Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast.

We're a little bit late today, but only because Jenny got a much.

Deserve vacation day yesterday.

Yeah, it's our second to last of the year, it is, but episodes.

Yes, we'll be back in the new year.

Don't worry.

We have been and there are There are no details at all at it or even if it's one hundred percent happening, but I will say we have been noodling with the idea of a live.

Podcast event that would be super fun.

Yeah, hopefully it'll happen again.

I don't have they just right now.

It's like, would you rather do it on a weeknight or a weekend with a client?

And I texted Jenny and we agreed, like for attendance, weekend is probably better.

Didn't discuss daytime or night time.

But I can probably make anything work.

I don't have almost anything on the calendar for the new year yet, besides Tina's wedding.

That's what we have.

Yeah.

Yeah, and I have that which Tina sent out and I actually like it.

I feel like some people could think it's extra, but she's not doing bridesmaids.

So she sent out an Excel spreadsheets I didn't get it.

Did you get it?

I did?

Okay, well, no, she texted me last week was like, I think I already told you about this or sent this to you already, but like if I didn't, blah blah blah blah, here's what I want since I'm not doing bridesmaids.

And I was like, you didn't tell me any of this.

This is the first time hearing of this.

But she acted like that with me too, And I'm like she had told me at one point that she had a color scheme in my scheme of mine, but she did not.

I didn't know there were updates of like where she'd have like a little Excel sheet together, but it's so like people can wear different colors and it like would flow together.

So she showed me because we did the tea this weekend.

She showed me, and everyone's dresses are so pretty.

Are those pictures in the document their actual dresses?

Yeah?

Oh shit, I thought those were just like ideas maybe of the color.

No, because it's not.

Yeah, they're not casual dresses.

They're nice dresses.

But you can get really nice dresses at lots of places for not crazy prices.

Okay, so here mine is the least fit into the color scheme dress.

So here's what I did when Tina first sent me that, because I was like, well, I got to get in quick compared to like there's other there's like half the girls haven't submitted their dresses yet, and so I'm like, I got to get in quick, so I at least get something that I like, And I ordered like six stresses off Amazon, but like three different styles, just in different colors, like two in each one, like two different colors.

And then I get emails immediately from all these places being like, you must have made a mistake.

Pick one.

We'll only be sending you one.

And basically it was like I don't know if it was coming from China or something, but it was like the return policy was going to be really complicated.

Yeah, so they're like, if you don't pick one by this date, we'll just pick one to send to you.

And so I just canceled all those orders, and I was like, I'm not even messing with this because it sounds like I might not even be able to return it, or if I do, it's going to be really expensive, or they were just trying to force the fact that if they do offer free returns.

They didn't want to deal with havepen to pay for it if it didn't work.

So then I was like back at square one.

I found this really beautiful dress on Nordstrum, like just from Pinterest, and then ordered that.

But I got it in the mail.

It's way too big and it was like the only size it was offering.

So I thought maybe it would work for me to get it altered.

I think so, but honestly, in the end, I don't think I like it.

Even if I get it altered, it's going to be too like Frumpy.

I was looking at her colors and the one color I saw missing was like a purple color I.

Told you, and I would kind of want to do purple or like greenish or but I.

Was like, well, I was like, it looks like there's already two.

Blues, like I would probably normally have picked blue.

You're blue.

And then I think Emily, the one of the other girls, is blue, and so she's like but she told me, she's like, I don't really care what like if there's multiples about ours, And I'm like, okay, well, TVD.

Still I have no idea.

I did find one dress I thought looked really cute and ordered three different colors of that.

Yeah, that's coming this week.

The reason I like it is not like because I obviously people don't want to feel like pressure.

Some people don't want to show up and be in for a beach wedding.

I think a lot of people would have been a lot more casual than this.

And she's not sending this to her entire guest list.

It's kind of like her best friends.

Yeah, But also I think it just takes away the stress of wondering what level of casual am I supposed to be wearing to this wedding.

So I don't mind when people do that, Like I know some people will send their guests like, hey, here's a color scheme.

I just looked at my order and it looks like my dresses are coming today, so hopefully i'll have Maybe one of those will work out, but we'll see.

Obviously I have plenty of time, the wedding's not till the end of January.

But I just I want to figure out what color I have is mainly mine's are really light blue and I look so pale in it.

And so I was having this conversation with someone because growing up, going to tanning beds was a thing.

Yeah, then it.

Was like, don't go to tanning beds.

They're awful, but if you cancer, right, we don't do that anymore, but people still are going to tanning beds and they say they've changed.

I don't want to risk it, but I also like, I don't want to get a spray TN really for a beach wedding where I'm probably gonna sweat.

I'm probably going to want to get into the pool, and.

I don't know worin really like Fox with a spray TN does it okay?

So I like, no matter how good the spray tan is, I'm worried about that.

But I am so and I'm going to be extra pale by the end of January.

They're like, we're canning beds hair.

And I also don't want to get severely burned, which I will be glopping on sunscreen.

But I'm like, I guess I just might have to be pale.

I know that.

I think maybe it was Tina.

I don't remember who, but I'm pretty sure was Tina said that all the girls because they had a destination wedding about a year ago and they all did the tanning bed thing.

They did that, but I don't know that that means, like, because if you post that, someone who's had skin cancer will come for you very quickly, like do not do it?

Yeah, And I totally like, yeah, I don't.

I don't want to risk that.

That's why I'm wondering, are they have they advanced and they're changed where they're like that that isn't even a concern anymore.

Yeah, I don't know that answer.

I think that I would probably I just personally will be avoiding it because I have had a lot of laser treatments done on my face and I'm way too scared that all of because there was this one sun spot on my cheek that like it pretty much went away after one of these laser treatments came back the instant I saw the sun in the summer, like almost instantly.

So then I've had two more done and it has stayed away since then, and I just don't want to risk having to do these things that, Like I have such sensitive skin.

My dad also has had multiple bouts with skin cancer, so.

Not worth it.

No, I'm probably just going to be pale, or maybe I will do a spray tan and just risk it.

You know, I'm going to probably spraytan.

I'll do it, like because we leave on Wednesday.

The wedding is Thursday.

So if we did like a spraytan Tuesday evening will be aggressive for our flight on Wednesday.

Then wrap it off there stink on the airplane, like spray tan and sweat, and I'd be fine, Yeah, it will be.

I know you and I booked the same flight, but I am a cheap bitch, as you know, and I've been monitoring those flights and they've gone down in price, but then there's like one that's even cheaper if I left later in the day on Saturday that we're leaving mech or not Mexico, whereever we're going, so I might like cancel, rebook, get the extra credit from Delta to use towards a different flight, because that's just like how I work.

Yeah, and I might not be on the same return flight as you anymore, which I know you probably don't care one.

Way or another.

And I did message the woman in charge of everything to like make sure that there was airport transportation because if there wasn't, then I'd be like, well, I'm coming with you and Jake, wherever you are going, and then I would.

Not have a transportation.

There is airport transportation, which is why she just emailed all of us about our flight in focus.

I got to figure that out, gotcha.

Yeah?

Nice.

Yeah.

If you can't tell due to the cold, whether I am very much looking forward to Teina's wedding, I am too.

I believe like there was part of me that was like, oh, I just want to like chill over the holiday break and stuff and not do much.

And then, of course, like last week, I started looking at flights to anywhere that isn't winter.

I saw one today that I literally almost sent you.

Yeah, did you see it?

I don't think so.

Was the flight?

Yep?

Flight deals to be to the place I would want to have is on my list to go to the Azores?

You do, I'm talking about?

Oh, I don't think so.

You know you know where that is?

No, I don't.

It's like outside of they call it like kind of like the Hawaii of Europe.

Okay, and oh, I've never heard of anything, but I'm looking right now.

Holy shit, it's beautiful.

It's right now there.

It's a sale for four hundred and fifty was nine to fifty.

I know it's expensive, but let me tell you right now, everyone I've seen go there and has impeccable hiking, tropical stunning.

It does look beautiful.

Yeah, but no put it on your list.

I am hype because I I'm able.

To now drive around in Minnesota winters and not risk death because I did gets Jennifer.

I know.

Listen, I know when I showed Colt he almost choked on his water.

Oh, I have a story about creepy colts.

Also, I have to tell you good please, Okay, So I don't pay attention to my tires.

I obviously knew I would be sliding here and there pretty much all the time.

You're lucky didn't go through someone's house.

You're lucky you didn't stop the way the speeds you go.

I know, but I don't drive like that when it's bad weather.

I am a parking garage where people are coming around the corner.

Like, yeah, okay, well I can dodge people easily in a parking garage me anyway, as I had no idea how bad they were, even.

Though you look at my car every day.

But I don't examine the tires and the fact that like I made it this far alive is honestly the tires is crazy.

And I got scolded by so many people in my DM.

I'm sure I don't want people, and I was like, I'm sorry, and like Tina had message and she's like, I'm actually mad at you for this, and I was like, I'm just a baby.

I can't help it.

But man, it feels like I'm driving a new car.

Stop now you might.

Watch out in real quick again.

So that was a big event for me.

Conglatulate week, Jenny, thank you.

And then the creepy story about Colts is, oh yeah, So I pull in last week we were supposed to go to this movie and me fell in and Colt's wife Jen, but then it was the night of the snowstorm.

But I'm like preparing, thinking we're going to go to it.

So I'm like, I need gas and i want movie theater snacks.

Come at me.

I get my movie theater snacks, not at the movie theater cheap.

So I pull into this gas station.

I pull into this gas station.

I'm not paying attention.

I'm like, get in my gas ready, put it in.

All of a sudden, I hear hey, Jenny, and I look and I'm.

Like, oh, it's cold.

And he had been watching me pull in, get my credit card out, put the gas thing in the pump whatever into my gas and I was like, oh, god, Cold.

I thought you were like maybe just someone who listened, which is great, comes in, but like the way he went about it, and the fact that I had already been out of my car for like sixty seconds and he hadn't said anything yet.

I was like, You're a fucking creepy.

This is what he does.

He's like, I didn't.

I didn't know what to do if I should stay hi right away, and I didn't know for sure if it was you.

Yes, you did.

He came in and told me he saw you.

I forgot about that.

He didn't tell me how creepy he was, which I could now call out on the radio, thank you for the content he was.

I like, literally had no idea was there.

But I also made zero eye contact with anyone when I'm out in public, I looked down, so I did not pay attention to anyone else that was at this gas station.

But I just sat there and I was like, dah, Cold.

Well scared me.

We talked about the fact that we were going to go see Housemaid got the snowstorm.

It didn't happen, well, Jenny went.

I didn't know because when I looked up how long it would have taken me to get from Rosedale to Miniatristus in an hour and forty one minutes.

And I'm like, no movie is worth it.

I'll pay for it.

But you agreed with the other people, even though you haven't read the book, you really liked it.

I did really like it.

I thought it was really good.

Do you see full Titta because I've heard you see full Titta from Sydney Switch, Yes you do.

He really just shows him all the time and good for her, but not a lot.

It's not I feel like what you had said on the podcast last week.

I was anticipating way more full titty and way more like.

There's like one in the movie.

There's like one main sex.

Okay in a hotel.

I did miss the first fifteen minutes because of the because of the weather, we did not take my car.

We took the guy that I'd been seeing.

We took his car, and I did text Fallon that I was getting irrationally mad because I felt like he was driving like extra.

Slow, like Jenny's snowstorm I was.

I said, he probably didn't want to go out in the snow at all, but he didn't want to miss a chance to be with you.

So he's white knuckling and fear to get there.

I know.

Valin had to like put me in my place.

I was like, God, you're right, Like we would have died if we took my car, so like it's either we go we get there later, or we died driving my car.

So but yeah, it was very good.

You guys are still going to probably see it, you said once on Saturday.

Okay, Jen and I are going to go see a Saturday.

And after she sees it, she probably definitely won't let Colt watch it because all these pervos out here are big.

Sydney Sweeney stands like, yeah, because my sister in law, sisters in law went to see it and they were talking about it.

So then Davy, my brother in.

Law, was like, oh, look like we better chick dish one out and Jake's like, which one are we talking about?

The Amanda Staffried movie and like, shut up, you guys are so embarrassing.

Yeah, no, yeah, I you'll love it, but you one read the book, So I don't know how to compare.

It to the book.

Everyone just said that the ending's a little different.

Did you watch any of the Taylor Swift documentary?

You know?

I meant to do that and it just completely like blanked in my head to do that this weekend and I forgot.

It was very good.

I posted, and I was thankful I got such a large number of dms and people agreeing.

I just kept crying on and off through the beginning.

Makes sense that you cry because she like straight away talks about the near like attack in Vienna and then in London the little kids that got murdered a birthday party and she has to literally basically go meet these kids' families right before the show she's and then you have to like shut it off and perform and like, and it was very hard to like watch that.

Also amazing to see her how she's able to do that and then shut it off to perform and stuff, and it was I.

Just thought it was really good.

Episode two focused a lot more on like kind of choreography and like spotlighted a couple of her dancers, which.

I really liked.

So I think they're actually going to be spotlighting some of the crew and different things.

I really want them to break down a little bit more, and I hope they do with only four episodes left, Like how did they choose the specific songs?

Because you there was like literally one quick glance of a whiteboard with post it notes all over it showing like the layout of the songs they want.

I don't know, so i'm and I know we're never.

Gonna get anything behind the scenes of like Mattie Healy and the Brain.

And it's like such a bummer because I mean, why would she share that she wants to focus on the positive and Travis.

And also it looked like they started like look behind you, there's like a Christmas crew of people leaving a building.

I mean, my god, they are tenseled.

Out, but they it looks like they didn't even start filming until like the European leg of the tour, so like our whole half, I don't think they were filming at that time.

She ended in where Canada?

Okay, yeah, so that's where the new concert film is from?

Vancouver?

Got it?

But yeah, I so far, I really like it.

I'm the van Also, I posted this today and then I deleted it only because I didn't want to respond to people all day, and that sounds terrible, but there is a new trend on social media and it triggered me and I posted, and I was like, I don't understand this trend, and I don't.

I'm not trying to be judgy because I know everyone's family is handled in a different way.

So the trend is and it's usually a woman influencer.

She posts, my husband doesn't know what I got our kids for Christmas, but I don't know what our mortgages do.

And it's supposed to be like this cutesy thing of like the give and take of a relationship.

And I said, I am genuinely puzzled by this.

Do you not want to know anything about your household finances?

And does your partner not care?

They have no interest in what your kids get for Christmas?

And I got I was getting a mix of replies and people weren't like mad at me or coming for me.

And I know everyone's household works differently.

I know that people have more traditional relationships and what I mean by that is the guys the breadwinner, the woman takes care of the kids.

And I'm not judging you just because that's not how my household works.

I just have a real interest in how could your husband not I get if he's not buying the presence in my household, Jake is like the most progressive involved father of all time.

But I typically buy all of all of his presents our birthdays or Christmas or for her friends because I like doing it.

I'm a present person.

And he but he wants to know what all of is getting for Christmas, like he's part.

Of the decision.

I'm like, oh, should I get this?

Which one of these do you like better?

And maybe he doesn't like care which of the two barbies I get, but he knows what all of is getting Christmas morning.

And I have like most of our bills on auto pay, but Jake knows when they go out, and he has the log in information.

I'm not saying every person sits down and is constantly modern monitoring their savings account or their investments.

Or whatever it may be.

But I'm like, I feel like we're so lucky because we live in a generation where fathers are far more involved than maybe they had been like in the past.

And it's and so I first of all love that we're part of that I also think it's scary to me this idea that women have no idea about their finances still in twenty twenty five.

You want to trust your partner.

I get that.

It's not even about your partner lying to you and you don't and there's no money left in your accounts.

It's more so, God forbid, if something happened to your partner, you would want to know how to access your money, and you would want to know.

Like what to do.

I think more so just so you're I'm not like, I do not completely understand my financial investing.

I have a financial advisor to help me with that.

But like I was like, I get that it's a silly trend right at the end of the day, But I was like, I don't understand this, and then I had people dming me like that you and I actually know, being like, hey, my wife's Familey's always been bad with money, so I handle the money.

Totally get it.

If one person's better with money, I get why.

They might handle the money, but do they know how to log in to access that if something were to happen to you?

And other people are like my husband has never known or cared where our kids get like I could tell him he's gonna forget, and I get it, like I'm not saying everyone has to do everything, and there are definitely responsibilities split in households.

I just like, I just don't like that trend that like it's cutesy to like I don't know anything about our finances and my husband doesn't care about anything with our kids.

I don't like that.

I mean, I would fully agree with you on this.

I have like something that I saw this weekend that upset me, and I don't think the person who I'm about to talk shit about would ever listen to this, but if they do, I'm sorry, but it very much frustrated me.

Was someone had posted how the woman had been gone because they had a work trip and a couple other things going on.

So, you know, Sparkles elf on the shelf.

I don't think kids listen to this, so should be good here.

But Sparkles, you know, went on a little vacation last week and wasn't there every morning for the kids because.

Mom was gone or too busy to do anything.

And then Sparkles had all these pictures photoshopped of Sparkles on a beach, and Sparkles here and Sparkle's there, and I got so frustrated seeing that that that person's partner couldn't take over for a few days while that while the mom was gone.

I got so frustrated with that because this person already does so much for that family, and I, yes, I do not really understand the trend of men.

And I know also that it's not everyone.

Obviously, you said Jake is like great, amazing, But I.

Just most people we know, and like everyone knows one dad that kind of just mails it in.

Yeah, you know, so I was or one mom.

Maybe you know a mom that mails it in.

Yeah, But I'll also say that that mom also is the one in charge of all the finances, so they pretty much do everything.

And I don't know how they do it, honestly, but to each their own.

I did, however, tell that story to the person I've been seeing, and I said that it pissed me off and that I will never be in a partnership that is like that.

Yep, And they agreed.

Yeah, they were like, no, that's not okay.

So anyways, so I get where you're coming from with all of that.

Yeah, And I hope me saying that doesn't upset someone, if that's what their relationship is, I hope maybe it inspires you to like just in your notes app write down or like in your password app to write down like log in information so that you would have it if you or have it written down somewhere so you would have it if you needed it.

Yeah, it's more so like that for sure.

I just like want people to like have access to things, yeah, and know what to do, because yeah, if it like someone messaged me or and said that when their uncle passed away, their aunt literally had no idea how to do anything, and they're grieving and they were like and they didn't know how to and they had all these other decisions to make, and they have no idea how to access any of their banking and anything.

And I was like, that would be an awful time to have figure all.

Of that out.

Oh absolutely, have you switching gears a little bit?

Have you ever gone to the Glow Holiday Festival at cgs Field?

Okay, So I did go to it this past weekend when.

It was a negative five million degrees out, But it was actually really fun and really cool.

I really liked it, and I'm not like plugging it for any reason.

I did do a partnership, but with the bar that like does something with them.

It's not with glow.

But it was really fun.

I thought it was so pretty the way that they had all these little lights on all the seats at chs Field that were synced with music and stuff, and Santa was there.

Santa told us the funniest story.

So, you know, it was really dead when we went because it was so cold, and he was like, yeah, you know last year there was this family they're waiting in line.

They come up and you know, everyone's getting in the photo and I'm like, hey, who's.

That blonde guy over there?

Get him in there?

And one of the girls, who was the daughter, goes, ugh, that's mom's boyfriend.

We don't like him.

And I was like, oh, okay, that was funny.

But yeah, there was a lot of activities like for adults and kids.

Yeah, there's alcoholic drinks if you want alcoholic drinks.

I got a hot cocoa with rumchatta and it was really good.

But also the person I was got hot cider with Rumchata and that actually was better, which I thought mine was gonna be the better one.

But whatever did you make him switch?

You.

No, Okay, it was fine, but yeah it was super fun.

And yeah, if you're looking for some kind of winter activity, I would recommend that.

But I also haven't been to like too too many ones.

I just feel like I feel like the holiday bars have gotten a little overpopulated, and I feel like this was actually worth like, yeah, the money and going in whatever.

So but also I got to show you this one picture.

Is it a nude?

Well, Jenny, what in the heck?

It is very Christmas to me.

It's my Christmas.

You're not gonna like it in a sexy way, but it is something that I want you to look at it, and I want you to try to diagnose what.

What body part is that?

That is my butt cheek?

Jenny, damn that things.

So there is time so many questions.

This is a that's the upper part of my thong.

Yeah, okay, so this is one of my cheeks.

The crack is like right there, but your crack is where this is my crack?

Oh my god.

I'm not showing this to you to show you like a d I'm showing that was the bottom of your cheek and the crack was the end end of how much your ass flap hangs over your thigh and I was like, geez us.

But that's my crack.

But I'm showing you this because I think I give ringworm on your butt.

I do, I think, And I'm like, are you blank?

And I do not know anymore because I got ship like that.

I got it it.

Like nine years ago out of nowhere, and I it was so weird.

It's still the same thing when you google.

It's like wrestling match or like workout equipment or whatever the fuck.

It's a fungal infection.

I know, skinned to skin contact with someone who has it, contact with animals, especially cats, dogs, kittens, puppies or farm animals, touching contaminated objects like betting or whatever, public places like locker rooms, gems, soil exposure.

I genuine o.

God, Now let I think about it.

Things that make it easy.

Does your partner have ringworm because of their dog?

Because it says things that make it easier to catch warm, moist, sweating, a lot, small cuts.

I don't.

I mean, I don't know.

He hasn't told me anything about if he has any issue, but now I have to tell him that I have an issue, and so like on my to do list, today is to go to fucking target to it and get no to go to target to get anti fungal cream for my butt because I think it's ringworm.

But I noticed it a few days ago and I'm like itch in my butt, you know, as one does.

And I just think it's like a little bite.

But then I was like, gonna have him look at it.

I'm happy I didn't because I don't know that we're at that point anyways.

Yeah, but then yesterday morning, I'm like, I got to look at this thing in the mirror, and it looks it's ringworm.

Literally is a ring It doesn't have actual worms.

That's a tapeworm.

So like, don't get that confused, but not worms come out of your butt.

You've always wanted a tape worm because you wanted to like be skinny, as I.

Wish I had.

I have given up on that.

Now that like things like o zepic and zet boundaries exist, I feel like that's the better route to go as opposed to a ringworm.

Now, I tape warm ringworm isn't like right, but right was clear up what Jenny happen.

But I'm like sitting.

There and I'm like, God, I really, I don't want to do this.

I don't want to go to the doctor.

And the last time I did one of those like telehealth things, and I had it and they were able to diagnose it.

Zoom and you pop your cheek up?

Can you marry like a picture would have been?

Fine?

You moan them.

No, I will say that this ringworm is much smaller than the last one I had, so that's a plus.

Side fucking off?

And are you getting ring warm?

Just so twice I told you this, And it happened when I was on the show and I this, The same kind of shit happened where I was newly.

Seeing someone I had to tell him.

It felt like I was telling him I had an STD, which no shame about any of that.

People get STD's it is what it is.

But also like use protection.

But yeah, now I am in the same position where I have to reach out and be like, so, uh, I think I have ringworm?

You want to borrow this anti fungal cream geese?

Wait wait, when I think about it, it is like good financially in the sense that like, nobody's going to go through a whole tube of anti fungal cream before it expires, unless you're disgusting.

And you're the one with you're saying like shame.

At least if I have to buy it, then he can just like use some of it.

If are you going to him to pay you for something?

Oh no, it's like three bucks.

I would never I would.

I was like, yes, you would, exactly.

No, but yeah, that's on my list to day of getting to go to Target and getting some OTC over the counter antifungal medication.

Sir, do you know where the ringworm crem is?

I'm not going to specifically say.

Luckily there is one.

There is a cream that literally says ringworm on it, but I'm just going to go for the anti fungal.

You're a classy yal, yeah, because like I don't need them.

A specific brand would put that on the cover.

I don't know.

It was like all put it on what it treats.

I thought I was maybe going to be able to like overnight ship it from Amazon, so I tried that first.

Amamon, they've had it.

They can't be.

They barely are doing overnight shipping for me on anything.

They're exhausted right now, especially for ringworm.

It's apparently hot this season.

Yeah, so anyways, I will make sure to keep photo proof of how it develops or on Housie and I'll send you up do you need it every.

Day I'm going to talk about the big moment as we end this podcast in our relationship that happened.

Oh yeah, So I.

Was randomly really lonely the other days, kidding.

But not really.

But I finally requested Falon's location.

She did out of nowhere, just a Sunday, random saday.

I was like, you know what, I'm gonna request it, and I gave it to you.

You did accept, and so now I have your location, so now you'll know when I drive past your house.

You're fucking set.

God you can, hey, if you're doing like a double round, because Colt lives like a block away from me, so you can come see both of us.

That's true, I can shit on both your lines.

No, all right, thanks so much for listening.

One episode left of the year.

Next Monday, we'll talk to you.

Well Tuesday, yep, we'll talk to you then.

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