Regan: Doesn't mean they're demons too. Like I just, the perception of like, anyone who goes against me is also a demon and dark and evil. And anyone who like, it's like, and now that you have these moms panicking about having this on their playlist. Right. 'cause they think the demons are gonna get their babies. Right. And like was ironic to me about this whole thing is this particular creator. Mm-hmm. Number one she says, my discernment told me. It's like, actually no, you really liked it. It wasn't until your husbands said something. Yeah. There nothing, you didn't like it Chesko: and you weren't completely okay with it before. Yeah. Regan: And then, and then when the man of the house was like, I don't like this. It's like, oh god. Chesko: Uh, she even went, made it a point in that first video to talk about how much she loved it at first. Yeah. Regan: And the baby loved it. That was Chesko: great. Regan: There's an irony [00:18:00] to me with this particular creator, um, because she seems terrified of letting in darkness and yet CHASCo from the moment, like moment this baby was born. Mm-hmm. She's been being filmed and on TikTok. Yeah. Like literally like, like, like a, oh, we're in the hospital video. And then since then been filmed repeatedly. And it's like, I'm not saying you can't do that. I'm just saying if this is your concern, I would be much more concerned about the evils of the internet. Right. Filming your baby every single day and giving people access to your baby, casting your Chesko: child to, yeah. Yeah. Regan: Uh, then I would be a song by IMO Heap. That's like playing Chesko: Now I will say, I don't think people should be putting their kids on, uh, online. Like I'll, I'm, I'm, I'm comfortable putting my, I and, and like, because I did it when I was before I was a creator. Yeah. I didn't think about it, you know, I was like, yeah, didn't. Really even occurred to me [00:19:00] that there were people outside of my close family and friends group. And that's on me like, I will admit, I'm saying I am, I think that was a mistake, uh, for the publicly. I still privately will post for friends or family and let them see because I, it's people that I know I trust. Um, but I think once you, once you really think, once you have an awareness of the fact that you are, there's a really terrible amount of people out there. That's true. There are people that would, that I'm sure she would consider to be demons that are out there mm-hmm. That are consuming content of children in really terrible ways. And that's really scary to hear about. Mm-hmm. Uh, and so once, once I became aware that shit, I was like, Nope, the world's not gonna see my kids at any point. Especially once I started like toking and all the other. Kind of aspects where I'm like, no, they don't. They have not, they're not old enough to consent having their image being put on the internet for, for whatever I'm talking about. And so, Regan: I mean, you and I are aligned on that. Obviously we don't say our kids' names. Yeah. You won't see my child on the internet. Chesko: My kids are unhappy about it, by the way. So I know [00:20:00] they really, really want, now they're old, my older two mm-hmm. Are old enough now that they're aware that their dad's a, you know, an internet person, an Regan: influencer. Chesko: Yeah. And so they're like, Regan: put me on dad. Chesko: Like, specifically my, my daughter's only eight. But she's like, why don't you, 'cause she doesn't even, she doesn't go on TikTok. Sure. Other than like, if she's ever seen me scrolling videos or something like that on it. Um, but she's like, why don't you, 'cause I showed her my page. She was like, why don't you have me on there? Regan: You are like, and I was like, I can't tell you. Chesko: I can't. I was like, well, I mean, and I'm on it. I'm like, it's just, there's, there's a lot of bad people on the internet and I don't, you're not old enough to, she was like, well, but I wanna be on there. I was like, well, yeah, I hear you. I hear, I understand. You think you do? Regan: Yes. Chesko: I can tell you it's terrible. Regan: Trust daddy on this one. Chesko: Trust me. It's not great. Look at my Regan: conversation and see what they say about Daddy. Chesko: And so I'm like, when you get older, if you want to try it out, that's fine. I, I was like, I was like, let's have a conversation when you're 16. Regan: She's like, what's a soy [00:21:00] boy? Dad? Chesko: Yeah. Dad, what's a what, what this person's calling you a cuck. What's that? Regan: I wasn't gonna say that. 'cause I was like, even hypothetically, I don't wanna say that word. Yeah. Uh, your child say that word. Uh, but the point, my point being like, and I've seen this across the board, I, I'm not trying to hate on anybody. I think it's fascinating. Like how much people are more fixated on hypothetical boogeymen than real, like statistically provable bad people. Like Right. She's more scared of demons in a song. That could subconsciously, uh, get to her child mm-hmm. Than she is every day putting her face, her child's face, and by everything about her child out there from the moment they're born, to all of the internet where any person can access them. Specifically somebody who's targeting children has full access to her child. Mm-hmm. But she's not worried about that. She's worried about demons and the choo happy [00:22:00] song. Chesko: Yeah. We don't gotta worry about demons. We got hex to, to fight the demons. Oh, is that a and strengthen? Regan: I, my Have you Chesko: watched it? Regan: No. My wife tried to get my daughter to watch it. She's five. And we watched her for, I was like, no, this is not, this is too, she's gonna get scary. Chesko: So good. Regan: She's two. Yeah, she's five. And within two seconds I was like, this is scary. And then, um, my daughter's like, what does sucks mean? And I was like, that's what I said. That's where it was gonna go. I wanna keep, like, I like to keep, you know, her. As long as I can, I shelter her in, in the ways that make sense while I still have Chesko: when she goes to bed. I'm not joking. I think it's the best movie of the year. Regan: Okay, Jessica. It is. Chesko: I will check it. It is so, like the music is gr like genuinely. I don't know if you like K-pop at all. Um, but if you like, like K-pop type music, orge. I do. I Regan: kind of do. I like, I love Corina shows. It's so Chesko: good. And like [00:23:00] we, so we, we went and saw it, uh, at, in the theater for the, the Singalong, which was packed with kids. Right. They, they were loving it and s singing along, knowing every word to every song. Um, and like, man, who apparently Sony, this is not the focus of this episode, but I need to talk about it now 'cause it's so good. Um, they sold it apparently to Netflix. There was, it was going to be for the movie theater, but they sold it to Netflix for like $20 million, which is nothing compared to how much it costs to make the movie and everything. Um, because they thought it was gonna flop and now it's this like, oh. Huge phenomenon with good read. Like it's so, fuck. I mean, I'm, I am a K-Pop demon understand account. Like, it is, it is genuinely like, I think it might be the movie of the year. Like it is that good And it's not just, it's not a, it's, it's not like Made for Kids. It's a, it's like an actual, if you like, animated films, it's like an animated film that just happens to also have an appeal to, to kids. Uh, and it's, there's nothing in it [00:24:00] that's overly bad or overly there's nothing sexual in it. It's just kind of like, it's just a good movie. Good to know. Well, I, if you have not watched K-Pop Demon Hunters highly, 10 outta 10 stars from CHASCo. Regan: I, all I watch right now is like Korean dramas and horror movies and horror shows. Well then you're set, Chesko: it's K-pop. Regan: Korean. Same. I'll, I mean, I feel like this mom would tell me not to watch that, Chesko: but Well, that's even more reason to go. But also they're slaying demons. Regan: Yeah. They're against them very openly. They're the demon Chesko: hunters. Yeah. Okay. Regan: They're not the demon friends. Chesko: No. Well, there's more nuance to it than I see that. Regan: Um, okay. Can I give you, can I do one more? Chesko: Okay. Regan: Okay. Would you rather hear about Labu boos that they're demons or the eight demonic doors in kids entertainment? Chesko: Oh, man. You know, I, I think the eight demonic [00:25:00] doors sounds more interesting 'cause I, I'm not a, I'm not into labu boos, Regan: but you're into demonic doors. I got it Chesko: all about demonic doors. Okay. I try, I need to figure what these are so that I can make sure my kids are watching them. Regan: This, this is gonna give me flashbacks to when I was around spiritual people too much. This is more like, like a Christian spiritual, so this is kind of a specific area, but here we go. Let's see if we have any doors. Okay. Clip: Entertaining. These eight things will open demonic portals within your home. So the first one I want to share with you are dragons. In Revelation 12, nine, we see that Satan is compared to, he's even called a dragon. So no matter what you feel about dragons, they are 100% evil. Regan: Uh, sorry girl. Have you met Toothless? Chesko: Yeah. Hello. Training your dragon. There's a very kind dragon, right? Have you ever met a little guy? I want to call Puff the magic dragon. Regan: I think that that's her point. It's like they're trying to get you to love [00:26:00] Satan. Okay? Let's let her keep so many movies Clip: that make dragons look friendly and wonderful and cute. And of course, that's the whole end game magic and or spells in movies. Now, Disney is very clever about the way that they weave this into their movies. The one movie I can think of in particular off the top of my head is Brave. So sneaky, but can I, that movie is, can I'll go there for a Chesko: second. As someone who grew up devoutly Catholic mm-hmm. Do they not realize we have magic and spells in our mass, in our, like, Regan: no. Don't you just eat the body and blood of Christ? Im Chesko: not, I'm not trying to be, I'm genuinely not trying to say this as a, like, derogatory thing, but like Yeah. The, the official belief of the Catholic church mm-hmm. Is that during mass? I think it's a transubstantiation, I think is the, the term. Maybe it is not. It's trans, it's something, uh, something trans. That's why she's against it. [00:27:00] Um, but, uh, it, it's that the, that through the word of God, through the quote unquote word of God, which is the spell of the priest, Regan: right. Chesko: They're transfiguring the bread and wine into the literal blood and body of Christ. Not that's, that's what I said. Symbolic. The official stance of the church is that you are creating the, you're transfiguring it into the actual blood and body of Christ. So if that's not a spell from an incantation of a prayer. Like, and like I said, I'm not saying that to be like, maybe it is derogatory, I don't know. But like that, how do you, how do you pretend like it's anything other than that? Regan: I mean God, Jesus committed or not just Jesus, but there's many a miracle, Chesko: miracles and all that. Yeah. Walking on water. And Regan: so just so you know, her list of who she's against, beauty and the Beast, Fantasia Peter Pan. So in the stone Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella, frozen, Aladdin, Pocahontas, tangled Mary Poppins, Pinocchio, Mary Poppins, snowy White and Snowy White, [00:28:00] snow White and Moana. So they're Okay. Let's let her keep going. Chesko: Sorry. Clip: You are inviting in a spirit of witchcraft, not only into your children, but also into your home. The third one are monsters. Now monsters, again, we think of these big scary creatures, but that's not how they're depicted in a lot of movies and shows. They come off as friendly, non-threatening, oh look, they're just so cute. Elmo, God forbid. Let's talk about Elmo for a second. Oh, you try Chesko: to like make it so your child can go to sleep at night and not be terrified of a monster in a closet. Clip: Jessica, wait. She has to talk about Elmo. Chesko: Oh God. Okay. Oh my God. Clip: Elmo, let's talk about Elmo for a second. Elmo is a monster. This is one that the Lord had to show me, and I allowed my kids to watch Sesame Street when they were very young, and at one point I had to say no more because God really convicted me of it. Second Corinthians 1114 tells us, and no marvel for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light, [00:29:00] and his ministers also appear to be righteous. And all of these people who are producing these children shows appear to be righteous and they appear to be moral when underneath it all, there is a more sinister and underhanded plot at hand. Chesko: You don't dare talk shit about Jim Henson. And a first off, Elmo's not a monster. He is a Muppet. Alright. It right there is a d There is a difference. That's also not a puppet. He's a Muppet. Regan: Is, is her perception then of this that like, there are monster looking things that are going to come out and get them, that they're gonna then be like, oh no, that's like Sully apparently. Well, that has to be it, right? Because you, you for it to be a threat, you have to actually assume that you're going to visibly encounter something at some Chesko: point. When, when the day comes, when the monsters come, they're gonna, the, our kids are gonna be like, oh, Mo [00:30:00] if Monster almost, Regan: what is his name? Bel Bub or whatever Chesko: Yeah. Regan: Is gonna show up and they're like, oh no, welcome. I just, I just, it's interesting 'cause it's like. There's so many monstrous people and so many monstrous things that can happen to children. Yeah. It's so interesting to me that her fear is that real monsters are going to be physically present. Mm-hmm. And her child, that's gonna be the threat to her child. Is that okay? Chesko: Monsters look just like you and me. They don't look like monsters. They look like a, a random, you know, it's the, it's the uncle that, uh, you know, shouldn't be around your kids. It's the priest that shouldn't be around your children. Right. Regan: Statistically, yeah. Statistically, uh, I don't know what the statistics of monsters taking children are, but I, I haven't seen them. Right. Uh, okay. Number fours, trolls. I hope you don't like trolls. Trolls, Clip: trolls are found in Nordic folklore. They are described as giant monstrous beings, and they're very unfriendly to [00:31:00] humans, and they possess magic powers. So I don't need to say anything more about those. Fifth one to be cautious of our ghosts. A lot of times we see ghost. Like monsters as friendly, welcoming, oh, non-threatening beings. When actually these are demons in discussions. And the movie that I could give off the Chesko: top, pause there for a second. Ghosts, like, don't get me wrong, there's Casper, there are friendly ghosts. Occasionally 99% of ghosts, uh, content online. 13 ghosts. Yeah. Oh my gosh. Those people are scared of ghosts. Regan: Yeah. Chesko: This is just not true. Regan: It's Besides Casper. Yeah. There's not that many ghosts that are giving good vibes. I distinctly remember being terrified of ghosts. Right. Of like, are you afraid of the dark? Or like mm-hmm. Uh, but, but it's interesting 'cause she says there aren't ghosts. There are only demons that are pretending to be ghosts. So, Chesko: or forced ghosts from Star Wars. Regan: You, you, no, she's not even, you [00:32:00] can't even talk to her about ghosts demon. That's, that's demonic to the third degree. Oh yeah. That's, Chesko: that's, that's, that's the second list. Regan: Yeah. That's, that's when her head explodes. Okay. Um, also, I think she feels like she's talks directly to God because she said something about God showed her. So I'm like, oh, okay. Of course. Okay. Off Clip: the top of my head that does this really well, is Casper the friendly ghost Regan: also? There's mean ghosts in that show. There, there are, the two ghosts are horrible. Chesko: Yeah. If anything, most of the ghosts in Casper are bad. Regan: Yeah. That's why it's significant that he is friendly. Chesko: Right. You wouldn't have to put the modifier, the friendly ghost if it, if it was so common that ghosts were friendly. Regan: Yeah. It would have to be Casper the asshole ghost and you're like, aha. So he's different. Chesko: Ah, okay. So he is not like one of those, the normal ghosts that are just, he's not a one pie. No. This is the No good ghost. Regan: Casper, the no good ghost. Okay, this next one, we're getting a twofer Clip: number six and number seven. I'm going to combine these two together because they're [00:33:00] one in the same and that's mermaids and fairies. Mermaids are evil because they are a marine spirit from the marine kingdom. Many of you may know about that, but I had asked the Lord in my own quiet time one time why mermaids are evil, and he showed me it's because it's transhumanism. It's a perversion of his design. It's Satan combining an animal with a human Chesko: because he genuinely is like having like conversations with Jesus then, or like, like I, because that that a morning meeting specifically said, he showed me very specifically Regan: Yeah. The answer Chesko: to this as opposed to she's thinking of what it's, which is what this is. Regan: I mean also I, I am starting to think she thinks these are real. Chesko: Right. I, I always wanna be careful, like, I'm not saying people can't have, like, experiences where they feel like connection to a higher power. Sure. What I'm saying is I don't, [00:34:00] I, I actually think that goes from my, from, from my childhood and as a, as a Catholic, the whole point was that you're not supposed to have direct conversation. It's, Regan: yeah. It's, it's through the church. Chesko: It's through the Yeah. It's supposed to be like through that. You're not supposed to be able to be like, Hey, so God, let's have a conversation here. Yeah. What the fuck is going on with mermaids? Gimme the answer. Right. And he is not supposed, say, you're not supposed to have a direct phone call where you hear it back the answer out, Hey Regan: Jesus, it's me. I don't wanna be. Too direct, but Ariel's a bitch. Right, Chesko: right. I maybe, I don't know every denomination. Maybe that's the not the case for, but Regan: I, I, so this is, so, like, this is where, this is me investigating this belief system, right? Yeah. Because like I start in one place, I end up in another, like I'm thinking, she's saying these hypothetical beings mm-hmm. Are, are evil because they inspire whatever. But now she's saying that she's talked in her quiet time with the Lord, [00:35:00] and now she's saying they're from the marine kingdom, which exists mm-hmm. In her mind. Mm-hmm. And she's talking about mermaids as real beings. Did you know Chesko: there's two giant cities for octopus octopuses, Regan: Jessica, where, what, where are we going with this? Chesko: I'm sitting, no, I'm, I'm not joking. They're like, OC, occupy. Uh, I, I think it's octopus's actually. Uh, anyways, uh, Regan: side Quest with CHASCo. He's got fun fact Chesko: there. Uh, it's like Opia and Octo there. Hold on, hold on. This is important. Regan: No, CHASCo. You're going too far off. Okay. Chesko: Okay. Anyways, but there is a marine kingdom of, of like, there's two giant octopus cities Regan: civilizations. Well, there's something Chesko: we don't occupy know something. I, Regan: well, we know that they know something. Yeah. Chesko: We keep saying it either octopus or oc occupy so that nobody can correct me or everyone. No, Regan: correct me. Uh, but this idea that like, oh no, you, you believe also in this, like you, you think mermaids are in fact real, that like we could go find some if we wanted to, [00:36:00] but they are evil and the devil made them. Like, it's just, you know, I didn't grow up hearing that stuff. I grew up like people could believe in mythical stuff or people would believe in Jesus, but now we're seeing like this mix of culture where it's like we're Christian. But we also believe in mythological creatures, but they're just the devil's work, essentially. Mm-hmm. So let's let her talk about mermaids in my Clip: own quiet time. One time why mermaids are evil. And he showed me it's because it's transhumanism, Regan: transhumanism, transhumanism. God hate the trans, right? Mm-hmm. It's Clip: a perversion of his design. It's Satan combining an animal with a human, and it goes right back to the Nephilim, the giants, the the Nephilim were another perversion of God's design. And the last one to avoid are aliens. This is another one like monsters that's marketed as friendly and non-threatening and oh, they're so cute. ET was one of those movies [00:37:00] in the eighties that did that perfectly. I hated that movie as a kid, and now they're coming out with ET two from what I understand. This summer, Lilo and Stitch is another one. That makes aliens look cute. And Chesko: did you watch Lilo and Stitch Aliens are horrifying in that movie. Even Lilo. I'm sorry, even Stitch is is terrifying. He means the cartoon. I bet. I know, but I'm saying the in general though, all the aliens are fucking evil in Lilo and Stitch, you hear going after the after stitch with these giant guns. Just go call him yourself. I'm sorry. But like also once again, similar to Ghost Most alien representation of pop culture is not like they're gonna come and be our friends. There's like one, I like that idea. Regan: There's one nice one, and then the rest of 'em are bad. And even Stitch wasn't nice at first. He was kind of, no, he was a little shit if we're being honest. Chesko: Yeah. Regan: All right, let's let her finish this alien thought. Okay. Chesko: Sorry. I keep on cutting her off. Clip: Aliens are nothing more than demons in [00:38:00] disguise. And there have been people who have been abducted by aliens, by the way, who have spoken the name Jesus. And immediately they were returned back to their home. And if you have any that the Lord has shown you, you're always welcome to add those in the comments below as well. Do not be ignorant of the enemy's devices. We are supposed to know our enemy. That is Warfare 1 0 1. And he is sneaky. He is clever. And he is after our children. He is after you. And one of the most. Sneaky ways he gets into your home is through the entertainment that you invite Regan: in. So now we know she believes in giants. She believes in mermaids. She believes in the Lord. She believes that ghosts and alien, alien objections and alien ab objections. Mm-hmm. But all of that is the devil's work and that mm-hmm. The name Jesus would rebuke, uh, aliens. God. It's just a lot going on. I didn't watch this whole video. I'm gonna be honest with you. I've [00:39:00] been taken for a ride. I that is Chesko: confused. Did you know that? That's, it's as easy as that to get ba if you're abducted by an alien. Regan: You can just be like, Chesko: in Jesus Regan: name, let me out name. Chesko: You turned me. And that's all it takes. Regan: We are bound by Jesus, us aliens. Chesko: You'd be like, sorry, Regan: I, I'm confused by this. I am confused by how these all work together. It's just a very interesting belief system. Again, like when you have actual people doing harm, there are people in the church, like that's statistically proven. Mm-hmm. Um, I don't know what she specifically, what she would fall under. Her belief system seems to be kind of asked. Mm-hmm. But we know that in any, any organization where there's power and privilege to certain people, we know that that power is abuse. So we know statistically speaking that mm-hmm. In churches, there's a lot of bad stuff that goes on and in general and like, yeah, there are terrible people out there. That's not a conspiracy theory, that's just fact. But instead of like [00:40:00] addressing those things, it's so interesting that they. Are more focused on like mermaids and demons, and demons pretending to be ghosts. And like, it's, it's the TV your kids are watching versus like prepping them for what's really going on outside with Chesko: It also seems really easy to rebuke these things so they don't seem too bad. Like, it, it's like, it's always all you have to do is just say like, I rebuke you in the name of Jesus and then you're, you win. Like that's, it's pretty shitty powers on their end. Regan: Well, like one, it's always the people who are of this belief system that get attacked the most, which I guess they would argue is because they're chosen or whatever, but like, I have seen videos online, I wasn't even gonna go down this path, but Yeah. Uh, of like women in kitchens recording themselves and they're like, ha ha, no, not today. And like, clapping and making like really guttural noises. Yeah. And like that's allegedly them being attacked and rebuking. Yeah. I'm like, [00:41:00] I, I am, I'm not trying to judge, I'm, I'm honestly trying to understand from an outsider who does not understand what's happening right now. Mm-hmm. But to me, I'm like the, if a demon is coming for you and it is so strong that it can attack you in the flesh mm-hmm. Which from their own belief system means it's something strong, right? Mm-hmm. This is a physical manifestation of something. Right. If it can be sent away with a simple little clappy clap. Chesko: Yeah. Regan: Like w. Uh, what kind of demon is it? An anti clap demon. Chesko: Like the whole, like you see in these, uh, the, these, these videos where they're like, these people that are possessed by demons, they're getting like exercised in in church and stuff, and they're like, all these, I'm like, wouldn't it make more sense? Like, why are the demons only going after people that ha are in positions to be exercised? Right, right. They're like, what? Why? Why are they knowing the rest of us? Like, wouldn't it make more sense for a demon to position? Maybe I am, maybe they would argue I am, but like, wouldn't it make more sense for a demon to come after someone like me who's [00:42:00] not going an atheist, who doesn't happen to be going to an evangelical church that's gonna exercise them? Right. Right. Why are they only seeking out people that are also in that position? Regan: It's like robbing a armored truck that's headed straight into the. Like it's headquarters, Chesko: right? Yeah, yeah. Oh, I'm gonna go into the mo, I'm gonna try to rob the most well armed place in the world as opposed to the convenience store in the corner Regan: or the doors open. And they say, we don't believe in bur, we don't believe in robbers with Chesko: a blind convenience store owner who works on a trust system with the cash register open. It is like, no, 'cause that's me. That's the, that's the equivalent of me to be you. The, the blind Regan: convenience store owner. The demon Chesko: came up to me because of the fact that I, I don't believe in anything. I'd be like, yeah, let's go out to lunch. Oh, Elmo, what's up buddy? Let's go. What the fuck? Regan: Elmo's a lie. This is great. I just can't imagine, like, I live in a [00:43:00] world where very practical, practical, tangible things are coming for me. Like as a lesbian, you know, like my rights are at risk. Uh, my. Just my general wellbeing. Mm-hmm. Particularly right now, like, I have tangible things I can see, touch research. Right. See, like, like, that are very present in my life that are, are, are a threat to me. Mm-hmm. I cannot imagine living in a world of all of this like invisible perceived mm-hmm. Attacks, like to constantly feel like an invisible force is coming for your children through songs or a Disney movie. Mm-hmm. I, I can't, um, like how do you even live? Like, and then thinking if I clap, it'll go away. Like, the rules are so hard to follow and like every person's a little bit different except they're, they all talk about the enemy. Mm-hmm. Who is the enemy? What does it look like? Chesko: It's this like martyr fetish. Honestly, you know what I mean? Regan: I [00:44:00] would agree that that's persecution, kink. Chesko: Yeah. Persecution. Kink. Where I need to feel like I'm constantly under attack. Regan: Right. Chesko: Even though I'm in the most, you know, what the, like, the, what is it? Like 70% of Americans are Christian. Regan: Oh, it's by far the most dominant. Yeah. Yeah. Chesko: Um, you know, it's, but I need to feel like I am the most persecuted member of our society. And if people, and if I, especially if I live in a religious community, clearly I'm not getting it. From my friends and family in my area. Right? So in this situation, I need to find some other way to feel persecuted. So it must be demons. Regan: I'm telling you, like in all the research I've done, which have I researched it? Yes. Unfortunately I have. Chesko: Mm-hmm. Regan: A lot of what they are interested in, like, like these really big like cons. Like, like religious conspiracy kind of. Mm-hmm. Well, it's the invisible boogeyman that is never attainable or, or touchable. Like, and I just did a video and it's like you have like ice raids happening where you see literal children being thrown into [00:45:00] cars and taken away to God knows where some are, uh, literally sent to countries they've never been before. Mm-hmm. Um, ripped outta foster care systems like that, that's tangible, that's happening in front of you. And these people have nothing to say about that. Mm-hmm. But then they'll do stuff like this where they'll talk about, but Disney's gonna get you. It's like, it's just such an interesting. Per perspective. And then like, you know, there is very little, um, in the church to stop this from happening. Mm-hmm. So it's like, I would rather think about these boogeyman, demon, mermaid, alien abductors Chesko: mm-hmm. Regan: Than I would the realities of life Chesko: while wearing the hat of the rapist. You know, pedophile who hangs out with Jeffrey Epstein, who's cutting funding for food, for children who's, you know, ripping families apart, but good. The demons are Elmo, Elmo is the fucking demon. You know, who also has read. An orange. Right. And a monster. Yeah. Who's [00:46:00] a real fucking monster. Yeah. But no, no, no, no. That's He's fine. He's fine. Regan: It's, that's cool. That's great. That's what I said in my video. I was like, you, you can put, you can put the dots together with red string and have a whole web of conspiracies about pizza parlors where there's children being taken and whatever else is happening. But you can't see the direct line between him and Epstein where he is hanging out with him and they're good buddies. Chesko: We were planning on talking about this, but also, did you see the Republicans now were like, did you see that Ghislaine Maxwell said that Trump was never on the island. Regan: He was on, he was a great guy. I, he was always a gentleman. What? Chesko: But also, oh, the, the pers, the convicted perjurer tr child trafficker, whose only hope of ever getting out of prison is Donald Trump says that Trump didn't do anything wrong. And like, don't believe doctors don't believe, teachers don't believe women don't believe [00:47:00] victims don't believe nonpartisan fact checkers. Don't believe journalists don't believe anybody who's done any sort of research ever. But the But Ghislaine Maxwell, she has a good Regan: point. The child trafficker, Chesko: she sounds right. The, the person who's been convicted of child of aiding child trafficking and also has been convicted of perjury more than once during a trial. She's, there we go. He's innocent. We've done it. Regan: I, I have seen a lot of people even still even in that camping, like still like, mm, I Chesko: do think for once that it took goddamn long enough to, uh, to do it. But it finally, people were like Regan: the bullshit meter. Chesko: Yeah. There's only, there's only so far they can go. Before it was like, Regan: but that's my point. There's so much real shit out there. There's so many real problems and real dangers mm-hmm. At this point, to be fixating on [00:48:00] demonic portals mm-hmm. That are being opened in your house. Like, and what does that look like? Like what does that mean? I guess I, I really don't understand, like mm-hmm. What, what, how does that impact your life? Chesko: Mm-hmm. Regan: Your child doesn't obey you and then it's a portal, or Chesko: it has to be, it's the only way, it's, it's a way of pushing off also any, um, personal accountability Regan: and having perceived power if you, if you can close these portals or whatever. Chesko: Mm-hmm. That's something I can, that's something I have control over. And there, there's, that's the, the empathic part of me is like, I get feeling helpless. I get feeling like things are outta your control. Yeah. It's nice to be one thing that kept me religious for so many years. Yeah. Was that it felt nice feeling like I had that in in control. At least. At least I had, I always had that with me. I could always, when I was scared, I could say a prayer, you know, if I didn't have any friends, I had Jesus, right? I had like, you know, there was always a community there for me [00:49:00] and that, and I get that. Having said that, at a certain point, if it becomes abusive, if it takes away the rights of others, if it's harming, you know, your children and like also creating all these weird, arbitrary rules that make no sense, that also contradict each other, right. To the point where you can't even function in society and listen to an image and heap song, uh, about being a happy baby with a toot toot whore, whatever the sounds were that were in that song, because God forbid, because it might be. Sacrilegious or a demon in some way or another. And you can't watch a movie with a friendly ghost, or you can't watch Sesame Street, what's gonna help your child learn to read and sound out letters and learn phonics and their numbers. But no, we have to ignore all those sort of things because your friend Henry was abducted by an alien and he swore and it, it just turned, he came home with makeup on his collar, and it, like, it sat, it looked, it really looked like he was sleeping with [00:50:00] another woman. But he said, no, it was the aliens that did it. And I rebuked them and the name of Jesus and came home at three in the morning smelling like whiskey and cheap perfume. And all of a sudden, I, I have to believe it, Henry was abducted by aliens and he rebuked them with Jesus. And now we're here. Oh. Regan: You can't say that. You Chesko: know what? I went a little, uh, a couple little tangents right there. Little rants. Regan: I loved it. You know what? And Henry did make it out of there Chesko: fucking Henry later Regan: he did end up getting with that waitress at the bar down the road unrelated, who also was abducted the same night. And that's what she told her husband. Yeah, Chesko: but it's o But you have to forget, he was actually a, it was under the, the controlled demons. Regan: Yeah, I know. They, they actually mine controlled him. Mm-hmm. Uh, but then he talked to Jesus personally and he said, it's okay. Chesko: Long as you stop listening to image and heap. Regan: Yeah. As long you stop playing that happy song. We're cool. Yeah. Um, we're not hating [00:51:00] on religion. We're talk, we're trying to understand this specific Yeah. Mentality and the ways the somewhat hypocrisy of the way this specific mentality works, which is to acknowledge one thing to deny another. Uh, that's. That's what's interesting here. I'm not anti-religion for people. I'm not, I think there's amazing people of all religions. I don't, Chesko: I have very close friends that are deeply, deeply religious that I respect and I love No, Regan: yeah, we're not talking about that. I don't Chesko: like, I don't hate religion. I hate people. Listen, I mean, and not all people, but I hate people that use religion as an excuse to be fucking evil. Yeah. And then they say they're doing it. Under the guise of, oh, I'm fighting demons. You're the demon. Right? The only person that's who, who you are. The one making people feel unsafe. You're the one making people feel the the need and want to take their own life. You're the one voting against kids getting lunch at school. You're the ones voting against [00:52:00] moms being able to have, um, healthcare and, and, and have higher maternity, uh, you know, uh, survival rates and voting against, uh, being able to affordable childcare so that you can also have more money to do other things with your kids and to feed your kids at home. You are the ones voting against that shit. So, and that's why I say people, 'cause that is not Christian. That is not the church I grew up with. That is some fucking evil demonic shit that you're saying in the name of it, because it makes you feel good and you're an asshole and don't want to take care of other people and want to use your religion as an excuse to do that to other people. Regan: Just goes fucking heated. I think you have a demon in you right now. Chesko: I'm, I'm feeling that's what it is. I invited him in, I said I would be an easy, you know, and he is like, ah, equal rights. Oh, I'm coming for you. Regan: I, I definitely, um, I think by their own definition, so much of what a lot of people are doing right now is, is demonic. Mm-hmm. Which is ironic, ironically, demonically ironic or ironically demonic, [00:53:00] either or, but I agree, even in the small, like literally the smallest of scales is like you had a baby who was soothed by a song that they got accustomed to that helped them sleep. And for no fucking reason because your husband said it's a demonic song. Now your baby doesn't get soothed. And like you can hear the baby crying in the background as she's claiming that something's demonic. So it's like, and she said, I would, I would rather the baby cry. It's like. The priorities are strange. Right. That's all I'll say on Chesko: babies Fucking cry. Regan: No, I know, I know. I'm not. It's what it Chesko: is. But No, you're right though. But it, it's like, oh, this, this is something my child clearly loves. Regan: Mm-hmm. Clearly is Chesko: not old enough to have any sort of comprehension over. Even if the song was like, devil, devil, you know, worship me in the Hell. Like, even if that was it. But if, like, if the child doesn't have any knowledge of what's being said right now, Regan: can we please make an album? Of all the songs you've [00:54:00] made up today, devil, devil Worship Me in Hell. There's a, there's a couple other good ones you've done today. Jesus. God, Chesko: that's something that's annoys me so much. Like when I'm, I used to read in front of my child all the time, like, oh, be careful what you're reading in front of them. I'm like, she is six months old. I'm just, she just wants words. She just needs to, she, she, the whole point is just her being around me and hearing sounds and words right in my voice. Regan: Yeah. Ugh. You do it. You do yours really quick. Chesko: Okay. I sent you the video. Regan: Oh. Oh, I'm playing it. Yeah. Well that makes me feel stupid. Clip: Why does everyone over the age of 35 think that sharing your location with your partner is like a prison sentence? Regan: Every time we talk to someone older about how we have each other's location, they're like, couldn't be me. Bring out the shackles. But I feel like everyone we talked to who's like under 35, just thinks of it as like a convenience or safety thing. Clip: It's not that deep. I can't remember the last time I checked her location other than just to find out where she parked. It's just a really interesting [00:55:00] social commentary that everyone over a certain age, we think it's about 35, has this really big issue with like a privacy violation and mistrust when you share your location. Regan: But I feel like with my friends and partner and people I trust, like I don't care if they see where I'm going at any time. I don't know. Why is this, Chesko: as someone, we are both on this different side of this, this age right here. Do you share your, your location with your partner? Regan: No, IWI was never like, that. Never was a thing. E when I, like, even with couples, like we weren't, we never did that. Like it was a feature that came way later. Yes. So, I mean, we're, we are constantly know where each other are. Mm-hmm. But like Chesko: we, my wife and I do it oftentimes, and I'm o so I'm way over 35. Um, and we do it mainly because, uh, like, so if I'm cooking dinner and she's coming home from like bringing my daughter home, there's so much traffic in la Oh, you wanna know where she is? Start when to cook. Like, this is when I start cooking or something like that. Or like, sometimes my, my youngest be like, [00:56:00] where's is mommy almost home? Is mommy almost home? Or something like that. They like, see that kind of, and same thing for me, I, it never even occurred to me like, I was like, I do feel like there's, there's a good reason and a bad reason to not want to share. Regan: Sure. Chesko: You know, a hundred Regan: percent. Yeah. Cool. 'cause it's like, I think, I think if your partner's like, I have to know where you are, like, anytime that I've seen it used has not been positively. Um, or that I knew about it, I guess. Uh, like I just saw, I, I, uh, I'm gonna make a video on it, but I saw like a video that was almost supposed to be like a thirst trap. Like it had sexy music underneath it. Mm-hmm. And it's like a girl that said, I turned off my location. Um, and then she parked somewhere and her, the guy showed up. Mm-hmm. So he had like air tagged her car or something. Chesko: Okay. Regan: And then there's all these girl like, Ooh, I wish I had this love made this love, find me. And it's like, he's stalking you. Like what? Right? Yeah. He, he's bumped your car. Yeah. That's weird. It's like, so, [00:57:00] um, you know, you see extremes or like, like kind of those behaviors where so many shows up because they know where your location is. Right. Um, so I think it can be misused. Yeah. Absolutely. I certainly think a controlling person would be down for it. Uh, but I also think if your partner was like, I refuse to turn it on. Chesko: Yeah. I don't want you to know where I am, Regan: then they don't have to do that. But it would be a question mark. Chesko: Yeah. Like, there's no, there's, I, there's literally never been a time where I'm like, oh, I can't, my, and oh, here, if I'm doing a surprise party or something for my wife or something like that, that would be like the, the one exception I could think of. Mm-hmm. Where, or I'm buying her a gift from a specific place and I don't want her to know. Sure. But then, but the, I would still wanna worry about it. 'cause it's not like she's tracking me on her phone every time I leave the house. To know where I am. Like I just can't fathom a situation unless I was doing something bad. Right. Where, or I was just sort of lying to her for some reason. Yeah. Why? I [00:58:00] would care if she knew where I was. Regan: It's kind of like the same debate over like phone lock, like knowing each other's phone codes. Right. Or being able to get in each other's phone. It's like, I know my wife's phone code, I, I'm mm-hmm. She knows mine. I'm assuming we don't go through each other's phones. I think it's more so like, does the person demand to know where you're at a hundred percent of the time? Mm-hmm. Or do they refuse to let you know where they're at? That's what I think the problem would be, but like the actual location on and off, I'm like, Chesko: who cares? You wonder if it becomes a weirder thing for older because of the fact that, um, when you're younger. The likelihood of cheating is about the same for men and women. When you get older, the likelihood of cheating goes dramatically higher for men. Regan: Yeah. Chesko: So I wonder if that could be part of it too. So over 35, that's when they're like, whoa, I need my options open. Wait a second. If I decide to stray you, I don't want [00:59:00] you to know where I'm at. I want, I, I mean, that could be part of it. Like, I don't know, I just think I understand privacy and wanting to, but like, if you're in a long-term relationship with somebody Yeah. Where you, where you also rely on each other and you do things with each other and like, like there's, and I don't, I, it's not healthy if you're hiding, like your loca, like what, what it is. Unless there's a safety reason, which is also another reason, like, I get why you, some people don't, can't leave sometimes for any number of reasons. Mm-hmm. But like, assuming you can leave if you don't feel safe sharing your location with, with somebody else. You sh assuming you can leave, leave, you should be, if you're in a situation with somebody where you can't do that, that's, you should be, I hope you're doing everything you can in your power to get out of that situation. Regan: Well, that's what I mean. I think people are fixating on the wrong parts. Like people wanna make hard and fast rules for things. Mm-hmm. Like it's a, it's a red flag or it's an ick, or it's a this or that, but it's like, I, I would be less [01:00:00] concerned about the actual, like on or off of the location. Mm-hmm. And more concerned about the intent behind it. Chesko: Reagan, do you have any final thoughts to say to our fans who love you so much, Regan: trader? You fucking Judith. Hey, I didn't say that. I didn't say that. That was Checo. You set me up to look bad. You can't say that. I don't like being interrupted by myself. Chesko: I know God. They go, now you know how I feel, Regan: Judas, I don't have a board. Chesko: I'm sorry. Maybe we can fundraise and buy you one. We each get sound clips of the other person to throw in and this the entire podcast. Regan: That would only be fun for us, unfortunately. Yeah. All right friends, thank you for listening to this week's episode. We hope you enjoyed it. Check out our socials. We have our YouTube and other things. I keep waiting for you to [01:01:00] interrupt me with this. Our UNH Chesko: show every week. Regan: Yes, very unhinged. More, although today was quite unhinged. If I do say so myself, Chesko: hing, it's pretty random Regan: and we will catch you next week. Chesko: Love you. Regan: Bye.