Episode Description
Recorded on the other side of a burnout, this episode is about what happens when overgiving finally runs you out of fuel. Stephanie traces the pattern back — the women she watched give until they were empty, the belief that exhaustion means you did a good day's work, the men who taught her that asking for help costs you — and into a freeze response that shut her down for a full day after a good conversation with her partner.
The lesson underneath it: it's not about how much you give. It's about where and when.
And letting your guard down isn't weakness — it's opening the door when someone's already driven two hours with the gas can.
Honest talk about the freeze response, energetic boundaries, brainspotting, and what it takes to be human with another person.
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