Two years after receiving my AuDHD diagnosis (a combination of autism spectrum disorder (ASD-1) and ADHD I'm revisiting what it is to be AuDHD with radical honesty and a lavalier microphone from my bed, because BURNOUT. In this episode I'm opening up about what burnout looks like in real time, and how I made a decision that showing up imperfectly will better reset my nervous system than not showing up at all. I talk a little bit about the latest research on AuDHD and how the world is moving closer to recognizing it for the third neurotype that I truly believe it to be. Join the June Summer Reading Book Club Hosted by Jen! Click to Join the Community and you can get the book Tiny Experiments here at 20% off! 

Sources For This Episode: 

What Is AuDHD? - WebMD

The Rise Of AuDHD - The Sachs Center 

My original AuDHD Diagnosis Episode #44 "From ADHD to AuDHD: My Autism Diagnosis" 

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