I blame Kim Kardashian for the women we see today, what we glorified on TV when we see these beautiful women with these big old sexy lips and these big old eyelashes and eyebrows and but banging out the window and bang lips banging out the window.

And just what is banging out the window?

You know, just you know.

What, the lips just doing that, you know, just like damn taking over your face.

This is the taking over the game.

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You know, on our last episode, everyone in the comments was just so appalled by your feet being out and that you were playing with your feet, the fact that Paul is playing with his bear toes all this everyone said it all this camera is blowy.

Yeah you had and you was like this yeah, and they were bad that.

Some people said, listen, I'm trying to get through the episode.

But Paul played with this feet, you blow it was blowing up.

I didn't even realize.

Yeah, I mentioned at the beginning, So I said, okay, come on, bare feet, you was comfy.

Guys like Judge, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm florid.

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So Share, you know the singer Share who's eighty years old.

She's marrying her boyfriend Ae that's his name, I guess, and they have a forty year age gap, so he's forty years younger.

Man.

So this is the thing you were saying, like, man, don't really best with the auto work that I could have buried that for really, Well, he's married.

Yeah he he proposed.

To her before I had a chance to meet.

Dude.

He's Tiger's close friend.

I don't know, it's close for.

No Tiger.

No, yeah, yeah he did.

He has I think they have a kid or something together either.

Yeah.

Yeah, yeah, Like we had a lunch together in Hollywood, uh on some business back in the day.

And uh, i'mula say one thing about dude, like, because guys, ain't we ain't.

Really dealing with the older women like that gap.

Is crazy crazy.

I think this is a play.

Yeah, for sure, everyone looks at.

It, but like, just like women do it.

So that's city boys.

We up, we popping.

We finally doing it now because all these women be on it.

Like when you see the lady over there with the old man or the dire bed, but he reaches heir and he.

Over the here.

You know, that's a play for her.

That's a play.

Now we like, I mean, I'm finally we finally got somebody on our side that can run that play.

He probably give you know, yeah, do you think that.

He's like having sex with women on the side, like or is that satisfying?

Like do you think that a man could just be like, Okay, I'm gonna bag this old lady and we're gonna have sex and that's all I need.

I went from Amber Rose.

Big booty, big titty stripper looking body to I'm gonna.

Be I'm gonna sacrifice the sexual needs for And I.

Doubt he wants to get caught up, because he get caught up.

That's his whole play and his money in his bread.

He live in a different life.

He's with Share.

Share is a white pop star like she's a whole different level of rich that you are not gonna see that type of lifestyle unless you're around that.

I got list, Bro, this is what I'm gonna tell you.

Just make sure that you are on the wheel insurance, the life insurance.

You gotta get your name on that life insurance.

You gotta get you and then once you do that, you know, you know you gotta ride it out.

You don't want to, you know, I ain't promoting, don't know, don't mess it up.

Don't be trying to see other women, you know, ride it out though you know, write it.

I ain't gonna it ain't gonna be that much longer.

But she's only eighty years old.

It's like, yeah, my dad is eighty.

That's still like, well, she looked like she kicking for a minute.

She's gonna be one of them that's ninety seven.

That'll blow that.

Would blow him to seventy years.

It's blown up.

But they see whatever they see.

Man, I ain't promoting, like, go do something else.

But women do this all the time.

Women do this all the time.

But I don't like the situation where men are trying to be like women and women are trying to.

Be like man.

I just don't know that.

I'm trying to be like a woman, trying to It's like it's ball of us ball.

She's probably showing him some things he ain't seen for sure.

You know, she's showing us a lifestyle he ain't never seen.

I don't know.

I don't know what she's showing them.

But if it's a lifestyle or things or eighty somethings, maybe the sex is crazy.

You know what I'm saying.

Don't put it past she know things.

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This is mentally for me, just mentally, like you know, you get to sit there, your drink right there, she's taking off her clothes.

To tell hey, probably drink every day.

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Baby, that's more than drinking.

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But she might be having a procedures.

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Supposedly it's a procedure that women can get when they are either like had a kid or like stretched out I don't know, and that it tightens it up and it's like back to like you never did nothing before.

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City boys, so as.

This is a viral quote that's been on the net right now, and a guy said, as a man, I'm not working ten hours to come home and look at a flat ass, but this is crazy.

I feel like why are men like this who would say this too?

Like that is so crazy.

This is only a black man to say this.

Why would you go on the internet.

And say this like and this is why And men always get me out when I say this because they're like, y'all like to blame them for everything.

This is why women get BBOs and all of this because they feel like, you're not gonna want to be with the wom with a flat ass.

But that's crazy to me.

That's WoT me, like, well you don't want to what like that puts women down and makes it feel crazy.

No, I mean, as a black man, you culturally come from like our women are just like naturally have big booties.

If you go to Africa.

You know, my mom, like this is a true story.

My mom went to Africa and she came back and you know, it's one of the first things she said.

She was like, man, I was over there and the women are beautiful.

They just have big old booties.

I was like, damn, moll, what you like she said that, And I was just like damn.

I mean, just culturally, as you know, that's in our DNA.

So now, since we are cultural representers of America, people want that look.

So now we make it to where like if you ain't got that, you not popping for women and people are they get like sensitive and they get insecure women because they feel like that's what American culture for women should be and that you know, think about this when we walk down the street, if somebody got that thing on and we're gonna be like on so dang, like like I don't know why we like that, but it's just like dah, he just be like you know, it's the double take on that you like.

Damn, that's what drawed me in.

I don't know what it is about seeing a woman's booty, is just that we turning around to that, like that's getting our attention more than you can have the ugliest face on the planet.

But if you got that thing, are gonna be like, what's going on?

You know what I'm saying, Like.

Yeah, but that's what society and what we made like TV and made it like okay, because before it wasn't like that.

Think about the Playboy model had the flat cakes.

Yeah it was white American beauty.

Yeah, so now it's like now.

Now everyone has it.

It was was frowned upon.

Yeah, yeah, it was like, what is that?

Like even in movies when you watch all movies are like how do I get rid of this fact?

But like they say like that, You're like what And.

Now it's like, okay, so let me ask you this question.

It's glorified, but let me ask you this question.

So there's a black girl who came on the internet and she was like, we are no longer following the white woman beauty standard, like beauty standard was white women.

Right, playboy model, But listen.

I kind of still disagree with that narrative because I still believe and their whole thing is like, oh well black girls, you guys straighten your hair to be white?

Right, Okay, I get it right, But this is what I This is my thing.

You know how many other things y'all do to be more culturally in tune with black people, though you can't just say like black people always set the tone for the culture.

So you get your lips injection in jack people got made fun of for having bigger lips growing up.

I did, like, I don't have even huge lips, but it was still like I got made fun of for having a big butt.

I went to a white school.

Why is your butt so big, and your stomach is so small it looks weird.

Like, Okay, so I'm thinking I look weird because I'm around white people, Like, you know what I'm saying.

But now, what is it?

Like?

Y'all are doing everything Like I can count more things that white women do to look black than black women do to look white.

Do you agree with that?

I feel like that's the truth.

And then the white women are like arguing down, like, no, y'all get straighten your hair.

Okay, we do one thing and you cannot say, like, if you look back in our history, there's all type of hair textures coming from black people, just like there's all type of skin tones.

But y'all tan your skin to look darker.

Literally, get spray tans.

Y'all.

Literally do your lips, you do your butt.

You want to look fuller, you want to have bigger, Like everything that you're doing is black.

I don't care what nobody says.

Y'all follow the culture.

You want to dress, you want to act.

Well, this is what TV is now.

Like you know, there's trends that you know, they it's like waves, It's like ebbs and flow.

Of course, there's trends always, you know, what.

I mean, the clothing, just like the women's look and you know, moving forward, it's just like what we glorified on TV when we see these beautiful women with these big old sexy lips and these big old eyelashes and eyebrows and but banging out the window and banging lips, banging out the window.

And just what is banging out the window mean?

You know, just you know.

What the lips just doing that, you know, just like damn taking over your face.

Well, those are crazy to me, but that's.

What's like in the TV now and that's what like people follow.

And it's like, you know, I blame I blame Kim Kardashian for the women we see today.

I truly do, because she is one of the most influential women that ever lived.

And you know, she had the plastic surgeries and made it cool to do that.

But Kim don't have those lifts.

She ain't never had those lifts.

And I'll give that to her.

She's the reason, Like, because I feel like every girl look like him, Like damn, I'm like, oh, everybody want the straight black hair and the lips and the curvy booty and the and the eyelashes.

And and and you know, everybody's cutting their noses up and cheering up and cheeks up and like everybody, I'll blame her for the way our girls are.

But then now they get out of control with it.

They like, I want to give me the Kim K.

But now they oh, did I look crazy?

And started looking crazy?

Like she is really the reason why the women look the way they look today, good or bad.

That's just what I feel.

It may not be true.

I think her influence on the society of women today came from her influence.

And where did her influence come from.

I don't know Black people.

She kicked it with black people, she was around black people, she married black people.

She came like the thing.

Is she made it okay because people was like, why are you women fake?

Are you get into this?

Why she made it okay?

I agree with it, and it.

Was okay to do it because people really frowned upon on the surgeons like, oh, you're getting all the surgery.

Well this is why too.

Black women were mad because Kim K did like braids in her hair one time and she was like she said something or like people were like Kim K started made braids cracking like drendy.

She started the braids, and Black people were mad because like women for so long couldn't even go to work with braids, like if you had a job or job interview, it's like, you can't wear your hair like that.

You can't do it like and it was a protective style, you know, for women.

And now Kim's doing it and it's cracking, and now it's in the Vogue magazine.

But for black people it was.

But that's what I'm saying.

She's stealing the culture from black people.

She's making it relevant and popular.

I wouldn't.

I would say that.

The reason because I think, uh, I agree.

I agree, but when you when you acknowledge and honor it.

What I don't like is when people do that and then they say they made it a trend because they're you know that there's historically with the Kardashians, they have ripped off small black creators for their ideas historically and have like lawsuits with them, Kylie all of them.

Like you'll take from a small black creator that don't have nothing, and you'll you'll steal their whole idea, You'll make it cracking, and you'll claim it as yours and a lot of people do that, and it's like, all I'm saying is it's okay, it's okay to do that.

I don't even hate the Kardashians.

I like Kim.

I think she's fly, I really do.

But I think that as long as you can give people credit like where it's due, like honor the fact that yes, this is from this, like this is from black.

People didn't want the credit.

You still my ship?

You make it popular.

Do you want to give me credit?

I don't get shipped for it, just credit benefiting from it.

Well, your name could it could like them just saying your name could be something for you and you can get cracking, so you never know.

But all I'm saying like for them, if they mentioned the name drop somebody, it might change their life.

You know, they're very influential, like you said, one of the most influential families.

In the world.

Like, so I agree with you.

I think.

Tell you girls out here, you're not gonna look like kim K.

Stop it.

You're doing too much.

You're going overboard.

Kim K.

Don't even look like Kim K.

Be more of your natural self, be a natural soul, like because girls lose theyself in the surgery, you becoming to lose yourself, like you lose your personality, you lose your look, you lose your soul.

Like when you start looking at some of these before and after, it's like wow, and now you you and I get it.

You know.

It puts batteries in some of these girls' backs because I didn't see something before and after pictures and now you was talking down.

You're talking like this because you can't.

And you know, but as men, as a culture, we have to do a better job because we like say, hey, if you don't look.

Like this, then you're not gonna get You're not gonna be popping.

I'll never forget that one time I was with my homegirl and her man told her when I was right there she was, he was like, if you would have had some, but I would have been proposed to you.

And you know that she.

Hopped on the plane and gotta be bl swear to God, true story, swear to God.

And I was like, wow, and it blew me and she looks great.

But I will honestly say, like I'll never forget that day because it really like killed me.

And I feel like people always say to me, like you don't understand because you have a certain body type, and I get it.

I may not understand, but I have a nose that's big that I be thinking.

I want a nose job.

I have certain shit that I want to change all the time.

Did you change about yourself?

I told you, I just always think about having a nose job, you know what I'm saying, because I have a Persian nose, like I had the nose that Kim k had before she had a.

Nose job for real, Like you know what I'm saying.

So, but I'm scared because I don't like how that.

Looks sometimes, like I don't like that look of like that skinny, like it scares me.

I don't want to look like that, like you know what I'm saying.

So I don't think nothing wrong with it, thank you.

But you know, as a woman, you just analyze everything about yourself like I need to do like everything you over just analyzed, like I should do this, I should have this, I should have this, like I should have a boob job, I should have a those jobs.

I should do this now.

And you think that because you're just.

Like you want to look perfect, you know what I mean, Like you want to be the best version of yourself.

And if I do this, maybe I will be like you know, most like you.

Say, be the best version of yourself.

Right, But that's what is that, you know, I'm not talking about it.

I'm not talking about you, but I'm just talking about women.

Always say I want to be the best version of myself.

But all the women you go out here, what is that?

The fake here, the fake nails, the fake eyelashes, the fake everything, make you the best version of yourself?

No, I wouldn't say that, but I would say that people when listen, when I say best version of myself, it's more of a soul thing, inner thing.

But you know, also to physicality is important because men are visual people, you know, and when you're out here as a woman, like you want to get and get the best man that you can get.

Like that's how women think, like if I look this way, I can get this man.

I can get this for dude and have this.

And change my life because I look like this.

So women literally work at these jobs like McDonald's and crazy stuff, save money to get a BBL so they can go be around the crews of people and go try to find a man and be like cool, like this is a thing like and that's why it's this whole epidemic where women are like I don't got to BBL and I'm still working at McDonald's Like I'm still not still got the job, I'm still stressed out, like I still don't got nothing cracking.

So this goes back to like when we always had this conversation like who's the prize?

Yeah, women are doing all of that, Yeah they are, they have to.

Be, but men are doing a lot too.

What you will say all the time, no, no, no, let me tell you, I'll be honest with you.

Today.

I was just thinking about this because I did like all this stuff, like I have my legs wax, my everything, like.

My eyebres, this my hair, and it.

Hurts, Like you don't know how painful it is to get you your legs and your body wax.

Like I'm in there, like I'm in so much pain, right And I'm thinking to myself like.

Damn, we do all of this like so much.

And but you do, like especially if you have a man, You're like I have to make sure i'm fresh, I have this, I have that, Like you want to do that for the person you're with Yeah, Like, I don't know that if that means they're the prize, But I do think that I believe that men and women are both the price.

I think both people bring and add so much value that they can make each other better if it's the right situation in my opinion.

So like, yeah, as women, we do a lot, we do a lot.

We do a lot, and it blows me because you do have to Loki.

If you're like with somebody, like a man is gonna be like girl, huh, like get this together?

Like you look mess like really like in reality, like just keep it real, Like you're with a woman.

Her nails is chipped, her hair is busted, she looks real, she's a real one.

But you're still gonna be like, baby, let me give you some money so you could go get your shit together, so we could go out and you can look like something like you have a chips like that looks crazy like chip, nails busted, broke, like just looking crazy like hair busted, hair, like just looking a mess.

You're gonna you're not gonna feel not smelling good, not like having an outfit.

That's fresh in a sweat and a Jordan like you're this is crazy.

For sure, you're gonna be like this is crazy, Like you could do that if you're chilling and it's your girl, and y'all are just like chilling and like.

But even then, like men want a woman who's naturally beautiful without makeup and you're chilling with her and you're looking at her when she wakes.

Up, Well, naturally beauty without makeup is like what I like?

Yeah, no, no, no, what.

I'm saying, it's like what that person likes from his girl, Like there's no set definition or no set person like I might just like you like.

That, right, No, for sure, it don't matter, Like.

Like who's to say that.

Somebody else can say you're not beautiful.

I just think that you're beautiful like that other people might not.

It's fine.

I don't care what other people think.

I like you like this.

And this is the problem with with the women, because the man will tell you I like you like this, but still want to do the other thing.

You know what I'm saying, It's like, damn, I liked you like this, and if but you cared more about what other people thought of you than your own man, And that's sometime women do that.

He can tell you, like, I don't want you to get an ass implant.

I wants you to get a breast implant.

I like you like this, and I'm your whole man, I'm your husband, I'm your whole everything.

And he'll go out want to do it anyway that women do that.

You know what I'm saying.

That's you know that I was with someone who thought that, like when people he said he's been with women who got like implants and stuff implanted in their body.

He said it mentally.

He was like it literally mentally makes women like crazy.

He's like, I really believe like putting things in your body.

Well, I've always felt and been against of putting things in my body.

I don't want foreign objects in my body and stuff like.

That's why, like you know, like implants are like a silicone thing, or like when people get button plants, or like, you know, one of the most dangerous surgeries in the world is a BBL.

It's the most dangerous surgery ever and people still do it every day, Like and it kills me because it's like you want to butt so bad.

But again, I don't know, like I can't relate to that portion of it, but I understand wanting.

To change yourself?

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So today we are going to talk about what do you want more from a woman and less from a woman?

Or what do you wish men knew more about?

Like what do you wish women knew more about men?

Like what things do women just miss about men?

Always?

And it's like, why don't you guys get this?

I think sometimes women sometimes have a harder understanding of.

Reading the room, now.

You know what I'm saying, Like, so what we need more of for women is do a better job at reading the room.

Like if he have a long day, he come up and you can see it on his face.

Don't start irritating them with like just questions, flooding them with shit.

I mean, And I think it's vice versa for the man too with the women.

You know, sometimes we might be irritating when you didn't have a long day, and you won't really want to deal with it.

But that's life.

But like as far as fantasy and what I want more from a woman?

Like what do you want women to know about men?

Like what are we missing?

Yeah?

Like what are women missing when it comes to men?

Like you wish that all women just understood about a man?

Every man is different, but a man like not just basic like assembly line?

Okay, so what it's.

Everything has its own feature?

What is yours?

What do you I'm asking you?

So you asked it for me?

All?

Yeah, Like what do you wish women knew to understand more about me?

That I'm difficult?

I know that.

And understanding that I'm difficult, But at the end of the day, I know I mean well and I want the best.

And like I said, every man, every woman is different.

I can't go into a relationship.

I can't go into a situation to be like, all right, this is going to a playbook.

There's no playbook for a relationship.

There's no playbook for like getting to know that person.

You just have to know your partner and get to know your partner and ask questions.

I think you know when you look at it.

At the end of the day, men need to be better at communication.

More communication for men because women will over communicate, your ass, Like we have to be better at communication.

We assume that y'all post to know stuff after the first time, because well, you know, we'll give you the playbook.

But we got to keep giving y'all the playbook because y'all want to keep hearing the playbook we do.

And there's nothing wrong with That's what I feel, like, you know, I have to learn about women, you know, But what a woman has to learn about a man like don't keep annoying him with the same damn things.

Pick your battles, you know what I'm saying.

Women like small battles.

Dang, you just ain't gonna put the soap back, like we're.

About to argue about that.

Like women have to do a.

Better job at picking their battles with men, Like we can't be having all these little small battles, you know.

And I think that's one thing women have to do a better job at with us, Like you know, when it's then when it's something major, I get it, Oh, you know this this, or that the bill ain't been paid or you or you know, it's like, you know, levels to like arguments, because then a man feels like you're nagging, it turns into nagging and that gets annoying for a man.

So I think women have to do a.

Better job at figuring out what do I get hot at him about instead of you know what, I could let that go, We could talk about it, but I can't.

All right, this is one thing.

Talk about stuff with a man, but don't make it sound like an argument.

Yeah that's what.

Yeah, I can agree with that.

I think for me, I would say I wish that men would just accept and understand women are emotional creatures.

Like we're emotional.

We have different hormone fluctuations.

Literally we are built like our bodies scientifically, hormone like fluctuate every week.

We have a little phase, we have ovulation, then we're menstruating on our period, like we have one good week out the bunth where it's not something going on and god forbid you have anything else in your life.

So when men complain about women and their emotions, it's like, do you not want to be with a woman because women are more emotional?

Men are less like you Guys have less emotion than us, or at least you don't have the fluctuation of feelings like we do.

So we might need more reassurance, we might need to feel like we're loved certain days, or we need those things.

And I wish men just understood that because that's just how we are.

It just is what it is, and it's not really changing that.

So if you really like women, you really like that because you know that that's what it is when it comes to being with a woman, like, that's just what we are.

We're going to be emotional and if we love you, it's gonna be like we want to hear it.

Period.

So that's how I feel.

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But I couldn't relate to like wanting to change yourself because you feel like you want.

To fit, you should get the fans of three six.

I'm not doing that.

No, people ask for that every day.

No, I'm not doing that.

I'm not.

I don't feel comfortable with that.

I don't feel comfortable with that.

How can need to go to your page?

I don't have my stuff to my pages?

Don't show that.

No, I don't have that on my.

Pase something like if they see me where like maybe like a video where I was like, there might be a video where John now took where I'm like, Janet is.

Stoo a video the other day.

I saw what you was dancing.

Before and after?

You see before and after?

You can see that?

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah you can't.

Actually because I've been posting my weight loss before and after so you can see the full body, so people can see my transformation.

So yeah, you can see it on there.

But you know, I'm not giving nobody no three six quick, no, Paul, like, what is wrong with you?

I'm not promoting that just the Vince Carter.

No, I'm not promoting that's crazy.

So anyway, speaking of.

American women, one point four million American women are now on only fans.

Million women are only fans.

American women only are on only fans one point four million.

I don't know one point four so we have.

One point four I mean I don't see nothing wrong with that.

I mean women are coming up.

Yeah, women are supposedly with these women are making so much money on there, like listen, damn.

It's crazy because.

This generation has learned to make money the easy way exactly.

And you know what, I should get more credit as a woman to have the body that I have and not be on only fans.

I think people should be really congratulating me for that.

No, they should congratulate me for that, because I could probably be coming up on a check right now off of own fans, but I choose to not do that.

How much you will get I'm getting.

I'm getting paid.

I know.

I'm just saying how much you will take only fans they said.

Tomorrow, I'm not taking it.

I'm not taking it because that's what.

You got to do.

No sexual you just got to be on some just like what do you have to do.

Hanging around just some coconut way alone naked just was like like some bikini or something like.

And you're just putting coconut No, no, No.

The reason I can't do it is because it's just like a digital foot that lasts forever.

Like I really care about the fact that I'm like a certain type of woman.

I really do.

Like that means so much to me.

I cannot sell my soul for that.

If I'm down bad, I always say, you can hit that street.

You can hit that the only bad you know, I'm down that bad, but I don't.

I don't.

I don't put that on a million.

If I'm down bad and I'm on the street, I'm not doing that.

Leave me alone.

And you know what's crazy is that men always are like if I was a woman, I would be only fans right now, I would.

Be selling by like I'll be selling sex.

And everything like this.

And you have to be you gotta think logically, like you gotta think as a woman.

You've dated men and have boyfriends.

Okay, that's like taking you to dinners and did all these things spend money on you that you've done had sexual activities with.

You don't have to do no sexual activities for only fans.

Just be sexual and get no.

People are having sex on there, the people who are making real money unless they're a celebrity, they're having sex.

So they're monetizing porn on it.

Yes, they're having sex.

They're having sex women each other, men all that.

Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, they're having sex.

I don't follow.

But the thing because I know I see it on the internet.

People talk about it.

Like even one of the girls that's like super popular, she has a whole thing called a bop house, and like in Miami, it's like all the bops that have only fans they live in I guess they do content.

I think it's a content.

Kind of like sex.

Yeah, and I see it because I just see things on the internet and like they talk about it, like they'll promote, like guess what, guys tonight, we're doing this.

Even the Adam twenty two guy with his wife or whatever, she has sex with black men on there he watches or they do three sons, like it's all about having sex.

Like there's some women who make shakes.

They're not making the same unless they're like a celebrity that people are obsessed with and want to see them.

Like Black China, she probably don't have sex on there.

She just be doing her own thing because people want to see her.

She's already famous.

Like so it's different because you have a huge fan base.

But if you're a person that's just regular and you just have a body or something, you're just like a little you.

Not you having sex.

You having sex, Like men can see too many other things to just watch you and pay.

You're not nobody just to be Yeah, you're having sex on there?

And I'm never doing that like ever, So you can't pay me to do that.

I'm just telling you that right now.

So but like a ruby rose like she's on there.

Yeah, go ahead, man stranger, just a good looking man on the streets.

Hey, I've been following your podcast and I really admire you.

You're beautiful and everything.

Like, uh, like you see that movie?

Yeah, I love Pretty Woman, That's one of my favorite.

But in a different way, I just want to million just to sleep.

That's crazy because how to cut your no, because you know how I feel.

But have you ever seen the movie?

Have you ever seen the movie where it's the couple and they go to that house with the fam the man who's really rich, and he says, I propose a deal for one night.

I want you and I'll give you like a million dollars.

And she goes back to her husband and the husband's like, do it, like he's thirst do it.

You'll do it like we need the money or whatever, just one night?

Who cares?

I forgot the name.

And then she goes and does it.

But then there's.

Always strings attached.

My dad always taught me, listen, there's always gonna be strings attached.

I remember a man bought me like a red bottom when red bottoms was like so cracking and expensive.

And I was such a young I was young.

I was like seventeen, eighteen years old, and I came home and I showed my dad and he was just like, what, like a man who's doing that for you?

I hope you know what that means?

Like there are strings attached.

That he's not just buying those shoes for two twenty one hundred dollars And this is a long time ago, Like no, Like so there's always whatever you do, there's a price to pay, whether it's a financial price or something else, a piece of your souil, your heart, your spirit, You're gonna pay something maybe, So like I don't want to like play them type of games and them lifestyles are is really dark, like that pouring the world and them strippers, Like it's a dark lifestyle.

Like I had a homegrowl in Atlanta who was a stripper, one of the most popping strippers at on Ex Strip club and she lived in a hotel like but a crazy one and like with.

A sun and like it's just it's too much, Like I don't like that lifestyle.

It's just dark, and then you're what do you think them strippers are also doing other things, like you're not just stripping.

Now a man's gonna come in there.

Hey, I'll give you ten thousand for the night to do this.

Then you're doing that, and then who knows what else is happening And I'm not living like that.

Yeah, that's scary.

What if a woman came up to you right now and was like, Hey, Paul Pierce, I love you down, I'm such a fan of yours.

I'll give you twenty million right now.

I'll give it for one get a cracket, I need everything, but I could do anything.

How long she get, she gets one night and she could do anything she wants to you.

I'm just saying, like she gets cracked.

In the exit hole.

No, we ain't doing all that.

Non't, don't, don't anything.

Okay, So no without that, without that, without that, but anything else?

What do you mean anything else?

Though it's gotta be you know, we're.

Not saying that part no exit hal thing like twenty mili right now.

You come with me, no questions like no, give me your phone, turn it off because.

I don't want no one to know where we're going.

Get in right now.

The car is right here, right there.

Yeah, twenty mil.

She's about eighty years old.

Run run that.

See that's the thing.

About man, Roll something up, run that.

You know what?

You know what's crazy?

I want to ask you a question.

This is the thing.

Men are so different.

That's why men are always Like if I was a woman, I would do this right, But let.

Me tell you.

What's the scariest thing you have to think about on a date, like on your first day, Like, what's the craziest thing, like the scariest thing that would happen?

I think for a man getting set.

Up, okay, getting ribbed killed from a woman, Like getting set up by a woman.

That's a good one.

Okay, Yeah, so women have so many worries more than that on a first day.

Or meeting up with the man.

Yeah you do.

You know, you're right, you're right.

But what Okay, we're getting raped before you're getting killed.

You don't think that that's crazy, Like getting all these things drugged, raped, killed, Like that's.

Worse than just getting ribbed or killed.

I'd rather just get robbed and killed because then I'm not getting raped to you don't think that that's.

Worse to get raped before you're a man.

You don't know about being raped as a man, like maybe you do, like men know about that.

I'm not going to take that away from man.

No, no, but man man.

As women, we have to fear way more things than man when it comes to being around man.

When it comes to like you can't even like go walking at a certain time at night, you can't go running like men have the freedom to do a lot of other things that women don't have the.

Freedom to do.

What type of women already talking about?

Does that matter?

What demographics?

Does this happen?

This of thing's happened to.

Like I can't go do some of those things.

What like you can't go running and walking at night?

Like I can't hill?

Do you want to go walking and running at night?

Okay, I'm done with this convo with you doing today?

Be smart?

My point is is even if it's not night, it gets dark early.

It could be five o'clock and I want to go walk to the store really quick.

I want to go do something outside.

Like you have to live in much more fear all the time.

I have to look behind my back.

I'm scared because I can't protect myself against a man one time.

I was in traffic.

You know that, don't do those things.

Yeah, but there are some things.

There's some things that you can't control.

I was in traffic one day and a man opened my back door and sat in my car and was crazy a psycho.

Man.

No, I was in my car.

Goodbye.

What you talking?

I'm trying to figure out what you're talking about.

You said you was in your car and a man jumped in your back shot.

Yes, lock your goddamn doors.

Yeah, okay, driving, what's your damn problem?

Think about I do just walked to the house.

Lock your goddamn door at home?

What's your problem?

What's wrong with you?

Females?

Door?

I lock my that's not your cruise.

I have awareness and a lot of women awareness.

Me too, me too, driving down the street?

My doors?

What if it's just an accident that your door wasn't like like it was just literally a fluke.

I had just hopped into my car and got out and boom.

I just didn't lock my door right.

Away, So you jumped in the car, jump right in.

Goodbye.

I'm not I'm not.

I'm going to move forward.

I have some so if anyone tries to run up, I have some don't try me because I'm not just loose out here.

I am protected.

I'm protected.

He did, he did.

I was Monica and he was crazy.

It was crazy.

I was on Santa Monica.

I had just got out.

Jump in the car.

He jumped in the car.

And literally I was like, oh my god, are you okay?

And because he was calm, yeah, because I'm not going to panic under pressure, Like I've been through a lot of crazy situations, so I know how to be calm.

And I'm like, what was going on?

Because he's like he's like a crackhead.

So I'm like, I'm nervous because first of all, you smell.

I don't want you to touch me, and I just don't want you to do anything to me.

So I'm just like, are you good?

Do you need me to take you somewhere?

Like I was like, all right, well, I'm gonna pull over and we're gonna get you somewhere.

And he was like all right, so you was driving.

Yeah, So he was in the middle of traffic, jumps in and then you were just calm.

Like it's everything okay.

Yeah, I was.

You're supposed to be like, you're supposed to cause a scene.

You a woman, you gotta cause a scene.

You gotta make people aware that something at right right now when you in this traffic as a woman.

This is my advice.

If something you uncomfortable with something, you gotta cause a scene to what now, eyes is looking?

You got people looking.

Everyone was already looking.

They already do.

Everyone was looking.

They saw no they saw him jump in, and I was looking like the person no.

One can might have thought you was picking them out.

Nobody cared like you got to cause a scene.

You gotta be like, hey.

This guy.

The thing about causing a scene is I didn't want him to react to me causing a scene.

He was was sporadic.

You gotta jump that damn car.

I'm teaching you, just as life, jump on the car because what if he jump behind you, he could like slash you.

That's what I'm saying.

I was gone, you gotta jump out.

What if I caused the scene and then he did something and it like made him react to jump out the car and yell immediate, okay, I'll do that next time.

That, ladies, that's what we have to do.

What are lies that all black people tell?

Black people always tell like what's the lie that black people always tell?

Oh, that's easy, I'm on my way.

Oh my god, I'll be there at fifteen.

I mean the fifteen a all right, So fifteen means thirty forty five.

If you like it, I love it.

Right, I'll be there.

I'm on my way.

I'm not sleeping.

I'm just resting my eyes.

Why would I lie?

You know what I'm saying.

Call me if you need anything.

I'm praying for you.

I'm gonna call you right back.

I'm you right.

My hair was long till my mama gave me a purp.

I'm crying.

That's a funny thing.

Anyway.

So Young Jeezy was on a podcast with TD Jake's Bishop TD Jakes, and he was basically saying that he feels like, you know, obviously he was married and he went through a divorce.

Okay, he was married and he went through divorce, and he feels like the key to a healthy marriage is to be friends first.

Do you agree with that?

He feels like he didn't do that with his last marriage.

Now he's divorced, and he's like, I feel like, if the foundation of a good.

Marriage is to have a friendship with that person, I.

Think so, I think that's a good foundation to have.

Yeah, it sounds, it sounds, you know, but like how long we I mean, you know, it's it's difficult because you know what I'm saying.

Yeah, maybe that's because a lot like truthfully, a lot of relationships are start sexual and it's built on sex.

And that's not good though.

That's like, I feel like ninety percent of relationships are built on set.

But I think that that's the problem.

That's what he's saying.

He's like, I built my relationships like that and they were falling apart because we didn't get to know each other and have the foundation.

I just think when you're in relationships, you got to figure out what works for you.

That's what works for you.

You know, that's the worse for you.

And whether it's built on sex, which it's built on friendship, it's still end, like you don't want it to end, you know, So you know whatever, just mentally and physically you feel like it's the right thing that you feel like gonna have a great foundation long run, then you gotta do.

That, okay, and then one last thing and then we're gonna wrap it up.

Poorsia Williams who recently came out with in a lesbian relationship.

She said successful women attract jealous men who want to tear us down.

Do you agree with that?

Say that successful women attract jealous men who want to tear us down, dim our light, and make us feel like less than And basically, I mean she's in.

That, she's in that she's a successful black woman.

Yeah, and you know.

She's probably feeling that, you know what I'm saying.

So I really don't know how I feel about that.

I feel like it's a shame.

I just feel like success, it doesn't even have to be a woman.

I think people try to tear you down when you're successful.

Anyway, that's true, you know, it has no color.

But do you feel like if you're with a woman in a relationship and you're successful a woman, and we'll be like trying to tear you down?

That don't even sound right?

Why are you trying to tell me down?

If if I were together?

That's what she's saying when a relationship, men get with women who are successful and they try to dim their light and tear them down.

Oh damn.

I wouldn't even know how to speak on that, like, because I'll be trying to uplift you.

I'll be proud of you, like because you do a lot of a lot of successful men don't don't get with successful women.

Yeah, you know, so like maybe the man is not successful and she is and he's.

Trying to loan because you want him.

And it's messing with his ego.

That's what it happens, you know what I'm saying.

So he like, you know, instead of trying to uplift her and be like be proud of her and try to take her to the next level, you got to be like you you on some jealousy shit really, like which is weak.

That's a week emotion.

That's a week and it doesn't mean it doesn't mean that the man is not successful.

Because I was with I'll never forget this.

My ex told me years and years ago.

I was like, I think I want to start a podcast because people always tell me like I have a voice and I talk.

And he looked me dead in the face and was like, you should never have a podcast.

Like no, he literally told me, swear to god, I'll never get this moment.

He was like, you honestly, like you know, like you're smart, but like sometimes like I don't know how smart you are, and like, if someone asked you a question, I wouldn't want you to be embarrassed because you don't know how to respond.

Like I just think I don't want you to look stupid, like people train for this, You're just not meant for that type of thing.

And I literally was like damn okay, and I really was like okay, and I didn't do it at that time.

Timing is everything, but people do that.

I think some men and women that go both ways, they don't want you to be bigger than them.

That's what it is, one hundred percent because if I keep you here, you need me and you're depending on me.

So if I know you have something and.

A gift and you start to show that to the world, you can go past me.

And I don't like that.

That's what it is.

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