All right, you guys, are you ready for second date update?

Maybe we can make a love connection.

Yes, let's do it.

Absolutely.

Second date update.

If you go on a first day but you get ghosted and you want to know why, call us.

Dustin is on the line to tell us about a great first day.

Good morning, Dustin, Hey, good morning.

How was it going guys?

Okay, it's going well.

So you're getting ghosted.

Tell us about the first date you went on.

Yes, So I went on a date with Abby and I thought we had a really great time.

I took her kayaking down the Farmington and it was a beautiful day and I thought we had a great time.

I go kayaking all the time, and I just want to show her a great time.

I just went paddle boarding down the Farmington myself.

It is like that would be the perfect date.

Yeah, so you're out there, beautiful weather, Farmington water was great, You're doing your kayak thing.

Okay, so you felt like she was having a good time and you guys were connecting.

Yeah, I thought it was great.

I mean that was basically for the and then I texted her for a second date and I have been completely ghosted.

A Dusty, my buddy you weren't like splashing her with the water where you I know how women are when when women are around water, they're a different creature.

Some No, No, we just we just had a nice kayak all right.

Hmmm.

I don't even know what it could be that.

No, I mean it sounds it sounds like it was a great date.

It sounds you know what it is.

Maybe I think it sounds like it's something different, out of the ordinary.

Yeah, maybe she's not used today.

Did she seem like an outdoorsy kind of girl.

I mean, she seemed down to go for go kayak thing and then I think she had a good time.

Okay, but I know what's happening.

I mean, I do have a single girlfriend.

I always ask her, do you want to go kayaking or paddle boarding?

She's like, why would I do that?

Yeah, but you know what I mean, she's the type is not outdoorsy.

That's the only thing I can think of.

This is what we're gonna.

Do, Dustin.

We're gonna call up Abby and you're going to be listening in and we're just gonna ask her why she's ghosting you.

If you're ready to get the answers, We're ready to call Abby.

Yeah, I'm ready.

I'd love to find out and see if there's a possibility for a second date.

Okay, hold on.

That just sounds like such a unique first date.

Like yeah, no, I like that because I feel like the worst dates are when it's white trash.

I mean, that's what Courtney and her friends do.

Yef, I am not white trash.

Do not say that to me.

I am sorry, Abby, it is Courtney from Kiss in the Morning.

Hey it's Walmart chef who just got yelled at.

And hey it's Savannah.

No, Walmart called me white trash, So I'm not gonna have that apologize.

I will turn your mic off and kick you off all of this anyway, Abby, the reason we're calling, I know it's kind of shocking to answer the phone and we're fighting, but we have something that's called, hopefully you're familiar with it, second date Update.

You go on a first date, you get ghosted, we get a phone call, and we try to get answers.

Yeah, okay, you are.

On second date Update and I will just filll you obviously.

You know, we just want you to be honest.

Dustin called us.

Dustin said he took you on a first date kayaking, and that it was a beautiful day and it was great weather, and he thought you had a great time, and he's reached out to you for a second day, but you are totally ghosting him.

That's true.

No, I am ghosting him, Okay.

Oh okay, that was honest.

Honest, I respect that right up front.

Why are you ghosting him after this date?

Well, I mean it's kind of surprising to hear that he thought it was great and beautiful and everything, because I personally had the worst time, probably one of the worst things I'd ever been on, to be honest.

Oh wow, yeah, we I mean he immediately wanted to go well, so the date we wanted to go, well, he wanted to go kayaking, okay, And I had told him I had never done that before, okay, but he just like completely disregarded that, like he just didn't hear it.

And when we got onto the water, he just took off like he I don't I didn't know anybody could paddle that fast on a boat before.

But I was like, whoa, yeah, he took off, and there I am like spinning in circles, not knowing how to handle these little tattle things or whatever.

Okay, and I'm like fighting for my life out there and he's gone.

That is oh my.

God, all right, he's on the line, Dustin.

That is frightening.

She didn't even know how to kayak, and you just kind of put her in the kayak and sent her down the Farmington.

Dude, Abby, I'm so sorry.

I did not realize that you were so afraid, and I totally would have stayed with you and tried to help you more.

I didn't even realize.

I mean, he didn't like turn around and say like, hey, where is she?

I mean, I'm just used to like going down with my buddies and we just kind of take off and go and then meet up at the end.

So I guess that was my bad.

I'm really sorry.

I really didn't mean to leave you behind like that, did you really?

He really?

Did you really have no idea that Abby was struggling with her kayak and you had no idea?

Yeah, Like you didn't look back at all, like, hey, I wonder where she's at.

I mean when I saw her, I thought she was okay.

She seemed she sees she was a little farther behind, but I thought it was okay.

So I guess I just didn't know.

I was literally making my own little teacup ride, just spinning in circles there panicking.

Oh no, I can picture it though, because I mean, you know I can kayak now, but when you're first learning, you're like which way to the do I paddle?

And how do I go straight?

And I get it, it can be frightening.

I'm sorry.

That was really not my intention.

I really thought we were having a good time.

I mean, could I maybe take you for a second date to make up for it?

I would do as a second on the land.

Yes.

I was just going to say, as long as it's on land, both see it on the ground.

No like water or anything.

Yeah, no water, no boats.

I mean that that would be great.

Okay, all right, I like this.

You would have never known, you know what, you would have never known, Dustin if you hadn't called us.

I'm glad you apologized.

I mean I do think that you just weren't aware because typically men were just kind of into themselves and getting the kayak and go.

I get it.

But now that you know that's what happened, I am so glad you apologized.

And you know what, Abby, I'm so glad you accepted the apology.

I mean, this is a really cute way of doing it, and so how could I say no?

Oh my gosh.

And you know what, the second this is what we're gonna do.

We're gonna pay for the date.

You go do whatever you want, maybe go to a nice dinner.

I don't know, and go mini golf.

You can't lose each other on the mini golf course.

You know, you could do something like that bowling That so fun.

Yeah, all right, listen, we're going to pick up the tab as long as you keep us posted.

One of you has to call us after the second date.

Okay, will do