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Comedy Saved Me.
Speaker 2Part of what the show does is get people to see people in different lights than the way they You know, don't have to think of a ninety five year old woman as like this daughtering old whatever.
Like I asked her about a Paul and Oscarby.
She'd had one recently.
She's feeling good, by the way.
Speaker 1In case you're curious, I'm Lyn Hoffman and welcome to Comedy Saved Me, a brand new podcast from Buzznight Media Productions.
The creator of Taking a Walk and Music Save Me podcasts, Comedy Saved Me is a podcast showcasing the incredible healing power of comedy and laughter.
Today, we are so excited to welcome the amazingly funny Paul mccurio with one R.
Paul mccurio, who's an Emmy and p Vidy Award winning comedian who currently works and appears regularly on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert, That Little Show There, and he's also worked on the Daily Show, The Colbert Report, had his own series on HBO, Yeah Hbo, and his own Comedy Central specials and if He's not crazy Busy enough.
Paul has also created a successful Broadway show called permission to speak.
And it's directed by the legendary director Frank Oz, you know for movies like Little Shop of Horrors, Dirty Rotten Scoundrels, The Score.
He's the voice of Yoda and a puppeteer and creator of the Muppets.
It's amazing that you have all this going on.
Paul mccurial is so excited to welcome you to the very first edition of Comedy Saved Me.
Speaker 3I am honored to be here.
This is awesome.
Thank you so much.
Speaker 2This is better than better than working with Frank Oz.
That guy, Oh really, I got just hang you know, he just hangs on.
He just wants He's so needy.
Please can I work with you?
I'm like, Frank, I'm busy.
I can't take it.
No, he's the best.
He's the best.
Speaker 3He's like that.
Speaker 1Does he ever break into Yoda?
Speaker 3He does?
Speaker 2And I slap him when he does that really hard, and it knocks the pointy years off his real ears because he always wears the pointy eears, because you've.
Speaker 3Got to let everybody always Yoda.
It's like, Frank.
Speaker 2People notice the sometimes they think he's a balding spot and I'm like, no.
Speaker 3That's Yoda.
Speaker 2No, he's he's the coolest guy ever and so down there and crazy artist, creative like, mind like, and so to have the ability to work with him has been like really cool, really really I can imagine.
Speaker 3Yeah, yeah, Well.
Speaker 1I want to talk about that, but first I want to start a little bit back in the beginning, well not too far in the beginning, but what was the first moment that you connected with comedy?
Can you remember that, you know, the time that it really just cemented that was going to be your ultimate pursuit in a career.
Speaker 2Well, it's funny because there's two different answers to that.
One is like I first connected with comedy as a kid watching it.
There's something about like I would ask to stay up late to watch the comedians.
Speaker 3And then I go into school.
Speaker 2I grew up in Providence, Rorde Island, and I go into school, like tell the jokes that I saw on TV doing Rodney or whatever.
Speaker 3But I was like a class clown.
Speaker 2Like we had lockers, you know those lockers, ones on top of the other.
Speaker 3So we broke the floor of the.
Speaker 2Which would be the floor of the want the upper locker the ceiling of the lower locker.
Speaker 3So it was like one.
Speaker 2Locker and then I would get in the locker and I'd pull my pants down and my friends would open the bottom locker and people would see my scrunny you know, hairless chinchilla Italian legs looked like like a little hairless boy.
Speaker 3Anyway, Uh, don't throw up in your mouth.
And uh so.
Speaker 2I was there was something about comedy going on with me, but never thinking I was going to do it.
Speaker 3I didn't grow up in a performing family.
Speaker 2And then I started writing, and it was in law school and I ended up practicing.
While on Wall Street doing Igers Acquisition, I started writing jokes to Hobby and.
Speaker 3And I didn't know what was happening, like, but these jokes are coming out of me.
Speaker 2And then I mentioned Atlanta at a private function and I gave him my jokes and I said, I don't know if you need jokes, but I'm never going to use these, and he was like okay.
He really his head moved around like it's a Macy's Day balloon in the wind, like you just want to grab his head and go just sit still for a minute.
And it's like, hey, it sounds like the heliums like and so a couple of days later, my phone rings and it's this on the other Lene it's Jay Leno.
Speaker 3It's Paul there.
And I'm like, there's no.
Speaker 2Way jay Leno was calling me.
So I thought it was my friend David pulling a prank.
He goes, not really a Shamelano.
Speaker 3I go, David, I know I'm in the middle of a merger deal.
I don't have time.
Speaker 2He goes, now, it's Sheleno.
I go, David sock.
He goes, it's Shane Leno And I actually said to Jay Leno, you do allowsy jay Leno and.
Speaker 3Yeah, And he said, what's really me?
And I'm like, oh crap.
Speaker 2And then he goes, I want to hire you to sending jokes for the Tonight Show monologue and I'll pay you fifty bucks a joke.
Wow, And he did the joke.
About a week later, he calls me, Janey's Paul there.
I'm like, what what do you want, Jay?
I don't have time.
I'm busy.
Speaker 3I have a lot of friends.
I don't.
Speaker 2Don't you have friends in Hollywood?
I got stuff.
I go buzz Night online one, I got Hoffman online.
Two, I got stuff going on.
Speaker 3No.
He said, I'm gonna do your joke on the Tonight Show.
Speaker 2Tonight and I got together at our apartment in New York with a botish champagne.
He did this joke for fifty bucks and it blew my head off my shoulders.
And so that was the point where I'm like, oh, maybe I could like do this like for real, but again, like I didn't plan it.
Like people like ask me like, when you look back, were you funny?
I'm like yeah, they were like I was funny as the kid where you find like I go, yeah, like I was the funniest lawyer in the law firm, which you know, I know it's not saying much.
Speaker 3It's like saying you're the sexiest I guy, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2It's like, you know, it's not a it's like engineering you like my you like my pocket protector?
Hey?
You know.
Like so that's kind of the moment.
I think it was a combination of something going on with me as a kid but never thinking I would do it but clearly, and then being the class clown and then that joke.
Speaker 3It all kind of came together.
Speaker 1MELTD.
Who are some of your early influences?
Who do you watch in say, television shows, or well.
Speaker 2I loved like like I like different communities for different reasons, So I don't have like one particular favorite, but like Rodney Dangerfield for his timing and just how defined that character was, Steve Martin for his inventive miss George Carlin for like he could be edgy but also just goofy.
Like those were just some I mean Robin Williams because of it, and John at the Winters because of their like complete improvisation, like just grab a stick and like be funny with it for five minutes.
Speaker 3So I never really discriminated.
Speaker 2It wasn't like I never liked, like like even Rickles I liked because he was so outrageous.
Speaker 3The stuffy would say, like.
Speaker 2I was working on a daily show at the time as one of the writers, and Rickles came on our show and we were all like, oh my god, it's Don Rickles and he was performing in Atlantic City, would take the show in New York.
So like we said to his manager, Tony, of course his manager's Tony, right, and he go like a Vegas guy with the whole thing, and we go, we want to see him.
So he set us up like fifteen of us tickets and he sat us right down front, and he comes out on stage, Wrickles with like a tumbler scotch and a tuxedo, and he's like, he's like a like a cougar prowling looking right, and he stops and one of the guys and one of the writers, his name is Jimmerow, really skinny guy, scrunny, always sickly looking, and he stops and he looks at him and he goes, hey you you I'm a friend.
Speaker 3Get a mask.
Speaker 4And he's walking and they were like, yes, Don Rickles assaulted one of us.
We've arrived.
It's it's it's all of those things.
But for me, like you know, stand up is like about connecting with.
Speaker 2The people, Like it's always you know, you start out, you do stand up, you come out, you do your jokes.
But I started to find that it was weird for me to just come out and launch into jokes, like when you had all these people, it was like you wouldn't walk into a cocktail party and just launch into material like So I started talking to the audiences and then that led to like a whole bunch of other kind of stuff that I like to do because I just it just felt weird to me to go up and just go.
So I was at Target the other day and whatever, right, like, so I started going, hey, whatever, and then my brain goes all over the place.
Speaker 1Oh wow, So then you can understand women because my brain's always all over the place.
But somehow I always come back to everything, so you know.
Speaker 3You can connect it.
I can't.
Speaker 2I go like whatever, and my wife is like, you're in like, he's very calm, and I'm.
Speaker 3All over the place.
Multitask.
Speaker 2I'm multitask in bed, my dear romantic evening is making love to my wife, and I'm on the phone with my broker, eating Chinese food, watching a football game, and having a satellite EDIH installed.
I'm like, I'm a thousand shares song.
Good that tastes good, Honey, that's so good, right, there's good.
Speaker 3It's good.
Speaker 1Yeah, you're a multitasker.
I love it.
Speaker 3ALTI tasking all right.
Speaker 1So, not to get too serious, but a lot of people that I've ever talked to in the world of comedy usually tells me of these just really tragic or horrible stories that really brought them the yin and yang.
It's that whole yeah, making lemons out of lemonade story.
Was there anything particular that happened to you in your life that may have triggered you to, you know, become.
Speaker 2Yes, being the son of my mother, that's pretty much everything.
Speaker 3Being the son of my mom is like insane.
Speaker 2Not in a bad way, but in a crazy way, because she really she started this furniture business in nineteen sixty out of a tenement house in Providence, and we all had to work in the business, and my mother wore the pants in the family.
Speaker 3My father was like he just took a back seat.
He was like a what avertina, you know.
And she was like, so she.
Speaker 2Didn't have a high school education.
She could, they couldn't afford to send her to college.
She felt like she got screwed out of college.
So she's a very strong woman.
And so it was just like everything was built around the store, and I think that did have some impact.
Speaker 1You know.
Speaker 2I wasn't like abused or anything, but it was just like, you know, just insane stuff.
Speaker 3Like my mother.
Speaker 2You'd go to the store one day and she would lock customers in the store in the middle of the day and think it was okay, like I'm not making this suffer.
I go there one day the door because she has bad hearing, and she's very flighty, and she likes to do.
Speaker 3What she wants to do when she wants to do it.
Speaker 2So the reason she had her own business is she didn't want to be beholding to a boss, so she can make her own hour.
So in the middle of the day, if she wanted to go shopping at I don't know, TJ Max or something, she was just going to go and lock the store.
So one day she decided to do that.
And this has happened more than once.
And there's a woman in the store and the door's locked, and I'm like, how'd you get in here?
She goes, well, I was looking around to turn to ask your mother a question I couldn't get out.
Speaker 3I said, how long you've been here?
She goes four hours?
I said, what are you been doing?
She goes, well, I browsed a lot, She said, I took a nap on that.
Speaker 2So fa, and she goes your name, Paul go yeah, she goes, well, the phone rang and I took messages.
Speaker 3She took messages from me.
Speaker 2Okay, so you can never win with your parents, right, No, So I said to my I said to my like, goh, ma, you can't lock people in the store.
In the middle of this, she goes, oh, I don't know what you're yelling me about.
The woman took on that on that hope and she liked it so much she's going to buy it.
I made a sail and I wasn't even in the store.
I'm like, okay, you know I can't do this anymore.
Speaker 3I'm done.
Speaker 2Like so, she goes through garbage on Sunday nights, look up for good garbage.
Speaker 3She found her hearing aids in the garbage because they're cheap as you grew up in the depression, and they whistle.
Is that me?
Speaker 2You take her for a walk, like within ten minutes you have a pack of dogs following you down the street.
Just it's like, so, so, I think what happened, you know, all joking Asidbermen is, my mother was so dominant that you kind of needed to break out on your own.
And I think maybe comedy was a wait for me to kind of step out of the shadows a little bit.
Speaker 1You know, that makes a lot of sense.
I'm she left to go to lunch and lock the customers in the store, is what you're saying.
Speaker 3Yes yes on a regular basis.
Speaker 1I love her.
I love her.
Speaker 3Oh you would love her, Oh you you would love her?
Speaker 2Oh yeah, she keeps yeah, she's just just so wow okay, And then the other thing was yeah so she so.
I do think that there was kind of just that thing of like she very much takes over the room, and like, I think, what you're brought up like that, then one of two things happen.
You either kind of shrink or you try to break out of the room yourself.
And I think maybe I went in that direction and that's why maybe comedy was one of the things.
And creatively, I think it was more fulfilly for me than being on Wall Street and doing mergery deals.
Speaker 1Yeah, because now I was creating was fascinating.
Speaker 3Yeah, because I was.
Speaker 2Creating something like when Leno did that joke and all those people reacted to it, I think what And I took time to figure this out, and millions of I was worth the therapy to figure out like they I created this thing out of thin air and then they laughed, And that didn't happen with me.
Speaker 3As a lawyer, and lawyer, you know, you're.
Speaker 2Executing deals and you're doing you know, contracts and it's more dry, and I think there was something missing in that for me.
And plus, you know, I mean, look, the drugs on Wall Street were great, but not as good as comedy clubs.
Let me be honest with you.
Speaker 1Did they tell you that, you know?
You were They thought you were funny?
And while you're.
Speaker 3At the law firm, I really was funny at the law firm.
Speaker 2But I also was like one of the few young associates that wanted to do mergers and acquisitions, which is a very like intense time consuming all nights, and a lot of the young associates didn't want to do because they didn't want to stay late or work weekends.
Speaker 3And I didn't care.
Speaker 2I kind of liked I liked the frenetic pace of things, and that's what that kind of work is, and that's what kind of comedy is like, especially when you're starting out.
You're running around, you're doing sets, you try to get bookings and this and that, you're acting, and it's like, so there's something about me that likes that craziness.
Speaker 1You know, well, you have to.
There is not one comedian I've ever met that doesn't work their ass off all day, all night, but don't call them in the morning because they're up late.
Speaker 2Yes, yes, my friends would say, well, how come you're sleeping late because you're nine to five is nine to five.
My nine to five is nine and night to five in the morning, I'm doing shows and then I'm going out and i'm you know, I'm you know, breaking into cars and stealing mine.
Now, no, but really you really just a side thing when don't judge me.
Speaker 1That's fine.
I understand catalytic converters are very you know exactly they're they're sought after.
What does it feel like when you're really connecting with an audience?
You know, I can't ask you about me because obviously I'm an easy audience.
I love anything funny.
I laugh until I cry.
As you can see, I have a tissue because my tearing up your fan communities out there laughing you bring so much joy to them.
What does that feel like when you're really connecting?
Speaker 2There is like a zone you get into, like where you're just it's like having this really intimate conversation with a bunch of people you don't know, but you're on the same wavelength that you can even hear and feel them like reacting, and it can be about it doesn't have to be about anything heavy that you're talking about.
Like I mean, the other night, I was just thinking and I was I just said, I out of the book.
Speaker 3I'm like, how do the people make vacaline make any money?
Like?
And people started laughing, and then I just.
Speaker 2Went, I mean, I've had the same tub of vasaline for like ever.
My vacaline was handed down to me by my grandfather in a will.
Okay, have you ever heard anybody say this thing?
Hey, honey, I'm gonna go to get more vasaline?
Speaker 1Weine?
Speaker 2No, you could go through every bag of garbage in your town.
You're not gonna find one empty container of vassaline.
Speaker 3No.
No, So I don't know what that company's doing.
Speaker 2So I thought of that and I said it, and it just went over really well.
And then that feeling, it's like you connected with them on an emotional level and it's not like connecting on an intellectual level.
Speaker 3And a meeting or whatever.
Speaker 2You do a pitch and there's a thing it definitely and then when you're really in a groove, you.
Speaker 3Can feel it like it just doesn't matter.
Speaker 2You're completely your guard is down and you're just like this, You're just it's like you're having a conversation with them even though they're not speaking, but they're speaking through laughter or their attentiveness, and so that it's a really it's a place you get to and when you get there, it's like really special and different than like being in a meeting at law firm like I was.
And you know, people like the document you drafted.
You know, it's like, you know, people are not breaking out champagne or whatever, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3But like, I love that font that you you made.
Speaker 1That document was the perfect font.
Speaker 2Oh my god, that you chose Times New Roman.
I would have gone Ariel for you, mercurio.
You're going to be a partner.
You are going to be a partner.
No, there's a lot of guts going with the Times New and you went with the twelve point.
I would have gone fourteen point.
Good for you, Good for you.
Speaker 1Do you think that it's there's something about Do you think there's something about it in terms of a therapeutic power, you know, not just for the audience but for yourself.
When you're connecting at that high of a level where you're just like you're in the zone.
Do you think that's like almost a therapeutic power.
Speaker 3Yeah, I think it's for both.
Speaker 2I mean I think you know, they talk about there's been studies and even in cancer like laughter helps cure people, or you know, there there's definitely you get the set and there's people come up to me and say, I needed to come out.
I just lost my father.
I needed to come out.
Things are so crazy in the world.
I needed to forget about it.
Speaker 3So they need.
Speaker 2It as a as a sort of a safe haven to just get away from things, to be reminded that not to take things too seriously.
Speaker 3And then that helps me as a performer too, and you know, like the in My Stand.
Speaker 2But then in this Broadway show I'm doing called Permission to Speak, which is about people connecting with each other through shared stories.
Speaker 3People have described it as like group.
Speaker 2Therapy because that's fun because I'm talking to audience members and getting their stories that have been absolutely incredible.
Because everybody has a story over the age of six, and if you give them a chance to tell it, they'll tell it.
And they're not being judged.
They can say whatever they want.
They don't have to worry about being overly politically correct, whatever.
We don't talk politics, but it's just this and it turned into it started out as just this idea to just another way to do comedy, but it's really therapeutic for people.
I've got these a couple of amazing recent testimonials from people, about one from a therapist who saw me in Florida and made a video testimonial that said, this is really important what you're doing in terms of being able to get people a place to kind of say what they want to say and get things out, and you should keep doing it and it's therapeutic and whatever.
And so it's been a pretty cool like offshoot of what I'm doing.
Speaker 1You know, yes, permission to speak perfect that you are going to help me segue right into that because I understand you have a couple of clips that you have from the show, which I think is amazing because really, don't wouldn't you agree that that comedy could heal similarly as all music does the same type of thing.
Speaker 2And I felt that like before I'd started doing this show, but I'm having people come up to me and say, keep doing the show.
We need a show like this now.
It's why Frank Oz got involved because he feels like this is an important show to people are making connections with each other because they're going up to each other after the show and talking about they saw somebody on stage and they connected to what they said.
And so we're all in our silos and sometimes it's good to kind of lift our heads out and kind of see how other people live their lives.
Speaker 3You don't have to agree with it, but like, oh, okay, that's how we lose.
I get it.
Okay, it's not what I would do, but I get it.
Speaker 2And so and the cool thing is in this clip will show this you can never judge a book by its So there's this guy on stage and you'll see, I mean, he's a hunter, and he looks like a hunter, but when you listen to this conversation, he says stuff that you didn't expect him to say.
Speaker 3And he's funny too.
Speaker 2And people are very funny, by the way, because they I think they're comfortable up there so they know they're not going to be made fun of it, and everybody's naturally funny.
Speaker 3So here we're just talking about he has a kid.
Speaker 2I have a kid, and we talk about, you know, raising a kid, and if you worry about making mistakes, and this is what he says.
Speaker 3You're very funny.
By the way, my wife doesn't agree with you.
Is your wife here?
That's the hardest thing about being a parent, always thinking he made mistakes.
Speaker 2Probably I know, right, you have to make mistakes, I think, do you think so that's how you become a better person.
Speaker 1That's great.
Speaker 3I've made mistakes.
We all make mistakes.
The definition did I make mistakes?
At least one right?
So that's when you first look at that.
Speaker 2When you first look at the guy, you're like, he's not going to be that introspective.
Yeah, And then he ends up being really introspective and then tops me at the end because my son's in the audience in the back and I yelled at my son, Alex, as you saw, did I make mistakes?
And my son goes yeah, and then the guy goes yeah, as you saw, yeah, at least one right, pointing at my son.
So he had the moment, and so everybody talked about him afterwards, and people went up to him, and I think a lot of people were surprised at how introspective he was and in tune with like the important things about raising a kid and stuff, And so I'm finding that people I think out there field nameless and faceless and disconnected.
But if you get together and you share stories, you realize we have more in common than we think, and we don't have to be so disconnected.
Because I'm never going to change your views politically, that doesn't happen anymore.
But if you're at the opposite end of the spectrum politically, but I can get you to see that you have something in common with the person that's at the other end of the spectrum, maybe you'll start listening to their politics because you realize, oh, he has a dog that.
Speaker 3Crops on the world.
I have a dog the crops in the rood.
Speaker 2He's got a brother who's got a brother in law who's who's an alcoholic or whatever.
And I got like, then you go, okay, well maybe that person's not the devil, and I'll listen to their politics.
So there's something happening in the room, because it ends up turning into like a giant hang like you know, where we're just you know, kind of exchanging stories.
Speaker 1Where did you come up with the idea?
Where did you get the idea to do?
Speaker 2It?
Was from It was from my stand up and talking to the audiences in like very short verse.
Speaker 3But then I started asking more and more questions.
Speaker 2And the more questions I asked, the crazy are the answers Because you were digging deep, you know, you into few people, you peel back the onion and then you get these amazing stories.
And and that's when some producers saw me doing it, and they thought that people were plants.
And I'm like, no, They well, how did it work out?
It's like, well, wow, you know, I just whatever.
Yeah, And then we have a set designed by the set designer for the Late Show, animation by JJ Settlemyer who did Beavis and Buta and All, then sl TV fund us and Frank and I.
So to collectively the team, the creative team has thirty three Emmy Awards and it's pretty powerful team.
And so we ended up creating this thing that's got stand up in it.
It's got my stand up and stuff and stories for me.
But it's about this one night where we'll never be together again.
The show can't repeat because every show is different, and people are like kind of letting their hair down and taking a breath, not worrying about what's going on the outside.
Speaker 3Well then just going like, oh, okay, this is that guy's cool.
Now that's interesting.
Oh my god.
I wouldn't think to think about raising a kid that way.
Speaker 1But whatever, you know, I'm so reclusive now, but that that's something that I would want to go to.
I mean, to get me to go to a show that that would be.
If we're going to be interactive like that and you're going to bring people into the fold, that's even more fun than just coming to see a show, because you become a part of the show.
Yeah, you're also, like you said, find out how much we all have in common.
It's just really the most important.
Speaker 2Yeah, And you know, and then you and then you hear things like I had a guy goes somebody and he goes, I, man, I just poke up with my girlfriend.
Speaker 3Why what happen?
Speaker 2He goes, So I told her not to shoplift at CBS.
I go what, He goes, Yeah, I go, did you say at CBS?
He goes, Yeah, yeah, she wouldn't listen to me.
He goes, I taught her how to shoplift, and I go what, he goes, Yeah, that's how I make my money.
I shoplift, But I shoplift at nice places like Sacks and Gloomingdales.
Speaker 3Now the audience is.
Speaker 1Like, what is going on.
Speaker 2People's heads are exploding.
He's not trying to be funny.
He's not self aware.
He thinks this is normal because that's how I make a living.
I shoplift, but nice places like Sacks and Bloomingdale's and Neiman Marcus and whatever.
Speaker 3And he goes, So, my.
Speaker 2Girlfriend's nagging me because she wants a nice stuff.
And I said, I'm not going to teach you how to shoplift, because you're just going to shoplift in stupid places like CBS.
Speaker 3He's not saying don't shoplift.
Speaker 2He's saying, if you're going to do it, do it at the right place.
This is so Now everybody in the audience says, like, what is going on.
Speaker 3You can't write this.
I couldn't write this.
Speaker 2So I go, what happened?
He goes, Well, he warmed me down.
I finally taught her.
Speaker 3What does she do?
Speaker 2First place she goes?
She goes to CVS.
She gets arrested for lipstick and a hand mirror falls me up.
She's in the back of the squad car.
Speaker 3I go, what happened?
He goes, I broke up with her.
I go where he goes in the back of the squad car.
He goes, I don't need this aggravation.
Oh my god, this goes crazy.
Speaker 2I've been and so so it's just been that kind of ride.
Speaker 1No wonder why they thought there was a plant in the room there, No wonder why how you can't you can't pay someone to have that kind of story for real, Like that's exactly exactly.
Speaker 2And then and then I try to give a voice to kind of people that maybe don't get hurt a lot.
Speaker 3Like we have a clip and this is a woman ninety five.
Her name is Lee.
She's from Florida.
Speaker 2And I like to talk to somebody that will because they've lived life.
They also don't give a crap and they say whatever's on their mind at that point.
And she was really great and was exactly what I hope she would because she had a lot of spunk.
And you can see I just asked her about how she met her husband and all that.
Speaker 1All right, let's listen, how.
Speaker 3Did you meet your husband?
Were the same homeroom in high school?
That's where I met my wife in high school.
Speaker 2Yeah, and you saw him, you thought he was cute.
Speaker 3No, we hated each other first.
Why you know, it's just you know, just you know, yeah, yeah, it.
Speaker 2Grows on it.
Speaker 3Yeah yeah.
Speaker 2She was going with really dating my best friend and then they broke up and he I was there already took me home, not like.
Speaker 1How do you how do you handle it?
Speaker 3That's crazy.
I just let it.
I just let it go.
Speaker 2My favorite part of that clip is when you know, she's saying, you know, the girl, you know, obviously her friend you know, broke up and the two of them got together after her friend broke up with this guy and she ended up marrying, and she goes like that at the end, like like because she there was like a sauciness to her, like that was kind of cool, Like she wasn't an old fuddy duddy.
And so part of what the show does is get people to see people in different lights and the way they think.
You don't have to think of a ninety five year old woman as like this daughtering old whatever, Like she had it together.
Speaker 3I asked her about a colon oscoby.
She had one recently.
Speaker 2She's feeling good, by the way, in case you're curious, good good, yes, yes.
Speaker 1Oh my gosh, curious mercurio.
I love that ye permission to speak?
Is it sounds like one of the most awesome shows that you would ever want to go to, comedy wise, because it's not your typical comedy show.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Speaker 1Let's wrap things up here first of all by asking you a question that I'm not sure you'd be able to answer, but I'm going to try anyway.
Where do you think the world would be without comedy?
Without the joy of comedy?
Speaker 3Wow?
I think I think it would have.
Speaker 2A lot of unemployed alcoholics who were supposed to be comedians and are just hanging out because they don't.
Speaker 3They can't fear that.
It's like I think it would be.
It would be you know, I was like, Wow, this.
Speaker 1Is going somewhere I wasn't expecting.
Speaker 2Now, you know, I think I think it would sort of definitely a more depressing world in the sense of, like, I think it's a therapeutic thing and I'm glad you're doing a show like this, and I don't think it gets credit for that.
And I think the mental health crisis that we're in would be much worse without it, because if we can get a series for a minute, I think people need to find solace through comedy that others are going through the same thing they're going through.
So like, if I'm talking about my crazy mother and somebody's dealing with their crazy mother, maybe they feel a little bit better because they're not alone.
And I think we don't want to be alone, and so I think comedy allows people to feel like they're not alone in their life through the form of jokes and funny stories and like that in what my show is doing, but also with stand up does in general, like I think that would be it would be a much different place.
I think there would be a many more problems for people at a much deeper level, and it would be systemic without it.
And I think we take it for granted because it's just always there.
But I can't tell you how many people say to me, like not even necessarily seeing my shoulder, Like I go to comedy sometimes because I just need a release, I just need a break, I need to whatever, and it recharges me, you know.
So there's a lot a lot of good that comes from it, and I think without it it would be sort of, I think, a much darker place, I think, And uh, and so yeah.
Speaker 1I agree, I agree, And thankfully we have permission to speak to go see and enjoy, and also check out Paul mccurio dot com.
I believe that's there's another gentleman by the same name with yours, so don't make that mistake.
Speaker 2Yeah, Paul mercurial from Australia.
He's an actor.
He's dead to me the same.
I had to change the spelling of my name because they have He got the Actors Union before I did, but like, yeah, it's Paul mccurio dot com.
He did, and he was a dancer and he like really tight clothes and people saw a picture of him and he had like a water bottle and he saw a picture of him and they thought it was me, Like are you.
Speaker 3Doing an.
Speaker 2You're oh gosh, so yeah, So people go to Paul mecurio dot com one hour, my last name mbc u rio and I got tour days out there excellent and it comes to you permission to speak.
Speaker 3Or my stand up.
Speaker 2But it's a great question about where would comedy be without you know, where we'd be without comedy, you know, and like of course there wouldn't be nearly as many comedy t shirts out there, and those are always hilarious, like a funny banana.
Speaker 3Like something coming out of the banana's mouth.
Speaker 2Come on, what's better than that?
Like a funny banana T shirt?
Who doesn't love that?
Speaker 1Thank you so much?
So, no, you're not.
No, I just I love what you're doing because you're melding things together that you wouldn't find typically, and so it makes total sense why you would be having the success you're having with the show and thank you, and why it's such a wonderful thing that you get to feed off each other and feel so good and realize, like you said, really, I think what it all comes down to is we're all much more the same than we are different.
And yeah, and we got a lot are.
Speaker 2More connected than we think, and we're more connected than we think.
Speaker 3Yeah, and you know, I guarantee you.
Speaker 2You know, you sit down with somebody you don't know, and within ten minutes you're going to find some commonality somewhere.
You know, Like I've been in prison, You've been in prison.
People know that a lot of people don't know that you're an ex con.
Speaker 3And I'm not supposed to know.
I wasn't supposed to say that.
Speaker 1Yeah, no, no, no, damn it.
Yeah, that's our little secret.
Speaker 3Yeah, I think that's exactly right.
Speaker 2So and sometimes I think people like want to put on a brave face and not admit that they need emotional support and help, and you know, so you can reach out to comedy in a way where it's not little literal therapy, but it's in a way of therapy for somebody who maybe wouldn't go to therapy, you know.
No, I think it's a great thing that you're doing with your show.
It's a really smart idea for a show.
So I'm glad you're doing it well.
Speaker 1Thanks so much.
Maybe I'll need a co host or something down the road.
Do you think you'd be interested?
Speaker 3Yeah?
Oh absolutely.
Speaker 2I put a lot of Baby Potter on, so it'll be freaked out by that because I'll.
Speaker 3Smell like a little baby next year.
Speaker 1That's our Yeah.
Speaker 3I love the Baby Potter on.
I even know why I brought that up, but.
Speaker 1I was just gonna say, like, how did I do we want to go there now?
Or do this?
Speaker 3This is where my brain goes.
Speaker 1No, I love it.
Thank you so much Paul mecurial for being on Comedy Save Me and also the very first episode ever, which is really cool.
Speaker 3I'm honored.
I'm honored, seriously, thank.
Speaker 1You thanks for being our guinea pig.
Speaker 3I appreciate it absolutely