It is time for second Date Update.

We're in New Britain this morning.

Colton is on the line.

Hey Colton, Hello, Hey, welcome to the show.

I know you want to be on second Date Update because you're getting ghosted after a first date.

So tell me about this first date with a girl.

Name is it Jesse?

Yes, okay, that's correct, Jesse.

Tell us about the date.

So the date actually went really great and we have a ton in common and I really want to see her again.

Okay, but I'm not sure it's happening.

Okay.

We were like flirting on the date, you know, all.

Right, did you go to dinner?

Did you have drinks?

You like, what did you do on your date?

We did the whole thing.

We did dinner, drinks, and a movie.

Oh my gosh.

Okay, old the traditional dates.

So it's not even like it was a weird date where you could be like, oh.

I don't get it, okay, and you thought that there was flirting, like you felt like there was a connection and you were flirting definitively.

There was chemistry, okay, Like I was like, oh, this is going somewhere.

Hey.

It was easy.

Hey, Colin, let me ask you a question.

You didn't send her a picture of your junk afterwards?

Did you?

Because this happened a few weeks ago on second date.

Up date, that was date situation.

Okay, see at least he waits till the third date.

Gotcha, And that's also not a good idea, Colton, So.

Did you the chemistry is there?

Oh?

My god?

Okay?

Did you reach out to her after the date?

Like?

Did you text her?

Call?

Yeah?

I texted her and I was like, so are we thinking another date?

And then she texted me a literal thinking emoji?

Okay, and then went dark.

That's it?

Wait, the one that's like like fingers on the chin, like looking up suspiciously.

That's yeah, Like hmmm, so she was kind of like, let me think about it, and then she never responded after that.

Yeah, so I've been ghosted.

Okay, all right, Well we're gonna call her, but we're gonna find out why, because it sounds like a nice date.

I don't know why she wouldn't have followed up with like I thought about it, ha ha ha.

Yeah, let's get together.

I guess we're gonna find out.

Awesome.

Yeah, Hi, thank you, this is what we do.

You're gonna be on hold, we're gonna call up Jesse.

We're gonna ask her about the date.

You're gonna be listening in.

At any point, you can jump in and talk to her if you want.

Okay, all right, that sounds awesome.

Something's going on.

Yeah, for sure.

I feel like girls just don't sound like the think thinky emoji and then just like leave it there because I feel like that's either flirty or it's like maybe not.

Hello.

Hi, is Jesse there?

Yes, Hi, Hey Jesse, it's Courtney Jesse.

It's Walmart Cheff.

Hey Jesse, it's Savannah and we're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven.

I have to let you know you're on the radio this morning.

Oh okay, okay, so you're.

On second Date Update.

Hopefully you're familiar with the show.

And that's when somebody calls us if they've gone on a first date that was great, and then they get ghosted and they want answers, and.

That's why we're calling.

Okay, all right.

So Colton called us.

He said he went on a great first date with you.

He said it was like a dinner, drinks, a movie.

There was obvious flirting, obvious chemistry, and this is the part.

He said he sent you a text suggesting you get together again, and you sent him the thinking emoji and then you went dark.

Did you mean to like, did you want to follow up that thinking emoji was like yes, let's get together?

Or did you like ghost.

Him for a reason?

So listen.

The date was great, okay.

However, a couple of days later, I was talking with my girlfriend Emma okay, and Emma told me she knew him okay, and that he was a total pig and like, Emma told me that.

Two days before our date, she was out with some of her friends and he came up to her and he was like, you've great ass, and then like walked away, like I don't know that.

Just I heard that, And I was like, hmm no.

Okay, Well, I mean I've told Courtney her ass looks good and Geene something not what?

No, sometimes do you want to I would love it if you did it?

Yeah, Oh I wouldn't be offended.

Okay, Yeah he's lying.

I was about to stand up and let him say it now.

But so, I mean maybe he's like me where he's just honest, like he kind of calls it as he sees it.

If you go up to a stranger in a bar and you say that, I think.

I think you're probably right, Jesse is kind appropriate.

Yeah, No, it's gross, like like you come up to someone, Hey, my name is Hey, I thought you you're beautiful girl?

Whatever, Hey nice ass babe, Like, get out of here.

I mean I would like it, but I'm different.

Can we just bring Colton on?

Colton?

Hello?

All right, listen, Jesse's on the line.

She thought the date was great until she talked to her girlfriend Emma.

Yeah.

Do you want to say anything to him?

Jesse?

H yeah, I didn't know that you knew Emma.

I didn't know that you two knew each there.

So wait, wait, wait, So we're addressing the fact that you don't know they knew each other, not the fact that you walked up to her friend and said, hey, nice ass, right.

Because I didn't do anything wrong, because Emma does have a great ass.

I just it just doesn't matter who it is.

I think, like.

I hear.

To do it, not for me.

I think it's the fact that you walked up to a stranger, you don't even know her girlfriend, and you told shit a nice ass at a bar.

It's just the type of guy that Jesse doesn't want to date.

Am I correct?

Jesse?

Yeah, but if.

You saw the ass, you would agree with me, and it would be weird not to say something.

Okay, all right, well Jesse, I know I know why you're ghosting of Jesse.

You don't have to explain anything more to.

Me, Okay, I figured.

Just not not.

This is not like I usually offered to pay for a second date if you guys got to work, want to work through things.

But I'm guessing this probably is that a no for you, Jesse?

Or yeah, that's a no for me?

I'm sorry, all right, No, listen, don't be sorry.

I mean I thought we hit it off.

You know, I think I think you have a great ass too.

But em enough, I don't want this, Okay, I'm not going to put you any through, you through any more torture, Jesse.

Thank you so much for being honest with us, cold and good luck.

I hope you can find somebody that can put up with you being you like your rude behavior.

I will, I'm sure, I'm sure you will, and it's not gonna be Jesse.

So all right, that's thinks, but this helps a lot.

Thanks.

All right, Well, you got your answers, good luck to both of you, and again, Jesse, thank you so much for being honest with us.

You're welcome