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Spiritual Freedom: The Secret To Reclaiming Your Soul From Chaos (Tah Whitty)

February 3
1h 43m

Episode Description

Are you living from victim consciousness without realizing that you're struggling and sabotaging intimacy because of it?

Josh Trent welcomes Tah Witty, Master Intimacy Coach, to the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 798, to unpack how victim identity wires victim physiology, why lies carried in the body accelerate aging and fuel drama, how the victim villain hero triangle shows up in relationships, healing, and leadership, what the Condor Approach reveals about seeing life from a higher vantage point, and why radical honesty, patience, and refusing to rescue others are the real gateways to freedom, intimacy, and trauma integration.

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In This Episode, Tah Whitty Uncovers:

[00:50] Victims Seek Significance

  • Why our programming tells us to be a victim.
  • How we can help people without rescuing them.
  • Why true heroes don't come from righteousness.
  • How Tah got the feeling of significance from playing the victim.

Resources:

[07:05] Unhook Yourself from Being a Victim

  • What helped Tah get out of the victim mentality.
  • How victim identity is directly connected to victim physiology.
  • Why we attract victimization if we vibrate from victim energy.
  • How we can do something heroic without being a hero.
  • Why Tah asked prisoners about their experience committing their crimes.
  • How we don't see the humanity in people who did bad things.

[14:40] Why Honesty Prevents Aging And Drama

  • Why lies carried in the body accelerate aging.
  • How honesty dissolves the drama triangle.
  • Why ease replaces the need to prove or perform.
  • How fear collapses when truth is spoken.
  • Why Tah doesn't have to wear glasses anymore.

[21:10] The Condor Approach

  • What allowed Tah to create the Condor Approach.
  • How the Condor represents the highest point of view.
  • Why stepping back creates clarity and coherence.
  • How lived experience shaped the Condor Approach.

Resources:

[27:00] Why Ceremony Without Preparation Hurts People

  • Why transformational work without structure can be dangerous.
  • How sacred preparation protects the psyche during psychedelic ceremonies.
  • Why facilitators stuck in the victim triangle can cause harm.
  • How unresolved experiences can follow people home.
  • Why wholeness recognizes wholeness.

Resources:

[31:00] Why We Talk Ourselves Out Of Truth

  • Why honesty is present from birth, but we learn to talk ourselves out of truth.
  • How conditioning trains people to abandon inner knowing and believe there's something wrong with us.
  • The dangers of etiquette.
  • Why children are taught to shut down their true nature.
  • How boundaries become clearest through inconvenience.

[35:20] What Bright Lines Look Like In Marriage

  • The importance of having radical conversations.
  • How couples need to create their relationship.
  • Why unspoken truth creates resentment.

[39:00] Honesty Creates Intimacy

  • Why honesty is the foundation of intimacy.
  • How blocked curiosity also blocks our honesty.
  • Why we shut curiosity down with etiquette.
  • The importance of returning to innocence.
  • How vulnerability creates connection.
  • Why honesty opens up for healing.

[46:10] Shame As a Source of Manipulation

  • Why we hide our shame.
  • How people can be controlled and manipulated through shame.
  • What led Tah to leave the medical industry.

[52:10] Men Are Forced to Grow

  • What men are collectively called forward right now.
  • How men are in charge of making systems work.
  • Why men are being forced into specific boxes.
  • How many people don't understand that there's masculine and feminine energy in everybody.
  • Why some men seek softening through BDSM.
  • The dance between the feminine and mascuine.

[58:15] Inner Masculine and Feminine

  • How anima and animus live inside everyone, according to Carl Jung.
  • Why suppressing expression creates inner conflict.
  • How Tah learned to connect with his softness.
  • Why men are taught young what they're supposed or not supposed to do and be.
  • How many men deny their intuition.
  • What it means for a man to get into feminine energy.

[01:06:05] What Helps Trauma Release

  • How stuck energy blocks wisdom.
  • Why women don't feel as safe as men.
  • How the medical system is male-centered.
  • Why modern medicine doesn't make women feel safe.
  • How mothers harden themselves to take care of their families.
  • What puts families in mental slavery.

Resources:

[01:16:10] People Don't Need You to Save Them

  • How children are forced into gender dysphoria.
  • Why dysphoria stems from shame.
  • How acceptance heals more than fixing or saving.
  • Why all of us are a tiny piece of the source.
  • How Tah isn't trying to save his family members who struggle with addictions.
  • Why some people's purpose is to show us what evolution is not.

[01:24:30] Don't Be Scared of Confrontation

  • Why integration is a life-long process.
  • How people are terrified of confrontation and conflict.
  • Why cowardliness comes from a space of fear.
  • The importance of seeing humanity in each other.
  • Why history repeats itself until we start doing things differently.

[01:30:35] Why Patience Changes Everything

  • Why patience is an essential skill.
  • How our bodies synchronize with the speed of technology.
  • Why lack of patience create more challenges in our lives and relationships with others.
  • How impatience is an attachment to an outcome.
  • Why everything around us is pulling us out of the present moment.

[01:36:10] What Patience Looks Like As A Virtue

  • How Tah learned patience and asking for what he wants for his life.
  • Why he let go of projections he had towards his wife.
  • How patience reveals current growth edges.

"We hide shame because when we are shameful, it means that our tribe will put us out and we die. So if somebody thinks that watching porn is terrible, I hide it. I do it in the shadow. If somebody thinks smoking cigarettes is bad and I can't let them see it, I hide it, just so that I'm not excommunicated from the tribe." — Tah Witty

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Free Resources About Tah Whitty tah whitty

Tah Whitty is a Master Emotional Navigation Coach, Registered Nurse of 32 years, and co-founder of The Condor Approach, the world's leading certification for Psychedelic Informed Integration Coaches.

As an expert in trauma and shadow navigation, Tah helps Gen-X individuals unlock emotional and physical healing. He also leads EmotionALL, SisTah Sanctuary, and Free Bruh, empowering individuals through retreats and masterminds.

Tah's work in conflict resolution and mediation has saved clients millions in legal fees by fostering clarity and collaboration. Known for his epic hugs and full presence, Tah inspires safety, connection, and transformation worldwide.

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