How Better Together Supports Is Changing Lives — A Conversation with David Neely

March 29
1h 3m

Episode Description

Welcome to this week's episode of What's Happening Salem!

In this episode, Jacob sits down with David Neely, founder of Better Together Supports — a Salem-based in-home care agency serving individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities — for a wide-ranging conversation about community, purpose, and what it really means to show up for others.

In this episode, they discuss:

  • The personal journey that led David from growing up alongside foster kids and juvenile hall students to founding his own IDD care agency
  • What it's truly like to work as a Direct Support Professional (DSP) — and why the community is far more joyful and resilient than most people expect
  • The national DSP shortage crisis and what it means for Oregon families waiting for care
  • How faith, family, and a friend's unexpected generosity gave Better Together Supports its start
  • The value of healthy competition in the care industry — and how raising the bar benefits everyone
  • Building a business rooted in community, not ego — and why David refuses to leave Oregon even when it gets hard
  • Reflections on hip-hop, aging, relevance, and what artists like André 3000 can teach us about purpose
  • The origins of What's Happening Salem and how music, journalism, and a passion for community came together

Timestamps:

  • 00:00 – Hydration, Coke Zero, and the food industry's engineering of addiction
  • 06:20 – Kids, parenting, Lord of the Rings, and the joy of reading
  • 18:03 – Introduction to Better Together Supports and the IDD community
  • 19:08 – David's origin story: growing up with foster kids and special ed classrooms
  • 22:00 – What draws people to DSP work — and what keeps them there
  • 24:00 – The "It Takes a Village" philosophy behind Better Together Supports
  • 30:00 – Navigating language, inclusion, and the fear of saying the wrong thing
  • 33:40 – Starting the agency: an MBA, a leap of faith, and a friend who believed first
  • 37:00 – Why David is committed to staying in Oregon no matter the business climate
  • 42:00 – Hip-hop, André 3000, and finding relevance as you age
  • 45:30 – Old friendships, Salem's music scene, and the road to What's Happening Salem
  • 59:25 – How What's Happening Salem grew from music events to a 40,000-follower media brand
  • 1:01:30 – Expanding the model: What's Happening Media and teaching others to build community

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