[SPEAKER_02]: Can we play this clip of this young lady that has some some things to say about choosing the right person to marry?

[SPEAKER_00]: Don't ever marry your second choice.

[SPEAKER_00]: He is not the man you still think about at 2am.

[SPEAKER_00]: Don't marry him.

[SPEAKER_00]: Every girl has that one guy, the one who ruined her for everybody else.

[SPEAKER_00]: You never get over him.

[SPEAKER_00]: You just learn to live without him.

[SPEAKER_00]: He's at the standard.

[SPEAKER_00]: Every kiss after him feels weaker.

[SPEAKER_00]: Every eye love you sounds quieter.

[SPEAKER_00]: You also compare silently every single day, even on your wedding day.

[SPEAKER_00]: You settle for safe because dangerous broke you once again and you swore to yourself never again.

[SPEAKER_00]: you'll say I'm happy while staring at the ceiling at night wondering what he's doing right now.

[SPEAKER_00]: Your physical body will be in the bed next to your husband but your soul will still be in that old car, that old motorcycle, the old apartment, the old version of you that felt alive.

[SPEAKER_00]: You'll teach your daughters to never settle while secretly knowing you did.

[SPEAKER_00]: One day you will see his name pop up or hear his favorite song and your heart will skip a beat like your 19 again and you hate yourself for it.

[SPEAKER_00]: If he is not the man who still owns a piece of you, don't put his ring on your finger.

[SPEAKER_00]: Because second choice love turns into first-class regret.

[SPEAKER_00]: Mary the man that you cannot live without.

[SPEAKER_00]: Not the one that you can live with.

[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, you know what?

[SPEAKER_02]: So crazy is that I just watched his Netflix show.

[SPEAKER_01]: What's the name of it?

[SPEAKER_02]: Love and murder, something like that?

[SPEAKER_01]: Okay, yep.

[SPEAKER_02]: You know, you know what I've heard of it.

[SPEAKER_02]: I watched a whole series.

[SPEAKER_02]: It's pretty good.

[SPEAKER_02]: Man.

[SPEAKER_02]: Ladies, how you feel about that?

[SPEAKER_02]: How you feel about it?

[SPEAKER_01]: I don't know.

[SPEAKER_01]: Let's rush out.

[SPEAKER_01]: How can they know if they're number two or four?

[SPEAKER_01]: Some of them don't know, bro.

[SPEAKER_01]: Talking like to you.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'm sure you get the DMs to.

[SPEAKER_01]: I got a couple of them.

[SPEAKER_01]: Yo, how do I level up after break up?

[SPEAKER_01]: I want to marry this girl, but I'm not sure if she loved me as much as I got them.

[SPEAKER_01]: You know, they don't know, bro.

[SPEAKER_01]: I don't know.

[SPEAKER_01]: Somebody fuck with you or not.

[SPEAKER_01]: They don't know.

[SPEAKER_01]: Christmas coming.

[SPEAKER_02]: It's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's [SPEAKER_02]: You could tell by some way somebody looks at you.

[SPEAKER_02]: You could tell by the way somebody just little things like they'll touch your shoulder, touch your hand, the things that they go out of their way to do, to do for you.

[SPEAKER_01]: A true test of to tell.

[SPEAKER_01]: Look at your all couples photos.

[SPEAKER_01]: I'll tell you everything you need to get one of your best female friends.

[SPEAKER_01]: Explain more.

[SPEAKER_01]: You got to look at the body position too.

[SPEAKER_01]: Body position.

[SPEAKER_01]: If those eyes, a lot of like LeBandby eyes or she got them dead eyes, like you to leave out.

[SPEAKER_02]: If she's not looking at you like you're the one, like the sky is just opened up, it's not gonna work.

[SPEAKER_01]: The picture's the position and who in front versus [SPEAKER_01]: who in the side or if the picture is all about her getting her look off and not y'all as a couple.

[SPEAKER_01]: That's the science you don't really fuck with you.

[SPEAKER_01]: 100% it's okay move on get somebody who really fuck with you and fellas if you're not with the person you want to be with you got to put time into the level you up so you get who you want.

[SPEAKER_01]: But look at them photos as always especially to get you also.

[SPEAKER_02]: You know, it was crazy too, is that what she said, like I said, I would love to have from the ladies, your thoughts on this, but that Netflix show is pretty much, it's a couple of that cheats and a wife really, that was just unhappy with her husband and he didn't do anything wrong.

[SPEAKER_02]: That was a crazy thing about it, like he provided, she was a, she's a housewife.

[SPEAKER_02]: So he provided the life that she didn't have to work.

[SPEAKER_02]: He went to work every day.

[SPEAKER_02]: He was faithful to her.

[SPEAKER_01]: The safe guy.

[SPEAKER_02]: He wasn't a abusive.

[SPEAKER_02]: Her thing is like, what am I getting out of?

[SPEAKER_02]: I'm not happy.

[SPEAKER_02]: It's not fulfilling.

[SPEAKER_02]: It's not exciting.

[SPEAKER_02]: That's kind of what she was saying as far as, like, it's a second.

[SPEAKER_02]: It's a safe choice.

[SPEAKER_02]: It's a second.

[SPEAKER_02]: And then you always, what you, what you really want as opposed to what you actually have.

[SPEAKER_02]: I think she spits, I think she spits a lot.

[SPEAKER_01]: I think she cooked, you know, I think she cooked.

[SPEAKER_01]: And the ladies don't settle.

[SPEAKER_02]: You don't settle, because sometimes you have to settle.

[SPEAKER_01]: Elites and disaster.

[SPEAKER_01]: And I think we need to stop romanticizing being married early and waiting to marry the right person.

[SPEAKER_01]: So I got a bunch of friends that got married or 20, 21, 22, 24, and then at 30, 31, 32 they were divorced.

[SPEAKER_01]: and a lot of them say, I should have just waited and not been pressured by my friend's family society to be in a marriage I really didn't want.

[SPEAKER_01]: So, but do what you want to do.

[SPEAKER_01]: But fellas, if she don't adore you, don't look at you with a dormitory, it does not light up talking to you.

[UNKNOWN]: Yeah, my boy.

[SPEAKER_01]: Didn't it?

[SPEAKER_01]: And to the brother who asked me, yo, I'm fresh off a break up.

[SPEAKER_01]: What can I do to level up?

[SPEAKER_01]: Level up while you're in a relationship.

[SPEAKER_01]: A lot of y'all be doing that, yo, I'm going to get my revenge.

[SPEAKER_01]: Just my combat season, my villain arc.

[SPEAKER_01]: Just staying in your shit, yo.

[SPEAKER_01]: Stay in your shit.

[SPEAKER_01]: I know it's tough.

[SPEAKER_02]: But you definitely know with somebody really, really fuck with you.

[SPEAKER_01]: Some people would never have people to really fuck with them.

[SPEAKER_02]: That's true.

[SPEAKER_01]: She don't cook for you, she don't figure out anything to do better for your life.

[SPEAKER_01]: Another one, just does she keep our work, does she make plans for the future?

[SPEAKER_01]: If a woman loves you, oh, she gonna make the plans and follow through and guide you certain ways because she wants you to be better for what you guys are building.