Have you ever yelled "I f*cking hate you!" at your ex on a Netflix reality show reunion? Well, now Marita has. In our recap of the final three episodes of The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s second season, we dig into the final week, the proposals and the reunion, from petty ways to take digs at your ex's trial wife, the definition of lesbian sex, stay at home mascs, the lack of a promised tomorrow, people defining "gaslighting" incorrectly and so much more!

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