"I used to be..." — four words that may be doing more damage to your reinvention than any external obstacle.
This week on Too Late, My Ass™, Fay goes into the neuroscience of how language encodes identity — and how the verb tenses and self-labelling habits we use every day are actively wiring the brain toward or away from the reinvented self.
→ Why self-description isn't just reporting on identity — it's constructing it
→ The three linguistic patterns that trap people in mid-reinvention: credential reach, preemptive downgrade, transitional limbo
→ Fay's own language inventory — what she found and what changed
→ The practical 48-hour language reframe framework
→ Why accurate self-description feels like bragging when you've been underselling for years
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