Episode Transcript
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Speaker 2Hello, and welcome back to it could happen here in your daily dose of the horrors that are, in fact, already happening all around us.
I'm your occasional host, Molly Conger, and I am delighted to be joined today by the critically acclaimed author of Culture Warlords, journalist researcher, sword enthusiast, Sandwich expert, and my friend Talia Lavin.
Hello.
Speaker 3Yeah.
I once introduced myself at an event as a Sandwich historian, which I think was the pinnacle of my public speaking career.
But this is a second pinnacle.
Hey, Molly, what's up?
Speaker 2Thank you so much for coming on today to talk with me about your new book, Wild Faith is coming out in just a few weeks October fifteenth, right.
Speaker 3Yeah, Wild Faith, How the Christian Right is taking over America.
Not the terrible B movie entitled Wild Faith.
Speaker 2Yeah, the SEO is scrambled on that one.
But the book, however, is very good.
I mean, first of all, I just want to say, like I've been reading the gally copy that you sent me, which I honestly made me feel very fancy.
I've never received a galley copy of a book that's not out yet before.
So I felt, you know, kind of a kind of a broadcasting professional with my special book.
Speaker 3It's an exclusive club.
You're one of like five people thus read it.
Speaker 4Oh my god, that is that's very exclusive.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Well it's aboud to become a lot less exclusive, so feel special while you can, right.
Speaker 2But I realized while I was reading it, you know, I have my little sticky tabs because I'm reading a lot more books lately, regrettably not not not a big time book guy.
It's always reading.
I read a lot of court documents, but I'm reading a lot of books right now for research for my show, and it's like my little sticky tabs.
And as in reading it, I realize I'm not marking passages that I think would be useful for us to talk about in this interview.
I'm just putting my little tabs on passages that just like punched me in the gut.
Speaker 3You know, Ah, sorry for punching you.
Speaker 2No, but I mean, I mean with the way the power of your words, because like a lot.
Speaker 4Of what I'm reading sucks.
Speaker 2It's just right, Like I spent all day yesterday reading like twenty five year old Issues of Resistance, which was the quarterly magazine for a white power music label.
So this, I mean it's a real departure, So you know, really just reveling in the richness of the pros and the fact that it, you know, didn't want to kill me.
Speaker 3Yeah.
No, I also have experienced neo Nazi research fatigue, and also just like the sort of relentless grimness of flowing through these like fundamentally hostile texts, and also like academic texts, which are difficult in their own way.
I try to write accessively or just like excitingly.
I find that a lot of especially nonfiction sort of journalism me books, tend to be a little dry, and I'm like, let's not be dry.
Let's be like spicy, and you know, like form and function, Like you're more likely to be moved by a message if you find the writing compelling.
You know, it's just you.
Speaker 2Have such a way with words.
I mean, you know this, You're a professional writer.
I don't want to embarrass you on the show.
Speaker 3So I'm twirling my air like, yes, but I do write for a living.
Speaker 2If you'll indulge me, if it's legal, if the publisher will allow this, I just want to read this passage from the introduction that I think is a good jumping off point, and it was one of the first things I marked because I was just like, oh, hell yeah, we're getting into this.
Speaker 4There's good words in here, okay.
Speaker 2The Christian Right is a force in American politics and has been for decades, half a century to be precise, during which it has steadily gained power.
It started in school rooms, continued in courtrooms, and perseveres with the aid of people who are perfectly willing to call in bomb threats to hospitals and attempt to overturn elections.
It features self proclaimed profits with a distinct interest in policy, newly minted apostles with very definite ideas about spiritual battle and its earthly components, and pastors eager to usher in the end of the world.
Its adherents have hymns and devotionals and speaking tongues on occasion, and the showiest among them are known to march their cities, blowing rams horns in an effort to topple, as Joshua once did, the wicked cities of the world.
They have their own insular world, their own media apparatus.
They have legislators who could fire in brimstone speeches from the badly carpeted rooms where laws are made.
They have lawyers too, and in case the lawyers fail, there's always the promise of congregations that might coalesce into mobs or arsonists.
Who's burning holy eal coalesces into the tiny pinpoint of a Molotov cocktail.
And I knew from the intro that we were in for a ride.
Speaker 3Yeah, it's like cast of characters, the worst people ever, but like, let's write about it in an exciting way.
I think that one of the themes of the book is really how these extra legal extremist movements like the anti abortion terror movement, and the legal framework of a movement work together.
I actually initially heard about this from a friend who was talking about how like during the gay rights movement you had sort of the act up builth demonstrations, the diants, and then you have the sort of like more respectively coded like gay people who you know, we're talking to the government and trying to get elected and you know, really trying to influence research, and that every movement needs sort of a radical outside and then a respectable inside.
And I'm like, oh, this works in like the acratic movements too, where you have like this you know, fringe that's burning down clinics, and then people steadily working for fifty years to like ban abortion, and they have the same DNA and they have the same goals.
They just go about it differently but complement each other.
And I think that's like a running theme in the book, is that like you have lawyers and you have legislators, and then you have mobs and they're sort of all working towards the same goals.
And that's really what we're seeing, I think, on the Christian Right after decades of building power.
Speaker 2Yeah, one of the notes that I wrote down in that vein while I was reading was that, you know, the Christian Right drives its power across a spectrum, right from the clinic bomber to the senator.
But it's not you know, you might say two sides of the same coin.
But to me it looks like this isn't two different spheres of power too sort of separate but coexisting or comorbid ideologies.
They're just different numbers on the same dial, right, it's turning up and turning down.
Speaker 3Yeah, it's like the hand that lights the torch and the hand that puts it to the you know, pyre.
They perform different functions, but they have really the same goals.
And if like me, you view stripping half the populace of its bodily autonomy, imposing a theocracy, hounding queer people out of public life, slash into death as fundamentally violent goals.
Yeah, I don't think there's like a respectable iteration necessarily, there's just cosplaying respectability and right.
Speaker 2You can say it with a tie on on the Senate floor, but it's it's the same message.
Speaker 3Yeah, And I think so much of our media apparatus and governmental apparatus is really sort of views like again this like form and function, right, Like if you are if you say something politely, it doesn't really matter what you're saying, like if you say something with a suit on in the register of like, you know, in a calm sort of Mike Pencian, rush Limbaugh and decap As he called himself a boy.
She says, did he say that, Yeah, that's what he called himself when he read it, did a like evangelical radio show.
Yeah, No, no matter what you say, as long as you are like white and you say it politely, like this is fundamentally sort of fine, And then if you look at it from you know, a step or two back, and you're like, no, actually, no matter how politely say it, this is like a violent, deeply unpopular theocratic agenda that like fundamentally is incompatible with multiracial democracy.
I also think, and I keep running into this, like well meaning liberals being like, but isn't there a separation of church and state?
And I'm like, I don't know.
Do you fucking think there is?
In Alabama?
Do you think there is an Arkansas?
And all of these you know in Texas, Like all of these figures are like we're Christians.
We're making laws for Jesus, and.
Speaker 4We have covenant marriages and we want you to too.
Speaker 3Yeah, like we're gonna outlawe because of God.
And like, you know, women dying of sepsis in hospital parking lots is what Jesus wants.
And like, and I experienced this, I think you probably have to when you like report on you know, ealots and extremists, and people inevitably wind up like measuring other people's weep by their own bushel.
In other words, they're like they can't really believe this stuff, and it's like, no, they really do, they can't really have these goals.
Speaker 4First of all, they do, but also doesn't.
Speaker 3Matter, right, I mean the question of like impact versus intent.
First of all, it's I think it's perfectly possible to be both a grifter and a true believer at the same time.
Speaker 4That's just synergy, baby.
Speaker 3Yeah.
And also fundamentally, this is a world premise done grievance, where it's this idea that like, the world has got one over on you.
And so in a sense, grift is just like, well, you know, the world's corrupt and I'm fighting a righteous cause, so what does it matter the ethics that I sort of skip on along the way.
Speaker 2I mean, once you've amped the stakes up to you're fighting the literal devil and everyone who's getting in my way is animated by actual demons from Hell.
I mean, the stakes couldn't be higher.
So you do what you have to do.
Speaker 3Exactly, and it's this theory of power.
And so then people sort of standing outside of that paradigm who are not keyed into this idea of like we're in an ethical spiritual battle and we must create like a Kingdom of Christ on earth.
In America to win against the devil, and then people outside being like, you're hypocrites, and it's like it's not a valid criticism to them because they're like, first of all, you're not like a Christian if you're a liberal, but also like you're not on our level, Like we're fighting Lucifer and you're probably a stand like on his team if you oppose us.
So, you know, a multitude of apparent hypocrisies can be excused by the idea that like this is a holy war and in war there's like all kinds of avert behavior.
Speaker 4That's together doing holy war crimes.
Speaker 3Yeah, exactly.
I mean this is why, for example, you see a lot of like prominent female figures from Philish Lafley, you know, in the seventies and eighties, to like the trad wives now, and it's like, how does this fit in with your overall sort of idea that women should be chaste and submissive and meek and silent.
I mean, first of all, tradwife stuff is often fetish Spanish content.
Speaker 2But yeah, I mean Pilish Laughfly made a living professionally saying that women shouldn't make a living professionally, but that contradiction doesn't matter.
Speaker 3Yeah, I mean I think I call them valkyries for feminine submission in the book.
Yeah, I mean, at the end of the day, like if you believe that this is your your calling, your mission, you know, your mission field in the service of the Lord to undo the demonic sort of influence of feminism, Like of course you're going to.
Speaker 4Speak, You've been moved by God to do so.
Speaker 3Yeah.
And of course, like female leaders with the evangelical community, like sort of minority Republicans can be like knocked off their pedestal quicker and easier, but like they still can come out and exist and testify.
And Schlaughley throughout her very long prolific and lucrative career, you know, was like I'm a housewife with six kids, and that was her.
That was how she defined herself, even while being this incredibly prominent figure and one of the sort of key architects of the current Christian right coalition of like right wing Catholics.
She and Paul Weyrick and Leonard Leo and some other right wing Catholics brought these Catholic values of being all about abortion to the evangelical right, which prior to the seventies is like, that's a weird Catholic thing.
You don't really I.
Speaker 4Wanted to talk about that.
Speaker 2So I'm not sure how sort of common knowledge this is, but the Protestant Christian community in the United States did not care about abortion until the seventies.
It was not an issue in their communities.
They were generally pro abortion.
They were you know, the Baptists were in favor of Roe v.
Wade.
Speaker 3Yeah, the fucking Southern Baptist Convention came out in like seventy four, I think it was, and was like, yeah, we approve of Rob Wade.
Speaker 2So it's not like, you know, opposition to abortion is baked into Christianity.
It is baked into the American Evangelical Christianity of post nineteen seventy five or so because of this sort of conscious cynical political decision.
And that I think is so interesting because you know, you get into this conversation of well, what are their deeply held beliefs and do they really believe it and does that matter?
But we can pin down the moment they started believing this and we know why, and it's segregation.
Speaker 3Yeah.
I mean, first of all, I would say, like people can still like this is like several generations later of like constant barrages of extremely violent propaganda against abortions.
Speaker 2So right, so the belief is sincere today, but you could look at it where it was born.
Speaker 3Yeah, exactly, you should have been aborted, right, Yeah, no, it definitely should not have been carried to term.
But like it's it's crazy.
And in addition to Mooi's book, Randall Baumer does some really good coverage of this.
So the sort of general arc is like three sort of nineteen seventies, you had this like generally conservative population of Southern Baptists who were like on board with McCarthyism, hated the godless Reds, but kind of viewed politics as like worldly and not really their sphere, and we're not particularly politically engaged.
And then brown versus a board of education passes immediately, the white Christian populist just disinvests these from the public schools, leaving multiple counties in the South without functionally any public education at all.
And this mushroom after rain, kind of like patch of patches of parochial schools with church or Christian in the name start popping up, and they're all white schools.
Their segregation academies is the sort of term of art for these and they're explicitly under a Christian agis they're religious schools.
They're tax exempt as a result.
And then in like the late sixties and seventies, the government was like, you can't be tax exempt and like considered a charitable organization if you are segregated and don't have any black students or minority students.
And that is what woke the sleeping dragon of the Christian right really like, you know, get your filthy government hands off our tax exemptions.
Like they just went, you know nuts.
They were really mobilized, you know, like these are the people who are like throwing tomatoes at Ruby Bridges, Like you know, they're really politically motivated for the first time because they're experiencing like a consequence for segregation.
And so this is when like Jerry Fowell and Ralph Reid and you know, James Dobson start sort of coming forward and being more prominent.
And then by the sort of mid seventies to eighties, you had these like savvy or political operators coming out and saying, hey, guys, segregation now, segregation tomorrow, segregation forever is like it's great that it really fired y'all up, but it has sort of a limited appeal.
Speaker 4And they shot George Wallace.
It's over.
Speaker 3Yeah, Like there's going to be a ceiling on that, and a lot of people think you suck.
So why are you getting on the ground on this new civil rights struggle abortion where you can fight for the unborn who conveniently will never disagree with you.
Speaker 4Right, their voices don't have to be centered here.
We can speak for them.
Speaker 3I mean, they're the most convenient political constituency in history.
Speaker 2Right because they're so innocent and you can't milkshake duck a fetus.
Speaker 4He's not even here.
Speaker 3Yeah, he can't talk, but he's not gonna say shit.
So I mean that's like the very capsule history.
And then of course it becomes this idea of like the moral majority and where the guardians of America's soul and we're gonna get really weird about sex.
Also, it's just.
Speaker 2Like if you strip it all the way down to the studs, Like the core of this is women are bleeding to death in hospital parking lots because Gary Fowell didn't want to pay his taxes or stop being racist.
Speaker 4Yeah, I mean that's not fair.
Speaker 3No, people sometimes like are a little skeptical when I'm like, all of the hatreds are interconnected.
But then you look at like concrete historical examples of like this world historical wave of misogyny.
I mean, it's not that this population wasn't like weird about sex or weird about women like to start with.
Speaker 2I mean maybe they would have gotten here a different way, but that's how we got here.
Speaker 3Yeah, we got here by just like no, we will pay taxes on our segregation academies.
Bob Jones University's inter racial dating ban is perfectly great, and we're gonna mobilize about it.
And so what you have then now is just like fifty years of political lock step because and you see this in like other religious communities.
I mean, like I know, like it's sort of notorious how much corruption slides by in New York because like the that a communities vote as a block, like it is very useful to have a congregation that all votes the same way.
It's politically useful.
Speaker 2I mean, what other populations can you get together once a week as a captive audience and speak to with authority if you can mobilize those people.
And that's what Jerry Folwell saw, right, is like this is a great way to get a lot of people to vote the way I want them to vote.
Speaker 3Yeah, And you know, the church has always been like a really prominent institution in American civil society, especially as the rest of sort of civil society has fallen away and degraded.
Like churches are some of the only social outlets that Americans have.
And what's interesting when you talk to evangelicals and next evangelicals is just like being a Republican is like part of their religious identity in a major way.
It's like this is how you vote, and this is you know, how you dress, and this is how you go to church and so on.
But like the idea of being a Democrat is like not only you know, a little bit out of step with your community, it's heretical.
Speaker 4I mean, that's how the demons give in.
Speaker 3Yeah, yeah, demoncrats, I mean, and like, yeah, it's stupid, But it's also like half of the people saying demoncrats like literally mean democrats are aligned with Lucifer.
Speaker 2And I think that's a point that I don't want to get lost on the listener this you know, this idea that people literally have demons in them, that demons are active in the world, that demons are motivating the actions.
Speaker 4Of their enemies.
It is real for them.
Speaker 2And I'm not saying that to be derisive or you know, it's real.
Speaker 4It's real.
Speaker 2It is an animating factor for a lot of these people.
And that's hard to wrap your mind around.
I mean, I struggle with the idea that that is real for them.
But like that's how you get things like satanic panic, and we see echoes of satanic panic in this idea of you know, groomers in kids' schools.
They really have this fundamental, like foundational belief in this, you know, whether or not they're calling it demons, that the existence of some sort of ontological evil that is coming for their children.
And like once you arrive at the place where, like where you understand that that's real for them, their actions make more sense.
Like they're not behaving irrationally if you if you truly believe that these things were happening, you'd act crazy too.
Speaker 3Yeah, I mean it's really hard to get people to step outside their own worldviews and in both directions, right, Like, I don't believe that demons are, you know, abroad in the world and motivating like every element of political action to someone who.
Speaker 4You're starting to see them some places, but generally, I.
Speaker 3Know, to someone who does my viewpoint is incomprehensible and vice versa.
So I think part of I mean not that I'm like one of those people that's like polarization is the big problem, like you know, as opposed to anything with like concrete policy, like you know where it's like the big problem is we all don't like each other enough, and I'm like, no, the big problem is like people are espousing policies that will cause deaths, and like also that people like believe their political enemies are like literally agents of Satan.
I would say, is like a bigger problem than polarization in the abstract.
But yeah, I mean this this doctrine of sort of spiritual warfare, which if you like google it, it's just like, oh, this is the mindset and it's like you, the listener to it could happen here, like you've been drafted into the spirit war from like birth.
Speaker 4Congratulations private, and.
Speaker 3You're probably in the side of the devil, so good job.
I mean, I don't know, like a lot of Americans believe in angels and demons, and that's fine, but it's like when that starts impinging on the political sphere in a very serious way.
It's like, how far would you go if you believed your opponent was under the thrall of like Satan, you would go pretty damn far's.
Speaker 2I mean, that's why you know clinic bombings were and I guess are on the rise again, right, Like these arsens of clinics.
It's not like other kinds of crime in my mind, right, It's not a crime of passion or an interpersonal dispute.
It is people who have been motivated by this belief that this is a place where a genocide is happening, that there's a holocaust going on in there, that people are ripping you know, actual living babies, limb from limb, And if you really did believe that, their actions make sense.
And that's why it happens so often, right, because these people are motivated by this belief that God commands them to take this action.
Speaker 3Yeah, I mean there's your dual element to that.
I mean, first of all, absolutely, yes, Like I've read some anti abortion terror manuals speaking of extremely unpleasant research and it's just really like these people are murderers.
It's mass murderers, Like you're like killing Hitler, right.
Speaker 4And wouldn't you wouldn't you kill baby Hitler exactly?
Speaker 3But poltical about baby Hitler in like a countrywide scale.
And when specific abortion doctors have been mentioned in right wing media, those guys end up dead and that's not a coincidence.
So there's that element of it, which is the majority of it.
It's huge.
But there's also this idea of demonic geography, where like demons can possess sort of places like abortion clinics or institutions like planned parenthood or even the Democratic Party, which you know, I read a lot of demonology books like Taxonomies of Demons.
Pigs in the Parlor was this really big hit in like the seventies, and it's been like reissued and reissued and millions of copies, and it's just like, on one level, it's really compelling because it's like are you tired, are you sad?
Are you feeling clumsy?
Do you have like persistent stomach aches?
It's demons and here's how you deal with that.
And like, in a country with shitty healthcare, I can totally see why someone who's like really depressed might go to like an exorcist or a deliverance minister, which is the Protestant.
Speaker 4If you'll try anything, and this guy's going to do it for free.
Speaker 3I watched so many videos of deliverance ministers doing their thing, and it's like crazy.
It's like people, you know, are just like sitting there and they're like people praying over them and screaming in their face, like and they wind up vomiting and crying and it's all very like intense.
And you know, if you think about it from a placebo effect perspective for like one second, you're like, obviously this person would feel a weightlifted from them they've had this ecstatic experience.
And this isn't the majority of it.
This is about fourteen percent of America identifies this as white evangelics, so many Protestants and still so many people because people keep asking me, like how many people really believe shit like this?
And I'm like, well, about eighty to ninety percent of like people who identify as white Evangelical Protestants espows most of these beliefs.
Speaker 4So that's like third, that's like thirty million people yeah.
Speaker 3Yeah, and then you add in the Catholic right.
Speaker 4Which is getting weirder every day.
Speaker 3Yeah JD Evans, I hate women exist to reproduce breed you filthy now.
But like even beyond the adult Catholic convert style weirdness, like right wing Catholics are an integral part of the Christian right, like Amy Cony Barrett, you know, antonin Scalia, that kind of thing.
That's another bunch of millions.
So this reactionary force has like numerically significant constituency.
On the other hand, it definitely punches way above its weight in terms of right.
Speaker 2They have an outsized influence of both you know, on the legislative floor and when it comes to you know, who's racking up the most bodies.
Speaker 3Yeah, And also even like the culture wars right, like the sort of loudest culture warriors tend to at least come from like a background of I'm speaking for God or Christ is King or whatever it is, Like how many times have you and I encountered that an extremist contacts But also like the sort of more mainstream me, what the fuck the mainstream is?
I don't know, it's full of piss, But like the more mainstream like Christian grifter, Right, they come from this.
I'm speaking from my faith.
These are my religious principles.
But like it is worth noting again just to rewind in our conversation.
But like the full concept of religious liberty and religious freedom absolutely was like an ad slogan coined in the seventies around segregation.
Speaker 2Right, religious freedom to do what?
I mean, it's like states rights, States rights.
Speaker 4To do what?
Speaker 3Right?
Yeah, like you answer the question, Yeah, it's religious freedom to have segregated schools, is the answer to that.
Speaker 2And you still see echoes of that with either still religious schools that can't accept federal grant money because they don't let students be gay, right, Like it's not racial segregation anymore, but they are refusing to admit gay students, and.
Speaker 4That is a violation of federal civil rights law.
Speaker 3Yeah, but that's where I mean, that's where that slogan started.
And then it's blossomed to clue basically like a gay person came into my shop.
Speaker 2Except they didn't, right, I know, there's no standing, right, Like that whole case was built a lie.
Speaker 4Whatever.
Speaker 3That's yeah, it's like and the standing in the Supreme Court is so ridiculous.
This, I mean, in many ways, this Supreme Court is the culmination and embodiment and a botheosis of like Christian right theocracy, because you have these like absolutely bat shit religious ealots, I mean, Amy Cony Barrett is like from a cult, and in this unaccountable body, they're passing unpopular theocratic principles that the majority of the American public uh disagrees with.
But like specifically, what they are trying to enact and what they are what they are enacting is this theocratic agenda where like the government is in your bedroom, the government is in your doctor's office, like the government is sniffing your panties, and it's it's gross and it's upsetting and fundamentally, like theocracies are just very famous all up in your junk, like they're obsessed with like controlling and censoring sexuality of all kinds of a particularly female sexuality and queer sexuality, like snuff those out.
And so that's part of the reason why so many abortion arguments, Like first of all, you have the like the you're murdering this cluster of cells which is a full human baby, Like do you remember that article in the Guardian a couple of years ago that like showed the actual size of like fetuses at various stages of development, and it was like you were just like so little, like these little like little fingernails.
Speaker 2Yeah, and it doesn't look like a tiny baby doll.
That's just very small.
Speaker 3Yeah, exactly, it's not like a mini baby like it like tides of gore.
It's like literally like a tiny cluster of cells.
So the anti abortion propaganda, like, you are not immune to propaganda.
It has like wormed its way into the popular consciousness just by virtue of its ubiquity and constant repetition being the key to successful propaganda.
But so many of these arguments, in addition to this abortion is murder stuff is also just like you should have kept your legs closed.
Speaker 2Right, this is a this is a consequence God did this to you.
Yeah, Like sex for your sins immortal sin, and sex should be punished and.
Speaker 4They must be doing it wrong.
Speaker 3Like I'm like, why do you want sex to have consequences and be punished?
The like intensity of the misogyny around purity culture is so intense.
Speaker 2I wanted to ask you, you know, about the experience of writing the book.
Right, So you know, your first book, Culture Warlords, was traumatizing for you to craft, right, because you had to spend so much time in these digital spaces in some in some cases physical spaces with you know, neo Nazis, four Chen guys, you know, aspiring terrorists, and so that's traumatic to experience, you know, But largely that experience was alone, like at your computer screen, sort of consuming this content that was eroding your soul.
Speaker 4But the second half.
Speaker 2Of this book is about child abuse, right, and like you interviewed people who grew up in this movement about their lives, about their husband's raping them and their parents beating them as children, and like, how did those experiences compare?
And like what was that?
How, I mean, how did you prepare to do that?
I don't know even know how it would begin to do that with care.
Speaker 3I mean, I think my goal going in is like I'm not going to betray you, Like that was my guiding ethos of just like I view like your trust in me as a sacred thing, not like sacred in any formal religious sense, but just like you know, I view your trust in me as something that I hold very dearly.
It's very important.
I'm going to treat your pain with as much gentleness and respect as I can.
And like, I interviewed over one hundred people largely about their experiences with experiencing child abuse and an evangelical milieu as is laid out with pain steaking instructions and like all of these parenting manuals.
Actually, like I think reading the parenting manuals was even more disturbing than talking to people, because like people were like, this fucked me up and it was wrong.
And then these books are like, no, you must beat your toddler because Jesus says so, and like here's exactly how to beat your toddler, and here's what you should use to beat your toddler, and here's the like supremely fucked up, like weird ritual that we prescribe.
And then like reading those in tandem with like like the accounts of people who were like this specific thing like sucked me up for life and really messed up my ability to have like intimacy or self confidence or whatever all of that stuff.
I mean, that was tough.
I definitely took more time, Like I wrote Culture Warlords in nine months, so I was like totally immersed constantly it just like didn't come up for air yeah at all.
And this one I was like, I need a little more time, guys, Like I wrote it over, you know, almost three years.
I also pretentiously started calling this philosophy guarding your Heart because I really got lost in the sauce with culture warlords, Like I was in a dark place while I was writing it, and afterwards I was also the like it came out in mid COVID, so that didn't help either.
But uh, it was a real, really rough experience with this.
I was like, I'm going to keep writing.
I'm gonna write about sandwiches all the way through.
I'm going to like make sure I have friendships and stuff that's grounding me.
I think consciously having that at the forefront of my mind really helped.
Speaker 1That.
Speaker 3Being said, like what was really encouraging was all of these people who had experienced this sort of child abuse industrial complex in the evangelical community, where like we really value that someone wants to hear what we have to say, and also that it's someone from outside the community is like paying attention and thinks this is important, which is not to denigrate like expangelical voices, but more to say that, Like, I guess there's a certain validation when someone who's like not didn't grow up in your corner of religiosity, dark corner.
Speaker 4And I'm sort of bringing it to an outside audience too.
Speaker 2I think a lot of expangelicals their audience is largely their fellow expangelicals exactly.
Speaker 3And I'm someone who, like I grew up as a Jew, and I'm like, yeah, this sucked, this is terrible.
I'm like appalled reading like to Train Up a Child by The Pearls or The Strong Willed Child by jam Stobson, which, like, to be clear, the strong willed child is a bad thing.
It's a bad thing to have a child with us.
Speaker 2You have to beat it out of them, sure, literally, And I'm going into this in the wild recently.
I don't know if you have come across this guy online.
Do you know the nineties movie The Little Rascals.
Speaker 3Oh my god, alf from The Little Rascals turns out to be able Salfa.
Speaker 2The guy who played Alfalfa's name is Bug Hall.
He like really like I don't, got into a sort of main character situation over some posts about how he beats his infants.
Speaker 4He beats infants because that's I guess, a good way to raise a baby.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Also I think he's homeless.
Speaker 4No, he's a surf.
Speaker 2Oh he's in a voluntary serfdom arrangement.
Speaker 3Oh my god.
Okay, well he sounds like a big rascal.
Yeah, he's continued that trajectory of rascaledom.
But don't be your kids.
I mean, I will also say the reason why this book focuses so much on child abuse, which, like I encountered some some haters and losers and doubters along the way who were like, why are you focused so much on child abuse?
And I was like, there are a lot of different theories about like how authoritarianism developed, but one of the big ones is focusing on the pedagogy in authoritarian societies.
Societies that become authoritarian, you know, evolve from democracy to authoritarianism, and beating the shit out of people from when they're in infancy and particularly when they display disobedience or ask why, or you know, just deviate from expectations.
Speaker 4It's a great way to make an obedient brown shirt.
Speaker 3Yeah, exactly, Like this is a recipe for future authoritarians.
Like the people I spoke to had sort of broken away largely from this culture.
But many of the sort of most obedient soldiers in the Army's Army of God like are that way.
Because again, I can't overemphasize how much these parenting manuals, which spanned from like nineteen seventy to twenty fifteen, these texts, you know, the dates that they were published, emphasize having an obedient child.
What you want is not like a child who's kind or curious or thoughtful or smart.
It's obedient, instantly obedient.
Don't make me count to three is the title of one of the books, And like, what you're creating is a culture of people who a like empathize with the aggressor at all times.
So hence this admiration for strength and even admiration for cruelty, people who are trained to obey and obey without question, and people who are very acclimated to the use of violence.
Speaker 4I mean, you're doing fascism in the home, right.
Speaker 3So the the author, like Alice Miller, the the author of the book For Your Own Good, lays out a pretty she was also a Holocaust survivor.
She lays out a pretty strong case for like, you know, early twentieth century Germany having this poisonous pedagogy that also involved beating the shit out of your kids until I was illegal to love your children, Yeah, to obey you, and how basically this is how you make a torture and the book is called or your Own Good And yeah, I mean I really think it is like under valued in politics, Like how much this culture of corporal punishment, which is yeah, Americans have like moved away from universal approval of corporal punishment, we're still like a lot higher than other Western democracies in that regard, and like on a national level, we're the only country in the world that hasn't ratified the UN Conventions on the Rights of a Child, which include like having a name and like not being beaten and not being thrown into like ju the solitary.
Speaker 2Oh well, that's why America can't touch that.
We need to incarcerate the children.
Speaker 3Yeah, the children, you're in for the cells.
But it's also just like a lot of it actually was like worries that like evangelicals like would sort of object to the interference in their it's.
Speaker 2An infringement on their religious freedom to bet the shit out of baby.
Speaker 3Yeah, and they're parental rights which is another buzzword of this this movement.
Speaker 4Parental rights is a red flag for me.
Speaker 3Oh yeah, no, I hear parental rights, and I think you want to beat the shit out of your kids.
Speaker 4You don't want your children to learn science.
Speaker 3Yeah, you at a homeschool and under educate your kids or miseducate.
Speaker 2You want to cause a measle's outbreak exactly.
Speaker 3But that's like for us because we're weirdos.
We're like obsessively clued into this stuff.
If you're not, Like, parental rights is like religious freedom is, like it sounds good, Yeah, it's an effective marketing slogan, but like what it means is like we're going to show up at the school board and yell about how I mean.
And Trump is like bought into this obviously because he knows where his bread is buttered.
He has savvy Like he's like, you guys, do the policy.
But like his current parental rights based his biggest like policy that he's advocating is like denying federal funding to any school with any vaccine a mandate, which is basically just like make measles great again, like bring back diphtheria.
I think, like, yes, the maga movement ister of the the efflorescence, the apotheosis of this steadily building power, but like there's also just like fifty years of power building behind it.
And like even if Trump was defeated at the federal level, which like I profoundly hope he is, sorry to come out as like a you know, partisan, a voter, like a hashtag a voter, but like, I think it would be just a nauseatingly it's a horrifying thought that he I mean, first of all, you would absolutely enact every item in this theocratic agenda, starting with a national abortion band like that would happen in the first hundred days, I think, which would just functionally plunge American women into like a very very dark septocemic nightmare.
Speaker 4Yeah, the dark place that we're going as a coffin.
Speaker 3Yeah yeah.
Speaker 2Yeah.
Speaker 3But even should he lose, which you know hope, there's still twenty two states where abortion is outlawed or severely restricted, and these places are becoming care deserts.
Like medical residents.
My extremely sexy partner is a medical resident, so I know more about the state of medicine than I otherwise would.
But like residents don't want to do their residencies in states with abortion restrictions, they're like, right, given.
Speaker 2A choice, gynecological providers just aren't practicing there anymore.
Like even if you know, even your primary focus is not abortions, or even if your primary focus is not you know, pregnancy care, they just don't want to They just don't want to work there.
Speaker 3Well, also, first of all that, but second of all, it's like, if you're in the er, you're going to experience pregnancy losss It happens in one in five pregnancy.
Speaker 2Right, So they're choosing to work in states where they're not going to go to jail for doing medicine.
Speaker 3Yeah, Like they don't want to incur the moral injury of not being able to apply the standard of care to patients in extremely common situations such as incomplete miscarriage and you know, pregnancy loss, whether you know self induced or just like miscarriage is super common and nobody talks about it.
Speaker 2It's more common than we an Ectopic pregnancy is so much more common than people realize.
Like there are so many things that your body can do to betray you that you need a doctor help.
Speaker 3With just ordinary pregnancy.
Speaker 4And then after the baby is born, then your lustrous hair all falls out.
Speaker 3Yeah, Like ordinary pregnancy is so fraught with like weird body horror.
Like, but anyway, that's besides the point.
Whatever.
The point is someone presents with abdominal pain in the er and it turns out to be an ectopic pregnancy, and like you can't do standard of care like dilation and cure tash procedures without checking with the hospital lawyer.
Like that is a really bad position a care provider to be in.
So when you have these fundamentally unscientific laws, right that are produced by people who don't know anything about pregnancy and are like very intentionally ambiguous, so that cautious institutions will sort of interpret them at maximally interpret them, Like the life of the mother.
Speaker 4How dead does she have to be?
First?
Speaker 3Yeah, she has to be almost dead, right, and then sometimes she winds up dying because almost dead is tough to judge, Like, it just winds up this grotesque sort of farce of medicine, and very directly, like residents don't want to train, doctors don't want to practice in these places, and so you.
Speaker 2Know, right, so this ends up killing more people than just the ones hemorrhaging in the parking lot.
There are people who have completely unrelated problems who are now unable to access unrelated kinds of care because the doctors just aren't.
Speaker 3There, Yeah, Or people who have ordinary wanted pregnancies who can't access neonatal care, who have to drive hours and hours and hours to like get checkups, like you know, I mean, human reproduction is like a pretty major part of like life.
Speaker 4And a lot of people are doing it.
Speaker 3Yeah, like it's sort of how you know, It's just people do it all the time, and like, not being able to access medical care around like the entire spectrum of like reproduction is pretty catastrophic.
But yeah, it also impacts all the people not engaging in reproduction at this moment in time, like doctors who are just like fuck this, I'm not wearing out an er in Tennessee, you know, because I want to be able to treat patients.
Speaker 4Without a lawyer in the room.
Speaker 3Yeah, yeah, exactly, I mean, And then there are doctors who are bigots and doctors who are happily on board with abortion bands.
But like, do you want that to be the only doctor in your county?
I don't think so, you know, it's just it's a really grim situation.
And I just like, I'm such an absolutist about bodily autonomy.
It's like, if you don't own your body, you are not a full citizen, period of story.
Like if if a major organ in your body is treated as a controlled substance, like, you are not a full and equal citizen with rights, which I would like to be.
Speaker 4I aspire to it.
Speaker 2Yeah, so I want to ask you one more question about your book, and I will let you go.
Speaker 4I told you that I wouldn't keep you very long, and I lied.
Speaker 3But it's like, it's just because I like talking to you.
So it's I think I've done the majority of the talkics.
You can't.
You can't be like, oh, it's about your book, which you should buy listeners.
Speaker 4Pre order it now wherever you buy your books.
Speaker 3And if you like the delcent tones of my voice, which are I shouldn't have you to narrate in my audio books, you brush that passage.
Speaker 4I'm a professional talker now, yeah.
Speaker 3Yeah, Well I narrated the audio book and then was like, why did I write such complicated sentences?
Afterwards?
Speaker 2So now that I read my own writing, like on a regular basis out loud, which.
Speaker 4Is new for me.
Speaker 2Right, So you know, I have my podcast and I'm writing my little scripts and then I'm reading into a little microphone.
Now that I struggle with that.
I noticed while I was reading your book that oh I wouldn't be able to read this out loud.
I know, where would I breathe?
I know it was because I write like that too, and it's something I'm like really grappling with right now.
Speaker 3She's like call me ten clubs, Talia.
I'm like, ah, fuck, this sentence is this paragraph?
This sentence is a paragraph.
Stop it.
Speaker 4Like I really really lost, really lost momentum on that one.
Speaker 3Yeah, I know, but like I managed to get through it.
And if you if you enjoy the dulcae sounds of my voice, you can hear it for like I don't know, eight hours or whatever.
I assume we're being like, listen to my voice.
Speaker 4But you know, invite me into your mind.
Speaker 3Yeah, but I do think it's nice as an author to read your audiobook because I can like get mad and like, you know, emphasize stuff that I think is important.
And also I'm a theater kid, like, like I don't have many opportunities to perform, and it is a performance and it's it's fun.
Speaker 4But yeah, and that comes out at the same time as the physical book.
Speaker 3Yes, it comes out audio ebook, physical book with a cool snake on it.
Speaker 4Oh yeah, Oh, I guess this is an audio medium.
Speaker 2The listener can't see that I'm showing the cool cover.
Speaker 3Yeah, it's got a cool snake, a red and black snake on the cover.
I've named him Rocco, but he has a cross for a tongue.
If you're looking for a book to give to the metal head in your life, oh yeah, it's pretty metal, metal heads, atheists, degenerates.
Everyone is going to love this book.
Speaker 4It's perfect for everyone.
Speaker 3And if you're light on cash flow, want it for supporting India authors is ask your library to stock it or your local bookstore because library orders are really important and you can just like put in a request in your library system and that is super helpful.
Speaker 2Hell yeah, everybody go to your library's website right now and request that they purchase a copy of Wild Faith by Talia Lavin.
Yeah, talywhere else can people find you online?
Speaker 3So I have a newsletter.
It's on button down.
I left substack because they were like, We're never gonna sensor Nazis, but we will sensor porn.
And I was like, I don't like your priorities, so I left for button Down.
So it's buttondown dot com slash the sword in the sandwich, or if you just google the sword and the sandwich comes up.
Most Tuesdays I write about like the horrific state of politics, et cetera, and then Fridays I write an essay about a different sandwich on Wikipedia's list of notable sandwiches, and so far I've written one hundred and eleven sandwiches.
Speaker 2The sandwich content alone is worth the price of admission.
You need to find out about these sandwiches.
Speaker 3I mean it just and I get really deep into the history and the provenance and like like ah, the shifting of peoples led to this sandwich, so I get really deep into it.
And then you can also find me on Blue Sky, where I most of the time now because Twitter is just like robots and Nazis and Nazi robots, where I'm at swords Jew.
I'm still on Vishy Twitter as Mobi Dick Energy.
And you know, if you want to say hi or invite me to speak at your synagogue or bookstore I'm at Talia l even writes at gmail dot com.
Or church if you're like cool.
Yeah, if it's like a cool church, yeah, you show up and they pass you with snake yeah exactly.
Oh God, I didn't do enough speaking you times for this book.
Speaker 2Well, Tally, thank you so much for coming on today again.
The book is Wild Faith by Talia Lavin, and you can pre order it now wherever books are sold, and you should request it from your library.
Speaker 3Yeah, we stand civic services, and I'm a huge fan of public libraries and also of Molly Conger.
So thanks for having me on and take care, Bye bye.
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