Episode Transcript
Almost time for a second date.
Speaker 2Up date.
You guys were going to Weathersfield this morning and NICKI went on a great first date.
Speaker 1Nicki is getting ghosted and wants to know why.
Speaker 3Good morning, Nikki, good morning, Thanks for having me.
Speaker 1No, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2Hopefully we can get some answers for you.
Tell us about this great first date you went on.
Speaker 3Okay, so we went and we played mini golf, and then we went to a brewery and we like we sat outside and we had a few beers and we just like talked for like a long time.
I mean there was instant attraction on Like I thought he was like super cute, Okay, immediately all right, and you know, like I really want to see him again.
And then you know, after the date, I've texted him and I've reached out, like trying to schedule something to get together again, but he's not responding at all, and like now I'm like, now I want to know why, because like I think that it was an amazing date okay, and I'm like, what happened?
Speaker 2So, Nikki, it sounds like a great day.
So mini golf, you go to a brewery.
Conversation, flows did you feel like it was flirty.
You felt like a connection.
You guys were flirting back and forth.
Speaker 3Yeah, definitely, like definitely felt like good chemistry.
Yeah, you guys felt like really good.
Speaker 4Did you guys hook up in the parking lot or anything like that?
Speaker 3No?
Speaker 4Okay, no, I mean you don't have to have sex in the parking lot, but I mean like a kiss or anything else.
Speaker 1Just ignore him.
Don't even answer that.
Okay.
Speaker 2You know a lot of times so we always ask if you if you go out for drinks or you go to a brewery.
Speaker 1Yeah, do you feel like you drank too much?
Speaker 3Definitely?
Not like I had two beers like it's a paper.
Yeah.
Yeah, I kept it very good.
Speaker 1I was very lucky.
Speaker 2All right, Well, you know we're gonna do.
We're gonna call him up.
I mean, it sounds like a great day to me.
I can't you know, I don't know what would have gone wrong and why you're getting ghosted like this.
Speaker 1So we're gonna call him up.
Speaker 2We're gonna ask Luke just to be honest about the date and tell us how it went.
Speaker 1Are you ready to get some answers?
Speaker 3Yes?
Speaker 2And my thought is hopefully he just didn't get your text message.
That you sent, you know, thanking him for a date.
Like hopefully he thinks you're blowing him off and it's a miscommunication.
Speaker 1So hold on and we're gonna call Luke.
Speaker 3Thank you.
Speaker 1All right.
Speaker 2Well, we're in Weathersfield.
It is Second Date Update.
Nicky's on the line, and Nikki told us about a great first date she went on with Luke.
Uh.
You guys went to minigolf, then you went to the brewery and you felt a total connection.
You've reached out to him and you're getting ghosted.
Is that the gist of it, NICKI, Yeah, we're gonna call him up right now and find out why you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 1You'll be listening in if you want to talk to him.
Feel free.
Okay, okay, okay, okay, hold on.
I don't know what this could be.
Maybe maybe he didn't like the way she played minigolf.
Speaker 5Hello, Hi is Luke there?
Speaker 4Yeah, this is he.
Speaker 1Hey Luke, it's Courtney.
Speaker 4Hey, it's Walmart chef.
Speaker 1Hey, it's Savannah And you're on the radio this morning.
You're on Kiss ninety five to seven.
Speaker 5Wow.
Speaker 1Okay, you're on Second Date Update.
Hopefully you're familiar with it, but if you're not.
Speaker 2If you go on a first date, you have a great time, make a connection, get ghosted, you call us and we get the answers, and that's why we're calling you this morning, Luke.
Speaker 1Okay, Okay, So Nicki called us.
Speaker 2Nicki said she had a great first date with you.
You guys, went to play mini golf, went to a brewery.
Conversation was great.
You're a great guy.
There was flirting.
She's attracted to you and she'd love to see you again.
Yeah, okay, Well she said she reached out to you when you're ghosting her, and we just want to know why are you ghosting Nikki?
Speaker 1Like what's going on?
Speaker 5I mean, honestly, yes.
Speaker 2Honestly, I want you to be honest honestly, yes, honestly.
Speaker 5Like her online picture, like we met online, she's like nice long hair, and she showed up and like has like a like short like a men's hair cut, like a short hair, like men's haircut.
Okay, So and I'm just like that's like a deal breaker for me, Like I'm like, I mean, long hair.
I mean it's just wait, wait.
Speaker 1It's a deal breaker.
She cut her hair and it's a deal breaker.
I feel like that's aggressive.
Speaker 3Wait, I'm sorry you're not going out on a date with me because I cut my hair.
Speaker 1There you go, Nicky's on the line.
That's exactly what he said.
Nikki.
Speaker 3Yes, that is the movie insane thing I have ever heard, Like, I'm sorry, that's my hair.
That gross is shorter than in the pictures you saw of me originally.
It's not like I lied about my height or my weight.
Speaker 1Or it's fair.
Speaker 3Yeah, I was just trying something different.
I really like the way it looks, and you're telling me that that is just the reason I haven't heard from me that that is actually insane.
And it's like you're not going to look the same forever, buddy, Like come on, yeah, you're cute now, but like please, what if you gain weight, what if you lose your hair?
I'm supposed to just like leave, Like that's ridiculous.
That is I cannot believe that somebody would would stop talking to somebody over or fair.
Speaker 4So if I could say something on Luke's behalf here the reasons why men don't like women, I I will though, this is the reason why men don't like women with short hair.
One do like women with short hair?
One You guys always want to speak to the manager.
And two, if we make out with you, it's like we're making out with our best friend.
Speaker 2Wait a minute, how would you know what make it out with your best friend because.
Speaker 4She has a guy haircut, right, think you because there's no you can't there's no hair to touch.
Speaker 1It's like and women with short hair.
When I talk to the manager.
Speaker 4They are all karens.
Speaker 1You guys are all like, oh boy, okay, there's a big difference between a short haircut and a Karen haircut.
Speaker 3You're sitting app you're not helping.
Yeah.
Speaker 2Hair has nothing to do with any of them, both of you.
The Karen, the not karens.
Speaker 1Oh, come on, there is a Karen haircut.
It's not there isn't.
It's a personality trait.
Nikki.
Speaker 2I am sorry, Luke, you just sound like you are so superficial.
Speaker 3I honestly, I'm very happy that we figured out what the situation was because anyway, I am too.
Speaker 1I'm so glad we found out.
Speaker 3Luke.
Speaker 2I listen, I appreciate you being honest and not being a liar.
At least you're not a liar, but you could have at least instead of like you could have been a liar, oh lutely, but honestly, Luke, I'm sorry.
It's very it is very shallow.
Speaker 4Yeah, so shallow.
Speaker 3Yeah, absolutely insane to me.
Speaker 5Yeah no, I mean, you know sure, Hair and Girls is ugly.
I'm just being honest.
Speaker 3Oh okay, you know what you could have stopped?
Well, you like you not to continue?
Speaker 1Yeah, he's not.
It doesn't sound that bright either.
All right, so listen, you got your answers, You got your answers.
Thank you so much for calling us.
Speaker 2Nikky, and please keep us posted on all the dating Okay
Speaker 3Thank you, yes, definitely, thank you for helping me out