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Oh, and just so we're clear, we are not licensed therapists, counselors, or sex.

Couches.

Sex coaches.

Sex coaches, not sex couches or just a couple of people sharing our lives, experiences and sexy adventures.

in ethical non-monogamy.

So with that, pull up a chair and enjoy the show.

And.

Hello, and welcome to another episode of Beyond Monogamy.

I'm Adam.

And I'm Pris.

And today we are actually doing a redo show.

Yes.

Right now?

Yes.

Uh, because we recorded a show over the weekend and unfortunately it just, there was some technical issues, so we are redoing it.

And by Zoom we are actually being joined by Nicole and Isaac.

Who are the owners and the creators.

The founders of.

Pineapple House, TX or Pineapple House, Texas.

Yeah.

In Houston, they actually host some lifestyle parties.

Yes.

And we got to attend one this past weekend.

We did.

It was a lot of fun.

It was.

It was a lot of fun.

Fun.

Two, we got to attend.

Two did two.

That's right.

Yes, that's right.

So, uh, we were real excited to, to get over there and find everything out and we are excited to have you guys on the show.

Thank you for coming again.

Again, thank you for making more time for us.

Thank you for having us.

I swear after, after the weekend and this week, like you guys are just gonna be tired of us.

Yeah.

Never.

That's not gonna happen.

No, I can, I can feel your genuine on that too.

You know, .

I have to apologize.

Yeah, we, uh, we got a little crazy with the, uh, the technical glitches.

We were having some camera troubles and whatnot, so I'm glad that you guys were able to make some time for us this time around.

He has it all fixed now.

I have it all fixed.

It won't move.

That's right.

It won't move.

Look at that.

And if it does, we're not gonna tell you guys, and you guys won't even know.

Okay.

Yeah.

You'll be set.

So.

Just wanted to get into what exactly we've got here, but before we do, if you guys could break down your, uh, how you got started in the lifestyle.

Lifestyle.

Okay.

So we have separate stories because Isaac started way before I did.

Okay.

Um.

So I started in the lifestyle about five years ago.

Basically when we got together it happened at the same time we got together and he brought me in.

Honestly, it did not take much convincing.

I was in a previous relationship where.

Being with women wasn't allowed not even in like a threesome capacity, which I thought was really weird.

Yeah.

And I am super bisexual.

Super, super, super bisexual.

Super bisexual.

I'm, I'm going to get to a cape.

Yes, she, Cape says sb.

No, it says by Furious.

Oh wow.

I like that.

That's actually usually what I, what I say instead of, 'cause some people say by curious, well, I am bi furious.

So he basically told me that I could have both.

And I said, where, where do I sign up?

How do I do this?

This sounds amazing.

So I kind of just dove in head first and that was, that's nice.

Five years ago.

Yeah.

Isaac, how did you start?

Were you already in it previous?

You said you were in it previously?

Yeah, so I guess I started now like over 15 years ago.

Okay.

Um, I started like in the kink BDSM community.

Uh, I kind of stumbled upon it I kind of started going to like meets and stuff and started seeing this different type of, of world, like the king community is a little different.

Very different.

Mm-hmm.

I still, I still started getting involved with people and I had somebody kind of ask me to go to a swingers event.

I didn't know what that was.

I'm like, sure.

And then it was actually a house party.

Oh.

So as soon as I, I got there and then talked to people, and then things started happening and it just felt.

I guess like home?

Yeah, like I can be sexually free.

People can do stuff.

They can compliment each other.

They can just be open about your sexuality.

It was just like home.

No judgment.

Judgment.

Pretty freeing.

Yeah.

Yeah.

No judgment, no bound.

Like it's just, it's fun.

It is.

Now, what is y'all's dynamic?

Huh.

So I guess, is it, is it go with the flow?

It varies.

It tends to be, in a lot of ways it's go with the flow.

Yeah.

Okay.

We don't label ourselves a full swap couple.

Because of my attitude towards men, it takes me a while to get comfortable and, able to feel safe enough to share myself with men, um, especially because of.

Previous things that have happened in my past.

Yeah.

And even since joining the lifestyle, to be honest I started out very liberal and open and just like doing absolutely everything.

And I realized super quick that, oh, you know what, I don't actually wanna be this free because it leaves me way too open for bad experiences usually with men.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Um, so we like to watch.

We like being watched.

We're happy to put on a show.

When we go to clubs, we'll go in the back and start things.

Even at our parties, we'll go and start things and try to help get the party started.

We love the touching and sensual ness of group play, especially when there's like a bunch of people and everybody's just touching and lots of foreplay and everything like that.

It's more the foreplay aspect of it.

It just, um.

The natural progression to like develop more comfort between everyone.

And like to me, I'm a very touchy kind of guy, so I like to be touched and also touched, but it just flows after that.

Like if things happen, if more things happen, great.

If not, it's still totally great.

Yeah.

So it's kind of like go with the flow.

That's awesome.

But it's more progression kind of thing, like how everyone feels and everyone's comfort.

We're really big on.

Making sure somebody's comfortable right with us.

Making sure they're comfortable, making sure they're okay.

And then we progress based off of that.

You know, that's funny.

'cause I'm kind of like a Benjamin button in a way when it comes to comfort.

Like I start off really, really comfortable and then I start pulling back, and now I'm like, oh, okay, now I'm not so comfortable.

I'm just kidding.

Um, so with that we kind of understand you guys as far as the lifestyle is concerned and as far as as how.

You fit in there.

Mm-hmm.

And what you've developed and what we got to take part in over the weekend was pretty damn amazing.

Because we've been to house parties, we have been to house parties, we've done shows on 'em, and they have not been great.

They have no, they have not.

Your house party was, I have to say, was very.

Eyeopening.

It was amazing.

I was super comfortable and as a woman, you want that, like you wanna feel comfortable, you wanna feel safe.

There was so many different activities to do.

There was.

I loved it.

Uh, so, you know, just to kind of give our listeners a breakdown of the house itself, which I thought was pretty fantastic, I loved yall's setup.

Hi guys.

I'm at a house party.

Don't follow.

So this is the Zen room.

They have a massage table, and then look at this bed.

You can like knee.

You can sit and have your man.

Very nice.

We have more bathroom, and this is, I believe they called it the Eden room or the garden room.

I can't remember, but.

I can't wait to try this.

I've never tried this and I've been wanting to try this for a very long time, so I'm excited.

We have more.

This is the voyeur room, and I'm pretty sure we're gonna be in here because that's our thing.

So it looks like it's two twin beds and they're pretty, they look pretty sturdy.

They have this now, every room, every room.

Has this little velvet rope so they can, everybody can look from afar.

You now kind of feel safe, which I thought was very cool.

Now I'm gonna show you the best part of this whole house party thing.

Do not enter.

Okay.

This is a glory hole wall.

so how it works.

You're the man kind of does this and from the other side.

There's chairs.

I mean, how comfortable is that?

They thought of everything.

It's like right there, this one is the best because you can have two at one time.

So I'm probably gonna be here just because that's more fun.

And they have a button when the guy's ready to cum.

And you see it from the other side.

Isn't that cool?

I swear this place is amazing.

We'll give you more details about it later.

Bye.

Uh, you know, as soon as you walk in, there's, there's kind of like a foyer area where they have a, a, a long black curtain that kind of blocks from people seeing past that.

Right.

Which is great because, which, which was added on later on because I kind of wanted that little cut off kind of thing.

Yeah.

Well, you know, and even then it, it, if people walk in, they're.

The people inside the party are kind of safe from anybody.

Mm-hmm.

Just say it's a pizza delivery guy or somebody accidentally stumbled in, you know, they're gonna get an eye full.

So it, it, it really is a, a, a great setup.

As soon as you walk in, uh, you go through those curtains, and then on the left hand side there's a, uh, almost an L-shaped hallway.

And the first the first room on the right hand side was a, was it purple in color?

What was the color in that room?

Yes.

The lighting was like purple.

Oh, purple.

Yes.

Okay.

So that, that room was purple.

I knew I was remembering.

Right.

I was like, that's the zen room.

Zen room.

It's a So she has, you have, every room is themed pretty much.

Yeah.

Every, every room is, it has got colored lights in it and every room is themed.

Uh, so that first one is the zen room.

Which was really cool.

It had a, uh, a massage table, full massage table there with the oils and all the creature comforts of that.

And then that really cool bed off to the side with the, uh, what do you call that, that goes around it.

What was it?

What is it?

Like shelving?

I don't know.

It was really seating area really is what it's, it's like benches all around pretty much.

They're, they're cusioned benches.

Yes.

Yeah.

We're gonna plug in the video.

I did.

Yeah the little tour that you did on Little Tour That, so that was, I thought that was really cool.

Now, when you go out of that room and you go to the next room, uh, the next room is, was Colored Green.

And it was Yes, the remind me.

Enchanted Forest.

Enchanted Forest.

Thank you.

If it was something, uh, really complicated, I'd probably remember, but, and that room has a swing, which was amazing.

Yeah.

It had the swing.

That was really cool.

We got a first on that.

Yeah.

Uh, we had never done the swing before.

Yeah.

And that thing was awesome.

That was pretty cool.

And then the next room was the Vos room.

Right.

And you built those beds.

Yes.

Yeah.

It's freaking sturdy.

I didn't try those out, but next time.

Next time.

Yeah.

Yeah.

When you come out, there's another, when you come outta that hallway, there's like a little area and that is the glory hole wall.

Yeah.

Well, when you start heading towards the main portion of the house, on the right hand side, there's a, a big wall that looks like it's a part of the construction of the house.

Yeah.

That you guys actually made it as solid because it, it, it's, I think.

Part of the structure of the house now, isn't it?

Like you guys have made it pretty solid then.

Was it solid?

It's reinforced, yeah.

Yeah.

Oh man, that thing is not going anywhere.

Trust me.

I was, I was pushed up on it, lemme tell you.

And so that was, that was really cool because you know, you've got this L-shaped wall, you know, this is not some shower curtain with a hole in it.

No.

Like this is class my friend.

Yeah.

And.

You've got these professionally made, like there's the, these holes down at the bottom, and then there's the, the little wired light next to every station that says fire missiles.

Mm-hmm.

That you can press when you're about to, uh, yano, finish come.

Yeah.

And uh, that lights up the back area that tells the person who's in the back area.

That you're about to Yes.

Yeah.

Come, come.

Thank you.

I mean, there's an, it's like an L shape in it, so you can have two at one time.

Yeah.

The person on the end.

Yeah.

It's churning butter.

Depends.

Yeah.

So you know, I gotta say that, that the glory hole wall is really kind of.

The center almost and, and almost physically and, uh, metaphorically.

Yeah.

Yeah, exactly.

It, it all kind of centers around that.

I mean, that thing is really, really amazing.

Uh, and then as you keep going to the right hand side, there's the, uh, the main master bedroom.

And that is what do you call that room there?

Master bedroom, orgy room or room?

Orgy room.

Yeah.

'cause the bed is really large and you guys have a large sofa sitting at place and then like a little seating area in the other corner.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Was there a seating area?

Lots of seating.

Yes.

There's lots of seating.

I never looked No.

Looked at that.

We got a house seat seating for what's going on in the middle.

So Yeah.

For the show.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Well we were part of that show for a while.

We were, and I wasn't really paying attention too much.

It was fun.

Yeah.

You were.

Yeah.

But, if you come out of that room, there's the, uh, the main living room area, the kitchen, and then the back area, which is, really nice as well, you know?

Yeah.

You took very well set up.

Very accommodating.

Very accommodating.

Yeah.

Really.

I liked it.

Good job.

The music was nervous, so we, I, Mr.

Isaac there, right?

He's in charge of all the music and the lighting.

Yes.

Yes.

Is that, is that where, those are the two things that you head up decorating?

I mean, really, decorations, lighting, music those are his special.

Those are my main, yeah.

My focus is whenever we have, yeah.

It was cool.

And it's gotta be tough to keep up with the music when you're taking part in some fun, right?

Yep.

Have you ever had that happen where you're like, get down at the glory wall mm-hmm.

And all of a sudden the music stops.

Yeah.

I'm like, yep.

Runs away.

Right back.

Yeah.

I think the music stopped and we were like, was I, wait, is that why you took off?

Yes.

Oh.

'cause you were at the glory hole and we were watching you guys.

Yes.

And then all of a sudden you just you didn't say anything.

You just ran away.

We ran away, yes.

Oh, wow.

That's what happened.

So we jumped.

I, I thought you were about to finish and like you wanted to stop like very dramatically or something.

No, you didn't do that.

Yeah.

So you've built this beautiful house and the inside and all that, and you did all that great job.

What made you guys even think House, party and, 'cause y'all do 'em two nights, right?

Fridays?

I guess tell us, tell us about, tell us what even started that part.

Like why did y'all even decide House party.

Well, we travel a lot.

Like I've always loved house parties.

Okay.

Like, it's always been my, my dream To have my own house and host events for parties.

'cause it's a different kind of environment.

You get to talk to people, you get to meet people, you make connections.

And it's a little different than clubs.

Like we love clubs as well, but I kind of mentioned it to her.

And it didn't really sit, we were just meeting.

So it was like, uh oh, okay.

That, that, that's nice.

You know, is the second we mentioned, like, oh, one day, you know?

Yeah.

I would, I would love to do this one day.

And I'm like, oh, that's so funny.

'cause like, look, I have the perfect house.

Yeah.

And yeah, and our travels and our travels, we started going to more like events, more house parties and kind of, I think it kind of planted a seed in, in her.

She was like.

This is really cool.

Yeah, I, yeah, we could do this.

Yeah.

And so we went to more house parties, more events, and then once we came here, we're kind of like, okay, well let's, let's just do it.

Let's do it.

Let's, let's go out.

And then all the admin and all the, setting things up like that was like her, like she's the, she's the brains of the operation.

Yeah.

So we made the rs VP things the way we, you know, coordinate, having people come, how we advertise.

And that was just all her.

What, and I was like, this is great.

What makes y'all like, so y'all have Fridays your hot wife.

So actually it's evolved a lot.

Okay.

This is just the current flavor that it is.

Oh.

We, yeah, so when we first started it was just one party A weekend.

Yes.

Just, and then we started doing the double headers Friday, Saturday.

The only consistent thing about Friday and Saturday is that usually one day we allow single men and one day that we don't.

That way there's comfort for both types of couples that are comfortable with single men and couples that would rather not have them there at all.

Granted, all of our single men are screened.

We have an application process for them.

They have to jump through many hoops.

And that's to make sure that everybody is safe and comfortable and that we're getting quality over quantity.

Because at a club.

Anybody can show up.

You don't, you have no idea about any of the people at the club.

They can just show up.

There's no screening process.

So we want it to be different.

We wanted to make sure it's a safe place.

So usually one day is single men.

One day is no single men.

We've even done midweek like Wednesday events, a midweek glory hole event we've done in the past.

And then sometimes we just do one-offs.

And so I think right now.

The plan for the future we'll still do Friday and Saturday.

One will be with single men.

One will probably be without and we'll probably have one main big theme, and that'll be the Saturday parties is gonna be like the big themed parties.

And then Friday is probably gonna be like a dress up theme, like maybe a leather and lace or all red or something like that.

Oh, I like that.

That way we don't have to do a flip of the decorations, because that's how it used to be.

We used to have two unique themes Friday and then Saturday.

That was a lot.

And then we had to flip them and that was a lot.

Imagine.

Yeah.

So we've learned.

We've learned.

Yeah.

I mean, as much as I enjoyed it, enjoyed the decorations, putting it up, it was just like we're up until like three or four in the morning.

Right.

And then we get some sleep.

We wake up around noon-ish and then.

As soon as we get up, it's, it's, you know, reclean, redo everything, take decorations down, I'll put new up.

And then it was just switching everything.

Yeah.

Wow.

So it just got down to like, the wire to like nine o'clock.

People are starting to come and we're still putting finishing touches.

We're still putting finishing touches and I'm rushing and I'm like, okay, this is done.

It's is done, this done.

So we're like, yeah, let's, um, make it a little easier Friday.

Mm-hmm.

And then.

Still are big on, on on Saturday.

Yes.

Yeah, yeah.

No, that makes sense.

You know, um.

I'm really curious from a house party thrower's perspective because this is something that if people see uh, uh, somebody throw a party and they think, ah, that's easy, we could do that all day every day.

Yeah.

Now I have seen what you guys have gone through and I am really curious as far as y'all's perspective.

I mean, you must really love to host, uh, in order to do something like this.

And I know that whenever you're host.

You don't always get to enjoy the action is, is that right?

Yeah, that's, that's accurate.

As much as we would love to be involved in the action, it's way more important to us that everybody is happy and safe and satisfied.

Sure.

Um, and we want everybody to have the same experience.

So if, for example, we're at the glory hole and the doorbell rings.

We're gonna go answer the door because that's part of our process.

We want every single person that comes to be greeted by one of us.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And if they're new, we need to make sure that they have a tour and that they know where everything is so that they can get settled and feel comfortable.

So yeah, we don't always.

Get to play for a couple reasons.

The host mode is one of them.

That's probably the biggest.

That's the biggest one, right?

It's just time and, and actual like attention span and being able to have uninterrupted time.

But we also are very conscious of the host guest dynamic and the fact this is our home and that people might feel obligated.

To play with us if we were to ask.

Right.

So for that reason, we do not ask.

Yeah.

If anybody ever comes to our party, you have to invite us personally to come play with you or let us know personally that you're interested in playing at some point.

Because we don't assume we don't take liberties and we try to make sure that everybody's a hundred percent comfortable and they understand you don't have to play with us to come to our parties.

You're totally cool to come to our parties and even just watch.

We're super newbie friendly.

Yeah.

We always wanna be newbie friendly because we wanna give them a good experience starting the lifestyle out.

Yeah.

It can be really, really daunting and you have one bad experience.

They might write it off forever.

Mm-hmm.

That might be a perfectly functioning couple in the lifestyle, and we just lost them because they went to a house party and had a really bad time.

Mm-hmm.

Yeah.

So we don't want that at all.

No.

So we're very.

Conscious about like how making everyone feel comfortable, which is why we greet them so they know as soon as they walk in the door, oh, okay.

At least you're my safe spot to come and talk to you.

If they at least know us.

You know?

And know.

That's when whenever we go to a party, we don't know.

Yeah, that's funny because our first party that we ever went to, the couple that threw it.

Was they, they were very predatory and you could tell.

Yeah, I mean they, it was an older couple and they ended up like feeling up press without her consent and felt like it was.

A right of theirs because they threw the party and we were guests at that party.

And that was literally our first experience.

It was, yeah.

And, uh, that was, yeah.

See, yeah, that's exactly it.

That's exactly what we're trying to prevent.

Yeah.

I mean, I told him to stop, but I mean, a lot of women don't, they don't know how to use their words and so it's kind of stunning.

And then it's like, forget it.

I don't wanna put myself through that because you just imagine the, what's the worst scenario, you know, what's the worst thing that can happen?

Can probably happen.

So yeah.

What's funny is I'm not even a host and I don't I don't play with anyone unless I'm asked.

Yeah.

Because I don't want to come off as predatory or creepy or anything like that.

Yeah.

Or run into somebody who maybe doesn't like men.

Yeah.

Which, whenever I hang out with all a lot of my friends, that that seems to be the, uh, the majority.

It's only certain men we don't like, Hey.

Yeah, it's that comfort thing.

So it's really tough being friends with hot chicks who hate men 'cause.

But they don't hate you.

You're not in that group.

That's true.

That is true.

That true.

That is true.

You're part of the elites.

You know what I need?

You want top tier 1% elite.

Look at that.

You know what?

1% Elite.

I need a shirt, hun.

Okay.

Make me a shirt design.

And, and I'm on it.

I'm aware that all the time.

And by furious.

That's right.

And by Furious.

Yeah.

We're making them.

Uh, you know, I, I do want to explore more from the host perspective though, because this is, uh, you know, I will say.

We have hosted two parties in our entire.

14 years in the lifestyle.

Yes.

And I'll never do it again.

Well, the first one wasn't, don't be back first.

Say never.

The first one was really our first time even attending a party.

Like we, we were new to the lifestyle period.

Yeah.

And we went ahead and gave this a shot and I Googled the hell out of it.

'cause I didn't know what the hell I was doing.

And so it was okay.

It wasn't, it wasn't as.

Horrible as it could have been.

But then you threw recently my birthday party at that Airbnb.

Yeah.

And, uh, mistakes were made.

We invited everybody.

Yeah.

Um, and there wasn't a, a whole lot of control.

Well, you gotta understand that I have a fear of nobody showing up to my party.

So then I'm like, let me invite everybody.

Everybody showed up, you know, and that's, and everybody showed up.

Yeah.

So, there was no disappointment for me there, but, uh, as hosts.

Pris was like, I, this isn't for me.

No.

And, and it was very difficult as far as, uh, you know, keeping areas clean and making sure everybody was safe and, just all sorts of stuff like that.

And so I'm really curious it for a lifestyle couple who enjoys playing with others and that sort of thing.

What do you get out of throwing the parties?

I guess what, where's the gratification there?

And I, and I don't mean that in a cynical way, like I, I, I mean like generally from the heart.

Like what are y'all getting out of this as far as you know, hosts are concerned.

I'll let you go first.

I get, I don't know, I, I get multiple types of satisfaction.

For one.

It's the ability to have an event to where you have all these attractive people in one small area and just being able to get 'em all together.

Mm-hmm.

Then you have that environment where it's comfortable and people meet, and then people that you, that don't like, it's a, it's a big city and there's tons of clubs around here.

Mm-hmm.

Right.

And then maybe a lot of times, like people that.

Usually go to this club or this club don't end up seeing each other.

Then they end up meeting at our parties and they get along great and then it's like, oh, you know, like, I'm so happy you guys got to hook up.

And you never would've ran into each other if it wasn't like for here.

So being able to help people establish that like communication and that, um, just that type of friendship to develop friendship and chemistry and then obviously getting to see people naked.

Having fun.

We like to watch.

Yeah.

And it's always in a nice environment.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I like that.

Yeah, It's always great walking.

You guys get to play matchmaker essentially?

Yes, we do.

I'd say that's probably the biggest thing for me is creating the community.

Mm-hmm.

Because I've noticed that, well, I joined the lifestyle when I was 26.

So I was just a baby and I was always the baby everywhere that we went, every event, every club.

And it's not, I mean, I have a wide range of people that I would be interested or attracted to, but also it's a little harder to relate with people that are outside of your generation.

So I figured, okay, well if I can build this.

House party where people that are similar to me have a safe place to go.

People that you know, are new and or younger and or just hoping to find, you know, a different kind of crowd.

'cause there's, there's a group for everybody, right?

Yeah.

And so we were like, well, you know, I think we can kind of curate a group too.

And I love building community and I love bringing people together.

And we do get to know people like through our vetting process.

Really what we ask for singles and couples, the single women and couples is like their profile for whatever lifestyle site they're on.

And pictures of them obviously 'cause.

You're not gonna let somebody show up and you've never seen them before.

Exactly.

Um, and so, but for their profiles, we read them, we go through and we read them.

So I guess this is the PSA to everybody, like build your profiles, make sure that they actually say something.

Mm-hmm.

Um, so it gives us something to know about you and that way.

We can find your likes, your dislikes, things that wanna try fantasies.

And then we know based on reading all these profiles, who would be really good match for each other.

Who shares likes, who shares dislikes, who has the same kind of boundaries?

And then we can kind of act accordingly and make introductions.

And that's probably the most satisfying part, is when you make an introduction and it sticks, it clicks You were right, like you did a really good job in matchmaking.

And you know, they, they have great chemistry and then they go in the back to play.

And bonus points that they let us watch.

So, yes.

Oh yeah.

You, you made some introductions for us that were pretty golden.

Yeah.

And, uh, we're looking forward to hanging out with those people as well.

So, so, yeah, no you got to play matchmaker with us as well.

Uh, now I was very, very impressed at the the crowds that you had first.

I was just about to say that first off, on Friday it wasn't jam packed, but if you ask me it.

Was a good crowd.

Mm-hmm.

And, and you know, I mean, it, it wasn't packed, but there was enough people where we could talk to each other and we could hobnob and people could still go to the back or, or this or that.

And it not be dead, like it was, it was probably a medium sized crowd.

Uh, and then Saturday was capacity like that, that was, that was, uh, that was pretty packed and I was really impressed with those crowds.

Now, how long have y'all been doing these parties?

Four years.

Four years.

Oh wow.

So you've built this up over the past four years.

I would assume your, it took a while before you could reach those kinds of numbers.

Yes, it did take probably about a half a dozen parties, I would say.

Yeah.

And y'all have a range of different people.

Yes.

Yes.

Like that's what I love.

It was different people different.

There was some that enjoyed BDSM.

There were, and the, the ages were different.

Like, that was amazing.

Like it was like a club.

It was a speckled crowd.

A speckled crowd.

Yes.

That's right.

We liked diversity.

Yeah, like diversity.

We liked the quality over the quantity.

Yes.

Yeah, because like we, I like that We don't necessarily do it.

For a financial gain?

No, we don't.

Our main interest and is more having that community Yes.

That crowd.

So everybody feels comfortable with everybody.

So we kind of, we're a little more.

Like we, we, we take caution.

We look over the profiles, we see how they are and just, it kind of grows from there.

You're just betting everybody.

Well, you guys do a great job, I'll tell you that.

'cause we were all comfortable and we had a an excellent time.

Now, I, I am curious about your first party.

No.

I, I, I am I gotta know because, this is the kind of thing that where people start going, well, it sounds pretty easy to me, and I really want, oh gosh, our listeners to know just how not easy it is.

Uh, so you guys decided to throw your first party, and I would assume how did you get the word out that first time?

Was it through SDC or, um.

Quiver, quiver and SDC Quiver and SDC I don't think we had SDC yet.

Yeah, we did.

We've had all of them.

And I think we even tried SLS, but that's not a popular site down here.

We realized.

Yeah.

Um, it was mainly we didn't, yeah we did, we just started our Instagram page.

Our first one we didn't charge.

Oh yeah.

It was like an open, come an open house.

Okay.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

We didn't have the lighting.

We didn't have decorations.

No glory hole wall.

The wall.

We didn't have a swing.

It was house.

It was just a house.

Just a house.

So after that, like we had three couples.

Yeah, we had three couples for our first party.

Hey.

Oh, that's not bad actually.

Yeah.

Well, okay.

You say that's not bad, but we had about, but it's, it's like that fear where you're, we invite all these people and they don't show up.

Showed us up.

You're like, that's what happened so bad.

We had probably like 15 to 20 people RSVP'd.

Oh, and three showed up?

Yeah.

Okay.

Yeah.

That's not so good.

Wow.

Not so good.

No, and I had already, like, this was before we, like, had our, our catering set up and so I had ordered pizza.

And I ordered like 15 pizzas or something.

Oh man.

And so we they all got delivered.

I mean, the best part of that party was probably me answering the door topless for the pizza guy that would do it.

But I, yeah, that was not, we wouldn't, we didn't consider that a success.

We almost considered throwing in the towel.

I mean, all the logistics with that.

Yeah.

What made you decide to, let's try this again.

I'm stubborn.

Oh.

It was, uh, once, once we're in, we're just gonna keep growing and trying to, trying to, and figure out how to better it.

You are so full of it.

Yeah.

No.

He tries to throw in the towel after every, after every, honestly, every time we're unsuccessful, he tries to throw in the towel.

It's tell you, when we were doing for the first year and a half and we started doing it like Friday and Saturday, we had like RSVPs.

Then on Friday, not many would show up.

'cause Fridays tend to be our slower nights.

Okay.

And I would just get, I would just get so anxious and I'm like, you know what?

I quit.

I'm not, I get all these people that wanna come and then people that tell me, yeah, it's, it's great.

But they don't come back.

So it's like, I'm done.

It's an emotional Wanna do rollercoaster.

Yeah.

It's an emotional rollercoaster.

Honestly.

I did.

Every time wanted to throw in a towel.

And between her and our friends, they're like, no, no, don't do it.

They're like, no, it's great.

It'll be good.

It'll be good.

I'm like, no, man.

There's nobody ine.

There's nobody coming.

And my disappointment was, I want others to come to a party to, meet other people.

Mm-hmm.

Right.

And if they don't feel that there's enough people, there's enough people for everyone to meet, I feel disappointed that I disappointed them.

That's my biggest thing.

Okay.

He hates disappointing.

I hate disappointing people and giving that expectation and then they come and it's like, oh, okay.

So it's like, you know, sorry, I disappointed you.

I'll do better next time.

I promise, kind of thing.

I gotcha.

So it's like that.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I mean, it was, it was a really nice part.

I told so many people about him.

I definitely wasn't, I, I shared a little video that I did and everybody's like, oh my God, oh yeah, when are you going again?

I was like, it's not till January, so you have to wait people.

So, and, and you know, really that's, that's kind of the, the next part that I wanted to talk about this, because, you know, we are talking about from the, from the host standpoint, but I gotta get into this because.

I have a lot of anxiety when it comes to parties.

Yes.

And uh, you know, I had anxiety going into y'all's party initially.

And you guys just make it feel so comfortable and just.

Really, y'all almost take every person by the hand that walks through the door and you walk them physically to every room.

You give 'em every single tour.

You introduce them to people.

I mean, it's really like y'all are a concierge service.

Mm-hmm.

Like, I thought it was incredible.

Uh, y'all have a.

Y'all had great food.

I ate the hell outta your cheese.

I'll tell you that much.

You sure did.

Yeah.

That was good cheese, man, I could eat that all night.

I think that was my, that's what killed my anxiety.

But I really, at the very beginning you know, uh, on Friday.

I, I actually had a lot of anxiety at the beginning.

Oh.

I don't ever have anxiety, so yes, we know, we know we can all be so cool like you, but as the couples started coming in, I found that it was a lot easier to converse with a lot of those people.

I felt like a lot of them had the same anxieties with me or not.

Not about me, but with me.

Like we shared it.

Yes.

And we all, we all seemed to kind of have those jitters at the beginning and then everybody just kind of loosened up.

You guys went to the glory hole, y'all, so y'all were the first ones to, as you say, y'all kicked it off.

Yeah.

And once y'all got up, we did not follow you, but we got up and we went to the, uh, to, to the the green room.

Yes.

That was, he's gonna keep calling it the green room.

The green room, the ivy room.

I don't even know what it's called anymore.

I just know it, you got me thinking it's the Garden of Eden, which is, and so now every time, that's where my mind goes.

Garden of Ed, enchanted Forest.

Oh, enchanted four.

Yes.

Yes.

I gotta keep trying.

We got on that swing and I felt like a rotisserie chicken.

Yeah.

You were and you were definitely getting stuck wide open.

Yeah, were getting stuck.

Totally getting stuck.

It was honestly, that's right.

That that thing was so much fun.

You know, I, it's never looked comfortable to me.

Yeah.

And even from like the guy point Yeah.

The, the guy standpoint.

I just didn't know how, how comfortable it would be because I'm I'm not the tallest guy in the world, but I'm six foot.

Yeah.

And so I was like, you know, I don't, I don't know if this is gonna work.

It worked like you're the right height.

And it really did like it, it worked.

Yeah.

It was fun watching you get into the stirrups.

Like we couldn't figure out if just your toes should be in or if you should put like, it, it all of a sudden ended up behind your knee and you looked uncomfortable, but then you were like, let's just do this.

And I was like, okay.

Uh, and, and so it was fun.

Yeah.

Hey I finished.

Yeah, it worked out.

You know, that was nice.

And so we got to have that experience.

That was one that I don't think we would've had if it weren't for you guys.

Yeah.

But then, but then there was the glory hole.

Yes.

The glory hole.

Yes.

Yeah.

So this glory hole has seats in the back.

'cause you're a tall woman, like you're not short.

I'm five seven.

Yeah.

But tall for a woman.

Yeah.

And so we're there and we're like, okay.

And there's little chairs there because how else are you gonna do it on your knees?

Right.

Which is not comfortable.

Yeah.

That's what I say.

We have chairs because my knees cannot.

Yeah.

And um, that was so cool to watch.

We didn't do a video on it, but next time No, no.

I lived in the moment.

I'll tell you that.

So here's my thing is I have always had, for some reason there's always been some sort of stigma attached to glory holes.

And I, I, I don't know why.

I guess because a lot of times you hear about them in very seedy places.

Yes, yes.

Yeah.

And I think because of that there's kind of a stigma.

And so I've never been interested in that sort of thing before.

Not to mention I love to, I'm very visual, so I love to see what's going on and that sort of thing.

We were in the back watching.

Watching you guys, uh, do your hot stuff.

Yeah.

Which by the way, you put on a great show.

Uh, but we were standing there watching you guys and it was very hot and I was very turned on.

And so, Pris says.

Do you wanna try it?

Let's try it.

Let's try it.

Let's just do it.

Let's just, I mean, she had been saying that the whole night.

Yeah.

That she had been trying to get you there the whole night.

Night.

Oh my gosh.

She was a parrot with that.

Come on.

You could do it.

You could do it.

And then.

The part that made me say yes was you looked at me and you said, you're already hard.

And I was like, Mike, true.

You're true.

I know.

It might, as you know, might as well.

Might as well.

Yeah.

So it was those words that I was like, okay, I guess that justifies it.

Yeah.

And so I walked around that wall and I got to that little, that little corner piece there.

This is where I was overthinking it.

I think I told you guys last time was I, I didn't know if I should pull my pants all the way down, like just ankle it or if I should just like, just pull my dick out or if I just pull the dick and balls.

So I kind of went halfway with it.

I just pulled them down enough to where like, some ass cheeks were hanging out.

Yeah.

I wish I was on the other side.

Oh dude, it was right.

I, I, you know, I think with the choice that I made to pull a midway, I think I took every bit of sexiness that there could have been Oh, behind me.

Yeah.

And just they, it was horrible.

It's not a good shot.

Not a good shot.

I was gonna ask you, somebody asked me a question.

They asked if is it just is a glory hole only for blow jobs?

Can you back up into it?

Yep.

Okay.

If, if you can find the angle, Uhhuh, you can do it any which way you want.

Okay.

In fact, there have been some times where some girls will walk up to the front side and put their pussy right in the hole and let people lick it.

Wow.

I could have done that.

Yeah, you could have done that.

Dang it.

I don't know if you're that flexible.

You're only limited by your imagination.

I, I am very limber sir.

Okay.

I mean, so we also have like in behind the glory hole, we have our whole station where there's condoms and lubes and wipe and stuff.

Yeah, I did see that.

And so, yeah, I mean, you're more than welcome, obviously, to use the condoms for blow jobs, but you can also use the condoms for penetration.

If you can make the angle work, then absolutely.

You can do it whichever way you want.

Yeah.

You know, very thought of, I, I am really curious about how you guys did the hole, because it's very, um.

It's very com like it's thin, it's comfortable, it's a good size.

Yeah.

And so I was, I was really scared in losing inches.

I think I told you guys, 'cause I'm only working with so much cock and I only have so many inches and if, if I have to compete with plywood and sheet rock and all of this extra wall stuff, it's gonna take away from the few inches that I already have.

And I'm not gonna impress you guys.

I was actually very impressed to see that there was none of that, and it's actually this thin.

What is that?

What is that?

Plexiglass?

Plexiglass.

Plexiglass.

It's, it's tinted plexiglass, yes.

Okay, okay.

I, well, it definitely wasn't glass, which thankfully, I mean, I, that would've been, no, and even, even the way that it is, we smoothed out the edges completely so that the ear, you're safe.

And like even in, in figuring out the size.

Of the whole that's actually kind of a funny story because we took a little survey.

I contacted our tallest friend that we know and our smallest friend that we know.

Really.

I contacted the wives and I was like, Hey, can you measure your husband from balls to the floor?

And they're like sure.

I was like, I just wanna make sure that we're putting at this at the right height.

Yeah.

And so I did it for both the shortest and the tallest and that became, we gave a little bit of margin of error.

'cause obviously there are taller and shorter than our friends.

Yeah.

And then, yeah.

So that's kind of how we created the length of the whole.

I would love to have heard that conversation.

That's a really smart idea.

It was.

It was funny.

Yeah, exactly how you get into that.

Just, and they both jumped on it.

They were like, oh yeah, let me go grab him real quick.

Like, no problem.

It was, we have great friends.

Yeah.

That's funny.

Wow.

You know, I, I, I really, uh, I had a, a great experience at the Glory hole because, you know, I, I was there and I knew it was a controlled environment because it was you and my wife back there, and my wife mm-hmm.

Started off now I got a, I finished with you, which was incredible.

I, I will say that the.

What was really incredible was the transition was seamless.

Yeah.

Because was it seamless?

Yes.

It seemed like it was seamless.

Yeah.

He was like, I really didn't know that a change was made till right before I came and I saw you looked down and saw my nails saw.

Yes, I saw your nails and I had just complimented your nails like an hour or two beforehand.

So I recognize that.

Totally get it.

Hide it.

One of my wear gloves next time.

That's right.

We're gonna wear gloves.

That's right.

Not the Michael Jackson glove.

'cause that's gloves You have white glove surface gloves.

Yeah, there you go.

I like that.

White, white glove service.

I like that.

So not only did I have a great first experience at the glory hole, but I actually was.

Successfully finished.

Yeah.

Way to go.

There was, yay.

Okay.

And actually I think it's a, a good kink unlocked.

'cause I, I realized it kinda dug it.

Yes.

Kind of dug it.

I liked it.

Yeah.

It was fun.

Yeah, it was a lot of fun.

I loved it.

I should have done more of that.

But your anxiety was so high.

Oh, I had to leave.

I was like, I was like, I, I'm overloaded.

I gotta You didn't have to come.

I know, but you know what?

I could have just stayed there.

Other people could have gone in.

I, I was expecting you to stay.

Didn't think about that because when I said that you were sucking somebody else's dick, I was like, do your thing.

I'll be, I'll be on the couch.

Yeah.

No, I, I was expecting you to stay back there.

But then you came up that she was like, I'll take over.

Oh, yes.

Okay.

I'm gonna go back to the couch now.

That's what happened.

She was like, uh, and I was like, I can tag in.

It's okay.

The shift work.

So I, I will say that that.

That glory hole is really Yeah.

An incredible piece that, that you can center your, your parties around.

I think that's so awesome.

Yes.

Uh, and, and for people in the back who are the sucky or whatever is happening back there, there's, there's the givers Yeah, sure.

That's it.

Uh, you've got a ring light back there and people can like, film themselves and things like that, so you, you can kind of.

Create this fantasy for people, I think is really cool.

Highly recommended.

Loved it.

Loved it.

Okay, so now tell us, how do people, if they wanna know about your wonderful parties, how do they do this?

How do they go about it?

Where can they find, where can they find interesting besides our website?

Yes, obviously.

Yes, we are on all of the sites.

So we're on quiver.

We're on SDC.

And we also have our Instagram page.

Our Instagram is, I think that's our biggest one.

The biggest one.

'cause we post all of them there.

And that's kind of universal.

Most people have Instagram.

Um, and that's at the Pineapple House, tx.

Okay.

And then we also have our website, which is linked through our Instagram and everything like that.

We have, um, a lot of information about us, frequently asked questions even we don't have to look at really.

So that you're fully prepared and know what to expect.

I will say everything is in those FAQs.

Everything is is in those FAQs.

Yeah.

Don't be sure and read those.

Um, that's important.

Don't, don't be like me.

Be like, don't be underdressed.

No, don't be underdressed.

But I did.

Okay.

You did.

I wore nice shoes.

You did?

Okay.

Yeah.

Yes.

You know, e everybody can actually find all of your website and all of your, uh, socials on our, uh, show notes.

Yeah.

As well as our website.

Mm-hmm.

And also, I actually would.

I'd like to make it podcast official here, but you guys are actually a part of the Beyond Monogamy Crew, which is awesome.

Mm-hmm.

You guys are gonna be, uh, with us at a lot of events coming up.

So if there's anybody out there yes, if there's anybody out there who's gonna be, uh, seeing us at different events, you're gonna be, uh, meeting our friends, Nicole and Isaac as well.

'cause they're gonna be with us.

Mm-hmm.

Uh, which is awesome.

Uh, and also we're gonna be doing a few.

A few different parties there at your place.

Some beyond.

Beyond monogamy parties.

Yeah, a Beyond Monogamy takeover.

Yay.

So that's gonna be a lot of fun as well.

So we're really, really looking forward to everything that that, that we have coming along.

We have a great friendship, which I think is awesome, but we also have a great partnership in this.

Yes.

I think that that's gonna be a lot of.

Fun.

So anybody listening, like I said, if you, if you have any questions about it, you can always shoot it to us.

Mm-hmm.

And we can forward it to them.

But absolutely, I think this is gonna be a lot of fun.

If anybody wants to join those parties, we will keep you guys updated.

Yes.

All of that.

I love that.

Yeah.

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