What do you feel like is the foulest thing that you've ever done on a date?

We got into some type of argument for some reason, and I was like, what we like?

It got to the point I was just like, get out in the middle of downtown.

That's a grown woman.

You shouldn't be shaving your coo.

You ain't never had somebody like maybe I'm moaning.

I'm oh, yes, you.

Know, I'm getting myself going.

It needs you to be doing all of that shut up quiet used to get to talk and doing all that shut up.

You messing up my content.

You just want someone to be What if she's like, oh, yes, daddy, shut.

Up, I got this.

What what's your preferred choice?

Lord, this is gonna go a little too extra.

Would you get into a relationship with an AI companion?

It depends on its hitting.

You walked in.

It was the middle of it, like who are you?

Damn God, damn you walked in.

He just make it sound effects what you're doing.

Whoa.

It would just be like, damn, you don't even do all that we have.

This is the taking over the game, all right, everybody, welcome to truth after dark.

Do you think that men or women are more toxic.

Hello, beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Truth After Dark.

I'm your host, our Fairaday Truth in the building.

Are you feeling tonight?

Good?

What's up?

What's what's up?

So a lot going on?

Huh yeah, it was your birthday.

Yeah.

How you feeling now that you really cooked?

Really cut?

I'm really cook Damn.

I don't think men get cut.

I don't either.

Seventy even they could still get ship cracking after seventy.

Man, don't have that expiration date.

H yeah, my boy, appatinos still having babies.

Yeah, like eighty something.

They be doing the big One.

Man be popping Belichick popping.

Lord.

Okay, what's going on?

So let's get into it.

So Lebron was just on his wife's pod and he said that there's a lot of ruthless ass bitches.

That's his words.

Exactly who do manty?

Do you agree ruthless man?

Of course I agree with that man, because women are way more ruthless at like, like, this is the thing.

Women be out here setting dudes up, getting them robbed, getting them killed, doing all type of giving all type of traps out Men don't do that to females.

You know what, I'm saying, so when you say ruthless, it's an evil world and girls sometimes some women have just a one track mind.

I'm gonna get this dude set up.

I'm gonna try to get him child support, robbed things like, we gotta look out for all types of shit, like for real, you really gotta be careful and really vet the person that you trying to hang out with.

You know, everything can be all good and dandy.

The next thing you know, you're getting robbed.

You know what I'm saying.

That happens a lot.

That happens a lot, and that's just I mean, men don't do that.

Men don't do that to other two women.

You know, women are out here doing shit like that, and it's just man, I mean, I don't know if he meant it in that type of context or you know, like I've seen it in divorces where the woman tries to take everything he gave her a life and women be trying to take it all like damn, you know, where did the love go at some point?

You know, it's just like them.

I think there's things like that.

It's kind of ruthless.

It's like when you try to it's almost like trying to strip a man down to it just naked, bare knuckles, like how they do you in jail?

Damn.

I mean I'm just saying.

I mean, that's.

Over cough in there.

Do you do you think that women or men are who's quicker to be able to like turn off their feelings and go cold?

Do you think it's women or men?

It's man?

I mean no, no, no, hell now it's always women, you think women.

I feel like women are more emotional, harder, like if I love someone, I can't just be like I'm turning off my feelings and I'm going.

Cold cold Damn.

I think hmmm, I don't know, because the get back is always because of the man.

I feel like, what.

You mean to get back, like getting back together, it's because the man.

Is initiating all the getbacks.

I think we do all the get back, But.

Is it because the man is doing the wronging and that's why he happy to do all the getbacks?

I mean, it don't matter who do all the wrong time heals all.

But it's just like men are doing the get back because they're the ones dogging the women most of the time, don't you think.

And that's because what is the woman going to be doing to get back, but you're the one who fucked up.

That don't make sense.

I'm begging to get you back, but you gated up me yesterday, like of course you're going to do the get back.

I think women cheat more than me, and I still have not seen that statistically.

I do think that men get caught more because men are more sloppy.

They change the thing because men don't look as hard as women too, unless you just obvious signs like you know, not all answering your phone, like just weird, just not just doing stuff like when you just out of the norm, out of character, yeah, stuff that you do it you just be like damn and so.

But you know, men don't really harp on their like women do.

Yeah, but I think that it goes both ways.

I feel like with men, they hold on to things, which makes it worse.

I think at least a woman is just like we'll ask, will communicate, we'll have that conversation, you know what I mean.

And I think men harp by holding onto it, and then they create Women know what.

To do to make a man forget.

Women know what to do to make a man forget.

I don't know you know, No, I don't know.

Women know what to do to make a man forget if you did something wrong to him.

You know what to do.

So I'm good.

No, But men be bringing it up and try to throw shit in your face too, just like.

A woman does.

Oh, bring it up?

What to do every time?

You know, every time?

Okay, every time.

I don't feel like women cheat more than man.

I still cauldnot get behind that.

I'm gonna keep it real and I'm gonna stand tall on that in ten toes down because I have yet to see a whole bunch of women cheating, Like I don't believe that, Like I don't see a whole bunch of women cheating all the time.

Like I think women do cheat, and I think they get away with it.

A lot more slicker and quicker than men.

And I've said that before, but I still think that men might have women beat with that one, because men have more temptations and desires.

I think if a woman is cheating, it's genuinely.

Because she's checked out the relationship and she's no longer interested and she's just like, I'm over this shit right at this point, he's done cheated, He done did X Y and Z and I'm gonna cheat back, and I'm gonna be like, I don't see why else are you cheating then?

Because you're cheating because you never really liked him.

You just like the situation he puts you in.

Oh yeah, that's deep.

I never heard of that, but that's real.

I mean I've heard of that, but that's real.

How you put that?

Okay, So people are just in a situation because it's helpful to them type shit.

Okay, so youll along with it and still do you.

And still cheat the whole time.

That makes sense.

I could get her behind that.

I could believe that for sure.

So back to what Lebron says, what do you think the dirtiest thing you've ever heard a woman do to a man or a woman do to you?

What is the dirtiest thing you ever heard a woman do.

To a man or like do to you?

Like, what do you feel like is like bottom of the barrel.

Or a woman due to a man?

Well, for me, I think like if you take care of somebody and they steal.

From you facts, I agree with that bottom of a barrel.

For me, that's the bottom of the barrel.

Like if you my girl or something and we've been together or something for a long time or.

You still yeah, that's bottom.

Like you know, I've been able to get over cheating.

I've been able to get over like maybe even being lied to.

Yeah, but like stealing, it's the worst, I feel like because that's because it's just like we talked about this before, because I think it because it covers all, it covers everything.

Yeah, we never talked about on the show, but yeah, we have talked about that.

It covers everything.

Yeah, covers I mean stealing covers lying and cheating, Yeah for sure, Like is just cheating.

And if you're willing to steal, what else are you willing to do?

Exact?

Like that's dirty?

Damn, that's crazy.

I agree.

What do you feel like is the foulest thing that you've ever done on a date?

Like have you ever left someone mid meal or like just decided like you're not gonna word like you know, have you ever walked out on someone on a date and been like you know what, I'm not, I'm not I'm leaving.

Or have you ever decided like, oh, I'm gonna make this girl pay for the dinner.

Have you ever done anything of that nature?

A lot you've done that?

Which one?

Both?

I mean, I've done I remember one case I was I don't know.

I remember I went out with this girl.

He went to a spot.

This is before Uber.

It was like here downtown LA.

And then we gotten to some type of argument for some reason, and I was like we like it got to the point.

I was just like, get out in the middle of downtown and.

This was a date, this is a yeah.

I was like, you got to get out.

Kicked her out right there, and like it was a dark place too.

You kicked her out a dark alley.

Parking lot at the spot of the parking lot though, and it was like, no, Uber.

Then why would you go.

I don't deal with disrespect either.

It was something that happened.

I was it was like super disrespect.

It was disrespectful and that's one thing I won't tolerate ever right now.

And then uh, and the crazy thing about it, I didn't see the girl for like some years, and then I ran back and I ran into her, but I told her about it, you know.

I was like, you can't you know, and we became cool again.

But it wasn't like I don't know, like trying to get with her no more.

It was just like just cool, like I see her or something.

It would just be cool.

Damn cold that I didn't walk out on a in the middle of a dinner like I'm good.

You just got up and walked out.

Okay, I'm good.

I'm not feeling that.

And just left and everything.

I was just like here boo boom boom, here I'm out.

Good boom was said, Like what makes what was said?

Like what made you do that?

Like what makes I remember?

Okay?

So one day I went out, she came and some she was this our first day.

She came in a swiat suit.

And I was just like it was me and my boy.

I have my boy come sit at the table over there.

You know, you just watching me making sure I'm straight.

Yeah, And I was just like she came in a swist suit and I was just like, damn this, how you coming?

So I was like, you know what, I'm good.

And I got up and it was like, hey man, you know, get her.

You know, you stay here, eat with her, have a drink, and.

I'm out because she came in.

Felt like it was disrespectful.

Yeah, this is the first day.

You don't come in, O goddamn sweatsuit, like like, this is our first day.

This is what you think of me, Like this is week I'll take you to this nice restaurant and you came in a swist suit.

This is how you felt, like, I'm good.

You not my type off the jump.

You didn't know to like put the heels on and get nice for the date.

Like you know what I'm saying, that's like what like that that?

I'm like, No, I'm good.

I got up and it's like, all right, you know, my boy gonna stay.

I got a bounce.

Damn, that's cold blooded.

I bet she didn't show up in the sweatsuita can after that.

There wasn't no more day.

No, I'm saying, just in her life, she probably was like, yeah, I'm not she learned her lesson because of that.

Shit.

Yeah I'm cool on that.

Like it's just if you on the first date, don't come in the sweat the first date, I think, like you to know them and stuff exactly cool, and we didn't have a vibe going and you just wanted to relax.

But like the first one, like I'm coming with my bomb cologne.

I like shirt, I'm trying to look proper, like I feel like the girl should do that too.

I agree, and I think the girl should maintain that with her man, even like, you should want to look good.

There's times where you could be chilled, like but.

You know, you should want to be looking good and.

Like representing your person.

And I just believe that too in general.

That's crazy though you just walk down on her like whatever, Yeah, I was good.

I was just like, no, I'm good.

Damn.

You seem like you just be good off of any little thing.

Though that's not any little thing though, No, it's it happens early.

It's gonna happen once you get into it, it's gonna get worse.

So I'm cool at the beginning.

Like when it's right there, that's the red flag.

I mean, I don't know if it's considered a red flag, but I ain't feeling it for you.

You're not feeling that, just feeling that.

If we're doing it early, then imagine when you get comfortable with somebody.

Right you, Are you someone that's like when I'm with my girl or I'm out on a date with something girl or like whatever you want them to like.

Are you the type of man that's like they need to be in heells, like no matter.

What, that's standard, Like we're gonna start just heels and then we'll figure out the rest.

No, what I'm saying like, okay, so not just first date, but like overall, like y'all go out and this is your or at this point or if this is someone you're just dealing with, should they always be in heels when you go out?

It depends on where we're going, like if I'm taking you to the fair or the carnival.

Right, but I'm saying you guys are going on your dates or you're going out wherever, like dinners?

Dates are those?

Are you one of those?

Man?

Like my girl gotta be in heells?

I feel like this, if you out with me, you are a representation of right, You're an extension of me.

So when you're seeing with me, people don't be like, oh okay, I get it right, right, right?

You want someone to look that, but do they have to have heels to look that?

In your opinion, you better be looking goddamn good than that out of that outfit?

Better be outfitting.

Yeah, I mean it just looks better.

Yeah, it looks better.

I feel like it's it's that's grown woman.

It's classy.

I feel like, yeah, I mean I don't want you coming in no reebod you know, and no air Force was or some Jordans that's a that's what that's.

Don't pull up No, no Jordan's.

I'm good or is out of can wear.

Some Jordan's on any of the dates.

You can't wear Geordan's on none of the day.

No, that's my favorite player.

Like it depends what we're going though.

We're going to like the movies.

And like, okay, cool, I get what you're saying.

But you're like, if you're out with me, you're not wearing Friday.

We're going out.

I ain't telling you where we're going.

That's gonna be the test.

I'm gonna see what she doing type thing.

Right, So I mean, yeah, that that means something because you said in the standard, you know, because I'm gonna set a standard like man, you know, I want to look like think about this.

Women do stuff for men just like men do stuff for women.

Like we get the cars, we get, we get the clothes we get for the women, we get the jewelry we get to look how we want for the women.

I feel like the woman should do same thing that ye are you getting your lips right and your hair done?

And they wear these heels just because you want to look good for the man that you.

Mess with, Right, I understand women do that.

Let's do it.

Yeah, I think women do do that.

I think that there is a culture of like more of a kickback lazy style sometimes, but I think that most of the time, most women like to get dulled up, like and be feminine and smell good and look good for their man.

I personally believe that most a lot of women do that in my opinion.

Yeah, but it's some women out there that I might wear a hoodie.

I'm good, I'm good.

Don't wear a hoodie like just at all or just on the date if we go out to eat, No, not, don't wear a hoodie to like to go out there eat at night because this is our night to I want you like, I'm taking you out because I want to see you looking good.

Right?

Are you one of those like nails not done?

And it's like, this is crazy that you do care about like the particulars of things, like your nails aren't done.

I'm looking at all of your hair is not done.

I'm you're peeping it all you're clocking it.

You're clocking that.

Okay, you're clocking all of that.

You can come back to that.

I'm gonna see how consistent you are.

Yeah, you're clocking that.

Yeah, I'm gonna look when you know it ain't gonna be on some little stuff I can deal with, like the outfare rid Hills.

The nails ain't done, but it can't be all chipped.

You could just have load off.

Is crazy, Yeah, you just have shit.

Then we have a chip.

Now I can't.

I love to have nails done, but I will say that upkeep for women.

Women complain because they're like that's a lot.

It's not as expensive to upkeep a man than it is a woman.

Like your nails are and your toes are these days like one seventy, your hair is three something minimum.

You're you're you know, just like all.

Your going on like that a like once every two twice a month, four times.

You're not going out twice a month.

You going out more than that, for sure.

Just any one like twice a month is not enough.

People are going out here in it twice a month.

And don't you feel as better?

Get that hair that last a couple of weeks get that one that's go on that, get that wig, get that lace, lace crying that ship look good for a couple of weeks.

Okay, ship, come on, don't be doing me like that.

Okay, just every weekend, you need to get your hair downe three hundred, three hundred.

I don't think it's every weekend.

But I'm saying, like, if you want a woman to upkeep stuff it is, it does add up loki.

But then you want to wax, So a woman has to get waxed.

Just go get that that uh, that big shaver.

No, it's different because when you shave.

Shave that day you pull up, it's just.

Hasn't hit the same.

I'm gonna tell you that right now.

It's does not hit the same.

Like, as a grown woman, you shouldn't be shaving your.

Cooter, but you should know how to wax your cooter too.

You should not know how to wax your own vagina.

Do you know how hard that is?

You have to look down, get into the lips hot wax, Like, who's doing that?

No one is waxing their own vagina.

I don't know.

I don't know that situation.

Yeah, So don't think that you could just make sit up, like, oh, you should be she should be cutting your own hair.

That's easier for man.

Man can't do that, but you're still not doing that.

Waxing your vagina's crazy, which goes into have you seen the skims has the vagina thongs that have coochy hair on it?

Do you know that they sold out?

What are your thoughts on that?

Do you feel like that's fly?

Would you want your girl to be in that Gucci thong?

I gotta see them on They probably look saxy.

I don't know they coochy hairs.

Yeah, I know it's just fake though.

They probably looked like saxy on the end of some panties.

Like a little fake Gucci hair.

That's crazy.

That's crazy to me, Like who's buying those items?

Like a lot of women did because it sold.

Out and then they come off You're like, Okay, that's that wax.

It's really that.

But then what's the point, like because most men prefer like wax or whatever, so like why.

Do you want to see it that way?

Like different?

No?

People?

Do I know people who know?

That's like nothing?

We nobody he made that.

So it's like, damn that could look sexy just when she walking around with those on, and it just you know, it looks like it's a hairy thing, and it's just like, damn, what do you mean?

But you know, but but when you know in your mind that it ain't, it's just like, you know, it's just like when you wear clothes.

It's just like wearing clothes.

It's just coochie clothes.

That it sounds crazy.

And you know, she also has the bras that are like a hard nipple.

I think that's cute, but I just think that, like you, if you're wearing don't fool me.

You're fooling me now.

No, because you're a nipple can't be hard.

But sometimes if you have a supportive bra, you can't see that the nipple is hard, all right.

But the thing about that is if you're wearing a hard nipple, you trying you getting it cracking, Like.

Anyone who's buying that is trying to get it cracking.

If you're wearing it and then it come off and at that, they don't.

They're not giving that.

They're not giving that you Like, famn, I saw them through the shirt.

I thought they was.

That they was giving that.

Yeah, yeah, I'm like, damn you fool me.

I mean, women ain't gonna need to stop fooling me.

Y'all fool us too much anyway.

Yeah, everything, there's too.

Much foolery going there.

Y'all get the fake hair, nails, eyes, Now it's the fake nipple, like damn, come on, start killing that.

Oh and you know what else they have now they have skims has it and it be soort out.

They have the fake hips.

That's what I'm saying, the butt and the button answers.

Take me a AI.

I'm gonna just give me an AI robotic something since everything fake, might as well go AI when them robots coming out?

Christ, So, would you would you get into a relationship with an AI companion?

It depends on its hidden.

They make it to where stuff is hidden.

Yeah.

No, let's say, because you don't have to have sex dolls, I can turn off.

Would you get into like?

So?

Would you like, let's say it's a sex doll because they're really realistic.

That's talking.

It's talking because they are going to have that, because they already have them sexs and they have the robots.

So let's say they have it.

It's talking.

It's like Hi Paul, Hi baby, I'm.

Just what do you need today?

What do you need?

Would you come in?

Yeah?

Would you have that?

Make daddy a sandwich?

Okay, daddy will too.

May man think about if they had that after a hard breakup and you get that right in the crib.

No, that's depressing though, that is because then you're like, damn, I missed to me.

If I go through a breakup and I get around any other person that's like supposed to be like flirting in a vibe, I get so sad because I'm gonna compare them, and then I'm gonna be even more depressed.

I'm sitting here with this robot.

I don't have no combati.

That's because a man, it has a feel to it.

Feel to it.

It's gonna do on command, like you go over there, you know.

But so you don't care about like real emotion and real connection, then you don't value that.

Yeah, of course you value that, but in times of like depression.

You're gonna get that instead.

Okay, So moving on, Okay, So our girl Joy Taylor, she said on her podcast, if she comes to a man's house that she's dealing with and he doesn't have extra toothbrushes and stuff like that like she not, she don't love that, Like she wants to go over to a man's house and he has the items prepared, wash cloths, products, everything.

And then she said that one time she went to a man's house and when.

She was over there, he had everything.

And then he also on his headboard had an eyelash and one.

On the floor a strip.

Damn, So she said she loved that.

She was like, I like that he got bitches.

I like that.

Joy.

You know what, Joy?

You know what else he got?

He got extra panties, he got extra he got extra launch for you in case you forget.

He got extra heels for you too.

She like, down, but you don't want a.

Dude that's a whole player, like exactly.

You know why Joy, you know what I think of Joy.

I think Joy like that because I think Enjoy a player too.

She a little player.

Oh no, I don't know, and this is just me guessing.

That's my sister.

I love her, But like when you say stuff like that, I'd be like, damn, you know, you know I'm not even tripping if he got the eyelashes, because all right at.

Tripping he said it was her first day.

Now, don't get mad at me if I got something.

Okay, you know what I'm saying.

And this is what I'm gonna say.

If I go to a man's house and he has all these items available, I'm a second guess him.

I don't like that because then it's like you just have any woman over here, like you just have all this available because you have other women running through here, And I do not fuck with that because it makes me feel away, like are you just.

He might have got extra lashes in case yours fall off?

I don't even have a lash.

Yes, I'm just saying, but my point is is, yeah, you got.

The extra trooper?

You mad?

If he got the extra What if he got all the sizes?

I had a boy, he had an extra heels to his house, he had like all the sizes?

This is that's wild.

And what if he had like pajamas, like but.

Not just a man's shirt like no, because a man will give you a shirt, but like a like actual like little lugeride dress.

Here.

If a man has lingerie at his house, I'm cool.

But what if he got the tag on it it's still brand new, got just closet that.

I hate it because that means why like you have women over here all the time.

Even Joyce said it means you a bitches.

I don't like that.

I like, yeah, let me be clear of course, like I'm not gonna be with a man who women don't desire, because a man's a man is men desire me.

Women desire the person that I'm probably be with.

But the point is is you are just moving, slopping into me, and that means I don't know if I could trust you.

I don't want to lay up and have sex with you.

Do you have something?

Do you just all these energies passing through all these women and someone gonna pull up here, Like I don't feel safe.

I don't feel like it's a safe space for me.

And I don't want to deal with a man who's like in that stage of his life where he still wants to be a player, because there's nothing in that for me.

So my boy he had so he had all these clothes for women in all the different sizes.

Not only he's he had tennis shoes, he had clothes and what he called the closet.

You making this up?

No, No, I can't make this up.

I got friends, like a lot of money that do stuff with a lot of different girls.

I've seen it, and what is the closet?

What is So he got this closet.

He called it the Walker of Shame closet because he lived in a high rise, so you know, they call it the Walker Shane.

When the girl walk out and she missing one eyelash and the makeup all messed up, and she and her club outfit, so he got the fits for her to not look like she's going through the Walk of Shame.

He got like the hoodie for her, the sweatsuit for him, Like, so you walk out, you don't feel like you're walking through the Walker, the Walk of Shane.

And I was like, damn, that's crazy.

You know what's crazy?

And I'm not even trying to do this, And I know you'll never believe me because just for the last episode you said that I have a crazy list of men that I've been with, But I have never, in the history of my life went to the club and went out, met a man, went to his house and had sex with him.

I've never ever did that.

And maybe that means that I'm just boring because these women are doing that all the time, but I have never had that experience in my thirty four years of living.

And it's crazy that you will go out meet because I'm sure you've went out met a woman and you've had text with her that night.

Yeah, like how does that even happen?

Like she's just with it and you just know.

I think it's the energy.

It's not every time, like you know, like I said, I did that to a woman I was with for years.

Yeah, I know you've said, and then you.

Know it's just like, damn it ain't.

It ain't like something I'm looking to do.

But how do you know that?

It's just the energy?

And because this is what I've learned, You get with somebody who did that with you, and you may think it's because you're special, but then you find out later on, oh this is what you do.

Oh you do this like this ain't nothing new.

Yeah I'm the idiot.

Yeah, like you do this for real.

And so now now you did it to me, motherfucker, and you went out you met someone, and I'm thinking I'm special and I'm different because like I'm telling you right now, that's not in my wheelhouse of just things like that.

Like I cannot physically do it because I have to have a mental connection with you to have sex with you.

I really do.

Like, if I can't feel that, then I can't feel that.

Now.

Have I kissed somebody when I first met him?

Absolutely?

Have I felt that energy and been like, oh my god, like a kiss, make out a vibe.

Absolutely?

You know that the first he did he did he you ain't never had somebody.

Like maybe, No, I don't think.

I'm just playing with you.

I really don't think that that.

And then he was like thigh an inner thigh.

Road for show.

I think my thigh.

I don't know.

I'm gonna be honest.

I don't know, but I don't think so.

I don't you've.

Come close on the first night.

I haven't come close to having sex on the first night ever, But.

I've any type of sexualtivity on the first night.

I've come.

Yeah, I've come close to any type of You had any kind of sexual activity, Yeah I have, I have, I have, but it hasn't been sex.

Was no difference.

We're moving on.

So anyways, you do this because no, I'm not blasted.

I've already blessed them my business.

You've had a sexual something I've.

Had, I've had.

You do an encounter.

There's only two things that can happen.

Not on the first night, though you said you.

Just said the first night you had a sexual encounter.

That wasn't that sex, but you said it was something else.

What was it.

I've already said it before on the podcast, this one, yeah, this one, and it went viral and everyone still talks about it.

I'm not doing this again.

So anyways, back to what we're talking about.

Why, why why?

I don't want to get into that, but I very like, just get out of my business.

Why you're like so big?

No, I was a young girl once, yeah, but I.

Never No, I'm just saying you are an older lady.

Now you're an older lady.

Anyways, why do you think that you look though?

Still I am believed below me.

I look good for my age.

Like the fuck, I'm only thirty four.

That's really not that old number.

That's not old.

That's a good number though.

Yeah, that's a great number.

Yeah yeah, I'm only saying that.

Because you were number thirty four.

Yeah I know that now.

I know that enough to know that.

Now let's get into that.

And I'm thirty four and I'm gonna be thirty four for a cool little minute.

So guess what you my friend, don't have No, you can't talk because you will whatever.

I'm still thirty four, I'm young in my opinion, I'm not young, but I'm not an older lady.

We've said this.

I think that I'm not young.

I'm not young, but I'm mature, mature, mature period.

So why do you think that whatever?

Why do you feel that women are attracted to men who like half bitches?

Like Joy said?

Is it?

Because I think you already explained it.

You said, you feel like women like it's.

More of the thing that the women like men that are that they that's theirs that they like.

All right, I know a lot of girls like him, but he mine.

Now, well, you know what, you know what though Aisha Curry was on Call Her Daddy or some other podcasts, I do can't no, I don't know, but I just saw this clip and she was like, you know, my man, because he is who he is, gets a lot of attention from women and like a lot of girls and stuff like that.

And she was like, and it just is crazy that I don't get to have that same attention and I don't get attention like that from men.

She said that people like drag her for that or whatever the case is.

She said that before.

If you said that she don't she wishes she had more attention from men, and that she he gets all the women's attention and it fucks her head.

Well, this is the thing.

How does she know what type of attention he gets from women?

I mean it's easy if you're with a man, you know what kind of attention they get from women, Like I know, like you.

Maybe he don't see it, like where is he at?

No, no, no, listen and listen carefully, Like let's say Steph gets attention from women, Like where is he getting attention from our girls?

Actually coming up to him while he's with his wife or girls DM and him them and she's looking at it.

It's like it's like he's getting letters in the mail.

I mean, I don't know where does she see the attention from the women?

And because I'm sure like men are definitely in well, it's tough to be in a position.

Well, the thing is about being married to a high level celebrity, you know, class A.

It's like you got to understand what comes with that.

Yeah, you know, and it's not easy to deal with because as a woman y'all love attention more than men, you know, especially a famous man.

Famous men get to the point they hate the attention because it's too much to where we don't even like to go places, whereas girls want to get cute and at least be like, dang girl, you fine and it's good and maybe you're not messing with them, but you like to hear it, you know, you like to hear you know, the comments on Instagram.

Damn that outfit is then, you know, girls like to read that and hear that, whereas man we don't really care, like when you at that level, you don't really care, you get so much attention, like, well, I ain't.

That's her point.

But Carti b on call her daddy.

She just said recently on her thing, she said she feels like men respect marriages more than women.

And she said that men respect marriages because when she was married, she will be around celebrity men and they would.

Just be like, hey, Cardi, what's up.

They wouldn't be in her dms and they wouldn't be trying to get at her.

But she said that when she offset was married to her girls will be all over him because let me tell you what happens, right.

Women, when they look at a man and they realize he can be a committed relationship man, they want him more.

He's more desirable.

Oh, he's committed to her, he's willing to marry her, he's willing to do this.

He's he can be in a committed relationship.

Oh, he's more desirable.

I want him because I know that he can be with somebody.

But I don't know how it is for men because I've never been married, so I don't know how men respect the relationship or not.

So this goes back to our first segment where we talked about when Lebron said there are a lot of ruthless ass bitch, yeah, because that's the ruthlessness in the girl, because they'd be looking like, oh damn.

You know.

It was like that.

For me.

It was like certain girls that I probably liked or I want to holler at, and when I got married and they didn't talk to me before, they was like damn, okay, I'm pressing him there.

Yeah, I'm like damn for real, Like nah, because girls like the challenge to be like, they want to one up a girl and they want to one up that marriage to where this is the where the ruthless come in, like okay, I'll break this shit up.

You know what.

It's ruthless to try to get him and put him in a situation to where they get a flick with him or something in a text or something to wear, especially in the social media.

Oh yeah, go ahead say something.

Run them pockets, homie.

This picture is gonna go everywhere.

And also too, it's like I noticed this too, Like if I have a man, and even if I'm out somewhere and like girls aren't on them, and if I'm to be like, oh, that's my man, that's just gonna make them want you more.

Like that's just how women think.

They're just gonna make them want whoever.

That is way more like it just is what it is.

Like women don't respect that.

And even if a man's like, oh I posted you, like posting you or doing this or showing like acts of love just gets a.

Man way more cracking.

Like I've been with men.

Who got way batter bitches because they were with me, because they were like, oh, he got hurt and we must be doing this and he must be getting this, Like you wasn't even that cracking, and now you getting cracking women all on you and you're like folding off of that, and it's really off the strength of you being with me, So like.

Yeah, like that has happened.

Like you and man, it's like it's not flattering, like of course you want to be loved oubtless.

Just after you was.

Or before we're going back to this ship.

I'm just saying, was it after our doing or with.

I wasn't too eighty at that time.

People don't even call me by my name now, they just be like, to eighty you did lah blah.

So this was before that?

This is before I was too eighty, like god damn, So or after what that?

No, I'm just saying, so let's call yo too eighty nest, let's just call that COVID.

You had a COVID period.

It was during COVID.

Oh, that was during COVID.

So you just had a hiccup, you know.

It was like, you know, you had a pre COVID and then a COVID and you know now you're back, you know, so COVID.

You know, it was a blip in a matrix, that's all.

I can't even say what I was saying because it.

Was a blip in the matrix and now you're good.

I can't even tell you no mask no more.

You know you're good.

Why did I need a mask?

Because because like that, you need to erase that, like COVID is.

Like I feel like COVID was, like you need to erase that part of my life or a part of history.

It's like so much nothing you could do.

And then it was just like damn wow, depression lost jobs, people died.

I think it just fucked up that you want me to erase a part of myself.

Like I was still a human being, nigga, Like just because I was too eighty doesn't mean that I wasn't shit.

Like I was a person, a breathing woman that was still on the earth, dealing with people, loving people, taking care of myself and making an impact in society.

Like just because I was big, and for any woman that's big, don't mean they got to erase themselves and they're not worth living or being in the world.

Like correct yourself before I gets off the shelf.

Like a difference in society, Yes.

Because my energy of my spirit is always making a difference in society, because.

I what's the difference you was making?

I'm moving on to see you're disrespectful man, like this is crazy.

Food crisis or what.

Like, I'm so.

You you just taking food out of people both, that's what you do.

I'm just mess.

I had to go back to that.

Hey, we got to remind people your inspiration.

And you know you're in the gym three four times a week.

Now you had your blipping the matrix and now you cracking.

You don't share the story.

It's fine to talk.

About it, No, because anytime I talk about it, you want to talk about it.

Crazy I'm talking about don't.

I don't want to delete that part of my life.

That's a part of something that happened to me.

It's deleted.

But you could just you know, walk it up to the you know, COVID and say that was you know, you know that was like like like an NBA would have consider that the lockout.

You know it's a down year or two lockout, that was the lockout?

All bad.

I just you know, sometimes we got to get back to that.

Okay.

Anyways, there's a Harvard study that say men should ejaculate twenty times for a month to reduce prostate cancer risks.

Do you think that you.

Mean, what does ejaculate me.

Come.

Oh damn, twenty twenty one?

Do you think that's right?

How did they I don't understand how Harvard they come up with these numbers.

You always talk about these.

They just sit in the room, got to do you know.

He's just like, let me.

You gotta do this for twenty one days, my boy, and then we'll see you know, yeah, we gotta do this for years.

Now.

Now you have to do it for years, and we're going to sit here and monitor this.

Yeah, come on now, Yeah.

I want to know what these studies are about you, because you put me on to really realizing these statistics are crazy.

Do you think you're ejaculating twenty one times a month is realistic?

What does that mean?

Again?

To come?

So that means okay, to play with yourself or have a sexual encounter where you can, Is that realistic?

Yeah?

Man, I'm sure there's a lot of people that do that.

I'm sure it's guys that play with themselves every day.

Playing with yourself sounds cool, crazy.

I mean that's you know, you gotta keep you gotta stay keep the stamina.

Okay, I'm sure it's dudes that do the other day.

You know, wrong, so do you think why you're in a relationship, do you like feel like if you're jacking playing with yourself, if anyone is playing with themselves in the relationship, the woman or the man, are you offended by that?

Like, let's say your woman is playing with herself out using the vibrator on her own, like whatever, like multiple times a week or whenever.

However many times, is that like wow, offensive or.

Do you not care?

That's a good question, damn.

The reason I asked is because in my past relationship it was like an issue of like, you better not use your vibrator or do anything on your own because that's crazy.

Well, maybe a man be like once you just you know, save that for me, you know what I'm saying.

And then on the on the flip side, it could be the woman just like, damn, you turn me on so much that I want to do this and I think of you.

I don't know, it's a fine line between that, Uh, what is your rather?

I don't have no real problem with that, you know.

I think that if you're in a relationship and that's what you do, I would like to be present some day you do it, all right, so you would watch I would like to be present, like if your girl do that twenty one days, like the study say they need to do it.

I want to be president some of them days.

And I'll just be like watching a movie.

Like watching a movie.

Just that's not that's wild for a woman.

That's uncomfortable.

If you're not like getting into it too, then you're just watching a movie and.

I'm just watching a movie.

I'm relaxed looking.

And you're just that's like crazy.

You have to be like I have done that.

I'm gonna be over here in the it's awkward.

Like as a woman, trust me, you want me to do you want a man to like be like ooh something like you gotta have like that's fun if a man is like.

You want a man, you want the sound effects from him?

Yeah, like a sound effect, a rub, a touch, a look, and the ology to do.

What you do when I'm not around so I can see what you do.

Yeah, you can still see.

You can't use your eyes.

And if I'm not there, high are you getting off?

Why you don't need me to do that now?

So I'm gonna know you don't have to do that.

But I'm saying like you like as a woman, you would want your man to like at least not just be like I'm.

Watching a movie and then she's like.

Watching the movie, but like you watching the movie.

But he's gonna be like.

Okay, okay, because then you get in your head and you're like a lot of women don't come because they're in their head.

That's like the number one reason.

And then it's like for me, if my man is right there and I'm doing that, like I want him to be like are you turned on?

Like is it giving like what it needs to give?

Like I don't want to be in my head thinking that, so he has.

To reverse it.

So like, because if I'm in my mode to where I'm going, yeah, you know, I'm getting myself going.

It needs you to be doing all of that shut up, be quiet.

You used to get to talk, and doing all that shut up, you messing up my content.

You just want someone to be watching the movie what you doing?

Just don't say nothing?

So saying something is going to turn you.

Your woman saying something while you're doing that.

It's turning you off?

Is crazy?

Why whyet?

Like?

What is She's like, ooh, I love that.

That's be quiet?

You're turned off by that?

Like what if she's like, oh, yes, daddy, shut up, I got this.

What I think that's crazy.

I think that it is like for me, watching a man do that is a turn on for me, and I feel like it could be a turn on the vice versa.

But I can't have a man.

What you're going to be doing.

If he's sitting there doing that, you're going, oh, yeah.

I like that actually, and I've yeah, I feel like you you don't you don't have to say anything, but it's.

Just the act of just like I don't know.

I don't know what I'm saying, and I don't know if I'm saying anything or not like I might, but I don't know.

If he's in there, you and young man laying in the bed, he's like, damn, I just I feel like stroking myself right now, Like then, you know what I'm saying, don't do nothing, baby, just you know, just uh, you know, just lay there.

I'm gonna just, you know, rub on you with this hand.

And on the other hand, I'm gonna get myself going on to say nothing.

But what about moaning, Like okay, I'm getting turned on.

I'm moaning.

I'm oh yes, Like is that blowing you like that's turning you all, I know, because what like you just want someone to just sit there quiet and watch you.

Most men is like gonna be just like I don't know, maybe closing their eyes and just picturing him and this girl just like.

If they're doing that, but what if she's right there?

Why not just look at each other?

Like you know what I'm saying.

And also for women, I feel like met woman the girl do it, but I feel like, you know why it's good for the man to do it because I think that when a woman watches a man do it, it's like show me how you do it to yourself.

So then when I'm in there doing different items, like I know your motion, I know your rhythm.

So that's how like I've learned, Like you can learn like oh I know what you are on like and then you make a mental note and you're like, oh, okay, like just like you said, what would you do if I wasn't like the person wasn't right there?

Like you have to what's your preferred choice?

Lord, this is gonna go a little too extra, I would say that.

I mean, we did have a whole sex toy box here, so it's gonna be all right.

I would say that I'm a clitteral stimulation person.

So for me, my toy that I use is for the clit to risks and you vibrate on there and then boom, I'm gonna come okay.

So the question is, yeah, what's your choice.

That's what it is.

It's a it's a clip toy, that's.

What it's called.

So if I go into the store, give me the clip toy.

So I don't know it's going.

It's a vibrator.

It's not girls like the massage thing with the wall at the time.

Those girls don't like that.

But your mom you pretend it was a backscratcher, like okay, it really was.

I don't do the roads though, but it's like I do this toy.

It's so it's like this.

It has a hole like this, and it's like it's like rubber and you put your clip in the little thing in the little hole.

Damn, that's a that's a d at that point.

If you could put it in, if you.

Got the clip gets swollen, right, but when it turned on it gets hard and swollen.

Click.

Yeah, that's crazy.

How big is the clip?

It doesn't have to be huge you put it over.

You don't have to have a big clip to do that.

You literally, I don't.

You don't have to have that, and then you could just put something else.

No, it's not it's really not you Literally, it's the same concept as the rose.

The rose is just like I think, like a tongue.

But this has been my favorite toy for a long time, and you just and I don't use it like that.

I probably haven't used it in a minute, but like it is a.

Thing and it's like a little hole and I think it's like a little thing in there, a rubber thing, and you put.

One toy, feel that one that for the men?

Yeah, yeah, I've always wandered that a little vulb with the flesh in there feel too for a man?

Like is that cracking?

I've always wondered if that was cracking for a man.

But like if I walked in and my man was using that, I don't know how it would feel if.

You walked in it was the middle of it, like who well, damn, God, damn you walked in.

He just making sound effects?

What you doing?

Whoa?

I mean you can like it would just be like damn, you don't even do all that, but we have.

Like this is crazy, this is fire.

Yeah, that's too much because then now you're addicted to that more than you would have sex with me.

And I don't like that because it's like this is given a lot and I don't really love that, and then like it's just doing too much.

I'm not gonna be mad or whatever, but I just feel like, damn, Like even me, it's like I don't mind if a man does that in a relationship and does his own thing, like do that get your ship off?

But sometimes you'd be like, we'll save it for me.

You walk in and he got the sex doll.

No, I'm not I'm not doing that.

That's cheating.

It's not cheating.

It's weird.

But I'm just saying, if you walk in, what's going on.

It's not cheating, arguing, it's not arguing.

It's like breakup.

You're just weird.

So what I don't know.

I have to think, like you're strange and I'm gonna have to accept it's been out of town for three days.

Like, no, it's not that good.

It's not that the sex doll is blowing.

The sex dollars blow me.

I don't want to do nothing with a sex doll.

In my opinion, I think if a man has that, you're out of control, Like you are that.

But what if a man is like I'm a n inful, Like I have a friend who's married and he is like he has to have sex all the time, So like he'll be like, oh my god, I have sex with all these women in one day.

Like people have an addiction.

So like maybe those type of people need a little sex to all, like need a little doll that they could just get it off, you know what I'm saying.

Anyways, that was really after dark.

We got to move on from that for a second.

Do you think do you but this is on like brand, do you think that sex can actually save a relationship that's falling apart?

Damn?

Wait?

Can sex save a relationship?

Well if the relationship that don't make sense?

You know how, like when people are fighting and they have makeup sex and stuff, and like they.

Use sex to kind of band aid.

I think, yeah, but what are they falling apart?

It depends on what you're falling apart from.

I mean, let's just say you guys are just arguing all the time, and then you're like Okay, I'm gonna use sex.

Like every time we argue, I'm just bending down to my knees and I'm getting cracking.

Well, it shouldn't get to that point.

You should have been doing that to keep them from the breakup.

The breakup, I'm saying, But what if it's like other stuff and you guys are just.

Going through financial problems?

Yeah, like whatever?

Yeah, kids, right, Like.

Sex makes it last longer than they need to because the issue still didn't go away.

That's real.

You know, maybe it just extended to stay, but it's not ultimately gonna solve the problem.

If there's an issue outside of sex.

Yeah, you know.

So and then you got it's some guys and some girls.

That's just like, damn, I really hate this dude or I really won't ever be with them, but I will have sex with them, you know, or her like and but he like it'll be dudes and girls.

So sprung on the sex and that's it.

You know, the values go out.

You know, they have a whole other man, but they like having sex with they.

Ask, yeah, and you know who does that a lot?

Baby mom and baby dads because they're like, we would never be together.

We don't work, but I love the sex because it's this is toxic, it's fashion, it's giving.

Yeah, that's what people do a lot in.

That baby daddy baby mama's situation, and that's what you be having to look out for because it's like it's familiar.

You guys already know each other's bodies, you know what's going on, and then you're just like, okay, cool, like I'm gonna run that.

And to me, it's like if you.

Me, I'm telling you right now, if I'm having sex with anybody else, I don't fuck with the person i'm with because when I'm with someone, I'm very into that person.

I'm very like this is my person.

I'm thirsty for them, I'm like on them.

If I'm like doing that, that means like I'm not Like I can't have a sexual connection with someone that I don't fuck with, Like I just don't.

And to me, like to I never had sex with an X on some like, oh, we're just gonna become fuck buddies now because we like the sex.

Because I don't like the sex.

As soon as I don't like you, that shit is out the window for me.

I don't want to see you I don't want to look at you.

I'm very cut dry.

If I'm fucking with you, I'm rocking with you.

If I'm not, I'm done.

I'm very cut and dry.

I'm blocking you.

You've never had a situation to where you got somebody you gotta deal with, you know what I'm saying.

Yeah, the baby mama baby daddything.

I never had that, and that's the difference.

And I do think if I did have that situation, I really do think though, that I would be very cut and dry, like I was very clean.

Like, yeah, you gotta be cutting dry.

Yeah, the children, don't hit me up about nothing other than the kids.

Don't be calling my phone, don't be texting me a little slick shit, like we should not be talking about nothing.

And I know that I would be that way because I'm very much like that.

Like if I'm with you in a relationship, that means I'm really locked in and you really got me.

Let me ask you something, yeah, like is it what's the limit?

Like shit?

All right?

So say like an ex, Yeah, baby dad, let's say baby kid, baby daddy or baby mama.

Do you get presents for their birthday and Christmas and Valentine's and stuff like that.

For Valentine's Day, you're gonna get a gift to your baby mom's or baby dad's.

Are you mine?

Gone?

Okay?

So what about Christmas?

No, I'm getting gifts for the kids.

We are not getting gifts for each other.

That's out.

And let me tell you this.

Another thing that I always say is like there's things that could be forgiven in a relationship.

I think one thing that I couldn't forgiven a relationship is someone cheating with their baby mom their baby like or yeah, the mother of their child, because that's not gonna ever be I'll never feel safe because the union it's right there and it's always going to be right there.

So if you cheated on that, then it's over for me, like cause I can't ever get past that, honestly, because now I know you have to see this person, you have to deal with this person, you have to go around this person, And how do I know that you're not doing that?

Like, I'll never feel safe.

That's one thing.

Like I always say, like I'll forgive a lot of stuff, That's one thing I know that I won't forgive.

And I think crossing that line is like Why are you all buying each other gifts?

You should be getting gifts for the children, per your point blank.

And if the children are old enough to get with another girl.

Period, that's weird to me, Like it's period.

I don't think it's just about.

See people like say you single.

It doesn't matter.

Why are you not setting the boundary when you're single or when you're in a relationship.

Why are you crossing that weird line whether I'm single or I'm not.

Where Yeah, there's a line within the boundaries of what you set with the person you're with, your baby mama or your baby dad.

It is a boundary.

I'm setting boundaries with them whether I'm single or in a relationship.

Well, I just speak on this because I did this for a lot of Yeah, you know, I like God gifts for the mama so the kids can see that me just being nice.

I get that, and I respect that saying.

Like dog because the kids see it.

Yeah, but you don't have to dog them out major.

It ain't got to be a major gift.

I think you get them to give.

I think you get up.

Some sandals or some shit.

That's crazy.

I would ever, and if I was with somebody who did that.

I would be cool and honestly to I get Mother's Day like some flowers or something like a card, because that's respecting the fact that that's the mother.

Like cool, I'll fuck with you.

You're a cool mom.

So flowers is cool for Christmas.

I don't think you should be getting gifts for people.

And I think that if I'm with someone who's buying their their baby mom sandals, like that's always I don't give a fuck.

I think that that's blowing it.

And I think that what too many people do is they wait till they get into relationship to set a boundary, and then the woman is like even more upset.

Now, oh you got in this relationship, now you switched up, Now you had this?

No, no, none, we have boundary set before I'm in releft.

Like my cat text a text?

Is it about the kid?

You know what I'm saying.

Yeah, I mean that's crazy.

Yeah, that's crazy.

I think that's fine.

That's blowing me.

If you can't text happy Birthday, marry Christmas, that's just too strict.

You could be cordial.

You can have a fucking friendship or not a friendship.

But like, y'all are cool, but I think that you have to respect the things.

Like my axe.

He was super boundaried up with his baby mom before I even was with him.

When I got with him, it was an introduction of like, this is my girl.

She's going to be around our daughter.

This is the daughter.

Hey, this is someone that I love I'm gonna be around.

Like it was so transparent, it was so comfortable.

I never worried about nothing, and it was very cut and dry.

This is it, like boom boom boom, there's no nothing.

And I felt very cool in that situation when it came to that.

But I feel like some people they blur the lines and they don't set that boundary ahead of time.

So a woman is pissed because I'm gonna be pissed, like damn you got with this girl.

They all can't get no sandals Like I'm gonna say my little slick shit like we're my sandals now, Oh she's a hater.

Now I can't get my shit Like no, you shouldn't have been getting nothing because this is not that type of relationship.

This is up for the children.

Set a boundary.

If the kid is very tiny and it's the birthday, I would get a gift on behalf of the kid for the mom or for the dad.

But all that other shit is blowing me.

I'm just saying, you gotta say boundaries people, because they will cross a line for the show and next episode y'all having sex.

Anyways, that was a great episode.

I feel like we did our big one.

There was more stuff to discuss, but we'll have to cover it next time because we'd be chopping man.

We've been having some good little conversations though.

Hopefully people y'all continue to watch.

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