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Are you ready, my loves A welcome back to the podcast.

Honestly, if you would have told me when I was twenty one.

Ten years ago, when you're listening to this podcast like who I am at thirty one, I would not have believed you Like just the life I've created, you know, my career, the business is beautiful.

Ivy girl currently pregnant with the second baby girl, you know, still with tim My.

It's not a school childhood, not a childhood, sweetheart, He was I being together since.

I was seventeen, So you guys get what I'm saying.

But honestly, wild and I wanted to do this episode of thirty one Lessons on my thirty first birthday.

We are recording this a little bit earlier because baby girl is you very close to my birthday, and which means she's going to be a LEO and truly O style.

She's going to steal the limelight.

But I better get used to it.

So it's fine.

We are prepping, and I have really been thinking about, yeah, these thirty one Lessons for my birthday, and when I do think of my twenty one year old self, experiencing my life, having what I do, being who I am, like I said, she would not have believed that, And I think that's like the greatest thing about manifestation work is you create a reality that's better than you could have imagined.

Because often when we want to desire, when we want a certain reality, we're limiting ourselves because we only have our own perception and our own you know, our own.

Constructs of what we think we want.

And so I'm just so well, firstly, I'm like so proud of myself for just what I've achieved and who I am, and the constant identity shifts and the constant belief reinformments and reinforcement stories, and the constantly having to do work on myself to be the person I am today.

I am very very proud of myself.

But let's get straight into it, because there's bloody thirty one of these lessons.

So the first lesson, These very much are reflected of my current reality of about to give birth, about to enter this new chapter of family or four.

So number one lesson is slower doesn't mean stuck.

It often means sustainable.

And I feel like this lesson really is come about because in society, society really celebrates speed.

It, you know, really celebrates us like going and going and going and doing.

And I feel like something that I've been embracing this year that is really brave for me because I was the hustler, I was the go getter, I was the high achiever.

Is I have totally slowed down.

I've taken a breath.

I've been so intentional, and especially with maternity leave coming up and my intentions with it, is really instilling the belief that like slowness is productive slowness is where I want to be, and just embracing things like I'll never get this moment back, you know, being present, like something I've been doing is when I'm feeling anxiety or rushed or overwhelmed, I go back to my five senses and I'm like, what can I see?

What can I smell?

What can I touch?

What can I taste?

And just being back in the present moment.

And I feel like this year, from my thirtieth to my thirty first is I have embraced slowness in this whole new way, and the results of that has been I've just felt so peaceful, like so much less anxiety, so much less pressure to do it all.

But in saying that, I'm still doing it all, I'm still getting everything I want done, I'm still achieving things, the businesses are still going, I'm still getting the results.

I'm just feeling like so much more peaceful during it.

And it really has to do with like the energy I'm embodying.

So that's our first lesson.

Number two.

Becoming a mother is a whole identity rebirth.

So motherhood cracked me open.

Like with IVY, I've been very vocal about how much that kind of like, you know, fucked me up basically, and for a long time, like when I first became a mom, I was trying to get back to my old self.

And one of the greatest things I learned was you can't.

You can't go backwards.

You can't go back.

To your old identity.

It's all about embracing your new identity.

And so this big lesson is.

About even in pregnancy with baby number two, I have this whole new identity coming through and I'm allready embracing her.

And it's like we sort of explained to you guys with Rice and Conquer how we're shutting down the physical.

Products of our business.

And again that didn't make logical sense.

Like logically that arm of the business does extremely well.

It's a very like financially abundant.

You guys love it.

We had the demand, but there was just something in R and C where I'm like, I need to simplify this, I need to minimize things.

I need to honor this next chapter.

And I know it doesn't make sense to everyone, but it's like what I need to do.

And again that's me embracing this whole whole new identity that I don't actually know about.

And I think that's the biggest thing with like becoming a mother is it's you don't actually know what's happening.

It feels super messy if it doesn't feel clear, and that really just regulated and fucked me up, like I said with Ivy, and this time, I just feel so much more ready for it and so much more embracing of I'm stepping into this whole new woman and I have no idea what she's like, but I'm just like embracing it, like decisions, I want to make what I'm feeling into and yeah, I don't know.

It just feels very.

Very good, And just like understanding that, like I will be a whole new person, like I can always like I can already feel her, but I will be a whole new person, especially with this you know, new baby girl, and just like being so open to like whatever I feel and want is okay and embracing it okay.

So number three, your self concept is the strategy.

I have been so deep into self concept.

And when I see say self concept, guys, I'm just talking about what you believe to be true about yourself is then reflected into your reality.

It's then reflected into your life.

And so, for example, every single thought and belief I have about myself, I'm taking a pause and I'm like, does this serve me in where I want to be?

Does this serve me in the next chapter?

Does this serve me in just my self concept of who I want to be?

And I'm being so intentional with it, and it just it feels.

Like that's the strategy.

It doesn't feel like I need a business strategy.

It doesn't feel like I need, you know, a strategy for my social media.

It doesn't feel like I need a strategy for any of those external things.

As long as I'm focusing on my internal beliefs and my self concept, that is the only strategy I need.

I hope that makes sense.

Number four.

Having it all looks different in every season.

So like, this is something I struggled with, Like younger me is I always thought certain things meant success.

So, you know, my whole story of I became a lawyer because I wanted to make my you know, parents proud, and I wanted to prove myself in the eyes of society that I was like smart and talented.

But then I went and did the law and got the job and I was like, oh my god, I'm so unhappy and so like a pattern I have is I will do something because I think that's what I should do to get a certain outcome, rather than in the moment being like does this feel good?

Is this what I want?

And I feel like we get really.

You know, stuck in it, especially with the rat race of life with comparison on social media and Instagram and so something I'm again being very intentional with this year is what does success mean for me in this season and honoring that rather than having to make it make sense, Like even going back to the closing down the physical product arm of Rise and Conker, again it's like it doesn't make logical sense, and it's like, you know, people might perceive that as oh, well, that's not successful, Like what would be successful is going like bigger and better.

But for me in that moment, with capacity in my business and what I want to do with my business, that does mean having it all like that gets me the outcome.

And again it doesn't actually have to make sense to anyone else.

It just has to make sense to me.

And that has been huge because again it's like this whole concept of asking myself at every stage of business, at every you know turn of my personal you know, career or like Instagram or social media, and it's like, well, does this feel good for me?

Like does this mean I can have it all in Georgie's world, not necessarily in the eyes of like what society perceives as successful.

And that really has been like life changing this year.

And we've also made quite a few changes within for example Naked Harvest with just like what we're doing in retail and a couple of things which again not making logical sense, but for us, it's like this feels really good, and this feels like really balanced, and this feels like the direction we want to go.

In number five, the universe mirrors your boundaries, so this is really interesting and again something I have been playing with.

But really what I've realized is what you allow is what you attract, and every time you say no to what's misaligned, you're opening up space for something better.

And again this is just being about like really diligent on your nose and I feel like, you know, this would probably be a life lesson every time I do a birthday podcast, but just being so ruthless with like no that doesn't feel good to me.

And it's not just in business or Korea.

It's like in your personal life with friends, with your partner.

I think sometimes again, we can be quite passive and we will just do things because logically we should do that.

Logically it makes sense to do that in our career or personally, or you know, we want to keep certain people happy.

But I've just noticed so much as like, when I'm honoring my boundaries, everything is easier to deal with.

And then it comes back to me tenfold when I'm honoring my energy.

When I'm honoring my boundaries, and I feel like that's like every year I get clearer on the nose.

Okay, this is a good one.

So number six, feminine energy isn't about doing less, it's about leading differently.

So this lesson really came about because when I found out I was pregnant again, I wanted to have a different maternity leave than I did with Ivy.

I wanted to have a different experience than I did with Ivy's newborn stage.

And I realized a lot of it had to do with, like, you know, work, because I'm in an interesting, a different situation where my husband's a stay at home dad and I work full time, but obviously when you have a newborn and your breastfeeding and all the things, And so I was really this year leaning into like what does it look like to be in my feminine energy?

And for so long I thought feminine energy was almost weak and like, I'm I can be a very masculine person.

I can be a very like doing let's get shit done.

And so I almost saw feminine energy as like passive, which I.

Was like, no, not about you know, couldn't get on this vibe of it.

But this year, I feel like I've embraced feminine energy in a whole new way where it's really about being supported and being led and being guided and being like, yeah, I can do all the things, but I don't want to.

And it's this very like intentional, intuitive, magnetic soft energy that feels like complete trust in the universe.

And that's what like the feminine energy is for me.

And it's like complete trust that, for example, Tim has my back in this newborn stage, that you know we're going to work as a team and it's going to be better than I could have imagined.

Complete trust in my team that they have it sorted and if they don't they'll figure it out, complete trust that if I do need to make a decision, I'm going to make the right decision.

And it's like it's such a new embodiment of feminine energy that I have never experienced before.

And I think it's because I always thought feminine energy was like doing less, but it's that's not actually it it's like this whole new level of surrender and trust and just knowing how supported I am in every single aspect with like every single relationship and every single.

Aspect of my life.

And it just feels so good.

And I feel like younger Georgie would be astonished about like how feminine I've been, even like Cooper will often, you know, come to me with like problems in the business and my answer, my reaction, He's.

Like, what's like, where's spicy?

Georgie?

Like you're so you know, trusting and relaxed, and it always works out.

And it's so.

Funny because I just I did things in such a masculine way.

But the masculine way is harder, and it's like biologically harder, especially for women because of what we do and what our bodies do.

And yeah, so that has been like such a huge lesson this year for me.

Number seven, You don't need to prove your worth.

You don't need to earn it through overworking or pleasing.

You remember how worthy you are, and literally that's all that matters.

I used to place so much emphysis on my worth being external and being from career accolades, you know, achievements, people being happy with me, that it really took such a toll on like my mental and physical health.

And I really feel like this year I have embraced this whole new level of worthiness.

Then I'm like, I want, I have desires.

If I have a desire, I'm deserving of it.

Like there doesn't actually need to.

Be a reason.

I don't have to explain myself to anyone.

I don't have to even.

Need to work for it.

I don't have to, you know, prove myself.

It's this beautiful energy of just being and like, just because I'm me, at my like raw inner child's self, I'm deserving and that again, I've never really experienced that until my thirties, which is wild because now it makes sense of like younger Georgie, how much she worked herself to burn out, how much she worked herself, you know, to please other people, to be seen in a certain light that was such a detriment to again my mental and physical health that I'm just not doing that anymore, and it feels so liberating.

Number eight.

This is a classic quote, but you can be both a masterpiece and a work in progress.

And I kind of just wrote under it like you're allowed to have big dreams and big feelings.

You're allowed to create magic while still healing old wounds.

And again, I think previously I had this perception that I had to have it all figured out, especially because I have this podcast and you know, I give advice and I empower you know, women, I would almost like not want to talk about a certain topic if I was in the healing or in the like being of it.

It's like I would want to get to, you know, feeling like a master of it and then I could share.

But I think something that I'm really embracing is like not having it all figured out and being okay with it, like things being a little bit vessy, me being like I don't know what my maternity leaver is going to look like, and I don't know what my new identity is going to look like, but feeling so solid in that and being so okay with it, and again it's like less of this proving energy, less of this like superiority, superiority.

Well, I can't speak you, guys.

I'm running off like limited sleep within pregnancy in something up.

So bear with me, but like.

Less of that energy and just more of this is me, like this is Georgie.

I don't have it all figured out.

I'm constantly changing identities.

I'm constantly feeling into what is good.

Like I do often say in this podcast, like if you knew me when I was twenty one, you don't know me now, or like I hope if you listen to episodes back, you know right at the start, if you're you know, a new listener.

I hope I have contradicted myself, like I hope I've changed, Like I hope I've said some things that I say the complete opposite now, because that shows evolution.

That shows that I'm a human, that I'm having this experience where I'm evolving, and I think a lot of and I think that's brave.

I think a lot of people are scared to do that, especially when their whole life is on social media.

Guys.

I literally share, like my deepest thoughts and inner knowings with you in real time.

I'm on social media in real.

Time and have to constantly deal with feedback like in real time, and it's a lot.

It's a lot.

And I used to be almost a bit protective of myself, where I wouldn't share my full self.

I wouldn't share the unknowns.

I wouldn't share my fears or my doubts because I felt like I had to show up in a certain way for you, guys.

But like New Georgie, honestly in her thirties, Georgie is just like this is me, this is how I feel.

It might be different next.

Week, but because I feel so solid in my self concept, that doesn't bother me.

Because if you think that's not put together or messy or like not right, I don't care.

I don't care.

And also I'm like, well, that's a reflection of like your inner world, not mine.

And yeah, so just that feels really really good.

Number nine, Your nervous system matters more than your to do lists, guys.

I have been on the biggest journey of nervous system regulation and it has changed my life this year.

So again, I used to be so disregulated.

I used to be so run by my thoughts of fear, my thoughts of like I need to do more, I need to achieve more, and like this constant it felt like I was on a hamster wheel.

It felt like I had to just go and go and go.

And that's just regulation, Like that's me not feeling safe within myself to just like stop and breathe and take a minute.

And I have been working on regulating my emotions.

I do this every single day with meditation, with padding, which is just like ifty tapping and really being like intentional and obviously healing a lot of like inner child things.

And yeah, it's funny because I'm probably doing like the least to do's I've ever done, and I've never felt so successful, so peaceful, so like me.

And it's because I'm not being run by my emotions.

I am deciding them, I am being intentional with them.

And yeah, it feels fucking good.

Ten.

Surrender is more magnetic than control.

Look, you know, I am a control freak, but like I think that's a great aspect of me because it means I'm able to like move through life in a certain way.

But lately I have really and this year really.

Released the like white knuckle grip on how things should be and should look and the outcome I should get and being in surrender.

And I feel like surrender's been the theme of like the last three years for me, especially during my sad in return.

But again this like year, I found a journal entry of last year, I think like mid last year, and you know, me and Tim were going through some issues in our marriage.

We didn't know whether we wanted you know, or I knew I wanted a second baby, but like that was wasn't really you know, on the cards or happening because of our infertility.

I was really struggling in business, like I was just like going through it like peak sat in Return vibes, and I just remember having this moment where I just had to like practice what I preach and lock in and I was like, look, Universe, like just show me how good it can get, and just like complete surrender.

And so many things happened where like you know, our house is now rented out, we moved into our dream house.

We're pregnant with baby number two, and again, all these things happened in a way I didn't know the how, but because I was surrendered.

They were able to come in in a really beautiful.

Way, even like from the fact of I really thought we were having a boy and kind of had on my head that we would have like, you know, a girl and then a boy, like one of each, because I only ever wanted two kids.

And then with having a girl, like I'm I'm like so excited because I'm like, oh my god, I forgets a baby's sister.

I also really would love to have three kids, like just so open, two things being different and not what I had expected.

And again it's like it just it feels so peaceful, it feels so good.

Number eleven, Oh my god, guys, there's actually so many of these.

Let's power through them.

My softness is my superpower.

So again, this is just like my whole new level of stepping into my feminine especially going on maternity leave and embracing this new chapter.

And I feel like that's very self explanatory.

I don't need to explain it.

And number twelve, this is okay, this is one of my favorite things I've ever said.

But being delusional is often just being early.

Let me explain, so you know, when like something looks unrealistic and then like you know, ten years.

Like, for example, twenty one year old me, if you told me on paper this is what my life would look like, I'd be like, that's unrealistic.

There's no way I'm going to achieve that by the time I'm thirty, you know what I mean, Like, like what the hell?

But now, being me, being thirty, being who I am, I'm like.

Yeah, of course I've done this.

So like being delusional in your dreaming big is often you just being early to the party.

And the thing is, once you achieve it, the people are going to be like, yeah, of course you achieved that, Like yeah, it's huge, but you're you because so of course you achieved that.

So like what.

I'm saying now to myself is like when I have like big desires or big goals or I'm like sinning in that delusion, I'm just like I'm just early to the party, Like I'm just early to this situation, and I want to be early.

I never want to be late.

I never want to be that person who only just gets it.

And especially with being intentional with your life, you really should be delusional, like you really want to see your life and be like, wow, I'm going to experience this and that and this and that, and to other people, it should feel delusional because otherwise, you know, you're probably limiting yourself, you're probably playing small.

And so I just love this concept of like being like, no, I'm yeah delusional, but that just means I'm early.

I thought you guys would like it to rest is a business strategy, Guys.

This has just come from all my twenties of like being constant burnout and having constant physical conditions.

That has made me realize that like rest in business, meantime in business is so necessary.

Number fourteen.

Magnetism is an energy.

It's not an aesthetic.

So like magnetism doesn't look a certain way.

It's not because the girl has a certain hairstyle or like active wear set or how she presents herself.

It's the way she feels about herself.

And I feel like magnetism is this like trend buzzword going around like TikTok and social media, but no one's really understanding it.

And for me, I feel like I have like stepped into my magnetism this year on a whole new level and just realize how much it doesn't look a certain way.

It's how you feel number fifteen.

Becoming the next version.

Of you.

Requires sorry, grieving the old version.

So every identity, we obviously have to let go of the previous identity.

And I feel like, if you don't grieve the old identity, just try and step into the new identity, you'll often come up to roadblocks, and it's just because you haven't processed that old identity.

And so, for instance, you know, I've had certain things come up with this pregnancy because I have like a medical conditioning conditioning, I have a medical condition where it means like I might have to have a sea section.

And it's like, honestly, if I'm being very very honest with you guys, my old identity was very not against sea sections, because it's like, you do whatever you need to do.

But because in my head I had always like been like, oh, I'm gonna have a natural birth like I did with Ivy, I had to grieve the part of me who to the natural birth while still processing and moving forward with you know, this new sort of outcome.

And if I didn't grieve, if I didn't actually lock in and be like, yeah, I'm fucking a bit sad that this is the outcome, because I thought it was going to be like this, and I feel like a lot of the time we try and suppress the emotions and then they pop up in weird, funky ways.

And so just like the biggest thing I've been bracing is like I'm not suppressing emotions.

Like they come up, I validate them, and I'm like, yeah, this does suck, but also I process them, I feel them, I move through them, and then they don't like have attachment to me, they don't like come up in weird, funky ways.

And again it's like so simple, but I feel like most of us are just suppressing emotions that we think we shouldn't have.

Sixteen the best leaders lead themselves first.

So this has been a huge.

Thing the last twelve months in business, because I'm not gonna lie, there's been some like rocky stuff, especially with like the economy, you know, internal stuff.

There's been a lot happening.

And now that I'm we're kind of on the other side, like me and Kiper just talking about like how well things going in business and how like goold we feel going on maternity leave, and like how solid our team is.

But it's like it wasn't like that all the time.

But we always led with like integrity and with this beautiful like how would I want to lead myself in this situation?

How would I want to move forward?

How do I want to show up that I would be you know, proud of And it just has like worked out so beautifully and such a testament to you don't have to have it all figured out.

You don't have to know exactly what's going to happen.

But it's like if you move through something in a way that you're proud of, you can't fuck it.

Up, you can't get it wrong.

Seventeen.

You don't have to be everything for everyone.

And this is just a whole new like you know, your energy is sacred, You've got to protect it the right.

People love you for who you are, not what you give.

And I feel like this year has been again this whole new socially being pregnant, like you just step into this energy of like my energy is so sacred, and I feel like maybe previously, if I wasn't trying as hard in certain relationships or certain aspects of my life, I would feel like scarcity and like, oh is that person going to be okay?

Or am I going to be rest?

You know less relevant if I post less and like, you know, weird, funky thoughts, but like a whole new level of just like, this is who I am and this is what I can give, and I know that that's enough, and that just feels so good to me.

Eighteen She's a simple one.

Let it be easy, guys, the ease I have had in my life in the last twelve months with like moving house, businesses, friends, my relationship, It's like I always am picking the easy option, and not in the way of you think of like, oh, I'm not doing any work, but like so much of our time and our everything, we are picking the harder way because we think we have to and we don't let it be easy.

And I feel like I've been really like, what's the easiest option?

If this could be easier, how could it be easier?

Number nineteen self abandonment isn't noble.

So again this whole new level of just like really embodying myself and what that looks like and being so unapologetic about it.

I feel like you guys have really felt that on my social media of just like this is me, this is the season.

I don't have to prove or tell you guys about it.

Number twenty Stillness holds Answers hustle never will love that title again.

Georgie is in this whole new level of stillness.

I've never been less rushed, less anxious, less like so peaceful and just like I was saying before, like Cooper's like what why?

Like me, me and Cooper had.

This situation where we our lease is ending for our warehouse for NH and we were thinking about moving into this sorry, buying this new warehouse, but it would mean financial pressure on the business.

And I just turned around to Cooper and I was like, I'm going on maternity leave, Like I don't I don't need this, Like this is not something I want.

I don't want to put myself in a situation like this.

And it's funny because we were then talking about it, and like previous Doorgy anything like that, she would have been like, Yeah, let's go, let's take on the challenge.

Let's do it.

And that's what success would have meant to me, because it would have been like moving through that challenge and accomplishing it, and I would have.

But for me right now, it's like that's not what is important.

I don't want to hustle.

I want to be in the stillness.

I want to be in the energy of not having to, you know, in that feminine energy.

And again I feel like old Georgie never would have understood that, and I would have automatically defaulted to the hustle energy.

Twenty one last ten the version of you who dreams big, she's not crazy.

Again, this is like the whole delusional thing.

I think we need to be more in our delulu.

I think we need to be more okay with our current you know, three D and reality looking a certain way and us just affirming and like using the law of assumption of like, no, that's not happening.

Like I've been so in my delulu guys, where it's like I'll have an actual conversation with someone and they'll say something and after it I'll be like, no, that actually went the complete opposite way, like they actually decided this, and I'll move through my day, in my week or whatever, and then it will just come into fruition like that is that's full delusional.

But it's like, I think more of us need to be in that delulu of really asserting in our belief system internally, of like what we want what we want to be true, what we want our reality to be.

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If it costs you your piece, it's too expensive.

I probably should have told the warehouse story to this lesson.

But the same thing applies of you know, whether it's a business decision, a friendship, an opportunity.

If it feels draining, even if it's like logical, don't do it, that's it.

Don't do it even with us closing down like the physical arm of ironc not logical.

But I'm like, not, I've got to close it.

It's draining me.

I need to move on for whatever reason.

Something's going to come of it, I know.

But also I don't need to have the proof first.

And that kind of leads into my next lesson twenty three.

Sometimes dream the dream changes, and that never means you failed.

And again old.

Georgie used to need to like see things out.

That's why, like with my law degree, I knew, I literally knew even a year out before I had finished, I probably wasn't going to practice law, but I was like, well, I've just got to finish it because I've already done, you know, five years, and I feel like a really great strategy.

Sorry, A strength I've been leaning into is letting go and being okay with things changing and being okay with Yeah, a couple of years ago, this was the dream and the vibe and now it's not anymore, and being okay to say that to you guys too.

I think I used to be so scared to change my mind because of what I thought it meant.

Yeah, oh now vibe for that, okay.

Twenty four.

My triggers are my portals.

Literally, our triggers are our best friends.

So like any time that you're getting triggered or like shit's going down, using it as a moment to heal.

Because like, if you get triggered, it's not really.

About the other person.

Like, yes, people can be assholes and shitty people, et cetera, et cetera, but it would never bother you unless it was actually something about you internally.

And I'm about to do a post on this, but basically, like that's why I love being on social media and being like in front of everyone, because I get so much real time feedback that I constantly get shown light to my triggers and shit I need to work on and heal, and it's honestly been like the best growth experience for me person, because if I get a comment on social media or someone like disagreeing or like, I don't know, saying something shitty, if like the first level is just being like, oh my god, you know that person's had a bad day, or like they're clearly in their life not liking their life, and that's how I know I'm unbothered, and that's how I know I'm like, I'm good in this situation.

But if the.

Comment triggers me and I need to go and like vent to someone about it or I need to go talk to someone about it, it's showing me something that is either actually true in that comment that I don't like about myself or it's it's showing me something and again not being like that person's you know, shit, that person blah blah blah, but looking inwards and being like, okay, so do I think I'm a bad mom, Do I think I'm a you know, I don't know whatever they're.

Saying, and again using your triggers.

To feel the parts of yourself that you need to.

That's all that triggers are.

They're not bad, they're actually really really great.

Again, huge learning spot for my thirties.

Okay, twenty five, you can be in your feminine and still be wildly successful, wildly successful.

Again.

I had this really warped.

Perception of feminine energy.

I didn't really understand it, and this year I have really stepped into it, like receiving, resting, flowing, and again, so many things have come in that I'm like, Fuck, that was so easy and it never had to be that hard.

I never had to go through so much.

I never had to go through the work and the challenges, like actually could have been so much easier, but I was always picking such a masculine way of doing things.

And so I feel like I'm at my really at the start of my journey with my feminine energy, and I'm so excited to see that evolve.

But I did want to put that in there.

Twenty six Trusting my body so again, like I said, I do have some pregnancy complications, some stuff going on, and I'm really in this new level of like my body knows how to sort itself out and not in the way of like sort itself out so I have a natural birth, so I have the thing I want.

But in the way of like, I trust my body if I do need to get a C section to heal and recover, and it will actually be a genuine great experience.

I trust my body with making a baby, with making a healthy baby.

I trust my body with my cues, with you know, telling me when I'm hungry, when i'm full, when I need to rest, all those sorts of things.

Number twenty seven Baby steps always matter more than you think.

Again, every single day, it's like this is such like a cliche, but it's like, what's something small that I can do for my future self that she would be proud of?

And it's like really small stuff and that's what adds up.

And I even have this like affirmation I say in the morning where it's like it's all adding up.

Like all this small stuff.

The decision to you know, pick a healthier meal compared to like the takeout I really wanted, it's all adding up.

The decision to do a couple more steps in this pregnancy.

It's all adding up, the decision to rest instead of hustle.

It's all adding up.

Number twenty eight.

The external will never validate my internal again.

This is like my whole journey of I used to be in such proving energy.

I used to want people to see me a certain way.

I wanted everyone to have the perception of me in a certain way way and just realizing how much that doesn't fucking matter, and how much that will never bring you peace, happiness and contentment.

And what does is when you look inwards and you heal the triggers.

When you do that work, when you are constantly looking inwards and making decisions from that angle, that's when you can't fuck it up.

That's when you do finally feel at peace and really good in yourself.

Twenty nine.

Your dream life is usually just one bold decision away.

I love this so much, And like.

What I've written down is like the version of me who has it all is not making decisions from her past self.

She's making decisions from her future self.

It's usually a bold decision, because if it wasn't bold, then I'm going to stay in the past.

Does that make sense.

It's like it is going to feel uncomfortable.

It is going to feel a little bit like shit, am I really doing this?

Because otherwise you're just going to stay in the same reality.

And for me, it has been about embracing that stillness, embracing the slowness and the rest that feels uncomfortable, comfortable for me, that doesn't feel like right, Like I am so much more comfortable in the hustle, in the doing, in the achieving that like slowing down feels really wrong to me, which is so funny and interesting and so like that feels like a bold decision for me to come on here and be like, I'm taking maternity leave, I'm resting, I'm shutting down this part of my business, and I don't know what I'm doing.

Like those feel like bold decisions to me, whether you know that you think they are or not.

And again it's not decisions previous Georgie would make.

But that's how I know I'm evolving and I'm finally stepping into that next identity.

Number thirty.

Peace is the new success.

Guys.

If it doesn't.

Give me peace, I literally don't give a fuck about it, and I don't care and I don't want it.

Sorry for this way, I'm so passionate about it.

Like it's not just about money or status or whatever.

You know, society wants you to prioritize.

It is about how you feel inside.

If it's going to make you anxious, fearful, if it's going to make you burn out, like it is not worth it.

But there is a way to do things in a beautiful, sustainable, peaceful way.

It's just about you figuring it out.

And the last lesson, life gets to feel extremely good all the time.

And this is like again, I truly believe, like if you want want a desired reality where you feel joy and peace and slowness and acceptance, and you know, like whatever you want to feel, you have to embody that now, no matter what is happening in your current lifestyle, in your current three D, you have to embody the energy you want now.

And so the biggest thing I've been doing is like when shit has been going down or just like even just when life feels like average or stuck or stagnant, like I've been leaning into like, oh my god, this is better than I could have imagined, Like things feel so fucking good, like old Georgie cannot believe how good life currently is, and like really embodying that energy and it's insane.

What is like unfolding in my reality?

And it's just from being in the energy of like life gets to be really good all the time.

Anything that says otherwise is an illusion and is not my truth, and being so embedded in that belief all right, my loves.

There were a lot there to cover.

But they are my thirty one lessons, vibes, beliefs for turning thirty one.

When you guys listen, it will be.

My birthday, so happy Leo season to anyone else.

Who's a Leo.

And I'll probably have a newborn or just about to have a newborn.

So I'll be in the thick of it.

But thank you so much for listening.

I really appreciate it.

Love you guys, thank you for stinking around.

And again, if you listen to some of the first episodes of Rise and Conker, I think I am about like twenty three or twenty probably twenty four, So like the fact that you're still listening now when I'm thirty one, while thank you for being here.