The Identity Autopsy: Who are you actually living as?

April 13
39 mins

Episode Description

There's a version of you that other people agreed to a long time ago. And your brain has been quietly defending it ever since — not because it's true, but because it's familiar.
This week on Too Late, My Ass™, Fay Chapple goes straight to the foundation: not the rebrand, not the vision board — the story. The one that's been running in the background of every choice, every ceiling you've bumped into, every room you've walked into already deciding what you deserve.
In this episode:
→ Why most reinvention fails — it's not strategy, it's the story underneath the strategy
→ Narrative identity theory: what Dan McAdams discovered about how the brain builds a self
→ The default mode network and its role as your internal narrator
→ The three-stage identity autopsy: how to look at the story you're living and find where it stopped being yours
→ Fay's own moment of reckoning with the "used to be" narrative
First episode of April's month-long arc: Rewrite Your Story.

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