Episode Transcript
I'm so excited you guys.
I hope we can make a love match.
We're going to Glastonbury this morning.
Second date, up date, Jared's on the line.
Got ghosted after first date.
Speaker 2Good morning, Jared, Hey, good morning guys.
Thanks for having me.
Speaker 1Well, you're welcome.
I hope we can help you out.
Speaker 3Jared.
Speaker 2Yeah, me too, me too.
So listen, I went on a great first date okay with if I can use their name, with his girl named Ashley, okay, and we met at a bar for a happy hour, and you know, it was definitely kind of a little bit of sparks flying, you know, some flirting, and I literally had a great time.
And I've tried to call her twice and I've left messages each time, Okay, and I keep getting ghosted and I have no idea why.
I don't know what I did, Guys.
I was a gentleman, paid for everything.
Thought it went well.
Speaker 1Okay, That's what I was going to ask, like, did you pay?
So it's happy hour though, Jared?
Did you get drunk?
Did you drink too much?
Speaker 2Oh?
No, no, hmmm, And.
Speaker 1There was flirting.
You felt like a chemistry and a connection.
Speaker 2Right, No, for sure, this is what I.
Speaker 4Like to call deck the Halls season.
Speaker 3What does that mean?
What does that mean?
Speaker 4These ladies are only in it for like the Hallmark Christmas y kind of romance movie ending, you know, so.
Speaker 3He wasn't romantic in it.
Speaker 2I don't know.
Speaker 4Are you a like a big time lawyer in a city that went to a small town and went to a Christmas street farm?
Speaker 3I hate you so much.
Yeah, I'm just saying with hot chalcol Yeah you guys, Okay, how about this question.
Speaker 1You said there was flirting going on where you were maybe a little bit too aggressive with the flirting.
Speaker 2I don't think so.
I mean again, I you know, as we all get older, we learned, you know, faux pause and what not to do, and so I was just doing my best to be respectful.
There was a lot of laughing going on.
She has a beautiful smile.
I don't know.
Speaker 1Oh my gosh, you you actually sound like a great guy.
I have no idea why you would be getting ghosted.
We're gonna call her up, Jared, and we're just gonna ask her.
To be honest, You're gonna be listening in the whole time.
So if at any point you want to talk to Ashley, you can okay.
Speaker 2All right, sounds good, sounds like a nice guy.
Speaker 3Maybe he's too nice.
Speaker 1We didn't ask how many messages he said, a couple he might have left her like, you know, back to back, good point, like low key stocker vibes.
Speaker 3Yeah, fe Hello, Hi, he's Ashley there.
Speaker 2Yeah, I'm Ashley.
Speaker 3Hey Ashley, I'm Courtney.
Hey, I'm Walmart.
Speaker 4Jeff.
Speaker 3Hey, Ashley, I'm Savannah.
Nice to meet you, and we're calling from.
Speaker 1Kiss ninety five to seven.
I gotta let you know, Ashley, you are.
You're on the air this morning.
Speaker 5Oh okay, okay.
Speaker 3Well we do something.
Speaker 1Called second date Update, where if you go on a first date, maybe you have a great time, you felt a connection and there's chemistry, but then you get ghosted after that date.
You want to answers, you call us, and I gotta be honest.
Jared called us.
Speaker 5Oh Jared, okay, So let me tell you.
Speaker 1What Jared told us.
Jared said, you guys met for a happy hour.
He did say you have a beautiful smile.
He did, indeed, right, he felt there was chemistry, there was a connection.
Speaker 3He said, you talked about a palletha of.
Speaker 1Things and he has no idea why he's getting ghosted.
Speaker 2Okay, how is the date for you?
Speaker 5It was?
It was good, Okay, it was fun.
Okay, you know, definitely we're both you know, learning a good amount.
Speaker 3Okay, so there's good.
Yeah.
Speaker 5Yeah.
I did get a weird vibe though, because at one point during the date he told me that he doesn't believe in celebrating any holidays.
Is not really like I only celebrate Sinko to Mayo and Saint Patrick.
Speaker 1Okay, so it's not a religious thing.
It's not like a religious thing.
It's more like a Jared thing.
Speaker 5Yeah, it sounded like he was only interested in going to the or like celebrating the holidays where you go to the bar and like you don't really value like family or love or you know that kind of thing.
Speaker 3Okay.
Was he joking?
No?
Okay.
Speaker 5At one point he said that he said that Valentine's Day was made up by greedy women.
Speaker 3Okay, well that's offensive.
He has a point.
Speaker 5Yeah what no, No, Jared, that is crazy to say.
Speaker 3All right, can I'm gonna I'm gonna bring him on, Jared.
Speaker 1Okay, Jared, Okay, guys, Jared, is this I mean, honestly, you're telling somebody on a first date that you you only celebrate sego to myle St Patrick's Day and Thatvalentine's Days for greedy women.
Speaker 3Are you just joking?
Speaker 2Come on, Jared, No, actually, look, I mean, you know, Thinko to Mayo, Mexican Independence.
There you go.
You know, Saint Patrick's Day, I mean all admire the man, I mean spreaded.
You know, a great amount of Christianity, you know in Ireland and around the country and around the world.
But then you know you look at this homework holiday of Valentine's Day.
I mean, give me a break.
You know, this scrapt is completely made up, you know, and it's just for women who want gifts.
In my opinion, listen, if you're a good person, you know you guys are in a good relationship.
Every day is Valentine's Day.
If you're at the store, you see something that's her favorite color, you know, you get her a little tiny thing.
But like, why have to go bend over backwards on this one day?
Speaker 3Thousands of get.
Speaker 1God, you are a revolutionary Ashley, you really are revolutionary.
Usually the point I offer to pay for the next date, like we'll pick up the tab, is there any there is there any desire for you guys to see each other again.
Speaker 5I'm not interested in hearing that monologue every time a holiday rolls around.
I'm gonna pass.
I'm going to pass.
I'm sorry to hear it, but it's definitely a note from me.
Speaker 1I was thinking the same thing that, like, maybe reel that in a little, Jared on your next date.
Speaker 3I mean, I know we understand how you feel, but like so aggressive.
Oh lord, well you got your answers, Jared.
Speaker 1There you go, Ashley, thank you so much for being honest, and I get it.
A woman wants to feel special and definitely not being told she's greedy on.
Speaker 3A first date.
I got that.
Yeah.
Oh you guys, thanks for being on second date.
Speaker 4Update.
Speaker 2Hey, thank you,
