Struggling with toddler resistance? This episode breaks down why your child says "no" to everything and how to work with their natural instincts instead of against them.

What You'll Learn

• What the "You-Can't-Make-Me" reflex is and why it's actually healthy
• Why toddler brains react with automatic resistance
• Common triggers (commands, transitions, feeling rushed)
• What makes things worse (power struggles, taking it personally)
• Practical strategies for daily routines

Key Takeaways

• The reflex is developmental, not defiance
• Invite cooperation instead of demanding it
• Connection is the strongest antidote to resistance
• Stay calm and confident—you're the CEO
• Give choices to preserve their sense of control

Quick Tips

• Replace commands with invitations
• Give transition warnings
• Pause when resistance peaks
• Use collaborative language
• Fill their connection tank with one-on-one time

Resources

Toddlers Made Easy

Help! My Child Will Only Poop In A Diaper Waitlist

Toddlers Made Easy, the book

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